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Narcs can steal our honey 🍯 but not our soul-full means of making it 🐝⛲ and they'll feel the sting of our absence long after we leave without us losing our stingers if we make our moves to leave in silence 🤫! Yes Tea, narcs underestimate losing the main cog in their fuel generator when it starts going wonkier than the 3 legged stool hiding under their mask which falls apart under stress to reveal their projected true colours we can 👁️to toss back at them with a hard and fast door slam and change of locks to block! Side stepping zebras can go hoover themselves! It's a sign we're too strong for them if they don't hoover us! Thanks for inspiring Telsha and your voice is sooo beautiful 🎶😇😍 Bella wants in too!! She's a gorgeous floofy girl! 😅💓🐩💓 Love you Queen, avagooday!! xox 👑👸👑🌹🙏💪💞🕊️🤗👋
Please explain the terms honey and bees
@@mandatereporter7928 Hey Sis, no worries, thanks for asking! 💕🤗👋
If you can imagine the empath as a bee 🐝 who may die if they lose their stinger to a predator and honey 🍯 as gifts, talents, skills, money, sovereignty, ability to love, find peace and joy, be alone if needs be, build with others, access God, heal, be empathetic, step into their calling to heal others, etc., then see that the narcissist tries to copy and steal the empath's good qualites much as man steals a bee's honey for his own needs, the narcissist takes to boost their own egos while deflating, draining and undermining the empath to the point where the empath feels they've had all their joy sucked out and can barely function so to survive they'd need to get away from the narc to heal themselves and remember that they always did, still do and will always have, the methods and means for restoring all of their God given good, empathic qualities, skills, abilities and purpose of service once they turn to God and free themselves from the narc, whereas like the bee farmer who can't make his own honey without going to steal it from the bees, the narcissist needs to steal from empaths to keep their supply chain going to meet their fuel, feed, finance, freak needs.
The narcissist needs the empath but the empath doesn't need the narcissist. 🗝
It's a smarter move for the empath to escape the narcissist before feeling so drained and angry about the mistreatment and abuse that fightback to survive becomes inevitable as an empath will act out of character much like a bee will sting even though it knows it will die once it's stinger is gone and the narcissist will take advantage of any emotional reaction, criticism or challenge from the empath to further punish and abuse as their mission is to destroy the empath.
I hope I've explained that properly? I was thinking I could answer it in fewer words! Sending lots of love and peace to you and yours Sis xox 🙏💪💕😊✌️👋 ✨ ✨ ✨
@@louisegarner8888 That makes sense thanks
@@mandatereporter7928 Oh good to know, I went a bit overboard there but Telsha's the best for giving us visuals on narc empath dynamics to inspire us about those bee stomping, side stepping zebras and hell-mentored frogs in psychedelic tutus with chinese crested woofers perched on their slippery, stinky behinds that need a good army booting to the curb! 😅😂💕😘✌️
@@louisegarner8888 can’t make any of this stuff up Lol
Wow! That’s a real word: They had one assignment. That was to destroy you, and they failed. May every demon assigned to me and my bloodline, forever fail, in Jesus’s name!
Amen
Amen
In the mighty name of Jesus
Amen
Amen and Amen
They don't get with someone better, they get with someone that doesn't know any better.
The narcissist has no way to me.
I’ve deleted all social media.
I’ve changed my phone number and all of my information.
He’s in the pitch DARK as far as my personal life goes. Amen and Amen.
IMA just b TOXIC FOREVER I GUESS
@@Ronald-pz1lxthat is your choice.
YES
When the devil cannot show up .. he’s sends in a Narcissist ❤ avoid them at all cost!
They never change..will do same thing with the next one. I discarded him!
😂😂 me too.
I changed my number so The Narc and Flying monkeys can’t contact me…I shut them down before they even started. 😆
No weirdo demon formed against me shall prosper!
So true Telsha.
I quit my narc, but after 3 months being free he started hovering last week. I refused his invite to dinner, but he still continued anyhow I sent him one RC Blake's video on Narcissism last night. He flipped out, went into a devaluing rant via text and blocked himself-didn't give me a chance to respond and blocked himself... Thank you Jesus. I'm continuing to cover myself by the blood of Jesus.
😂😂😂 I act dumb about the whole situation....I did think about sending him some RC Blakes though. I just told myself if not even Jesus can save him, why would I even try🤷🏻♀️
Love it, that was the perfect way to shut that Narcissistic demon up.
😂😂😂
Gotta love it when they suddenly go into a rage cause u figured them out good for u mate 👍
Amen my sister!🙏
After the discard, the narcissist flew a drone with a camera attached over my house, then sent me the video. He literally hoovered above my house. He did this several times. I ignored it and after months it eventually stopped. These people are literally crazy.
The cycle has to continue with every supply because that's how the disorder operates in order to control. The disorder has to control the supply. That is how they get the fuel that they need. The need for fuel has to be satisfied in order for them to cope and operate. The supplies feelings don't matter. It has nothing to do with you so don't take it personal. You are dealing with a machine that has targeted , baited and tried to take you over and destroy who you are in order to control you and secure you for a supply source. It's not really difficult to figure out , it's just that when you are in love (or think you are in love or have a special bond) with this person, you are not dealing with a person really but a demonic spirit that needs fuel in order to operate and control. If you try to reason or try to keep loving this person it will eventually drive you crazy.
Be very careful who you let in your circle.
Facts
Facts it’s a demonic spirit. The devil seeks to destroy gif creation which is man. The devil he was a lier from the beginning he deceived the whole world.
Facts it’s a demonic spirit. The devil seeks to destroy gif creation which is man. The devil he was a lier from the beginning he deceived the whole world.
I’ve been saying all along that it’s Demonic! He’s infested and I believe the strongman is Jezebel .. THANK YOU
So true. This spirit told me I was not a gem to him AFTER I have helped him on numerous occasions, loyal, there when he needed me. Smh. It was to think he was breaking my spirit. It's not his to break. No matter how hard he tried. He will never be unblocked. It's an evil spirit. I feel this.
It's almost been two years since the disgard. And I still get calls from odd numbers. If by chance I answer they just hang up. That clown lost grad a supply when I got out. They are unstable absolutely. But that's no longer my concern, I more concerned about my healing and putting that period of my life in the rear veiw as far as possible.😌
Facts 💯
Same here...all kinds of app numbers..fake!
Same...
In a couple of weeks it will be a year that I DISCARDED HIM! I went NO CONTACT FOREVER and BLOCKED HIM FOR LIFE! After I found out he had been stepping out our whole relationship! He has not seen or heard from me again since that day! He did try to Hoover about a month out! Epic Fail on his part. That is when I BLOCKED him! Yesterday I got a Random message on my Instagram. Weird because I am not following him or him me! The message said I am glad my pain makes you happy🤔 Pain Seriously? They always play the victim 🙄 I guess the Pain I went through was Situational and I brushed it off! BOY PLEASE go sit in a corner somewhere! Watch this .......... Total Silence Moron Double Standards game I don't play! Haha he must be low on Supplies! Doing a Temperature Check!! NOT TODAY SATAN OR EVER AGAIN! BYE😂
I wish I could say two years. My situation is unfair. Find a good lawyer to get this fake marriage out of my life. I'm doing good going no contact for 4 months and 11 days. A week ago, I got a text from a strange number. It was him. I thank Yah for delivering me from this wicked narcissist. I'm healing and getting better each day.
Apparently there’s a narc supply shortage- ex narc hovered me after 3 days showed up unannounced, and asked for closure. Hell no I told him to close the door that’s the only closure you need.
When I got discarded. Then I took the hoover fell in the trap. She told she was confused. I went back. I DISCARDED HER. IM NOT CONFUSED. SHE IS ALL THAT N SOME!! A FOOL N CRAZY. IM DONE
After I discarded him for hitting me, he went off the chain for six months.. smearing my name, in and out of jail, drinking, bad tempers, rage, etc! Ended up hitting his own neice. Spent 4 hours in jail only… friends with sheriff.. go figure! I thank God for delivering me out of that toxic relationship! 🙏🙏🙏
How did my ex diagnosed with NPD get over me, he married his new supply, got a new job with lots of new supply.
He never had complete control over me for 11 years.
He never got my money, my soul or my mind, only my heart! I won.
Agreed. They’re confused because they don’t understand why you discarded them after all the shit they did to you or why they discarded you and you didn’t chase them.
You didn’t chase them. Yea, that part! Lol.
Correct!
@@kimberlys347
After 15 years of an emotional torture, I discard him , my final straw. All his family laughed and think I was crazy that I will take him back again. It's been 5 strong months of no contact. I changed my phone number and I stopped talking to his monkeys. I feel good and I am healing. The wonderful part about it all is that my children are healing too. Every man that comes my way I see the red flags. I don't even pay them any attention. I went through so much for 15 years. I divorced him during the 12 years, And he came begging to make it work. An extra 3 years went by of complete silence. Oh they played that good love bombing for a minute and then of course the mask came out. They were worst than the 1st. I am so glad I can say it is over. I will never go back to that depression. Aint no man will ever put me through that depression state again. Stay safe my lady.
@@ms.s1321 🎯🎯🎯
You didn't chase them is right
Pray for me🙏, ex narc started back hovering last night.... dropped off flowers in the middle of the night, I threw them out. I've been free almost 1yr and it was the best decision of my life.
Wow a yr nc and they did that wow that’s crazy and sickening 🤦🏾♀️
That’s so scary crap. I am praying for you
My husband who left ne is the most dirty way violated the Restraining order and did a fake pocket call left a 3 minute recording of him walking the gag is the last time we talk was about a year ago so i should not be in his call log, and he also called at 12:16 pm my birthday is 12:16. He's creepy and weird.
I'm willing to help you in anyway that I can, from my perspective, learning what makes them tick is a big plus. Because I thought I was just crazy, now I know that they are demonic an anything but normal, walk away asap! You are in my prayers an thoughts. If I could tell you some of the things I went through surely you may gain the strength to discard. Keep your head up.
My ex said he doesn’t like to be alone because he fights with himself. ....Physically 😐. I thought it was a joke but now I know why. ...He’s absolutely crazy
I’m laughing omg wtf. Are these things fucking demons bruh
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦♀️🤦♀️ Dam smh
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂Wowwww..You have to explain more. This is Gold!😂
dang lol. I feel a bit bad for them, though
Not crazy... EVIL! He's fighting with his demons. And that's not a game; it's a fact! Mine had a psychotic breakdown after a narcissistic collapse and I LITERALLY saw a demon. His eyes had changed... a demon had emerged, and was talking reckless. But, it was powerless over me because I have the Holy Spirit abiding in me. I always marvel at how resistant people are to accepting that demons are REAL. If we accept and believe in goodness why are we so unaccepting of the wickedness in the earth. We're told that the enemy is sent to steal, kill and destroy and that he roams the earth like a lion seeking to devour whom he will. It's written and it's TRUTH.
Honey you took me out when you said that's why they can't sleep! Up all night long.
👑🥂One of the very first to add demonology & narcissism in the same sentence 💯 opened my eyes to how serious this is , they are everywhere
Yes …!! AMEN
Ephesians 6: 12 we do not fight against flesh and blood but of wickedness in spiritual places
Thank you. It’s been a couple of years since I 100% left him alone. He’s been recently sentenced to 56 years, 4 months, to Life for 1st degree murder. God bless you❤️
Praise God that you got out and stayed out. Death was not your portion.
Grade A supply is valuable to the narcissist, as we serve as their anchor of stability that enables them to narc their dirty deeds. We are valuable, enabling anchors that they do not want to give up yet have no problem making us the main kicking dog at the same time.
You said a mouthful. They make us the main kicking dog.
Facts!
How sick is that ???!!! 😡that’s why I dumped him snatched that power grid went no contact 😂😂😂
Well well well ain't that some 💩💩💩
"What just happened here, I loss another one?" Yes Narc, "I caught on to your mess and I have your number now." Door 🚪 closed!!
Yep!!!!💪🏾💪🏾
Had a dream the narc was outside my house but there were people who wouldn’t let the narc in. Couldn’t see the faces of these people. Shortly after I started getting the weird 2am calls.
That was God warning you that he was coming. The people not letting him in was God's way of telling you you're protected and to continue to stand your ground against him
The Narcissist tried to destroy me but im Gods child, failed mission on their part
My neck was broken by the nark last February and he's still calling me a lunatic. I think sometimes we just have to accept that you can't change these people or even tell them breaking your neck is criminal. I despair of how life is going these days girls, it's certainly a place I don't seem to recognise xx
Thank God you didn't die people put him in jail he will kill you the next time
The 13:00 minute marks has ne cracking up, " One demon wanna stay up, the other wanna sleep they can't get on the right sleep schedule" 😂😂😂
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I had a friend that was narcissistic. I confronted her about her behavior and she said she didn't understand what happened. I was wondering how she couldn't understand how messed up her behavior was, because when other people did the same thing she did she knew it was wrong.
I live in the country and he showed up at my place once and I saw him through the window taking a 💩in my yard!!
I am on the floor😂😂😂
You had me dying with a million hours of therapy 😂
Lolol!!
I started watching your videos and I love it because up until now I felt lonely and missing the narcissist thinking that I was wrong but girl let me tell you you made me open up my eyes !!!! Miss who ? Feel guilty why? Because he eat my heart and my life for 12 years ! I will listen to you every day to get on my feet and I recommend you to my girls too! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Stay Strong !! You got this !!!
I love when you SANG 🗣🎶If Ya ROCKKKkks With YAAA Girlllll!!! 🎵🎶🥰🥰🥰🫖👑
I been in a lot of relationships in my life an I never been in something like this …. This wasn’t normal 🤨🤦🏿♂️
Recycled pigeon gets me every single time lol Thanks for the smile!
My whole family is made up of malignant narcissists that have slandered my name to dentists, gas station attendants, indeed, and my employers and coworkers. I'm not holding my breath on forming long term relationships with women in particular cause then they'd eventually want to meet the "fam" I just hope I can escape one day and I'm curious how many empaths just stay single after being in a narcissistic relationship.
When you talked about the not sleeping do to the demonic presence is what made me subscribe to your page I needed someone else to understand the truth of that. Thank you
He gave my mother a dining room set and set it up in her garage. A way of controlling. He knew I parked in the garage when I stayed over……. I marched it right to the alley. The sleep part just confirmed what I saw. I would literally sit up and watch him squirm, toss and turn with a sad moan. I’m convinced now he was fighting demons within👹Exorcism ☠️
That's too crazy 🤣🤣🤣
I had one who said they wanted to be with me, I said no, then he asked could we be friends, I said yeah then he ghosted me… then I started ignoring him and he played victim, then ghosted me again 😂😂 I’m like oh I know what this is! I been watching Auntie videos for a while now! Goodbye!! 😂
Stalking me through our children. Where’s your mom, did she buy a house, where is she living Non of your business BIRD! Smh! 2 months, zero contact after 34 years of marriage. Getting my peace back!! Glory be to God!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
To God be the Glory 🙌🏽
That's ridiculous he's using them. Have a talk with the kids and explain to them the importance of not leaking any info to him and tell the kids whatever questions he ask them to reply back with "ASK MOM."
I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU MISS TELSHA. YOU TALKED ABOUT A TOPIC THAT I EXPERIENCED. THEY WILL ATTACK YOUR CHARACTER ( PROJECTING) 👈 REAL TALK.. LACK ACCOUNTABILITY, OWNERSHIP AND RESPONSIBILITY. PROMISCUOUS IS SOOOOO TRUE 👀, 15 YRS NARC FREE, I'M SO HAPPY I LEFT HIM HALLELUJAH 💃💃💃
So true!! Bless you! Three years narc free here! 🙏🙏
@@ms.angieb.1597 BLESS YOU MS. ANGIE B. KEEP HOLDING ON STRONG 💪 🙏
@@CAROLYN143-8-9 yes you do the same Carolyn!🙏
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The last thing she said to me was that she had a future that she was beautiful and that she had love in her life. All of those things was the things that I had. Thinking about it now. She never ever acknowledged my worth to what I really was
They are masters of hurtful words, and you are right JS. They see your worth as their own. All of the things you have they do not. They never will. Keep in the light.
My ex just tried to hoover again twice this past week by texting from new numbers. I promptly blocked the new numbers. It’s been like 4 years and he still sidles back when he’s going through something. Mostly when the new supply isn’t supplying what he needs. It’s sad because I can just imagine how many of his other ex’s his doing the same way. It’s sickening to think about to be honest!
I’m almost 1 year and half since my narc situation and I’m so blessed I walked away that last time and never looked back and couldn’t pay me enough to deal with that demon thank god I ran into my wife which has been a completely different situation I really
lucked🍀 up I tell you
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Bless you my brother!🙏
Family, our unresolved past made us desperate which allowed the narc to take advantage. When we pour that love and affection into ourself and begin to heal, when we encounter toxic individuals the red flags will not be ignored. Because our resolve will become sturdy and unpenetrable. Praise God for his guidance and to communities like this that provide support and knowledge.
Your words spoke directly to my soul. Thank you ✌️
You're absolutely right about their confusion at the time of discard, Sis. For 2 weeks before it happened, he was constantly sending me selfies and videos of himself while he was on the road. He was crying in all of them. Telling me how much he was missing me, and wanted to be here with me. He'd say that he loved me so much and needed to hug me tight. Or..... he'd be insanely excited and giddy. But all of that crying! At the time, I couldn't figure it out.
Now that I'm far past that discard and fully no contact, I believe (in retrospect) that he was so utterly confused. He had already sucked in his new supply and was ready to monkey branch over to her....but, y'all, he's such A GODLY MAN! Oh yeah, he wanted her badly, but she's not a believer and he'd already said that he'd only be with a Godly woman. I honestly think that he thought he could force her into his beliefs, so that he could continue to play his "Godly man" part. Hahaha....
He'd say strange things that I didn't understand at the time, like, "Audrene, I love that you pray over me day and night. Pray for me now, Baby. You're my good woman. You love me so much." Then he'd push away. Yep. I believe he was scared to make the jump. He knew what he was leaving behind, but he wanted her.
See? Just reading that is confusing! But that's how these spirits work! From a place of confusion and contradiction. That is how you know that it is NOT OF GOD. That's from the ENEMY because he's a LIAR!
Sis Telsha, God has anointed you for this time. I'm giving Him praise and glory for that! From all of us that God has used you to help, and for those coming out behind us, that He'll also help through you...
We appreciate you and we love you! God bless you Telsha! 💗🙏🏼
As a Christian woman it breaks my heart when people: use",Christianity and they are not Christians, they are false Saints to manipulate the true Saints to take away their virtues.
@@jenniferhaynes8625 I agree with that 100 percent. When I was out there whining to people about wanting a Godly husband, and a covenant marriage, Satan heard that, and he assigned this "Christian" man to come into my life. Sweep me off my unbalanced feet, and take me down that road to perdition. Fornication. Idolatry.
The devil is a liar! And a THIEF. I'm done letting him steal from me!
@@jenniferhaynes8625
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They are under the influence of SATANIC
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@@jenniferhaynes8625 Profoundly stated!
They really are confused, then blame you. My ex started blaming me for things I said (I called him out his inconsistencies, etc…), and when I said I didn’t want to hear his excuses, he said “now that he’s FINALLY sharing his feelings, I don’t want to listen!” I was like, boy bye 👋 ✌🏽 🤦🏽♀️ They really are sick and delusional and want to entangle you up with the chaos. PLS LET SOMEBODY ELSE DO IT!
Always u
You are absolutely hilarious. When I watch your videos I immediately feel so much better it’s like I’m with a good friend. Thank you so much for all you do. And you are so right about them not doing better after they leave you or after in my case I left him because I got tired of being kicked and punched and pushed and interrogated for hours for merely looking at a guy when in fact it was hit him that was cheating the whole time. I finally left and he immediately started dating another woman this was after 16 years of marriage. He started dating somebody literally a few days after I left. He moved in with her almost right away. Several months ago I got a message from this woman’s daughter very concerned about her mother. She felt that her mother was being abused but isolated and she was very worried and she asked me if he was OK or not. Well I got my moment of glory and it was sad and at the same time confirming for me. Sad because I don’t like the idea of another woman suffering like that because I know how much I suffered. And at the same time itIt confirmed that I was justified leaving.
Bless your heart. I did everything for that man. Best thing he will ever have. Loved him unconditionally for years. He abused the hell out of me and said the most horrific things to me even imaginable. 😢 no hoover yet .. been a few weeks ghosted. He sabotaged himself and a million hrs of therapy would not be enough.
Hi..you ok now I just regret meeting the narc. Was two years. I'm four wk out
Update ?
Wow......you said it! I sometimes have wondered if the narc was really confused or if it was all just an act............ And you nailed it.......the different demons are throwing a tantrum cause some want to go to bed and the others ones don't....lolol...........This was so helpful!
Kara Dodge,Hope you are not with a narcissist.....
This is why one of their tools is sleep deprivation.
Whew this is was my ex .. he is definitely demonic .. I blocked him so he won’t bring my sprit down to the ground … being with a narcissistic is extremely exhausting.. I’m 10 weeks pregnant and I’m protecting my energy at all cost … my baby is a blessing but I wished I never believed his lies .. 😭when you’re a highly highly highly sensitive empath you need to stay away from people like that .. they’ll tear you down until you can’t stand it any longer ..
I went through the same as you or worse. Prayer saved me
@@Justhavefaith- prayer is saving me too .
If it wasn't for God's grace he would have killed me a long time ago
You described my ex after the breakup. She ended our relationship but told me I shouldn’t move on but instead wait on her. When she saw I moved on and she didn’t have control over me. She did everything you said. Calling from block numbers and telling people she still love me. I done and never looking back!
This is so on point! A fool despises wisdom OMG! BABY!! When I say you have read that demon...a perpetual complainer...going in cycles in toxic relationships...playing the victim and the list goes on. I have been so drained and now I am fed up. Cut! Door closed! You wont snuff out my great ebergy anymore! Thank you thank you thank you!!!
It’s crazy because I was called the narcissist but I’m not the narcissist.. my ex is, she devauled me and discarded me after a dropped call.. she thought I put her on hold and she flipped out on me.. she brought up things that happened weeks ago and made me feel like the worst person ever.. I never experienced that before… I was at work and I had a panic attack because she just kept texting me and I really wanted to talk on the phone.. man she crossed my boundaries and baited me into accepting what she felt.. I never felt like such an idiot.
Let them fall into whatever is there for them. Don't care, don't give in, don't respond periodt!
I had to take my own advice. The individual reached out to me through Facebook and I almost slipped thinking maybe the changed, matured, but I had to tell me , Dont.do it boy!
Narcissistic free since November 2021 no contact 👀 Praise God I turned to Jesus & therapy to set me free❤️I am loving me now and will never go back to what almost destroyed me 👍Sending prayers to all suffering in silence
He doesn't. He's lost without me 😂😂😭
Lol😂
So true, Telsha! Mine bought a shack paid cash in another state - didn't tell me! Also, ripped out all the plants/trees I planted in his yard when we were married as soon as I moved out. When I went no contact for almost 3 months, he got mad that I didn't call him on his birthday so the next day he filed for divorce. His brother spent a week with him trying to help him fix his shack and he said something is very very wrong with him mentally. He said he was on eggshells the whole week and he is very concerned about him now. He even had a family meeting over him - this was when I was no contact, so that tells me he was going crazy because I wasn't talking to him.. Even though he had the neighbor lady on the side, so evidentally she wasn't making him happy. Now he can have her 24/7!!!. Addicted to dope (smoked it all day and all during the night!!!) I went no contact when he told me the neighbor lady has been coming over and his bed smelled like cig smoke really bad. Disowned the whole family - he has no idea what's going on with me and I feel good about that, but still sad about the whole thing!
Lol, I decided not to celebrate his next month.
@@bridgesbridges7179 Good for you! You should do something fun and treat yourself that day!
@@delightfuldeb1218 lol, good suggestion. I most definitely will.
Yes! He came knocking on my door bc the kids are fed up with him and they refuse to respond to his texts. Like I'm going to be able to fix that.
Same here, kids are smart and know what they are about. Sad!!!
You should've told him he has no right to just pop up at your house unannounced and not to do it again
I don’t care what someone who tries to kill me is going through
"Gone ham, egg, and cheese on the family". 😄
This channel is Golden!!! They always play the victim....their goal is to destroy you.
Facts Sis!! Thank you and welcome!!💗🙏🏽💯🙌🏽💗
I finally put my foot down and stop dealing with this narc completely, but now my family members are being hoover by the narc.
Have a group meeting and tell them all what's going on and why he's doing it.
He discarded me and 3 months later he said that because of my absence he was treating people bad at work and he almost losed his job. I am guilty for every single thing that happens in his life #byedevil
So very true, my ex said he don’t know why he keep losing people
I said to him on a couple of occasions.. look at the common denominator.. IT’S YOU.. in one ear out the other.. oh well, I tried
You have given me a much deeper understanding on this situation. I want to thank you so much for this insight.
God bless you.🙏🙏
No more good cuisine type meals because the new supply can't cook and they deserve somebody who can't cook smh.
No coping for a narc. They move on b4 their bags are packed
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She just started to try and devalue me a day before I pushed her to brake it off she broke up and the next morning I dipped no contact and a protective order she is driving by my house more and more that is carma should never have tried to do me this way God has my back has and always will
I found this right on time. Just discovered my cheating ex is a narc. This was much needed education and levity. Thank you for this.
I love your channel.. u make me laugh and give me hope.. my current situation. I discarded mine after one wk of giving birth to my second child.. and he’s already w someone else (2m) NO CONTACT and looking fwd w/ all my might! And yes he was up the whole night and on types of sleeping meds and he abuses pills as well.. he did .. he blamed me for everything.. but I’m too strong minded to even believe this… it hurts bc I gave him 2 kids but ima keep myself and my kids away from him and his flying monkeys.. his family (the enablers) especially his Mom.. doing voodoo on me and him.. true evil they all are..
I can attest to them going HAM on the family! His sister in law had to block him and no longer speak anymore. His brother and sister and law were the only ones to try to mediate our child care arrangements, because I couldn't work with him anymore. They got to see how he acted towards me first hand.
This is true. When you remove yourself from the situation they have no choice but to treat others the way they treated you. They expose themselves because you are no longer the target. All you have to do is stay away and enjoy the show with others especially the flying monkeys because that’s when they see them for who they really are. Stay No/low contact.
You are so true and refreshing. I absolutely love how straight up you are. I am a white woman and you so speak my language. God bless Sister.
My dear you have spoken the absolute truth I experienced the things you said, keep speaking this truth....
I have been no contact for 10 weeks now. it was a terrible discard. 18 year relationship w/this guy.. i had heavy hand in raising his children...his son died in a drowning accident on April 6th...by April 7th, he refused me or anyone in my family to help in the recovery efforts for his son (who was like a son to me). by April 10th he stopped answering my phone calls and texts. By April 16th I went to his house (we retain our own homes.. thank you Jesus!!) when I showed up he started screaming at me to get the "f" out of his house, told me we were "done forever" that his son "hated" me so he "hates" me, said "it is all your fault that Jonny is dead" which broke my heart because I love Jonny (not to mention it was a fishing accident in a different state than I was in at the time) and told me that if I didn't get out of his house he was going to physically hurt me. I left silently with him slamming the door in my face...he refused me or my family to go to the funeral and it turns out he brought his girlfriend and her daughter instead. I found out he had a girlfriend from pictures Mutual friends put up on facebook from the funeral as well as telling people in our small town of 2000 people that know we have been together for 18 years that we were "long" done and he had a new girlfriend now. he talked about his ex-girlfriend from highschool (they are both 56 now) here and there over the last 18 years but I didn't think much about it until I saw them together at the funeral...if that wasn't enough, he singled out 1 of my daughters and personally invited only her to the funeral but I understand now it was just to hurt her by seeing him with a woman who was not her mother...pretty low. I say all this because there has not been any hoovers and not a peep from any of our "friends" or family to me. it's like the whole mass of them have disappeared and I feel like that 18 year relationship was just a dream (nightmare) but still a dream, like non of it was real. every bit of it was a lie. I know God snatched me out of that situation for my protection. I hear he is trying to destroy Jonny's wife right now. trying to erase her like she never existed as well. Sad, sorry delusional, crazy, hate filled, desperate narc...GOOD RIDDANCE to bad rubbish! I am actually so GRATEFUL he is leaving me alone...my heart goes out to Jonny's wife! also, Jonny was the "scape goat" child so I would be very interested to see who gets the Narc's rage now that the scapegoat passed away and he discarded me! There is zero coping skills going on right now!! YIKES!
How low can a person go
I absolutely LOVE the healing wisdom you’re sharing. Feed me young lady!
Thank you from the Interior Smokies of East TN.
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This is unreal... Never heard this before realizing what just happened.... Sad
And Now they Changed. Please Take Me Back. I'M A NEW MAN.
Don't believe it it's still the same person STARTING SHIX AND DRAMA, ATTENTION
they are confused probably because they feel they are never wrong an always play the victim
Oh gosh did I holler when you said that’s why they can’t sleep 😂. I swear that is so true
I’ve been feeling in denial about it all recently, but there’s no denying that you just described my exact experience with the nex!
Peace 🙏
These swamp creatures are ridiculous it’s been almost 2 yrs Aug 4 th I’m still getting these fake friend request from ppl with no profile pic , BLOCKED
Wow, you know your business. That is exactly what happened to my mother. I couldn't take no more and walked away 4 years ago. Then the flying monkeys came and I kept my grounds and she stated going after my brother and sister in law. They and other keep her at a distance now and she is kind of lonely. I still feel sorry for her tho....but I ain't going back. I'm done! She did too much damage.
I can relate!!!! And I can testify.
It is sooo exhausting and draining.
These backward walking giraffes!!!
Flying monkeys are the worst.
Girl you nailed this hilarious video! My x birdbrain narc has been calling me from strange numbers for three years since the Disgard . Recently I got an unknown “supposedly wrong number” and I knew it was this guy when he asked me to forgive him for wrong number! Busted! My reply D ….Don’t ever contact me again! Unknown response Why? He’s creepy and I won’t even be with this nut again in life
Your videos keep me on my square. So grateful for the wisdom and the laughter. Thank you so much! ❤
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On point they unleash that demon on you. They are not gonna take my peace I have learned not to fool with them at all. They are the creators of destruction.
Was devalued and discarded so badly. After call ended he was calling me again. So confusing, have gone no contact for my sanity. He was clear he didnt want to be with me and wanted to be with other people and told me he will file for divorce in a few months. He will not hoover or look for me. He sounded like he was done and had already been acting indifferent. Im new to your channel, AMAZING videos, thank you!
The Narcissist ghosted me for 5 months after being together 4 years then tried to reach out 5 months later,i shut the narcissist down forever
The narcissistic woman that I was dealing with used to call me delusional all the time, that I was the liar and a few other things. Hence was dealing with her.
My Narc always said “ she down through there” & u said it best… that what he meant.. he was gonna take me down thru there…smh
I let his friend know that I know he has been telling him what’s going on, so I had to tell him it ain’t no fun when the RABBIT 🐇 got the GUN and BABY I GOT it bang bang 🧨🧨💣💣
It's been years after I have discarded the Narc. I still get random calls from local phone numbers and when I call back right away, the phone number is not in service.
Change your number
Yesssss same here.
This woman is spot on 👍
Same here Michael. She married NS only 4 months later after I discarded her. Fell for the Hoover once but never again. It was a 11 year emotional roller coaster ride and finally had to get off that ride.
1 time he said...i dont know why i am the way i am. I have so much aggresion in my body. I have issues.
At least admitted it
Such a good doggie!!!! Doesn't distract and so calm. Awe puppie!!!
An exorcism yes! Ain't nothing else going to help them 😂😂😂😂
I was grade A supply. I discarded the person approx 3 weeks ago. I feel great. So far 3 hoovers in the beg, but, not any more. You have to go on and take care of you. I am doing that now. I feel mine started the smear campaign. Who cares... I don't. I discarded her. I think the person was shocked. You are right. This person does the same thing to the next person. I discarded this person.
Diane Pinky Harman,You are beautiful,Hope you are not with a narcissist....
Absolutely not!!!!!!.
@@dianepinkyharman1346 Ok dear.I will be glad to know you.I am Oscar Williamson from Swansboro,NC.You?
Not anymore. No contact rules
@@dianepinkyharman1346 Which country are you from?
Oh yes, he went in on me! I was shocked - couldn't believe this other person came out of him!