LET’S GOOOO!!!!💪🏾💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You got this!!! Congratulations!!! Now watch your life bloom!! Remember, no contact means NO contact. The real test comes when they hoover. Your strength and resilience will be truly tested then. They WILL hoover. It doesn’t matter how much time has passed. They WILL hoover. No matter what….NO CONTACT. I’m rooting for you👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The narcissist was or is in your life for one reason. It's so you'll wake up from the illusion that you need validation or love through their affirmation, which they'll never give you. They're there to teach you that you have to find affirmation through reparenting your inner child and unconditionally loving yourself because you're a beautiful person and have intrinsic value. Learning to love yourself is not easy, but essential on this journey called life. Remember, you don't have to hate the narcissist. You have to understand them, as well as yourself, or you're bound to repeat the process of abuse. Don't be a victim like the narcissist ( or so they say), become an overcomer! 😊❤😊 Tip: Love God the Creator 1st. Love yourself 2nd, then your neighbor, so you'll have the necessary boundaries that you didn't learn as a child. 😊 Don't feed the narcissist your time, devotion, sympathy, or money. Walk away from the abuse, and learn to value yourself 😊
Time does change the dynamics. However, even if you move on, the rumination seems to get worse. Even though you know it was all a façade. I've been in contact and would never take him back! It's the disbelief that someone could be so cruel to you that doesn't disappear.
The rumination does eventually end after you’ve figured everything out. Every interaction and conversation. You figure out that nothing you did, or could have done would had made it any better.
65 days no contact and I’m actually getting better. Some days are good, some are bad had nightmares about them a couple of times too but I’m definitely way much better now than when they were actively in my life
You’re doing really good keep going. Never go back you just have to restart your emotional healing journey from square one. I am now 65 days no contact. I can’t even image picking up the phone up contact him gives me the ick. But just like you I have bad and good days
Thanks Joe. Ultimately what was your weakness becomes your strength and what appeared to be the narcissist’s strength was never that because deep down they were always weak and still are ……
After listening to your videos today I blocked him on both cell phone and Facebook. In the end it would always have the same ending. We try to rationalize their ways but their ways have no feeling or character about them. Thank you for letting me see this. If they truly loved you their attention would never have changed to pull them away. They only pull away because they want to be pulled away!🌹
Thanks Joe 🙏 and so the true pursuit of happiness begins… No drama No lies Just the wind No chaos No cheating For the win Let the pursuit of happiness begin. Peace and prosperity ✌️
Ruminating helped me to understand the discard, her behaviour and why the right decision was made to leave. During that time i would drive by her house just to see how far ive distanced myself from her. It took me almost one year to fully disconnect from her mentally. Its been 986 days no contact. And alot of personal development, alot of soul searching, alot of character building, alot of people cut off, and alot of forgiveness. I experienced the shift this week and the evil still tries harder to take me off course but God has already won. Walk by faith not by sight.
I have realized that I must be a codependent. I’ve been just too nice. I have tended to reward him after he treats me badly because I didn’t want any conflict.
Me too. It never stops. We’re just too nice. The best thing I’ve done is learn thru my experiences. I’ve gotten to know my value by reading affirmations. with who I am and that has helped tremendously.
Thank you Joe I needed this today as my exnarc is losing his mind after 4 months of NO CONTACT we have never went this long and Im truly done for good. I appreciate your words ❤
I have to say big thank you to joe your videos and understanding of the condition you pulled me form the deep well that I was thrown into and now nearly at the top and never could say thanks enough . I would ask everyone to go through all them and by the end you will have a clear understand of what the hell happened . He will save you life and help you get to where you need to be . (Free)
Good morning ! 🌞Joe treating us with a new magical video this morning ! Lets have a cup of Joe ☕☕ with Joe and enjoy it ! Thank you Joe ! 🤗 ❤ Happy weekend ! 😎 ⛱
The bottom line to their madness is they are broke 😂😂 the world is not the same as it used to be so they are stuck in the past & have not mastered how to keep their funds coming in this new economy that couldn’t care less about their popularity. They are BROKE ✌🏿
My wife and have separated now for nearly 5, she’s been living her best life! Ive been in hotels pretty much that whole time other than the odd day being at home. It’s been hell
I’m going through a discard for the second time in my history with this miserable narc. My grief is heavy, but I know full well that he does not care about me. I do feel like a fool. He did come back when I was happy and at peace. This time around, I’m done. Once he moves out of here, I’m going NO CONTACT.
I’ve been no contact for 64 days I received about 7 Hoovers. Thanksgiving just past and it was really hard emotionally for me. Thanksgiving was hard but the next day I felt a lift in my emotions. I know the narc is a fake and phony person. I have to get rid of my true authentic feeling about him. Some days I’m so happy he isn’t a part of my life. Some days I’m so thankful and I feel disgusted by him and other days I’m mad he deceived and manipulated me once again. I’m mad I opened my door up to him again. He deceives many but not for long. He is still an untrustworthy narc and now when I do see him when he picks up our daughter he looks dusty to me and not attractive at all
They will know for certain they have lost you when you found the King of Innocence. All you have to do is talk about innocence in any form or fashion and they will become uncomfortable and play devils advocate against unwavering teachings.
Haven’t seen him, he instantly found someone got engaged married to me still, she gave me a call, never have heard from him, 1 1/2 year, he was grooming someone cleaned out my storage filled it with cheap junk trash so I would know
When he kicked me out of the apartment his daughter provides for him when I refused to say he was God, refused to say we are all God, he went into a rage claiming no one ever was helped by the Bible, the commandments are bullshit…..threw my dog on the floor and made me leave…….a page turned in my brain when my religion was completely disrespected and I was done…..a gift from God. When we talked next in a day he tried to skip over the entire horrible experience and I just said we can only be friends. I will no longer give him 1 k a month believing we had a future. I’m peacefully done, I could pinch myself, the energy connecting us is gone.
She is all I have left, I gave her my word I wouldn't leave her, stemming from a conversation about her personality disorder. She's cheated or raped whatever and she is gone. I am here for her but. I won't be no more confusion of pain.
Finding out Joe is done with his YT channel did not make today any better :( Deleting this app, honestly don’t even blame Joe. YT drains as much time and life out of me as my ex narc did. No fucking more.
They are weirdos watching someone & using everything they observe to paint someone as a narcissist 😂😂 it’s like they believe that is the code to break someone’s spirit who couldn’t care less if they was a psychopath 🤷🏿♀️ they are a psychopath not bothering their weird ass & they need to stop begging for attention period. They will crash all the way out because they are too prideful to just stop harassing someone & will exhaust every one of their pathetic options. Regardless their time is up ✌🏿 let them no longer mistake me for somebody who gives af
@@jeannieotb8491 😂 are you a triggered super empath or a beta empath ? Why so hars comments ? Meybe YOU are the narcissist ! I didnt acuse anyone you ran straight to ad hominem ! "Clap clap" smh
@@debbiehepler2007 i like the topic thanks for your concern lol 😅 are you an agree person ? Its still alwaya the same topic he speaks the same topic in circles with new words.... not much classification.... you do understand that your comment is a little to much defensive right? Did alot of Narcs trigger you in the past ? Dont let everyone trigger you ! Woek on your self ! Dont attack critisism thats pretty valid, if you have something oposite to say about what i say then say it instead of behaving like a black life matters/body shame movement type of a person 😅
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Your closure - when they show you who they are believe them
10 days no contact and I am proud of myself 💃💃💃🇿🇦
Update:
Today I am celebrating a full month of no contact.
LET’S GOOOO!!!!💪🏾💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You got this!!! Congratulations!!! Now watch your life bloom!! Remember, no contact means NO contact. The real test comes when they hoover. Your strength and resilience will be truly tested then. They WILL hoover. It doesn’t matter how much time has passed. They WILL hoover. No matter what….NO CONTACT. I’m rooting for you👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Getting me back?....that would be a miscalculation on their part.
😊 THE MOMENT I DECIDED TO WALK AWAY I GOT MY CLOSURE 😊 I'M MOVING ON 😊
Yes I agree. She discarded me many times and I couldn't get closure, the minute I decided to end it, I was able to achieve it and gain my self respect
The narcissist was or is in your life for one reason.
It's so you'll wake up from the illusion that you need validation or love through their affirmation, which they'll never give you. They're there to teach you that you have to find affirmation through reparenting your inner child and unconditionally loving yourself because you're a beautiful person and have intrinsic value.
Learning to love yourself is not easy, but essential on this journey called life.
Remember, you don't have to hate the narcissist. You have to understand them, as well as yourself, or you're bound to repeat the process of abuse.
Don't be a victim like the narcissist ( or so they say), become an overcomer! 😊❤😊
Tip: Love God the Creator 1st.
Love yourself 2nd, then your neighbor, so you'll have the necessary boundaries that you didn't learn as a child. 😊
Don't feed the narcissist your time, devotion, sympathy, or money. Walk away from the abuse, and learn to value yourself 😊
Yes dont be an enabler. Stop them i their tracks. Boundaries. Don't let them in. xx
@@sonlightpsalm942 well said thanks
Perfect Said Amen 🙏🏼
Well- written truth.
Love what you said about time being an ally of ours but always the enemy of the narcissist.
Time and karma are the narcs enemies
I went absolutely no contact 449 days ago and I can’t stop ruminating.
It’s been over a year and I think of her constantly
It gets easier, but I know what you mean. Find hobbies to redirect your focus. It will help a lot!
Invest in a recovery coach
You won! And you fkn know bout this s*t, lets Go💪
@@ceyciemateo9411 I’ve already got a therapist that helps me a lot.
Time does change the dynamics. However, even if you move on, the rumination seems to get worse. Even though you know it was all a façade. I've been in contact and would never take him back! It's the disbelief that someone could be so cruel to you that doesn't disappear.
Well said..
Indeed 🤍
Yes. The cruelty left me in awe. This completely devastated my daughters ages 9 and 5 and she didn’t even blink when they were howling crying.
The rumination does eventually end after you’ve figured everything out. Every interaction and conversation. You figure out that nothing you did, or could have done would had made it any better.
Why it is good to journal.
Each day just keeps getting better and better!
That’s so sick 🤢 that someone needs to destroy you that, bad so bad to make themselves feel better, sick sick sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yessss I said that exact same thing earlier today.
Very sick and evil!...no contact for a year and he just cannot stop stalking by proxy....become a way of life now
65 days no contact and I’m actually getting better. Some days are good, some are bad had nightmares about them a couple of times too but I’m definitely way much better now than when they were actively in my life
Keep it up, it's definitely worth it.
You’re doing really good keep going. Never go back you just have to restart your emotional healing journey from square one. I am now 65 days no contact. I can’t even image picking up the phone up contact him gives me the ick. But just like you I have bad and good days
Thanks Joe. Ultimately what was your weakness becomes your strength and what appeared to be the narcissist’s strength was never that because deep down they were always weak and still are ……
After listening to your videos today I blocked him on both cell phone and Facebook. In the end it would always have the same ending. We try to rationalize their ways but their ways have no feeling or character about them. Thank you for letting me see this.
If they truly loved you their attention would never have changed to pull them away. They only pull away because they want to be pulled away!🌹
Thanks Joe 🙏
and so the true pursuit of happiness begins…
No drama
No lies
Just the wind
No chaos
No cheating
For the win
Let the pursuit of happiness begin.
Peace and prosperity ✌️
I didn't loose a dam thing but a minultive, controlling sob
Joe thank you for continuing these. I’ve been watching for a year and I still need the extra encouragement you give to keep on going.
Try andrew on narc daily and narc con. Both also very good for extra help. xx
Ruminating helped me to understand the discard, her behaviour and why the right decision was made to leave. During that time i would drive by her house just to see how far ive distanced myself from her. It took me almost one year to fully disconnect from her mentally. Its been 986 days no contact. And alot of personal development, alot of soul searching, alot of character building, alot of people cut off, and alot of forgiveness. I experienced the shift this week and the evil still tries harder to take me off course but God has already won. Walk by faith not by sight.
Miss you 😢 I hope everything is okay. ❤
I have realized that I must be a codependent. I’ve been just too nice. I have tended to reward him after he treats me badly because I didn’t want any conflict.
Me too. It never stops. We’re just too nice. The best thing I’ve done is learn thru my experiences. I’ve gotten to know my value by reading affirmations. with who I am and that has helped tremendously.
Its been too long Joe hope all's well the world needs these videos
I really miss your content. I hope you'll come back, but take care of yourself if you need a break.
We need a new video!
@@Job.Well.Done_01how do you know this?
Thank you Joe I needed this today as my exnarc is losing his mind after 4 months of NO CONTACT we have never went this long and Im truly done for good. I appreciate your words ❤
Hey stop calling him ‘my’ call him ‘the’. Dehumanize narcs💯💯
I have to say big thank you to joe your videos and understanding of the condition you pulled me form the deep well that I was thrown into and now nearly at the top and never could say thanks enough . I would ask everyone to go through all them and by the end you will have a clear understand of what the hell happened . He will save you life and help you get to where you need to be . (Free)
Joe where have you been man?!?!?
He periodically disappears for a month or two every now and then.
Good morning ! 🌞Joe treating us with a new magical video this morning ! Lets have a cup of Joe ☕☕ with Joe and enjoy it ! Thank you Joe ! 🤗 ❤ Happy weekend ! 😎 ⛱
They realise nothing. That would require them to be self aware.
Healing from these creatures is as mythical as they are.
The bottom line to their madness is they are broke 😂😂 the world is not the same as it used to be so they are stuck in the past & have not mastered how to keep their funds coming in this new economy that couldn’t care less about their popularity. They are BROKE ✌🏿
This is the first case, an abuser left victim!😂
Thanks Joe
Your voice is beautiful
This is astute and , sadly, quite correct. Thanks for sharing clarity.
Great analysis - something to refer back to - I like how time away from the narc is on our side as long as they are not actively involved.
My wife and have separated now for nearly 5, she’s been living her best life!
Ive been in hotels pretty much that whole time other than the odd day being at home.
It’s been hell
I’m going through a discard for the second time in my history with this miserable narc.
My grief is heavy, but I know full well that he does not care about me.
I do feel like a fool. He did come back when I was happy and at peace. This time around, I’m done. Once he moves out of here, I’m going NO CONTACT.
I’ve been no contact for 64 days I received about 7 Hoovers. Thanksgiving just past and it was really hard emotionally for me. Thanksgiving was hard but the next day I felt a lift in my emotions. I know the narc is a fake and phony person. I have to get rid of my true authentic feeling about him. Some days I’m so happy he isn’t a part of my life. Some days I’m so thankful and I feel disgusted by him and other days I’m mad he deceived and manipulated me once again. I’m mad I opened my door up to him again. He deceives many but not for long. He is still an untrustworthy narc and now when I do see him when he picks up our daughter he looks dusty to me and not attractive at all
Thank you!
They will know for certain they have lost you when you found the King of Innocence. All you have to do is talk about innocence in any form or fashion and they will become uncomfortable and play devils advocate against unwavering teachings.
Haven’t seen him, he instantly found someone got engaged married to me still, she gave me a call, never have heard from him, 1 1/2 year, he was grooming someone cleaned out my storage filled it with cheap junk trash so I would know
Excellent
Alot of prayers too
I’m dead he’s taking everything I’m glad he won now I sleep
Sure hope so!
Hey Jo jo missing you bbz ❤
How the heck do you know this? I’ve been trying to figure this out my entire life and I’m 70.
When he kicked me out of the apartment his daughter provides for him when I refused to say he was God, refused to say we are all God, he went into a rage claiming no one ever was helped by the Bible, the commandments are bullshit…..threw my dog on the floor and made me leave…….a page turned in my brain when my religion was completely disrespected and I was done…..a gift from God. When we talked next in a day he tried to skip over the entire horrible experience and I just said we can only be friends. I will no longer give him 1 k a month believing we had a future. I’m peacefully done, I could pinch myself, the energy connecting us is gone.
I'm in recovery
I feel addicted to your videos
Where are you?
I know I'm weak... and not.
Who knows ?
She is all I have left, I gave her my word I wouldn't leave her, stemming from a conversation about her personality disorder. She's cheated or raped whatever and she is gone. I am here for her but. I won't be no more confusion of pain.
🗞️ ☕️ 🥯
Finding out Joe is done with his YT channel did not make today any better :(
Deleting this app, honestly don’t even blame Joe. YT drains as much time and life out of me as my ex narc did. No fucking more.
Where did he say that? Sad to hear if it’s true
😞😞….can understand it though. Joe has been the best ❤️
Hi Joe🪷
New vid soon?
Always the same fkn topic
If you don’t like it go away.
we need it. Go away if you don't. you must be a narcissist yourself or you would understand that!
They are weirdos watching someone & using everything they observe to paint someone as a narcissist 😂😂 it’s like they believe that is the code to break someone’s spirit who couldn’t care less if they was a psychopath 🤷🏿♀️ they are a psychopath not bothering their weird ass & they need to stop begging for attention period. They will crash all the way out because they are too prideful to just stop harassing someone & will exhaust every one of their pathetic options. Regardless their time is up ✌🏿 let them no longer mistake me for somebody who gives af
@@jeannieotb8491 😂 are you a triggered super empath or a beta empath ? Why so hars comments ? Meybe YOU are the narcissist ! I didnt acuse anyone you ran straight to ad hominem ! "Clap clap" smh
@@debbiehepler2007 i like the topic thanks for your concern lol 😅 are you an agree person ? Its still alwaya the same topic he speaks the same topic in circles with new words.... not much classification.... you do understand that your comment is a little to much defensive right? Did alot of Narcs trigger you in the past ? Dont let everyone trigger you ! Woek on your self ! Dont attack critisism thats pretty valid, if you have something oposite to say about what i say then say it instead of behaving like a black life matters/body shame movement type of a person 😅