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  • Insight on the fact that narcissists are repaid with misery daily for their abuse.
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  • @jacquelineakimana9780
    @jacquelineakimana9780 Год назад +330

    🤣🤣 thats why I couldn't be mad or hate my narc, even at the end I was still kind to him. He is miserable every single day. I stayed with him longer just because I felt bad for him, he had nothing to offer me and he was stupid enough to treat me so badly instead of appreciating me

    • @lorettamoore5509
      @lorettamoore5509 Год назад +12

      I stayed with my husband because I fell bad for him.

    • @brittanym8114
      @brittanym8114 Год назад +19

      @@lorettamoore5509 I felt bad for my husband too and stayed wit him. I have sooo much peach wo him it’s so amazing!!! Sent him divorce papers 6 weeks ago and still waiting for him to sign … so we can proceed.

    • @majestymoon9276
      @majestymoon9276 Год назад +5

      Thissss ❤

    • @jacquelineakimana9780
      @jacquelineakimana9780 Год назад +20

      @@brittanym8114 so sorry ladies I can only imagine being married to one, luckily mine showed me who he was very early on. The love bombing ( future faking) lasted a few weeks and I stayed for almost a year and felt like a life time. I wanted to stay a little longer for educational purposes but I couldn't take it anymore. The silent treatment when you try to communicate, the projection, the disrespect...😨🤯

    • @warrior4christ902
      @warrior4christ902 Год назад +7

      That part!!!

  • @victorious3926
    @victorious3926 Год назад +61

    These people were miserable way before they met you and they will still be miserable after you they don't just move on and live happily ever after they didn't live happily ever after before you the only thing they did was took their crazy to somebody else's when they so-called moved on God bless.

    • @B-Nia
      @B-Nia 3 месяца назад

      👍👍

  • @joycebriggs1236
    @joycebriggs1236 Год назад +31

    My Narc could careless about anything that pertains to me. He never liked, cared, or valued my life. But now that I know.. I’m blessed. And I wish him NOTHING!

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 5 месяцев назад +1

      I feel you Queen, I do wish something for my ex wife of 20 years and that is exponential misery and heartache because she is a demon possessed by legions of demons!

    • @GeraldineDoCouto
      @GeraldineDoCouto 26 дней назад +1

      Same here….yesss!

  • @requeilchatman6755
    @requeilchatman6755 Год назад +80

    That is their punishment everyday "waking up " to that misery it sucks to be them.

  • @thelightworker01
    @thelightworker01 Год назад +41

    I told my ex narc after the discard wow it looks like you are starving. He tried to get closure I told him go eat something 😂😂😂

  • @myblessings1000
    @myblessings1000 Год назад +90

    So True Very Miserable. Groomed me to stop saying " Good Morning or God Bless You After You Sneeze." When I would say Good Morning Ex Narc would replay " What's so good about it!!!!" It was a miserable state of existence, I was a walking corpse all life drained out of me. I started to dread waking up especially next to him because I couldn't say Good morning. 😔very unnatural for me as an empath. I thank God daily for lifting the veil and leading me out of The Kingdom of Darkness and Into His Marvelous Light. That Hell was No Joke...God set me free and I will never go back into captivity (misery).... God Did It👌🏽💜💃🏽🕊🙏🏽💜!!! Thanks again Sis Telsha 🌹 for This Awesome Message, laughter is good for the soul especially after being a survivor of such a horrific kind of abuse...Lived in The Misery for 3 yrs and 5 months... Been NC for almost 20 months 4/9/23. This anniversary date is NOT one of gloom and doom but Victory... My days are full of Joy, Peace, Wisdom, Love and Strength these days. I laugh I smile and Living My Best Life free to say what I want when I want. No monitoring spirits dictating how I will live my life.

    • @GG-ul8ne
      @GG-ul8ne Год назад +4

      I love that you mark the anniversary date, of your discard. I was much the same, as you described (with your narc), when I was a live-in housekeeper & cook, for a narcissistic ex family friend/elder type figure (my late husband & I thought of him like our 'adopted uncle'). When my husband passed away, this old narc pervert, 20+ yrs older than me, arranged all kinds of horrible abuse & crimes, committed against me, by his flying monkeys, after I turned his sexual/romantic propositions down, repeatedly. But, at that time, I didn't know he was the one behind all of this, until he hired me as his live-in housekeeper & cook, & started commenting on this, confessions of it all, over the several months I was trapped there. That's when I found myself trapped in absolute hell, with that pervert. He slowly & insidiously amped up his abuse (including stringing me along, not paying me+ making me sleep on the couch, instead of my own room, as we'd agreed to). He abused & violated me, in every single way, possible, once he'd isolated me there, away from friends & family. He once mused that he loved having me "locked up in his house", 24/7. Since he & his flying monkeys also committed actual crimes against me, I finally had courage to report him, & the flying monkeys that I knew of, to police. It was a very long police report, detailing all the abuse & crimes, over that 2+ year period. On June 4, 2021, the sheriff dept rolled up to the house, several cars & deputies, in front of all the neighbors, haha! I escaped, that day, June 4, 2021. That day feels like a 2nd birthday, to me. Congratulations on your freedom. Freedom feels absolutely WONDERFUL 🎉. Idk about you, on your anniversary of Freedom, but on June 4, every year, I thank God, for getting me out of there & say happy Freedom Birthday. God woke me up that day, and got me out of there. 🙏🤍

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Год назад

      I made him stop saying God bless you when I sneeze his mouth ain't fut and I don't receive nothing out of his lying mouth he takes lying to a deeper depth in hell bye demon

    • @myblessings1000
      @myblessings1000 Год назад +1

      @@GG-ul8ne Ephesians 3:20-21 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. God Is Able and HE will do it .👌🏽✍🏽👍🏾💃🏽✝️🙌🏽.

    • @GG-ul8ne
      @GG-ul8ne Год назад +1

      @@myblessings1000 Yes! AMEN! 🙏🙌

    • @bumblebee7082
      @bumblebee7082 9 месяцев назад +2

      This got me in stitches.... Ex Narc would replay " What's so good about it!!!!"🤣

  • @healthymindcounselingwelln5411
    @healthymindcounselingwelln5411 Год назад +21

    LMAO! She said eating Wholefoods, Sprouts, and whole grain rice..... I FELL OUT! She is right and these folks were living high off of you.......cut them off. Let them starve out! Those demons are going to turn on them because they didn't take you down.

  • @ri52177
    @ri52177 Год назад +29

    Sleep 2 hours at a time . Toss and turn to try to sleep

    • @jameslumpkins4609
      @jameslumpkins4609 4 месяца назад +4

      Exactly I didn't understand at first either but I learned

    • @rubyhughes1990
      @rubyhughes1990 Месяц назад +3

      I was told don't say by, at the end of a phone call. Because he doesn't like the word by. He told me to say later instead. I told him I don't like the word later, so I said let's pick a new word we both like, he hung up without a word. I didn't call him back. So he call later and ask why I didn't call him back? I answered with by , and blocked him!!!!

  • @Noelleelle
    @Noelleelle Год назад +38

    I remember when he was trying to hoover like a month or so after I left and he came over to “see the child.” I told him that he looked so miserable and just tired, angry, overworked. And those eyes he gave me!! I was half laughing half scared 😂😂

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 Год назад +13

    he sent me a photo during the discard, thinking i would reach out, he looked 70!! deleted n blocked !

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 Год назад +56

    Omg I love it! You always make me laugh. Tea, I'm 45 days no contact. I'm proud of myself.

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Год назад +2

      I sure look forward to the day when I can say that I'm 45 days no contact God bless you 💕

    • @lauradelregno99
      @lauradelregno99 Год назад +2

      Keep going strong 💪

    • @TashaBabi16
      @TashaBabi16 3 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for sharing! I’m 10 days no contact. However, it kinda gets to me because I think he will use it against me in court because he hasn’t spoke to his son. I stopped visitation when his new supply put tape on my child’s mouth and eyes. I don’t let his father stay alone with him at all

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 Год назад +19

    I'm not waiting 4 something 2 happen cuz just bcuz who the narc is is DOOM AND GLOOM and they r getting their karma while I'm being HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE bcuz I left the narc!!!

  • @alexiagoko9384
    @alexiagoko9384 Год назад +14

    That ex narc looks like a cadaver right now 😂😂😂 I'm just enjoying with some popcorn 🍿 on my side!

  • @jrlatina
    @jrlatina Год назад +23

    The car with no wheel covers 😅😂😂

  • @stephanies.3198
    @stephanies.3198 Год назад +12

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am on the floor........ So true, no longer eatting that Ramen or frozen chicken sandwiches, GURL!!! I'm back to eating Waygu Steaks baby!! Back in my element. They will mess up a free lunch! He had the nerve to tell me when we got back together ( I don't know what I was thinking) that he didnt want to get remarried to me so he wouldn't loose his foodstamps!

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Год назад +5

      He didn't wanted to lose his food stamp 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @B-Nia
      @B-Nia 3 месяца назад +1

      🤪🤪🤪

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 6 дней назад

      The narc I married is 62 was still trying to collect food stamps- so beneath me😂😂
      I’m 50 fabulous & free 5 yrs out 🙏🏿-

  • @quitageorge7532
    @quitageorge7532 Год назад +23

    It is definitely a demon that governs them and also us but they attack them differently. All we can do is pray for them to be fully delivered

  • @sandraoates6862
    @sandraoates6862 Год назад +27

    He left. Gone for about 3 months he had lost weight, black around the eyes, face looking skeleton like,
    complaining about muscle aches and cramps.
    The new supply now knew he was with me but took him in anyway. I saw her in the store in her slippers, robe, and headscarf buying him his snacks he loves. I recognized the snacks. But never saw her in that state of appearance and it was midday when I saw her

    • @jamaicanjoyh6883
      @jamaicanjoyh6883 Год назад +13

      Cause they suck the strength outta ur soul...I know💯✅ you lose urself

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 Год назад +6

      Yes my ex lost a lot of weight and says he barely eats and is having health problems now that have him back and forth to the doctor and says he barely sleeps. He was also complaining about missing my good home cooked meals.

    • @jessicatobias9371
      @jessicatobias9371 6 месяцев назад +1

      Her struggle now 😅

  • @Healinglove
    @Healinglove Год назад +13

    I LOVE when you call them Backwards walking giraffes!!! ALL OF IT!!😂

  • @ivantheamazing1188
    @ivantheamazing1188 Год назад +23

    T, I think god helped me put this in words so simple but yet so meaningful. "A man without the Lord has no peace and joy. Only moments of happiness (very short) followed by (extremely long) intense suffering." and I believe everyone can testify that was exactly what the addiction with the narc was like... short-lived happiness moments and long-lived INTENSE suffering.

  • @emperorofeffectiveeducatio2105
    @emperorofeffectiveeducatio2105 Год назад +16

    You too much!!! 😂😂😂 You should really consider being on a comedy showcase. Like I’m by myself shopping in the store and just laughing up a “busted gut”. Thanks for the comedy.
    It’s so sad you gotta laugh!! We need a “ gut hearty” laugh!!!

  • @LaMadrinaGrace
    @LaMadrinaGrace Год назад +14

    Ah, the laughter of an Ascended child of God laughing at the devil and his clickity-clack toenails 😂😂🎉

  • @TheCurlyBeauty
    @TheCurlyBeauty 3 месяца назад +4

    They are miserable beings. They live a horrible existence. My ex went from living in a 3 BR home to a basement unit. He relocated and abandoned me three weeks later, and he is broke, sick, and miserable. Begging for money, making ridiculous demands, and being trash. No contact for six months now. Karma is doing its work.

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 3 месяца назад +8

    I know my ex narc is miserable. Because I did everything for him. I was his secretary, accountant, maid, lawyer, therapist, etc...
    I did whatever he wanted me to do!

  • @kyki8512
    @kyki8512 Год назад +25

    You said......."DUSTY BRITCHES" !!! 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 "And the pockets are touching in the back!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭 You have made me laugh so hard today! 😂😂😂😂😂❤

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 Год назад +10

    Almost peed my pants,,,,,nails clacking on the ground in them heels, 🤣

  • @LisaLisa-zs7bj
    @LisaLisa-zs7bj Год назад +14

    It’s the “nails are clacking in the ground with the materials rolled back on your shoes because they old “ for me. 😂😂😂😂😂 CLACK…CLACK…CLACK

  • @pointofnoreturn3103
    @pointofnoreturn3103 Месяц назад +1

    To tell the absolute truth, I hope that the narcissist who I was friends with is happy. If the joy of the Lord is your strength, I think that loving Him in the people around us can make us happy, and strong. We give strength to each other, and I hope that my friend has learned to appreciate the people around her...
    ...I feel led to say this. If you hold onto resentment, it will eat you up inside. It is better, and healthier, to let go of it. Forgiveness doesn't mean that the person never wronged you. It doesn't mean that you unlearn what you have learned about someone's character unless they show themselves to have changed for the better. Forgiveness means that you get to drain the wound of the poison so it can't hurt you further... Take care. Susan

  • @jenniferwilson5918
    @jenniferwilson5918 Год назад +25

    I started this over 3 times, because you made me laugh so hard.
    It felt so good!!!

    • @leshalegg1014
      @leshalegg1014 Год назад +5

      Same here,I also replayed parts of this myself!😆

    • @softandsupplecosmetics
      @softandsupplecosmetics Год назад +1

      Guilty🥴I thought I was the only one who did. But to repeatedly laugh felt great I must admit 😂😂😂😩

  • @sharonstallwort8303
    @sharonstallwort8303 Год назад +45

    Your laughter brings joy to me as well as your teachings thank you sis

  • @777JESUSISLORD71
    @777JESUSISLORD71 Год назад +10

    My x narc was caught smoking crack,and had the nerve to be driving a city bus as a bus operator...He is a covert narcissist,and I found pictures of him having all kinds of different looks like a shape shifter. He has done all kinds of evil to me,and once I left,he lost his apartment,job, ended up in a treatment facility. Before I left him he kept boasting about a car he wanted to buy,but was behind in rent,and owed the cable company over $900.00 from watching porn, owed money after stealing from me and my kids. Then I find out he buys a $22.000 used car,that I told him was ridiculous to buy in the first place. But these are things the narc does. Like who goes into a used car dealership with $22.000 in cash,from cashing a retirement check,that was literally given to him by force after being fired by his job,and puts it in a backpack ,and goes to a dealership to buy a used car 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, taking a guy he calls a friend he barely knew,with him, nobody but a mentally unstable person. Come to find out he bought a dope dealer with him to the car dealership,and bought crack cocaine from him . Oh my goodness. They have no wisdom. No Sense. Then I found out later he sold the car for a hit of crack cocaine . But he tells me he sold his car to a guy he knew for $3000 🤣 ,as if that sounds better . After he purchased the car,car was gone within 4 months as I predicted. When I asked him why he didn't have a car when I first met him ,he told me he sold his car to his daughter, because he preferred catching the bus to work,and wanted to help his daughter out. But I later found out his whole life was out of order,and unmanageable,that he couldn't keep anything of value. When I first met I thought he had a great personality, feared GOD,went to church,very nice smile,great conversatioist,smelled good, he had a good career driving the bus,he looked like he was well established and responsible. Very well dressed,well mannered , charming,nice place he lived in ,but it was all an illusion 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. All of it was witchcraft

    • @bumblebee7082
      @bumblebee7082 9 месяцев назад

      Good to hear about what happens to them afterwards, your narc really seemed like a keeper(based on how you describe him), he would have fooled me ! The way Im so scared to even go on a date....I just see red flags in everything, let me heal first. You made my day !

    • @maragwyn9220
      @maragwyn9220 6 месяцев назад

      Lord that's a lot

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 Год назад +18

    Ms. Tea ur right bout the narc not working...the one I was with did not work but yet expected the best of everything cuz I had it...and yes I believe he was jealous of me cuz when I would buy myself something he thought he was entitled BUT NO MORE.. THAT'S BEHIND ME NOW THANK U JESUS!!!

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 Год назад +2

      The one I was with had the nerve to tell me he didn’t need to work full time. That with the money I make he can be like the women at his job and just supplement my income. My income just barely kept us above government assistance level.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 5 месяцев назад +1

      Where do y'all find these little boys, there not men they are little boys!

  • @tp324
    @tp324 10 дней назад

    it's the Enablers allowing them to be lazy for me!! Thanks for the message Queen.

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 Год назад +12

    He’s walking around looking like a lumberjack man facial hair all grown all around his face I guess he’s trying to hide😂🤡🤣🐦😂

  • @erock1437
    @erock1437 Год назад +45

    I’ve been wondering what’s going on after I did the final discard from the devaluation! Thank you for everything Telsha! You are a blessing to all of us! 🙏😃☕️🍪

  • @jaslyn5501
    @jaslyn5501 Год назад +9

    UFO sightings 😂

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 Год назад +14

    Lady T
    There was a time I could not stop crying from the pain now I can’t stop laughing because you are
    HI LA RI OUS !!!!😅😂😅😂
    I’m on the floor over here…
    I can’t with you😂😅😅😂

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 Год назад +14

    These Off And On Emotional Feeling Are Too Much 😢 But When I Seen That Crypt Keeper He Was Cheating On Me With Makes Me Weak 😂 Thank God For Sister Tea Videos It Brightens My Day

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Год назад +2

      Crypt keeper that's what he himself is he's nothing without me I'm the strong one

    • @leniecelewis3415
      @leniecelewis3415 Год назад +1

      @@1010QUEEN7 I Know That's Right 💪🏽🔥💯

  • @Queenc-xt1qi
    @Queenc-xt1qi Год назад +9

    Claw toes 😂😂😂 I am cracking up! This is so true

  • @naomihennes1231
    @naomihennes1231 2 месяца назад +2

    This is one of my favorite episodes, I love when you make me laugh.
    "...Happiness is temporal, but joy is eternal..."❤

  • @JoyLady-1966
    @JoyLady-1966 Год назад +11

    Thank God for delivering me from the narcissist family. All of their mask started falling last year. I just stood back and watched this crap show. I stood up to the matriarch of the family and her face broke. This was the beginning of breaking the trauma bond with them. To God be the Glory 🦋🦋🦋

  • @mariaamor2496
    @mariaamor2496 Год назад +14

    Woman of God, you spoke nothing but the truth! I came across a recent photo of the narc and he looks bad!!! He has aged about 20 years. Just like you stated, most of them don't work. He married the old stand-by that stayed around for 25 years and who takes care of him. 😳

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Год назад +5

      And I bet she thinks she won lol

    • @mariaamor2496
      @mariaamor2496 Год назад +3

      @ecunningham2062 Well, of course she does! 😆 🤣 😂

    • @rosejohnson301
      @rosejohnson301 Год назад +4

      That’s what they do, they will marry the one that’s ok with their behavior and clearly doesn’t care about them self 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @spencerbrando4242
    @spencerbrando4242 Год назад +5

    Just wait until after you've healed & found someone else that secondary supply will see the rage like no other. I saw mine hitting walls & slamming doors like a 5 year old with their old victim moving on.

  • @mariosdamaskos
    @mariosdamaskos 3 месяца назад +1

    Yes very true! My ex narcissist, sadistic girlfriend used to say that she hated her life and she didn't like waking up every morning.

  • @lindabest3171
    @lindabest3171 Год назад +15

    Thank you for another revelation truth Sis. Lady Telsha 💞 what you said about the Laws of Resoprocity is 💯% truth. These Narccistic ppl are always, continually in a state of misery, that is why they are on a daily hunt for a victim, "misery " loves company 💔.

  • @marketer4jesus
    @marketer4jesus Год назад +6

    Daily load of benefits of misery 😂

  • @andrealung9963
    @andrealung9963 Год назад +6

    “They have expired on this side” 😂😂😂😂 ahhh thank you, you made my day

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 Год назад +6

    And YES the ex narc I dealt with was miserable and ur right he would say he was depressed and I would just shake my head and still b HAPPY...

  • @nikajohnson4384
    @nikajohnson4384 Год назад +5

    These are trying times for the narc.

  • @abva56
    @abva56 3 месяца назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 That's the best feeling when you can crack up and can't contain yourself. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @rachelegilbert8175
    @rachelegilbert8175 Год назад +13

    We rocks with you, Girl!

  • @mariedrayton9695
    @mariedrayton9695 26 дней назад

    💣👐☝🙏💪👑👀👂👣🗣🎤 YOU'RE SOLID AS ROCK 🌱 YOU'RE ASSIGNMENT IS ON THY PATH OF RIGHTEOUSNESS 💎 I BE CRYING 😂 WHEN YOU 💃✨😍 CALLED HIM A BIRD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lorrainemarable5807
    @lorrainemarable5807 Год назад +5

    😂😂 Ms. Telsha, your pretty petty is showing out today.😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love it!!!

  • @shannonsalazar3237
    @shannonsalazar3237 Год назад +6

    I was praising GOD this morning and the holy spirit put on my heart that I can't hate that narc because if me going through that with him brought me back to my GOD back to the lord that's the most beautiful and amazing thing....so it was worth it that all the pain I went through GOD replaced with knowing him and his love that is unmatched ❤️ To GOD be the glory forever and ever ❤️ ♥️ 🙏 💛 💖

  • @shirleygonzales5284
    @shirleygonzales5284 Год назад +19

    Yes, wholeness is a beautiful thing. Thank you, Ms. Telsha. Amen.

  • @Rose-dl6xg
    @Rose-dl6xg Год назад +15

    Sista Tea, you have had me busting up with stomach aching laughing!!

  • @Glitter504
    @Glitter504 Год назад +7

    Omg 😂my ex who is a wealth management businessman used to tell me always ROIC things he expected from me to do he was well off so he spoiled me used to say return on invested capital as he had put so much money into me world travels , anything I wanted but he cheated and lied so I gave him the boot ! That’s what he got back for all that he had ‘invested ‘ in me 😂

  • @ambraalexander127
    @ambraalexander127 Год назад +8

    I would like to give thanks for all of your videos! Your videos have healed me to wholeness, and I have been narc free for almost a year! Thank you, you are truly a blessing to many! May God continue to give you strength to minister to those who are unaware of these DEMONS!

  • @angelatucker3314
    @angelatucker3314 Год назад +7

    Not the "Dusty Britches" 😂😂😂 Thank you Telsha for the laughs and bringing the Truth! ❤

  • @tatanishagatewood2426
    @tatanishagatewood2426 Год назад +5

    Bike n feet like the Flintstones

  • @HonestyIsAVirtue7
    @HonestyIsAVirtue7 Год назад +3

    Claw feet rolling off the front of their open toe shoes 😅😂😅😂

  • @lidmontgomery8837
    @lidmontgomery8837 Год назад +4

    One of the names for a Narc is to call them Nothingness and then watch the rage 😡 lol!!!

  • @kimpossible3914
    @kimpossible3914 Год назад +4

    🤣🤣🤣 at “jaws all sucked in” and “dusty britches”

  • @lisag9297
    @lisag9297 Год назад +4

    This was great. 😂Whole Foods. Sprouts yes yes. Homemade protein shakes made with love. Now it’s trife life .. enjoy

  • @arleneberrios
    @arleneberrios 14 дней назад

    That way you made me laugh with this one 😂😂😂😂 I love you girl 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pocahontas4583
    @pocahontas4583 Год назад +9

    I gained a lot of weight over the course of my time with him. I’ve been gone 9 months and lost 40 lbs. started back eating better and exercising. He always ate horribly and would fill the fridge and freezer with so much unhealthy food I didn’t even have room to put my healthy foods in there. Before I met him I was like a health and fitness nut. He’s lost weight since I’ve been gone too but it sounds like it’s more of a not eating because of being depressed and having other health problems than healthy weight loss.

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Год назад +2

      yess i saw him he looked 10yrs older

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 Год назад +3

      He's going to dry up because he will surely miss my cooking lol

    • @palomahair8616
      @palomahair8616 Год назад +1

      Happen to me to i lost a lot of weight he also done bur look so old tier wrinkled

    • @bumblebee7082
      @bumblebee7082 9 месяцев назад

      Your story,very similar to mine, he would sabotage my clean eating efforts ! Congrats on getting yourself back !

  • @bumblebee7082
    @bumblebee7082 9 месяцев назад +1

    Everything said here is true 😮,saw my ex narc hubby in court 2 days ago---I didn't recognise him at first(complexion totally changed to bad),no more face treatments and organic food. You could see he aint happy( though he is still rude and angry), he also didnt recognise me(glow up),Ive lost 13kilos and Im glowing through prayer and fasting and clean eating. He looked like he sleeps on alcohol,he's aged a LOT....in only 4 months of seperation. I aint laughing,but OMW Ms T,this stuff is real

  • @Pressure404
    @Pressure404 11 дней назад

    It’s the laugh for me🤣🤣💜

  • @coldplaychica
    @coldplaychica Год назад +3

    🎤🎶”If ya rocks wit ya girllll” 🎶 love that part 😊

  • @Glitter504
    @Glitter504 Год назад +2

    Yes my ex hated himself to no end !!! He said that

  • @shannonsalazar3237
    @shannonsalazar3237 Год назад +2

    Ms. Tea you cuttin up and now im cuttin up😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @genevas-grace
    @genevas-grace Год назад +4

    I just hollered!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I love you Telsha you are a beautiful breath of fresh air!!!🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗
    Fighting them demons all night he used jump and kick all night it was ridiculous. Big ol giraffe probably did it on purpose. Never experienced anything like it.

  • @stephaniethomas91
    @stephaniethomas91 Год назад +4

    U are Soo right Siss . The Ex narc use to wake up & I would say Good morning. He would say please don't talk to me it's to early.

  • @strny4538
    @strny4538 Год назад +3

    😂lolol. Too too much. Cried all day cause of him. Now I can't stop laughing.😂

  • @rael3351
    @rael3351 2 месяца назад

    Can they ever see themselves as foolish and hateful...😮😮

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 Год назад +5

    I knew something was up when I saw his updated profile pic on FB. He took this picture looking like Sherlock Holmes sitting at the fireplace with a pipe, made him look much older. I was like, what is he doing but we know that was to get attention. But when I saw a pic of her, I was like...really. She's 62 yo taking a lot of selfies, looking seductive, in his truck. She had been looking for a job, she lived in an apartment so with him, she hit the jackpot. He did all this renovating to the house for her..still a house of hell. Funny, thing, when the people that KNOW their patterns and confront him about what he's doing, he lies. Every time he has a new supply, he does the most. He spends the $ to get them but can't keep them. And the not sleeping all night, I was NOT used to that. Always around 3am, them spirits be rocking, tv on, snack bags opening. Its crazy. Whenever I got back to my place I was excited to finally get rest. Between ALWAYS being on the go and them not sleeping all night, you're destined for early death.

    • @rare_breed35
      @rare_breed35 Год назад +1

      My ex narc would never let me go home in peace.. blow my phone up the whole time with false accusations and whatever they could think of, to make sure they ruined any time I had away from them😩 Soooo glad I’m out of that hell hole. Never experienced anything like it in my life!! They are horrible!

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Год назад +1

      i dont even know if he got FB, but ive been getting fake friend request, and my page hacked lol

    • @rare_breed35
      @rare_breed35 Год назад +1

      @@peacefaith560 I ended up having to just deactivate mine.. got tired of blocking all those pages lol 😒

    • @Peacealways247
      @Peacealways247 Год назад

      @@rare_breed35 I blocked everyone..him, new wife, I only met one family through him, blocked them too, mutual friends which he didn't have but so few, people from church that knew our relationship because folks be nosey. One thing I never did was post pics of us. He posted 1 and tagges me, I untagged myself. He used my work cell # as the # to hoover me but I had gotten another job so if he has tried to contact me, good luck. Yep, I've gotten a few fake friend requests block everyone of them. It's just ridiculous the time it takes to do away with these folks but I do not mind just hitting a button. If they see, they see. Someone is going to tell them either way just say NO! We cannot hide when God has a work for us to do.

  • @rael3351
    @rael3351 2 месяца назад

    Yes the narc I was with could not sleep. Such evil😮😮😮

  • @ms.generatorsnatcher9974
    @ms.generatorsnatcher9974 Год назад +1

    When I got him out of my house, I didn't look back. At court for restraining order, he looked like he hadn't eaten in a while. I haven't seen him and not looking for him. May the Lord have mercy!

  • @williamgrant3911
    @williamgrant3911 Год назад +6

    Those damn byrdz! Ms T you are fantastic and your videos are really helping me through this difficult time. Best wishes from the UK

  • @MrDDUDLEY10
    @MrDDUDLEY10 Год назад +3

    It’s the peeling of the back of the shoe for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jerrybissessar3837
    @jerrybissessar3837 Год назад +2

    Love it! The devil loads them with daily dose of misery. Hallelujah!!

  • @Ankhakaru
    @Ankhakaru Год назад +3

    Tea I love you!!! Yes I said IT!!!

  • @mariasewell3825
    @mariasewell3825 Год назад +2

    Yeah, the one I knew he used to sit in my car in and use the gas. He couldn’t drive it because he had no license and he couldn’t drive and used to run the car to the gas right now and then I come from work I had to go and refilled my car with gas again and then when I couldn’t take it to work he would play the music I’m running out the whole day and he was so that was so stupid how immature that was.

  • @onestrongmother6365
    @onestrongmother6365 Год назад +6

    😂😂 love your mood and message today 💯

  • @denisemariani6958
    @denisemariani6958 Год назад +3

    Don't apologize, you're killing it.😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 Год назад +5

    Please keep me in your prayers I appreciate it thank you 🙏🙏

  • @christellavillatoro7687
    @christellavillatoro7687 Год назад +1

    The names - speak on it!!! Call them a loser & watch….

  • @yvonnelee3712
    @yvonnelee3712 4 месяца назад

    I’m a gym freak and i noticed when he was getting other supply that he started putting back on all the weight he lost with me and I helped him get fit & look good. He’s gone back to being busted with whatever supply he’s with and he can’t drive. I wish him no ill but to the other women - GOOD LUCK WITH THAT ONE! He ain’t NEVER coming back to me 😂

  • @WTWE-i3m
    @WTWE-i3m Год назад +1

    My daughter came out of my own experience. She is the best thing that did. 😊❤

  • @phoenixLeoRising333
    @phoenixLeoRising333 11 месяцев назад +2

    He was 300lbs plus when I met him. He dressed nice & he was cute. I’m the fit one. It drove him crazy that I ate pretty clean & when I wanted to eat bad I could bcuz I train faithfully. He has sleep apnea. He would cut down trees when he slept he snored so bad! He would shake his foot to breath when he stopped breathing. I was scared to go to sleep next to him. He lives in misery daily. I would encourage him to eat veggies he refused! Don’t get me started on his slides poor heels on the slippers I swear we’re singing “ We fall down but we get up” by Donnie Mcclurkin 😂😂😂😂😂 Lord forgive me! How you gone be a narc & unhealthy??
    I’m not fat shaming anyone! I loved him no matter what size he was but he loathed himself so he couldn’t love me.

  • @vanessamorey3812
    @vanessamorey3812 Год назад +4

    Dusty britches LMFAO!! 😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉
    OMG! You're killing me!! LOL!!! 😊

  • @deniseendsley8206
    @deniseendsley8206 Год назад +6

    ❤❤Wholeness ❤❤ Such a blessing thank you Telsha

  • @deenice5255
    @deenice5255 3 месяца назад

    Girl you are soo Crazy, made me, LMAO doing this LIVE🤣 😂😅

  • @shannonsalazar3237
    @shannonsalazar3237 Год назад +5

    He had a wonderful life with me loving him even when he treated me like he didn't even like me. Now my people telling me they see him sleeping in a car with the window busted out with the new supply he calls his wife...future faking backwards walking giraffes with clacking heals....begging at gas stations in front of my friends jobs for money because hes too lazy to ever keep a job or get one. I never wished him bad always wanted good for him. My friends calling me almost everyday telling me they saw him coming from their houses begging at the gas stations they go to. He is on drugs pilks weed herion and phyntonol and hes an Alcoholic He would abuse me so bad when he was drinking.KARMA is real the GOD of heaven and earth is the real gangsta of KARMA Don't play with GODs children.❤❤❤❤

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 6 дней назад +1

      OMG - my same story.. now I don’t care if he lives or dies. NC 5 yrs - whereabouts unknown 🎉

  • @ericakocak
    @ericakocak 5 месяцев назад

    The heels hahah thanks for a good laugh. Your Joe's help me feel better

  • @tyreewilliams7954
    @tyreewilliams7954 Год назад +3

    For real Ms. Telsha britches 😂😂😂, laugh of today 💯

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 Год назад +2

    Those sightings tell’s it all Sis🤣🧐🤣SERIOUSLY 💯THAT NARC 👀 LOOKS DOWN BAD SSUUGGAARRR 🙅🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️👿🤡

  • @heatherslifestyle85
    @heatherslifestyle85 Год назад +2

    I just cannot with you today. The new supply in my situation had me in total shock!! Could not believe how opposite she was of me. They were in the struggle together while trusted God and moved on and flourished!!

  • @chrystalearly5216
    @chrystalearly5216 Год назад +2

    You gone preach after while 😃

  • @nikkired4925
    @nikkired4925 Год назад +2

    If you rock with your GIRLLLL❤ 😊 Now y'all hit that 👍 we got to get her to 2,000 +++❤❤❤❤❤👍👍👍👍

  • @cmockingjay7265
    @cmockingjay7265 Год назад +2

    Oh my gosh you and Quin need to do a show together!