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- Insight on what it feels like to a narcissist to lose supply like you. This is why they said you tried to destroy them.
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Coverts the worst and most dangerous.
Pretend love , marry you to devour your, Money, Energy, Attention, Time.
Yes pretend love, they marry for the look of it, so they appear normal. In my case it would’ve only been to appease his mom. So glad God opened my eyes, I was about to be stuck like chuck 😂
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Absolutely. Thank God you dodged that bullet. My wedding was solely about looks for him his mom and family. It was so pathetic was him and his sisters party. If you were there you may have asked who is getting married ? Him and his sister or me
I TOTALLY AGREE. THAT IS WHAT I S MARRIED TO A COVERT. WHILE THEY HITTING GITTING WHATEVER, I WAS BEING YOALLY HEALED FROM MY GOD AND TOTALLY DETATCHING MYSELF. THE PAINT ON THE WALL LOOKS A WHOLE BETTER FOR REAL. I'M IN THE PROCESS OF MOVING . THAT BIRD THINKS HE IS GOING WITH ME. LITTLE DOES HE KNOW, WHEN HE GOES BACK TO WORK, BECAUSE RIGHT NOW, HE'S OUT ON A LONG WEEKEND BIRD, IM MOVING OUT. IM TAKING EVERYTHING THAT BELONG TO ME. HE CAN LET THAT BIRD THATS TORE UP FROM THE FLOOR UP REPLACE EVERYTHING THAT BELONGS TO ME. BYE BYE BIRDS😂😂😂
And they begin to age very badly while you go in reverse and become more of your former self! It’s crazy!
Facts ..
It’s the most strange yet satisfying aftereffect. I feel like a billion dollars! People should talk about this more.
Because they were stealing your light and your energy, sucking life out of you and you look drained. While they are looking great and energized, their skin glowing etc......but when you leave all your benefits go with you and they are left with the darkness that control their soul.
When I left the narc , he went all the way down.. he thought I’ll never leave after all his abuse… Little did he know I was building up my strength to stay gone. Moved away & changed my number Total NC 5 yrs now.
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Cut both ways because people telling me I was lucky I wasn't angel's dad but I feel emotionally drained from it be year in June grateful and hurt same time# EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER 4REAL
This woman had me drained so bad that I’d fall asleep at the wheel of my car wondering why the complete hell am I so tired with 8 hrs of sleep !!! I call it a Demonic Fog !!
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That part, she would have me so drained that I would fall asleep at the drop of a hat.
All those meaningless arguments
Narcs stories are everything they actually did, not the other person.
You don't realize it until you can't stand to be around them.
Truth I feel nothing for this man
Facts
YESSSSSS 😮
Just the name narcissist screams toxic!!! They should come with a warning ⚠️ label. Danger! Keep away! 🙄
Yup that’s right! The lies are ridiculous and what’s even more crazy is that people believe the narcissist!
I will never understand why
@@1010QUEEN7 Only when you go back and forward with the Narc, if you leave and don’t try to expose the Narc or try to clear up rumors…it shows that the Narc is actually the villain
This is why you have to discard them and don't react to them at all - good or bad. Perfect revenge - you have to drop your emotions for them in any way, just like that. They need validation and you starve them by ignoring them. So, don't be scared. Enjoy your life - that will be agony for them. Fill your cup. Empty them. 😁 And NEVER go back to evil!
Thanks Ms Tea for encouraging us on the healing path. After the discard, it's a whole different world for them. We are no longer available to stroke their egos because we are pouring into ourselves now and God is directing our steps. God bless you and everyone here.
A person could lose their life messing with them type
Shalom
I love how you pointed out that they're also suffering. I pray that they too heal like us. I pray that these evil entities die so no one will suffer anymore
Prayer without action is dead
Spirits don't die, I don't pray for Satan
I am a survivor of two narcissistic parents and a Covert Narcissistic former spouse. My journey with the spouse started 40+ years ago. Being an extreme covert, I just thought he was stupid. No violence, no name calling, no noticeable abuse except he was jealous of my life and only gave a little to every situation, whether it was chipping in, helping the children or anything else I needed. I saw him have a meltdown twice, once by phone, and I walked in to a destroyed house on the next. When I found out he was a narc, I shut him down. People, if I can walk after 40+, you can too. Never ever go back. Other than my children, I feel I have wasted my life. I am not well and from a lifetime of abuse, I lack the motivation to get healthy. Trust me when I say, don’t ignore the red flags, life is short.
I admire you for your strength. You are a True Survivor of horrific abuse. Yet, you never gave up, or let them win. It takes a very strong individual to endure the years of abuse that you have withstood! God Bless You, Love You, and Keep You!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I was discarded after I was in the “marriage” for over a decade. Little did I know that God was saving me and my children from that demon. I was only discarded because I was at my weakest state and had nothing more to offer so he thought he could control me. Ohhh BUT GOD!!! Stories like yours definitely remind me about how much of a blessing the discard was. May God bless you in your healing journey. It ain’t over yet Ms. It ain’t over till God says your work is done.
Mind yourself i know EXACTLY what it's like had 30 yrs of ABUSE happily divorced now and feel God guided me out of his MESS, TAKE CARE AND PUT YOURSELF 1ST, GOD BLESS YOU.
Would love to talk to you sometime. I was also in a 40+ relationship with a covert narcissist. Had no idea 🤷♀️ what that was.
Thank you Telsha.
When I had my suspicions about him and felt I was in a trauma bond, trying to battle through the confusion, breaking it off and kept going back, he would say, “Every few weeks you break me down, you destroy me”. Then towards the end he would cry and said “I feel like a flat tire.” “I feel like I’m having a breakdown.” I used to feel so bad though eventually cut him off and went No Contact because we would be getting on great and then say the oddest things to me to throw me off balance and unfortunately I would react. He verbally abused me saying the most degrading names, once indirectly so I questioned whom he was talking about (2 yrs and never heard him speak like that) then the second time was directed at me and left me devastated! So as for destroying him…no, he was trying to break me down from the very first hello! They always flip the script, play the victim, no accountability therefore no responsibility. And the crazy thing is they don’t realise they are actually destroying themselves. No logical, emotionally intelligent or spiritually healthy person would ever want to live their life like that. It’s insanity on steroids! God got me out of that mess. I’m happy, hurting and healing all at the same time. God bless you and everyone 🙏🏼
Sis I have been where you are. Just broke up with my Narc last week after another lie about his other supply. So we must stay strong, know our worth, and heal. I always have to remind myself she gonna get the same trash treatment I got! No prizes there!
Me too!
Thank you Sis.
Once we know who they are as fact, we have to leave and never go back! Praying for your strength and healing 🙏🏼❤️🩹
Praying for your strength and healing 🙏🏼❤️🩹
It’s hard knowing the truth about these people and others not seeing through it. But if you sit back and wait patiently, others will figure it out for themselves eventually.
Period
Testifying to all of that! You should see pictures of me when I was in the addictionship - I looked TERRIBLE. Your reaction would be "Cayla, what?!! That's you?!!" YES. Thursdaaayyy nights fam!!! 🥳🥳🥳 Praying for those still gathering the strength to take the life-saving step of leaving! 💕😢💕 God bless you all!
It’s my opinion: agreed
~as the Narcissists feels “vibrant” the victim feels “exhausted”……definitely the Narc is an energy snatcher……preach sis~
In the beginning, when she came over my place, I would always want her to leave after awhile.
I absolutely LOVE how you're ALWAYS on point w| all of your content.
Narcissists mirror us b|c they HATE who they are. So they bounce off of what we do, what we say, and initially how we feel. Hence why they flip the script by telling other people that what they've done to us, we've done to them. 💯
IT TOOK ME 4 YEARS AND GOD SAVED ME FROM ONE! THANK YOU JESUS 🙌💯🕊️💪.
Yo! The gasping for air sound you made😯. She used to go to bed early after ruining my day and I would remain awake listening to her snore loudly with peace and satisfaction, but when I SNATCHED the power grid and said NO😠...she made THAT sound one night while she slept ...and the loud snoring had stopped😟
So sad this evil exists. He’s covert. Lawd those black eyes at the end. I was exausted. No more. Almost 2?yrs out
I saw her eyes turn completely black with a smirk like the Grinch on a non human body. You can't unsee what you have seen
My evil demonic narc just served me a divorce petition so he can marry my friend whom he met three months ago. Both of them are narcs.
My ex narc said I robbed him of his fatherhood 😑 I’m the one living with the kids always have been 😂. And when he did used to visit us he be on his damn phone 🤔😂
😂 Soooo glad your children are with you! 💕💕💕 Praise the Lord! 👏🙌👏 When they are not lovebombing the children or the children are not being good supply sources, they cannot hide their complete boredum. 😢
@@caylabatts9270 I also have a restraining order against him for life so his lazy behind need to take a anger management course and only watched the kids supervised Praise TMH !
They are so dramatic right? You robbed him?!? Wow
OMG that's my Whole Story, Now that your Gone Stay Gone😮 NO CONTACT, DO NOT LOOK BACK....
My ex narc always said i was trying to control her. 🤷🏽♂️
LoL! That why they are some BACKWARDS walking girafes 🤣
@@Golden.Silver.Conquistador how funny, she really did have spots and sores and blemishes all over her body especially downstairs 🤮🐱🐟☢️ and her neck was long lol skinny arms fat ass
Thinking back to the beginning, I feel now that I was set up from date number one. It hurts to know that about myself. How in the heck could I have ever let that happen?!
Jesus, you are speaking to me!!! What a 🤡Thank you Lord for pulling me through!! 🙏🙌
My Narc lies about everything that she says about me gaslighting , and projecting all the way , pure evil to which you've never seen or known
I was all in with my in-laws, and learned they were not all in during my kidney transplant. They drained my soul of my light. I gave up on them and woke up. No contact! No more fuel for those birds! I snatched every power grid! I'm on my glow up game full force forward, without them! Thank you for waking me up with your channel. You helped me to understand what has been happening to me the past 5 years. I never understood what a narcissist was until I binge listened to your channel this past month. Thank you ♥️
The "emotional chaos" they bring is Unbelievable...they also mirror everything you do!!!!!...he literally started making me "Sick to my Stomach!!!!...Liteally!!!!!!🤢
Oooooh this was straight facts Ms. T!! Word for word!! When I was with the narcissist I married, the more he pulled away, the more I kept pouring into him and giving and giving and giving myself away, thinking that he would appreciate me and see my worth. After watching your videos on Tik Tok and RUclips Telsha, I realised what kind of demon I was dealing with. One day, I just woke up just like you said. I couldn't continue with the constant financial and emotional abuse, he made it so unbearable to stay in the addictionship that I had to leave. I felt a burden lift that very same night. Now I've been pouring all that time and energy into myself and the Lord and Jesus has been pouring right back into me 🙏🏾 #4MonthsOut
I thank Jehovah God and his son Jesus Christ for this woman, Ms. Telsha for her knowledge and her wisdom!!🙏🏽💝
Yes my energy was zapped AND I had bad Insomnia….. draining individuals.. Now when i’m around one, I know by how I feel after leaving from around them…
I just love when she says..”If ya Rocksss wit ya girl”😂😂😂
Those were her exact words when she thought I was under her thumb. Said, I want your soul! This was us in good time, lying in bed together. Once she said that she gave up her game plan and I started my process of separating. Her arrogance cudnt foresee that just cus im deeply loving & compassionate, im not weak. First time ever I was able to go no contact in spite of her fake profiles and countless friends trying to befriend me. I do love her, but not like true love I’ve experienced before. I understand this “love” is one-sided
“It takes a special kind of stupid.” 😂😂😂
Wow, this is some excellent teaching and insight on the narcissist! I can see this thing the exact way you're explaining and describing the narc. Telsha. I need to listen to this again.
The lies and heinous acts …. Issa no for me Forever‼️‼️‼️
STAY GONE FAM💯💜💯☮️💯💪🏽🙅🏽♀️👿🤡
Telsha!!!!!!!! You have no idea how much this video BLESSED ME today!!!!!! GOD is AMAZING!!!!!!!! All of this is sooooooo true and it served as CONFIRMATION for me too!!!!!
Amen, amen, amen! Preach it! They should have treated me with more courtesy and respect.
This is so true I used to be so tired all the time when I was with that bird. I gave him everything put up with stuff from him that I had never put up with in my life, but when I woke up I slammed that door locked it and threw away the key. I have bruises, but I’m not broken I can only Thank 🙏🏾 the GOOD LORD GOD ABOVE.
I love this. I have listened to this video about 25 tines, and I've learned something different message each time.
Omg……. Thank you sister for going in debt on this disorder. I applaud you for doing the work.
Omg....this is my husband 100%...omg
Telsha! I been rocking with you since 3 years. I realize its layer upon layer of understanding dealing with this. Dealing with an ex wife thats a coparent and my dad that have this disorder, words cant describe how your information ages like wine. You not lying, you start to see if they could jump into your body and be you and throw your name in the trash. Man it sucks. These are the same people you are selfless towards. The scary part, is that you sacrificing yourself is not enough. Nah, they want to replace your soul because they feel they can be better at "You" than you are being "Yourself" Ooooow wee. Thats wicked and evil. They are truly vampires. Never seen nothing like it. Telsha you are a "Warrior" in this thang call Spiritual Warfare. Jesus Christ. Truth is they never leave, and they are the adversary. The acuser of the brethren! Its bigger than earthly living. Either you get to living in the Spirit, or you get to dying in the Flesh. It is what it is. My beautiful angel Telsha! Beautiful Angel! Its not a hoax, this right chere is real. God be the Glory!
Yes, I was ALWAYS EXTREMELY TIRED.
Hi Ms. Telsha. Good to hear your perspective today about the 'thang', the narcissist. Lol. I'm never going back to any of them and don't want too. I despise how they did me and have contempt for them. Lol, Not even on my loneliest day would I ever consider going backwards, lol. Oh heck no. I only want to feel valued, loved, wanted, respected, cherished, supported, cared for and desired for the rest of my days❤❤❤
" If you rock with your GIRLLL" 😊❤🥰 Now hit that 👍 button 😊
Preach hunni 🙌 Glad I learn the hardway I'm woke now.
Every ex of mine was/is a narc, what you're saying is 100% correct. God bless you and your delivery - POWERFUL. Good to be free. You ALMOST feel sorry for them until you're reminded of the wickedness they've chosen. Sheesh 😢
When I left and she asked could we be friends I said no. She texted me a day later and said why are you punishing me🤷🏾♀️
Wow 😮😮😮 confirmation from God you are speaking exactly what I went through
God just removed me from a narcissist relationship
It’s funny because I witnessed him having traits of grandiosity and covert , (is that possible?) while smearing my name with lies… & I had no idea what was happening to me until I actually left him… the hoovering and reversed hoovering …. All I could do was leave him and I learn … I learned so much about these bottom feeders… they are absolutely ruthless in their ways
Omg this hit my heart, they really want your soul
Believer. Is religion....belived...is spiritual....narcissist..is defined as a leader by description.......ego...is go..e silent..as en forward
Although my ex malignant covert narcissist talked about me like a dog for 2 years and counting, he also said I destroyed his soul! I thought it was funny that he said that because he has no soul!
When u wake up 👆🏾 really see the 🐍 for who he is. U don't even look at them the same ...at all. U hit it straight on the nail. What a relief I wish him well elsewhere with someone else. They can have that problem I no longer want it . Their learning him but " I KNOW HIM". .. Rt.
#GradeA
This is ridiculously true! This is beyond true!!!!
9:20 😯 "Oooooooo! Y'all ready? Y'all ain't ready!"
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You gotta replay that one AT LEAST 5 times! 😄
This video is so profound. A lot of time narcs will use toxic Shame to make you feel guilty for leaving. When really it’s manipulation to try to get you to come back.
He said I was his MEAT 💀
Holy Sprit is using you.... Peach..... 🧎🏿♂️🧎🏿♂️🧎🏿♂️🙏🙏🙏
My ex has been seeing the new supply for a month now! And still living with me. Make that make since
Let them get air the best way they can...that part ...Lord hv mercy on us all yes Lord❤🙏🏿💝🌷🌹🌷ty Ms.T..God bless u
💯 committed and submitted fully under the spell. It was like I subconsicially knew....I would make comments to him like if only you was human 😳. I would tell him you know I'm cutting my life short right here 🤦♀️🤦♀️ I look like wtf was I thinking..but its cause I opened the door and welcomed satan in. Thank the Lord for Telsha, you reminded me who I am and whose I am. You have been instrumental to my healing. ❤
I wish i could hit like botton 10 times, coz your efforts deserve:)
Exactly what she said I tried to destroy her. She ghosted me every holiday so on Valentine's Day I knew it was gonna happen again and I was ready. Bought her flowers and candy and hid it. She came in and kicked it off and I finished it by tossing the flowers in the trash and she crying and hyperventilating 😂. Now I tried to destroy her. Crazy
Lady T … gurrrrrl this is too much, what a plethora of great information… that is EXACTLY how it happened ! Once I started opening my spiritual eyes it was a wrap… I shut everything DOWN & ran for the hills …
Good morning. Thanks so much for this video. Everything you have said was done to me. He discarded me last month. But two weeks before he told me that no one ever did for him what I did for him. He is such an evil person. I went out all for him. But I think of him now as dead and gone. For two years I put up with lies, decente and betrayal. He tried to ill speak me with my Sister, but she deal with him very brutal. Love to you to. Thanks and blessings for this Wonder video❤
I thank God for your teachings on Thurs. Priceless Be There!!
Lady Telsha 💞 thank you for another revelation of truth. I thank you especially for telling it like it is .Narccistic ppl choose to live in wickedness, and from my experiences with them , the majority of them never change.
This video hurts but it’s a truth honestly..
Thank you for sharing! I'm going through the most horrific smear campaign and divorce right now. Some times I wonder if I'll ever see the end. 6 months since being discarded like garbage he's still talking about me. How do you handle going through so much trauma during but the after is so much worse!!
From experience, I say you figure out your purpose or pray about it and then you Wont even Care what He or the Fying monkeys have to say about you. BECAUSE You can Declare Who you ARE and He can't hurt you anymore if you take that power from him and don't care.
@@theelizabethann welcome. We understand
Exodus 14:14 has been my foundational scripture. I was married 25 years. I tried everything as a husband & father. I didn't know about cover narcissist. She discarded me for 3 months. She said I want a trial separation. Those 3 months were the most peaceful I had in 25 years. She wanted to come back I said no & filed for Divorce. I pray & read my Bible everyday. I have great family & friends. Exercise, therapy & self improvement helps tremendously. My friends & family say "thats the guy we remember ". Divorce is almost final she trying everything to win me back. In the last year & 1/2 being away from her I've written 2 books, started 2 LLC, teach Bible study & mentor my son & other young men. These were all the things I use to do 25 years ago before I got married. My energy level feels beyond phenomenal. No more energy vampires. God is restoring & healing me. It has not been easy but it has been worth it. Be encouraged & know that this can also happen to good Godly men as well. I struggled with divorce because of my faith. The lord released me when she abandoned the family. My son has chosen to live with me. Be encouraged.
@@mattd8868 thank you! I pray things will eventually get better and I try so hard to hold onto to that faith. I was married 15 years and I can't even begin to explain the hell he's putting me through. Yet, he's the one that abandoned our family and ran off to another woman. I just want my peace.
You are so true 👍. As always. Dopamine high, I didn't realize dancing with the devil sleeping with the enemy.'if they drain you 😅they drained the fuk out of you.
VERY GOOD VIDEO, LOVE THIS VERY MUCH!!!!!!! THANKYOU
Exactly right . Refuse to be helped
The craziest mess EVER! The devils imps!
You are ALWAYS right on point...truth to all of it!
What a lovely welcome! 😁
People thought I was crazy when I said my ex-narc was a spiritual parasite trying to fuse consciousness with me. Or that he forcefully tried to become my identity and make me see reality through his eyes. I knew he was influenced by demons the first day I met him, I just wouldn’t admit it to myself.
Hit the Like Button you All 🎶💯💃🏻🎶🎶
❤❤❤wow when you spoke of spiritual realm,shocked me the way u understand that,i salute you,that real real real guys all she said
My kids dad always told me he wanted my soul to hurt.
I made an off hand comment that I have never heard a man be so negative & complain - that my father never complained.. This triggered him off the charts.. He said I disrespected him by comparing him to my father.. Such a fragile ego & self-esteem He often would state "I AM A MAN!" Clearly he didn't feel or act like a man..
Sure seems like he is living his best life with that old supply, back burner, new supply. They are getting married not even a year after our divorce. They running around smearing that relationship and smearing me.
Yup
TOXIC
THAT IS VERY TRUE. IM HAVING TO TAKE IRON INFUSIONS EVERY MONTH.TEACH US QUEEN TEACH US PLEASE
Hey Ms. Telsha!
Hi sis Telsha your video is the absolute truth the malignant narc who I’m still married too I kicked him out and gone no contact gotta divorce him asap the freeloader was living off me for free after discarding him .I got a email in spam sending me a picture of him giving a rental check 😂good go pay rent ,preach sis yes after being intimate with him I felt drained and tired had massive headaches now he is gone nor more headaches and asking God to break this ungodly soul tie in Jesus name.
I WAS A GREAT A SUPPY TO HIM EVERY TIME.
This right here is real truthfull. I can't even a say word other than glad I got up out of there, like you said MS telah and my buddy my mother said she cracking jokes on me if you have gone an married that "1" you wouldve never been happy a day of your life😂😂😂😂😂.✌💯 thou I want my first and only wedding, to marry; and to be very very special and honest. Lol she also said yeah you better pick one from overseas😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂these new ways of women is not it anymore leave them alone.
LETS GO!!! MRS TEA U NAILED IT AND I DID FEEL VERY DRAINED ALL THE WAY THROUGH HUNNY I TOOK MY CONTROL BACK I GAVE THAT FAT DUCK A RUN FOR HIS MONEY I WENT MISSING ON THAT GREY AND I DISCARDED HIM PLUS NO CONTACT... I WAS THE GRADE A SUPPLY I'M DONE AND GONE ABOUT MY BUSSINESS HE CAN'T COME BACK THIS WAY❤❤... LOVE YOU MRS. TELSHA ❤
Soul..is body...
Truth.
Great video, like always! Hit that like button folks!
God bless you Sis...all praises to the Most High💙🕊
And at the end it start to filling real nasty I really didn’t want sex or kisses know more
I remember feeling the drain from the beginning, just didnt know what it was. I also remember feeling smothered and I wanted some distance, so trying to be closer wasnt there. It was too much and I didnt. like it. Things never got better, I realized I did not like this person. Maybe thinking back is why I found it so easy to greyrock then ghost when I left. I really no longer have any interest in trying to figure that crap out, he spent alot of time trying to get an apropriate response from me.While the addictionship was going on I was educating myself about narcissium and I recognized all the sickness. "I knew that I was leaving". Life aint perfect, but its good. The old me is back I think Im healed because I could care less about dude. No contact 3yrs June 1 2023. Thanx Ms Tea❤😊
You dead on in this one i kept veing tired and they kept complaining about me nit being up at night no more and i didnt get it
Woow i was jusr told this today!!!!!! I destroyed her let her tell it 😅😂😂😂 no accountability