Thank you Lisa. My partner left me for someone else after 17.5 years. Been 3 months and still in agony. You’re videos have been so much help to me. To see someone that feels like I do, my friends and family don’t really understand the pain. I’m trying each day to see who I am and loving myself a little bit day by day. X
They took your truth and they took your innocence is the exact words that I feel - you are so right in everything you say. I will not let him take that from me, those 2 things are such precious amazing things that a person can have.
Thank you so much❤I've been struggling with the heartache, it never goes away, I was married for 38 years to a man I thought was honest and true, I was wrong, he came home one day for lunch and told me he didn't love me like he use to, what he didn't tell me is that he met and fell in love with someone from work, she is much younger than I. I'm learning to be on my own. To love me, most days are good, some days are very sad, I still live in the same town we grew up in, every place here has a memory, but good memories. He's moved with her to Colorado so that helps me heal so I don't have to see them, my family is here and I'm so lucky, my heart is heavy but I'm doing ok, one day at a time, thank you❤❤❤❤Norma Jean
Crazy that I just read my life in your post. With him 35 years. He met her at work and she's our daughters age 34. Hardest thing I've ever had to go through
I was married 26 years. I guess she found the love of her life after all of those years and two beautiful daughters. It really hurts but me and my girls are managing. Dont know about tomorrow but I'm going to make it.
I'm so sorry ❤its really hard to get over betrayal, I've been through counseling and support groups, but the pain never goes away, slowly it gets easier to make it through the day, I've gone no contact with him, I can't be with family when he brings her to family functions and for me that's the hardest, but somehow we get through it. There's so many of us out there that this has happened to, very sad, we all will be strong again just going to take some time❤❤❤God Bless you❤Norma Jean
@@normajeanweimer1709 so sorry to read your story & betrayal. How heartless, brazen & selfish of your husband & her to go to (your) family functions when it means you can't go due to your pain & what you have gone through. I don't know how that woman could do that. I'm trying to heal also from a betrayal & being left by the man I loved & still do for another woman. The pain & hurt is their morning, noon & night. Like you I went no contact but some days it's hard to even get out of bed. Best wishes to you xx
Please make some RUclips Shorts Lisa. your videos have been the most helpful, engaging and authentic that I have seen… and I’ve watched A LOT! ..and soothing, and at times like this when we feel so injured and in great distress, that is so welcome
So I'm going to expose my ignorance (and probably my age!) - I know NOTHING about RUclips Shorts. I'm curious and open to the idea. How long are they? Since you know my content, what kind of topic would make sense for a short? What else should I know? Thank you for the idea and any pointers you have :)
@@lisaarends8742 hi there, I know little too to be honest but just know so many more people would see your excellent content that way and will be directed to everything else you’ve put so much effort into. I’ve put my email on the description to ‘My Channel’ bit. Can you see that? Feel free to send me a message, I’d be so happy to chat & help in any way I can
3 months after being cheated after 4 years together, she really took my innocent and trusting self, i gave her everything like she was the one, she made me think i was the one, in the end she cheated, but this video, this quote really got me, made me tear up, we should all keep on loving ourselves, we deserve better!!
I was in a relationship for almost 2 years. He cheated once and promised he’d never do it again. Well he did. It was because of my weight and appearance. Still hurts to bad and it’s been about 6 months 😢
It Was not Your Weight and Appearance, It was not Your fault at all, It was his low Moral Character, Cheaters are all Monsters and should be treated as such.
Melissa don't ever think it was you that caused him to cheat I have known beautiful thin woman that have been cheated on. Cheaters will cheat NO matter what your appearance is. Cheaters are disgusting & pathetic.
Ditch her bro. You're better off alone then killing yourself w/ anxiety going to sleep w/ that person every night. Each time you guys get intimate those awful thoughts will cross your mind. like Chazz Palminteri told C in "Bronx Tale"..... "Ditch the bitch" lol That's what I just did recently! And she still lying about it smh.
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Thank you Lisa. My partner left me for someone else after 17.5 years. Been 3 months and still in agony. You’re videos have been so much help to me. To see someone that feels like I do, my friends and family don’t really understand the pain. I’m trying each day to see who I am and loving myself a little bit day by day. X
They took your truth and they took your innocence is the exact words that I feel - you are so right in everything you say. I will not let him take that from me, those 2 things are such precious amazing things that a person can have.
Thank you so much❤I've been struggling with the heartache, it never goes away, I was married for 38 years to a man I thought was honest and true, I was wrong, he came home one day for lunch and told me he didn't love me like he use to, what he didn't tell me is that he met and fell in love with someone from work, she is much younger than I. I'm learning to be on my own. To love me, most days are good, some days are very sad, I still live in the same town we grew up in, every place here has a memory, but good memories. He's moved with her to Colorado so that helps me heal so I don't have to see them, my family is here and I'm so lucky, my heart is heavy but I'm doing ok, one day at a time, thank you❤❤❤❤Norma Jean
Crazy that I just read my life in your post. With him 35 years. He met her at work and she's our daughters age 34. Hardest thing I've ever had to go through
I was married 26 years. I guess she found the love of her life after all of those years and two beautiful daughters. It really hurts but me and my girls are managing. Dont know about tomorrow but I'm going to make it.
I'm so sorry ❤its really hard to get over betrayal, I've been through counseling and support groups, but the pain never goes away, slowly it gets easier to make it through the day, I've gone no contact with him, I can't be with family when he brings her to family functions and for me that's the hardest, but somehow we get through it. There's so many of us out there that this has happened to, very sad, we all will be strong again just going to take some time❤❤❤God Bless you❤Norma Jean
@@normajeanweimer1709 so sorry to read your story & betrayal. How heartless, brazen & selfish of your husband & her to go to (your) family functions when it means you can't go due to your pain & what you have gone through. I don't know how that woman could do that. I'm trying to heal also from a betrayal & being left by the man I loved & still do for another woman. The pain & hurt is their morning, noon & night. Like you I went no contact but some days it's hard to even get out of bed. Best wishes to you xx
@@bryanburke7947 wishing you & your daughters good luck & best wishes for the future. It really is one day at a time isn't it
Out of all the videos out there you touch my soul and understand the feeling thank you.
38 years, Lies, all Lies, I can't come back from that....
Please make some RUclips Shorts Lisa. your videos have been the most helpful, engaging and authentic that I have seen… and I’ve watched A LOT!
..and soothing, and at times like this when we feel so injured and in great distress, that is so welcome
So I'm going to expose my ignorance (and probably my age!) - I know NOTHING about RUclips Shorts. I'm curious and open to the idea.
How long are they? Since you know my content, what kind of topic would make sense for a short? What else should I know? Thank you for the idea and any pointers you have :)
@@lisaarends8742 hi there, I know little too to be honest but just know so many more people would see your excellent content that way and will be directed to everything else you’ve put so much effort into. I’ve put my email on the description to ‘My Channel’ bit. Can you see that? Feel free to send me a message, I’d be so happy to chat & help in any way I can
Very much I needed to hear thank you.
Your amazing! Thank you for sharing this video❤️
Fantastic ending Lisa. I really love your videos. Glad you're still making these.
Thank you.
Loved it when you said that they took away your truth..innocence..don't let them take you....
3 months after being cheated after 4 years together, she really took my innocent and trusting self, i gave her everything like she was the one, she made me think i was the one, in the end she cheated, but this video, this quote really got me, made me tear up, we should all keep on loving ourselves, we deserve better!!
Thank you. I really needed to hear this today.
Powerful
Help me God,, I 'm a victim.
He has been a nice husband to me.
But now I m deeply hurt.
Same story. I have learned not to trust ever... Never
Divorce Him and pray
This is really good Lisa.
Wish we could connect
I was in a relationship for almost 2 years. He cheated once and promised he’d never do it again. Well he did. It was because of my weight and appearance. Still hurts to bad and it’s been about 6 months 😢
It Was not Your Weight and Appearance, It was not Your fault at all, It was his low Moral Character, Cheaters are all Monsters and should be treated as such.
Melissa don't ever think it was you that caused him to cheat I have known beautiful thin woman that have been cheated on. Cheaters will cheat NO matter what your appearance is. Cheaters are disgusting & pathetic.
You are amazing! Thank you!!!
Should i trust her again? Will she cheat again? This sucks it hurts so bad 😭
Ditch her bro. You're better off alone then killing yourself w/ anxiety going to sleep w/ that person every night. Each time you guys get intimate those awful thoughts will cross your mind. like Chazz Palminteri told C in "Bronx Tale"..... "Ditch the bitch" lol That's what I just did recently! And she still lying about it smh.
Are you single?... I think your my soul mate.
Thank you so much