Your DISCARD was a TREMENDOUS LOSS to the
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This is why God says pray for your enemies. The narcissist deals with the torment from their demons, and that’s nothing compared to the wrath of God they have to face; for trying to destroy His child. God says vengeance is mine, so that means we have to be out of the way(no contact) because what’s about to hit them 💥 you want no part of that!
Furreal! Thanks for that message.
You better preach my sister💪🏾
Omg I had to screen shot that. TRUTH !!
I don't pray for Satan
Deeeng. Yes
People, you may just be coming into this knowledge, but you will understand this to be the truth in time. Know that.
it took me 3 years to completely understand them and myself. I'm Free Now. I pray others don't take as long. I left the door open and they just got worse as they knoticed i was taking back my control....never leave the door open to a narc. their evil.
You are so right!!!
Will she regret though? I'm not sure she will. The dude she ran off with is all too happy to have her.... It's like they just changed shirts. Will they regret?
I hope so. 1 year no contact except 2 day a week at service.
Amen! In time YOU will understand!💯💯💯💯
Once you see the demon inside them, you can never unsee it 😬
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Wow, she was talking about my ex to a tea. Every relationship he has ends the same way. You can't fix a narcissistic just walk away and heal yourself
Has anyone noticed how MANY of us there are on a global level going through this??? Is it the separation the tearing of the wheat?
I must admit, I reached out to the narc I was dating wanting closure. I used those exact words .Told them they were in "stagnation " and I wanted them to grow out of their toxic ways. They then told me they liked being a little toxic. That demon spoke! I no longer look for my closure.
Wow! You see? They have to want to be free from their sickness and I just don’t think they really want to be. They’re too busy being enabled by their back burner crew and sympathizers
I had finally realized the person liked confrontation. I was shocked I turned around and said u like confrontation. They smiled and said slowly I do. I was mind blown .
@@TyShyBrickWorld Dang…
@@kimberlys347 AND...THEY LIKE IT....THEY DON'T THINK ANYTHING Is WRONG WITH THEM. so why change??!
Remember when you were the new supply and they posted all those vacation pictures that presented the image of 'such a happy couple', only to get back to the hotel and argue all night! Bam! There it is!
yep!
I like that " a special kind of stupid"
I feel so drained by mine to the point I feel sick and weak. It's scary!
If at all possible get out… it will only get worse. Pray and ask God to help you, he will. God bless
You get so much peace after & your glow back.🙏❤️
they are energy vampires....i had to get out of that mess !!
They will make you sick & it won't heal until you're Apart . 🙏🏾 ..my feet had pain 2 yrs....(every day) and now it's been 5 most. away ...gone
Save yourself and go. I had a gallbladder surgery because of stress right after c section. Please, leave 😢
Yes!!! We will recover all that we lost in dealing with these monsters.. What we take away is a lesson.. In knowing our worth and discovering evil exist in human form. The next time we meet one of these devils, we will run they other way.. God bless you all ❤️
Beautifully said!
They are blackholes! Flippin miracle I escaped the event horizon!!🎉
Ha, ha….Event Horizon probably would have happened to me had it not been for the divorce. I remember early on in my marriage thinking, “Dear Lord, this man is a black hole for validation.” The more he got from me and/or others, the more he needed. I should have known that I needed to get out then but silly me thought it would get better. Hope definitely dies last in these relationships.
Lord I thank you for moving me out that marriage.
Now I truly understand
After I discarded 3 years ago he has not had another supply he is where to point that he has mentally lost his mind he has become even more evil than ever he literally hates me
I just pray for mercy.
I thank God that he gave me the strength to leave that abusive relationship and just be a mother to my child.
He may not be a narcissist if he doesn't have new supply. All toxic people aren't narcissists. A narcissist will downgrade in a heartbeat. They MUST have supply, any supply will do.
He sure has all the signs tho
@@davidmcknight236 Yes in deed my narcissistic ex has been in quite a few relationships in the 3 years we've been broken up because she can't seem to find another Grade A supply I still have a relationship with her daughter but everyone else wrote me off and truly haven't seen the mask come off but I wish them all the best
@Larry Ivey Don't wish them the best. Wish YOU the best. Wish them second best!!!
💯🎯💯🎯 - and this is why those of us that have managed to move on after being discarded still hear from the narc from time to time. The narc will periodically contact me using our 5yr old as an excuse to reach out. I have sole custody and he lives in a different state now but he'll try to make me jealous by talking about being in a new relationship like I care or something. He's so pressed to share information about his personal life when no one asks him. This just let's me know he hasn't found another ME out there! The girl he left me for didn't last. And I definitely have no interest in ever joining that circus ever again!!
Hello There. And Good Day to you Ms. Telsha. Thank you for saying how the discard was a blessing. I once felt crushed and bruised, wounded and paralyzed, rejected, disjected,, cut and dismembered, abandoned and thrown away like a motherless child, and all by the betrayal of the narcissist, but now I see the light! Thank God for the light and the light bearer!💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯
@Kelley Ann Stanczyk, JD MBA TEFL ORDM Thank you!
Hi! La Goldie! Absolutely perfectly said!!!! I'm still on the healing path but I hope to get to this ONLY conclusion as soon as possible.
Yes the discard is a blessing!
Still have to go through divorce with that crazy narc- that's scary too!!! Wish me luck!
@@juttalarosa4944 Hi there. I do wish you all the victory you can withstand as a result of your life being affected by this abuse. And may the court grant you favor!
Beautifully said!!! Wishing you all the best for your narc free life. I've been soooo depressed over the last 6 month after discard bit miraculously I now slowly start to have a little peace of mind back, little joy of living and I'm beyond grateful for that.
@@juttalarosa4944Thank you. I wish you a narc free life too. Nobody got time to waste on a no count clown, who never cared!
2 months no contact this is so validating 🙏🏼 thank you
1 month no contact!! Amen
It’s not easy but one day at a time right?
they move on...but they never recover ....
Discard was indeed a blessing! ❤
Right I was always a gift to the narc but his mind wouldn’t let him see that smh once I’m gone I’m gone and I want never see him the same in my eyes 👀
I needed to hear this! I was feeling down due to having to make so many adjustments in my life after this divorce but you speak truth, this is a blessing from God! No going back to the pit, ever!!!
The pit 👹😈👺
@@1010QUEEN7 Please. Stop it. Get some help. Have a snickers.
I really dodged this ex narc...THANK U JESUS!!!! I'm so greatful I'm no longer with this toxic person!!!!
I just got out of relationship 2 weeks ago. I'm in therapy and thankful for my therapist for helping get out of this relationship. 🙏🏽
My ex used to always tell me that he needed me or that he needed me there. He would always want me around or at least on the phone whenever he did even the smallest interactions with ppl seemingly just for me to listen in. I always found it weird, but i know now he was so insecure, my presence alone was his supply for courage. Its actually quite sad, especially when that person claims they need you so much, but dog you out horribly. Projection, i assume. Im so glad to be gone from that.
Thank you Ms Telsha 🙏🏼
Once I figured that demon out after watching your videos and reading about the spectrum of narcissism, he turned out to be the most disordered man I’d ever had a connection with! He revealed himself to be perverted and beyond manipulative and then cry victim when I called him out on his bull crap. I told him, God was offering him and gift, he will never meet another ME and will look for me in everyone else that he meets. I will always be the one who got away! 🕊️ He is a poor excuse for a man! Pathetic, disgusting, rude, disrespectful and abusive. He’s no loss to me. I thank God for you and your resource and for pulling me out of that mess!! 🙏🏼
MOVE ON AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
Honestly, the immense amount of ignorance in a narcissist is very pitable...... their name is Legion, for they are many.
Thank you Telsha
You sure are right, they really don't have a brain, because they don't think at all. No better for them. That's why they have to be by themselves. That's all they do is lie. They are domic, evil, wicked, birds who can't even fly straight. They think they got it all together, but they are so ignorant, and childish, and never will grow up. They always want to stop you, because you are doing well, and they are not. They hate to see you prosper. Oh well that's their problem, let them deal with them self. Amen, Amen, & Amen, Praise GOD for removing that bird out of the way.
Chills!
I really need prayer I’ve been married 9 years and this woman has walked out on me ! Slandered my name with my family , stole my money and I still forgave her and allowed her to come back after I relocated to another state ! I’ve prayed , I’ve done everything to make this woman happy but nothing is good enough I’m miserable 😢
It takes time to heal! You have to walk on the healing path as we all have to do- it'll take time, but you'll get over it, you'll move on and you'll be happy again.
That's what all the survivors say and when I was miserable for month and month. I could not believe that I'll be ever capable of having my peace of mind back, my joy of living- but it came back and it WILL come back to you!!! Sending you lots of strength!
Please, stay away from her. I experienced massive stress caused by him after delivering a healthy baby boy. I had gallbladder surgery. Still having nightmares and anxiety. I found a good job, recovered from surgery and in the following weeks I will buy my first house for me and my son. Please, take care of your health. May God bless you. Hugs from Serbia 🤗🙏☦️🌞
Remnants of back burner supply! You got that...he would pick up sayings and talk like he never used to after every " layoff"... Carrying a little of all his victim's I suppose
THOSE BLACK EYES. THAT DID IT FOR ME. I WAS PLEASING THE BLOOD OF JESUS. I WASN'T EVEN AFRAID OF THAT BLACK EYED BIRD
Many feel like they've LOST their "SELF" because THAT DEMON STOLE IT 😈 I asked God to send Archangel Michael (my big brother that fight fight🤷🏾♀️) to go retrieve my "SELF" and return it to me in Jesus name!!! I GOT MYSELF BACK
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I was discarded by my ex-Narc husband.I was devastated 😢, being left with his 3 Offspring, back in 1970 @20 yrs of age. I didn't know until yrs later that I was actually married to one of the demons of Satan. How I thank and praise God (Yahweh), for setting me free. Lady Telsha this is the absolute truth you are speaking today;the last I spoke to him was in 2017, in order to obtain a divorce, he was in his late 60's ;had not changed one bit.
It wasn't a discard. It was the great escape 🐱
@Laura Del Regno Amen. I never thought of it in that manner 🤍✨️❤️ thank you Sis 🙌🏿 ✨️ 😊
Am Bless To Have Came Out Of This Hot Mess Narcissist Are A Big Build Board Of STDS I Praise God For This Channel This Is Where I Received My Healing I No Longer Look At It As A Discard I Call It a Blessing In Disguise Won't God Do It 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Your videos helped me move on. I still feel raw sometimes when I reminisce on that satan but my life has turned out great. He used me in every possible way but he’ll never find peace. How do I know, he looks like a hobo and I still don’t believe that I had sunk that low and married him and for 8 years at that. But who is God, He snatched me out of my misery and I’m thriving. Thank you for your wonderful videos of encouragement Ms. T 🎉
Wow facts this is 💯💯💯 the narc is a demon
And another one! 👏🏾
He was definitely an adolescent. Trauma and not dealing with it will keep them and those attached to them stuck. God saved me once again. Grateful for a prayer that was answered a year ago today. Educate yourself by the word and building a relationship with God. He will answer the questions and provide the closure needed for the next level.
Thank you again for this message. I feel grrrreat 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏾👏🏾🙏🏽
Whew child! Thank God for his intervention.
No recovery for that hobgoblin 3-months to the day after No-Contact was implemented my 32-year-old fiance stroked out. Hardest thing I ever did was being a pallbearer at that birds funeral...
Girl, I appreciate you talking about codependency♥️ because we must also learn not to repeat that cycle. They are plenty of others to continue where they left off. 👀
Yea and their choice to be evil and destructive we need to educative ourselves and raise awareness so no one goes thru this mind f-Kery
Good for them Tee. Gone from that evil energy. Thank you for keeping our spirits up. 💙🙏
I have been listening to these videos for two years now. It has taken me a while to believe them, because I was so covertly brainwashed by this evil narcissist. I’m finally starting to believe it. Thank you for helping us. It is all starting to make more and more sense thank God.
Right on point. I’m experiencing the illusion & delusion on social media
I know it’s hard. But just remember they know we’re going to come looking. My ex NEVER smiled in photos. I saw him in a group photo from the gym and he was right there front and center grinning, almost like it was just for me. The less you’re curious about these clowns the better.
These topics have been right on time lately...everything I'm dealing with or thinking about...Thanks Tea!!!
When I met him he said they broke up bc she was irresponsible and he moved her to FL but she lived with him the whole time.
I thank the Lord I escaped it was a true blessing.
I ROCKS WITH YOUR GUURL‼️‼️ FROM NORFOLK, VA 👋🏼👋🏼❤️🔥🔥
Goodafternoon my Beautiful Sister Trksha you look amazing those Jellyfish don't ever get over you it's been almost 2 years that I left My ex narc and I'm still being hoover,Stalked getting FB and IG request from different people it's so disturbing and Insane
My God I thank you for dodging that bullet! They do the same thing over and over. Yes he mirrored me. The thought of him even doing that is sick. Yep he's text from various other numbers. If he's called, I never answer numbers I don't recognize. He has weapons and could've been blown away at any time.
I dodged 2 huge gaping holes. My mother and my ex. Whew, praise God for being a hedge of protection for me. 13:25
Great video!!
I recall the narc’s mother telling the his sister’s, “He was like a fish a out of water when I walked away.”
And I do receive a LOT of calls from odd numbers and friend request on social media from all these new made up accounts.
I delete & block immediately.
I'm extremely exhausted from my husband of 12 years. He discarded me a month ago for the secretary at his work. I've been ghosted, he isn't even discussing assets that will never taken care of. Such an Evil 😈 mess
I love you! Your message is truth!!!
That's why he was always buying me stuff fast food groceries I was definitely grade A supply so he basically was trying to feed me to keep me @ grade A supply but they always mess up I would tell him I will take you wherever you need to go but I want my gas money & time 👍I get it thank you Ms T💜
Amen. Thank you so much for this messages it was just the boost I needed to keep pushing. Discard but blessed more then I knew.
This is another message I will keep close 2 me...Ms. Tea THANK U!!!! I'm n tears just thinking and thanking GOD for snatching me out!!!
Yess Ma'am the way you broke this down was on Point!!!💯💯💯✔
Amen God is so good that woman tried to detroy me. But Greater is He!!! Had the nerve to always say what happened to the old Rob i first met, alllll the time. The old rob broke down from all your disrespect, mental and emotional abuse. Clown!!! Im still standing tho God got me. . trying to hover girl bye blocked!!!! You don't miss me you miss my light my energy. So sorry you will never experience it again and its growing stronger every day ✌️ Stay strong people Queen tea is telling the truth this is spiritual alllll day..
My dear perfect analogy !!!!!
Entity !!!
I know one her workspace looks like a hurricane when triggered like a child poltergeist true story
Wow! Every single point you made was so spot on!!! That's just freaky. Incredible stuff. Thank you for your insight and wisdom. It makes me feel so much better about my situation. God bless 🙏💯
I was her massage Therapist. She was not happy when I ended it.
Backwards walking curly haired giraffe!!!!Damn 😅❤😂
Yes you were their blessing. They can't see the end of their nose. Like people can't see two inches on front of their nose. That new supply in ride of their life narcissist only trying to hurt you. Kick them off the crub when they try to get back up in the crub kick them off again. Don't ever let them on your crub. My spouse got with a psycho stalker crazy supply. I think he will lose his mine. Go crazy.....be in a mental institution. Looks of things he almost there...stuck. This is his Karma. You speak the Gospel girl. Just love this video.......
🎶 its a new Day🎵 - Nina Simone
Wys I was just looking at point if no return with the sound track of nina
7 year's early on i question are they trying to make me in their image.
No more !!!
Great message!! True it is a blessing to be free of it!
Keep reminding people to hit like button!!! You are helping so many
Amen.💕💕💕
Idk how ..when they had a sneaky link a year 1/2 already overlapping into my 8 years...just went right on with life n happiness together
Like Like Like! I'm blown by God's grace . Im young and recently crossed paths with a narcissist the holy spirit was so strong. It was as if a was bewitched i dogged a bullet. I am kinda sorry for him but I will pray for him and keep it moving.. I am still shocked by how God snatched me out of that.. I watch your videos and it's phenomenal how for that short period I saw everything u say!!
Like , subscribe, and share.. Also prayers to all.
I love your contents you are so inspiring.
Idky I'm always watching for her car when I'm out. Jus crazy cause i was always the one going to look for her, now she wish she could find me. 🤷🏾♂️
2 years no contact since i was discarded. I’m sure my ex narc still with the same person they discarded me for. they are definitely hiding them on social media and in public and don’t want me to see them, but one time and it looked like a downgrade. Just sad to me. I haven’t been hoovered and glad because i have no drama or chaos since the discard. I been blessed since
Especially sense the embarrassment I caused her as my way of saying thank you 😂 6:16 That’s😊 a blessing that they can’t see who u are! Okaaaay I’m so grateful I chose me and they chose to exit my life…I am so glad I beat them at their own game they won’t never come back to me cause Baaaaybay I used to be hurting they’re feelings 😂! Telsha it’s going on year 2! My life is so beautiful and I feel like I’ve healed my mother and father wound. I’ve healed from the narc abuse and continue to share what I’ve healed from with others! Keep going I will continue to support u always! ❤ Everything I’ve learned by experiencing from my Mom to partners; I have decided to go to school. The way you explain the pathology made me remember who I am and why I had these experiences to begin with. I am going to become a psychotherapist. I can’t wait to help men and women heal from this kind of trauma. Thank u so much for your gifts ❤
"If ya roooocks wit'cha guurl!"
Hit that like button and don't skip the commercials 💯💝
After I'd walked away from my ex husband, within 3 months, he was on holiday in Spain with his new 'girlfriend ' (I will admit to peeking at his FB page). Yet, after I'd left, he was crying, telling anyone who would listen what I had supposedly done. It hurt me at the time to find out that it didn't take him long to get over me, nothing seemed to add up. I felt, and still do, my ex husband had made me out to be the wicked witch of the West.
One of your best !!! Thank you so much ! xx Lots of love and bliss xx
Your natural behind. Lol. Love this gal and the way she sings. Thank you for your insight. Yes everything you say is how God revealed my x narc to me. I discarded as quickly as it started and gals please know, these clowns move in fast
You are the real deal... Thank you for all you are doing for humanity.
I absolutely love the names you call these clowns!!! This bird I put up with actually choose individuals below his job status so he can shine bright. It's wild to see. 💯
You are beautiful and such a Blessing.
Your knowledge also vision is well illustrated and spoken. Thank you my sister in Christ. Peace.
Backward walking giraffes I know, but with curly wig 😂lol yes girl 🙌❤️
Wow this is powerful and that's exactly what i have done its been a little over a year since i left the narc i am a narc savior Thank you Jesus
cream without cream-cake, too many cream calories, the cream creams them (great content)
I felt drained, emotionally and mentally. I'm more harder on myself, that I allowed all of this to happen. My Spirit wasn't sitting well with all the things that was going on. 8 months in, it was time for me to walk away
Love your energy ❤️
😍😍😍 well I’m the male and I’m the one who had to buy up with this twice 😓
Shalom to our sister in Christ!
Thanks for a right now powerful word God bless you 💕
All true it's a feeding ground for demons great message and great timing praise the lord Jesus blessed mercy grace love
Big facts 💡💡💡💡☮️💜🙏🏾
The best thing I did was leave her. My new lady is great, it makes me see it was my fault for allowing the narcissist into my life. Didn't take long to see the true her (again 😂).
This is 1000% true!! My experience to the tea🙏🏽
True!!!!!
Illusion and Delusional!!!
There being torched
Shalom only Yah can fix this. Nothing else. APTTMH
This was so spot on!! 🙌🏽
HalleluYah you're on point we thank father for discernment
Thank You for Your Positive Words Telsha 💕
Please uplift me in prayer Telsha! 💔🙏🏾
Me too and pray that God removes him from my life
Trust and believe when I say time will heal everything...Go no contact , block them on everything ..if you're on social media get off and move in silence..Reading the bible and staying true to yourself will have you feeling better within a month...have a play funeral and bury him for good! 💯🙏👍🏿
@@reginaldmines4569 It's sooo much more complicated than that!! I've done all of that and there is children involved.🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@ChanellG904 Yes having kids makes it more complicated but please understand your mental is at stake...take your power back and find the strength in God...He can only do what you allow take it to the courts so you can get your sanity back...A narc will always blame you for what's happening now!!!! Remember life is short the clock is always ticking...
@@reginaldmines4569 Thank you so much!!! I will continue to fight for me and my children.🙏🏾
Yes God truly did spare me, amen!