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  • Insight on how the narcissist abuses grade a supply differently than any other supply.
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  • @rare_breed35
    @rare_breed35 Год назад +295

    “I found peace when I realized people are at war with themselves, not me.”💯

  • @nedradubose5431
    @nedradubose5431 Год назад +429

    Not only did you give me the courage to leave that demon bird but you also lead me back to the word of Christ. I truly appreciate you 😊.

  • @manifestationofgod1379
    @manifestationofgod1379 Год назад +55

    His eyes turned into snake eyes, the day I decided to leave for good... I stood at the sink crying, and I heard "run" in my spirit. I never returned! God is a way maker, I placed myself in that mess, but thank God he got me away.

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 6 месяцев назад +4

      Me Too

    • @Ronald-pz1lx
      @Ronald-pz1lx 4 месяца назад +2

      They turn black ALOT every time they do a spell or mad about some DRAMA they started 😂😂

    • @leonardyoung189
      @leonardyoung189 4 месяца назад +1

    • @Joy-di1tc
      @Joy-di1tc 4 месяца назад +1

      Happened to me to i heard the Holy Spirit said"RUN" i was standing at the kitchen zinc

  • @angelablueitt9181
    @angelablueitt9181 Год назад +129

    This was such a great word!!! "When you fall into the hands of a traumatized individual that refuses to take accountability for their trauma, you become a casualty"...that says it ALL!!!

  • @genesismakeup
    @genesismakeup Год назад +59

    Empaths are usually always Grade A supply.

    • @robertswift6101
      @robertswift6101 Год назад +3

      thats me and its back 6 years later to finish me off for good,,,,i am doing my best to run away from her

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 Год назад

      @@robertswift6101 no contact. Don't entertain her for a second.

    • @robertswift6101
      @robertswift6101 Год назад +3

      @@n.b.0212 thank you,,,no contact is the only way,,she would hurt me again

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 Год назад +3

      @@robertswift6101 you know the pattern. Stay strong!

  • @christinawhitfield1720
    @christinawhitfield1720 Год назад +95

    Lol he discarded me on Thanksgiving 😅 tried to temperature check me a week later and I never responded. Haven’t heard from him since and God has been so good to me during that time.

    • @funnygirlever
      @funnygirlever Год назад +5

      Me too. This ugly narc got Engage moved her in December 13. Something like that. Probably married now. His ugly friends messaged me he got married and some of them trying to date me now. No annoying. By the way I'm happy he got a new supply. That will keep him away from me. Lol

    • @christinawhitfield1720
      @christinawhitfield1720 Год назад +1

      @@funnygirlever yes please happy! But you know that new supply WILL suffer the same fate if not worse. Whatever you do, don’t respond to his friends. They are his flying monkeys!

    • @funnygirlever
      @funnygirlever Год назад +4

      @@christinawhitfield1720 Yes flying monkeys 😅. I feel sorry for her. He's the worst guy I dated. I'm staying single for a while and living the best life life.

    • @christinawhitfield1720
      @christinawhitfield1720 Год назад +2

      @@funnygirlever good for you!! I’m happy for you! ❤️

    • @angelabob6738
      @angelabob6738 Год назад +2

      It was the other way around same situation. But God has been good to me too! I never felt so good after I left that demon it’s a shame!!

  • @koconutkirby4135
    @koconutkirby4135 Год назад +75

    I was a primary supply. I’m no longer be abused. Thank you lord ❤

  • @jrlatina
    @jrlatina Год назад +143

    I follow lots of narc networks, but Telsha you and only you gave me the strength and courage to let this backwards walking giraffe 🦒 go and go for good!! It's still a struggle for sure but I'm hanging in there! I'm grade A, super empath, I will not be abused anymore! And i mean it!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Год назад +20

      Sis I give God all the glory!! God bless you and welcome to freedom!!💕🙏🏽🙌🏽💕

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 Год назад +8

      Thank you Lord God, Thank you Jesus so happy you escaped this demonic Narc.

    • @sll110
      @sll110 Год назад +9

      Yes, Truth teller and light holder together, Telsha.. 🔥🔥🔥🔥✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @luckyduckydaisyflower2344
    @luckyduckydaisyflower2344 Год назад +24

    The ring was meant to keep me on the hook

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 Год назад +4

      Yessss that's how I feel ti keep me there. I have woken up since I found Telsha channel

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 Год назад +23

    he treated me like a queen, wined n dined me ..he loved the streets more then me and was not a man of his word

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 Год назад +2

      Amen sounds like the Narc im with!!

    • @kiml1954
      @kiml1954 Год назад +6

      Yep they love the streets 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @angellenamay
      @angellenamay Год назад

      They can’t actually love. They imitate love and empathy but can never keep it up because it’s a lot of work for them. The streets are a cheap thrill to distract from the emptiness they feel. They are numb and their hearts are calloused, they have to keep themselves distracted at all times so they don’t have to be alone with themselves & let the truth sink in. That’s why they stir up drama & pick fights when things seem to be going well. They create chaos & steal peoples peace so they don’t have to feel the shame they try so desperately to hide from. It’s pathetic really. They want love but also see people who can love as weak. Their mistake! Those who can love are the strong ones! We keep our hearts tender because we are brave. The narcissist with the calloused heart is the cowardly weak one. Hopefully God will shake them awake one day but he respects peoples free will and unfortunately the narcissists have made their egos their own god & push God away. They are afraid little children on the inside, pretending to be powerful by manipulating others. Good luck & God bless 🤍🤍🤍

    • @holtzcouture8452
      @holtzcouture8452 9 месяцев назад +3

      I agreement too

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c 4 месяца назад

      Me too. Now they are wondering how we walked away. 😊

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird100 Год назад +122

    I love how you address the subject. Everyone talks about it from a carnal aspect but you touch the spiritual which is important bc EVERYTHING starts in the spiritual realm FIRST.

  • @xladyvol
    @xladyvol Год назад +18

    It was literally too good to be true….All of this. I’m so embarrassed

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 Год назад +4

      Right and I was angry with myself for a long time for allowing this b.s. why! 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lorrain4646
      @lorrain4646 Год назад +3

      Don't be embarrassed. Receive it as "wisdom and understanding". Thank God for the enlightenment.

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 6 месяцев назад +1

      Dont Be Embarrassed !
      You Are Not Alone
      These Demonic Spirits Are Good At What They Do
      But Once we Know, Once we Have Been Trained, Never Again Will The Dark Side Be Able To Decieve Us
      We Will See It In their Eyes
      Peace To you

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird100 Год назад +45

    Ooooo and he would tell me "Don't tell me no." It never stopped me from laughing and saying No cz I thought he was joking. Didn't realize he was trying to train me. Thank you uncovering the operation cz THIS CHICK bout to be FREE!!!

    • @LivingToLiveAgain3055
      @LivingToLiveAgain3055 Год назад +3

      Bingo!!! Because he definitely said, I’m not gonna have you telling me no!

  • @gregsouthall1139
    @gregsouthall1139 Год назад +81

    Thank you T. I was a grade A supply. Once her kids (2 girls) fell for me I started to notice the change (devalue stage). She discarded me about 2 months later before the Holidays (thanksgiving,Christmas). Now I’m in the silent treatment stage so I went no contact. I have asked the lord to guide me and now life is good. Again thank you for your words and wisdom on this matter. ❤️

    • @WorldPeace866
      @WorldPeace866 Год назад +14

      Its crazy how there is a pattern especially right before the holidays, it is so strange. My narc discarded me right before Thanksgiving/Christmas and gave me the silent treatment for those months and 12 midnight of the new year, I completely blocked her and deleted all contacts/messages. It hurt but it was the right thing to do. Be strong and pray brother

  • @Tblizzle
    @Tblizzle Год назад +15

    He would mumbled under his breath alot of slick remarks. Then I would ask what he said and he would cowar and say he didn't say anything. Even though I knew exactly what he said because I can hear very well. He wanted me to be a fool like the other supply was.

  • @nedradubose5431
    @nedradubose5431 Год назад +31

    I'm sorry I was never fooled the moment I saw I was being used I started to back off thank god.

  • @Indeyashaelaye
    @Indeyashaelaye Год назад +64

    I love your videos they're helping me tremendously to get through my divorce !! Sometimes i wish i had never met him, but i thank God that I made it out.

  • @tigerpause2470
    @tigerpause2470 Год назад +9

    Narcissism is like a disease.That can be spread throughout the whole family.You will find yourself saying Everyone MUST go!

  • @Nurseninjarider
    @Nurseninjarider Год назад +9

    I'm too special to settle for a narcissist, that's why it was so easy for me to leave. Because I love myself just as much as I did love him.

  • @Tblizzle
    @Tblizzle Год назад +17

    My ex narc would always say I NEVER TELL YOU NO. You always put everyone else before me. Yeah I had responsibilities. I don't have time to be babying no grown ass man child. He hated it

  • @nazleyvanblerk1703
    @nazleyvanblerk1703 Год назад +4

    We are on our way to being transformed from broken and fragmented to healed and whole

  • @Kristalwalker1972
    @Kristalwalker1972 Год назад +19

    No more casualties is right!!!! I have been praying and fasting that whatever is on me that keeps attracting this evil type of man, he God remove it, and make me healed and whole. I also asked God to hide me and that the only way I’m found is by the man God has for me has asked God to “FIND” me. This will NEVER be repeated ever again. One thing that his relationship did was it made me love myself the way God loves me and it gave me a deeper relationship with the Lord. So much makes sense now and it’s all because of God.

    • @angellenamay
      @angellenamay Год назад +5

      This is beautiful, I will be using your prayer for myself. Blessings to you love 🤍 excited for you to be found by your husband one day :)

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 Год назад +3

      This resonates with me so much. I will use what I went through to lean closer to God 💖

    • @Kristalwalker1972
      @Kristalwalker1972 Год назад +3

      @@angellenamay since I asked God to hide me, I don’t get approached. Being everything God wants me to be is more important. When we are single, are ways are to please the Lord. That’s all my mind is on. May God bless you on your healing journey and you too get healed and whole as God hides you so you can be found by the man that God has for you.

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c 4 месяца назад +1

      TGBTG AMEN. 😊❤

  • @justaskmama
    @justaskmama Год назад +67

    This is good word right here!!! I remember having a disagreement with my boys father and I went into the bedroom to pray. That man came into the room and picked me up from off my knees and started loving all over me. Long story short, even after his Momma's warning that he would come back but he'll be worse, and he did, God had to release me from his grasp! After all that he did and said, I still honored him in n death and made sure that he was put away properly. Touch not mine anointed nor do my prophet no harm!!! God is NOT a liar!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Год назад +6

      TGBATG!!💕🙏🏽🙌🏽💕

    • @rochellemack642
      @rochellemack642 Год назад +1

      Prayer Works

    • @robinsnow7779
      @robinsnow7779 Год назад +1

      Amen I have almost same story ❤

    • @urbancheflife19
      @urbancheflife19 Год назад +2

      I will be sharing, for you are PREACHING, on today!!!!!! Yah Bless!!!!

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 Год назад +19

      Had similar happening, but God guided me through every step...his whole family was a den of vipers, but all "good church going Christians " spirit doesn't lie and reveals all...white washed tombs with dead bones inside. His mom was the ring leader and had everybody under control and manipulation with her religious speech. The devil knows the word of God also.
      In the end all was revealed and my husband passed away from a heart attack when he avoided the earthly judge to finalize the divorce 3 times...so God preserved me as a widow...and when he passed and his girlfriend couldn't do anything or his family neither because they were on the other side of the country, I went to the morgue to sign him out to the surprise of the guy...he's like...I didn't know he was married lol
      Yeah I was the best kept secret...
      They thought they had me buried under their lies...I had the authority and I used it.
      The woman he ruined our first anniversary with died 5 months after he did. I had warned her to stay out of my marriage and she cussed me out.
      The girlfriend he ran to after I left the house was a stripper and she stripped him of all finances but I was already off any accounts but I still had the login info...his truck got repoed...she was pregnant with twins and they were born 3 weeks after he died and they were mixed race when they were both white...so definitely not his.
      The friend whom he sold my car to that didn't bother asking me if I was OK with it got that car repossessed.
      It took me 3 years to rebuild after leaving with nothing but trusting God and I am now living my best life.
      Just paid off a 80k 18 wheeler I had been leasing and rented a really nice place.
      They curse you God blesses you.
      I can't say it wasn't hell, while I was going through it, but it's produced much fruit of wisdom and discernment in my life.
      And I am greatful and thankful every day ❤️
      He will avenge and he will restore you but first he must remove you.
      It's was like soddom and Gomorrah up in that mess.

  • @TrainWithTae
    @TrainWithTae Год назад +10

    He discarded me right after I had our child lol 😂😂 I’m very strong tho, he didn’t break me like he thought he would, within a week I was back to me.

    • @TrainWithTae
      @TrainWithTae Год назад

      And the things he said to me hurt but I knew it wasn’t true.

  • @nedradubose5431
    @nedradubose5431 Год назад +17

    I discarded him the family everyone 😊

    • @zaylinstar8883
      @zaylinstar8883 Год назад +1

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 ayeeee same here sis!

    • @nedradubose5431
      @nedradubose5431 Год назад +1

      @@zaylinstar8883 yes some I really liked I just don't trust no of them keep it up Sis stay strong and beware it's many of them out there.

    • @tigerpause2470
      @tigerpause2470 Год назад +5

      One narcissist manipulates the others.They aren't aware they are being abused too.

    • @janetromey7522
      @janetromey7522 Год назад +3

      @@tigerpause2470 I think they do because they are placing loyalty with them over you. Why would you pick someone you don't know or isn't your family or long time friend over your own family or long time friend. They need each other to keep the scapegoat locked in place. They need someone to deflect on and to take their shame. No loyalty amongst theives.

    • @Terri302
      @Terri302 Год назад +1

      @@zaylinstar8883 Same here..👍

  • @devon.polignani
    @devon.polignani 8 месяцев назад +4

    "this person has transformed overnight into the worst person i've ever met in my life" OMG SPOT ON! I laughed out loud.

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 Год назад +28

    Wow, thanks for the video. I recognize I was primary. Happened Thanksgiving 2 yrs ago. 9 mos later, narc physically showed up at church. I ignored him so hard, my actions said NO! Text me when I didn't acknowledge him verbally. He then tried to be nice to my mother, she ignored too. He married 4 mos later to back burner supply. Hid it, lied about it. She's having it all. Go for it boo! Had another toxic dude try to make his way into my life, my answer if you're not with God, you're not in my life...not going backwards..been through too much. Thank God I can now see my worth, working on me and the Lord. Thank you.

  • @suzannevandusen4838
    @suzannevandusen4838 3 месяца назад +2

    I was definitely primary supply. Married 20 years to a narcissist and abuser. Together over 23 years. I have been learning more and more what a narcissist is. No soul, no heart, pure evil. They don’t love their children, spouses or themselves. Everything they do is calculated. Just disgusting and devastating. Thank for this video ❤

  • @yanesayoung4150
    @yanesayoung4150 Год назад +10

    She discarded me a day before my granddad funeral, you’re speaking facts!

  • @tyreewilliams7954
    @tyreewilliams7954 Год назад +50

    Amen Ms. Telsha, that's why I kept going back and forth before I knew this knowledge about narcissism, that's why it's important to get in that Word. I left her so those memories try to take your whole day , but remember they want to come back. We can't go back to that!! 💯💯💯

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Год назад +1

      💕🙏🏽💪🏽

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 Год назад

      HELL NO TYREE,
      No Do Overs With The Toxic NARCS. There LOSS Our GAIN. Lets Keep It Moving They Can Go Be Someone Else PROBLEM. BOOM BABY

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird100 Год назад +10

    THIS is how I know God is real and has been protecting me. Dude would just sorta ghost me for a few days and it would cause me to feel some kind of way. And I would hear instructions from the voice of God saying to calm down. Don't be anxious. Get in the Word. I was so confused bc everything seemed great but I kept sensing that something was off. And then BOOM! He dropped a bomb on me! Ole bird doesn't know that I WILL BE FREE!!! What I KNOW is that getting out of this is going to change my life.

  • @tyriastherealest
    @tyriastherealest 4 месяца назад +3

    Once I noticed the smurks, the sarcastic remarks I knew I was dealing with the Enemy. She tried to break me emotionally & spiritually but the devil is a lie. THIS VIDEO IS CHURCH...ALL FACTS... YOU ARE TALKING THAT TALK.

    • @Ronald-pz1lx
      @Ronald-pz1lx 4 месяца назад +1

      U said it irks comments it's a whole show like WTF okokol

  • @user-by4sd2jy2c
    @user-by4sd2jy2c 4 месяца назад +3

    He thought I was so in love with him. He became inconsistent. He’s discarded and blocked forever. 😊

    • @Amina679
      @Amina679 4 месяца назад +2

      He used to begged me to love him and I told him I don't love someone like that. I left him and now he is stalking me and confronting me in the street, stores. I don't know where he hides and watching me.

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Amina679 you need a protective order. Call the non emergency police department have them give him a citation then Go downtown and file before the judge. I would move if you could. They are dangerous people at times if they don’t get their way.

  • @M.H.S.W.818
    @M.H.S.W.818 Год назад +7

    Im definitely going to share this i got caught in a narcissists grasps at 15 and it was detrimental on my physical,mental, and spiritual health its still so hard trying to heal myself from all the manipulation you never realize just how much youre traumatized until you leave.

  • @Cmetoo
    @Cmetoo Год назад +5

    “Devalue and discard is different for Grade A supply” He knew I was a person who didn’t tolerate abuse or disrespect and would walk away in a heartbeat. We were together for a year…. It was devalue then discard in a matter of 24 hours. No abuse because I’m not even going for none of that. But he played the victim role to the 10th power! It was almost comical to watch this big muscle bound tough guy act like he was so devastated by my words. It was right before Christmas. Now I understand why it had to be done this way. Hie nearly went bankrupt love bombing me. I highly doubt he’ll be back 😂😂😂

  • @washedbytheblood
    @washedbytheblood Год назад +15

    Wow! This video was so revelatory. Yesterday my ex narc reached out to me and tried to hoover me. She gaslit me the entire conversation to the point where I became willing to take her back. Then I remembered a prophetic word which woke me up and brought me back to reality. I was already getting delivered of the trauma bond through that but this video was the capstone. Now I truly understand what happened during the love bomb and how the enemy got me to swallow all of the toxicity and then build out his plans to utterly ruin me from there. The Lord powerfully delivered me from this situation recently and He is having the last laugh as he has used all of this to catapult me into my new season. Hallelujah!

  • @TRU_WORSHIPPERS
    @TRU_WORSHIPPERS Год назад +9

    Going into my forth year and it feels good.

  • @denster77
    @denster77 Год назад +5

    Narcissistic abuse is akin to being a victim of the MK Ultra program.

  • @CS-mt3dh
    @CS-mt3dh Год назад +10

    Every single word felt! 💯 Sad part is, couldn't see it whilst going through it... but boy oh boy is it CLEAR now. Never again.

  • @Followyourdreams2012
    @Followyourdreams2012 Год назад +18

    Wow I tried to stop watching so many videos about narcissists but I needed to hear this one. This is right on point

    • @MC-pn5ed
      @MC-pn5ed Год назад +5

      Same...I'm sick of being sick of it lol...I just want to get out this mess no matter what...player out👐

    • @Followyourdreams2012
      @Followyourdreams2012 Год назад +4

      @@MC-pn5ed stay strong and focused. Do whatever you can to get away because in my experience it’s an never ending cycle
      God bless you

    • @angellenamay
      @angellenamay Год назад

      The best advice I’ve had to stay away is to destroy the ‘shared fantasy’ which is the future fake fantasy that the narc sold you to hook you. It was never real. You have to accept that to let go fully. This is a teaching from Dr Sam Vaknin who is a narcissist himself. Also the ‘ick list’ is a list you make of all the terrible things they did and said to you so that if you’re ever missing them or wondering if you should let them back in you can read to remember how terrible it really was. Dr Ramani says it helps cut through the ‘euphoric recall’ where we start remembering the ‘good’ times. Best of luck ❤

    • @funnygirlever
      @funnygirlever Год назад +3

      Me too. It started to get me sick to my stomach and depressed. But it is helpful. Especially if you keep healing. It get better to listening. This is at point.

  • @carolanngale9333
    @carolanngale9333 Год назад +9

    Absolutely, it's a pattern, like a circle, that is insidious at first and then gets worse and worse. In the end, it was like seeing a completely different person in front of my eyes. Am blessed to be away from him and turning my life around.

  • @moniqueboatfield107
    @moniqueboatfield107 5 месяцев назад +2

    Psalms 91 is what God showed me! I was in my closet holding my Bible feeling like the Bible held my rescue but also was keeping me trapped. I opened knowing I’d land on whatever I needed to. Psalms 91 is where I landed. Didn’t understand it at the time and just put an alert on my calendar to read it each day. Then one day God whispered to me, “This is for AFTER.” That was confirmation I’d be taken care of and provided for and I filed for divorce from that bird!

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Год назад +42

    Hello Ms. Telsha. Good Day And Happy Sunday. "No more casualties", is absolutely imperative. Good Word! We weren't created for people to wipe their feet with us, just because they can't deal with their traumas. How could they kick fine China around like a soccer ball, when it should have been handled with all gentleness? Protected and cherished. Smh, it's a travesty, lunacy, hateful and the ultimate betrayal of a good heart and the genuine soul! Thank God for how he refines us through fire and we come forth as beautiful pure gold, mature and full of wisdom, still have a song in our soul and love in our hearts! 💯💯💯🔥

  • @juliestarks1279
    @juliestarks1279 Год назад +7

    The entity he had even made me feel soooooo peaceful when I slept next to him and even when I woke up, the most peaceful feeling.. this entity was beyond good. Got me - but I cut it off right at the 90 days. (She’s right, the representative can only last 90 days)

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 6 месяцев назад

      Oh Yeah
      Pretty Bizarre To Feel That Peace Laying With Demons

  • @nateeshapavao5014
    @nateeshapavao5014 Год назад +19

    You are so beautiful inside and outside. I absolutely love your jacket too. Thank You for all you do you're videos are helping me big time with healing and recovery.

  • @gelenebnl
    @gelenebnl Год назад +17

    I realized that when it came to men, I was secondary supply but I was a part of a ministry that acted just as you described, Telsha. I was their primary supply for about two years until I disagreed with them once. It was all over. The mental and emotional abuse I endured was horrible. They were after me even after I left. Thank you, and God bless you!

  • @nedradubose5431
    @nedradubose5431 Год назад +13

    He had me alway messed up it still hurts though 8+ years but I had to move on.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Год назад +2

      💯💯💯

    • @angelabob6738
      @angelabob6738 Год назад +1

      He couldn’t mess me up ! I been emotionally detached from him the day he started disrespecting me. You have to detach yourself emotionally and when you do that then you are free to move on because you don’t care anymore. Your over it, you become numb to it that’s how I was able to move on without feeling bad. Yes I did love him at one time , but I loved myself more. I was planning my escape from then until I left. So even though it looked like I was putting up with it, I was slowly slipping away. And God has been good to me every since then. I thank him everyday for getting me away from that nut!!!!!!

  • @uncleboslifelessons2448
    @uncleboslifelessons2448 Год назад +4

    When I learned that it had nothing to do with me and that she is at odds with herself it made a big difference. You are so right, the way she would devalue me was so crazy the things she would say or do was beyond belief.
    Thank you so much, you have no clue how much this is helping me.😢😢
    So this is basically

  • @delvinalozano7427
    @delvinalozano7427 Год назад +17

    God Bless You immensely!!!! Thank you 🙏🏼. I tolerated this 38 yr relationship; married over 35; finally divorcing and healing 🙌🏼. I barely found out the name to this torture torment addictionship wanting to unalive me. 💔😓. No more casualties! No more silence!!! In Jesus name I rise and my faith is stronger🙏🏼♥️

    • @kiawanabutler1794
      @kiawanabutler1794 Год назад +3

      I too tolerated it. Over 25 years. I knew something was off but I kept myself involved with work and kids. She is right. I found myself and our entire family caught up in a lifetime movie. It's absolutely crazy. Scariest @hit ever. A replica of The Shining. Now I'm healed enough to speak on it. Life saving information. I'm never looking back.

  • @dscott4154
    @dscott4154 Год назад +8

    I rocks with my girl

  • @baileyb8619
    @baileyb8619 Год назад +4

    I am speechless. I have never heard this evilness explained in such a detailed and descriptive way. The part about these entities doing the enemies work on your special days, etc has me in tears. I am blown away by all of your words. Healing and moving forward. I was blessed enough to leave him 4 months ago after a year of the most chaotic and confusing energy I’ve ever felt. He was stunned when I told him he’s a liar and wears a mask. Haven’t looked back. But what I’ve learned over these months is absolutely mind blowing. These entities as you say are truly evil. I will never ever be party to this madness ever again. Amen!

  • @One-Of-One_01
    @One-Of-One_01 5 месяцев назад +2

    Being accountable to myself is what finally changed for me. I prayed for the answer, I got it. I began to understand who I am and whose I am I understood what self love really means, and what boundaries are...

  • @patricesledge4564
    @patricesledge4564 6 месяцев назад +2

    My narc fooled me for 8 years married 7. Gave me everything I wanted and then just STOPPED being interested at all! Wouldn’t eat dinner from me. Calls from work on breaks stops just NOTHING! Come to find out had already started smear campaign with his friends/family. Then 4 days after my bday Jamaica trip he discarded me and left without a convo! But I had ask God to reveal and he DID and the ex husband/narc knew it! It was snakes in my dreams. I couldn’t sleep with him in the bed without feeling like a spirit was choking me. He knew God was for me! He knew I knew who he really was! So he had to RUN cause I no longer allowed the BS and was calling things out! WOWWWWW!!! I help him gain so much and he just threw me out to dry but God got me covered

  • @runningwithscissors1564
    @runningwithscissors1564 Год назад +6

    My friends, I am still hurting when I should be healing. The pain that I feel is immense and overtakes me daily. He discarded me more than once. One of the most painful moments for me was when he left me over a false cancer scare I had last summer. He told me I was a burden. He said that I bummed him out and that there is no point in dating someone with cancer. God came in and saw to it that I didn’t have cancer. Thank God for that!
    Regardless, this man kicked me to the curb…even with a negative cancer result. Literally…after I told him the good news.

    • @LisaLisa-zs7bj
      @LisaLisa-zs7bj Год назад +3

      As your profile name says….. RUNNNN, and don’t look back. They can cause so much damage to our health.- I’m a witness to this.
      I thank God your cancer results were negative, but with the Narc around- it could have gone another way.
      I pray for your strength that you are able to move forward. Bless you!

    • @karriesaunders8597
      @karriesaunders8597 Год назад +3

      Doesn't sound like marriage material.

    • @runningwithscissors1564
      @runningwithscissors1564 Год назад +3

      Agreed. He received information a little over a month ago that his liver enzymes were high and that he may have fatty liver disease. This literally came on the heels of my false cancer scare.

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@runningwithscissors1564
      Gods Justice AlWays Comes

  • @cherylhendrix4056
    @cherylhendrix4056 Год назад +16

    Everything you said is familiar, even me wondering, "what happened?". I was so confused that I talked to my therapist to see if i was loosing it. This was after i told him goodbye and blocked him. I could write a book about my experience. I now wonder if I should stop watching RUclips videos about narcissist. I do know that I will be more careful in the future. Are monitoring spirits watching and listening and reporting.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  Год назад +2

      💯💯💯

    • @fire4myChrist
      @fire4myChrist Год назад +3

      Yes !!! All done the videos myself !! Leave the past in the past ! Lesson LEARNED . Anyone without Holy Spirit most deff being used as monitoring spirit.

    • @angellenamay
      @angellenamay Год назад +3

      Just make sure you destroy the ‘shared fantasy’ so they can’t weasel their way back in. Stay in the word and be filled with the Holy Spirit. God bless you 🤍

  • @johanacaba5219
    @johanacaba5219 Год назад +6

    This is on point. Eye opening. This happened to me and now I see it for what it was. Had to go through it for years! God stepped in and got me out of it, going through divorce and I can’t wait to be completely free

  • @valorieblanton4895
    @valorieblanton4895 Год назад +6

    Speak Holy Spirit

  • @melissaquestelles7380
    @melissaquestelles7380 Год назад +20

    I thank God for you Ms. Telsha! You have helped countless people! Continue to shine in your divine calling!

  • @TyShyBrickWorld
    @TyShyBrickWorld Год назад +3

    That’s why the moment I didn’t answer my moms phone call and text my father I needed space…. She ran over to my house in a rage and banged on the door for 30 min. I opened the door and said she needed to call before she came and blocked her it’s been a crazy 1 year. But it’s worth it. My peace is priceless

  • @paradisefamilyvlogs3426
    @paradisefamilyvlogs3426 Год назад +4

    I like that statement, training you to be sacrificial.

  • @kathyvazquez7765
    @kathyvazquez7765 Год назад +20

    Thank you Sister in Christ, this message has blessed me. I will be reading Psalm 91 RIGHT NOW!! (GOT MY BIBLE ON DECK) I will Not allow another Narc to toy with me Again, besides God is the lover of my soul, HE has my mind, and my heart so, if anyone wants me they have to go through HIM.. I thank Him for keeping me and protecting me when I was in lustful sin and wanted to go further with some fool. Now that HE has my soul, they have to ask HIM FOR MY HAND IN MARRIAGE..!!!!! I love that HE has all control over my life, cause I made enough of a mess of it.. Now HE SAID, FALL BACK WOMAN,!!! I GOT THIS!!! Hallelujah. THANK YOU, MY ABBA FATHER. YOU ARE FAITHFUL, SO GOOD TO ME- IT TOOK ME A WHILE TO SEE THAT, YOU ARE ALL I EVER NEEDED!!!😌😌

    • @lorrain4646
      @lorrain4646 Год назад

      Yes Lord!!! He is....hallelujah!!!🥰🥰🥰

  • @user-tf3qo3el5u
    @user-tf3qo3el5u 8 месяцев назад +2

    It was the demonic smirk that I saw. Crazy, I said, "Is this the same dude?"

  • @lindabest3171
    @lindabest3171 Год назад +7

    Thank you Lady Telsha 😘 for bringing forth this revelation. The Holy Spirit has given me "new" revelation knowledge and clarity. When a Narccist loses their Primary Source, they won't go into a corner and voluntarily die!!! They will seek after a "New Primary Source, for replacement. They need that Spiritual force field to stay alive, for their Survival or else it will be just a matter of time that they will litterly die.

    • @sonlya2010
      @sonlya2010 Год назад

      You mean they need spiritual people
      More then other Narcs like them?

  • @Aktivbottle
    @Aktivbottle 5 месяцев назад +1

    I will never forget my discard. Happened just after Christmas last year. My ex-wife posted a video of her and her new supply on Instagram while I was away in my home country. 2months later I still cannot believe she did something so cruel to me after being married 7years.

  • @jbsdiversified9510
    @jbsdiversified9510 10 месяцев назад +2

    Tea you threw down on this one! This knowledge will set fire to narcissists and scorch and torch them like they've never been burnt before. Psalms 91 is the main them of my spiritual journey threw life! It is very powerful and self explanatory! Be blessed beautiful Tea and thank you so much for all you do for us whose been involved with these demented souls!

  • @Melissa_Jai
    @Melissa_Jai Год назад +2

    🙏 for the ones that didn't have the strength or information to leave the narcissist in this life ❤️

  • @5smoothstonesproject740
    @5smoothstonesproject740 Год назад +4

    Psalms 91 and Psalms 119 are two powerful Psalms. Be accountable to yourself. When you fall into the hands of a traumatized individual ( who will not seek medical help or go to their primary doctors for checkups) that refuses to take accountability and be responsible enough to say and not keep secrets that something with them is out of alignment, you will become a casualty. They will suck the lifeblood out of you. Snatching your spine oops your soul out your body. Awesome teaching Ms. T.

  • @aprilvaughn9781
    @aprilvaughn9781 Год назад +4

    That's right All I'm doing is loving myself and getting to know me better I am so proud I did not go back to that x narcissist I look towards God and he healed me and he helped me and I'm still healing

  • @lunablu3921
    @lunablu3921 Год назад +13

    Nothing but the truth, amen. Your videos are still helpful after being narc-free for over 17 mos. Thank you for your spiritual break-down. I always knew what was happening to me was not natural, it was pure evil. Thankful for deliverance and allowing God to heal those broken places within me to have allowed such abuse.

  • @Shanaevaz
    @Shanaevaz Месяц назад

    The more you give the narcissist the more they abuse you an you become more open to the abuse

  • @jennifermarconi3884
    @jennifermarconi3884 Год назад +4

    What really got me was when you said it was idolatry. I’ve been feeling that in my spirit for awhile now. That’s exactly what it is. God bless you and thank you again! Can’t wait to watch more of your videos!

  • @MsPangY
    @MsPangY 3 месяца назад +1

    Omg! Have never ever realize I’ve been in this for 11 yrs & but by the time I notice it; I had to be strong & now I’m happy alone but he’s trying to get back with me & it’s a “Heck No.”
    I realize a lot & my intuition is on point! I didn’t know the definition but now I know what is what now fully!! I do see right thru his / their BS!!! 😢😮❤🎉😂
    I’m so strong, he’s losing & all his gangstalking peeps tumbling after … they know someone alone like me & petite like me is Super Strong & they know how much I adore being alone & it’s not scarying me one bit but with my son who screams in the middle of the night makes me tired only, otherwise; I love being left alone & I don’t like his friends & family around me! They toxic & narc like him 😢😮❤😂😢

  • @jrlatina
    @jrlatina Год назад +6

    Spitting nothing but facts on facts on facts!!!!!

  • @margaretchatman4695
    @margaretchatman4695 Год назад +7

    You have preached on this day!! "And the truth shall set you free." Let us all, receive this Powerful Word. In the Mighty Name of Jesus, AMEN!🙏🙏

  • @Saved_Sealed_And_Delivered
    @Saved_Sealed_And_Delivered Год назад +2

    This is absolute truth! The devil has fought me exactly in this way through my ex husband…but for God! I am so thankful for His mercy and faithfulness

  • @Bonniebella1111
    @Bonniebella1111 5 месяцев назад +1

    I was!!!!!! I couldn’t even pray couldn’t think! Yesss and I was healed from my childhood trauma! Omg!!!

  • @moanawalker3118
    @moanawalker3118 6 месяцев назад +1

    Yes! It did happen to me big time! I did not know what had hit me! Wasn't a punch to the throat, but a bash to the head like a brick thrown at me!

  • @Thetagamma1914
    @Thetagamma1914 5 месяцев назад +2

    My sista you are on point with what I went through. Here’s what helped me get through it. When I started seeing the changes, I started documenting what I was seeing. I played along with the Narc just so that I could continue to gather information. When I saw I was about to he discarded, I made my move. I shouted that Narc out and told her I had been studying her for 3 years. I hit her with the hard core receipts, and told that chick I’m out lol. I just didn’t know at the time that Narc is what is was.

  • @6ftr
    @6ftr 2 дня назад

    I get CHILLS every time .....Lord knows this is part of your assignment to help the broken

  • @creativegemarts
    @creativegemarts Год назад +3

    Makes sense that’s why the narc had a 90 day rule 😂 I said your 90 days had expired along time ago bye!! 🙌🏽

  • @gwendolynsloan558
    @gwendolynsloan558 5 месяцев назад +1

    Psalms 91 delivered me from the narcissist I was married to over 20 years 🙌🙌🙌 along with psalms 23

  • @Scorpio410
    @Scorpio410 5 месяцев назад +1

    When you catch on and know your value = game over I basically control the narc now 😂

  • @paradisefamilyvlogs3426
    @paradisefamilyvlogs3426 Год назад +2

    Good point, there's a change in the eyes. Scary

  • @nicolejohnson8218
    @nicolejohnson8218 5 месяцев назад +1

    omg oh how i wish i realized this in 2010. I been free 2 weeks and my energy level has improved

  • @patriciad5102
    @patriciad5102 Год назад +10

    I felt like you were telling the last 14 years of my life . Bless you Queen ❤

  • @diahnhall45
    @diahnhall45 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’m NOT delusional at all. I love Tommy and I’m not divorcing him either.

  • @Nurseninjarider
    @Nurseninjarider Год назад +1

    What a fun, adventurous relationship it was. I had so much fun, we made so many memories. He made me laugh, he was ambitious, he listened to my needs. I could question him about anything. But his needs and wants came first , it wasn't true love on his end. I let it go because he became violent against me. A good fun relationship, my best relationship so far but no love. And I want true love. I want someone to care when I cry, not them to be embarrassed. I miss having a relationship, but I don't miss him.

  • @beedido439
    @beedido439 6 месяцев назад +1

    Preach! Go deep, God is giving you revelation. He is exposing the darkness. Let’s remember that we can all be in the darkness in different ways. And narcissists are people too. Hurt people, hurt people. Doesn’t mean we need to stay w them but you can pray over them.

  • @thankyouforfavor8396
    @thankyouforfavor8396 Год назад +7

    EXCELLENT MESSAGE!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!! WHEN YOU GET FREE PLEASE DONT GO BACK. GOD WORD IS TRUE LOVE. LOVE IS GOD AND GOD LOVE.🙏🙏💜💜 HALLELUJAH

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 Год назад +1

      Amen! I here this message loud and clear, never look back!!!

  • @jojofashosho5344
    @jojofashosho5344 Год назад +3

    Telsha’s gonna hit 500k in 2023 watch 🎉 🙌 👸🏻

  • @EarthAndFireTarot
    @EarthAndFireTarot Год назад +4

    You know, I'm two years out of a decade of exactly what you're talking about and you're the first person I've heard put it the exact way I had to explain what that shit was like. Even though I'm "rehabilitated" 🤣, because let's be real the shit is like an addiction to some hard drugs, I just appreciate hearing someone finally putting this was a raw and real point of view, not text book watered down not even touching the real surface. For that I commend you and thank you.

  • @reginaanim8287
    @reginaanim8287 Год назад +1

    Knowledge is power and freedom

  • @HighProfileLing
    @HighProfileLing Год назад +4

    My Goodness. I love your Frog collar kimono. That is eye catching. I dress very similar. That’s y I’m always here 😂❤.

  • @toniwilliams9817
    @toniwilliams9817 Год назад +2

    I told my mom the other day that I bet the ex narc has not done anyone else as bad as he did me. But he felt ok with doing it to me. If he had done others this way after me, he would be locked up.

  • @jrlatina
    @jrlatina Год назад +3

    2023 no more casualty!

  • @aleaiacetaest9132
    @aleaiacetaest9132 Год назад +2

    I was in a narcissistic relationship for four whole months, that’s how long I literally needed to know that I want that person to dissolve themselves 😂 To be honest I couldn’t stand the fact that the person was coming back for more drama and I stood my ground and even threatened hell if the person ever came back for more. The fact that the person has fun on my suffering disgusted me and I’m ready to do ANYTHING needed to get that plague out of my Orbit! Don’t tolerate someone that’s there to harm you. They don’t deserve you or your time!

  • @Agheel963
    @Agheel963 16 дней назад

    Praise God for exposing the evil in our lives 🙏 🙌

  • @beverlysteward3290
    @beverlysteward3290 Год назад +1

    I lived this life for ten years with my ex husband. He divorced me over two years ago and moved the new supply in as soon as I left. I’m so glad I am not in that bondage anymore.

  • @krystyledawnshelton4499
    @krystyledawnshelton4499 3 месяца назад +1

    This video WAS / IS EVERYTHING! Every single word! BUT WEN U SAID U WILL NOTICE THE SMIRK, the snickers, the laugh and the eyes! Whewww God is real ! Cuz I Ben knew that was even demonic! Ty god for u!! U preached on this vid!! Wow!!!

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 2 месяца назад +1

    TEACH US WOMAN OF GOD ❤❤❤. PSALMS 91 IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE PSALMS ❤❤