"When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you will experience three different phases of that relationship. There is the Love-Bombing phase, the Devaluing Phase, and the Discarding Phase. It’s important to note that a relationship will always start with the Love-Bombing Phase and always end with the Discarding phase; although, what makes up each of these phases will occur simultaneously throughout the relationship. You can think of the middle of the relationship as a sort of toxic stew. It’s quite common for Narcissists to try and Love-Bomb you while in the midst of the Discard phase. This is sometimes called Hoovering. They do this because their Narcissistic Supply source is being threatened and they can’t handle the thought of losing the supply forever - even if they are the ones to initiate the “ending” of the relationship. They will also often Devalue you in the midst of the Discard phase. They will tell you that they don’t want you anymore, that you’re a piece of crap or that nothing about you matters to them and never has. Even though the relationship is supposedly ending, they do this because devaluing is one of the ways they get Narcissistic Supply from you. They are squeezing the last few drops of supply that they think they can get. If they get this supply they may even try and love bomb you again to see if there’s even more in you. When a Narcissist seems OBSESSED with you and will not leave you alone after the relationship has supposedly ended, they are still trying to get Narcissistic Supply from you. Whether it’s through Love-Bombing tactics or Devaluing tactics, if they feel like there’s any chance of being able to still affect, control, or get a rise out of you - they will try. Let’s just say that they simply block you on social media. They do this not because they are worried about you seeing their content but because they actually want you to notice that they have done this. They want to know that you know they have done this and that you have some sort of emotion surrounding it. Narcissists will be as petty as that. The best thing that you can do to get them to stop being so obsessed with you is to go no contact with them. In addition to going no-contact, you mustn’t give them any attention, information, or thought whatsoever. React to everything that they might do or say as if they are invisible and that they don’t exist and never have existed in your life. Once you do this, and after every effort has been taken on their end, they will inevitably give up and move on to a viable source of supply. This is the only way that a Narcissist will finally and eventually stop being obsessed with you. They will finally have to move on and find a different source of supply." ~ Rebecca Zung website. I loved the way you talk about this topic Telsha narc's really do act out obsessively post discard at times. I recall a couple of times when I've naively given my number to narcs only to regret it big time when they keep calling even when you firmly request they stop. It's truly mind bending how relentless they can be until you're absolutely ruthless with them. I've learnt my lesson there hopefully! Narc family members or friends can be good at finding devious ways to suck us back in as well using everything from pity ploys, silent treatment, threats, moods, gaslighting, circular conversations and word salad, triangulating by playing one off against the other and deploying smear campaigns. It gets exhausting if you let it in as given an inch they'll take a mile so no contact is the best and only real means of finding peace. Stay strong and God blessed sweet Tea and family, sending lots of love, light and prayers to you, yours and your blessed and beautiful tribe of Spiritual Warrior survivors and thrivers xox 🙏💕🤗 ✨ ✨ ✨
@@terri412 You're know it and you're laying out the Facts there Terri!! 💕 Actually it's unimaginable which is why we need Telsha to constantly remind us to trust our instincts, intuition and discernment on what we see and hear ~ if it looks like a duck, quacks and acts like a narc duck ... whether it's wearing a cape, ballet slippers, tin-foil crown and lopsided bow-tie, driving a feather-fluffing ferrari or not... it's still a narc duck!! Indifference to these incorrigible soul sucking critters is the key!! Love you Sis xox 🙏💪🐍 ⚔️🕊️ 💕🤗✌️👋✨✨✨
@@louisegarner8888 Baffling bow-tie feather- fluffing bruuuuuud 💩res in Ferraris or not, can eating my dust quacking -up in pantyhose for all I care , I'm gone !!👌😁😜✌️
@@louisegarner8888 How dare them don't mess with my Sis 💟 what's up with them lawless ones who do they think they are anyway the Pharisee's, Be gone you den of vipers 🐍🐍🐍🤺🦾🦾🦾 🤣🙏
Texting from different numbers, phone calls, fake social media accounts it was ridiculous and embarrassing.It just really makes you see how unstable they are.
“Liked” the video cause you said: “they leave you for somebody with no teeth!” SO true! The new person is ALWAYS the TOTAL opposite of you, to further push the thought into your head that “you were never enough”. The reality is: you were MORE than enough, TOO much for them! Keep saying it and meaning it! ❤️
That's right, you couldn't trust them as far as you could throw them. Remember they don't even know who they are from day to day... Think about that one for a minute.
Exactly, if they are going through life mirroring others, and wanting to be in other ppl's shoes. How can they? And how can you know them? Their to busy role playing.
I've learned yall, it takes YEARS, to learn someone. 90 days, 6 months, its not enough. Within 1 year, notice the job losses, the car accidents, how many phone#'s, how many phones!ect.
All the above he a preacher kid we split in 2018 he still stalks want to be friends practice demonic spells and hypnosis on women parents encourage him too smh
Hands down don't nobody read a narc like u beloved! I be cracking up and learning at the same time! The laughter helps soothes the pain as we know laughter is good for the soul! Blessings beloved! Glory be to god! El Shaddai!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My ex narcissist has done everything you've said they would do. She's hooked up with a man who has a brain injury and she has the nerve to think I'm jealous of someone who is way less than me! I just ignore that bird! No more narcissist forever!!!!
Sis you better preach!!! These clowns running around creating chaos and confusion...they are fluent in lying. Don't believe the clown when they say they are unbothered by you moving on. Those spirits have tried to lay claim to your soul and it ain't giving up that easy, even if the discard was done by the clown. Trust and believe they are always watching and waiting.
When I did the discard ex narc said I don't need you and don't want anything from you. Funny nine months before that he said I was the best thing that ever happened to him and I was going to be the last Mrs. Tubbs😳😳😳
Mine got a new supply then told me I never want to see or hear from you again it’s over for good now “I swear on my moms life” then two weeks later was blowing up my phone asking to meet?? Plus admitted that he’s been stalking me. They are demented.
I had to take back my power, peace and my life. The only way to do that most times is to let that narc demon go so I can hear the Lord's voice, guidance, and direction.
All facts!!! I get the random calls from weird numbers and no one talks when I say hello. The narcissist tried to hack my Email, strange cars would park in front of my house late at night, people that know the narcissist show up at places I frequent. I have been on stealth mode almost a year.
A year full no contact will be this next 31st of December at 11/59 pm. I just can't wait to celebrate. It takes a lot of efforts and strength. Changes in the way you would react. You don't anymore. You act on it the proper way. Disappearing. I could be a FBI agent. 😆 Getting the knowledge opens a complete different world. It changes you for the better. Not accessible for narcs. Stay strong. I'm there with you.
I get the same calls. Random numbers non spam calls, I say hello 3-4 times no response then they hang up. This has happened 3-4 times in the past month or so
I KNIW A NARCISSIST WHO TOLD EVERYONE THAT THIS WAS HAPPENING TO HIM, BUT HE WAS THE ONE DOING IT, AND TURNING IT AROUND. THERE ARE LYING SICK PEOPLE OUT THERE.
They choose trash for complete control. That's the ONLY person who will put up with being treated like total trash. No thanks bub. 🤣🙃🙂 Yes he is most definitely off his rocker if he THINKS what he lays up reflects anything onto me. I realize they are perfect for each other and shall realize soon enough that the joke is on her. Thank GOD beautiful ladies and gentlemen who have escaped the grasp of Satan's spawns and are on the road to healing. Peace, Light, Prayers and love my beautiful and loved children of the MOST High .
The number they do on that trash is mind-blowing... All the while they look well and glowing like a vampire.. It annoys them that they couldn't get you into the state that they reduced the trash one to... The whole thing is so evil.
@@pallasathena1369 Straight demons... I posted my ex narc here in my videos. I did all I could to help him because he lied and claimed every person he was ever with did him wrong .. a liar and Satan in the flesh. He couldnt stand my light and how people, perfect strangers would gravitate towards me. Once he disrespected 1 too many times I planned strategically and when he least expected it, I discarded him. Look at his state. Hauntingly I have seen him twice in 1 month but hadnt since the discard. He's looking horrible... and I have absolutely no sympathy for him. not an ounce..
The funny part is they get with these new supplies who look like garbage to be honest. Then post them up to "shame" us lol when they look like fools!! It makes them look absolutely stupid! I called mine a dumbass at one point, that probably was the nail in the coffin 😂
Seriously. ALL THE WAY crazy! Straight up STALKERS! It was soooo bad from Feb-July. Weird calls from weird numbers, spam calls constantly, weird profiles adding me on FB, my FB account getting deleted out of nowhere, recordings of me and my husband talking sent back to my voicemail, my earphones would go out on and off on their own, the phone would act weird like the volume was raising on its own, videos sounding weird, screen malfunctioning, etc ALL KINDS OF MADNESS! That's not even all of it. Just a taste of what I went through. Seriously, these narcissists are straight up DEMONS.
Straight up! It ain’t no way it a “personality disorder” well I take that back they got DEMONS for their personality, disordering their self. I told that witch narc trick that she needed 3 exorcisms, major therapy, and to look for Jesus in that order. Forget being around that type of person ever again!
Omg I knew it!!! Must’ve been discernment cuz every time I get those random links I just delete the whole thread. I had a feeling the obsessed and blocked narc was behind these annoying messages.
Today prof Sam vaknin spoke about the discombobulated narc, the way you can see them unravel, when they lose their mind and idealise and devalue in the same sentence.. you have undone them when this happens 😁 it is like a malfunctioning robot.
You are so on point with this one here!!! The Narc discarded me.... The Narc thought that he could discard me this time & come back a month later to Hoover me....& he thought I’ll be right where he left me....waiting for him to come back.....I was with him for 3 years.....I decided enough of this Circus that I was in.....now I’m in a new Healthy relationship! now the narcissist showed up to my son game which he has never ever been to a football game! riding by my house & showing up in places that I’d be at.....definitely been hovering me and having people call me! Because he is BLOCKED!! On everything!
It's funny how I didn't get spam calls until after the discard. That's so crazy!!! I have not answered any calls I've blocked all of them and deleted them.
lmaooooo it was funny how nobody messaged me on faceboo k till i discarded h8m , random ass profiles messaging me all sayinh how u doing , hi , how u been , ( yes "how u been" lmao) anx other messages and all photoless
I don’t even got social media but I know it’s them calling my phone from weird numbers and saddest thing of all I picked up one time and that witch DIDN’T EVEN SAY NOTHING! Just hung up the phone smh these people are weirdo clowns!!!
I have watched most of the NPD Videos on you tube. Your videos they just hit differently. After countless of hours of education by experts you’re feeling left educated but not healed. Your videos are healing. They are powerful. You are doing GODS work for all of us by helping us thrive and survive. I can be watching your videos and I can feel the love and light starting to fill my entire body and soul up to where tears just start flowing. The tears are no longer tears of sorrow but of pure JOY. Thank you for the work you do with much love and light from all of us to you ❤️
Only time mine harassed me was after filing DV AND RESTRICTION ORDER. He was a monster in court . Wouldn’t let up with anything, always with the lawyer trying to screw up every aspect in my life. And I mean he had such power with the high ups in town that he got the charges of the physical,sexual assault dropped! And was trying to make me look to be crazy and himself the victim! Hope he has several supplies so he can just leave me alone.
I do believe that deep down inside, the Narcissist knows that something is terribly wrong with them. Unfortunately, that is not your cross to bear. Move forward positively and channel your energies on healing and become as educated as possible. I'm still finding out things weeks later.
OH MS.TELSHA, DON'T GET ME STARTED ABOUT THE PHONE NUMBERS, SHE HAS CALLED ME FROM EVERY NUMBER SHE COULD BORROW 😆, OUT OF STATE NUMBERS YOU NAME IT. GOOD CONTENT TODAY GOD BLESS YOU, KEEP TEACHING US,TEN MONTHS NO CONTACT 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
Hahahahahahaha hahahahahahaha this ain't NUTHIN BUT THA TRUTH...I've experienced this with my ex narc...he is just so disgusting...been no contact three yrs
This is true. My narcissist calls me about 1-2 a month but his number is blocked. He left a voice-mail one time and asked me to call him, but it was like 20 days later when I saw he had call. I didn't return the call because I figured if it was that important, he would have kept calling. I did notice a private number tried to call a couple of weeks ago, but I've blocked all private, restricted and unavailable numbers from calling my phone. Glad he doesn't know where I live (I moved out the house we shared) and I work from home, so he can't come to the job. He hasn't done the new email address yet, and hasn't texted me from a different number yet. But, either way, I'll ignore and block him. 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
@@eerynessential I'm not changing my number. I'm not worried about him. He's blocked. I don't answer calls from numbers I don't recognize. Numbers I don't recognize get blocked, too!🤷🏾♀️ If it's important, leave a message. He's not that tech savvy, so getting other emails,, and texting links, etc., is not something he'll think to do. Plus, I have a degree in IT, so he already knows I'm the tech savvy one and will figure out how to keep blocking him. So that's just a waste of time and energy for him.. I'm still friends with his daughter, brother, nieces, nephews, cousins, classmates, other friends on Facebook, and one of his cousin's is my pastor. None of them have reached out to me telling me to call him, or asking me to give him another chance. And you know why? Because they ALL witnessed how he treated me during the 7 years we were together. They all know he's full of himself and know he's crazy and disrespectful. I see his cousin, the pastor, every Sunday at church. I grew up across the street from my narcissist, so I already knew he was crazy going into this. It's just that he lied to me and said he wasn't like that anymore. Then, showed his true colors after he moved in with me. I was just able to deal with him a lot better than others have in the past. I just learned how to play him at his own game, made moves in silence, and he lost. Now, I'm sure he's just calling to find out WHY I blocked him, WHERE I moved to, WHO I'm living with, and to see if I'll go shoot some pictures for him here when he can't get back. He can keep calling me until his fingers fall off and his phone explodes! I'm not giving that fool the time of day or another thought! 🎯💯
I received a note on my door. Telling me to come down the street to the Fire Station to pick up a bike. The handwriting is strangely close to Mr. Narc's.
Yes, I get these weird messages on my computer about a package that cant be delivered. I know not to reply as I had a feeling that this is what is going on. I cannot believe that they would have full access to your phone if you respond to those message. Thank you for confirming this. Very dangerous these people are.
Girl, you had me cracking up about those 🐦 birds ! You are so funny and real with those narcissists behavior. Thank You so much for letting us know about these fools!😂
My ex narc got into my home yesterday, I come home to see him climbing out my window. I haven’t seen him since January, he says he’s been here since last week and that he had watched me leave. I don’t know how he got in here is the scary part, he may have made a key when he was here, thankfully he left after I threatened to call police. Mind you he stays 4 hours away, I don’t know how long he’s been in my town. Now I feel like I have to move.
That’s what he said too about toys!!. I asked him how does it feel when you get into a new relationship. He said it’s like getting a new toy.. That is sickening wow sister 😭😭😭 it’s foul. I had the feeling that your speaking on about him riding through in someone else’s car. Texting and calling from different numbers, but you didn’t want me though right. Straight foolish folk and right sister demonic!! I can’t stand them either 🤣
He would, say he is sick and i need to talk to him. He use that my heart is sick for years, on soo many women. That thing was telling me all the time what to say and how say it. They stop at nothing!!!!
SHE DRIVES BY DAILY, SO GLAD NOT ON INSTAGRAM OR FACEBOOK OR TWITTER SHE DON'T HAVE MY EMAIL ADDRESS THANK GOD, ALSO THANK YOU FOR THAT SOUL TIE MESSAGE TWO WEEKS AGO, IT HELPED ME A GREAT DEAL , PEACE MS.TELSHA
How do you nail it soooo perfect!!! Lol...I burst out laughing at work just now...my ex cheated on me with yes a back-burner recycled supply and...she has no front teeth!!! How did you know? 😂😂😂😂 she takes her falsies out right before she gets into bar brawls 😂😂😂😂
After dealing with a narcissist and it's brand-new you're just getting to the point to where you finally just had enough before you walk away do you constantly just sit there and think about the things that they've done and ask yourself why you let it go on that long but it goes on to where you can't hardly sleep because you stayed too long
Mine never hoovered me. I never hear anything. We live 1.7 miles away from one another. Except for occasional grocery store encounters- NEVER HEAR OR SEE THAT BIRD. Thanks be to the loving Lord!
So last week was our wedding anniversary and the narcissist had the nerve to ring my phone and leave me a message that I will always be remembered, and I did not reply so today she rings my phone again in an attempt to ruin my new relationship
This crap is making me insane...I am able to go about 2 days in healing and then he does something else to trigger me, I've dealt with the fake phone numbers, the emails, and fake accounts, him forging my name on checks, and now he has shown up to my job twice this week, smearing me to all my co-workers, asking if his ex-wife is working, I can't even get a divorce yet because he will not go to the court and reply to the summons for divorce, it's so frustrating just go away. He will not get any responses from me, he can self-destruct all on his own.
They are so weird he lives in the same area as me it's seems like he speak about me with his family all the time I can feel it in my spirit he even let his cousins call me n ask for my name which is giving stalker energy I pray God heals him🙄💯
This is so true Lady Telsha, I've experienced this also even with the Fed Ex emails and the constant calling on the phone through various numbers, thank you for another informative video, so that ppl can stay informed.
I just saw my ex narcissist new/old supply and everything you said it looks like she really do she is bold headed no teeth and very skinny she looks real bad at first I laughed then I felt assaulted 😭
My ex crazy still stalking seven years and it is werid behavior. The cops may have to get involved sometimes cause they are dead souls that can't 🦻. Them 👿
Oh no Queen, for me we were total opposites. Most of his so called friends and fam are undesirables, therefore I don't affiliate. So we definitely didn't run in the same circles. When I discarded him I planned properly, got a new job, moved, and blocked on every avenue possible. And I discarded immediately after he started getting disrespectful. Picking arguments, accusing me of cheating when he locked me in the house once I stopped working, although he never physically harmed me. As I've discovered the disrespect got worse each time I allowed him to trick me back to be verbally and emotionally abused worse. The last time the spirit of discernment warned me though I didn't know what it was. I use your videos and listen to others to gain strength, empowerment, and more wisdom. Thanks so much beautiful for what you do. Blessings, Love and Light Beautiful Queen 😍🥰😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You reach a point where enough is enough and you're done no you don't go back if you're able to get out of that relationship safely don't go back you're going to feel a little pain and discomfort for a while but you'll find yourself again and you'll be better than you were before is it easy no is it worth it oh yes for you are...... finish strong my sister my brother victory is yours
I caught mine cheating, he started telling my mom doesn't like you, my dad hates you, my brother hates you, after 5 years. I was like really, but you got to go, i am done with you.
I was discarded for the second time several false police reports were made, to the point I was triggered and I now have a felony charge thanks to this high school drop out that I should have never given the time of day!
Girl you were talking about strange calls sure enough. Then I delete my email account and sure enough the password change. Fake profile's over and over syncing all my accounts . I literally have to change my whole life cause of him
Yep ever since I’ve been no contact I have experience every once in a while getting calls from odd places or text messages from numbers that I don’t even recognize and I do not respond🙅🏽♀️💯✔️
Wow! Thanks for this video. I have noticed strange emails and multiple phone calls a day from unknown numbers. I'm having an "aha!" moment now, thanks to your video. 👍🏼👌🏼👏🏼👋🏼
Not the narc, I was dealing with. He could careless! I’m happy about that.. let’s me know he’s not worried about me no more at all! As Tony Gaskins say “ gon bout your business “
I don't even know anymore. :( I told a flying monkey where I worked because she asked then the next day I got 9 missed calls from a foreign number and I blocked it. The person still phoned through the block but it bounced back. :( Scary.
I stay away from social media and people think I'm dumb. I tell them I have stalkers and they ignore me. Our society is full of people who don't care and watch crimes happen in front of them and no compassion. They want you to get harassed and not them. Offer you up to the narcs. They get fake phone numbers to call from. You can see who looks at your social media. Don't look at theirs.
@@janetromey7522 So true. Why do the flying monkeys want to know all your information? I left that workplace years ago. I blocked on Social Media. But my narc has been dead quiet since I left. I haven't heard from him. So maybe he is not harassing or stalking me.
@@robin-suenicholas9207 Narc next had people email me I haven't had spoken in like 3 years. Narcs have a way to act like victims and get the sympathy for help. Some of the monkeys are low level narcs that can be manipulated. Monkeys can also not have strong boundaries to not get involved. Some monkeys act like they are a friend or it could be a family member to get Intel for the hurt narc. They just want you to stay the targeted scapegoat and not them. They believe the lies and were listening to the smear on you for years. Never stood up for you remember that. Some of the monkeys get something out of it. A fake friend to do things with. Narcs can be fun or charming but there is always something in it for them. They have blow outs with everyone. They think the narc will be there for them but they'll turn on them too. Eventually the monkeys will run out of steam and move on. Narcs never have successful professional high level long term friends. They only want people they can win over and be on top of. The narc will just regenerate for another round of tactics. Stay strong stay no contact. You are not here for them only Jesus and Jesus has your hand! You are beautifully and wonderfully made! I had a monkey I never met before come at me at a business meeting. I was shocked shaking and going to cry, and I Got loud so everyone could hear how he is interfering with the functions of that business and I'll go over is head to the boss. Monkey panicked and back down. WTH was that fool thinking. He could have lost his job. Pure demonic influence. Narc after narc it's so hard. Jesus Bless Us! This is a spiritual war!
My ex narc told me his brother used to be a heroine addict- now I know he was talking about himself! 39 days no contact and counting! 💜 Also you are glowing lovely lady and thank you for your wonderful knowledge, it is truly appreciated xx
The mess that I caught him with all that did was reassure me that water seeks its own level he is very low grade I’m just glad I’m out of it I was never supposed to be with a demon like him anyway
Everything you mentioned,is happening,pretty much everyday,set traps, pathetic,it's been 10 yrs,makes him look very sick,YES I SAID IT 😳😳😳😳😮😮😮yes I got that one from Fed ex,she immediately said you did not click on it,which I didn't, exactly that's why he always behind me driving,yes moving soon😁
That's why I wondered Ms.Telsha when she left me years ago she had a Dusty pill popping white dude, I was like I know she ain't chilling with him but 15 years ago I knew nothing about this now I see what was going on, she still hoovers, and that guy she was with he's in prison for life, only two people I know escaped her wrath, me and her first husband,
It's been 5 years and my narc (an ex love interest) will go thru periods of watching my fb stories obsessively and never comment, and then go thru periods of completely ignoring my stories. Commented twice in 5 years. It's so weird. But thankfully she moved like 14hrs away earlier this year...
Everything you say is true. Gotta pray, heal (through MTE mp3s-modules designed to listen to and ease trauma and humiliation of being contacted by "beings" such as this) to smash those toxic soul ties, psychic chords, and trauma bonds with toxic narcissists. Harassment is demonic. I listen specifically to #7 to tap into my supreme being which is God for healing. Continue to connect to my spiritual high ground and raise my vibration.
And this why he was entertaining a ex but i changed my number and blocked him on social media after the discard and he sent his friends i blocked them too Yes they do stalk you too & they was waiting for me to come home from my spring & birthday trip to Vegas last year and snuck up on me from last mar-may they sent me a friend request like a week ago pretending to be a male person I’m cool with that their jealous of thinking I’m stupid i denied
I believe God brought me here. I have said Jesus does not waste one tear and holds all of them in his two hands. He's now helping you help others. This gives me hope. 7 years later I'm still trying to overcome the trauma and pure evil . We have never met but you're messages resonate. . Thank you.
Hello I have so much to say I don't know where to start. I will be in this marriage for 7 years next month and I'm tired of the bull. However please pray with me for guidance of God's plans will for me with or without my spouse. Peaceful much needed. Thank you 😊
Queen TELSHA .. thank you for your conviction and standing besides us … the narcissist abuse is horrid .. YOU COULD NOT BE MORE RIGHT !!! Mine used to drive around showing me his supposedly childhood friends home . NOW , I realize those homes where other women from his heirloom garage .. pure trash
I have been hearing you refer to the Narcs as Chinese Crested for some time now but I wasn't aware of exactly what it meant until I googled it the other day. When I tell you I was dying laughing. 😂😂
When I was the new supply I saw the narcissists X. I feel so stupid for joining in on her abuse. Physically I know I didn’t look like a downgrade, but spiritually I was an inferior woman. I wish I could tell her that. I wish I could tell her how broken, desperate, petty, needy, and flat out stupid I was. She seems like a nice girl and I feel so bad I allowed myself to be a part of a drama triangle with a predator.
"When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you will experience three different phases of that relationship. There is the Love-Bombing phase, the Devaluing Phase, and the Discarding Phase. It’s important to note that a relationship will always start with the Love-Bombing Phase and always end with the Discarding phase; although, what makes up each of these phases will occur simultaneously throughout the relationship. You can think of the middle of the relationship as a sort of toxic stew.
It’s quite common for Narcissists to try and Love-Bomb you while in the midst of the Discard phase. This is sometimes called Hoovering. They do this because their Narcissistic Supply source is being threatened and they can’t handle the thought of losing the supply forever - even if they are the ones to initiate the “ending” of the relationship. They will also often Devalue you in the midst of the Discard phase. They will tell you that they don’t want you anymore, that you’re a piece of crap or that nothing about you matters to them and never has. Even though the relationship is supposedly ending, they do this because devaluing is one of the ways they get Narcissistic Supply from you. They are squeezing the last few drops of supply that they think they can get. If they get this supply they may even try and love bomb you again to see if there’s even more in you.
When a Narcissist seems OBSESSED with you and will not leave you alone after the relationship has supposedly ended, they are still trying to get Narcissistic Supply from you. Whether it’s through Love-Bombing tactics or Devaluing tactics, if they feel like there’s any chance of being able to still affect, control, or get a rise out of you - they will try.
Let’s just say that they simply block you on social media. They do this not because they are worried about you seeing their content but because they actually want you to notice that they have done this. They want to know that you know they have done this and that you have some sort of emotion surrounding it. Narcissists will be as petty as that.
The best thing that you can do to get them to stop being so obsessed with you is to go no contact with them. In addition to going no-contact, you mustn’t give them any attention, information, or thought whatsoever. React to everything that they might do or say as if they are invisible and that they don’t exist and never have existed in your life. Once you do this, and after every effort has been taken on their end, they will inevitably give up and move on to a viable source of supply.
This is the only way that a Narcissist will finally and eventually stop being obsessed with you. They will finally have to move on and find a different source of supply." ~ Rebecca Zung website.
I loved the way you talk about this topic Telsha narc's really do act out obsessively post discard at times. I recall a couple of times when I've naively given my number to narcs only to regret it big time when they keep calling even when you firmly request they stop. It's truly mind bending how relentless they can be until you're absolutely ruthless with them. I've learnt my lesson there hopefully! Narc family members or friends can be good at finding devious ways to suck us back in as well using everything from pity ploys, silent treatment, threats, moods, gaslighting, circular conversations and word salad, triangulating by playing one off against the other and deploying smear campaigns. It gets exhausting if you let it in as given an inch they'll take a mile so no contact is the best and only real means of finding peace.
Stay strong and God blessed sweet Tea and family, sending lots of love, light and prayers to you, yours and your blessed and beautiful tribe of Spiritual Warrior survivors and thrivers xox 🙏💕🤗 ✨ ✨ ✨
Amen to that Sister they're the most covetous flock of Buurds 🐦 imaginable ...🤮🤢🐍🤺🤺
@@terri412 You're know it and you're laying out the Facts there Terri!! 💕 Actually it's unimaginable which is why we need Telsha to constantly remind us to trust our instincts, intuition and discernment on what we see and hear ~ if it looks like a duck, quacks and acts like a narc duck ... whether it's wearing a cape, ballet slippers, tin-foil crown and lopsided bow-tie, driving a feather-fluffing ferrari or not... it's still a narc duck!! Indifference to these incorrigible soul sucking critters is the key!! Love you Sis xox 🙏💪🐍 ⚔️🕊️ 💕🤗✌️👋✨✨✨
@@louisegarner8888 Baffling bow-tie feather- fluffing bruuuuuud 💩res in Ferraris or not, can eating my dust quacking -up in pantyhose for all I care , I'm gone !!👌😁😜✌️
@@terri412 I replied to your comment and see it's gone 👻 too... 👀 Must be those narcs again!! 😜
@@louisegarner8888 How dare them don't mess with my Sis 💟 what's up with them lawless ones who do they think they are anyway the Pharisee's, Be gone you den of vipers 🐍🐍🐍🤺🦾🦾🦾 🤣🙏
Texting from different numbers, phone calls, fake social media accounts it was ridiculous and embarrassing.It just really makes you see how unstable they are.
“Liked” the video cause you said: “they leave you for somebody with no teeth!”
SO true! The new person is ALWAYS the TOTAL opposite of you, to further push the thought into your head that “you were never enough”. The reality is: you were MORE than enough, TOO much for them!
Keep saying it and meaning it! ❤️
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The new supply is short, ugly and has horse teeth I LOL ed when i met her!
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A person who really loves you would not put themselves in a position to lose you you know?
That's right, you couldn't trust them as far as you could throw them. Remember they don't even know who they are from day to day... Think about that one for a minute.
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Exactly, if they are going through life mirroring others, and wanting to be in other ppl's shoes. How can they? And how can you know them? Their to busy role playing.
I've learned yall, it takes YEARS, to learn someone. 90 days, 6 months, its not enough. Within 1 year, notice the job losses, the car accidents, how many phone#'s, how many phones!ect.
Man mine had 4 car accidents in less than a year so many phones and phone numbers I can’t count and absolutely no motive to get a job
Sounds familiar.
All the above he a preacher kid we split in 2018 he still stalks want to be friends practice demonic spells and hypnosis on women parents encourage him too smh
Hands down don't nobody read a narc like u beloved! I be cracking up and learning at the same time! The laughter helps soothes the pain as we know laughter is good for the soul! Blessings beloved! Glory be to god! El Shaddai!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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There is ALWAYS a replacement phase before the final discard. They need to have new supply in place before they cut you loose. They cannot be alone.
You spoke nothing but the truth!
My ex narcissist has done everything you've said they would do. She's hooked up with a man who has a brain injury and she has the nerve to think I'm jealous of someone who is way less than me! I just ignore that bird! No more narcissist forever!!!!
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A narc did that to me, popped up at my house in someone else’s car. That’s creepiest part about it is that it was a white van 😳
Be careful they are nutcases!!
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It's damn near impossible to be a serious drug addict and not be a narcissist
Well, I care, so I try my best, anyway.
I love how sweet and adorable you are... until you start talking about that narcissist! Lol then the warrior attitude comes out 💯🤣
That’s what I like when she goes all in on these Demons.
🤣😂..she goes straight to beast mode!
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Yes! the things she described that spirit as she so on point
Sis you better preach!!! These clowns running around creating chaos and confusion...they are fluent in lying. Don't believe the clown when they say they are unbothered by you moving on. Those spirits have tried to lay claim to your soul and it ain't giving up that easy, even if the discard was done by the clown. Trust and believe they are always watching and waiting.
When I did the discard ex narc said I don't need you and don't want anything from you. Funny nine months before that he said I was the best thing that ever happened to him and I was going to be the last Mrs. Tubbs😳😳😳
📣📣📣 Speak on it Sis!! Keeping it all the way 💯💯💯!!📣📣📣🔥🔥
Facts @Beth Riley
Mine got a new supply then told me I never want to see or hear from you again it’s over for good now “I swear on my moms life” then two weeks later was blowing up my phone asking to meet?? Plus admitted that he’s been stalking me. They are demented.
Yeah I know from personal experience if he’s saying he’s unbothered what he means is that he feels like you’re in his grips
I had to take back my power, peace and my life. The only way to do that most times is to let that narc demon go so I can hear the Lord's voice, guidance, and direction.
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"Frog with a helmet." You won my heart lol
Rhino with a bow! 😂😅🤣
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All facts!!! I get the random calls from weird numbers and no one talks when I say hello. The narcissist tried to hack my Email, strange cars would park in front of my house late at night, people that know the narcissist show up at places I frequent. I have been on stealth mode almost a year.
Testify my Brother!! It’s the truth!!🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯
A year full no contact will be this next 31st of December at 11/59 pm.
I just can't wait to celebrate.
It takes a lot of efforts and strength. Changes in the way you would react. You don't anymore. You act on it the proper way. Disappearing.
I could be a FBI agent. 😆 Getting the knowledge opens a complete different world. It changes you for the better.
Not accessible for narcs.
Stay strong. I'm there with you.
👀I’m sorry you are going through this.
I get the same calls. Random numbers non spam calls, I say hello 3-4 times no response then they hang up. This has happened 3-4 times in the past month or so
I KNIW A NARCISSIST WHO TOLD EVERYONE THAT THIS WAS HAPPENING TO HIM, BUT HE WAS THE ONE DOING IT, AND TURNING IT AROUND. THERE ARE LYING SICK PEOPLE OUT THERE.
You're so intelligent and beautiful and your messages are gifts from God, thank you for your empowerment!
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Driving in multiple people's cars. He claimed he had friends that lived in my neighborhood.
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They choose trash for complete control. That's the ONLY person who will put up with being treated like total trash. No thanks bub. 🤣🙃🙂 Yes he is most definitely off his rocker if he THINKS what he lays up reflects anything onto me. I realize they are perfect for each other and shall realize soon enough that the joke is on her. Thank GOD beautiful ladies and gentlemen who have escaped the grasp of Satan's spawns and are on the road to healing. Peace, Light, Prayers and love my beautiful and loved children of the MOST High .
The number they do on that trash is mind-blowing... All the while they look well and glowing like a vampire.. It annoys them that they couldn't get you into the state that they reduced the trash one to...
The whole thing is so evil.
@@pallasathena1369 Straight demons... I posted my ex narc here in my videos. I did all I could to help him because he lied and claimed every person he was ever with did him wrong .. a liar and Satan in the flesh. He couldnt stand my light and how people, perfect strangers would gravitate towards me. Once he disrespected 1 too many times I planned strategically and when he least expected it, I discarded him. Look at his state. Hauntingly I have seen him twice in 1 month but hadnt since the discard. He's looking horrible... and I have absolutely no sympathy for him. not an ounce..
The funny part is they get with these new supplies who look like garbage to be honest. Then post them up to "shame" us lol when they look like fools!! It makes them look absolutely stupid! I called mine a dumbass at one point, that probably was the nail in the coffin 😂
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Social Media can be so dangerous!
Seriously. ALL THE WAY crazy!
Straight up STALKERS!
It was soooo bad from Feb-July. Weird calls from weird numbers, spam calls constantly, weird profiles adding me on FB, my FB account getting deleted out of nowhere, recordings of me and my husband talking sent back to my voicemail, my earphones would go out on and off on their own, the phone would act weird like the volume was raising on its own, videos sounding weird, screen malfunctioning, etc ALL KINDS OF MADNESS! That's not even all of it. Just a taste of what I went through. Seriously, these narcissists are straight up DEMONS.
Straight up! It ain’t no way it a “personality disorder” well I take that back they got DEMONS for their personality, disordering their self. I told that witch narc trick that she needed 3 exorcisms, major therapy, and to look for Jesus in that order. Forget being around that type of person ever again!
Omg I knew it!!! Must’ve been discernment cuz every time I get those random links I just delete the whole thread. I had a feeling the obsessed and blocked narc was behind these annoying messages.
Today prof Sam vaknin spoke about the discombobulated narc, the way you can see them unravel, when they lose their mind and idealise and devalue in the same sentence.. you have undone them when this happens 😁 it is like a malfunctioning robot.
You are so on point with this one here!!! The Narc discarded me.... The Narc thought that he could discard me this time & come back a month later to Hoover me....& he thought I’ll be right where he left me....waiting for him to come back.....I was with him for 3 years.....I decided enough of this Circus that I was in.....now I’m in a new Healthy relationship! now the narcissist showed up to my son game which he has never ever been to a football game! riding by my house & showing up in places that I’d be at.....definitely been hovering me and having people call me! Because he is BLOCKED!! On everything!
It's funny how I didn't get spam calls until after the discard. That's so crazy!!! I have not answered any calls I've blocked all of them and deleted them.
lmaooooo it was funny how nobody messaged me on faceboo k till i discarded h8m , random ass profiles messaging me all sayinh how u doing , hi , how u been , ( yes "how u been" lmao) anx other messages and all photoless
Yes, it's the craziest thing ever my ex also set up fake profiles as well. Crazy I've never been through anything like this before...
I don’t even got social media but I know it’s them calling my phone from weird numbers and saddest thing of all I picked up one time and that witch DIDN’T EVEN SAY NOTHING! Just hung up the phone smh these people are weirdo clowns!!!
I have watched most of the NPD Videos on you tube. Your videos they just hit differently. After countless of hours of education by experts you’re feeling left educated but not healed. Your videos are healing. They are powerful. You are doing GODS work for all of us by helping us thrive and survive. I can be watching your videos and I can feel the love and light starting to fill my entire body and soul up to where tears just start flowing. The tears are no longer tears of sorrow but of pure JOY. Thank you for the work you do with much love and light from all of us to you ❤️
Only time mine harassed me was after filing DV AND RESTRICTION ORDER. He was a monster in court . Wouldn’t let up with anything, always with the lawyer trying to screw up every aspect in my life. And I mean he had such power with the high ups in town that he got the charges of the physical,sexual assault dropped! And was trying to make me look to be crazy and himself the victim!
Hope he has several supplies so he can just leave me alone.
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The Narc has a herion addiction, I came into his life BEFORE the relapse, little did I know I was apart of a cycle.
I do believe that deep down inside, the Narcissist knows that something is terribly wrong with them. Unfortunately, that is not your cross to bear. Move forward positively and channel your energies on healing and become as educated as possible. I'm still finding out things weeks later.
Yes I believe they do too. The ex narc said on Many occasions "I'm f**ked up"
OH MS.TELSHA, DON'T GET ME STARTED ABOUT THE PHONE NUMBERS, SHE HAS CALLED ME FROM EVERY NUMBER SHE COULD BORROW 😆, OUT OF STATE NUMBERS YOU NAME IT. GOOD CONTENT TODAY GOD BLESS YOU, KEEP TEACHING US,TEN MONTHS NO CONTACT 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
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Hahahahahahaha hahahahahahaha this ain't NUTHIN BUT THA TRUTH...I've experienced this with my ex narc...he is just so disgusting...been no contact three yrs
This is true. My narcissist calls me about 1-2 a month but his number is blocked. He left a voice-mail one time and asked me to call him, but it was like 20 days later when I saw he had call. I didn't return the call because I figured if it was that important, he would have kept calling. I did notice a private number tried to call a couple of weeks ago, but I've blocked all private, restricted and unavailable numbers from calling my phone. Glad he doesn't know where I live (I moved out the house we shared) and I work from home, so he can't come to the job. He hasn't done the new email address yet, and hasn't texted me from a different number yet. But, either way, I'll ignore and block him. 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
Change your number even if you had it forever...
@@eerynessential I'm not changing my number. I'm not worried about him. He's blocked. I don't answer calls from numbers I don't recognize. Numbers I don't recognize get blocked, too!🤷🏾♀️ If it's important, leave a message. He's not that tech savvy, so getting other emails,, and texting links, etc., is not something he'll think to do. Plus, I have a degree in IT, so he already knows I'm the tech savvy one and will figure out how to keep blocking him. So that's just a waste of time and energy for him.. I'm still friends with his daughter, brother, nieces, nephews, cousins, classmates, other friends on Facebook, and one of his cousin's is my pastor. None of them have reached out to me telling me to call him, or asking me to give him another chance. And you know why? Because they ALL witnessed how he treated me during the 7 years we were together. They all know he's full of himself and know he's crazy and disrespectful. I see his cousin, the pastor, every Sunday at church. I grew up across the street from my narcissist, so I already knew he was crazy going into this. It's just that he lied to me and said he wasn't like that anymore. Then, showed his true colors after he moved in with me. I was just able to deal with him a lot better than others have in the past. I just learned how to play him at his own game, made moves in silence, and he lost. Now, I'm sure he's just calling to find out WHY I blocked him, WHERE I moved to, WHO I'm living with, and to see if I'll go shoot some pictures for him here when he can't get back. He can keep calling me until his fingers fall off and his phone explodes! I'm not giving that fool the time of day or another thought! 🎯💯
I’m packing my stuff and he dumped my dog on the side of the road. Now I’m looking for my dog instead of packing.
Just found my dog 🐕 in the middle of a street far away!!! Jesus loves me.
Glad you found your dog! What an evil thing for him to do.
So glad you found your dog. Such a Blessing❤️🙏🏽
Girl, we are eagles! We cannot entertain TCOT's!! Adjust our 👑 and keep it movin'. 💕 You always come with the perfect timing and perfect message!!
Ain’t no man that fine or irresistible there’s always another one better to take his place just like they replace us Lol 😆
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I received a note on my door. Telling me to come down the street to the Fire Station to pick up a bike. The handwriting is strangely close to Mr. Narc's.
Yes, I get these weird messages on my computer about a package that cant be delivered. I know not to reply as I had a feeling that this is what is going on. I cannot believe that they would have full access to your phone if you respond to those message. Thank you for confirming this. Very dangerous these people are.
Girl, you had me cracking up about those 🐦 birds ! You are so funny and real with those narcissists behavior. Thank You so much for letting us know about these fools!😂
I was wondering why I was getting all these Amazon texts to “track my package” “Amazon account locked” links 😕😮💨🥵
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My ex narc got into my home yesterday, I come home to see him climbing out my window. I haven’t seen him since January, he says he’s been here since last week and that he had watched me leave. I don’t know how he got in here is the scary part, he may have made a key when he was here, thankfully he left after I threatened to call police. Mind you he stays 4 hours away, I don’t know how long he’s been in my town. Now I feel like I have to move.
That’s what he said too about toys!!. I asked him how does it feel when you get into a new relationship. He said it’s like getting a new toy.. That is sickening wow sister 😭😭😭 it’s foul. I had the feeling that your speaking on about him riding through in someone else’s car. Texting and calling from different numbers, but you didn’t want me though right. Straight foolish folk and right sister demonic!! I can’t stand them either 🤣
I cry & I smile , when I listen to you!
You dont even know how much you make it better.
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He would, say he is sick and i need to talk to him. He use that my heart is sick for years, on soo many women. That thing was telling me all the time what to say and how say it. They stop at nothing!!!!
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Yup! And they'll mirror your social media too! I've seen it all smh
Good morning from Tustin California starting my day off with my family here !♥️ let’s make it an awesome day everyone💋
SHE DRIVES BY DAILY, SO GLAD NOT ON INSTAGRAM OR FACEBOOK OR TWITTER SHE DON'T HAVE MY EMAIL ADDRESS THANK GOD, ALSO THANK YOU FOR THAT SOUL TIE MESSAGE TWO WEEKS AGO, IT HELPED ME A GREAT DEAL , PEACE MS.TELSHA
You are so right! Still going through this… one thing you said that hit on point is the fact they can’t remove that voice in their head.
How do you nail it soooo perfect!!! Lol...I burst out laughing at work just now...my ex cheated on me with yes a back-burner recycled supply and...she has no front teeth!!! How did you know? 😂😂😂😂 she takes her falsies out right before she gets into bar brawls 😂😂😂😂
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After dealing with a narcissist and it's brand-new you're just getting to the point to where you finally just had enough before you walk away do you constantly just sit there and think about the things that they've done and ask yourself why you let it go on that long but it goes on to where you can't hardly sleep because you stayed too long
Mine never hoovered me. I never hear anything. We live 1.7 miles away from one another. Except for occasional grocery store encounters- NEVER HEAR OR SEE THAT BIRD. Thanks be to the loving Lord!
So last week was our wedding anniversary and the narcissist had the nerve to ring my phone and leave me a message that I will always be remembered, and I did not reply so today she rings my phone again in an attempt to ruin my new relationship
This crap is making me insane...I am able to go about 2 days in healing and then he does something else to trigger me, I've dealt with the fake phone numbers, the emails, and fake accounts, him forging my name on checks, and now he has shown up to my job twice this week, smearing me to all my co-workers, asking if his ex-wife is working, I can't even get a divorce yet because he will not go to the court and reply to the summons for divorce, it's so frustrating just go away. He will not get any responses from me, he can self-destruct all on his own.
They are so weird he lives in the same area as me it's seems like he speak about me with his family all the time I can feel it in my spirit he even let his cousins call me n ask for my name which is giving stalker energy I pray God heals him🙄💯
I've had the fake profiles message me and my dog barking at someone outside guarding me, I just keep blocking everything 🙃 nope
A whole bird. That part.
PAY them no ATTENTION, GIVE it to YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER,and KEEP on LIVING!! I REALLY LOVE your Videos 💖💗❤️
This is so true Lady Telsha, I've experienced this also even with the Fed Ex emails and the constant calling on the phone through various numbers, thank you for another informative video, so that ppl can stay informed.
I just saw my ex narcissist new/old supply and everything you said it looks like she really do she is bold headed no teeth and very skinny she looks real bad at first I laughed then I felt assaulted 😭
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My ex crazy still stalking seven years and it is werid behavior. The cops may have to get involved sometimes cause they are dead souls that can't 🦻. Them 👿
Oh no Queen, for me we were total opposites. Most of his so called friends and fam are undesirables, therefore I don't affiliate. So we definitely didn't run in the same circles. When I discarded him I planned properly, got a new job, moved, and blocked on every avenue possible. And I discarded immediately after he started getting disrespectful. Picking arguments, accusing me of cheating when he locked me in the house once I stopped working, although he never physically harmed me. As I've discovered the disrespect got worse each time I allowed him to trick me back to be verbally and emotionally abused worse. The last time the spirit of discernment warned me though I didn't know what it was. I use your videos and listen to others to gain strength, empowerment, and more wisdom. Thanks so much beautiful for what you do. Blessings, Love and Light Beautiful Queen 😍🥰😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You reach a point where enough is enough and you're done no you don't go back if you're able to get out of that relationship safely don't go back you're going to feel a little pain and discomfort for a while but you'll find yourself again and you'll be better than you were before is it easy no is it worth it oh yes for you are...... finish strong my sister my brother victory is yours
My ex narc knew & admitted he was narsaccistic. He told me he went on Quora & saw himself on many of the posts.
I caught mine cheating, he started telling my mom doesn't like you, my dad hates you, my brother hates you, after 5 years. I was like really, but you got to go, i am done with you.
I was discarded for the second time several false police reports were made, to the point I was triggered and I now have a felony charge thanks to this high school drop out that I should have never given the time of day!
Omg! Girl it's been 2 years and I still get those spam texts 🤣
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Girl you were talking about strange calls sure enough. Then I delete my email account and sure enough the password change. Fake profile's over and over syncing all my accounts . I literally have to change my whole life cause of him
Chile these ducks is crazy she is right just ignore them eventually they will go away when they find a new supply to control
Yep ever since I’ve been no contact I have experience every once in a while getting calls from odd places or text messages from numbers that I don’t even recognize and I do not respond🙅🏽♀️💯✔️
Wow! Thanks for this video. I have noticed strange emails and multiple phone calls a day from unknown numbers. I'm having an "aha!" moment now, thanks to your video. 👍🏼👌🏼👏🏼👋🏼
Not the narc, I was dealing with. He could careless! I’m happy about that.. let’s me know he’s not worried about me no more at all! As Tony Gaskins say “ gon bout your business “
I don't even know anymore. :( I told a flying monkey where I worked because she asked then the next day I got 9 missed calls from a foreign number and I blocked it. The person still phoned through the block but it bounced back. :( Scary.
I stay away from social media and people think I'm dumb. I tell them I have stalkers and they ignore me.
Our society is full of people who don't care and watch crimes happen in front of them and no compassion. They want you to get harassed and not them. Offer you up to the narcs. They get fake phone numbers to call from. You can see who looks at your social media. Don't look at theirs.
@@janetromey7522 So true. Why do the flying monkeys want to know all your information? I left that workplace years ago. I blocked on Social Media. But my narc has been dead quiet since I left. I haven't heard from him. So maybe he is not harassing or stalking me.
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Narc next had people email me I haven't had spoken in like 3 years. Narcs have a way to act like victims and get the sympathy for help. Some of the monkeys are low level narcs that can be manipulated. Monkeys can also not have strong boundaries to not get involved. Some monkeys act like they are a friend or it could be a family member to get Intel for the hurt narc. They just want you to stay the targeted scapegoat and not them. They believe the lies and were listening to the smear on you for years.
Never stood up for you remember that.
Some of the monkeys get something out of it. A fake friend to do things with. Narcs can be fun or charming but there is always something in it for them. They have blow outs with everyone.
They think the narc will be there for them but they'll turn on them too. Eventually the monkeys will run out of steam and move on. Narcs never have successful professional high level long term friends. They only want people they can win over and be on top of. The narc will just regenerate for another round of tactics. Stay strong stay no contact.
You are not here for them only Jesus and Jesus has your hand! You are beautifully and wonderfully made!
I had a monkey I never met before come at me at a business meeting. I was shocked shaking and going to cry, and I Got loud so everyone could hear how he is interfering with the functions of that business and I'll go over is head to the boss. Monkey panicked and back down. WTH was that fool thinking. He could have lost his job. Pure demonic influence.
Narc after narc it's so hard. Jesus Bless Us! This is a spiritual war!
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LISTEN to what my lady is saying!
Yes ma’am! 👏That new supply lookin’ like a brillo pad with -$12 in that bank account. 😂
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My ex narc told me his brother used to be a heroine addict- now I know he was talking about himself! 39 days no contact and counting! 💜 Also you are glowing lovely lady and thank you for your wonderful knowledge, it is truly appreciated xx
The mess that I caught him with all that did was reassure me that water seeks its own level he is very low grade I’m just glad I’m out of it I was never supposed to be with a demon like him anyway
Amen! This is SO true! The Holy Spirit led me to just out of the blue know these things he does. Thank you Jesus! 🙌🙏🙌🙏
Everything you mentioned,is happening,pretty much everyday,set traps, pathetic,it's been 10 yrs,makes him look very sick,YES I SAID IT 😳😳😳😳😮😮😮yes I got that one from Fed ex,she immediately said you did not click on it,which I didn't, exactly that's why he always behind me driving,yes moving soon😁
He was sitting outside my apts waiting on me to pull-up home in my car i got my number changed
That's why I wondered Ms.Telsha when she left me years ago she had a Dusty pill popping white dude, I was like I know she ain't chilling with him but 15 years ago I knew nothing about this now I see what was going on, she still hoovers, and that guy she was with he's in prison for life, only two people I know escaped her wrath, me and her first husband,
Definitely time to go into stealth mode thank you for this Ms.Telsha
It's been 5 years and my narc (an ex love interest) will go thru periods of watching my fb stories obsessively and never comment, and then go thru periods of completely ignoring my stories. Commented twice in 5 years. It's so weird. But thankfully she moved like 14hrs away earlier this year...
I sure been getting different area code phone numbers and fake profiles cuz she deleted on every thing
Everything you say is true. Gotta pray, heal (through MTE mp3s-modules designed to listen to and ease trauma and humiliation of being contacted by "beings" such as this) to smash those toxic soul ties, psychic chords, and trauma bonds with toxic narcissists. Harassment is demonic. I listen specifically to #7 to tap into my supreme being which is God for healing. Continue to connect to my spiritual high ground and raise my vibration.
You are amazing and such an important person! Thank you for helping us make sense of our narcissist experiences.
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God shines on you Telsha ✌️
My Terri 💗💯🙏🏽💗
My narc just looks at my story on social media. But, other than that he is with his new supply.
That's what happening with my ex so many phones calls and text messages
You are telling the truth. I saw a green and black blurb pop up on my computer stating my computer was connected to his home server.
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I’m telling you sis these birds will try anything this is the stuff that they do.💯💗🙏🏽💗💯
And this why he was entertaining a ex but i changed my number and blocked him on social media after the discard and he sent his friends i blocked them too Yes they do stalk you too & they was waiting for me to come home from my spring & birthday trip to Vegas last year and snuck up on me from last mar-may they sent me a friend request like a week ago pretending to be a male person I’m cool with that their jealous of thinking I’m stupid i denied
I believe God brought me here. I have said Jesus does not waste one tear and holds all of them in his two hands. He's now helping you help others. This gives me hope. 7 years later I'm still trying to overcome the trauma and pure evil . We have never met but you're messages resonate. . Thank you.
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My post discard was brutal. She would gaslight like I was the problem.
Hello I have so much to say I don't know where to start. I will be in this marriage for 7 years next month and I'm tired of the bull. However please pray with me for guidance of God's plans will for me with or without my spouse. Peaceful much needed. Thank you 😊
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Queen TELSHA .. thank you for your conviction and standing besides us … the narcissist abuse is horrid .. YOU COULD NOT BE MORE RIGHT !!! Mine used to drive around showing me his supposedly childhood friends home . NOW , I realize those homes where other women from his heirloom garage .. pure trash
Everything you said played out Exactly in that order! 🤦🏽♀️❤️🩹
Good Morning Queen
Thank you for the information.
Good Morning
I have been hearing you refer to the Narcs as Chinese Crested for some time now but I wasn't aware of exactly what it meant until I googled it the other day. When I tell you I was dying laughing. 😂😂
Sissss lololol!!!!
I answered a private call and thought a woman was crying and then I realized it was him having sex with a woman. 😳
Wow omg just pure evil.
God bless you beautiful sister for all you do for our community! Keep spreading awareness!
You’re so welcome beautiful soul thank you my sister!!💗💯🙏🏽💗
When I was the new supply I saw the narcissists X. I feel so stupid for joining in on her abuse. Physically I know I didn’t look like a downgrade, but spiritually I was an inferior woman. I wish I could tell her that. I wish I could tell her how broken, desperate, petty, needy, and flat out stupid I was. She seems like a nice girl and I feel so bad I allowed myself to be a part of a drama triangle with a predator.