Your Departure Tore That
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i love it when a narcissists suffer the consequences for their actions cause what you sow is what you reap.
yessss
bruh mine is hoovering me now like alooot in social media about few days ago.. not phone cause i change it that same day i dumped his ass, it was aboutt to be 4 months being peaceful, though he wouldnt bother me no more lol....
True but they don't learn from it. Keep in mind these are very emotionally damaged individuals. It kills them to even think they may be the problem.
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@S. NoDASH agree
We gave them life then we
took it away when we left
We took our life back ✌️
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes this right here.🙌🏽 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
We gave them so many chances to succeed we lost our own opportunities then we left and found ourselves preparing for new opportunities for success😼
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I could only take so much! Them blocking me for the second time on social media was the last straw because the time before I had already warned them if I let u back on my social media & u block me again that will be the last time! I went no contact & stayed no contact once I realised I was dealing with a narcissist!!! It was a nightmare the whole situation in the end and they showed their true colours which my intuition was trying to tell me all along!
I'm living my best damn life since I left that demonic frog!!! I lost 75lbs, I'm traveling, got a new wardrobe and some new wigs....baby, ain't no going back!!!
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😂SIS PRAISE GOD YOU BROUGHT ME LIFE WITH THIS ONE🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽CONGRATULATIONS ON FREEDOM AND LIFE QUEEN!!!
Me too. Practicing self love. Being the best I can be. ❤😊
"The Almighty Creator threw the narcissist a lifeline when He allowed you to come into his life." Wow, this is powerful and it's also what keeps some of us stuck when the abuse starts. Believing that we can help. But when the narcissist cannot change, we have to leave and save ourselves. Opportunity blown on their part that they will live to regret!
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Correct
Soooo true!!!!!🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏
True, I always had this belief as well until I could no longer continue.
Yasss 🙏🏾
I have no idea about him. Hes blocked, but I am happy finally. Some days can be hard, but its worth it. Im living life! My kids are better off too
Bless you stick in here complete healing and restoration is coming for you and the kids. Praying for you be encouraged Sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you so much and for everything you do. These videos have been so good for me and many others
@JK You are doing great after reading your words and I'm happy for you. A hard day that has us crying also free's us up for longer each time it happens, I always try to remember that,,, well done girl 💕
@@JessicaRamirez91622 Is your narcissist blind lol how can someone leave someone so beautiful as you.
Blocked and changed phone
carriers and numbers. Blocked his adults, his relatives and anyone else associated with him.
Been since 2016.
Turns out my daughter has not blocked some his family members and he’s sent messages through family members. My daughter is his, she refuses to have anything to do with him and is unflinching.
This guy caused so much pain in my life for almost two years. I did everything for him to feel loved and he played me and discarded me. I feel so betrayed I will never again get myself in a situation like this. I been healing and progressing I went no contact and know I deserve better. Happy healing it’s possible stay strong ❤️
❤❤❤ you go girl!!
Was married to him for 20 years, he played me like a yo-yo 🪀 but I am healing and God’s doing wonders in my life! Hold on to Him, great restoration is on your way!
You set boundaries don't lower your standards
Absolutely
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes indeed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
Sis you better Preach That!! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.
Never!! Lower your standards, compromise your faith, integrity, or morals!!
I did it just like that. Generator is snatched, everyone is blocked. Any of these pigeons and birds showing up at my door ever again, 911 is on speed dial. My life is so peaceful now and good things are happening every day
Absolutely and that is what I’m talking about awesome. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I feel you on this one and this is what I did! Peace of mind is everything!!!!
Yessss hunny 💕
Same...my big dummy flew into a narcissistic rage and came after me, so I called the police, had him arrested, got an order of protection and put a retainer on a divorce attorney all in the same day, May 7, 2020. The stupid trash bag underestimated me, but most of all I underestimated myself! To this day I am no contact with this monster after 33 years of a horrific marriage. Thanks be to God, for He is so gracious and merciful.
Amen to that 🙏🏽
That clown called me today from a different number talking bout he misses me and it’s been tough on him. Chil’ please I told him was tough when you were piping your ex wife behind me hmmm 🧐. I told him I’m through I’m done ✅ so don’t waste your time not going back. I guessed he got the point cause he told me I’ll call you back and he didn’t. Then he sends me a text saying: no other women will ever come before you. I didn’t even reply cause I don’t have no time for his nonsense
Good for you standing in your power and being strong. I’m proud of you. They’re all lies that he’s telling because if you let him come back he’s going to do worse to you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
Aww the Backfired Hoover lol 😝
When you block them and they use a different number , it is a clear disregard for your boundary before they even say or txt a single word....it's that disregard that speaks volumes right there 💕
Shiddd ok maybe not before you,,, but they’ll come after you on same shelf as you where all y’all sit. Swear these ego driven idiots always say lil truths in between their lines of lies. They get off that stuff too ,,, hearing themselves say it aloud. It’s pathetic and
Grosss good for you and shidddd That was 5 months ago I bet you’re like extra extra level up now
Why do they call like nothing happens? That was scary crazy to me 😲
Omg! You are so right! The family is in on the BS! They cover for the narcissist and most of them are narcissist’s too. The momma and the daddy are dysfunctional narcissist and raised a whole family of them. All sick, dysfunctional and evil. Thank you God! I got out of there with my life! Glory to God! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I love your comment Chrisula. It took me 20 dang years to put all this together. Now that I think back to stories she shared with me about her parents, I now see she is re-living their entire script and I allowed it. The entire family was very dysfunctional and toxic, but I was unaware of this disorder when we bonded at the age of 21. Her family knew she had a side-guy for years, and helped keep it an unstable secret. I am presently in the divorce process, and of course I get the silent treatment because she’s ashamed of being caught cheating and stealing from me. We are both 48 with no kids. I AM DONE! Thank you Chrisula, you were spot on with your comment..
@@reddmann4340 God bless you in this process of killing this soul tie. I met this man at the tender age of 16 and was too young to realize I could not fix him. I was married to him for 30 years. He literally took life from me. I was sick all the time and confused on how you can give so much to a person and all they can see is how they can take from you. My advice is pray and keep God first. This is a demonic spirit come to tear you from your purpose and happiness in life. I left with my clothes, my car and my dog. I walked out on everything. It was worth it! This was 7 years ago and I have rebuilt my life and continue to prosper now. It is true that I was covered during this time and God withheld certain blessings until he removed him from my life. I am healthy and happy now thanks to God. God bless you and cover you too. You will be alright. 😇
@@chrisuladavillier4600 Thank You.. I had to screenshot this.. POWERFUL!
BAYBEEHHHHHH!!!!!! That family...That family!!!!! The Sister and the Mom......Oh my GAWD!!!!
You said it so are
I set him up when I left, no regrets. Made him think I wanted to work it out, got my last day of fun, cuddles, lots of sex. While he slept I left and text him, oh you thought you would get to keep me, and her?! You can have her! Ain't been back since! I know his game now, so I had the final play! Checkmate!!
Perfect , you did it, you carded him out, that monster can go and himself , apparently they’re already dead, they don’t have a soul.
So what did he say to that text?
@@DailyWalkNuggets oh he never admitted anything and insisted I was crazy. I ran into them together about 2 months after grocery shopping together.
I did the same thing. 33 years and I'm not staying in chains any longer!
Best dang on comment I've ever read pertaining to Narcissists! Guess I should of did the same before I discarded her, but then again I'm good, because no matter how great the sex was it was Not worth being devalued!!! Great checkmate tho Queen
I tried to speak to the narc about things i had issues with between us. He got really mad and decided that he would take his clothes and leave. Before he walked out, i stopped him. Walked up to him. Placed my hands Above his head as if i was removing a crown and said "let me take my crown back!" This is reserved for my king and you are NOT my king. You are the wrong man. #misplacedcrown. Take it back!! Take your power back!! He was wide-eyed and speechless with shock and surprise..YEAH! Don't play with me sir..BYE!
Never get revenge on a narcissist. Best revenge is to move on , cut communication and be happy . Then , that’s when God takes over . And BABBYYYYYYYYY LET ME TELL YOU , GODS WRATH IS NOTHING COMPARED TO WHAT U WOULD HAVE DONE . So trust god and let go and be happy . God will handle the rest . Love u 😘 sending love and prayers for anyone healing from narc abuse.
Was just crying my eyes out 😭 Turned this video on, and now, I’m laughing like crazy! 😂 A good crazy that is!! I can relate to the pigeons, mud, toads and chickens... cattle too, since my ex was a farmer. Thought he was salt of the earth, more like scorched earth. No more corn maze craze for me. I’m gone!! Thank you Tea, God bless you and yours 🙏🏻
That is so awesome I’m happy that I could make you smile and laugh lol. I am reading your comment and I’m hollering laughing at you too you are hilarious.😂 Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I love her!!
@@montricec8795 sending the love right back to you sis thank you so much. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
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💯 mine too!
Their miserable when A supply leaves you were the life of their doomed existence an life
Yes they are.✨💖
Ok`! ¥ 😁
Fucking panicking rn looool
Yes he is ruminating. All up in my blocked box texting. No more because my peace means everything to me.
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes he is ruminating absolutely for the rest of their lives. Absolutely- peace is priceless and no one should be allowed to take that away. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
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You are so right! This is my situation to the."T". This narcissist drained me .I did the discard and she saw it coming. The narc refuses to apologize. The family members can't stand the narcissist. They are glad I did her ass in. She totally mistreated me. I'm happy to be gone!
Welcome to the Tribe. Yes - this is exactly what they do. I believe it. Yes see that so I know this content totally resonated with you. I happy you got away as well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Blessings to you I left 11 months ago 2 years relationship I moved it a blessing but you got to watch out for the games playing on the phone I block him no contact but still I think he called from other numbers I don't pick up. I love my peace. Thank God
@@annacarter8703 Absolutely! The narcissist will call me from other numbers but I don't always pick up when numbers I don't recognize call. Be blessed beloved and you're right keep the non contact going!
I'm gone 2 but the family hides them they are all sicko's!
We must be very careful because the narcissist will keep trying to come back. I received a call from the narcissist a day ago and she had the nerve to attempt the love bombing again by offering me sex without any obligation. Oh really? After how "this time things will be better", I've learned my lesson, I said "hell to the naw" and hung up and blocked the number she called from!!! No more narcissist forever!!!!
I regretted lowering my standards and bite it so much. The most hurtful experience of my life. It nearly killed
me but I fought vigorously to save myself!
Why do the families be in on it??!! Omg!! You helping everyone out of your heart and they help use you!
Yes indeed they are in on it because most of them are narcs too. They will never tell you a thing they would rather watch the drama unfold. That’s because they already knew what he was going to do to you. They’ve seen him do it with so many others before you. Just a bunch of insane birds as what they are. I’m happy that you’re being enlightened by this content and gaining the knowledge.
Dirty low-down dogs! Unable to appreciate compassion/kindness---THEIR LOSS
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships but what about if u were the narcs real first relationship far as him having grade a supply? The narcs in his family knew how he was but they refused to tell me anything or if they did they said it on the sly to where I wouldn’t get it i would have to think about it but I didn’t at the time because it wasn’t that serious to me. I noticed the older sister use to say stuff inadvertently and the mom would but that’s about it she would tell me when she was tipsy to focus on myself which basically means now that her son ain’t shit but she wasn’t go come out and tell me that! I member his sister and I went to the mama job one day and she was telling me what he did to the ex on fb so now lookin back she was letting me know in the most condescending way
@@shug_no_avery8172 it doesn’t matter if you were the first real relationship. Sadly, these types of people can’t be trusted. They go along with what the narc does and sit by faking and fronting like everything is all good.
@@shug_no_avery8172 the bottom line is his family know what they raised, because most likely they’re the same way. Where he lacked experience, they are more than happy to coach him along.
My narc is going through hell with her new supply and I see it in her face everyday at work.. now she's trying to find away to get back.. naw naw keep that same energy when u dragging my name in the mud and other laughing about it.. ha!!!
Welcome to the Tribe. Oh yes go ahead and preach this that’s what I’m talking about. Never let her come back. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Righteous..mine lied saying she wasnt cheating ..2 years apart.She tried several different times to Con me to get back together.Silly psycho.Only Narcissists pull so many idiotic stunts.
I agree one hundred percent with you, they need to stay gone!
Good for you 👍 stay strong now you see her getting run down soon she be watching this channel and educating herself.
@shelonda8 That's EXCELLENT teaching and a GREAT analogy!!!
I left her on her birthday after the 12 years of pain, torture and chaos that she brought to my life. I always celebrated her birthday for her but this time, I chose the same date for the discard so as to make her understand that I ain’t playing games this time. She underestimated me at her own peril. I marvel at the lack of empathy and unfaithfulness that I endured for over a decade! How did I even do that?! 🤔
On her birthday...😱😱😱. That's way too mean to choose that special day. The Lord says "Vengeance is mine. I will repay..."
I left him today on his bday, whew feeling relief
I love it!!!💪👍👏
@@freebluebutterfly6583 , the battle is real and empaths must learn to be ruthless in freeing themselves from the despicable narcs.
@@Chidiuche Nwannem you did well. Going through this too having freed myself from the Narc. We have to be ruthless as Empaths.
But with that said, after you have cut them off, allow Karma to take its course. These people are not worth our efforts in trying to get revenge. They do it well themselves.
I just threw my phone clear across the room!!! When you said how the family calls you to check on you when they knew about the side piece and the embarrassment and the mistreatment... oh my gawd!!!
Big facts Sis!! It’s the absolute truth.💯💯💯
"They will NEVER find another YOU." Thank you for addressing the FAMILY, too. You are so uplifting... I really needed this. THANK YOU!!! ❤❤❤
The day I was discarded.. I looked up to God and said this pain can't go unnoticed!! My soul was broken and I know his karma is coming.. He has a new supply n shes 30 and Im 35 but my narc is 37. What he did to me and having his son that is 2 now along with his medical conditions its hard... God got a plan!!
They always have ailments.. all that dark energy eating away at them, literally
That is so good and true. Human vampires, I'm so glad I had the strength to block and ignore. The more I watch these videos, the more I realize, it was all a lie and a joke. It's his lost, not mine, he brought nothing to the table, so he'll search for me in others and I won't be there, BYE 🐦
Yes that’s all they are human vampires. That’s it - it was all a lie, joke and a smokescreen. I’m happy you had the strength to leave as well and never go back. That’s it bye Bird. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Well said Ms. P.
Thats a great characteristic.To ignore, phase out.They are not human like us.Lies are the norm.No responsibility, no Empathy.Empty destructive Shells, unbelievable actually..
Hey Ms. P! I saw you yesterday at Hario’s live! 😄🌺
That's their payback, he'll never find you in anyone! When I left my narc, my brother said to me that the next woman will pay!!! He said it with such intent. I did not fully understand what he was saying at the time, but I get it now! And he can be a Tasmanian devil if you let him!! He later told me he looked for me in other women. He literally told me that! He didn't care about using other women to heal his wounds, telling them he loves them, love bombing, calling, texting, desperate. So what does he do for me? The same.
Bam! Will never find another me!!!! Never! Believe that!
I may not ever find another you absolutely not, Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
The ex tries to paint a pretty good picture of how they are doing well and unbothered but I know better you will be amazed how they can paint such a picture.
I’m sure they do try to paint a good picture a picture of lies. Absolutely I can only imagine. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They paint a pic of the good life in fb cus ppl don’t know them but the ppl who really know them they catching pure hell and STILL causing pure hell as well
Mine does the same ohhhh we are just fine nothing could be further from the truth, he’s in a constant state of panic
shug_no_ avery I found out from my ex Narc husbands family that the new whore supply showed up at his mother’s funeral they claimed they were marred!🥶
On social media with a bum but steady in my inbox even tho he's blocked
SNATCHED and done moved on with my life. Done ✔ he's in the mud where he belongs and will stay... never again.... I'm blessed God SNATCHED ME OUT and I was able to SNATCH my generator from that bird.... I'm going higher every day I'm sooooo peaceful joyful taking trips road trips back n college enjoys my 4 grown kids and I honestly don't miss him at all... no love for him that left long ago....I'm blessed beyond measure...LOOK AT GOD🥰
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Welcome to the Tribe. That’s what I’m talking about you have snatched the generator and moved on with your life that is awesome. Life is so much more peaceful now I’m sure. Amen blessed beyond measure I love that yes indeed look at God! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen sister!!! God snatched me out right on time...🙌🙌 But God...🙌
I promise he did not find me where he left me 😂 let him learn !
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that’s correct let him learn absolutely I’m with you. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
They never do love.
" they don't even have the sense that God gave a flea!" I'm dying over here. You are hilarious and speak the truth!
Welcome to the Tribe. Lol! Yes indeed Sis it is the truth. I’m happy you enjoyed the video and got a great laugh. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
This is soooo true. As soon as he was gone I felt a beautiful peace, I got a good job, saved some money, skin clearing And getting stronger by the day. 17 days no contact and it’s a process. I’m going to take a trip I think 😊 Thank you for the informative video! ❤️
45 days out after 13years of marriage pray for me never let the same snake bite you twice
Expose them all !!! Amen !!! The best thing that happened was the discard. He did me a favor. He has know idea who has my back.
Welcome to the Tribe. Absolutely sis I’m spilling the tea and telling all the business. Yes he did do you a favor. The Almighty Creator has your back. Karma is a patient gangster and it will definitely serve him. Welcome to the family here beautiful soul. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
ON GOD 🙌🏼😊🙌🏼
They're supposed to be celebrating and living the high life by now but all they're doing is getting high and 👀👀... aww this is going to be a goodie hahaha!
Come on and talk about it that part right there yes indeed.✨💖
Yep getting high,drunk,not sleeping and eating. Karma.
Then he should be HAPPY! Cause that all he did most of time we were together getting high, drunk & whoring! No longer my problem No longer my headache
I love saying "It's not my circus, I don't have a circus or a circus act...And, you see them monkeys?, Well, they're really not my monkeys." Chin up, survivors of narc abuse!
I had the best Christmas with him that we ever shared... He just showered me with gifts...the Sunday after..he was not reachable ..when he got ready to return the call I told him I was busy! Threw him completely off! It's been 2 months I have the rest of my life to regain my sanity and enjoy my peace...The friends even been calling..I have put them all on block list! Happy in the Lord!
Amen. ! 🙏 💘 👊
AMEN. DON'T WASTE VALUABLE TIME
Good for you! Homie don't play dat!
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Amen
When I told the narc it was over, he kept walking around the house saying “ I’m trying to get my head on straight!” He was a mess!!! It didn’t take him long to find new supply
Welcome to the Tribe. I know you are correct about what you’re saying. When you discard them they lose it. I’m so happy he’s gone. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships thank you for all your very helpful info! It’s helped me tremendously!
That’s Narcissistic Injury right there lol I’ve done it grey rocked his assets lol 😆 plus I put on all the more Charm all the way out the door and left plenty of memorabilia for future ongoing Narcissistic Injury Pain and Suffering along with induced Paranoia lol Christine Williams here a person that genuinely cares
He didn’t find that person she was there waiting ! Hang on to your self the shit show will become clear soon ! She was the side chick fighting for you space
Its easy to get new supply because they go online and find the most desperate one. They good on energy, but lets be real they dont be happy with the no supply and the new supply not happy either.
Thank you 🙌🏼. I needed this after a 38 year relationship, married over 34. Awaiting divorce be finalized. Praise God I woke up in April 2021.
I just left after 30 yrs. I understand.
What did he say once he got divorce papers?
I just left after 33 years. This past year has been a nightmare. My Mother died and I took over and he couldn't handle that I stood up.
That's good, the smear campaign is a confession. Never saw it that way, thanks for dropping another golden nugget.
Yes indeed you’re so welcome sis that’s all the smear campaign is. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
The narc wasn't meeting my needs and I started seeing someone else. I want to give 100% to my new guy so when I explained to the narc that I was no longer going to see him, he said he had to "process it". DF is there to process?! I've moved on from you. First time dealing with a narc so i honestly had no idea. But, he was the worst dude I think I've ever met. The narcs are certified crazy
"process it" lol
I love your videos! I’m currently no contact for over a week and I have been working on myself and my relationship with God. It hasn’t been easy. Some days I have just cried all day. Back and forth with my emotions. But I’m slowly pulling myself out. I feel so much freedom. He almost completely broke me. I still had hope. I couldn’t imagine being with someone else and now im excited to see what the Lord has in store for my life. Thank you so much ❤️ I feel more empowered more than I ever have in my life! Thank you Jesus!
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I remember my early no contact days. FYI your brain is foggy and your body is dirty. I ate right meditate on the word I danced. I left in September and my body was detoxed by December. So proud of your baby step. We have a great coach ❤
Went through same...I left 8 months ago, he already has a new supply and he is impotent! It will get better! Enjoy your Narc free life!
Lovebombing 101. "u made my whole house peaceful. i can actually sleep"
Wow isn’t that something.
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships she'd actually (while sleeping)in the middle of the night. subconsciously touch me..to feel if i was there?
My narc just gives me the silent treatment with no responses at all after I left. He would come home when he wanted to then apologize and then boom he does it again. The last time he did it, I just got my bag and left.
What is the status today?
@@DailyWalkNuggets after about 2 years he has come back around. I think because he realized a lot. Yet doesn’t mean he has changed. I don’t see a lot of improvement at this moment. We aren’t together. The communication is still off. I don’t see it moving anywhere at all.
@@DailyWalkNuggets I just believe after all the karma he reaped he wanted to try to make things right.
The devil is a lie! Aint no mo juice ova here!
Amen Sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I love this woman! Speaking so much truth!!! You're so nessasary Queen
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First time watching best video yet I’ve seen-on this subject 👏🏽👏🏽
Narcissists feed off of other peoples energy. If they can’t get to u, they can’t feed off of u. Show no emotion & just give them short factual answers.
People r here for us to learn how not to be. People r lessons for us to grow, learn & become the best version of ourselves
Amen sister! He is going nuts after one year of no contact. I receive random new phone calls. I know it is him. The more he regrets the more he smears me and the more it will back fire on him. He has a woman who he cheated on me with, got her pregnant and discarded me for her. He was concerned about his reputation. Now he crazy after having consequences after consequences.
This happened to me girl!!
You really want the Narc to leave you a lone...? When they try to triangulate you with the new supply.... tell him that if he contacts you again, you will send all his messages to the new supply. He will cease and desist immediately!!Narcs hate loosing supply until their ready..
Love you queen! Everytime I watch one of your videos I feel empowered. As time goes on all I feel is relief for getting this demon out of my life.
Welcome to the Tribe. Sending the love right back to you. I’m so happy you are felling empowered with this content. That is awesome Queen. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
ha ha ha sick people stay focus and bless.
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Preach Preach!!!! One of my ex narcs called me crying apologizing after marrying the new supply.. he apologized for the mean things he did to me when we were together.. lol. I was actually shocked he did that, because he was so mean to me & the way he discarded me.
Yes this is what they do they operate with the grass is greener on the other side. That’s why I say that they are birds and selectively stupid no common sense. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
My ex did the same thing to me after he discarded me when I was in the hospital last year then he found out that the old supply wasn’t hitting on shit but yet he kept her around because he the grade a had cut him off even tho i was bed bound he couldn’t get close me so he was stuck with her staying for hotels😂😂. Like a week before Christmas he called and texted me saying how sorry he was for not being there in the hospital for me etc and how it’s killing him and how two years is along time to waste etc and saying he’s sorry for dealing with somebody after I told him I didn’t want him too etc. NO ! he dealt with somebody else because he wanted too and thought the grass was greener then when the newness wore off he stayed longer cus I was bed bound and he knew not to come near me so he was stuck there and waited good until I got back to myself after 6 months of being bed bound to make his move like he had changed when I shoulda went off his actions instead of taking him back because I loved and missed him
That’s a ploy. Don’t fall for the bait. Straight manipulation.
I am finally getting my confidence back a year after the breakup. I told him I’m not a second choice, I’m a only option! 🖐🏼 he blew up my phone acting like he missed his kids and gave me one heck of a time thru court for custody and child support. Thank you god for exposing him, and helping me love myself again! ❤️ I am a Queen, and I will be treated as such👑
Welcome to the Tribe. That is so awesome I’m happy you’re getting your confidence back. Never be an option when you are the absolute opportunity. I’m so thankful the Almighty Creator exposed him as well. Yes get back to loving you Queen you deserve to be treated well. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I was stuck as stuck could be but I decided to leave it all behind. I choose my life and the life of my child and I risked it all to leave. I think it shook him to his core.
Love it....love that comparison between the Rolls Royce and the broke down Pinto, hahaha! 😂😂😂 About 3!weeks after I left, I stumbled across his emails from a dating site in our old email address (before I took it over and changed the account, lol!) The emails linked right to his account, so for kicks, I looked at his account, and man! some of the chicks he was reaching out to...wooo-eeeeee! Damn! I KNOW I'm better than that, and it wasn't even just the (horrible) looks! You ain't a-kiddin' about birds, ducks and chickens! I know now, I'm a damn eagle! Soaring high above him and all that! 😎👍🏻
Keep sparkling!
Yes!🙌🏽
Yes Sis!! That part right there. Yes they can never be comfortable in a Brokedown Pinto especially after riding in a Rolls-Royce. I know those chickens look like some ducks and other kind of foul lol on that dating website. That’s right bayyyy-bayyyy you are eagle and the bomb.com. Soaring above all of that yes indeed. I’m so happy you got away from that clown. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
" Penniless" indeed. I may not have a single red cent right now, but I believe in God Almighty. I have faith that God has another miracle in store for me. For God is everything that is good and there is power in prayer. I have decided that if I am going to be used, I would prefer that God Almighty use me rather than the insatiable unconscionable downright heartless narcissist that has been trying to drag me to hell. I REBUKE THE BEAST IN THE NAME of the King. Amen
Welcome to the Tribe. I know that’s correct amen amen. If you are going to be used it might as well be by the Almighty Creator. The narcissist will never give you a return on your investment they will only take and like you said drag you to hell. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Amen
Yes Lord
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Please remember these times as God restores everything and more that vile person stole from you. That narc will be back to try to claim your new blessings and they are NOT for him/her. Be blessed.
When you leave a narcissist and you are the main supplier once you leave them they demons go on over drive torturing them they get tortured no matter what but it's the light in you that them spirits need to thrive because a theft doesn't rob an empty home so when you leave a narcissist it pisses them spirits off so the narcissist has to find a way to feed them and no matter who they get with they will never be able to feed them like they were able to be fed with you. So they go down hill quick after you.
Underestimate me he think he would be using my place for the doormat to come in and out whenever he pleases and then go off with his other other supplies wherever he had them so they took his ass
Oh wow and I don’t feel sorry for him. He got exactly what he deserved. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I'm the one that got away. Whewwwww! The last time I was with him I knew it would be the last. He was angry and the sex was angry brutal and disrespectful. The clown ghosted me once, I was tried of feeling empty anyway. He always complimented me and my home. How I was so talented in every thing I do. The last thing I told him was I know my value and I know my worth. Block Block Block
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome keep that block game strong yes indeed.🌟💖
That part the angry, brutal and disrespectful sex….over value and worth is something we can’t afford to sleep on. Time brings on change and so does experience 💃🏽✌🏽🙏🏽💯!!!!
Thankyou for this funny, real,down to earth video. When I walked out 15 months ago, and left every thing behind, did not care at all. I knew that God was going to restore me.it can never, ever come back to me. I thank God for the chains I have put on the doors to my heart and soul,all this goodness is truly meant for someone else. MY GOD IS SO REAL,AND READY TO HELP AND RESTORE!!! THANKS AGAIN MISS LADY🌺🍾🥂
Welcome to the Tribe. That is what I’m talking about and such an empowering comment. I’m happy you enjoyed the video thank you for sharing this beautiful comment with us. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
You see into the most inner core of our experiences. You make the healing process bearable. Thank you Queen!
You are so welcome. Amen I want to see you all healed and restored in the name of Jesus. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I say take everything their afraid of insecure about paranoid about Over The Finickish Cliff for them leave my kids alone my friends my neighbors coworkers I Am The Real Empath Nightmare ! I Said It I Done It And I Mean It ! ! !
That’s right you go ahead and say that thing and mean it.
He knows I hate them & blocked them so no one can’t get thru to me!! So, I don’t know what to tell ya!! The family is in it, yes … they started m saying things to me & im like what,”What did I do.” The family got on my stinky nerves now! Before I wanted to be around them & now I’m just like no! 😮😢❤
Yes... The ex IT figured that since he made sure I was penniless that I wouldnt leave.... Shocker!
Welcome to the Tribe. What he didn’t know was that your bounce back game was tight. That he was dealing with queen energy. I’m so happy that you got away and you are on your glow up game. Do that thing Sis! Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
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Facts. But it’s something about that narcissist spirit that will leave you broke an lonely. At least it will feel that way until you seek the help of the lord god. You begin to realize the demonic things about the narcissist an then you unmask the narcissist
They seek to destroy you mentally, spiritually, by any means
@@cheekslord1222 yes..one did that to a friend.She's malignant and horrible..
or at least very disturbed and depressed..they seem to get perverse pleasure from such tyranny!
That sister and that momma 😆😆
Tried to suck the life out of me... oh but God. My prayers were so intentional to break the soul ties. Yes and amen, I am delivered... praise Jesus!!!!
Amen. ! 🙏 💘 👊
HalleluYah
Even though he discarded me i snatched my generator away!!!! He was calling and his family was calling. I blocked everything they will see my shine from a distance. I already know that narcissist fall flat on his face and stay there.🗑
Welcome to the Tribe. Now that’s what I’m talking about yes indeed snatching up everything. And never going back got that right they will be flat on their face after you are gone. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Don't they think you get
Tired of all that Drama
And control ? For nothin.
Right because that’s all there about is drama. They never get tired of the drama and think that we should be the same way. All we want is peace. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Yes, you decided to love YOURSELF!!! You preaching!!!!!
I really like how you point out its a addictionship because that is definitely what it feels like. I'm learning to not answers his calls and I blocked him, because I know my hurt and anger is getting the best of me.
I know it tore him up..
He’s blocked and knows I am SERIOUS!!!
Yes! Queen Tea! I wear my scars as a badge of honor! I've been through boot camp and I've survived the battle. I KNOW my enemy well. My armor is well worn and battle tested. They were foolish in their pride to underestimate me, and that demon messing around just woke me up. My most recent narc was my spiritual catalyst. He always was joking around calling me the "Spirit Whisperer". That demon was so right. Now that I'm awake and empowered, these "birds" can't run away fast enough!
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Yes indeed they are queen. They tell the story of your battle and journey. That’s right battle tested a warrior I love it absolutely. They often underestimate us - we are some powerful beings. Now that we are have been awake and we are going to stay woke stay, stay empowered, stay strong and encouraged. And yes we will send those birds running away fast. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I just want to say this. I’m so glad I found your channel. I listen to your videos everyday. It has really helped. I remember before leaving I was at a really low place. I felt like I couldn’t live without him even though he broke me……. But watching your videos gives me strength…. They also make me laugh. But most importantly they helped me go no contact. I never thought I’d be able to…. 34 days no contact and I’m still healing . But I know I’ll get there. Never going back to that Chinese crested ! 😂😂😂😂😂😜
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Victory...a chain was broken
same happen to me...scales lifted and I looked around like aww nah..lemme pull dis plug
Your healing me everyday. God bless u🙏. I raised her children from babies. After she got caught cheating she didn’t have confidence in her new supply and tried to negotiate me to stay because she didn’t trust her new supply to have her back with the children. Now she moved in with him. Trying to replace want I brought to the table. Your energy is amazing!!!!
"Stankin Behind Narcissist", lol 😂😂😂... Tell it like it is Queen 👑.
Welcome to the Tribe. That’s right LOL.😂😂😂. I’m happy you enjoyed the video and got a great laugh. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank You for receiving Me into the Tribe. I enjoy your videos so I'm always tuned in to your videos. Your energy is lively and you jump straight into the real. I see I'm not the only one up lol😂😂😂. Keep em coming. You helped me to realize the narcissistic traits in someone I really cared about. Thanks again...
@@macewindu262 you are so welcome. I’m happy you enjoyed the videos and the energy. Energy is everything. Yes it’s a late night for me too lol.😂😂😂 ✨💖
My soul was truly moved wow...I didn't want the video to end I'm going through this very thing right now
Welcome to the Tribe. Bless you I’m so happy that you were encouraged by this video. Thank you so much I’m praying for you. I pray your healing be Godspeed. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
Let it go you can do it make a plan they dont think your going to do it
I am honored to be held in such positive thoughts God bless you and your family
I don't know what to do at times trauma has seemed to make me numb to abuse sometimes I feel though I am cursed
@@no_mooreliezcopper18 you will always fill curse as long as you with him. I been doing it for 19 years. Think about it are you really happen with him or you comfortable with him? Do you think you can live this way the rest of your life with him because he not going to change unless he gets help.
Money on fleek! Traveling!! Blessed!!
Now this is what I’m talking about absolutely. Now you are free to live your best life amen. Stay on your glow up game sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love. ✨💖
Yes Queen
My queen im flying out to another country to level up and enjoy life
Enjoy yourself and please be safe. Journey Mercy. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
🙌🙌🙌 Enjoy yourself sister👑🥂🥂🍾
“Tore up from the floor up, beat up from the feet up” made me HOLLER!! 😂😂😂 My GOD, this is a RELEVANT WORD!!! God I thank you for confirmation 🥺🙌🏾 God, I thank you for healing, I thank you for covering, I thank you for restoration, and I thank you for PEACE that surpasses ALL understanding!! God bless you, Sis ❤️
I was abuse for 3 yrs by a narcicist that i dnt have any idea that this kind of person is existing. When im watching you, i feel that theres one person willing to stand for me. Your videos help me a lot, ive learn a lot about this evil female narcicist.
It’s been 10 days for me and he hasn’t hovered and nobody ask tried to contact me. I feel he want after I caught him with the new supply.
He is 47.
She just turned 23.
He said I was toxic but I feel he is the one toxic and crazy, not me.
Welcome to the Tribe. Trust me they always return to the scene of the crime it’s only been 10 days oh yes please do not get too comfortable. He is just trying to let you cool down since you caught him. Stay no contact and please do not except a Hoover for nothing,
Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Good for you ! Stay strong Sis
Narcissists always project.They believe their trash is yours.
He will he not right now because he trying to wait until he think your are fully broken so he can come back and use u for whatever reason. Use this time to heal so when he do comeback you don't fall for his shit
Don't be disappointed that you haven't been hoovered. They are busy with the new supply. Trust me, they will come back around like a snake slithering out from under a rock. The best gift God can ever give you is complete freedom from a narcissist.
Take that blessing and move forward with your best self.
Ah my kind of teaching and preaching! Blocked the witch and most of my family, and now I am popping and thriving like never before. Thank you, Jesus for bringing me through with such favor happiness and prosperity.
You took all the way off with this one Tea. BAM! Y'all smash that "like" button. Show her ❤!
You are so right I needed to hear this again my ex try to go back with me 2X after dumping me thru text and I rejected him cause I needed all that energy he took from me. Self love ❤️
I need a woman with your mindset around 30-35 and I will be a happy man for the rest of my life. Lord please let me run into a woman like this 🥺🙏❤️A righteous beautiful queen
I snatched the generator from the miserable addiction-ship !! Helloooooo, I’m gonnnnne like last lifetime 😆😆😆
Girl, U ARE ADORABLE! U hit EVRY POINT!!!
STY UP BEAUTIFUL!!!!
" I SAID it and I MEAN it!😂
narcs better not mess these female super empaths..... they may be the strongest toughest people on this Earth.... And i will battle alongside them any day... yeah i said it... and i meant it....😏🤗💞💞💞💞
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Yoooo I had to start clapping when you talked about the mother and the sister..
Yes they are some birds.
I just escaped a narcissist whose parents ( mother especially) to no surprise were narcissists as well. They lived in denial and would laugh at anyone ( people in their own family) who called them out on their toxic traits and behaviors. My exes mom felt she needed to control her family to feel at ease but it was always done coercively and passively. Little does she know her traits as a narcissistic mother made him feel like less of a man and contributed to the years of abuse I suffered from him behind closed doors. I almost married him but his mask was falling off over and over. I was gaslighted about everything day in and day out leading me to so much confusion and self doubt. All sick kinds of abuse. I left but He calls me after I told him to stop so now he's blocked and I'm sure they think I'm the worst person in the world to leave him and their family after all the meals,gifts and trips, memories we made as a FAMILY over the years. I can't be bought and it's so crazy and mind boggling to be love bombed by an entire family of narcissists. I say I escaped because that's literally what I did. I'm free but all that abuse has began to surface in just a week of being away from him. It's like I was under a trance of manipulation to endure such awful things. I had no idea all the damage that would surface after leaving but I would rather go through this now than adding another 6 years of things I have to work through.
This sistah have me on the floor when she says" I said it! And I mean it! And calls the narcissist a" bird" and a " clown". I made the mistake of briefly letting the female narcissist back in my life via telephone calls and her silly behavior. I thought my month's of absence would make her appreciate me and my character. WRONG! She played the part long enough feeling like she had me on lockdown, then the crazy messages started coming. She liked to play the roller coaster emotional up and down games. She would message me about am I through talking to her, I must be mad, especially if I didn't constantly give her attention that she craved. When she would call, I'd tell her I had family and other business to attend to. She'd make an issue of it. A couple of days ago, I had to slap my ownself back into reality, and realized I needed to take my own advice that I'd been giving other men. RUN, RUN, RUN! Don't look back, less you lose your soul!
Sistah Tea, you are right! Narcissist have a dark, demon dwelling in the dungeon of their soul's just waiting to come to the surface to see who they can destroy.
You have helped me more than you know. Thank you for what you do!💕
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You are so correct when I left he did not know that I was going to take him to court to get a order of protection. He thought that I would never do anything like that or he thought that I was stupid. But when he got that summons in the mail baby he was probably in total shock LOL. I won the order of protection it has been 3 years now coming up this March of no contact. I am free ☺️!!!
I’m into 4 months of no contact , 10yrs of running back and giving my all, all to be thrown under the bus and verbally abused.
Outbursts and accusations would come from no -where
This time round I’m stronger and wiser.
Weirdly enough,
He made a visit with his sister
No way would he involve his sister , he must be desperate for supply.
I was not in , thank goodness as I would of welcomed them,
After watching videos of like this one , I have realised to not entertain them.
This video has helped me
Made me laugh , I don’t laugh much, that says it all.
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Just when you thought it couldn’t get any better! Mind blowing truth,unbelievable delivery and healing humor. Thanks Karen.
Welcome to the Tribe. That is awesome I’m so happy that you have enjoyed the video and my delivery. Thank you for appreciating my sense of humor. Laughter is truly healing it is like a medicine to the soul. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
I told my ex wife of 13 years and 20 years together, during the discard when she was riding high and boldly cheating in my face and saying the meanest and most wicked things to me, i told her rhat sh would reap everything that she is sowing. She started raging, its been 3 months no contact, and i have stopped counting all the Hoovers but i remain unbothered;! She made her bed now get comfortable and lay in it! Two weeks after i left God blessed me with a Mercedes Benz from a Cadillac. I have never had so much peace, my body is healing and my hair is growing back, to God be the glory
You have helped my research and clarification Soo much! Spiritual awakings are sooo freeing, I'm fighting the fight of my life custody and divorce
Not one of his friends or family have reached out, in fact he’s brainwashed our adult children (23 & 27) to discard me. He was on Tinder 3 days later.. but he always has been. I’m at peace and I’m grateful I escaped 28 years of abuse. Now to finish it out w/the protective order & divorce.
Love you sis. You could be a preacher. I would be a proud member ❤❤❤
Welcome to the Tribe. Thank you so much sis I am just doing the will of our Father in Heaven that sent me. Amen. I appreciate your encouragement I would happily have you as a member to you are awesome thank you so much sis. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Girl you are better than any homegirls I have this video ❤is awesome
The truth shall set you FREE!! Thank you Sis!🙏🙏🙏
Welcome to the Tribe. Amen. Thank you for the gift of your time and sharing this comment with us. Much Love.✨💖
Being bright and bubbly and warm. So pleasant thank you
Girl preach!!!! They did all that to me but I got out!!! Thank you Jesus!!! I was only in for 2 months but I got out, I will not go back or look back I didn't know what I had but I know now!! Yes he had me fooled... not anymore.