7 Things You Need to Know if You Were in a Relationship With a Narcissist

You've escaped the grip of the narcissist. That's huge. Learn what you need to know now in order to get your life back.

[@NoMoreRatRaceForMe]

Your videos should have so many more views. You make more sense than therapist and psychologist. Thank you

[@akankshasingh6471]

Thank you Lisa! I agree with everything you mentioned here. Especially with the fact that most difficult part of going through this abuse and then being cheated on, and abandoned, is the self-doubt that remains with the survivors. Also, in shifting the focus from what hit us to how do we heal it. I have trauma stored in my body, from these events, where my body goes into the state of anxiety with smallest of triggers, and then I become disoriented, with weak self-belief. Dealing with new relationships is hard too, no longer knowing what is right and wrong in the ocean of self-doubt that now lives in my body and mind. I will be focusing on healing this part from here on. Cheers to everyone, who is struggling to survive and then thrive after emotional abuse.

[@lisaarends8742]

I totally relate to how it’s in the body. Disoriented is a great word for how it manifests in current situations. It’s like living in two worlds. Wishing all the best for you.

[@iamgoddessoflove]

One way to know that you're dealing with a narcissist is when they take, and take, leaving you feeling depleted. Whereas, you'll receive less, and less or nothing in return.
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[@southernbell9558]

Your mom is my counselor, hooked me up to your page. I love your message. I read your book also. Thank you for helping me to move forward.

[@lisaarends8742]

You are so welcome:) And you have a great counselor!

[@Marc2016]

Thank you , Lisa. This was brilliantly analyzed and you nailed every single point.

[@gailinglis3194]

Thanks Lisa.. I’ve been watching you for almost 2 years , since my 28;year marriage collapsed … number6 is spot on , it’s so tough xx

[@lisaarends8742]

Tough feels like an understatement, especially after 28 years. Sending you strength and hope.

[@justinejordan486]

Thank you Lisa!

[@newman7910]

Lisa, this was 🔥!

[@lisaarends8742]

Thanks!

[@6800891]

I'm widowed so don't really qualify for your expertise. But I nonetheless enjoy listening to you articulate complicated relationship principles.

[@lisaarends8742]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

[@6800891]

@@lisaarends8742 Thank you. It occurred to me that leaening from your videos may very well prevent future relationship pain.