It hurts so much more that the same person who made me feel like i was the most valuable precious thing in the world was the same person who made me feel like i was the most worthless unwanted thing ever
I watched this several times the other day- thank you so much Lisa for your work in this area... so often as a betrayed spouse I have been told to just move on... it is so hard to do as infidelity and a sudden unwanted divorce just shake you to your core! Please don’t ever stop making these videos - they help in so many ways...
thank you! my take (as the betrayed) from this is: she doesn't deserve ME. she never deserved ME. now I only have to make "the voices" listen to this new mantra. again, thank you so much.
Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.
"It's like letting a known embezzler set the price of gold. What they say does not matter. What you believe does." This is the best line I have heard to help me get through this. Whether they were experiencing weakness, fear of missing out, or cheated out of spite, they will try to rationalize what they did in order to hide from the truth. Nobody likes to be wrong, especially cheaters. They would prefer to play the neglected victim, rather than admit the risk of destroying your trust and self-esteem is worth the nights of pleasure. They chose sex and fleeting pleasures over you.
Thank you for your advice.. I’m going through this right now. My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me without me realising it. He married another woman while he is still in a relationship with me. It hurts when i found after they were married for a month. 😭😭.. it hurts so much.
He cheated while I was pregnant, I’m almost 9 months pregnant and he’s pushing the divorce as fast as he can so he can be with the other woman. Blamed everything on me. Now I’m a single mom of our 4 year old and one coming soon.
I love the way you explain everything. With knowledge the situation can be less traumatic. Hope can pull everyone forward, hope that it will get better., that the pain will lessen.
I really needed to see this today.i discovered my husband has been cheating left me with 2 kids and 5 month pregnant I don't think I will ever get up from this
Oh, what a terrifying and devastating position to be in. I am so sorry. I would expect that right now you're in survival mode, figuring out how to take care of your kids. When you're able to come up for air, please make sure to take care of you too.
My thoughts are:. He doesn't need me if he goes else where. I have the same anatomy as she, foolish person to think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
I can tell you were bothered when you made this video Lisa. The things you've described here I lived thru with my wife during the first affair. This last one (I will call it second affair although I know if other illicit contact) didn't hot me as hard because of my almost expecting it but I was hurt badly by it nonetheless.
I'm in a pickle... my spouse was unfaithful many times for the first few years during our relationship with his ex and I found out that he was getting inappropriate pics and flirting with like 4 other girls. I didn't find out until years later. Our relationship is good now but I'm hurt and dwell on the past on the inside and he can't handle taking about his wrongs... I've never had closure. Idk what to do...
I don't now what to do we have a 5 year old son too.. I can't believe she would do something like that 😔 I forgave her I'm hurt and broken.. I don't want to leave my son I know what its like to not have a dad so that's the reason why I stayed
Me too it's was our neighbor the worst feeling I can't even let go of nuthin I feel soooo stuck n my feeling depressed sadness stupid like is this ever gonna change I stayed after being cheated on n I feel like I can't forgive!! Lord help me n guide me n the right direction!!💔🙏
I just found out he cheated on his first wife. Idk why it surprised me so much. I had always wondered why his 10yr marriage ended. Now I know. He was an equal opportunity cheater, men and women. I had no idea. Our divorce will be final in a month and he has been reaching out to me despite no contact order in divorce papers. The wounds have opened up all over again....
I was cheated on....for a long time and while instead of being obsessive and controlling and stuff...I tried to be an adult and trust....I mean blind trust.....bc I’m like a woman and I do apologize for making this sound like a slight but I’m like a woman in the fact that I care...deeply deeply deeply.....my first thoughts are always would I want this done to me no matter the situation....stayed home and raised the kids...two of whom aren’t mine by blood but you bet your ass those are my children...I raised them...I love them...blah blah...I played pro baseball for 10 years...I lived a nice life up until meeting her....so I was happy to raise the kids and let HER follow her dreams...cheated and cheated amd cheated and cheated.....and then I..ME..had to beg her to stay...happend again after that....and again I found myself having to beg her back meanwhile never getting an ounce of regret or remorse or anything....meanwhile I’m devastated and my friend is her best friends man...so he is texting other women dirty shit and everything and right away my friend is a pc of shit blah blah...but like what the hell...she cares more about her friend than me....I don’t want to leave bc I love my children and no it’s not doin more harm me staying so miss me with that bs...I just don’t know how to get over it...the betrayal and the hurt..the pain...the way she could just lie to my soul as she is in bed with another person...that kind of betrayal and heartlessness is a choice...it’s not just there....I need help
I'm sorry. I know its hard. Focus on Yourself. Self-healing, therapy, exercise, gym....Believe me God has a Plan for You. Don't rush into a Relationship take time to Heal. Use your Discernment. Love & Light & Blessings.
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It hurts so much more that the same person who made me feel like i was the most valuable precious thing in the world was the same person who made me feel like i was the most worthless unwanted thing ever
Yepppp,12 years into it, she left
I watched this several times the other day- thank you so much Lisa for your work in this area... so often as a betrayed spouse I have been told to just move on... it is so hard to do as infidelity and a sudden unwanted divorce just shake you to your core! Please don’t ever stop making these videos - they help in so many ways...
thank you!
my take (as the betrayed) from this is:
she doesn't deserve ME.
she never deserved ME.
now I only have to make "the voices" listen to this new mantra.
again,
thank you so much.
Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.
Betrayal is so hard because it never comes from an enemy.
"It's like letting a known embezzler set the price of gold. What they say does not matter. What you believe does." This is the best line I have heard to help me get through this. Whether they were experiencing weakness, fear of missing out, or cheated out of spite, they will try to rationalize what they did in order to hide from the truth. Nobody likes to be wrong, especially cheaters. They would prefer to play the neglected victim, rather than admit the risk of destroying your trust and self-esteem is worth the nights of pleasure. They chose sex and fleeting pleasures over you.
This hurt so bad my wife cheated on me in its like my heart was rip out.
I feel you playa this fucking pain is immense, but stay true to yourself 💯
Thank you for your advice.. I’m going through this right now. My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me without me realising it. He married another woman while he is still in a relationship with me. It hurts when i found after they were married for a month. 😭😭.. it hurts so much.
He cheated while I was pregnant, I’m almost 9 months pregnant and he’s pushing the divorce as fast as he can so he can be with the other woman. Blamed everything on me. Now I’m a single mom of our 4 year old and one coming soon.
I hope you have family & friends support.
I know it's painful and can be financially and emotionally devastating, But if divorces inevitable Then the sooner the better
Your delivery is very soothing... calms, eases, and empowers every time...thx
I love the way you explain everything. With knowledge the situation can be less traumatic. Hope can pull everyone forward, hope that it will get better., that the pain will lessen.
First time I heard real help. Thank you so much. 🌸
I'm already dead. This destroyed me
How you feeling now?
I really needed to see this today.i discovered my husband has been cheating left me with 2 kids and 5 month pregnant I don't think I will ever get up from this
Oh, what a terrifying and devastating position to be in. I am so sorry. I would expect that right now you're in survival mode, figuring out how to take care of your kids. When you're able to come up for air, please make sure to take care of you too.
I just kept crying til the end of the video. It felt like thousand needles pricked my heart 😭
My thoughts are:. He doesn't need me if he goes else where. I have the same anatomy as she, foolish person to think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
😒👍 06:26 Agreed, its called the Jedi Mind Trick, its all your fault that i'm cheating on you! WTF 😠👎
I can tell you were bothered when you made this video Lisa. The things you've described here I lived thru with my wife during the first affair. This last one (I will call it second affair although I know if other illicit contact) didn't hot me as hard because of my almost expecting it but I was hurt badly by it nonetheless.
Thank you for all your videos. Really helped me through my GF cheating on me.
I'm in a pickle... my spouse was unfaithful many times for the first few years during our relationship with his ex and I found out that he was getting inappropriate pics and flirting with like 4 other girls. I didn't find out until years later. Our relationship is good now but I'm hurt and dwell on the past on the inside and he can't handle taking about his wrongs... I've never had closure. Idk what to do...
I don't now what to do we have a 5 year old son too.. I can't believe she would do something like that 😔 I forgave her I'm hurt and broken.. I don't want to leave my son I know what its like to not have a dad so that's the reason why I stayed
Hey Lisa hello. Man o man does this video hit the mark very similar. I feel the same way love your podcasts very informative right on
Me too it's was our neighbor the worst feeling I can't even let go of nuthin I feel soooo stuck n my feeling depressed sadness stupid like is this ever gonna change I stayed after being cheated on n I feel like I can't forgive!! Lord help me n guide me n the right direction!!💔🙏
Cheaters never change. Its up.to you if you want to continue to Suffer
I just found out he cheated on his first wife. Idk why it surprised me so much. I had always wondered why his 10yr marriage ended. Now I know. He was an equal opportunity cheater, men and women. I had no idea. Our divorce will be final in a month and he has been reaching out to me despite no contact order in divorce papers.
The wounds have opened up all over again....
I was cheated on....for a long time and while instead of being obsessive and controlling and stuff...I tried to be an adult and trust....I mean blind trust.....bc I’m like a woman and I do apologize for making this sound like a slight but I’m like a woman in the fact that I care...deeply deeply deeply.....my first thoughts are always would I want this done to me no matter the situation....stayed home and raised the kids...two of whom aren’t mine by blood but you bet your ass those are my children...I raised them...I love them...blah blah...I played pro baseball for 10 years...I lived a nice life up until meeting her....so I was happy to raise the kids and let HER follow her dreams...cheated and cheated amd cheated and cheated.....and then I..ME..had to beg her to stay...happend again after that....and again I found myself having to beg her back meanwhile never getting an ounce of regret or remorse or anything....meanwhile I’m devastated and my friend is her best friends man...so he is texting other women dirty shit and everything and right away my friend is a pc of shit blah blah...but like what the hell...she cares more about her friend than me....I don’t want to leave bc I love my children and no it’s not doin more harm me staying so miss me with that bs...I just don’t know how to get over it...the betrayal and the hurt..the pain...the way she could just lie to my soul as she is in bed with another person...that kind of betrayal and heartlessness is a choice...it’s not just there....I need help
I'm sorry. I know its hard. Focus on Yourself. Self-healing, therapy, exercise, gym....Believe me God has a Plan for You. Don't rush into a Relationship take time to Heal. Use your Discernment. Love & Light & Blessings.
I hope your doing better brother
thank you
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