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- Insight on why a narcissist can never just move and forget about grade a supply.
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Grade A Supply is not a good place in the beginning, but when you leave you now become the haunting memory in their mind. They never ever forget you. The new supply will pay dearly - they will not be able to stop talking about you . Funny now that now you become value WHEN YOU LEAVE Permanently.
Exactly 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
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🙏 Amen!❤❤
Sad individuals 😢... now he LIVES me so much 😒yeah, OK😂
If you were dealing with a TRUE NARCISSIST, AND YOU WERE GRADE A SUPPLY- AND YOU WERE THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY- THEY NEVER FULLY RECOVER FROM YOU !
YOU WILL HAUNT THEM FOREVER, This is how the dynamic works.
If you were in relationship with a true Narc, you have destroyed their ego forever. They will forever be STUCK.
Facts ! I was that grade A the life changing supply that changed and elevated his life like no other and it’ll never happen again for him as I left him .
I certainly hope so...
The mother not-in-law( never married) was always casting a shadow over her other sons marriage, grandkids, etc...
Living under her roof in Nevada for 5 yrs it was a dead giveaway...
I been with her other son for 15 yrs.
Known he and his family for over 25 yrs.
Masks fell left and right as soon as he had a stroke.
His brother remarried to a Latino family...
Oh my gawd.. WW3!!! LMFAO!!!
They've been NC for over 3-4 yrs etc...
I completely understand why.
I did not move 10000 miles,yes 10 THOUSAND collective miles out of my way to be treated like a doormat...
F#ck that grotesque sack of piss.
I will not be connected to some sick, evil demon.
Nah. Bubye. 👋 adios
N there whole life will be to hurt u. After I discarded the narc he made so many babies with so many victims. Pray for the victims.
I discarded the narc 5 months ago and he has been hovering me every day and night since. I went no contact, came off social media but he is driving past my house all hours day and night. But I’m not going back. Clown
@@Glitter504 you only hit the million dollar lottery once in a lifetime ❤️
They don't miss you as a person. They miss the benefits and conveniences you once provided to them!
‘…remember the narcissist you left; not the one you met.’
I'm on my GLOW UP...and I know that the ex will NEVER 4get me...I gave him my all...They don't make women like us anymore...
Sounds like i should have met you and not her.
Whew!!! I say this all the time!! Good Women are becoming few and far between.
You speak truth! It's so sad because I consider myself to be a very good man and the horrible experience from a past relationship have put me in a place where I don't even want one. I'd always find myself trying to help her understand that everything is not always a fight! She have said "I hate everyone," Every relationship with family and friends eventually went down and for some reason it was always my fault. Narcissist is a very nice word to call these individuals, I call it demonic! Do you know anyone in this world who's never at fault never sorry never bad and absolutely never will forgive. Retribution and revenge is never ending. No empathy or love! Am just numb with disbelief that a human being can get this sick! All in God's hands now!
100%
That part
I met my narcissist 8/28 17 years ago and 8/28/23 I walked away! WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE! One day at a time! I feel amazing and happy! ❤
Yessss
God bless you. Hope you are healing. One step at a time 🙏🏼
@@Mags765 I’m never looking back! I’ve been getting back to back blessings, it only took me to leave so really start unlocking the blessings in my life! ❤️❤️❤️
The worst ones are those that are experts of false empathy then they triangulate their victims to fight with each other while they laugh
Like the devil on the Stephen King movie Needful Things 👺👿👹
I didn’t give my narc this pleasure
HE IS MAD AS HELL😂😂😂😂😂
If this ain’t the damn truth miss T !!!! Love you girl ! ❤❤❤
Never fight persons for the demons pleasure 🙏🙏🙏
This!!!!!!!!
Ain’t no hoover coming my way, ever. I gave him the discard of his life. Deleted my socials, changed my email and phone number. I don’t care what he’s doing or who he’s doing. I pray for the woman/women he targets next. Now that I view myself as ‘supply’ my giving is a whole lot different. I was definitely grade A supply and will always be the one who got away! Praise The Lord 🙏🏼
Its getting harder and harder for them to survive out here, how can they forget, they had it really good!! Now someone else is enjoying it all!!
Yes that’s the thought that tortures us that the new supply is getting their ‘Best’ that we loved and painfully miss.
It’s a hard feeling to get over-this is the part that slays-the devil laughs try to not let the devil have the power-I struggle still
God is angry at the wicked every day i promise you they will get what they deserve
Yep! It’s now narcissist dating narcissist. Finding a bunch of Grade A supply is not plentiful anymore for them so there getting a taste of there own medicine
I just took my last step..no more covert narcissists in my life! That purple zebra is out for the final time.
Purple zebra, lol
Don’t forget the backwards walking with the curly wig! Lol
Gave her most of everything she wanted and needed. When she had no place to go, got her a house...husband let her car get repo'ed, got her a car. Stayed up late, wrote reports and essays to help her get her Bachelors and Masters degree. Wrote her business contracts, designed her business cards, flyers and setup her business website. Was thrown out many times; yet, whenever she fell short, I was there to help get her on her feet. But, thankfully, I walked away and haven't heard from her at all and her new guy has to deal with her situation. I wished him the best of luck and kept my eyes forward and got in my purpose. Left all of that behind and now I am growing. prospering and recovering day-by-day. Whenever I ruminate, I think of all the debt and chaos that I left behind and it snaps me into reality. Hallelujah, I am free!!! Never going back!!! #NOCONTACT
Wow King! I hate to hear what was done because you put in excessive work to help her career and sound like a guy that want to see your woman win but unfortunately it was the wrong woman! Stay solid, keep healing and you gone find the woman perfectly for you!
My Narc daughter made false accusations and had me arrested. I will never forget the smirk on her face. I am a 70 year old grandmother and cancer survivor. I gave thousands of dollars to help her and her husband. These Narcs are demon possessed. Charge was dropped. Stay NO CONTACT!
Lol yesss it will snap you back in reality real quick 😂😂
Sadly, this is so true🥺 I'm still being stalked and harassed after two years of no contact. Obviously, this is war; so I battle this DEMON in the SPIRITUAL REALM 💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿❤️💯
I discarded this bird 5 months ago and the hovering started 2 weeks later. The hovering have been continuous every day and night since. I’m still being stalked everyday. This is spiritual warfare and God is my rod and shield.
Was literally harassed for a whole year it’s just now cooling down him and his toxic family is blocked on everything
I can’t imagine how bad it must be to go through a relationship with a narc and be grade A supply. I thought at the time I must be because it was the most traumatic experience of my life but it’s been 7 months and I haven’t heard a thing or seen her looking at my SM or any of that. God has also blessed me in forgetting a lot of that trauma. So on to better things. 🙂
Yes, the best is yet to come God does have someone tailored made Just for you so, keep it moving 💯 ✨️ ❤😊
It's pure hell pure evil
It's hard on the empath who (once trauma bonded) doesn't want to give up on the relationship and tries to do everything to make them happy...but nothing works. It almost becomes routine and breaking away is the ONLY way to see it. I didn't even know what it was and when I learned, I felt like a fool. But, thanks to my church and brothers...I am better today than I was yesterday.
They can come back years later. Stay on alert because if she was a true narc then she's going to circle back. Ignore it and keep living a better life.
Block them all. Block the narc and the family!!!!
YES LORD!!! I am glowing on that Narc and he has been wallowing in his shame 😂 thank you Lord for disconnecting me from that demonic relationship
A narc needs the supply especially those narcs who don't have anything...
Yes he had nothing married him
( huge mistake)! Then when I left he went back to the nothing he always was/is. I bought stability and purpose in his life cuz he had none. Blew the bridge up 💯No contact 3 yrs. Thank GOD🙏🏿
Girl listen I didn't need this lesson I could have lived without it he only taught me how to be on guard 24 /7
“You left something that was never meant for you.”
An "unwanted fan for life"!😅. That's my ex, spot on!!!😝
Lady T all I’m gone say is u are definitely sent by God and God is using you to speak into the lives of people such as myself who have been hurt by these SKUNKS, BIRDS, back walking GIRAFFES! Keep bringing it 💯! You’re right on point with all that you are saying! SHALOM FAM! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽😇🩷❤️💐🌹🌷
For real, Ms.Telsha , parking 2 miles from my house ,riding around my block, and those text me app numbers ! We were grade A supply of 💯💯
Ex tests the waters every so often. As soon as he doesn’t get what he wants, he gives me the silent treatment. I am so done with that backward walking giraffe. I said I, too! 😂😂
Swear they dont know how to move on. Him and his family members as well as his new partner keeps stalking me! Its so insane and weird. Its been almost a year. I wish he would forget about me its so annoying.
It's the same for me A.A.A. It's been 3 years and all she does is harass 24/7 with her husband and family. Without me I think they would all kill each other. It's very sick, annoying,and frustrating.
@@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht sorry you have to experience that too. Dont worry they're only hurting themselves at the end of the day. Keep moving forward dont let them get to you.😊
When the lights go out, their emergency generator comes on, but they can only turn on so many things. This doesn't work, that doesn't work and the lights are dim. They are so funny. Sitting in that dark corner with a cup of cold coffee trying to remember where they placed a candle. Why do they need a candle? Because that emergency generator ran out of gas.
I think this is why during one of our breakups I told him he'd move on and forget me and I would do the same. This was before me knowing about narcissistic people. He said to me.. you don't understand, I will never forget you! I'm 10 months no contact. He went to the girl my daughter's age that I told him he was conditioning.... that's exactly what he did. Poor girl.. but she also knew me and about me sooo 🤷♀️
I have zero empathy for my husband's current supply, she knew he was married and participated in HIS deception & the betrayal
@@ladyvirgo013 Same here. She knew the narc and I were married but she still participated in the nonsense...I don't have an ounce of remorse for her. She'll have to live by the consequences of her actions.
@@adidouglas2571 amen
@@adidouglas2571 people are brutal and have no morals
Just a week ago I got a call from a private number but I did NOT answer the call...
I assume i was Grade A for 12 years but my husband discarded me and shacked up with his coworker immediately. Such cowards
Love your videos absolutely great in this situation i disagree a narcissist can move on not something they want to do but they have no choice because that sensitive "ego" they have doesn't allow them to come back but they will be thinking of you forever only that's a fact
If I could hit that like button as many times as you sing that!
Great message. I know you get your messages from the Lord but I'm still amazed at your (His) timing! Bless Him!
Forget the one you MET not the one you LEFT 😮🔥
IAM being alienated from our children, blocked from the phones I pay for every month, so hey I still send video affirmations daily so it’s all good
FAMILY THESE UNWANTED DUCKS WILL NEVER GET OVER YOU WE CHANGED THE GAME💯👊 YES THEY HAVE A CRAZY CRAVE FOR US.. WE WERE AND STILL ARE THE GRADE A,, SUPPLY WE ARE # UNSTOPPABLE AND WE ARE UNFORGIVABLE KNOW AND TRUST THAT ❤❤❤ THANK YOU QUEEN ❤❤
There'ye not of an anxious attachment style. They're of an avoidant attachment style.
“…this clown lost a good thing… let that be your closure.” 🙏💪
Damn!! She did say that to me when I let her back for a short time! You belong to me?? I was thinking at the time girl if I belong to you why’d you let me go the first time? Oh, I remember, she’s a frigging child
She is speaking facts!!!!
Yes it’s true. When we met if even told me once- “ I call to know there is my property?” I didn’t know who-is-who for that period
Thank God am healed and whole in JESUS mighty name.
Funny thing is i never even knew he was a NARC 😮 He lives with his ex gf their roommates been living together about 5 years. Tells me shes his best friend yet he still tries to keep tabs on ME. Hes tripping. I get along with his ex and have no beef with her i just don't understand how she tolerates him. Its mind blowing to me. I think she's way to nice to put up with his antics but i guess to each his own lol
Yep when he discarded me he said he could never forget me and he would always love me no matter what and wanted to stay friends but I couldn’t and glad I didn’t now. 7 years later he just hoovered me and I was surprised since it had been so long but also happy knowing he will never see me again and I’m sure it hurt his ego I didn’t reply and left him on read.
Yeap, this woman told me “she never coming up off me!”
Speak on it, Ms. T! 💯💎❤️
"I am not giving up on you...and you are not giving up on me!".
Girl i have no idea how u survived 3 of these demons when i couldnt even handle one kudos to u i wish i could heal from it im trying but u talk about hard its catastrophic such evil should be abolished !
The Narcissistic Jealousy is in their blood line. Their fake confident creat confusion
Can u share how they do this weird thing of trying to mirror you!? Or whatever it is… please make a video about this and share
Hello Ms. Telsha. Good to hear from you today. I miss you when I don't see you. I must say, I've grown very fond of you. I can relate to how kinky the narcissists are and the things they say during the act of sex are over the top lol, smh. The ones I had I wondered if they had porno contracts, as x rated, kinky, sexual deviants they were. Smh All day!
🎶 HIT LIKE BUTTON HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON 🎶
That bedroom talk was a trigger. I literally feel sick hearing it because its true. He's gone and staying gone but wow
God I wish had discarded them in the love bomb stage.
Flags were there, but, my empathy thought I could SAVE A HO!...... I was wrong
They CRAZYYYY...I remember when the ex narc said that I was his ...smh which I thought was weird...
Very insecure!!! I went & had diamonds put on my teeth last week. He commented on them jokingly then goes & gets veneers the next day! He points out my flaws which I’m ok with by the way lol. Mind you I’m very fit, he is very overweight & he makes slick comments about my abs being to hard & then tries to compete with me on gym workouts knowing good & well he couldn’t keep up! Mind you I use to try to encourage him! I’m so glad I walked away! He is such a low vibrational person. He always Hoovers… I always reject the Hoover!
THE GREAT PRETENDERS
That's my ex narc husband after 3 years of separation he still calls from different numbers and now he started writing letters. I don't answer the phone calls and I tore the letters up. I'm still no contact with him and I am going through the divorce process, I don't want him anymore ever.
Your personality is such a breath of fresh air, I be cracking up when you call them backwards giraffes 😂 thanks for the advice. It helps get over everything that happened
Ms. Tea u ain't never lied...he would say that when I WAS with him
Exactly!!
Mine was making me repeat that stuff over and over, very early on....
I have remained friends with him because of the relationship he has with my daughter who hes known for 13 years. Even just trying to be his friend cuz of my daughter can sometimes be a challenge. 🤨😒 i try to keep my distance and personal biz to myself cuz he seems like he still get jealous weird about any man who talks to me or gives me attention SMH we haven't been together in years!
He said he belongs to me
Facts right there !!
Especially in the bedroom .. who do you belong too . Heard that sooo many times
On a spiritual level don’t ever tell someone “it’s yours!” During intimacy that’s creating a nasty soul tie! Please don’t do this!
With him 30 yrs and he finally left me I'm having trouble believing it wow he left his c lothes
I GREATLY APPRECIATE YOU… MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT ✊🏾 BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT… 💎💪🏾💯
A was the ATM FOREVER. 🙈🙈
Yeah mine told me my PSY was his.
Just SICK.
Sis you look so gorgeous sing on!Anointed One!!Teach!!!
Emotional Criminals.
They always move on eventually though and thank god
Twisted in the mind that's what. Don't own me.
I’m spiritually sensitive. I always know when I need to go hard on my protection , I will feel drained, I have dreams about him & I will see his car everywhere! I go into prayer warrior mode! Stay vigilant people!
My sister, you looking so good glowing you look so beautiful sis!!💯percent!! my sister it’s not a lust thing or it’s just another Christian brother admiring your beauty!!!
“… you’ve got an unwanted fan for life.” Smh. This is so discouraging, but at least I know.
Mine told me he’s looking for me in other ppl
I'm going through this so hard right now. I've been the Grade A supply for 18 years. Didn't realize or have the proper tools until I started watching these videos. This man has had me arrested twice in the last month along with trying to take over my house and took me from my children for a few days. All the while he abused me every month since January. If it wasn't for me recognizing the fact that he was currently grooming someone else. I ripped his life line abruptly and he's still coming for me.
You are not lying😂 Fan for life is 💯 correct
😡 KNOWING THAT A "BEAT💥 DOWN" WILL ENSUE IS ALSO A DETERRENT TOO!!💅
Absolutely right! I told my ex narc days ago that I wasn’t going to allow myself to be treated like crap anymore by him and that I’m not the one for him. I told him that I will find someone who will give the same love that I give out.. here we are today and he’s trying to come and see me … 😒😒😒
Thank you for that. God bless 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You are spot on with this. In our last and final falling out my ex literally said to me “I own you” and that I was his for life. Crazy to think people really out there think and move like that 😐
Said many, many times to me,,,;;;;;you're mine;;''''''''
Thank you Telsa.... Girl,l tell the truth. I'm on my Glow Up in Jesus name 🙏♥️
My EX Narc emailed me yesterday after a yr.. It was textbook Narc conversation. And all I can say was my reply was “ Meh”
I know I am good. And wish him well, wellness and well, see you on the other side.
Yes, ma’am.. I remember Me. And is why I must live intentionally. 💐😊💥🙌🏼
I mean this demon eats and breathes me, cause she doesn't sleep. This sicko has to hear me and see me 24/7. That is extremely sickkkkk.
😢😢😢 I feel you
I can feel it in your comment, you definitely tired of it
@@tpa617 yes I am, she is truly demon possessed
I got away… I blocked..they can’t contact me…they scared… they are ashamed…
I can tell he thinks about me , he look everywhere else but me the camera, it's the shame he has know .angery ,depressed, hatred,jealousy.......I learned to not be friends with just any guy, or say Yes to just any guy .I'm Protecting myself from them devils .....
Love It!!!! I do rock with my gurl,,, Ms. Telsha!!!!!!
I’m not anywhere near well off financially as her new supply, and I’m 11 years older, but she used to grab me in a hug and say in this childlike way “MINE.” Haven’t heard from her since I implemented no contact in February, and I guess she’s planning on getting married to this guy even though she lives in MA and he lives in Chicago! Lol! Long distance relationship with me, long distance engagement/marriage with him? Wonder if her divorce from her husband is finalized yet?
U are right on point miss T!
THYE DEFINITELY DON'T MAKE WOMEN LIKE US ANYMORE ‼️‼️ GRADE A ALL THE WAY AND I ALWAYS WILL BE 🙋🏾♀️ PERIODT💯💯 FROM NORFOLK, VA 🤗
Good title Ms. Tea and VERY TRUE
“In their minds, they still own you.” Smh. Help! It is extremely difficult trying to coparent with one.
I stumbled across this video and wooooooow I am currently going thru this my childs father of a narcissist and he is married and he still calls me and tell me he will always love me and I will always love him and saying all kinds of crazy stuff I needed to see this video
I got away SCOTT free. Lol
How do he fill like that and gave me a bad spear campaign I heard he talk about me and told plenty of lies I trust God
That doe doe bird told me that God gave him authority over me? 🙄
You're nothing special to the narcissist. You were just new supply. They ALWAYS need new supply. Post discard: you don't become new supply again until their new supply gets old.
Facts
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Blessings family of the Most High. ❤❤
Ms.Telsha 😂 I am rolling with you anointed woman of God. Have a wonderful day !❤❤
I Was Never Intimate Supply To That Demon He Had Other People To Do That With But I Was Other source Of Supply To That Situationship
I hope my never contacts me again😊