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  • @louisegarner8888
    @louisegarner8888 2 года назад +205

    When Dorothy realised she always had the power to take herself right on home with just a click of her heels ~ illusion begone and Truth be revealed!! 😈🦄🤺🙏💪 👠 🏡🏆🎉🎉🎉

  • @TMoniq
    @TMoniq 2 года назад +338

    That "Bounce Back" is the KARMA. They tried to destroy you and failed

  • @tq325
    @tq325 2 года назад +233

    "They downplayed your ability to get away from them." That is the QUOTE baby!

    • @nitadavis2365
      @nitadavis2365 2 года назад +6

      Unappriecated and under estimated me. Byeeeee👋

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +1

      💯💯💯🔥💣

    • @sabinenorman5188
      @sabinenorman5188 2 года назад +4

      Don't underestimate me and my abilities...left him looking stupid..literally.

    • @nitadavis2365
      @nitadavis2365 2 года назад +2

      He still out there cutting up. Like an ostrich "BIRD" as you say with his neck tied in a knot. Ha! Keep praying

    • @NarKnemesis
      @NarKnemesis 11 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @angelabuchanan3861
    @angelabuchanan3861 2 года назад +346

    It’s all fun and games until you leave the narc and now the family has to pick up the slack! 😹 Those birds were a thorn in my side! I’m so glad God delivered me from that dysfunctional mess!!

    • @yogib8
      @yogib8 2 года назад +18

      Good Gravy I’m so happy I was able to shut them all down!!!

    • @isabellglover5217
      @isabellglover5217 2 года назад +10

      Angela Buchanan I also thank the Lord all the time for delivering me from this jezebel spirit sometimes I wonder if this real, but I know it is cause I don’t have to be gaslighted, projection, lied to in my face trauma bonded etc just an evil present around all the time Praise the Lord I’m sooo peaceful and happy 😃 🌈🙏

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +13

      Amen praise God for deliverance.💯💯💯

    • @riseupspeaklifeministries5598
      @riseupspeaklifeministries5598 2 года назад +5

      Amen 🤗🥰💯

    • @Luckystarlight1
      @Luckystarlight1 2 года назад +6

      Yes Angela!!! Me too!!!!

  • @mzdankmuzik
    @mzdankmuzik 2 года назад +117

    EVERY Narcissist behind me GOT IT WRONG! WRONG! WRONG! I gave them all plenty of chances and opportunity to get it right. But when I'm done....I'm DONE DONE!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +5

      This.💯💯💯

    • @mzdankmuzik
      @mzdankmuzik 2 года назад +2

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thanks to TMH, you and a few other youtubers on the subject I am learning how to recognize and avoid getting myself in any close relations with any of these birds 🤣 male or female. I know it won't stop them from trying but I know they will "keep on knocking..." but I'm empowered with great teaching, experience, knowledge and wisdom to scream it loud and proud "BUT YOU CANT COME IN!" LOL😅 🙏🏽❤ And when they come back with that Hoovering bs...they all get the same line "Hunni, I gave you a shot at the TITLE...the results are in.....EPIC FAIL!!!!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 #HELOSTNOTONE #Chosen #AccessDenied 🏆 #SillyFella
      If they were so for sure I was the one they'd been praying for...should've recognized it when it showed up and been prepared to receive the blessing and take special care. 🤷🏽‍♀️✌🏾💪🏽🙌🏽

    • @candicehounshell5747
      @candicehounshell5747 2 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @carlamcmillon8175
      @carlamcmillon8175 2 года назад +1

      Period 💯

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix Год назад

      Same!!!

  • @yas_esq
    @yas_esq 2 года назад +88

    He is so mad because he knows he will never be me, he will never have the joy that I have, he will never have the life that I have! Unbothered baby!🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @MsFox2u
    @MsFox2u 2 года назад +128

    I used to always tell my narcissist ex-boyfriend, "Don't hate the player. Hate the game!" He would always tell me I wouldn't ever have anything without him. He would always tell me that he knew everything that went on in the house we shared. However, after he moved out, two weeks later I was closing on a house. Now, he's sitting around looking crazy because I leveled up big time after him and didn't miss a beat! He keeps trying to call me, but I blocked him. He can't contact any of his family or any mutual friends to ask them to have me contact him because they all know how he treated me and have told him to leave me alone. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +12

      That is awesome they have your back Sis!!🙌🏽🙌🏽💯💗🙏🏽

    • @earlineblack8276
      @earlineblack8276 2 года назад +12

      You go and glow girl , you played them cards 🃏 close to your chest, I’m dealing my cards 🃏 as I speak 🗣 but it’s gonna take a little time but JESUS Christ I thank you 🙏🏼 for my new direction Amen 🙏🏼 may God keep blessing you with your heart ❤️ desires 🙏🏼💕🙏🏼praying in Miami Florida

    • @riseupspeaklifeministries5598
      @riseupspeaklifeministries5598 2 года назад +9

      Now those are good friends. Especially when they don't side with the narcissists.. Plus congratulations 🎊👏🎈 to you ❤️ Keep leveling up

    • @MsFox2u
      @MsFox2u 2 года назад +6

      @@earlineblack8276 Good luck to you! Stay prayed up and I'm praying for you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 It'll happen. Just keep trusting in Him! Lord knows I was praying everyday, all day! I know he was sick of me! LOL But, I kept calling on him and practicing patience. Because I knew if I jumped ahead of Him, I would have made a mess of things. 🤗

    • @MsFox2u
      @MsFox2u 2 года назад +7

      @@riseupspeaklifeministries5598 Oh you just don't know HOW he turned people against him. Even the pastor of our church (who's also his cousin) put him out the church because he was out here telling lies on him. His youngest brother, who was also my softball coach in my younger years and I also grew up across the street from both of them, and he was like a big brother to me anyway, had told him numerous times to quit treating me wrong and to stop talking to me crazy. But he wouldn't listen. So, his loss. I'm Facebook friends with his nieces, nephews, daughter, brothers, uncles and in-laws. They all know how he treated me because I've been at family functions with all of them and he's talked to me crazy and they were all like, "We still love you!" They are glad I got away from him. He's walking around telling people what I WASN'T doing, but not telling people what he WASN'T doing. Now that I leveled up and bought a house, they all see now WHO wasn't doing anything. LOL

  • @MoeSoNatural
    @MoeSoNatural 2 года назад +143

    That bounce back is a mofo!!! He met me when I was already killin the game, while together I kept leveling up and after the breakup I’ve had at least 3 major accomplishments and counting praise God. I’m so thankful to be free

    • @cherylgregory4818
      @cherylgregory4818 2 года назад +1

      Y he seem like I was more motivated after I walked away ,he swear he was hurting me.That new Supply flaunts him but he never flaunts her she so naive and crazy

    • @sarahm2054
      @sarahm2054 2 года назад +2

      💚💚💚

    • @prettymesha4262
      @prettymesha4262 Год назад

      Thank you Jehovah

  • @pinkrose4322
    @pinkrose4322 2 года назад +111

    Yes!!!! The bounce back is a beautiful thing!! And yes, they run and hide because they cannot take it.

  • @pinkrose4322
    @pinkrose4322 2 года назад +48

    All of the negative energy that they have is crazy.

  • @charleswhite6833
    @charleswhite6833 2 года назад +71

    When I was with her, she enjoyed never having to pay for groceries in addition to me paying the majority of all the finance, I got sick and then she started her narc games.
    I filled for divorce and moved out, after recovering I went to work for another company making 40k more anually, new car and shining in every aspect of my life.
    In the meantime she had another child with someone that looks like smeagol , each time I go to an visitation drop-off , they both have scrung faces as I unloaded the clothes and shoes and whatever else my daughter wanted while with me..
    Call it Karma, Devine Intervention, Or simple God does not like ugly.
    When you remove one of these imposters from your life never seek revenge , just go out and become a better version of yourself.
    And leave it to the narcissist to reap what they sow.

    • @tajarilancaster8530
      @tajarilancaster8530 2 года назад +8

      I'm so Proud of Your accomplishments...... Success is the Best Revenge. It just comes Natural when You're Heart is in the Right place. Love Your Post.

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 2 года назад +5

      I'm so happy you took the leap of faith and left her behind. GOD is so good.

    • @limitlessinfinite2284
      @limitlessinfinite2284 Год назад +3

      This sounds like my story. Congratulations 🎊 👏
      Keep climbing.

    • @earlineblack8276
      @earlineblack8276 Год назад +3

      Amen 🙏🏼 on that brother, they don’t understand that one day them blocks that they put in our way came tumbling down on them in the best way possible and you didn’t have to lift a finger because our God was looking out for us ALL the time, praise God praise God , I love 💕 letting God fight my battles and so far he’s doing a great job 👏🏽, he said he set a table before our enemies, and my narc doesn’t even realize that I’m eating 🍽 at the table praise him all the day long 🙏🏼💕🙏🏼

    • @steelesharpensteele6252
      @steelesharpensteele6252 8 месяцев назад

      Facts bro n bwahahahahaha smeagol? Oh shit I spit out my juice.

  • @annettadewitt121
    @annettadewitt121 2 года назад +42

    They actually block blessings the minute they see people blessing you they try to go behind your back to destroy the connection in order to keep the blessings from coming to you

    • @prettymesha4262
      @prettymesha4262 Год назад +3

      Yep & that's the Cold Part about ..we often can't see this until we're Out 🤔

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix Год назад +2

      Yep!

  • @swahjones4706
    @swahjones4706 2 года назад +152

    When they realize they can't be you, they truly hate your presence. Its so hurtful to you because you want them happy. But this is where knowledge comes into play. Because if you don't know they are a narc or understand what a narc is. Its torture for an empath to see someone down, especially if you love them. That you are watching some one cry, and down themselves and there is nothing you can do to pick them up. Its because in their mind its your fault and they envy you for being what they can never be. Tell me that ain't evil. That's why you can't make them happy. The better you try to do for them, the more they hate you. Burds, Rhino and Bow.lol. Telsha is the truth! ❤ If you listen to her, you WILL learn. Love you Telsha!

    • @gellicbecca5191
      @gellicbecca5191 2 года назад +16

      So true, they actually blatantly try and steal your personality

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +3

      Straight facts my Brother it’s the absolute true!!Much love!!🔥💯💗🙏🏽

    • @swahjones4706
      @swahjones4706 2 года назад +3

      Telsha! I don't know where you come up with them phrases.. lol. Looking SALTY, MORTONS AND LOWRYS! I'm biting that Sister. You be having me dying laughing.

    • @Missy_561
      @Missy_561 2 года назад +1

      Man did you nail that one

    • @cherylgregory4818
      @cherylgregory4818 2 года назад +5

      They can’t be happy so he tried to break me down but I can’t be unhappy God to good

  • @SavedbyGrace19
    @SavedbyGrace19 2 года назад +110

    Amen..when you realize how much they hate you..you will run

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +10

      And I do mean fast Family!!🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️💨💨💨💨

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix Год назад

      When they realize that I could care less... 😂

  • @Lyzylyzy1922
    @Lyzylyzy1922 2 года назад +27

    My narc came back after just a month. They see that I’m living , movin on and not depressed . 🤣🤣🤣🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @earlineblack8276
    @earlineblack8276 2 года назад +74

    It ain’t no fun 🤩 when the RABBIT 🐇 got the GUN 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rastabae1
    @rastabae1 2 года назад +35

    Yes. A word !!!! They are jealous and the family is mad because they have to deal with them. His cousin said “the fact that your succeeding after the relationship. What does that say ? He was holding you back”. They see and know.

  • @joannetier3044
    @joannetier3044 2 года назад +48

    Since I left my ex Narc after 18 years he looks like an old man, aged 10 years and drinking, I couldn’t care less about him, he shows little interest in our teenage son too, just used him to get at me. He will never find me in anyone else, I helped him live the best life, now it’s over for him

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +3

      I’m sure he does evil doesn’t age gracefully.💯💗🙏🏽

    • @sarahm2054
      @sarahm2054 2 года назад +8

      Yes I truly believe mine didn't want any kids and since I left he tries to act like he's all concerned about them just to talk to them to extract information from them, I had to stop that!! No contact for me and no contact with my children!! What he put my children threw I had to burn that bridge all the way up!! Stay Blessed🦋❤❤❤

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 2 года назад +5

      @@sarahm2054 protect them at all cost . My Ex-husband had our baby boy so brainwashed He could tell him the sun was purple and he would believe it. Tell them untrue things about me and how it was my fault for him cheating and leaving us 3 times during a 20 year marriage. He is married to the Jezebel now. She secretly hate his kids but he thinks she love them. He might met his match She’s a Narcissist too

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 2 года назад +1

      Protect your kids from them at all cost . My Ex-husband had our baby boy so brainwashed He could tell him the sun was purple and he would believe it. Tell them untrue things about me and how it was my fault for him cheating and leaving us 3 times during a 20 year marriage. He is married to the Jezebel now. She secretly hate his kids but he thinks she love them. He might met his match She’s a Narcissist too

    • @sarahm2054
      @sarahm2054 2 года назад +4

      @@fayechamp4156 Thank you for sharing this. The only person that can help them is God himself and that is if they chose to want to change for the better. I pray for us all. The best thing we could do is get far away from these demons, they mean us and our children no good.✨💚💚💚

  • @themarley_music
    @themarley_music 6 месяцев назад +9

    2024 is just so different. Honestly we're in a new age now. Those who were already on a winning streak with God are about to win big in front of everybody who ever abused them. The people who were karmics are about to exposed for who they truly are

  • @tjan2007
    @tjan2007 2 года назад +38

    I finally gained my peace back! I took myself on a well deserved vacation and the narc tries to reach me from different numbers.. but he can't even talk normally without lying, projecting, gaslighting, hoovering and taking zero accountability so he got blocked again. Meanwhile I am living life unbothered and enjoying myself!!🔥💫🙌

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +3

      💗💗💗

    • @tellnolies8530
      @tellnolies8530 2 года назад +2

      Yesss, he called from a different number only to still lie , and to blame me , playing the victim.... blocked deleted... then he Hoover’s and tried to track me on my cell phone !! Lol

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 2 года назад +2

      They get desperate lol

  • @judymills5765
    @judymills5765 2 года назад +44

    The godly despise the wicked; the wicked despise the godly. Proverbs 29:27.
    You’re healed when the hatred is mutual.

    • @icalotdonthide2646
      @icalotdonthide2646 Год назад +1

      This all day!!! They disgust me.

    • @TrooperK
      @TrooperK Год назад +2

      No guys
      Forgive and walk away … leave them to God
      Hatred will keep you attached to them forever … you never want that …

  • @vl4678
    @vl4678 2 года назад +83

    LOL! Unbothered, cannot be duplicated 💅🏼 my life has been blessed by the Lord 1000000 fold! Once I got the information and God told me what the narc was, a lowdown beast, I bolted that door shut! I was looking for closure and one last talk but no more! Took me about a month to sort this mess out. I was deep in the mud but the Lord rescued me and placed me in a new job TWICE and still protects me during this pandemic 😷 I cannot even complain or look back. Forgive them and yourself y’all. They are just miserable beasts, nobodies wanting to be a somebody without putting in the work LOL 😂 clowns 🤡 big 👶🏻 babies. I am continuing to be unbothered 💅🏼

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +2

      Come on my Sister and please testify!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🌟💯💗🙏🏽🔥🔥

    • @sarahm2054
      @sarahm2054 2 года назад +2

      🦋❤❤❤

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 2 года назад +2

      Amen & amen to that...

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 2 года назад +2

      Clowns with an ongoing circus in his head

    • @kimberlys347
      @kimberlys347 2 года назад

      nobodies wanting to be somebody without putting in the work!! YESSS this sums them up perfectly. Lazy ***es

  • @Thegamehhh449
    @Thegamehhh449 2 года назад +56

    Lol it's true since the discard 6 months ago I've lost close to 80 lb feeling great and every time I see her every Sunday to pick up or drop off my kid she looks tore up, she's 43 She looks like she's at least 10 years older

    • @brendalucy8215
      @brendalucy8215 2 года назад +5

      Good for you with the weight lose.

    • @Thegamehhh449
      @Thegamehhh449 2 года назад +11

      @@brendalucy8215 thank you I remember when she discarded me, something in my head clicked automatically and I started working out the next day...I believe the discard was a blessing in disguise from God to make me change for the better.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +5

      That is awesome my brother!! Congratulations!! I’m happy you got away!!💯💗🙏🏽

  • @smarie8273
    @smarie8273 Год назад +17

    Wow, at the end of our relationship it was like he had my entire personality, and I had become empty and sad and cold, and he became like a ray of sunshine and had all my traits that I came into the relationship with

    • @DollyM124
      @DollyM124 5 месяцев назад +3

      I pray you’ve gotten back to you! I’ve experienced the same thing but he couldn’t steal my joy. My health is back, my glow too. God got us know that!

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c 3 месяца назад +1

      Isn’t that crazy? I dealt with the same thing, he had lived in that city all of his life, yet he had never capitalized on it. They have no real personality to speak of, no light in their eyes, just darkness and evil. TGBTG he’s still waiting on me to call him back and it’s been almost a year. 😅 He’s been MIA since before the holidays no one has seen that short legged giraffe , weddings, thanksgiving, Christmas, shame and hiding. 😅

    • @smarie8273
      @smarie8273 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes I’m the highest version of myself I’ve ever been and he’s losing all my light he stole. Searching for someone else to steal energy from. But God Bless them we are in our hearts and know what it feels like to be love and they will search until they wake up or when they leave this world.

    • @Useuserryy
      @Useuserryy 3 месяца назад +1

      Wow ...I felt the same dynamic with him .
      Even his skin tone changed he was dark turn light and I was white my skin turn dark and full of acne ... I lost my charisma he had more charisma .
      But after I Heald my self I back after 3mounth with better skin better charisma and more glow he turn shitty .

  • @FindingJoy2023
    @FindingJoy2023 2 года назад +18

    Let me tell you! I left that narcissistic group of fake friends and bounced back! Went vacationing, attending weddings friends. They stayed quiet and disappeared🤩 they picked the wrong one to play with and got hit! God is good 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @tellnolies8530
      @tellnolies8530 2 года назад +3

      Yesss he met his match !! Made the mistake of thinking he was a friend he was a lying con artist

  • @energyneverlies5601
    @energyneverlies5601 2 года назад +21

    My ex narc told me he was a better person when l was in his life yet he had a roaming eye and l picked up on it andcalled him out on it. He told me l was crazy, insecure and needed to get help. He was jealous of me because of what l had and what l've accomplished. When l was with him l was a PHD woman with a GED man. That's right l said it !! And l meant it !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @SkyePhoenix
    @SkyePhoenix Год назад +5

    "When you lose your peace, you lose your power" Amen

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot 2 года назад +36

    This resonated with me. I ran into a Narc ''friend'' that I cut off in the grocery store recently. She snuck up behind me and said hey you! Long time no see, You look great you must still be working out, how's life? I kept it real cordial and short, Smiled and said I am doing great! God has been good to me have a great day! And I walked off. I could still see the Jealously and Envy in her eyes that she has towards me. She looks like she is not aging well and I am sure karma is serving her all day everyday. So thankful to the lord she is out of my life

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +4

      I’m happy that the video resonated with you. Thank goodness you got away from her they are all just a bunch of users and abusers.💯💗🙏🏽

    • @AbsoluteMdot
      @AbsoluteMdot 2 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you!!!

    • @tamisunshine2312
      @tamisunshine2312 2 года назад

      To k 856

  • @Missy_561
    @Missy_561 2 года назад +21

    They do be bothered I just smirk you know the smirk it kills em they couldn't break me and they know I know....sho is looking tore up from the floor up

  • @millicentstollenwerck5239
    @millicentstollenwerck5239 2 года назад +20

    I had to get away from the narc demon, talking bout running for my life, peace, and sanity. Left him 3 months ago, he is still trying to call and come back but I'm not going back.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +2

      Please never go back Sis!!💯💯💯

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 2 года назад +1

      Don’t go back. It’s the mind game they play just to see if they can. Then cycle starts all over again.

    • @sarahm2054
      @sarahm2054 2 года назад +1

      Same here its been almost 2 months. Never looking back🎉🎉🦋✨ it feels absolutely amazing!! Blessings to you❤❤❤

  • @kimgibbs6585
    @kimgibbs6585 2 года назад +23

    Show them!
    Better than!
    You can tell
    them!
    As beautiful
    💎Telsha said
    Unbothered!!!
    By any means
    period!!!

  • @don4glenn
    @don4glenn 2 года назад +6

    My ex-narc really started cutting-up AFTER I bought myself a new car!

  • @Kaylaj1990
    @Kaylaj1990 2 года назад +9

    I saw my ex today twice riding a bike with a backpack and a big plastic bag and dirty looking/homeless and his face looked so bitter and sour looking he looked mad I drove past him he didn’t see me (I’m glad he didn’t) I left him after finding out I was pregnant. He went to jail for a warrant when he came out he thought he can Hoover his way back into my life I shut and sealed those doors and made it very clear I’m done. I’m having a girl btw 😊 he’s not going to use our child to manipulate me and I’ll make sure of that.

  • @pamelamallory6142
    @pamelamallory6142 2 года назад +15

    He thinks that he is better than his family the family is laughing at him😝😜

  • @ms.t4322
    @ms.t4322 2 года назад +4

    " We are Unbothered Narc Bird" Okayyyyyyy!!!!

  • @yevonnevanhorn8533
    @yevonnevanhorn8533 2 года назад +14

    ABSOLUTELY 💯 I didn't have PEACE. 1yr Narc Free NO CONTACT‼️ Successful and Unbothered 👏🏾👏🏾 Still moving forward Thank God for Deliverance 🙌🏾

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +1

      Now this is what I’m talking!! Congratulations on your 1 year narc free!!‼️💯💗🔥🌟💅🏽

    • @yevonnevanhorn8533
      @yevonnevanhorn8533 2 года назад +1

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thanks to people like you who keep it REAL‼️ For years I couldn't figure out why it was such an emotional rollercoaster. We would be doing good then he would change as if he hated me. It was hurtful to walk away but I knew I was the only one in the relationship giving it me ALL. Again, Thank God for Deliverance 🙌🏾

  • @sheilablanton4894
    @sheilablanton4894 2 года назад +14

    OOOH YES !!!! THEY HATE TO SEE YOU DOIN GOOD AN UNBOTHERD 👈😂😂😂

  • @prudencebrown9576
    @prudencebrown9576 2 года назад +15

    Unbothered yes and no contact always

  • @shannonme34
    @shannonme34 2 года назад +10

    That narcissist is a NFA homeless wreck!! I still get lots of mail for this bird, debt collectors, government collections, city tickets etc. So done with this messy triflin’ reprobate! This Queen is so full of peace and would never go back to that life again 👑

  • @geedee38
    @geedee38 2 года назад +27

    Yes yes 🙌🏾 Say it for the people in back sister! Unbothered & Peacefully on my glow ⬆️😉🤩❤️❤️🙏🏽👍🏽

  • @wendytorres4737
    @wendytorres4737 2 года назад +13

    Keep being unbothoered!! 💃💕💞

  • @robin-suenicholas9207
    @robin-suenicholas9207 2 года назад +11

    A mutual friend asked if we could meet up for ice cream! Ice cream? Something ain't sounding right. I ended that convo quickly and ghosted her. Lol! Bye!

    • @angelabuchanan3861
      @angelabuchanan3861 2 года назад +5

      Yes! Someone I haven’t heard from in months texted me the other day and invited me to a party next weekend! The narc doesn’t necessarily have to be involved but I’m not taking any chances! The mutual associate would probably tell me they’ve seen the narc or ask silly questions trying to be nose! Nope, I’m good!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +2

      Lol!! You have to do it like that sometimes especially when you are dealing with toxicity. 💯💯💯

    • @robin-suenicholas9207
      @robin-suenicholas9207 2 года назад +2

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Lol! So being unbothered makes them feel insignificant and unimportant = narc injury?

  • @barbarajohnson95
    @barbarajohnson95 2 года назад +8

    This Narc Is Hiding in Shame ….
    No Contact Is the Key…
    Thk You for your wisdom and
    Anointed Teachings.

  • @sarahm2054
    @sarahm2054 2 года назад +9

    When you loose your peace, you loose your power🦋❤❤❤ Thank You Mrs. Tea🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋✨

  • @prudencebrown9576
    @prudencebrown9576 2 года назад +32

    Amen the most important of value our peace

  • @Ms.V
    @Ms.V 2 года назад +47

    This was much needed. Thank you!!! It helps remind us of our worth. And it helps lift our healing to the next phase. We ruminate and our mind has us thinking they’re living their best life and we are the ones who lost or wasn’t good enough or bothered but… in fact it’s the opposite. This video snapped someone back into their right mind. Thank you💕💕💕💕💕

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +1

      Amen Sis that party you’re so welcome. Thank you for being here with us.💯💗🙏🏽💗

  • @toniaseats5466
    @toniaseats5466 2 года назад +5

    I'm so unbothered!!! It would be a waste of time anyway 😴

  • @Briley1980
    @Briley1980 2 года назад +48

    Glow up Family cause we play no games over here with these clowns!!! Keep it pushing!! Always on time Telsha, love you sis❤

  • @drewillaims4807
    @drewillaims4807 2 года назад +19

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 god is good he never fails amen ✝️❤️😊

  • @Luckystarlight1
    @Luckystarlight1 2 года назад +6

    Okay!! Unbothered!!! All that craziness they did

  • @bellarose6501
    @bellarose6501 2 года назад +26

    The way you deliver the message cracks me up😂 This is true facts🙌

  • @ginaglama4435
    @ginaglama4435 2 года назад +10

    Yazzzzz chiiiile unbothered & blessed & the birds are chirping😘😂

  • @bless746
    @bless746 2 года назад +12

    It was fun to the narcissist and the flying monkeys 🐒 🙈 🙊..until I boss up..rejected all hovers. Stop talking to all of them..now I am the best person he ever had...when I was crying...They all said move on.. but now...im good and shiny...im sorry...game over.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +1

      Get your shine on Sis!!💯💗🙏🏽

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 2 года назад

      Good for you!!! I wish I did done this early after the divorce the messy mutual friends and family members.

  • @stephyfbaby
    @stephyfbaby 2 года назад +9

    Spot on!! OMG it really did seem like everything was going wrong for me while I was going through it with the Narc!! 🥴🥴 But God got that demon up outta my life and THE BOUNCE-BACK HAS BEEN REAL EVER SINCE!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @kimberlyd.stewart4657
    @kimberlyd.stewart4657 2 года назад +25

    Unbothered! That part; that part. Teach Tea!

  • @LadybugPhil413
    @LadybugPhil413 2 года назад +12

    Bounce Back Baby!! 🏀🔥🎉

  • @leanita7549
    @leanita7549 2 года назад +8

    Let The Church say , "Amen". Amén.

  • @missmewiththat3049
    @missmewiththat3049 2 года назад +15

    Aint no fun WHEN THE RABBIT 🐰 GOT THE GUN !!!!! BOM 💥 SHOTS FIRED 💃🏽

    • @terri412
      @terri412 2 года назад +2

      Lmao love it !!! 💞💗💞

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +4

      I’m still hollering from that comment you made last night!!!😩😁😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +2

      Lol!!! This part right here!!!😂😂😂😂

    • @terri412
      @terri412 2 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships It's was definitely unforgettable 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ms.different9803
    @ms.different9803 2 года назад +26

    Say IT!!!🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💪🏾 Girl YOU just Don’t Know How on TIME YOU ARE!!🗣 Keep SPEAKING GOD WORDS!!!🙏🏾💯❤️❤️

  • @danetteclay1753
    @danetteclay1753 2 года назад +5

    He keep asking about me all the time😜 asking… WHAT HAPPENED? WHY DON’T WE GET BACK TOGETHER 👎🏾(NOT) I just keep it pushing unbothered 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @debrasmith7522
    @debrasmith7522 2 года назад +9

    I am unbothered!

  • @kaylewis4856
    @kaylewis4856 2 года назад +7

    UNBOTHERED!!!!💪🏿🙏❤❤👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽

  • @southtxgal9077
    @southtxgal9077 2 года назад +6

    “they get their every dey!”. 😂😂 Amen.

  • @brendalucy8215
    @brendalucy8215 2 года назад +19

    I had ducks, now I am now more peaceful and happier. Thanks again for your videos. A therapist once told me that I made my ex husband through my resources.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад

      That is so awesome I’m happy you got your peace back my sister. I’m happy that the continent is helping you as well. Thank you for being here with us Sis!💯💗🙏🏽

  • @mobcandy_2.0
    @mobcandy_2.0 2 года назад +7

    how are you doing unbothered 🤣🤣🤣😂👏🏽👏🏽

  • @drewillaims4807
    @drewillaims4807 2 года назад +11

    😂😂😂 I love wen god bring the revenge 😂😂 sorry god I had to laugh cuz they came at me and I was innconent 😂 see I don't want revenge I let god do it yes💪🏿 justice is serve 👨🏿‍⚖️

    • @deebee843
      @deebee843 2 года назад +2

      Yesssssssss

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +1

      Come through with the truth!! Lol!!😂😂😂

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 2 года назад +3

      Same here. I laugh sometimes when the Narcissist tried to destroy me and it didn’t work. God Bless me and even though I have knowledge of things I can do or say to bring him down. I let God handle him and his evil family. I can’t believe I made it this far with only one Mentally break down. Never again will I let someone have that much control over me

    • @drewillaims4807
      @drewillaims4807 2 года назад +1

      @@fayechamp4156 amen good sista ❤️💪🏿☺️ God bless u 🎁🍇✝️🌹

  • @smokezerpp8953
    @smokezerpp8953 Год назад +2

    its even worse when there just in denial all the time too

  • @jeanettejohnson4957
    @jeanettejohnson4957 2 года назад +7

    You got that right...because they certainly got it wrong with me. And I know they are regretting it because I blew that mask all the way up💣💣.💥💥💥

  • @Ms.V
    @Ms.V 2 года назад +4

    It’s the Shalom for me. APTTMH.

  • @1sexyredzz4u
    @1sexyredzz4u 2 года назад +5

    Return of the Mac🎶🎶🎶

  • @reginaturner8329
    @reginaturner8329 4 месяца назад +1

    This is a very insightful video. A guy I was only flirting with told a Flying Monkey he wasn't right for me at the time and didn't want to hurt me. Well, I was doing poorly financially, driving a hooptie and living with my parents. Soon after the Flying Monkey made that revelation, I landed a very lucrative job that changed my entire existence. You already know who tried to circle back and seriously holla! LMAO!!! Your vid is my testimony.

  • @HVogue17
    @HVogue17 2 года назад +9

    I covered my face in social media with sunglasses and Nex is only wearing sunglasses too. Why do I feel like this is done on purpose to say “ I can cover my face too!”.. .. they are the most hateful people I ever met ..blocked everywhere now

  • @caramelali8132
    @caramelali8132 2 года назад +2

    When you bounce back ❤️!!

  • @kellyandersen3856
    @kellyandersen3856 2 года назад +7

    MORTON'S AND LOWRY SALTY!!!!!
    YESSSS!!!
    WOOOOOOOOO!i!!!

  • @SequoiaMoonSpeaks
    @SequoiaMoonSpeaks 2 года назад +3

    Yup his sister had the audacity to tell me that he was homeless 😭 like I’m supposed to feel bad for him and want to run back and “save” him. I told her that wasn’t my problem or none of my business 🤣

    • @kimberlys347
      @kimberlys347 Год назад

      Please! Tell that sister, it sounds like a personal problem. Lol😂

  • @daniellepittman545
    @daniellepittman545 2 года назад +2

    He got it wrong when he chose me! Praise Jesus, the healing is in progress!!!

  • @barbiedoll5766
    @barbiedoll5766 2 года назад +8

    Limes AND Persimmons! 😂😂😂😂

  • @drewillaims4807
    @drewillaims4807 2 года назад +5

    Thank u beautfuil queen 🌹👑 ☺️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
    God is good 👼🏿✝️🙏🏿

  • @ATZCMinistries
    @ATZCMinistries 2 года назад +8

    I love you!! This is so good!
    You are so funny 🤣 My childs father and his Mom was a Narcissist and they made my life a living hell.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +2

      💗💗💗

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 2 года назад +1

      You too! Dang the double whammy. I believe my husband family had some type of FAMILY CULT thing going on. Before we married people would say girl you have a good man but how in the world you’re going to deal with his family. I was so blinded by that cause they was the perfect family that I always wanted to marry into. Can then came the rain 🌧 2 of the three sisters had the wedding held up cause the were late The Old Mother in law. Started a fuss about cake. Later my Ex husband told me his mom didn’t like or approve of me from the first time she meet me. ( the Dress I had on was to short ) it was above the knees. They chill out for a while then said back. 20 years of this behavior and my husband always seems to take their side and could never iron fist stand up for me or his boys or our family. He soon prove that the apple doesn’t fall far from tree. He started to act and behave just like them He mentally emotional physically abused me and tried to turn our boys against me saying I was mentally ill CRAZY that’s way he cheated and left 3 times to move in with the Jezebel he was cheating with they are married now. But he still want to call me every chance he get asking can we still be friends. They never stop. It’s all a game of manipulation

  • @willowclay3137
    @willowclay3137 2 года назад +14

    You nail it with every video! You are a blessing to us! I'm laughing so hard at your Chinese Crescent jokes!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад

      Lolol!! I’m happy you are enjoying the messages and getting a great laugh Family!💯💗🙏🏽🤣🌟

  • @charlescollins3655
    @charlescollins3655 2 года назад +7

    Good Morning ☀️

  • @MentalHealthWellness-Self-Care
    @MentalHealthWellness-Self-Care 2 года назад +7

    What Animal-combination is it, SiStar T, when they THINK THEY ARE BO-LEGGED, but BOTH LEGS POINT IN THE “”””SAME””” direction?! 🧐🤔👀. #Animation
    🤣😅

  • @FernandoLopez-ev7xg
    @FernandoLopez-ev7xg 2 года назад +10

    GO AHEAD AND DROP THAT KNOWLEGE QUEEN 👸

  • @brandonlightfoot5631
    @brandonlightfoot5631 3 месяца назад +1

    🤦🏽‍♂️🤣😂😭Not Morton’s and Lawry’s I someone going through this now, once his family finds out if they find out he lost me as a friend, he’ll NEVER hear the end of that‼️💯😊

  • @fayechamp4156
    @fayechamp4156 2 года назад +10

    You are saving lives Literally!! The Mental Physical Emotional abuse that come with deal with a Narcissist is unreal. You’re teaching use on Prevention ! Which is the key. But also how to deal if you’re in the twilight zone with one. My Mom and Exhusband is a Narcissist had me trap for years. Thanks again for your channel. Appreciation across the board 💗

  • @MsJones-gg3jw
    @MsJones-gg3jw Год назад +2

    A bunch of ducks with capes on. Love you

  • @KDP7777
    @KDP7777 Год назад +2

    I didnt even give him a chance to start abusing me so he’s really mad 😂

  • @natashamason4230
    @natashamason4230 2 года назад +5

    You preached a whole sermon

  • @sharinewman7152
    @sharinewman7152 2 года назад +5

    1000 x YES 🏆

  • @gloriabyas8088
    @gloriabyas8088 2 года назад +3

    Off topic, your skin is really glowing!!👍

  • @TheWrightGroupSEO
    @TheWrightGroupSEO 2 года назад +20

    Your content is valuable sis💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kaylewis4856
    @kaylewis4856 2 года назад +4

    You are so right!!!😥😥😥 it all makes since NOW! I feel so much better I been saying he is jealous of me and wants to be me..
    CONFIRMATION!🙏🙏🙏❤👐🏽

  • @dcam3035
    @dcam3035 2 года назад +15

    Thank you sis I needed this one fr today! You are so right about his family talking about him like a dog! It was part of his problem, honestly his whole problem bc he looked like the hated father of the family so from a young child he was abused. Smh Yeah just a flock of sick busted and disgusted birds! And I’m very bothered but I’m pushing and soon I’ll be all the way unbothered and it’s apparent. Some days are tough but I feel the feelings, remind myself of the Truth and keep Glowing! Thank you again 💗

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  2 года назад +1

      I’m telling you Sis this is how it goes down!! I’m happy you enjoyed the message Sis!!💯💯💯💗🙏🏽

  • @harleyfsbo3027
    @harleyfsbo3027 2 года назад +12

    I love the way you talk sister! Always cheer me up ☀️

  • @switchieone4488
    @switchieone4488 2 года назад +5

    This is by far the best video I've seen yet, this video is definitely a game changer... It's time to glow up not throw up 🤢 get rid of the narc in your life family ♥ 👪 ♥ narcs be hearing this talk, whoo 🔥 🔥 🔥 all kinds of 🐍 🐍 sliding off. 🤣😂 that's right the exits that way 👉 🚪

  • @vanessawilliams5730
    @vanessawilliams5730 2 года назад +9

    girl, you are too silly, I can sit and enjoy laughing all day with you. I love it. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS PROTECT AND FOREVER ANOINT AND KEEP YOU MIGHTY WOMAN OF GOD IN JESUS MIGHTY HOLY NAME AMEN AND AMEN!!! Luv u sis

  • @sandyheinrich2204
    @sandyheinrich2204 2 года назад +1

    A week after I cashed in my hotel & gas co stocks, I got a msg from them that they have been living out of their car. I did NOT offer a hotel room with my hotel money or gas with my gas co money. That moment could have only been sent by GOD.

  • @lordkeepmedifferentministr608
    @lordkeepmedifferentministr608 2 года назад +14

    I Love Your Video's Sis!!! I Be Cracking Up Because You Be Telling The Truth!!!!

  • @Flokix4
    @Flokix4 Год назад +2

    I used the pain as fuel, the results in the gym are insane!❤️💣👙👠 Narc big mad😂!! After years he wants to give me closure, hell no, i will give more injury's i won't quit😂💪🏼🎉

  • @katinasmith9493
    @katinasmith9493 2 года назад +6

    So true Queen… Everything you spoke is nothing but the truth.. I am definitely UNBOTHERED..