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  • @danielleholliday7519
    @danielleholliday7519 Год назад +94

    He got it so wrong! I'm at peace now... He will always remember I was the one that got away....

    • @toniwilliams9817
      @toniwilliams9817 Год назад +6

      Same here ❤

    • @teedy1boy
      @teedy1boy Год назад +3

      Correct on all points

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c 17 дней назад +1

      Me too.. He was getting ready to do a full blown devaluation. I kept telling him I would call him right back and NEVA did. Now he belongs to the ages. He reached out in my blocked box saying he's being the bigger person, after a whole year of NC. What a loser. The door 🚪 is closed 🔐 forevermore. TGBTG. ❤😊🎉

  • @pocahontas4583
    @pocahontas4583 Год назад +72

    They really don’t believe you’ll actually leave them. Especially if you stay with them a long time trying to “fix” it. They think they can get away with anything and you’ll keep putting up with it. That’s why the one I’m dealing with still won’t leave me alone because he can’t get it in his head that I truly won’t take him back this time.

    • @erickla7796
      @erickla7796 Год назад +1

      Block him or restriction order

  • @golnazabaee599
    @golnazabaee599 Год назад +127

    He never thought I would discard him. I was the nice, sweet, kind woman he tried to have an affair with. When I called him out after realizing he is married and is a serial cheater and playing me for a fool, I could feel his silent rage under his calm and indifferent exterior: sort of like "how dare she cuts me..."

    • @donaldbeach1401
      @donaldbeach1401 Год назад

      She left 5 times married for 5 years and then served me serpentine papers a week later I served her divorced papers we been divorced since October 19th, no contact since, waiting for something to happen, not sure what's going to happen Don,

    • @sylviaamodeo7090
      @sylviaamodeo7090 Год назад

      Wow, that's deep. I'm happy for you if you're out for good!

  • @mbrowne5105
    @mbrowne5105 Год назад +57

    Oh, he thought he knew me so well. When he discarded me a second time(yes, I know), I slammed that door, bolted the lock, blocked him, and he hoovered the mess out of me for a year and a half. I never responded. He can KMA, lol. I feel so victorious. Victims , you can do it! They never saw it coming when they encountered you. Don’t EVER go back and stay gone. Thanks Telsha!❤️❤️❤️

  • @marianpowell5610
    @marianpowell5610 Год назад +111

    I was with that bird for 23 years; I walked away from everything, home, clothes, and all (THANK GOD, MY 3 CHILDREN GROWN AND MOVED OUT OF THE HOME). Answered the hoover a week later, and that clown said, " All you had to do was chill until I calmed down. (I ALWAYS DID YEARS AND YEARS. I SAID TO MYSELF NOT TODAY) He argued all night long about something so stupid, taking my keys and who moved the scented candle. I Got up, dressed, took my nursing uniform, ID, SCHOOLBOOKS WALLET, file box, and laptop, and jetted, just like that. Boom! But God blessed me with all I lost. HELLO! GOD IS FAITHFUL AND TOOK MY POWER BACK. I THANK GOD DAILY FOR REMOVING THE FOG AND SHOWING ME I AM LOVED AND I AM WORTH IT. LEAN ON HIM, AND YOU WILL SEE THE LOVE I HAVE FOR YOU; READ HIS WORD IN THE BIBLE, YES!! YES!!, THE REVELATION WAS REAL. I THANK YOU, TEA, ON NPD; YOU ARE ALWAYS ON "POINT"

    • @berylfacey5376
      @berylfacey5376 Год назад +6

      I totally understand you about being in a fog. Only people who went through it get the meaning!!!

    • @christafisher8533
      @christafisher8533 Год назад +3

      Dang. Good for you!...on self preservation. The Good Lord always provides & he rewarded you b/c you were no longer blocking your blessings. 💞

    • @Peacealways247
      @Peacealways247 Год назад +2

      I don't care if you've been married to them for a split second, as soon as you see the behavior, plan the departure. Know that GOD is your provider, your savior, your tear wiper, your comforter, your keeper. God wants us to want him FIRST. If that person is acting like they are your savior...bayybbbaaayyy you got to get up outta there! God will restore better than what you had with them fools. Make your exit plan quickly! Keep on moving don't stop no!

    • @treshasstarr1513
      @treshasstarr1513 2 дня назад +1

      Proud of u

  • @johnmoya2826
    @johnmoya2826 Год назад +24

    Sometimes you have to give up on people. Everyone that is in your life is meant to be in your life, but not everyone is meant to stay there. AMEN !!!

  • @pamelajett3099
    @pamelajett3099 Год назад +14

    We were not victims but saviors for the narc. Their last chance to get it right!!!!! It's down hill from here!

  • @jaschadaniels9688
    @jaschadaniels9688 Год назад +32

    "Backwards Walking Giraffe with the curly Wig"!!!!!!!!!!!! The way I just SCREAMED!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @tonjajackson9209
    @tonjajackson9209 Год назад +29

    Exactly and the fact that he watched his mother stay with his cheating father until the day he died. And his aunt stay while her husband had outside children and openly ride young women around town. She still there today. Smh.
    So the other day I was thinking back how he use to ghost me to be with a back burner. The Lord told me "Now the ball is in your court, you do the ghosting. Permanently."

  • @AlmightyAmbush
    @AlmightyAmbush Год назад +18

    The biggest part they missed! We not with them ppl anymore. 😂 Classic

    • @kimberlys347
      @kimberlys347 Год назад +2

      Right! Like, I left them and I’ll leave you too!!!!! They are so stinking entitled though they think you’d never actually do it.

  • @sonjaguillory4247
    @sonjaguillory4247 Год назад +10

    I paid close attention to my narcissist I did not tell him none of my business he told me he couldn't figure me out

  • @monteblazilla7776
    @monteblazilla7776 Год назад +22

    She had to find out the hard way, gone now! Finally took my power back🙇🏾‍♂️

  • @turquoisepearls4817
    @turquoisepearls4817 Год назад +21

    That’s right! Execute that exit plan and leave in silence.

  • @SoSpecial16
    @SoSpecial16 Год назад +23

    They try and FAIL repetitively.. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dmuzik3740
    @dmuzik3740 Год назад +13

    “They miss the fact that you’re not even with the last person” 💯💯

  • @drypshunee8428
    @drypshunee8428 Год назад +23

    I am so blessed to come across your channel! I have recently ended an on off 15 year hell of a situationship with a narcissist who mentally, physically, and financially abused me. He topped the icing on the cake by getting my daughter’s god sister pregnant and allowing me to find out via social media. He still blamed me. I have left for good, went no contact, changed my number, block his number, blocked him on social media, blocked his family on social media, and sought counseling. He has tried to contact me through email in which I have not responded. Thank you for this channel. I have binged watched.

  • @janiced.hatcher1272
    @janiced.hatcher1272 Год назад +5

    When you can see them for the leg dragging, bugged eyed, hunch backed, drooling, nonhuman, diabolical,
    franken- creatures of the most unclean, dwelling inside of a person, then your seeing right.

  • @Breauxmann
    @Breauxmann Год назад +18

    “Now that it’s late, let it stay late”
    Girlfriend got it wrong. Vengeance is mine says the Lord, I will repay.
    “You got it wrong, it’s gonna stay wrong.” God had my back the whole time. Keep it moving!

  • @clusterbfreekaryn7685
    @clusterbfreekaryn7685 Год назад +4

    He couldn't believe after 33 years, I barricaded the door, arranged bed at the Veterans Shelter (during Covid 19 lockdown 2020) & divorced him. He really did look like a blonde Chinese crested! 🤣 😂 😆

  • @susantodd7169
    @susantodd7169 Год назад +10

    He is happy I’m gone
    He never hoovered me
    I really think he is so proud and full of himself . I am not important to him- just a commodity. He has been through a woman every year! The law of RECIPROCITY- I BELIEVE IT WILL OCCUR! I don’t have to fight to prove anything- like the saying goes, the rotten fruit will eventually fall from that tree! That mask will fall off - can’t fake it forever.

    • @CoachCreesh
      @CoachCreesh Год назад +3

      He'll be back! Be prepared to resist the hoover. Block him and remain NO CONTACT 💯💯💯

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Год назад +28

    They will never see you for the valuable person you are👈🏾 facts. Once they realize they had it wrong they will hover and try to live bomb you once again, but we must shut down the madness. "Let them deal with the other crows 😂" Another great video as always ❤️

  • @angelinaalexander5910
    @angelinaalexander5910 Год назад +24

    Even when they know you know, they just keep on with their BS. My ex telling me that my daughter and her kids are doing Thanksgiving at his house this year and "we love you and you're mad at the world" GTFO 😠 I would never go to his house for ANY HOLIDAY grandkids there or not. That would be like the scene from the movie Soul Food when Vanessa Williams had the butcher knife 😂 Hell to the NO!

    • @karriesaunders8597
      @karriesaunders8597 Год назад +4

      Yeah,I was told go round to his mother's and sort this out,there is nothing to sort out,he told me and his child he was coming home and instead,he didn't pick up the phone and apologise for being abusive,then set up a whole new family with a single mother with three kids by God knows who. Disgusting. I'll never go into his mother's house,she was a witch to me and after I was faithful and loving to her son. She can stay away from me.

    • @shortluv700
      @shortluv700 3 месяца назад

      😂😂

  • @chrisgaddy8672
    @chrisgaddy8672 Год назад +30

    The first thing I could've done was to analyze the signs and behavior she kept displaying.
    The second thing was go to You Tube and searched for answers, this would've saved me 5 years of hell.
    Had I known then what I know now, the first try would've been the last and final try.
    Thank you and all the life coaches up here given us knowledge and insight on this serious issue.
    It's clear now.... I'm awake and aware!!!

  • @KimberlyTubbs6851
    @KimberlyTubbs6851 Год назад +7

    And you can't make them see your value or anyone else. I tried and felt worn out. Never AGAIN. Doing the right thing with the wrong man.

  • @myblessings1000
    @myblessings1000 Год назад +57

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏾🙏🏽💜🥰!!! Excellent message as always. Thank You Sis Telsha🙏🏽😇🥰. No we are NOT alike... what was never considered is that I HAVE the capacity to cut you right off and never look back. The abuse was my closure.
    #IMGOOD
    #Goingon16monthsNC☝🏾🕊💪🏾👏🏽💜

  • @reginaldharrigan9962
    @reginaldharrigan9962 Год назад +7

    A duck w combat boots & a cape!!!!
    Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

  • @2009bobbs
    @2009bobbs Год назад +27

    I even told him that I never back track with any exes...the bird must have forgotten!!! Love you Telsha. Happy Thanksgiving

    • @zaylinstar8883
      @zaylinstar8883 Год назад +4

      That’s what I said! It’s even recorded lol I literally say “DONT DO IT.. I WILL leave, and when I leave…. I DONT come back.”
      He laughed in the video, thinking I was joking.
      Till them divorce papers finalized and I left and stayed in a shelter for 7 months and now have our own home. 2 years going lol 😂

    • @bronwenw6384
      @bronwenw6384 Год назад +1

      He did not forget. He just truly believes that he's in utter and complete control of you. To the point where you can NOT say no to him. They are utterly deranged and it's that old sense of entitlement that comes into play. They literally believe that they own you, like some toy they get to put away and come back later to "play" with. Idiots

  • @johnoulds3003
    @johnoulds3003 Год назад +14

    WOW!!! I told that A-Hole with a crown what my X wife did to me. The cheating did mess me up. The big one is..She did the same thing my X wife did to me x10. She told me she would never do that to me. I saw the red flag but over look it. That 3rd yr I gave up and kick her out. Thank you!!! Just miss her 2 kids that's all. They had nothing to do with it. Thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏 and help!!!

  • @Phyllis-zx8om
    @Phyllis-zx8om Месяц назад +2

    They push you away, but wont let you leave. smh

  • @Msbrittanyhoney
    @Msbrittanyhoney Год назад +5

    I sent screenshots and screen recordings of the narc ex tryna get back with me lying & disrespecting his new supply that he moved in with just a month after I kicked him out. I haven’t heard from him since 😂😌🙌🏾

  • @spiritualone1
    @spiritualone1 Год назад +40

    Bamm !!! Queen. You know that’s Right✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽. All my past DV/Narc situationship I told him about didn’t prepare him to believe that I would never go back to him. Every situation prepared me to become stronger and stronger because I know unconsciously that I could never allow this. The Narc did his thing to me but I did my thing. No Contact. I know if I ever went back the pain would defeat me. Also if I went back I would lose my self Respect. You are on Point 🎯🎯🎯
    Thank you Queen❤️🙏🏽

  • @folasaderoyal
    @folasaderoyal Год назад +16

    Woo!! This is so true!! And they STILL never learn from their mistakes!! That part! (your voice) lol

  • @snatchedinthe6ix
    @snatchedinthe6ix Год назад +33

    Let them stand on it & keep moving forward. 💯 Thank you for this video today.🙏

  • @rhondacooper7957
    @rhondacooper7957 Год назад +3

    In my humble opinion a narcissist think by abusing the victim will keep that victim in a toxic relationship with them (dead wrong) narcissists are wicket demons. 😈

  • @baileyb8619
    @baileyb8619 Год назад +3

    “These backward walking giraffes with the curly wig.” I said it!
    I am dying over here. You are truly incredible. Hysterical and oh so brilliant. OMG that sentence took me out.

  • @aalexnavas
    @aalexnavas Год назад +16

    Beautiful video, you are right on the money with your content. These clowns never think you going to get tired of the mental abuse, physical abuse, etc.. My revolving door was shut 4ever 5 months ago..

  • @pamtaylor256
    @pamtaylor256 Год назад +14

    Girl, you're Preaching to myself and what I did that aligns with what I had to do. You verified that I took the right path. You've validated that i did the right thing for me. It was God's revelations that helped me to see 👀 🙏 the truth. I was hurt, but I'd rather be hurt than be in that relationship. We can get over hurt and heal, but misery is MISERABLE 💔. God showed I would have been MISERABLE. Thank you LORD.

  • @sharicorbitt2111
    @sharicorbitt2111 Год назад +28

    You still speaking nothing but truths.🙌🙌

  • @sandygoddard7478
    @sandygoddard7478 Год назад +4

    The narcs take us empaths for fools

  • @amirjones1934
    @amirjones1934 Год назад +2

    I won a court decision for child support ...and I dont pay child support , she did this , and ran off with the new supply, but now karma has smacked her in the face...the narcissist, wanted to control me (via) child support, before moving on with her new supply, now the tables have totally flipped ...and I walked away untouched... I totally destroyed her...I had to walk away from her , and our son and her whole family.

  • @gwendolynharper6048
    @gwendolynharper6048 Год назад +6

    Yessss ,I saw that giraffe with the curly wig after 3yrs and 2yrs no contact he showed up at my brother's home going repass 🤬but God zipped my lips and as he rambled for 8 min hugging on me saying how much he loved and missed me ,he thinks of me ever day ,he finally has this moment and he doesn't know what to do with it blah blah blah ,and I looked at him like he had 3 heads and never opened my mouth and walked away ,I wasnt nasty but I wasnt nice he had the ordasity to grab my face like he was gonna try and kiss me ,that's when I backed all the way up and bounced ,he never once came inside to acknowledge anyone and give condolences, and had the nerv to say I was hoping I'd see you hear,so that's all he came for ,praying that I gave him nothing to feed on ,I feel good and it didnt set me back,in fact I feel stronger ,and ....he looked a mess and didn't smell nice ,Thank God I'm Free

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 Год назад +10

    I haven't had contact with that Narc for 2
    months he sent me a text saying sorry for disturbing you but are you up am like it's 6:30 in the evening Boy Bye I didn't Answer the hoover

    • @aalexnavas
      @aalexnavas Год назад +2

      You need to block him..

    • @CoachCreesh
      @CoachCreesh Год назад

      @@aalexnavas FACTS!!! They know if they're not blocked, they have a chance. They're so sick!!! I even had to block the DEMON in my email; they're disgusting🤮🤮🤮 Now, he dream hoovers. They're so WICKED😡😡😡

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Год назад +2

      IKR!! he sent me a photo of him at his moms gravesite...boy bye, she been dead 2 yrs!!! blocked n deleted

  • @Samantha-cp1qm
    @Samantha-cp1qm Год назад +28

    This message was so on point, right down the line of my thinking today.

  • @KittyLewinsky7
    @KittyLewinsky7 Год назад +3

    So true! They never paid attention to the part where we say we left our exes lol silly!

  • @joycebrown4776
    @joycebrown4776 Год назад +2

    What he thought that I was foolish, but in the end it really was him that was the fool. Because never will he find another like me. All that he did he really dug a ditch for himself to fall into it. He did not realize who I really belonged to, it sure was not him. He didn't know that GOD had my back, that's way he had to move on, because I much better than what he could ever imagine.. and he was never was up to my standard and could keep up. Once you leave never go back to that, it's a loser. And you will never prosper with that at all. They really don't have anything and don't want you to have anything. Please do not let them come back. It's just like putting a rope around your neck hanging yourself.

  • @louisemorgan6410
    @louisemorgan6410 Год назад +1

    My Ex Hysband cried the day I walked away from him, he cried crocodile tears ( he went on holiday with his new 'girlfriend 3 months after i left him). 5 months later, he came knocking on my front door (I rented out my house while we were married) I opened my front door, looked at him without expression, not a single word passed my lips, I softly closed the door. He stormed off. Two weeks later, he came again, I repeated the same. He didn't bother again . That was 5 years ago.

  • @eye-leenlove
    @eye-leenlove Год назад +9

    Facts!!!! This woman is a Savior!!!!

  • @sandrabrouwers5797
    @sandrabrouwers5797 Год назад +7

    Hi Telsha.
    The Narc i was involved underestimated my intelligence until i show him who i am.I was studying him quietly and i was the winner at the end of his game.He taught he is going to milk my finances but was wrong obviously.I was the one playing cat and mouse games with him and never got a cent out of my pocket.He never knew my Love has clear glasses on lol and could read him like a book with me been the protagonist Hahahaha.The movie end up him been high and dry went he left me.I was soooo relieved when he pack and go.Shoooo i was a unqualified actress 🤣

    • @Noah_Noahh_
      @Noah_Noahh_ Год назад

      SAME SAME SAME🗣🗣🗣 that whole part🗣

  • @aaronrichey583
    @aaronrichey583 Год назад +3

    Exactly. All of her exes are still in the mix. She told me she was friends with all of her exes. The supply corral. I won't be there after this last time. Working on me. Thank you for sharing this!

  • @gsincorp
    @gsincorp Год назад +16

    MY Sista, My Sista, I must confess I’m totally embarrassed and completely hang my head in shame that even up till recently knowing that she’s with another supply have allowed myself to lead to crumbs of affection and the back-and-forth behavior to continue putting myself in a position to rely on false hope; I asked everyone out there who has experience this thing forgiveness for this foolishness that I’ve allowed!! from the bottom of my heart thank THE LORD for your channel and for you and the way you are relentless when preaching the gospel on standing up for the fee as well standing against these Narcissist! I’m completely broken and discouraged and I know I am, and rightfully so, indignant with the Lord silence and appearance that he allows these demons to really skip along happily through their viciousness! my experience has been absolutely horrendous! 18 years of marriage, serial and I mean serial cheater three children 13, 15 and 17. Truly DEMONIC, literally left us for dead! They have Absolutely no remorse , the intermittent reinforcement multiple supplies push poll back-and-forth, my GOOD JESUS...This Narcissis was raised and propped up as a princess I’m gonna tell you right now no empathy whatsoever no self reflection and the list goes on and on that’s the extent of her trauma although she claims she was molested as a Young teenager which I totally get.I have never and I mean never met anyone so treacherous so cruel so invalidating so emotionally verbally psychologically spiritually abusive not to mention manipulative to lengths that surpasses all understanding! BETRAYAL is her first last and middle names!! Oh, did I mention financial abuse?? She sabotage everything and I mean everything! I put her through school, I was still in the gap to maintain the household while she was fired from every one of her 10 jobs! Please forgive my indignation and anger but these people appear to have no souls the soul that they have are completely dull from having any empathy whatsoever! The thing that’s difficult is she’s amazingly beautiful and the exterior and very academically gifted! But I must say I am decimated because I’ve been drain of everything that I have and somewhat turned into someone I don’t even know at times I don’t mean to digress but not to mention the drug use and alcohol abuse I mean the list goes on and on and on so to sum it up being a single dad and having to interact with these people is heart wrenching! The most evil of it all is win they with the new supply acting all happy but then try to keep you around pretending like they may have an inkling of a change of heart and then only two and I mean the very next minute change up on you and treat you like you never existed😞😞😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @tzee7945
      @tzee7945 Год назад +4

      Ya not alone I've been there. It took me a long time to realize but it's so true like she said How can someone that don't value themselves value you💯

    • @gsincorp
      @gsincorp Год назад +2

      @@tzee7945 That’s right. You know what makes it hard is that These entities set up in church and clam they love God they show even Darren new supplies Waymore love and affection even though they’ve only known them like a matter of months and it’s hard to wrap my mind around that it’s hard to wrap my mind that someone can be so callous and soul remorseless unfortunately for my feeble mind it’s just so hard to understand because I don’t think I could ever be like that in my worst sinfulness

    • @simplymynz2683
      @simplymynz2683 Год назад +7

      Gerardo you are worth more than somebodies last choice. If you can’t be the first then, that person can’t be your first. Even though it hurts…. keep moving forward. Cry about it and get into the word of God. He will strengthen you. Believe me it’s so many women that wants a good man including myself. So heal, empower yourself with the word and live to love again. Don’t fall for the same type of women and don’t hold back your love to another bc of your past. God bless you keep smiling and find your peace. 🙏🏾💜

    • @gsincorp
      @gsincorp Год назад +3

      @@simplymynz2683 God Bless you soooo much for your encouragement and prayers through my horrendous dealings with this dark person; gives me strength to crawl towards hope.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

    • @jodypoe9643
      @jodypoe9643 Год назад +3

      Hang in there. Get therapy, it helps. I'm praying for you! IT WILL GET BETTER! Hang on to Jesus..even if its the thread on the hem of His robe!♥️

  • @Cali001
    @Cali001 Год назад +4

    Another whole Word… 🙌🏽 Com’on saints. Let the church say Amen 🙏🏽

  • @latishanurse7643
    @latishanurse7643 Год назад +3

    My past is behind me i living my best life with my God Very GOODBYE NARC Thank God for JESUS. I am not Going Back Forward Ever BACKWARD NEVER. Give them the element of suprise and LEAVE.

  • @cherietheresa
    @cherietheresa Год назад +19

    I am thankful and grateful for receiving your message! Thanksgiving Blessings ❤

  • @BriWells426
    @BriWells426 Год назад +2

    Wild that i have that same hoodie on today and I found this video. I remember plotting my escape in my head. I remember the night the ish hit the fan, I was so calm and composed when I told that person they would never see me again. It shook them to the core. That mask melted instantly and I saw what a sad, scared and traumatized child they truly were.

  • @JoannA-sweetly
    @JoannA-sweetly Год назад +4

    Love your comments, duck with capes, frogs with helmets, backwards walking.....🤣🤣😆😆🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Год назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @BillRWare
      @BillRWare Год назад

      ​@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I'd kill myself if I visited a zoo filled with the animals you describe 😮

  • @pocahontas4583
    @pocahontas4583 Год назад +7

    4:35 YES! This right here. One of the biggest breakdowns of our marriage was him accusing me of the most disgusting things that I would never even think of. I know people always say it’s usually the one accusing that’s actually doing it but I really could see it once I got out of it. Had a new woman lined up and was admitting it within days of me moving out, yet still trying to snoop and saying he “knows” I have a new man, which I didn’t. But he assumed I did because he got someone new. Even conversations, he’ll treat me horribly, get revenge and describe what he did and say I did it when all I did was have someone get revenge on me. Call me harassing me, but tell me to stop bothering him but he’s calling me. It’s just SO off the wall.

  • @2educateall819
    @2educateall819 Год назад +1

    He thought he could get a baby with someone else after 24 years of Marriage. Divorce me for her. And when that didn't work out. I would take him back!
    WHAT?
    WRONG!!
    THAT WAS A VICTORY!

  • @charleneterrell
    @charleneterrell Год назад +4

    Request to submit this video to the US Supreme Court.

  • @eringobragh7
    @eringobragh7 9 месяцев назад

    I divorced a Narcissist after 12 years, left a Psychopath and gave the last Narcissist the discard of his life! The last one didn’t know I’d already got rid of two pathologicals so he thought he was cocky playing his mess with me and that I’d never leave. I know the patterns. Not today Satan, not EVER!! All 3 had tried to come back into my life. No way baby, I’m good 👌🏼
    I have a good memory. Those clowns think time erases everything. I hold no grudge though have wisdom 🙏🏼

  • @leandraherring1824
    @leandraherring1824 Год назад +5

    FAMILY I HAD TO REPLAY THIS VIDEO WHEN I WAKE UP AND GO TO SLEEP AT NIGHT THIS VIDEO NEEDS TO HIT MY SPIRIT AND SOUL LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA 💖💖

  • @leandraherring1824
    @leandraherring1824 Год назад +3

    FAMILY THESE FROGS NEED LOVE TO 😂😂😂 THANK YOU TELSHA 💖💖

  • @baileyb8619
    @baileyb8619 Год назад +1

    See, this still baffles me. I ended the relationship after 1year. He was stunned. But I never spoke poorly of any relationship…barely spoke about my previous, which was not terrible. But part of me wonders if I was an experiment, a mystery, because he knew I wanted to be married some day. He future faked that fur the whole year while picking fights, etc. no horrible words or physical abuse but just awful Demonic attached energy. I felt like a million bucks when I walked away and told him he wears a mask and is a liar.
    But this journey of healing and processing all that he did is brutal. I’m 5 months out, and no looking back. But again, this is all so baffling for several reasons. These entities are smart and have their own reason for each person I think…

  • @kieshaspady4923
    @kieshaspady4923 Год назад +3

    To Everyone Else Have a Happy Thanksgiving

  • @hurricanemuscle
    @hurricanemuscle Год назад +5

    Amen sister

  • @truth8027
    @truth8027 Год назад +1

    Yes M’am .. they got it wrong because the past is not coming back to poison my future..

  • @Redeemed1983
    @Redeemed1983 Год назад +5

    A huge thank you to you, Joy, and Solomon for helping to break the grip of the mind control and spiritual blinders from my childhood programming so that the Lord could make my mind free this morning of all the negative self-talk that had kept me bound for decades!!!!

  • @csrrodriguez78
    @csrrodriguez78 10 месяцев назад

    I would pay, pay per view prices to watch how bad my narc would abuse the downgrade supply. He's insecure, low self-esteem, 5'4, fat and he laughed at me when I was crying over my ex to come back. Now I'm laughing from all the knowledge and knowing I was grade A and I'm healing and gone strong on my No contact.

  • @christineMaccallum-uo3qx
    @christineMaccallum-uo3qx 24 дня назад

    Whe you see a lion yawing dont ask if he is hungry 😂😂😂😂

  • @Deakkon_and_the_Diplomat
    @Deakkon_and_the_Diplomat 2 месяца назад

    SWOT analysis had me 💀 😂😂😂 Marketing 101

  • @JoannA-sweetly
    @JoannA-sweetly Год назад +9

    Thank you! Happy Thanksgiving and may God continue His blessings on your life & family! So glad this last narc tried me! God thru your & others msgs WOKE ME UP!

  • @Phyllis-zx8om
    @Phyllis-zx8om Месяц назад

    Thank God I found out long time ago that my husband was a narc, and I planned to get away from him, it took some years, he did not know that I gave it to God.

  • @Sarah-sq4zz
    @Sarah-sq4zz Год назад +2

    I always told him the reason you always get caught is because you always being sneaky with the stuff that you do I started watching his every move I knew when he was texting someone hell I knew when he was lying but I just let him keep talking so when the final discard happened I welcomed it because I knew that this time around was the final time next month makes a whole year of no contact of any kind whatsoever and it was the best thing that he could’ve done for me was discard me I thank him so much for it cause when I finally left I left for good cut all forms of communication I even got rid of everything and everyone that had some type of relationship to my ex narc friends family whoever it didn’t matter y’all was connected to him I removed them all from my life best decision ever

  • @kellyshepherd4425
    @kellyshepherd4425 Год назад

    Now am being stalked‼️ because he can't handle the consequences of his actions he did to me what the first narc lie about and wondering why I Don't Want anything to do with him

  • @marymccormack2317
    @marymccormack2317 Год назад +1

    Yes so right.he never expecting me to run not walk. 😭☀️💯

  • @sandramorris7864
    @sandramorris7864 Год назад +3

    I sure did tell him too much cuz that was his ammunition to abuse me. but i had sense enough to leave .

  • @leesielou9783
    @leesielou9783 Год назад +13

    Happy Thanksgiving Telsha! Love and Blessings to you and yours 😘🙏🏻 (Thank you for all that you do and the lives you are changing😊)

  • @christineMaccallum-uo3qx
    @christineMaccallum-uo3qx 24 дня назад

    Four years sista 🙌🏾🙌🏾 hallelujah 🙏

  • @dkskskjfndlddimitrapsychar1675
    @dkskskjfndlddimitrapsychar1675 6 месяцев назад

    I wish I would of see this video a lot earlier. You speak the truth and your powerful words of wisdom has saved my life.
    Listen to Telsha everyone, do not let those hound dogs back in your life, they're poisonous to to your soul...I thank God everyday for letting me see the light and pull away.

  • @777JESUSISLORD71
    @777JESUSISLORD71 Год назад

    When i saw him eating oatmeal every morning for a year,i should have known my x was a creature of habits. Bad habits. They are repetitive ,and have no power to change for the better

  • @EffectivelyFree
    @EffectivelyFree 7 месяцев назад

    God always provides a way of escape gon keep getting it wrong

  • @alicejohnson8386
    @alicejohnson8386 10 месяцев назад

    Oooooh my sister, you nailed that I told that fool that my exes must have bumped their heads. So when he tried it he had me messed up! BIRD!!!😅😅

  • @Flokix4
    @Flokix4 Год назад +3

    I reject he's hoover for the first time in 3 years, i neverrr get so fast another hoover, 2 days later🤣. normal he be silent for two weeks or longer, when i was begging him to stay. Yess the game of chess is on. I win, end of the matrixx.

  • @TheLotussong
    @TheLotussong 9 месяцев назад

    Don’t let them poison your future 😊? I am presently in what was once the future ….. by now I am so pickled and poisoned that even my shadow started looking blue these days

  • @gabriellemaes4078
    @gabriellemaes4078 Год назад +1

    Hi! I always feel like the world is a much better place when I see your face. Thank you thank you thank you.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @shirleysimon2548
    @shirleysimon2548 Год назад +2

    My ex gave my daughter a picture and she. Had a flashback n cried. She is still healing. After. I'm 28yrs. Divorce

  • @coachnatishamommatish185
    @coachnatishamommatish185 Год назад +3

    LMBO...😆🤣😆🤭😂Let that duck with the cowboys boots on keep marching...I love it sis. 😂🤭😆🤜🏾🔥🤛🏾All Praises Goes to ABBA FATHER in Jesus name HALLELUYAH AMEN.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @1010QUEEN7
    @1010QUEEN7 Год назад +3

    Happy Thanksgiving he never did anything right in his entire life

  • @aprilhottinger
    @aprilhottinger Год назад +4

    Telsha girl your Matt fall lipstick looks so good and I love your casual look 🤩

  • @jrlatina
    @jrlatina Год назад +4

    Hola Telsha! 👋🏼

  • @HuricaneChampagne
    @HuricaneChampagne Год назад

    the past with the narcissist! you can’t allow them to poison ☠️ your future 😊

  • @Lil-Ice21
    @Lil-Ice21 Год назад

    It took me 15 years to get rid of my ex narcissist that I have children with he was treating me really bad medically and he still tries to treat me bad when i don’t take his stuff

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 Год назад

    Karma will come back to them tenfold! What you bring out is what you will get back and that is how the law of the universe works! Foolish people!

  • @tanyagamble3432
    @tanyagamble3432 Год назад +4

    Hey Tee this is deep i appreciate this video these critters are the worse

  • @makenziepolston1220
    @makenziepolston1220 Год назад +2

    This is all true they condemned their self great timing praise the lord Jesus blessed mercy

  • @juliahaymer
    @juliahaymer Год назад

    The narcissist tried to set me up to fail a few days ago. I haven't seen him since we split 5 months ago. He is already engaged to another supply. I ran into him I just spoke and he wanted to start a conversation asking me how I wS doing. He talked about how his condition was getting worse with Lupus, then he asked if it didn't work out with the new supply would I come back to him. No I'm not and that shut that down. I will never put myself in the position to even speak to him again. I thought we could be adults but the narc is a narc. I feel stupid that I even talked to him now.

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Год назад +4

    Hi Ms. Telsha. Good day to you. Happy Thanksgiving to you in advance, just in case you don't post tomorrow. The narcissist and their curly Jerry dripping greasy and slippery wig can stay in the past because I'm thankful for my current present and future. 🤗💗💯❤️🤗

  • @samanthalangeveldt1023
    @samanthalangeveldt1023 Год назад +4

    Watching a replay so blessed thanks sister

  • @aprilhottinger
    @aprilhottinger Год назад +5

    Why is my x still delusional about us getting back together ?

    • @Flokix4
      @Flokix4 Год назад +5

      Because they are addicted to people.. for your supply.

    • @CoachCreesh
      @CoachCreesh Год назад +3

      He's not delusional. He's binding you to him 🤢 REBUKE those word spells in Jesus name!

  • @shirleygonzales5284
    @shirleygonzales5284 Год назад +5

    Chinese crescents! That always makes me laugh. Thank you Ms. Beautiful Telsha!

  • @Ms.T-s3k
    @Ms.T-s3k 5 месяцев назад

    I refuse to be abused by anyone I was like that way before the narcissist he kept breaking my boundaries so that fool had to get gon fr 8 months no contact avoided 3 Hoovers when I'm done I'm completely done