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  • Insight on the worst narcissistic injury you could ever give a narcissist is discarding them first. They never come back from this even with their new supply. Unfortunately, you have a unwanted fan for life.
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  • @Jadira_Rosko
    @Jadira_Rosko Год назад +83

    I discarded him TODAY. Filing a PFA tomorrow. Pray for me please. I know this is a crucial move and point. I know I'm covered with the blood of Jesus but extra prayers won't hurt.

  • @LMBL777
    @LMBL777 Год назад +98

    I think the worst one is never returning, never letting them hear your voice again, changing your number and never looking back is the worst one in my opinion.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Год назад +15

      Exactly what I did !!! Never let them hear your voice again.

    • @sll110
      @sll110 Год назад +3

      @@browneyes9507 100%

    • @takaray9193
      @takaray9193 Год назад +4

      I agree. I did just this.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Год назад +2

      @@takaray9193 me too! Yesssss

    • @shirlspark_stardust
      @shirlspark_stardust Год назад +6

      Agreed but I'm not changing my # block on everything

  • @TRU_WORSHIPPERS
    @TRU_WORSHIPPERS Год назад +29

    Going back to a narcissist is telling them you was in the wrong ....

  • @smokeybear7669
    @smokeybear7669 Год назад +65

    The worst narcissist injury is telling them who they are.
    When you do it’s like saying
    Beetlejuice 3 times and
    you’ve woken up the devil.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Год назад +4

      That wouldn’t matter much telling them who they are - it’s still giving them some emotions- worst injury Lady T. Said it- Discard them and Go NC- stay silent- it’s sooo much power in that - it will also affect them 4 ever, words don’t… - I discarded the narc husband still married 3 yrs ago never looked back. His life is pitiful since I left plus heard he looks awful.

    • @MA-yv8dw
      @MA-yv8dw Год назад

      No don't come to NC go elsewhere!!! Please 🙏🏾 Narc overcrowding. We need any more😢

    • @MA-yv8dw
      @MA-yv8dw Год назад

      You let it out now move on NO CONTACT

    • @nicolecolleton7372
      @nicolecolleton7372 5 месяцев назад

      I did that and was told I attacked their character. They were so mad at me LOL

    • @Nee2943
      @Nee2943 20 дней назад

      @@browneyes9507 it definitely matters if you do it right lol Especially when you are dealing with the kind of narcissists that relentlessly stalks you. I have been getting stalked by my ex narc for over 15 years. Everything from getting calls from blocked numbers, fake number apps, to getting random text with my current home address to scare me. I mean I live over one thousand miles away and We have no mutual friend but he still manages to find my home address and new cell phone numbers. He even found my husband’s phone number and started texting him out of the blue. He even inboxed my daughter on fb and she was only about 6 the last time she saw him and at the time that this took place she was about 24. She didn’t even remember him smh. I was literally almost 14 years of no contact before I finally said something back to him and when I tell you this is the longest amount of silence I’ve gotten ever since I went no contact. I mean I caused over 15 plus years worth of narcissistic injury in one paragraph 😂😂😂 I think he was taking my silence for weakness and he thought that he was bullying me until I snapped. I still get random calls from time to time but it is very minimal after that tongue lashing. Plus I exposed him to his mom and brother with undeniable receipts, so I know that played a role in his injury too.

  • @adriannebell8795
    @adriannebell8795 Год назад +44

    I was in a very verbal, emotional and physical relationship with a narc! The last straw was when he woke the next day and told me he a dream that he had stabbed me a hundred times! I was like that’s it! While I was cleaning up minutes later trying to figure out how to escape, he pulled out a knife and a pitch fork and payed it beside him! By the Grace of God I was able to get away and call the police! He is currently in jail with aggravated assault charges with a deadly weapon! No bond because he violated his federal probation! When I say that God heard my cries for protection ! Thank you God for saving me! Ladies this is so real I never in a million years would think it would happen to me! If a man even raises his voice a notch, that’s a Red Flag please leave because a lot of women don’t make it out!🙏🏾❤️

    • @bumblebee7082
      @bumblebee7082 8 месяцев назад +2

      It is SO REAL ! Im so happy you made it out alive, me too ! July 2023 he attempted to stab and kill me with a knife, God showed me an unlocked door,I dunno what distracted him, in the middle of the fight,he went to the bedroom while carrying the knife,and that right there, was my opportunity to get out of the house. I never laid any charges, here is South Africa its just a joke, cops come and try to reason with the perpetrator. Faith in God is what saved me, I could feel it that night that Im gonna die, something shifted in my Spirit. I just divorced him, after 11yrs of marriage

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 7 месяцев назад +2

      ❤🙏🏽

  • @ruttyretro515
    @ruttyretro515 Год назад +38

    I divorced my narcissist wife. We were together for 21 years and found out that she had an affair by the man she had an affair with. I ended up winning my absolute divorce against her and she received no alimony. I blocked her and her family and friends on all socials. I told her I don't want to hear anything from you unless it has to do with our sons. And if it's something small, you can text it. She hates the fact that she doesn't know what's going on in my life. She hates it even more knowing that I'm dating someone who is truly better than her in every aspect and I've upgraded my life by starting over from scratch when it came to her. God truly revealed to me the truth and gave me the opportunity to be free from the madness and that's when the veil was lifted and I saw her for who she really is. Blessings on blessings. Amen

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Год назад +2

      she gon really hate it when she finds out ...aint nothing out here lol

    • @reddmann4340
      @reddmann4340 Год назад

      Powerful Testimony. I am going through the divorce process now, and it's one of the most difficult things I have ever experienced. She is attempting to money-grab more than her marital share. The courts can see the thievery plain as the sun.

    • @monstercody2588
      @monstercody2588 Год назад

      Congrats 🍾🎉

  • @CAROLYN143-8-9
    @CAROLYN143-8-9 Год назад +46

    I DISCARDED HIM 15+YRS AGO AND HIS FATHER TOLD ME BEFORE HE COMMITTED SUICIDE. TO LEAVE HIM & NEVER EVER EVER L👀K BACK. I THANKED HIS FATHER FOR LOVING ME ENOUGH TO TELL ME THE TRUTH. MY LIFE HAS BEEN SOOOO MUCH BETTER NOW THAN IT WAS WHEN I WAS WITH HIM. GLORY BE TO THE MOST HIGH GOD 🙏 FOR HIS LOVE & HIS PROVIDENCE

    • @delaw2xoxo269
      @delaw2xoxo269 Год назад +10

      Wow, how sad. My ex-narc father and I were very close and he was a wonderful Grandfather besides my father to our 2 kids. When we got engaged his dad told me before he died. I love my son but he is a low scale man . I want to see you happy and married BUT not to my son he isn't what you deserve and he was so RIGHT!. MAY HE REST IN PEACE

  • @sharonstallwort8303
    @sharonstallwort8303 Год назад +16

    He tired that " let's be friends crap" hell to the NO !!

  • @eireannlappin2599
    @eireannlappin2599 Год назад +34

    Before I realised I was trauma bonded and caught up in a long distance addictionship, I lost count how many times I ended it. I always second guessed myself and went back, he always took me back and around we'd go. My mind was battling cognitive dissonance as he would say things that I realised were to throw me off balance, naturally he would reassure, love bomb, deflect, blame shift, gaslight, never take accountability therefore no responsibility. Watching Telsha's videos, praying, reading, my bible and talking to a Domestic Abuse counsellor, I got away from that hellmented frog. I gave him the final discard of his life!! My only regret is that I didn't end the contact sooner as some of the crude, rude, disgusting and demeaning things and names he called me is the nasty toxic residue that I'm detoxing from after my encounter with this demon. Don't fall for the crying, begging, pleading or request to be friends. Once you know, go! Full No Contact!! 🙏 Cut them off all the way 💯 To God be the glory 🕊

    • @delaw2xoxo269
      @delaw2xoxo269 Год назад +3

      Amen, I've been there . STAY STRONG IN THE LORD AND THE POWER OF HIS MIGHT.

    • @missb1982
      @missb1982 Год назад +2

      Sounds like we dated the same person lol. Theyre all alike

    • @MA-yv8dw
      @MA-yv8dw Год назад +1

    • @Denise-tt1hq
      @Denise-tt1hq Год назад +1

      God bless you,Dear Heart.🎉

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 Год назад +11

    I can't go back...it's POINTLESS...they will NEVER b able 2 b n a relationship so what's the point n going back 2 FALSENESS, DRAMA, and more...NOT ME!!! I left and that's it!!!

  • @karenwalters3164
    @karenwalters3164 Год назад +16

    DISGARDING is REAL!!!❤taking your CONTROL BACK!!!❤ NO CONTACT!!!❤ UNBORTHERED!!!❤ Their EGO BRUISED!!!❤

  • @VictoriaNakaraKizer
    @VictoriaNakaraKizer 10 месяцев назад +5

    It feels so great, and the hoovering from him and the flying monkeys is relentless. I do not even stalk his social media pages, and he can not stand it.

  • @Kristalwalker1972
    @Kristalwalker1972 Год назад +31

    I left and have not looked back. He bruised my body so his bruised ego is nothing but part of his karma.
    Once I started therapy, I knew I would never ever have anything else to do with him. My leaving was my life beginning again.

  • @TxHoneyBee
    @TxHoneyBee Год назад +17

    I gave him so many chances, but I've finally said enough is enough. I discarded him, and I blocked everyone in his family. He's facing jail for his third DUI (had two before we met, claimed to be 'healing' from his past and it was all lies). Instead, I bought my dream home in another state. I don't want him to know where I live or ever see me again. All of his emails go to spam.

  • @RoyalTi86
    @RoyalTi86 Год назад +13

    Did the “C-Walk” all on his ego! WHO REMEMBER THE C-WALK?😂

  • @charlenecabell4039
    @charlenecabell4039 Год назад +30

    When I heard him on my voice messages. I didn't even flinch. I am getting stronger by the day and keeping my distance very well. Thank you for your videos

    • @sylviaamodeo7090
      @sylviaamodeo7090 Год назад

      Burn down the bridge.8 million on this planet. Double check your ones😇

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Год назад +6

      all his hoovers were full of rage !! begging "please, pick up, dont do this, i need your help"..blocked n deleted

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Год назад +4

      Yep , that’s why I changed my number 😂. Are you sure we not talking about the same Narc? Lol

  • @rhondacooper7957
    @rhondacooper7957 11 месяцев назад +4

    After a year of dealing with the ex narcissist boyfriend I have had enough, I dumped him, and he cried out loud sounded like a roaring beast. He stalked me by following my every move, annoying phone calls, driving by my house and sitting in front of my house. His behavior went on for months to a year. 😅

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 Год назад +3

    Trying to destroy my essence, telling me they "still love me". After trying to Destroy everything I have worked for. Careful dear ones.

  • @shannonme34
    @shannonme34 Год назад +6

    I had the pleasure of discarding the ex narc and I went no contact while the police took him out the house so it was safe for my daughter and I to go back. Since over 2 years I have had a restraining order so he is not allowed to contact me. I am happy my daughter and I are safe from this toxic and dangerous individual.

  • @vickihutto7916
    @vickihutto7916 5 месяцев назад +3

    I did it and didn’t blink an eye doing it... try anything!?? So true he married a homely ( like my grandmother use to say ‘ugly as homemade soap’)
    and sent a photo of them together on IG.. it was hilarious because I took one look at his expression and body language , and it reminded me of Valdamort in Harry Potter trying to hug Drako Malfoy in the final episode😆😝😆😝😆
    I literally read his mind because he wanted to be ANYWHERE besides getting photographed with that scary tore up fetale
    He don’t get the reaction from me he was counting on... Rather, I just ignored and he’s been trying his best to contact me since he married that troll
    Well you know what they say... nobody falls in love faster than a narcissist needing a place to live!!😂
    He moved in with her as a so called roommate then he entangled her with a marriage proposal

  • @daniellewashington4974
    @daniellewashington4974 2 месяца назад

    My ex-husband had the nerve to call me and tell me he’s having a hard time getting over me. I said you weren’t having a hard time when you was out here lying, and cheating and physically assaulting me. And then I said, does your new girlfriend or your new supplies realize you’re calling your ex-wife telling her you miss her and want her back. These delusional birds do not learn, thank you Jesus that you did not allow me to lose my mind.

  • @pocahontas4583
    @pocahontas4583 Год назад +19

    I guess I gave the worse injury then. That’s why he went into such a rage and went on a revenge streak when I left. But he never would have left on his own. He was too busy trying to use up and abuse every ounce of me. When I’ve told people details of things he was doing everyone always says it sounded like he truly enjoyed doing things to see me get upset and was enjoying the mind games and trying to get over financially.
    He’d lay up all night insulting me, keeping me from getting any sleep. But then turned around and told me he never wanted a divorce. That was me. So I need to be the one to file. I filed and then he turned around and immediately filed also instead of just responding to my filing. Like it was a competition

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 Год назад +12

    You are so on point. I discarded him before took him back. And he fooled around with my life ex friend who also is a Covert narc I found out. After I cursed his a .... out. I hurt his feeling I know . He can't come back after he did that!!! That was a wrap. The Hobo Narcissist Bum!!! Bye Boy. 2 years narc Free.

  • @patriciawilson7744
    @patriciawilson7744 Год назад +7

    They didn’t make me, nor did they break me is surely my motto BAY-BEE!! I thank you, and I accept your congratulations, Sis because, you hit the nail SMACK ON THE HEAD...TODAY, because everything you said happened verbatim, the way I discarded his behind, and snatched that power grid of mine back where it belonged! OH!!!! Yes..I did, Sis. Will never, ever go back to that narc with the stinky breath 🤮and turned over shoe heels 🥾with slew feet. NEVER! NEVER! AGAIN!! He can’t touch this...EVER AGAIN! Thank You Jesus!🙏🏽

  • @keliaantoine1060
    @keliaantoine1060 Год назад +2

    One month 7 days. And its been hell. But I know with time this too shall pass. Still the best decision I made. God knows

  • @eloisemcclendon3180
    @eloisemcclendon3180 2 месяца назад

    They will never be the one to end it for good. You have to discard them first and never look back. It's no closure. So peaceful and free. God saved me.

  • @myblessings1000
    @myblessings1000 Год назад +9

    I left and years later allowed him to came back.... We'll just say there was a whole agenda from the beginning unbeknownst to me to destroy me upon returning. Later those words came out of Ex Narcs mouth, " I'm going to destroy you." Worst Mistake Ever, There was a whole orchestrated, strategized, premeditated plot to destroy me for leaving and doing what "I had" to do the first time. The devalue and last violation forced my hand 🤚🏽 to leave again. Go Back at your own risk⛔️ ⚠️.... once you leave the fun house 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️like Allyson Felix and never look back. Thank You Sis Telsha for the PSA🙏🏽🕊 🌹

  • @sunnydaye5942
    @sunnydaye5942 Год назад +20

    If you get out and later take them back, they will be sure to leave you at the most unsuspecting moment. Just to get back at you. I did that with one ex husband 42 years after I left and another I took back after 38 years, another after 20 years. It's so horrible. 3 times a charm, I will not do it again. No more ex's ever again.

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 3 месяца назад +1

    In the discarded I told him I’m not the woman you met. That one!!! Lol

  • @Rose-dl6xg
    @Rose-dl6xg Год назад +8

    I'm getting closer and closer to celebrating!!!

  • @user-uh6jm6uh8h
    @user-uh6jm6uh8h 4 месяца назад +1

    Man, this dude came to my house to fight me.
    Then, a year later, he had a nerd to come over to tell me you know to see how I was doing and then have the nerd literally saying to me I wasn’t expecting you to leave me the way that you did wow🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙂

  • @dwyanegarrison7809
    @dwyanegarrison7809 Год назад +3

    You cannot kill what you did not build.

  • @godisamulti-racialhermaphr7560
    @godisamulti-racialhermaphr7560 Год назад +2

    "I found my thrill, on Succubus Hill, now I done shut that door, on that ole 304." Sung to the tune of "Blueberry Hill"

  • @Samantha-cp1qm
    @Samantha-cp1qm Год назад +11

    You are reading these beast today.☺

  • @DrYayahMarie
    @DrYayahMarie Год назад +3

    Whew yes I’m so glad I got the pleasure of giving them the boot 🥾! 🙌

  • @leandraherring1824
    @leandraherring1824 Год назад +8

    MRS. TELSHA U ARE TELLING IT ALL YES🔥🔥🔥🔥.. I LEFTED THAT DUCK WITH HIS TWIGS STANDING UP HE NEVER SAW IT COMING THESE APES RUNNING IN THE WILD CAN'T STAND WHEN YOU BLOCK AND GO NO CONTACT THEY GO LOOKING CRAZY ITS BEEN 8 YEARS SINCE I LEFT HIM HE OUT HERE LOOKING LIKE ELMO RIDEIN ON SKATES TRYING TO FIND ME FACEBOOK 😂😂 KEEP LOOKING CAUSE I AIN'T COMING BACK 😂😂 LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤ Y'ALL HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON ❤❤

    • @mekalove8174
      @mekalove8174 Год назад +1

      Hi sweetie💖💖 I can't with you 😂

    • @leandraherring1824
      @leandraherring1824 Год назад

      @Meka Love SIS I LOVE YOU GIRL 🤣🤣♥️♥️♥️

  • @vernasmith1108
    @vernasmith1108 Год назад +4

    He left for 2 nights 3 days, no phone calls, no nothing. When he came back, his clothes were packed and ready to go. He got all his belongings

  • @victoriousv75
    @victoriousv75 Год назад +9

    Yes they are SUPER PETTY! Stole my lunchbox for work n a steak knife out the holder! Smh! No reason, just a Petty LaBelle

  • @beardedham5983
    @beardedham5983 Год назад +16

    im about this close to booking a session cause your videos are so spot on, - the narc I discarded recently downloaded fake numbers to call me , leaving me voice messages saying they think about me when they go out to eat alone. I cant 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🤦🏾

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 Год назад +1

      I been getting text app numbers texts and calls from the narc I discarded last year

    • @beardedham5983
      @beardedham5983 Год назад +2

      @@Glitter504 They are weird. I truly believe Telsha when she says this is spiritual. Nearly all her videos describes my relationship to a teaaaa its scary

  • @Ctothe
    @Ctothe Год назад +5

    Discarded mine with a restraining order and a divorce. Not that I was left with much choice considering the circumstances

  • @phoenixLeoRising333
    @phoenixLeoRising333 10 месяцев назад +1

    I discarded him first! He sought revenge. We went through 3 cycles within 6 months! I took my power back he left & I let him! My life is so much more peaceful!

  • @Tinablackberryrose
    @Tinablackberryrose Год назад +12

    Thank You Ms. T. everything you said is so true. Discarding and going no contact with that bag of dirt was the best thing. Not looking back or ever going back it’s a done deal for me.

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 Год назад +9

    So one afternoon I walked into his man cave and asked him very politely for a DIVORCE, he sat straight up in the bed and asked me …
    ARE YOU KIDDING ME, ARE YOU SERIOUS… I said , “very “ , I told him me being an option is no longer an option for him… he jumped up like a Jack in the Box… I didn’t even consider it a discard at all, he was already in cahoots with another person.
    So did I really discard him ?, even though he was in a situation ship with another person…
    Oh well … I guess I’m the bad guy

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Год назад +3

      Not really all you did was free his conscience so he can go be with the other person. He’ll probably say, you ask for the this.
      Even if you’re still living together, I suggest you stay silent don’t give a response or reaction…to Nothing. If he’s in another relationship, it’s matter of time before he’s gonna leave, or start argument then leave again& again.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Год назад +2

      Why ask for the divorce-
      just go file.. how I did it - then I left anyway…didn’t give him no room to play those games - when you’re done - you’re done ….. NOTHING else to say…

  • @Bukky-Michaella6393
    @Bukky-Michaella6393 Год назад +2

    It's happening already. I have moved from stagnation/delay to acceleration/destiny 🥺 Hallelujah!!! I am returning back for my miraculous testimony of Massive newness... I receive & connect to this prophetic word in Jesus mighty name 🙏 Amen. Thank you Abba Father

  • @sandiepartin830
    @sandiepartin830 4 месяца назад +1

    Mine has never tried to control what I wear or where I go he is not physically abusing me just spiritually emotionally mentally

  • @Branaymolly
    @Branaymolly Год назад +1

    I got discarded and understood the assignment 🤷 i don't see the problem even exchange

  • @pressncurl
    @pressncurl Год назад +3

    I was subtlety tearing that ego the whole time. 😂

  • @missb1982
    @missb1982 Год назад +4

    I dont know which was worse for the narc. I discarded him after 7 months but i stupidly went back after a month. He had gotten all fat and had disappeared from social media and being around other people. But oh did he make me pay for that! So i called him out a few months later after he put his hands on me (i wasnt being compliant anymore) and he said he was going to "fall back" from me. You know that means shelf you or he wanted me to call and chase him which i did not. Its been almost a year since i didn't return from his little break he wanted and he has lost his job, his face is all sunken in, he cant even fake smile anymore, and he has tried to indirectly hoover. So i cant say which was worse, but knowing his breakup with me wasn't actually a breakup, id say this second go round was worse for him. I dont know who he thought i was!

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 Год назад +3

    "no caller ID" , fb page hacked, getting all these crazy calls from crazy numbers !! im not taking the bait lol

  • @hollycrite
    @hollycrite 2 месяца назад

    I love your personality 😅. I show did told him to get out my car. Made him walk to his Daddy’s house, nicely folded and bagged his clothes, and blocked him on all social media including my phone 🎉

  • @whenthasmokeclears
    @whenthasmokeclears Год назад +4

    11 months today post narc relationship and yes I planned a whole year on how to get him away from me! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 He still telling people how much he miss me and wish he had me back in his life. As my grandma use to say “wish in one hand and you know what in the other”

  • @joyhayes7299
    @joyhayes7299 2 месяца назад

    You are so correct.He told me his sister told him that I was too pretty and that I would never put up with his family knew

  • @loveflamequotes
    @loveflamequotes Год назад +1

    INFJ personality type here. That’s us.

  • @dezonwill33
    @dezonwill33 9 дней назад

    My ex narcissist was telling people I messed her life up! Full blown lies before she moved outta my house that b!tch had $165,000 from her late father and I didn’t want any of it I just wanted her gone as soon as she moved out I went no contact and blocked her not because I was mad it was because I realized she was extremely jealous because I had a house as a matter of fact the first day we moved into my house she broke down crying because her name wasn’t on my deed so she said she was leaving and the sad part is she actually was thinking I needed that mut to help me with bills 3 years later I find out her daughter put spyware on my phone to keep an eye on me and i honestly think all that money is gone now she needs someone to blame because the L’s she’s been taking because I didn’t give her a chance to discard me I did it first I guess she was thinking ima end up coming back she was dead wrong now she’s somewhere hiding because of all the shame and her family and friends know the truth! That she played herself

  • @Flips44
    @Flips44 9 месяцев назад +1

    She disgarded me. That week she called me from a different number because I blocked her on everything. Said she wanted to work things out, saw the same things then I just blocked her without saying a word

  • @bearpolar90210
    @bearpolar90210 21 день назад

    I discarded her 1st, then expose her to her other supply, years of no contact 😂😂😂😂

  • @charlenecabell4039
    @charlenecabell4039 Год назад +5

    I'm still doing the "No Contact". Even though he discard me. I blocked him from calling and texting. Somehow, he found a way to call anyway. But I don't respond and I will contact no contact.

    • @nissmone9598
      @nissmone9598 Год назад +2

      The discard is fake and only temporary. The true discard is yours when you remain no contact and dont allow him no more in your life. Better change phone number to not be disturbed.

    • @charlenecabell4039
      @charlenecabell4039 Год назад +1

      cannot @@nissmone9598 You are right. I blocked him from sending anymore emails.

    • @nissmone9598
      @nissmone9598 Год назад

      @@charlenecabell4039 if you receive e mails from unknown mails dont open

  • @ms.generatorsnatcher9974
    @ms.generatorsnatcher9974 Год назад +1

    I put the trash out 3 years ago and I have not looked back! I'm looking for a way to celebrate the "trash out" anniversary!

  • @thelmathelmadillard6032
    @thelmathelmadillard6032 Год назад +1

    My and my ex broke up soon after a big argument. He told me to shut up, listen, and use my brain. This I realized I couldn't deal with anymore. So I called him back and told him he was not going to talk to me like that. He Became very arrogant in our conversation. And he told me three times that he was gonna disconnect the call because I was wasting his time. Because I was not making a point with him. So I told him to go ahead and leave. At which time he became irrate. He asked me to repeat myself. So I did, And I told him you said three times you were going to get off the phone because my conversation with you was irrelevant. So I said go, And I said it in a calm voice. At which time he told me I'm not 1 of your boys. THEN HE HUG UP. The next day when we spoke. He spoke if he did nothing wrong. But he did make it a point to say I dismissed him. I told him no I respected your wishes and let you go like you wanted. He never took responsibility for his behavior. At that time everything started going down hill until he broke up with me. Which I knew was coming, because God was moving me future and future away from him. We finally stopped talking after having a argument about my dog. Lol, this is what I love . My dog is still with me but he is gone.

  • @Chidiuche
    @Chidiuche 3 месяца назад +1

    Telsha please, its still early in the morning and I don't want to laugh out lord. Which one is "ah!, yes ooo,ah!". All the Nigerian in you just gushed out 😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @maryanngray4519
    @maryanngray4519 3 месяца назад

    Oh well get over it , they do what it takes to get u gone

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 3 месяца назад +1

    I DID it!!
    I did the discarding.

  • @berniekennedy9793
    @berniekennedy9793 Год назад

    OHHHH SIS YOUR ON FIYAAA
    This was me I done this HES STILL ON THE HUNT FOR ME Gang stalked FOR LIFE 🗣️ Keep Em comin TIGER THIS TRIBE IS GODS W E A L W A Y S WIN🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🙆‍♀️❤️ KEEP THAT WIDEBEAST WEARING FLIPFLOPS OUT FOR LIFE

  • @donnasoares9141
    @donnasoares9141 26 дней назад

    I discarded them then he came back and discarded me with pure evilness

  • @ralphwilliams4104
    @ralphwilliams4104 Год назад +3

    i invoked the unlawful detainer process to remove the enemy from my life. The best decision I could have made. Thanks for your inspirational and motivating spirit. You truly are a Godsend, Eternally grateful.

  • @thebrains4029
    @thebrains4029 9 месяцев назад

    I truly don't like to argue or fight, reason why if it comes to that I prefer it be with a man! I refuse to fight with a woman so I just walk away!

  • @God_Leads_My_Way
    @God_Leads_My_Way Год назад +2

    The pockets touching in the back 😂😂😂 cracks me up every time 😩

  • @tammyjones9454
    @tammyjones9454 Год назад +5

    I sure did I discarded him i dont have time for noone trying me

  • @blessed1003
    @blessed1003 Год назад

    😆😂 Not The Bird With the POCKETS TOUCHING IN THE🤣BAHAHAHA👍❤️💕

  • @Branaymolly
    @Branaymolly Год назад +1

    I can't go back I know he wants revenge he was seeking revenge for no reason so I know he really wants it now no ma'am I will not

  • @CandiceKhannaApps
    @CandiceKhannaApps 3 месяца назад +1

    Hahahaa like the furniture!! 😅 💯

  • @BillyC33iir
    @BillyC33iir Год назад

    It's bigger me it's a bigger picture all smiles and hugs.

  • @_YohAsakura_
    @_YohAsakura_ 2 месяца назад

    Before her I dated someone and some people too. You don't see or hear or found out I did this. C'mon man!

  • @7000JUSTICE
    @7000JUSTICE Год назад

    Exactly. Don't give 2 buks in a hut!

  • @504queentiggty
    @504queentiggty Год назад +5

    Preach sister preachhhhhhh preach come threw come on nahhhhhh 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 Год назад

    Mom said sorry I got stirred in the pot smh she knew

  • @HonestyIsAVirtue7
    @HonestyIsAVirtue7 Год назад +2

    🎉🎉🎉 Whoop! Whoop! I am the one that got away! 🎉🎉🎉 And, I hope that he NEVER forgets that!

  • @gloriawalker5897
    @gloriawalker5897 Год назад +1

    I did the discarding 😛😛. He's fighting this divorce like hes about to lose his life or something. Final court hearing is the end of July! Its the begging emails for me!😅(got him blocked on everything else). Haven’t heard his voice or seen him in 6 months. I'm happy I'll be completely free from this backwards walking giraffe 🦒 😅
    I'm a celebrity!! I have a fan for Life!! Woot woot! 😂 Its cool though because my Dodge and block game is REAL strong!! Goodbye to him and his cheating evil soul!!👋🏾👋🏾

  • @aliciachong8187
    @aliciachong8187 Год назад

    Best video! Discarded the mf after 36 years of marriage. Almost didn’t make it. But with a good support system from friends, I made it to the finishing line. One of my friends went back and even married the narc, she said it was the biggest mistake of her life. Never go back. Blessings to all! You got this!

  • @onelife7247
    @onelife7247 4 месяца назад

    It’s a truly horrifying (but necessary) decision when they are in a position of power and influence. The more money they have access to, the more they truly believe they’re above the law.

  • @godislove7011
    @godislove7011 Год назад +1

    I am still not sure if he did or I did. When I fund out how he was cheating in me since day one I went 4 months NC then gave in took him back for about 3 month but as soon as I saw nothing changed and he still was playing me. I cut him off with no explanation. It's been 1 year and a half... still have to see his mama at my church and he pops up once in a while but we don't speak. That's the only place he can run into me.... what a victory! Glow game 💯

  • @aggray1971
    @aggray1971 8 месяцев назад

    I also was in mental, verbal and sometimes physical abuse. What did it for me is that he said God told him to leave me and he should have been done it. But God. He actually did me a favor. He think he leaving me. I was married to him. Now divorce a year later

  • @azailialankster657
    @azailialankster657 Год назад +2

    I miss listening to you and I did just that left him with the new supply and he literally called me the other day and I ignored the hoover I feel so much powerful and will never go back thank you Sis and much love❤️ We got this!!!!

  • @s-wes4107
    @s-wes4107 Месяц назад

    This is SO accurate! Every word of it!

  • @user-qp2ry4zq2i
    @user-qp2ry4zq2i Месяц назад

    Yes i disgarded him first he didnt see it coming, that was 4 wks ago i got a picture from him yesterday asking me," how wiuld you like it if i never seen him again" he did look really unkempt and really sad, i deleted it no answer i hope he just stops botherinh me..

  • @ernestgarnier282
    @ernestgarnier282 Год назад

    You are so Wright about that my god
    That definitely let them go in a spin

  • @LOVELY-dv6oq
    @LOVELY-dv6oq Год назад +8

    THIS VIDEO SAVED MY LIFE TODAY...I just got back from that block on FB. Feels good right now!! I don't think I would have taken that leap until I had played this video!!

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 Год назад +4

    I hit that like button before I even listen to you because I know that you will always put out a great video. I discarded the covert narcissist. Oops! First, it was 50 days, then then I caved. Then a wk later I went no contact for 28 days now I'm back on track to 25 days and this time I'm not going back. He does give me mind games. I am a Super Empath and I feel his mind games. Miss me, text me. No can do this time around.

  • @T_Nice
    @T_Nice Год назад +3

    You are telling the God's honest truth about everything that you said in this video and I know because I have been through it all.
    He even tried that, let's be friends and I straight shut that down and told him that I don't want to be his friend so the answer is no!

  • @TRU_WORSHIPPERS
    @TRU_WORSHIPPERS Год назад +1

    I discarded her mentally then she discarded me physically ...she knew I was gonna stand for what's right and turn towards God .she wanted the drinking clubs etc I didn't.

  • @shawnpullen9517
    @shawnpullen9517 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you your videos are truly a blessing 💯❤️🙏

  • @michelleglover2045
    @michelleglover2045 Год назад +1

    OMGOODNESS!!! GO IN ON THEM!!! BIRDS!!!

  • @rockbrigade414
    @rockbrigade414 Год назад

    The only reason i care is for her next victim, she likes boys and girls, hope she enjoys her karma.

  • @AshaMohamed-vq9lz
    @AshaMohamed-vq9lz Год назад

    He keep calling knocking my door

  • @connysternberg8207
    @connysternberg8207 7 месяцев назад +1

    Mental illness NPD is a weapen… take care …is no hope of recoverd, so, we surch for a normaly healty person who bringt uș luck , not unluck.

  • @christinerene9351
    @christinerene9351 Год назад +1

    Why can’t they just go on somewhere? I just don’t know who they think they are that they can treat people the way they do, then have the nerve to be mad when you remove yourself from their presence? I just don’t get it? Just demons from the pits of hell.

  • @saiibasmith1803
    @saiibasmith1803 5 месяцев назад +1

    thanx sis❤sure got rid of em

  • @tib1632
    @tib1632 Год назад

    I discarded him… he had a damn fit. A year later I let him come back, thought we can be a family with our daughter 1 month later he discarded me. It’s been 6 months and he hasn’t even batted an eyelash. Hate hate hate him.

    • @tib1632
      @tib1632 Год назад

      Mind you, within that year he bothered me DAILY, threatened to kill himself and all.

  • @belindaconyers8440
    @belindaconyers8440 Год назад +3

    Discarded the Narc 4 years ago and he just reached out on a fake page in April. It never stops with them and their mess. It felt so good to kick him out. He was an alcoholic and drug addict also. I never looked back

  • @lovestarr4496
    @lovestarr4496 Год назад +1

    I've never cheated on my Narc but of course he cheated on me and he would smile about it.
    But my male family member found out about he and seen and heard him in the act and seen him running with some hits up side his head 🗣️ and I never heard from him again.
    Can we talk about a supported family member that stepped in your post please Grade A's need to hear this
    So those that are going through this can let go when help comes.
    Thank you. 🙋🏽‍♀️👸🏽♉💯🤎✌🏾✊🏾🌍❤️🕊️💐