Like 2 months into the discard, I remember the narc telling me he really missed me. Though I didn't know about narcissism back then, I knew it was a toxic miss. He had a mistress with children throughout our whole marriage, which disgusted me when I found out. I didn't fall for it. It's been 12 yrs since. I'm getting married to my empathetic fiance next yr Sept 😊🎉
He pretended to say that he miss you the only thing that he miss is draining your worth & energy & to top it all off is his disrespect for you so never settle with a toxic guy like him for it,s his loss.
I discarded him back in may it’s been 3 months none contact and we have a 8 year old son …That demon tried to ruin us but God be the glory not looking back …God is in my favor no weapon formed against me shall not prosper
We have 5 month old baby together it’s been hard I went no contact for a month then my nar tried to ruin me & our baby lives he sent his family to my home then he was controlling our baby it’s be horrible
Just because they left you don't think they ran off to the love of their life that's what they want you to believe that's why they trauma bond you too them. But if you think about it how can they love someone else that fast when they monkey branched over to another situation and did not take the time to be alone with themselves greave the relationship they had with you? No way they found love it don't come that easy it's all in illusion. They just hopped their butt's on a train to another failed relationship their just to stupid to see it coming. And don't pick up a hoover phone call when that relationship ends.
It’s all a game with the Narcs! No contact for 21 months and I don’t ever want anything to do with him. I saw him one day at the gas station and he was with a complete downgrade 🤣 I made sure he didn’t see me and I’m so glad to be done with that coward
BINGO! My ex-narc has totally dropped of the map. I have been doing great and have been able to detox and continue moving in strength. I accepted the discard and have gone NO CONTACT and haven't had any word from her. I am continuing my journey of self-healing and have lost another 10 lbs and have finalized my plans for my new home. I now have spare finances and exceptional peace. It feels good to know that I don't have the burden of carrying her debt, family drama and insecurities anymore. I told her son(s) that I wish her the best and informed them that our conversations need to be limited to current things only. I won't abandon them (gotta raise good black men)...but, I am not there to talk about their mother.
👏👏👏👏kudos kudos kudos for continuing detox for one! I’ve been so proud being able to love myself and continue detoxing and staying clean and strong too. I paid my rent today where he never thought I’d be able to do and it felt amazing. I can’t commend you enough for being real with her sons, and reassuring them they won’t be abandoned. They’re very lucky for someone to come into their life that won’t abandon them and if only half of what you said is true, I would still be very comfortable saying you are a good person and I hope it may help you to know that seeing your comment and being open about being able to detox really connected with me and helped me tremendously seeing that. Thank you really thank you.
That fool made a surprise visit to my house today! I caught him getting in his car driving away when I glanced out the window! New Supply GONE! 😂 He lost a LOT of weight! Boney! Muscles GONE!
My ex discarded me in May, moved on two weeks later, got her pregnant, then claimed she had a miscarriage…All the while he has been trying and trying and trying and trying and trying and trying to wiggle his way back to me…I ain’t thinking about him…at all…I know exactly who I am and who’s I am…All praises to the most high God!!!!
Mine would disappear and would stay gone long enough for me to “calm down” and hope that I would be so happy he was okay I would be happy to see him and welcome him back with no questions. 18yrs of that bs. Left him 10 months ago, been no contact for 6. He’s made multiple hoover attempts, using every excuse and tactic out there. Nope, still not calmed down. I’ll NEVER take that bait and answer that call or text again. #narcfree💜
It’s so laughable when you said the narcissists was wondering how they were so wrong about you, thinking you were the one alpha supply. When I’ve been in the same head space of wondering how I kept meeting a series of toxic people who started out so nice. But unlike the narcissist I realized I was at fault. I realized I wasn’t putting up boundaries. Becoming conditioned to putting up with their outbursts and walking on eggshells. I started figuring out what it was. So I may meet more narcissists in my future, but it will NEVER get to this point again. I’ve learned my lesson. 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾✌🏾
Praise God you’re safe and well Ms Telsha. I love, “They can dish it but they can’t take it”…Exactly my thought last night! Well, I pray that demon has crawled back into the abyss of hell after I gave him the discard of his life. 5 months No Contact 🕊🙏🏼 I deleted all social media profiles, changed my cell number and healing. I appreciate you. God bless you always. Éireann (Erin) ❤
Oh my gosh. This is spot on. I have been no contact with my narcissist daughter for a few years. She has been talking with my mother in law. Every time I see my mother in law, she will tell me I have to reach out to my narcissist daughter. NOPE, NOPE, NOPE. I'm done. We did nothing wrong to be treated like she treated my husband and I. Infact she stressed out my husband and her father so bad that her actions made him cry and asked over and over what he did wrong raising her until he collapsed and died. She has devastated and destroyed me beyond repair. I'm traumatized and have spiraled into a deep depression. It hurts like hell and I'm living in a nightmare I never wanted. So if she is getting her karma.... GOOD!!! I will not reach out to her, she would take it as an apology and we did nothing but help her. She will be the one who has to apologize and I might do grey rock, just for my grandsons sake since we raised him from birth to 6 years old. I will never trust or believe anything she says ever again. !!!!!!!!
I can totally relate. Same scenario here. Narc daughters are absolutely the worst. I gave and gave love, resources, finances etc etc. Never again! I am 70 years old, cancer survivor and she treated me with complete contempt. I have four grandchildren. I may greyrock, but am leaning toward not doing that, because it does not always work. No Contact! We move on.
She's been MIA for a whole week now after I called her out for cheating with a co-worker. Blocked her on everything! She tried to end it with the new supply to save our relationship, but it's too late. She's full of shame!
I know the former friend narc is suffering. She has all types of weird stuff on her windows. Weird signs, cardboard, and something that looks like aluminum foil on them. A guy was walking by her house and damn near jumped out his skin when he saw them. Moral of the story is, the discarded hurt them more than it hurt you.
12 years married and boom, brutally discarded. He ghosted me,changed his number, immediately shacked up with the secretary from his work. He showed up 2 months later with a 20 ft Uhaul and thought we was gonna wipe out assets without the divorce being final. My husband did the opposite, he went back on Facebook immediately and now hes showing hes "friends" with the next supply. Im not on Facebook but the attorney searched his page. Such an Evil mess
My ex Narc moved 2 hours away at first i couldnt understand because she would never move that far away from her mother, thats her bestfriend but now i know why that coward made that move after i discared her
My ex narc discarded me for someone else he was posting how happy he was on social media while staking me at the same time and now he closed all his social media
When I was discarded from a narc, it was because he had new supply. When things didn't go well with the new supply, & he wasn't doing well, that's when I would hear from him. I was the ego stroke/build a bear lady, once he got his confidence back up, he'd give me his arss to kiss, and disappear once he had the new supply secured. Sooo glad I healed & moved past that chapter of my life.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
The narc I married was down low he loves men most his supplies are men yep God revealed that to me I was grade A supply I did everything for that narc once I got rid of him thank God he is very evil oh well I'm out the way for God to deal with him I don't check for that dusty bird ever no contact at all till my divorce is completed I emailed and said be around to sign the papers 😌🙏🏾
I knew him just 6 weeks, I just let him go. I knew from the beginning he was a narc, had all the traits and then some. But he was just so cute I wanted to have some fun with it. Well, he dug his hole nice and big while I watched and then said, “I see what you’re doing. And it doesn’t work for me.” Now he’s hiding. Not gonna hoover that bird, no way. Thank you Tea! You’re the best! ❤️
Wow!! T this exactly what happened with I discarded the narc husband 3 yrs ago. The best “Top grads A supply he ever had”. He couldn’t believe he messed up again. This time it was permanent for me. Thank you GOD!!
this is so true! I been NC for over a year. i can tell my narc ex is suffering by the rapid weight loss, showing up at places alone to bump into me. Then I noticed they disappeared for a year and been private about there life. so unlike them since there use to bragging, show boating and looking happy and always have someone on there arm.
I've seen the narc 1x, at a funeral about 2 months ago, by himself and he was pretending like hell that he was ok but as we know, these birds are NEVER OK or normal. He's supposedly got married 6 mos after my discard, unless he lied about that as well but I'm sure that house is rocking and rolling in chaos. It's been 2 years since everything ended with us. I did receive a weird call a few weeks ago from a woman acting like she was interested in being one of my customers. I cut her off, told her I had an emergency, blocked everything about her, haven't even heard back from her. Possibly him using someone to get to me. These people are really crazy, they have nothing else to do but be crazy. I really don't want to change my # but I may have to. I rebuke him and whomever or whatever is trying to get back into my life. The devil is a liar.
Well, I blocked her everywhere and then she did the same to me to one up me and regain control. So, who knows what's going on. I know she had drug problems that were kept in check while she was with me. This was a long-distance relationship too, so who knows what's going on. My friends say, she will unblock you at some point too. Idk. It's just crazy, horrible stuff from someone who "claims" to have loved you. Smh
Oh man it was painful when he discarded me and paraded his new supplies all over the internet while acting like me, cooking for them and doing for them what he never did for met . I thought I would die from the heartache, but I didn't. Was angry with myself for a longgg time, he still love bomb me and I finally got the strength to delete him and his new supplies off of my Facebook. Its so hard to do, when you've fallen in love with an imaginary man. Addictionship for sure!
I was praying for God to remove this horrible person from my life. I knew that something wasn't quite right with the devil I had allowed into my life. 😢😢😢
He broke no contact after 32 days ... I went no contact again.. He disappeared from his Facebook account, in the past, we always used messenger... I also have him block on that.. But you are right, it doesn't matter if they have a new supply... Last night, he was lurking around my tiktok ..
Day 8 of no contact.... I didn't consider this aspect so that's good to know... I'll never know what's going with him and I don't want to. He's blocked on everything, doesn't know my location or new number, settings on social media are on locked down privacy.
I keep seeing cans and cans of energy drinks I was thinking man they must be exhausted from themselves because it’s not like they are working a regular job daily and they are just doing whatever they want all day.
I know I was grade A, but the Narc seems to be missing the new supply since she dumped him more than he missed me. He thought he was coming back to get me as a fill in but I'm not going back to him. He is lonely and losing weight, and drinking alot so I hear. Instead of him taking a chance to ask me out on a date he's waiting on me to ask him. Not going to happen I don't owe him anything. I suffered for 8 months while he and new supply were out enjoying life.
After 5 lovely years ,it's Obvious that he's not doing well at all .I saw after a couple of months not being social media and came back he left .couldn't handle seeing me happy and Smiling ......
They for sure can not get' 'Rid'' of their Social Media! How else can they get ,,,,NEW SUPPLY?? Honestly folks, different people, to THEM is just a shiny New Toy! Be Careful. Godspeed
How the heck do they get it wrong??? MINE MARRIED the back burner supply soooo . Im STILL not understanding this Narcissism mess. Its All too MUCH to the point that im like 😐 im indifferent. It hurt and nun can be done but to accept what he is , what he did and move on .
Yes that’s what you do heal and move on and don’t repeat. You know the signs now when you see them get out. Set boundaries now that’s where we fell short at. Time will refill who’s wise. It’s all a facade don’t believe it. They do anything to hurt you and give what you want to the next so it will appear that you were the problem but you’re NOT! Be glad it’s not you that married him.
Thank you for saying they’re not always busy with the new supply because that’s where I differ my narcissist I’m here for fat wasn’t dealing with a new supplies, so it was very hard to find people that could give me accurate advice that didn’t make me get up in my feelings or something because they would tell me. Oh, he’s just moved on through the one or some thing and that would put that idea in my head where if I don’t have proof of it and I never have in the years we’ve been together the only time it’s been put in my head is when I’m trying to educate myself about his mental health and others would tell me I was being stupid because he was on a new supply. Thank you. I think you’re my favorite.
I appreciated her saying this too because having a new supply after a discard, silent treatment, etc does not always apply to every narcissist. Some will still post on social media to give the illusion that they are happy and/or to elicit a response out of you. They’ll do any little thing to get your attention.
He always reaches out! Such a looser! I’m living my life healing & growing closer to God! He left & I let him! My skin is glowing I’m hydrated. Never going back! Anytime I feel sad or have an illusion of nostalgia I pray & watch these wonderful videos to stay encouraged! A narc is highly unlikely to change! I’ve always hated the circus! 🤡’s are weird! Not my monkey not my circus!😂😂😂😂😂
Great to see your beautiful face today Ms. Telsha. I really missed you. The narcissist tried it today. Smh. And I thought oh heck no,😂 never again. Thank you for sharing your beautiful light today!
I was that queen i left him I made him feel so special I hope he's going thru thats what he gets he got the door slam right in his face I don't care where he is or what he's doing - He was really dragging it and I finished it💯
Good afternoon Ms Tea happy that y'all made it back safely home and narc survivors 😊🙏🏾I dumped that pigeon with the missing feathers 😅😂with skinny legs and a tutu on Ms Tea gets me tickled with the clap backs I love it ,oh I feel this one is hiding I haven't heard or seen that backwards walking giraffe he just needs to sign my divorce papers after I get it from the courts them demons tearing them up and they deserve it.
I m glad she suffering she deserve it and that is 100 💯 for That I have no love lose at all for Christ sake the door is permanently close the trust will not be given back no more to this person and she knows,Where I stand now.
I been watching these videos. And I don't understand why they bother you when they disrespect you. I avoided them and they are stalking me. It's scary how dangerous they are when they don't get what they want. They want people to fight over them. I pick peace over hovac. Now they won't stop calling me and also was in a relationship while they were with me. I was so depressed and broke down. Didn't understand why they were doing me so dirty. Now I'm getting calls that won't stop
MRS. TELSHA❤ YES QUEEN I DISCARDED THAT APE WITH SOME BLUE LIPSTICK AND A HARDHAT 8 YEARS AGO THESE MONKEYS WILL ALWAYS TRY TO LOOK IN THE MIRROR TRYING TO FIND YOU AGAIN BUT THEY NEVER WILL SO WE WINN FAMILY ❤️❤️ NO MATTER WHAT LOVE YOU TELSHA❤
Can you make a video on how a narcissist pastor funeral will be and the aftermath just for my confirmation because I witnessed a pure mess thank you in advance
I love you and your beautiful way of speaking to people especially going through god knows what with a narcissistic person. It brings me so much comfort and a feeling of someone understanding/caring. Bless you dear🩷
💯%This message was accurate. In my situation I got rid of my narcisst. This was the 2nd time I got rid of someone who was a narcisst unknowly I didn't know of this until following yotube and learning about the sickness. I honestly did not know this sickness was existence like this how most of the instructors give examples though some reveal they are change/ recover narcisst and such a thing the first one was before yotube got so big and popular. This last one completely horrible and sicken very. Once she came up with her BS and lies and schemes. I ended it right there and their is no need to continue or have any drama and I'm telling as It is and as of that day, that afternoon when she call I calmy told her I'm moving on with my life XYZ no more, enough and I mean what I said. The Crazy part was like I just slept and left your house that early morning and that same day we got up early take care of your business at your appointment asking me to come with you then to the night to the next morning you starting trouble like really oh no no no and that next morning before the same night speaking to her in a conversation I came to her, talking why you can't be normal what is wrong with you and the craziness continue to come out and doing😢. No more enough I cant deal with this. I'm moveing on with my life its like 3 or 4 person in 1 really no more some folks hide it good. Like real good. I love my peace of mind and normality. And when she realize I wasn't playing she came trying to look for me driving miles miles away. I would not let her come to my home as she tried to contact me pick up her items like yeah right. I quickly that next day mail her items to her which she purposely left behind on numerous occasion oh no no no enough you can keep it hopeing I might of throw it away that clown or bird to me "A field monkey", and like I learn from the oldschool "monkey dae ah bush you bring ah yard you never have a easy time"😂😂😂😂 and I dont want that either, enough move on to the next supply. I mail her, her items in a box and priority and then she started the stalking it seems like she was watching from far as I mail the box for how she ended up in my direction coming from the opposite direction towards me hummm. Six cars away as that car was about to turn left turning. I spoted a tip of a tinted license plate at the intersection light, before it could make a left turn I already had my head down in my phone in my ride. I didnot want to see or see her or notice her; making sure; great thing I have those deep slanted eagle eyes that could spot deep around the corner around the corner without anyone noticeing; thats a gift from the lord those eyes and someone is watching you from that car. I was so, so happy the light turn green I kept driving forward as other cars started hunking their horns. As her car was trying to pull up next to mine I dont want nothing regardless. I need my peace of mind and a cool me that narcisst situation is serious and real, and those people are very crazy too I see.. Everything Telsha is saying is 💯% truthful. Bruthfully honest. Its best to keep away and stay ghost💯
I saw a post and he getting fat and losing his hair.. terrible looking. It’s sad. But I’m good. It’s only been a year hahahaha sad. I pray he repents. Cause he is suffering cause he is not engaged to a nac. Lolololol she cheating on him.
Mine also have tregt issues… Im just sending him love from afar. I will never hate him. NEVER. But he said yesterday something about group sex that took the cake. He is not stabile……
Hi sis, first off I’m glad to hear you’re well during this insane weather in So Cali…It’s truly devastating to see on the news sending you, the family and everyone furbabies and all going through this ordeal my love and continued prayers! This videos was awesome. August 10, 2023 marked 2 years ZERO CONTACT since I discarded that Narc. You’re absolutely correct Narcs do disappear, quick story time the next day after that chaos in my home I went to get a restraining order which was granted, got the papers served to him at his job he was then fired and then left back to San Diego or so I was informed. Nonetheless, I wish him well all has been forgiven but not even a month after the discard which I’m sure he tells ppl he left but no fool you were escorted out of MY HOME involuntarily by the police - he emailed his ex that he was with before me to try and get back with her but sorry SHE IS NOW MARRIED AND HAPPY which I’m sure drove him to pay for the nearest woman of the night in Tijuana because he loves doing that. He always use to tell me he could get anyone he wanted and he knows that certain races are easy to get so he uses them and moves on after just one night. He is sick! I am so nauseous EVERYTIME I think of all those years I wasted on being with Satans spawn and how GRATEFUL I am that I got out of that mess! I don’t wonder about him I just thank him for the lesson and keep it moving! ALL GLORY BE TO GOD! Stay safe everyone and ALWAYS BE KIND to one another!❤
My narc did a reverse discard... after he left me for new supply, came back, did a reverse discard. I came back to find the new/old supply in my bed hiding up under the cover😭😂🤣 after he claimed that she was "toxic" and "crazy". Looked me straight in my eyeball and said "he don't know how she got here"😂😂😂. GOOD RIDDANCE...BLOCKED..NO CONTACT.. PERIOD!!🙌
I see this me n his first bm are decent women others not so much I see why he wanted to hold us with a baby smh My ex he finally posted pictures everyone commented why he looks so sad 😂 I loved it. Lost weight. He blocks me n bread crumbs me asking about his kid from a random number I texted him from I learned I shouldn’t reply at all and live in peace
Like 2 months into the discard, I remember the narc telling me he really missed me. Though I didn't know about narcissism back then, I knew it was a toxic miss. He had a mistress with children throughout our whole marriage, which disgusted me when I found out. I didn't fall for it. It's been 12 yrs since. I'm getting married to my empathetic fiance next yr Sept 😊🎉
Congratulations! May God bless you and your union
@@jlove8586 Thsnk u 😊
He pretended to say that he miss you the only thing that he miss is draining your worth & energy & to top it all off is his disrespect for you so never settle with a toxic guy like him for it,s his loss.
GOD GRANTED YOU AND YA HUSBAND GREATNESS, ENJOY AND MAKE IT LAST FOREVER, SMILE
I discarded him back in may it’s been 3 months none contact and we have a 8 year old son …That demon tried to ruin us but God be the glory not looking back …God is in my favor no weapon formed against me shall not prosper
🎉🎉 Stay strong in Christ! ❤️
Amen Sis 🙏🫶 💯
Me too. Got discarded may 23 2023
We got this
We have 5 month old baby together it’s been hard I went no contact for a month then my nar tried to ruin me & our baby lives he sent his family to my home then he was controlling our baby it’s be horrible
Just because they left you don't think they ran off to the love of their life that's what they want you to believe that's why they trauma bond you too them. But if you think about it how can they love someone else that fast when they monkey branched over to another situation and did not take the time to be alone with themselves greave the relationship they had with you? No way they found love it don't come that easy it's all in illusion. They just hopped their butt's on a train to another failed relationship their just to stupid to see it coming. And don't pick up a hoover phone call when that relationship ends.
It’s all a game with the Narcs! No contact for 21 months and I don’t ever want anything to do with him. I saw him one day at the gas station and he was with a complete downgrade 🤣 I made sure he didn’t see me and I’m so glad to be done with that coward
BINGO! My ex-narc has totally dropped of the map. I have been doing great and have been able to detox and continue moving in strength. I accepted the discard and have gone NO CONTACT and haven't had any word from her. I am continuing my journey of self-healing and have lost another 10 lbs and have finalized my plans for my new home. I now have spare finances and exceptional peace. It feels good to know that I don't have the burden of carrying her debt, family drama and insecurities anymore. I told her son(s) that I wish her the best and informed them that our conversations need to be limited to current things only. I won't abandon them (gotta raise good black men)...but, I am not there to talk about their mother.
👏👏👏👏kudos kudos kudos for continuing detox for one! I’ve been so proud being able to love myself and continue detoxing and staying clean and strong too. I paid my rent today where he never thought I’d be able to do and it felt amazing. I can’t commend you enough for being real with her sons, and reassuring them they won’t be abandoned. They’re very lucky for someone to come into their life that won’t abandon them and if only half of what you said is true, I would still be very comfortable saying you are a good person and I hope it may help you to know that seeing your comment and being open about being able to detox really connected with me and helped me tremendously seeing that. Thank you really thank you.
That fool made a surprise visit to my house today! I caught him getting in his car driving away when I glanced out the window! New Supply GONE! 😂 He lost a LOT of weight! Boney! Muscles GONE!
😂😂😂 he’s regretting it!! Good for you for not going and running into those boney arms! Lol
@@carylsue. LOL!
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@@carylsue.😂
My ex discarded me in May, moved on two weeks later, got her pregnant, then claimed she had a miscarriage…All the while he has been trying and trying and trying and trying and trying and trying to wiggle his way back to me…I ain’t thinking about him…at all…I know exactly who I am and who’s I am…All praises to the most high God!!!!
Mine would disappear and would stay gone long enough for me to “calm down” and hope that I would be so happy he was okay I would be happy to see him and welcome him back with no questions. 18yrs of that bs. Left him 10 months ago, been no contact for 6. He’s made multiple hoover attempts, using every excuse and tactic out there. Nope, still not calmed down. I’ll NEVER take that bait and answer that call or text again. #narcfree💜
Mine would staight up ask me have you calmed down? After cheating on me and accusing me of being the cheater lol
I like that! " Nope, and I'm still not calmed down. "😂...access denied
It’s so laughable when you said the narcissists was wondering how they were so wrong about you, thinking you were the one alpha supply. When I’ve been in the same head space of wondering how I kept meeting a series of toxic people who started out so nice. But unlike the narcissist I realized I was at fault. I realized I wasn’t putting up boundaries. Becoming conditioned to putting up with their outbursts and walking on eggshells. I started figuring out what it was. So I may meet more narcissists in my future, but it will NEVER get to this point again. I’ve learned my lesson. 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾✌🏾
Praise God you’re safe and well Ms Telsha.
I love, “They can dish it but they can’t take it”…Exactly my thought last night!
Well, I pray that demon has crawled back into the abyss of hell after I gave him the discard of his life. 5 months No Contact 🕊🙏🏼 I deleted all social media profiles, changed my cell number and healing. I appreciate you. God bless you always.
Éireann (Erin) ❤
Next is leaving the state and going off the grid
I deleted all social media too. Plus, asked Google to remove my name off internet completely.
Oh my gosh. This is spot on. I have been no contact with my narcissist daughter for a few years. She has been talking with my mother in law. Every time I see my mother in law, she will tell me I have to reach out to my narcissist daughter. NOPE, NOPE, NOPE. I'm done. We did nothing wrong to be treated like she treated my husband and I. Infact she stressed out my husband and her father so bad that her actions made him cry and asked over and over what he did wrong raising her until he collapsed and died. She has devastated and destroyed me beyond repair. I'm traumatized and have spiraled into a deep depression. It hurts like hell and I'm living in a nightmare I never wanted. So if she is getting her karma.... GOOD!!! I will not reach out to her, she would take it as an apology and we did nothing but help her. She will be the one who has to apologize and I might do grey rock, just for my grandsons sake since we raised him from birth to 6 years old. I will never trust or believe anything she says ever again. !!!!!!!!
I can totally relate. Same scenario here. Narc daughters are absolutely the worst. I gave and gave love, resources, finances etc etc. Never again! I am 70 years old, cancer survivor and she treated me with complete contempt. I have four grandchildren. I may greyrock, but am leaning toward not doing that, because it does not always work. No Contact! We move on.
Yes Ma'am straight facts.
She's been MIA for a whole week now after I called her out for cheating with a co-worker. Blocked her on everything! She tried to end it with the new supply to save our relationship, but it's too late. She's full of shame!
I did the discard and shamed him forever !!!!!😎snatched that power grid miss T!
I know the former friend narc is suffering. She has all types of weird stuff on her windows. Weird signs, cardboard, and something that looks like aluminum foil on them. A guy was walking by her house and damn near jumped out his skin when he saw them. Moral of the story is, the discarded hurt them more than it hurt you.
These birds are demonic. He probably say demons on the windows. LOL
Oh yes
12 years married and boom, brutally discarded. He ghosted me,changed his number, immediately shacked up with the secretary from his work. He showed up 2 months later with a 20 ft Uhaul and thought we was gonna wipe out assets without the divorce being final. My husband did the opposite, he went back on Facebook immediately and now hes showing hes "friends" with the next supply. Im not on Facebook but the attorney searched his page.
Such an Evil mess
My ex Narc moved 2 hours away at first i couldnt understand because she would never move that far away from her mother, thats her bestfriend but now i know why that coward made that move after i discared her
My ex narc discarded me for someone else he was posting how happy he was on social media while staking me at the same time and now he closed all his social media
When I was discarded from a narc, it was because he had new supply. When things didn't go well with the new supply, & he wasn't doing well, that's when I would hear from him. I was the ego stroke/build a bear lady, once he got his confidence back up, he'd give me his arss to kiss, and disappear once he had the new supply secured. Sooo glad I healed & moved past that chapter of my life.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
Shes not suffering.... shes happy witout me
The narc I married was down low he loves men most his supplies are men yep God revealed that to me I was grade A supply I did everything for that narc once I got rid of him thank God he is very evil oh well I'm out the way for God to deal with him I don't check for that dusty bird ever no contact at all till my divorce is completed I emailed and said be around to sign the papers 😌🙏🏾
Mine was to didn't found that out till I left him
I knew him just 6 weeks, I just let him go. I knew from the beginning he was a narc, had all the traits and then some. But he was just so cute I wanted to have some fun with it. Well, he dug his hole nice and big while I watched and then said, “I see what you’re doing. And it doesn’t work for me.” Now he’s hiding. Not gonna hoover that bird, no way.
Thank you Tea! You’re the best! ❤️
Wow!! T this exactly what happened with I discarded the narc husband 3 yrs ago. The best “Top grads A supply he ever had”. He couldn’t believe he messed up again. This time it was permanent for me. Thank you GOD!!
I saw my ex narc, the bih looked like a swollen blue demonic dinosaur, she had the same outfit on during the discard 3 years ago, it was wild sis! 🎉
this is so true! I been NC for over a year. i can tell my narc ex is suffering by the rapid weight loss, showing up at places alone to bump into me. Then I noticed they disappeared for a year and been private about there life. so unlike them since there use to bragging, show boating and looking happy and always have someone on there arm.
I've seen the narc 1x, at a funeral about 2 months ago, by himself and he was pretending like hell that he was ok but as we know, these birds are NEVER OK or normal. He's supposedly got married 6 mos after my discard, unless he lied about that as well but I'm sure that house is rocking and rolling in chaos. It's been 2 years since everything ended with us. I did receive a weird call a few weeks ago from a woman acting like she was interested in being one of my customers. I cut her off, told her I had an emergency, blocked everything about her, haven't even heard back from her. Possibly him using someone to get to me. These people are really crazy, they have nothing else to do but be crazy. I really don't want to change my # but I may have to. I rebuke him and whomever or whatever is trying to get back into my life. The devil is a liar.
Well, I blocked her everywhere and then she did the same to me to one up me and regain control. So, who knows what's going on. I know she had drug problems that were kept in check while she was with me. This was a long-distance relationship too, so who knows what's going on. My friends say, she will unblock you at some point too. Idk. It's just crazy, horrible stuff from someone who "claims" to have loved you. Smh
After I left he was angry that I didn’t text or call him, I just replied “ you do realize we’re separated don’t you? I don’t have to call or text.”
Oh man it was painful when he discarded me and paraded his new supplies all over the internet while acting like me, cooking for them and doing for them what he never did for met . I thought I would die from the heartache, but I didn't. Was angry with myself for a longgg time, he still love bomb me and I finally got the strength to delete him and his new supplies off of my Facebook. Its so hard to do, when you've fallen in love with an imaginary man. Addictionship for sure!
I was praying for God to remove this horrible person from my life. I knew that something wasn't quite right with the devil I had allowed into my life. 😢😢😢
We dissapear like the powerful wizard of oz to escape them wicked witch of the west 😂
He broke no contact after 32 days ... I went no contact again.. He disappeared from his Facebook account, in the past, we always used messenger... I also have him block on that.. But you are right, it doesn't matter if they have a new supply... Last night, he was lurking around my tiktok ..
You just called them pigeons ...lol 😂😂😂
Day 8 of no contact.... I didn't consider this aspect so that's good to know... I'll never know what's going with him and I don't want to. He's blocked on everything, doesn't know my location or new number, settings on social media are on locked down privacy.
I keep seeing cans and cans of energy drinks I was thinking man they must be exhausted from themselves because it’s not like they are working a regular job daily and they are just doing whatever they want all day.
One of my boundaries was get off your ass and look for work! lol.
Don't care what they do. Happy for them.😮😮😮😮
I know I was grade A, but the Narc seems to be missing the new supply since she dumped him more than he missed me. He thought he was coming back to get me as a fill in but I'm not going back to him. He is lonely and losing weight, and drinking alot so I hear. Instead of him taking a chance to ask me out on a date he's waiting on me to ask him. Not going to happen I don't owe him anything. I suffered for 8 months while he and new supply were out enjoying life.
After 5 lovely years ,it's Obvious that he's not doing well at all .I saw after a couple of months not being social media and came back he left .couldn't handle seeing me happy and Smiling ......
They for sure can not get' 'Rid'' of their Social Media!
How else can they get ,,,,NEW SUPPLY??
Honestly folks, different people, to THEM is just a shiny New Toy! Be Careful. Godspeed
My ex narc husband just wrote me a letter saying he miss me. I tore it up. No contact 3 yrs.
My narc on 'social' media and her in real life - night and day - it must be exhausting for her to fake any happiness let alone fake a 'perfect life'
How the heck do they get it wrong??? MINE MARRIED the back burner supply soooo . Im STILL not understanding this Narcissism mess. Its All too MUCH to the point that im like 😐 im indifferent. It hurt and nun can be done but to accept what he is , what he did and move on .
Yes that’s what you do heal and move on and don’t repeat. You know the signs now when you see them get out. Set boundaries now that’s where we fell short at. Time will refill who’s wise. It’s all a facade don’t believe it. They do anything to hurt you and give what you want to the next so it will appear that you were the problem but you’re NOT! Be glad it’s not you that married him.
Facts Ms.Telsha let a ghost stay ghost. I'm glad ya'll are ok. ❤🙏🏿💯
Amen. Thank you Abba Father for this preaching. U said it all. I receive this blessing words in Jesus Mighty name Amen 🙏🏾 ❤ 💖 🙌🏾. God bless you 😘
Amen
So right,they did it to they self.
Thank you for saying they’re not always busy with the new supply because that’s where I differ my narcissist I’m here for fat wasn’t dealing with a new supplies, so it was very hard to find people that could give me accurate advice that didn’t make me get up in my feelings or something because they would tell me. Oh, he’s just moved on through the one or some thing and that would put that idea in my head where if I don’t have proof of it and I never have in the years we’ve been together the only time it’s been put in my head is when I’m trying to educate myself about his mental health and others would tell me I was being stupid because he was on a new supply. Thank you. I think you’re my favorite.
I appreciated her saying this too because having a new supply after a discard, silent treatment, etc does not always apply to every narcissist. Some will still post on social media to give the illusion that they are happy and/or to elicit a response out of you. They’ll do any little thing to get your attention.
He always reaches out! Such a looser! I’m living my life healing & growing closer to God! He left & I let him! My skin is glowing I’m hydrated. Never going back!
Anytime I feel sad or have an illusion of nostalgia I pray & watch these wonderful videos to stay encouraged! A narc is highly unlikely to change! I’ve always hated the circus! 🤡’s are weird! Not my monkey not my circus!😂😂😂😂😂
So glad u made it home safe...You were missed!!!!
Great to see your beautiful face today Ms. Telsha. I really missed you. The narcissist tried it today. Smh. And I thought oh heck no,😂 never again. Thank you for sharing your beautiful light today!
I blew that fuel matrix sky high 😂
Facts on Facts on Facts…❤️you!
I was that queen i left him I made him feel so special I hope he's going thru thats what he gets he got the door slam right in his face I don't care where he is or what he's doing - He was really dragging it and I finished it💯
Backwards walking giraffe!!! Lol! Funniest shit I’ve ever heard.
Good afternoon Ms Tea happy that y'all made it back safely home and narc survivors 😊🙏🏾I dumped that pigeon with the missing feathers 😅😂with skinny legs and a tutu on Ms Tea gets me tickled with the clap backs I love it ,oh I feel this one is hiding I haven't heard or seen that backwards walking giraffe he just needs to sign my divorce papers after I get it from the courts them demons tearing them up and they deserve it.
I no the games 💯👍.he not getting me back iv healed and moving forward with my life happy.loveing me better than he can 💯🙌🕊️🙌❤️❤️💯🤗
Facts
You are 100 💯 now my soon to be ex husband suspended his facebook account my daughter told me
Your wasband lol that’s what my therapist referred to my narcissistic ex husband as lol
That part
I m glad she suffering she deserve it and that is 100 💯 for That I have no love lose at all for Christ sake the door is permanently close the trust will not be given back no more to this person and she knows,Where I stand now.
10:01 they can’t self comfort like the majority of us learned how to do as toddlers is how I feel sometimes
Glad you’re okay and praying for those impacted. This message is accurate. I’m a witness
LoL haha they take no blame. At all, no matter what😂 my arm!!!!!
Thanks because I was wondering what happened to the narcissist 😂
I’m always singing and dancing with you 😂🤣
I been watching these videos. And I don't understand why they bother you when they disrespect you. I avoided them and they are stalking me. It's scary how dangerous they are when they don't get what they want. They want people to fight over them. I pick peace over hovac. Now they won't stop calling me and also was in a relationship while they were with me. I was so depressed and broke down. Didn't understand why they were doing me so dirty. Now I'm getting calls that won't stop
Glad you’re safe QUEEN 👸!!!
Yes before he discard me he was skinny i dond no way
I just love you 😂
That is SO TRUE. The shame makes them need to hide.
MRS. TELSHA❤ YES QUEEN I DISCARDED THAT APE WITH SOME BLUE LIPSTICK AND A HARDHAT 8 YEARS AGO THESE MONKEYS WILL ALWAYS TRY TO LOOK IN THE MIRROR TRYING TO FIND YOU AGAIN BUT THEY NEVER WILL SO WE WINN FAMILY ❤️❤️ NO MATTER WHAT LOVE YOU TELSHA❤
Telsha, my stomach hurting, laughing hard 🤣 when you say Narcissists is hiding hurting and dissappear hahaha 😆 the Bird 🐦 better be.
Can you make a video on how a narcissist pastor funeral will be and the aftermath just for my confirmation because I witnessed a pure mess thank you in advance
Hi Sista Tea, you are sooo right about the narcissist can dish it out, but they sooo can't take it. They Love for us to suffferrr big time!!!
💯 left the last narc & the stalking and slander was the most evil
So true , they can dish it, but can't take it.
Thank you so much.
Never again. Be blessed demon lololol .
3:13 hahaha, backwards walking giraffe 😂
I love you and your beautiful way of speaking to people especially going through god knows what with a narcissistic person. It brings me so much comfort and a feeling of someone understanding/caring. Bless you dear🩷
💯%This message was accurate. In my situation I got rid of my narcisst. This was the 2nd time I got rid of someone who was a narcisst unknowly I didn't know of this until following yotube and learning about the sickness. I honestly did not know this sickness was existence like this how most of the instructors give examples though some reveal they are change/ recover narcisst and such a thing the first one was before yotube got so big and popular. This last one completely horrible and sicken very. Once she came up with her BS and lies and schemes. I ended it right there and their is no need to continue or have any drama and I'm telling as It is and as of that day, that afternoon when she call I calmy told her I'm moving on with my life XYZ no more, enough and I mean what I said. The Crazy part was like I just slept and left your house that early morning and that same day we got up early take care of your business at your appointment asking me to come with you then to the night to the next morning you starting trouble like really oh no no no and that next morning before the same night speaking to her in a conversation I came to her, talking why you can't be normal what is wrong with you and the craziness continue to come out and doing😢. No more enough I cant deal with this. I'm moveing on with my life its like 3 or 4 person in 1 really no more some folks hide it good. Like real good. I love my peace of mind and normality. And when she realize I wasn't playing she came trying to look for me driving miles miles away. I would not let her come to my home as she tried to contact me pick up her items like yeah right. I quickly that next day mail her items to her which she purposely left behind on numerous occasion oh no no no enough you can keep it hopeing I might of throw it away that clown or bird to me "A field monkey", and like I learn from the oldschool "monkey dae ah bush you bring ah yard you never have a easy time"😂😂😂😂 and I dont want that either, enough move on to the next supply. I mail her, her items in a box and priority and then she started the stalking it seems like she was watching from far as I mail the box for how she ended up in my direction coming from the opposite direction towards me hummm. Six cars away as that car was about to turn left turning. I spoted a tip of a tinted license plate at the intersection light, before it could make a left turn I already had my head down in my phone in my ride. I didnot want to see or see her or notice her; making sure; great thing I have those deep slanted eagle eyes that could spot deep around the corner around the corner without anyone noticeing; thats a gift from the lord those eyes and someone is watching you from that car. I was so, so happy the light turn green I kept driving forward as other cars started hunking their horns. As her car was trying to pull up next to mine I dont want nothing regardless. I need my peace of mind and a cool me that narcisst situation is serious and real, and those people are very crazy too I see.. Everything Telsha is saying is 💯% truthful. Bruthfully honest. Its best to keep away and stay ghost💯
I love how you call them a backward walking g.
I was very narcissistic after following dating advice and trying to match energy, I'm currently in my healing phase
It's a losing battle, if you disappear to heal its narcissistic if you continue to try and get them back its narcissistic
Yup, her momma said I was a blessing
I saw a post and he getting fat and losing his hair.. terrible looking. It’s sad. But I’m good. It’s only been a year hahahaha sad. I pray he repents. Cause he is suffering cause he is not engaged to a nac. Lolololol she cheating on him.
amazing to think I am that powerful in the narcs life. when he wanted me to believe he was ALL POWERFUL.
Reach out , noway , no contact
Blessings family.
FACT'S
your videos are really good.
My narc ghosted me after 3 1/2 years after I cut off contact for 1 week. He has been ghost on social media, etc for over 1 year
Yyyyyaaasssszzz lord Jesus hallelujah glory to God...this waa definitely a word
The Nac would always threaten to disappear if I didn't give in to his many demands. I said, "Tell everyone in invisible world I said hello." 😂
I'm Glad You Made It Home Safely I Missed You ❤ Thank You For This Message ♥️
Lots of narcissists in California
Glad you made it home safe
Spot on Telsha. Thank you, love you. ❤
Last I hear all his teeth 😬 are fallen out 🤣🤣🤣
Mine also have tregt issues… Im just sending him love from afar. I will never hate him. NEVER. But he said yesterday something about group sex that took the cake. He is not stabile……
❤❤❤❤love you lady...u nailed it ❤️ so true
Hi sis, first off I’m glad to hear you’re well during this insane weather in So Cali…It’s truly devastating to see on the news sending you, the family and everyone furbabies and all going through this ordeal my love and continued prayers! This videos was awesome. August 10, 2023 marked 2 years ZERO CONTACT since I discarded that Narc. You’re absolutely correct Narcs do disappear, quick story time the next day after that chaos in my home I went to get a restraining order which was granted, got the papers served to him at his job he was then fired and then left back to San Diego or so I was informed. Nonetheless, I wish him well all has been forgiven but not even a month after the discard which I’m sure he tells ppl he left but no fool you were escorted out of MY HOME involuntarily by the police - he emailed his ex that he was with before me to try and get back with her but sorry SHE IS NOW MARRIED AND HAPPY which I’m sure drove him to pay for the nearest woman of the night in Tijuana because he loves doing that. He always use to tell me he could get anyone he wanted and he knows that certain races are easy to get so he uses them and moves on after just one night. He is sick! I am so nauseous EVERYTIME I think of all those years I wasted on being with Satans spawn and how GRATEFUL I am that I got out of that mess! I don’t wonder about him I just thank him for the lesson and keep it moving! ALL GLORY BE TO GOD! Stay safe everyone and ALWAYS BE KIND to one another!❤
Was praying for you Telsha with that storm!🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Thank you so much Sis. God is so good. No damage and we were safe.💗🙏🏽💗
They caused there suffering. Never never back.Seeya
My narc did a reverse discard... after he left me for new supply, came back, did a reverse discard. I came back to find the new/old supply in my bed hiding up under the cover😭😂🤣 after he claimed that she was "toxic" and "crazy". Looked me straight in my eyeball and said "he don't know how she got here"😂😂😂. GOOD RIDDANCE...BLOCKED..NO CONTACT.. PERIOD!!🙌
I went on profile but I do not see a text link
Ok I think I found a link via Instagram
I'm going thru it now!real talk
I see this me n his first bm are decent women others not so much I see why he wanted to hold us with a baby smh
My ex he finally posted pictures everyone commented why he looks so sad 😂 I loved it. Lost weight. He blocks me n bread crumbs me asking about his kid from a random number I texted him from I learned I shouldn’t reply at all and live in peace