Narcissists are TERRIFIED of LOSING YOU in the DISCARD. They CAN LEAVE - YOU DON’T HAVE to COME BACK
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- Insight on why the discard phase is the most terrifying face of the abuse cycle for the narcissist.
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God is so good since leaving my narcissist I have gotten my full time dream job!!! Praise Yeshua!!!
See what God can do when you part from the devil. Blessings to you on your new job.
Greater is he misiñformation.
Blessing God n control.
Greater is he misinformation
Unstable
They ruin ALL relationships and everything they touch !!!!
They really do! I’m not sure which number supply I was but he had a string of relationships that all ended at the 1yr mark. Same for jobs, most last 6 months, nothing past 2 yrs. Patterns and cycles!
EVERYTHING 🎯
I never knew what a NARCISSIST WAS! I was discarded twice! Until I did some research. I finally DISCARDED THE NARC. My sister told me the narc is hurting! Because I WAS EVERYTHING TO/FOR THE NARC. Since the DISCARD. GOD HAS GIVEN ME SO MUCH PEACE!! THAT SURPASSES UNDERSTANDING! Philippians 4:6
I don’t care 🤷🏽♀️ where or when he goes, I don’t ask questions about anything, I’m a huge GREY ROCK 🪨 just sitting 🪑 here planing my escape route Amen 🙏🏼
Amein
Perfect. I truly hope you are able to leave soon. I had to go homeless and let the government help me until I could secure (through heavy prayer) my own home for myself and children. God speed to you dear sister
@@letusheal2023 I am so HAPPY THAT YOU’re in a safe space of your own!!!❤❤❤❤
God, keep on Blessing Her!!!
That's make 2 of us ,he doesn't want to change for the better smh
@@msthang5366 You don't know how much your comment touched my heart. I am being hoovered badly for the last few weeks and I stay in prayer, I talk to my friends, I have a legal advisor/counselor. And I just got off the phone with my advisor when I read your comment and it put tears in my eyes. We have a wrestling but we can stay strong through prayer and supporting one another. So I thank you sis for putting that blessing on me. May God cover you and carry you as well!
3 years no contact and my life is coming good 🙏💜 love from Dublin Ireland 💜
27 years 1000% no contact and life has been great... Blessings to you from Alabama USA for the coming New Year...
@@giovannilevoci941 proud of you beautiful 💜🙏
2 months of no contact… i am still on a lot of pain but every day is better..
@@carlossibajaaraya4899 be very proud of you, your in the right place x
When the narcissist discarded me God told me that it was my exit point. I needed the ex narcissist to know he is no longer in control so I never looked back. I was also informed that the narcissist is being punished for failing to bring me down. Yes He was unstable in all his ways and I refuse to be led straight to hell, God is not a God of confusion and the spirit told me that a STABLE REAL MAN would not leave me confused. The more my spirit silently prayed the wider my eyes opened and my mouth closed. I don't even think about that boy child narcissist.
Another great one Ms. Tea! HOW they leave is also part of the attack. Like you said in another clip, if they’re so happy to be without us, then why are they so angry when we leave? If we meant nothing, why would they be so upset? If there are truly no hard feelings then why even discard the way they do? I’m finally out of the fog and can see clearly now and truly absorb what you’ve been teaching. Thank you for your ministry. I’m sure your mansion in heaven is ginormous for all the good you’re doing here. God bless you!
I thought the same...
Amen 🙏🏼 amen 🙏🏼 thanking Jesus Christ my Lord and savior Amen 🙏🏼, all of the years we have been going through all this mess and finally someone comes along and open our eyes 👀 to all of the cruelty we have insured
Correction all we have gone through
My curly wig wearing monkey 🙉 is afraid 😱 to leave I tell you what he has a big surprise COMING, my release DAY Amen 🙏🏼 to my Lord and savior Jesus Christ
Amen❤️🔥🕊️🙌
I discarded the narcissist after 21 years. He didn't think I had it in me to leave. Well, guess what? I did and he was in shock!
"Double minded"...that is a whole word Ms Telsha. I have met some disordered men in my time but that last hellmented frog has got to be the most disordered man I have EVER known! Now that my mind is clear and I'm healing to the point where I'm now laughing and have my sense of humour back, I've realised why he's been single the last 5 years, (2 years LDR with me) and I thank God for all the times our plans fell through to close the distance. Once I figured out that pathetic excuse for a man...I told him he don't need a girlfriend/wife, he needs God and a good psychotherapist, then sent him contact details in his town for a Domestic Abuse Perpetrators programme. I gave him the discard of his life! I will NEVER go back!! Always grateful to you and the love of God for pulling me out of that mess!! 🙏 BIG LOVE ❤ Éireann
It's interesting how the narcissist will disregard you without closure so that you can pursue them for it. It's all about the cat and mice game and the desire to dominate. Keep the videos coming 👏🏾
So true the first discard I was checking to see was he okay the second discard he was calling me I had enough of the abuse cycle😊
It all a " mating game"!!👠❤️💋💥
This!!! Amen!!!! It’s all a car and mouse “chase” game to them.
The scripture says that God knew you from the beginning at conception so the enemy most definitely knows you as well. God lets us be here because he has a calling on our lives. Never let the enemy win because our God is stronger ❤️💪🏿
Amen
I was Ghosted 👻 one week before my birthday and she didn’t even bother texting or calling to say Happy Birthday. There is no words to explain how stupid and ridiculous these Narcs are. To think I would go back to her after what she did to me. Narc free for 6 months and I am loving it. 😀
Well I shut down and don’t do anything and he hates my walk with my all mighty God , my whereabouts are secret 🤫, when I had my birthday 🎂 in October my daughters and their families came to to town and surprised me I was so happy, they stayed a week, they rented a house and we cooked, laugh, went out we did so much, when my friend picked me up I had no clothes to change in so my daughters to me to the store and bought me all new clothes, I’m still crying 😢 tears 😭 of joy 🤩 I get away with other people because no one enjoys him and we know for facts that he hates me enjoying myself, but baby I enjoy 😉 myself with every waking moment and thanking my lord Jesus everyday Amen 🙏🏼
Every time he threatened to leave, I never begged him to stay. I even told him to go and threw his stuff out my front door. He never left because this was a tactic to hurt me. I put him out a few times and took him back. The last discard, I left finally. That drove him over the edge. He thought I would never leave. He tried to destroy me but God prevailed.
Exactly 💯 why Narcissists they can't stick to one women it must to have many but once one of his women notice they just leave the until the Narcissists got nomore Supplies..
I said the same thing the sprit of trauma comes with a host of demons 😈 which try to finish you through suicide break down poverty lack depression but when you overcome those demon Satan upgrades with the combo package narcissist.
😂😂😂😂 BACKWARDS WALKING GIRAFFES WITH SOME CURLY WIGS SAY IT LOUDER TELSHA ❤️❤️ GOT ME OVER HERE HOLLOWING 😂😂😂😂💯
🤣🤣🤣
I believe the narcissism came in utero. From the bloodline it was inherited. A lot of things we do not know about our ancestors beliefs. A lot of traditions have been lost. Judas knows that the dark cannot create with out the light...its why they are hurting right now. Have a good day. Thank you, Tea
I believe so too.. It's a curse. The first curse took place with Adam, Eve, the Serpent, and the seed. There's where it's coming from in my humble opinion. God created All of Creation, but not All of Creation are His children. Satan has his creatures/creation here too. And, God has His children here. It's the Wheat (Fruit) verses the Tares (Weeds). These "so called" narcissists are the Tares (Weeds). They're shapeshifters. They're demonic. Their eyes turn black, and they have evil, demon possessed rages. Their death stares are diabolical. They are not children of God. I'm just saying that once a person witnesses the demon possession, it cannot be unseen.
Truly, truly blessed this year! Dodged a bullet because of you! You are one of the most solid teachers on NPD on here!! I pray that secular psychologist listen up! Because of the truths here THEY WILL FIND JESUS!!!🎉🎉❤
Mines would tell me all the time I have the power and he is scared of me.
After I was discarded I never ever hit my ex up again absolutely not!
You nailed it! Although my (now ex) husband was "all into" the new supply, he repeatedly suggested that we still remain friends. Once the divorce was final, I went radio silent. I think that's one part of his delusional fantasy that he was not expecting.
I don't blame you. I refused to remain friends too with the ex narc.
They never show you off but than when u get discarded they show off a bird. A 20 year old ugly bird who’s on drugs and just a child. These demons are the worst!! Evil demonic spirit inside them!!!
"Backwards walking giraffes" is my new favorite phrase 😁
Return to sender in the name of Jesus Christ Amen! You foul unclean spirit!
AMEN
You are one of the most solid teachers here! When secular psychologists listen up, THEY WILL FIND JESUS!!!🎉🎉❤
BEAUTIFUL FACTS AND TRUTH.... 💯💯IN THIS MESSAGE. THE DISCARD WAS A BLESSING. WHEN I WAS DEALING WITH THE LAST NARC.. I WAS HURT BUT NOT ANYMORE YOU THOUGHT YOU DESTROYED ME 😂😂 THINK AGAIN
I'M STILL STANDING 💯💯 AND I HOLD THE POWER AND I'M THE DISCARD TO THAT DUCK 💯💯🔨🔨 NO GOING BACK 2023 ITS MY YEAR NOW WATCH ME GLOW UP FROM THE SIDE LINE THAT PART 💯❤️🔥 LOVE YOU QUEEN THHANK YOU I ROCKS WITH YOU ALWAYS TELSHA ❤️❤️💯
Facts!! Thanks for sharing this! Can you do a video about co-parenting with a narcissist? That would be sooooo helpful
Yes i hope she do one soon
Can I just reach out from across THE POND and say what a HUGE ray of light you have been for me 🙏💪❤️ on my long journey to enlightenment ! In a world where most people STILL know very little about NPD abuse you have been a true warrior in the fight to break the cycle !
SO LETS HEAR A MASSIVE BIG UP 💪❤️ for our sassy sister of truth 🙏 folks ! We truly appreciate your content SO much , you will never know just HOW much you have helped me and so may others along a very difficult and sometimes seemingly impossible a journey ! THANKYOU ,..SO MUCH ❤️❤️🙏
U have to continue to pray & ask God to lead the way for you becuz the narc try they best to control and have that power over u and we not bout to let that happen at all
The favor is gone !!!!
I don't come back this time. PERIOD😎
Yesss leavening was tha best thing !!!! Let that new supply have them ..amen
I hold the POWER all day
Omg you have blessed me tonight! Thank you!! Omg 😢my husband is a full blown narcissist!! I know about everything! He call himself discarding me for a week! And came back home! Being loving! Now he back to that light switch stuff! We have been married in July for 22yrs! Off and on! It’s just a lot! Tooo much!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I know that feeling well 😢
ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS contain awesome content! Sometimes, I will go back and view one of my favorite videos for a second or third time as reinforcement or reminder! Plus, I just love your personality! You are such a beautiful soul! Again, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and teachings! 💕
This info is everything!!!!! Been GR and NC for 2 months now. We have a 6 year old daughter. It's so funny witnessing her trying different tactics to getme to show emotion or react......even asked me if I wanted to borrow her car for a week.
..yeah right!!... SMH.....
Miami Florida in the house 🏡 it is Sunny 😎 and bright ❤
Yes ma’am babies are affected in the womb. If you contemplated abortion there’s the spirit of rejection for the child right there.
This is so good. Was Hovered Saturday and this worm said he did not want me to move on without him. Wants to be friends. The devil is a lie. Dealing with this worm is a complete setback and not God’s best for me.
Don't forget trauma bonding I fell for that one, you fall in love open up tell them your past and then they use it as a weapon against you,
Shalom sis, my husband is a narcissist to the fullest. I'm a child of Yahuah and coming in the truth have set me free with disgust. I recently found out the truth about a month by looking it up, then through you and another young lady. I'm a house wife with no income but I'm not stuck, I have my father Yah the one most of the world call God. At first I was angry but now I'm praying night and day never stopping for him and against these demonic forces that infiltrates inside of him like the scriptures said and it will work. I truly have no doubt. Now I know how to deal with him and the demons they are loosing their minds, my light will shine they and they see I'm not playing. Now when Yah removes these devil's out of him and gives him a clean heart so he can repent of all his filthy lifestyle, I can forgive but I won't forget. I truly want to move on with my children in joy and worship my father. Amein. By following your channel my strength and knowledge is on fire . Blessings to you sis and yours HalleluYAH
Preach Sis and don't let them find out you have someone else and your actually happy you will all there 5 or 6 hundred demons
Humm, when my eyes opened up to who this trickmaster was and I wanted to take a break from the relationship as I could now see through him. The narc’ decided to discard right after maybe to get a sense of control. During that phase he was distraught, crying, apologising for all the cheating and abuse. Then left without telling me why and how we could work it out as a couple. When he came back i now know it was the hoover stage. It was right at the time when I got the knowledge of what a narc’ was and it saved me big time. I didn’t fall for it and nip it in the bud. Blocked him from everywhere. He’s now going to the flying monkeys to have some info about me. For sure I’m narc free since 2020, best time ever 🙌🏾 thanks for putting the content out there Telsha it helped me so much ❤
No loyalty in darkness 💔
Hi Ms. Telsha. Happy Sunday, And good to see you today! It's my pleasure to never return to the sadistic abusive narcissist. Oh heck no lol. Better days are here and ahead. Thank you for keeping us enlightened. Have an awesome day!💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Bless you for helping us through this mess
Oh yes 🙌🏼 he did say that, yes 🙌🏼 he’s crazy 😜
I was discarded/divorced in 2023, I was married to her for 20 years. It's been 5 months of no contact and I have no desire to ever see her or talk to her ever again! I saw those black eyes and the demonic smirk, can't unsee what I've seen!
I have to listen to you more than once because you are always saying soo many good things and that curly wig is so funny 😂
I have NO trouble with discarding him based on his behaviours HOWEVER i have trouble when i feel sorry for
Him
They use the threat of discard because this is what scares them. They don’t realize this doesn’t scare everyone the same.
They are say during the discard, can we remain friends. Really????
100% correct
I knew i was his Mother he never had
So i stabilised him on every level
I was his teacher
His preacher
Someone well above his emotional intelligence
Where i failed was - i was too naïve to see that it was a game at first 🙈
Ms. Tea...another AWESOME MESSAGE!!!! I hold the power now cuz I LEFT!!!! Now that I know who the ex narc is, I can NEVER, EVER GO BACK!!!! The narc is controlled by the devil and my life is controlled by God so how can 2 walk 2gether uxcept they agree.. WE CAN'T!!! I'm just glad God showed me what I was dealing with...it had been 15 years off and on, BUT NOW IT'S OVER FOR GOOD!!!
Lady I am so glad I found you....such good information...thanks. I'm 47...divorced a narcissist after almost 6 years and I am truly living in my next chapter of life wiser
Lost me long before the discard !that's why they come back to try to
Desperately destroy you when they see 👀 you're doing Far well spiritually and naturally .there only playing themselves in a petty attitude out of Jealously 😎😎, I went to Jesus for my answers I got'em and got better quicker😁😁😁
Petty, shallow, no depth creatures
She left me twice! I was always available when she wanted to come back. 💔
Leaving after 14 years and two kids verbal abuse at its worse towards the end lies, victim mindset
This information is BLESSED AND HEALING IS ALL N IT!!! Whoever listens 2 this really take it 2 heart and allow it 2 help u heal...
I can't believe how accurate you are. Now I can fight back. Thank you 🙏🏾
“Charlotte’s Web and the whole safari” - this is both comedy gold and divine wisdom! Your strength and love is so inspiring, wow, thank you. I am excited for your channel and your work! Cheers!
Tesha, On point with another jewel. You are right their lives spiral out of control. They try to discard you first to avoid damaging that ego. But we got to move on and not look back. Everything you spoke on just now I have experienced and see it right now!
Had a woman do everything you said I bounced and kept it moving
WHY DO THEY GET SO MAD WHEN YOU BEAT THEM TO THE DRAW AND DISCARD THEM FIRST🤔🤔!
I am truly impressed by your enlightenment of what I experienced.Still standing stronger than before.Amen.
I let my ma go and I feel so free and relieved. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and God bless 💕
my wife of 23 yrs has torn me to the core, we've separated for a year she thought she was coming back on Xmas
get it X MAS GO, I'm ready to feel whole again🙏🏿 thank u sus
such a blessing is wat u r🌹
Your Excellence in Christ breathes life
When we are enduring and growing in the light.
Shields up for every stabilizer enduring
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These helmetic frogs, side stepping zebras, 😂😂😃these narcissists are from the pit of hell💯💯, Thank You again Ms. Telsha for bringing these videos, people need to hear this information🔥🔥❤, GOD Bless You and May the Favor of The Most High GOD be upon You🙌🏾🙌🏾💜💜
You better preach
Women are narcissist to. You should talk about both sides
Everything she says is universal, but being that she a woman she mainly mention men, but she always sad it's the same for both genders. Female narcs are worse
Sending love from Detroit Michigan 🤩
I saved his life on many occasions. Light that LIKE button up for Telsha❤😂
I'm so glad I found you. I just want to thank you for taking the time out of your day to make these videos for us ♥️
I hold the power, because i can leave. YESSSSS! I love that 🤍🤍🤍
They are mean manipulators.
Knowledge is Power 💯💯
I love your videos you are are a blessing that narcissist don't have to worry about me returning back he can join BB King band Singing the thrill is gone 😭😭😭
This is so good. Telsha is teaching this thang ☺️. This video, and several others, are explaining to me what happened from junior high school until now. I ended up getting into a physical relationship with the narc who acted weird from our teenage years until today. He never matured and over time showed his true evil colors underneath his mask. After doing something extremely evil to me and another woman, I had to part ways, evil though I have gotten angry about the situation and texted him every now and then. I need God to help me to leave him alone completely. However, for the most part, i'm enjoying finally discarding him.
AMEN ❤️❤️❤️
I THANK GOD FOR YOU TEACHING ME ABOUT THAT BIRD. I REALLY DO. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK QUEEN.❤
Thank you for the content ❤🙏
The truth
And a right on time message
I'm done
This one was a yo yo
I'm over it
Love you Sis
It's about the spirit behind the behavior.
You done broke it down like a lowrider ❤
Your channel has helped me so much! My husband just discarded me after being married for 2 months and has now blocked me.
God is sooooooooo GOOOD ALL THE TIME! AMEN! Thanks for sharing the confirmation!!!!!
Generational curses hit 🎯 hard 💯
Baaaby when I got wisdom and knowledge, I didn’t look back at that backwards walking Giraffe. 😂. Now that I’m gone- the favor is gone. Hallelujah.
It’s been 17 months and I haven’t looked back yet. Been divorced for 8mts
Truth, truth, truth Sis Telsha 💯 %. One year narc free. Door 🚪 closed!
GIRL YOU PREACHED THAT THANG YOU HEAR ME. FACTS ON FACTS
KEEP TEACHING
Very Powerful Message Telsha 💕 thank You for sharing this
Please address the issue of narcissists and the incidence of sexual abuse in their childhood.
From my understanding the narcissistic has one if not both parents that are also narcs, and lots of times they abuse them sexually in some form. For example imagine the narc in your life is male, and his mother is also a narc, she will treat him like her husband and sexually abuse him from a young age. When he grows up he will generally have a hate/love relationship with her and abuse his partner in the same way as he has a hatred for women.
Most times their kinks are their trauma
This guy ive been seeing and observing his behaviour for a year now. He discarded more than twice lmao but im emotionally detached. Now he left yesterday saying to himself why do i come back here ive known u for a year (he actually stretched it to two years for some reason) lol i had to correct him thats its been one year. He said ive known you for a year and you still dont know how to get me off😮😢😂😂 i was like telling him it seems hes in a sexual rut and also that its not my fault that he cant get off and theres too much on his mind lol anyways ive been in a relationship like this before and i know better. This is the final discard because im not allowing it anymore.
If there so terrified, why do they do the most to get u gone, these people don't change they change victims
I didn't know the name to call his behaviors lady this have been for 10 yrs of marriage, my God, this resonates with thank God I left in one piece with TMH guiding me. Thank you for your message.
Nobody wants answers to that demon
Oh my thing that sticks in my head that he said at the beginning was
This is a come up-NOW I know what he meant 🤮
Thank you T ❤ God bless you and thank you for speaking what the Lord put in your heart about His word ❤
The light is gone!
Did that discard with her whole chest 😆 🤣 😂 💯. No reruns, no part 2. It's a wrap! Catching all my delayed blessings now. Glory to TMH!
ITS CALLED A, “REPROBATE”!