Why Do People Cheat?
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
- After being cheated on, one of the first questions the betrayed often ask is, "Why did you cheat?" Unfortunately, we rarely receive a clear answer (and in fact, the cheater often blames us for their decision). Learn about some of the common reasons people cheat on their partners and why it is not your fault.
Lisa, this all makes so much sense. Yes, the cheater never has a good reason . . . no matter what.
I honestly agreed with you Lisa. I recently found out my soon to be ex spouse cheated on me for so long until I finally caught her. I’m greatly appreciate you for being so brave to share your story and help others to heal and move on with their lives. Thank you again.
You are so wise and empathic, but l can't imagine anyone just finding it impossible to say no.
My former partner had done this numerous times over 5 years, and I pretty much caught her red-handed. When I tried to reach out and discuss it with her...I'd get Projection as if I was being unfaithful.
I'd get the Cold Silent Treatment and eventually, she gave me the blindsided reject.
I remained calm and left as civilly as I possibly could.
Now she posts whorish memes that are obviously directed at me, and no doubt what is out of public view is even worse.
This had all taken place on Nov 14th.
She had posted a Relationship Status on Nov 10th. I'm so broken and upset never thinking she would doing something that irresponsible to myself or anyone else. This particular Woman was 64 years old too. But in her sudden out of the blue outburst...she'd come across like an irate and nasty little girl.
Darrin, she never grew up. Her loss. I understand "broken". I wish for you, healing.
They cheat because they are of Low Moral Character, They are Monsters without Sympathy for someone who gave their all for them, Never Forgive, Move On and Thrive.
Your right cheating is selfish!
Lisa, your videos are always spot on. Unlike society in general, you never speak as though it is always the man that cheats. Keep up with the healthy perspectives.
WHY does it always happen good people
Yeah my wife fit about 5 of these descriptions, mostly those involving insecurities and being a coward, she’ll never find happiness, but I struggle with still wanting her to feel the pain she put me through.
Wow. you are so beautiful. inside and out. Thank you for your testimony and guidance.
Your cool, Lisa. Love these videos! Keep them coming.
Yep. Been through this nonsense.
Very insightful as always. Keep on keeping on.
We control our desires and put ourselves in a position of accountability to make sure we do not cheat. As someone who both cheated once in my younger days, and has been cheated on. I learned one important lesson. Cheating is damaging, if someone has empathy it sucks to be on both sides of the coin. It would have been more honest to end it before sleeping around.
I agree that you i need to be strong in my self😭😭hard very hard😪yes i have minimised contact and sleep in a different room he never been emotionally there for me never cuddles me specially when our son died he never cared im crying he never shed a tear my son was born with disabilities 😪😪😪😭😭😭😭😭thank you❤yes thats my partner in nutshell 😔😔😔
This is so good Lisa - thank you... the part about emotional connection and withdrawing it from primary partner especially... I think that for some people it is easier to connect with almost strangers vs being vulnerable with someone who knows you well... they feel they ‘can be honest’ with that third party- but in reality they aren’t being honest with themselves or the third party...
It's unfortunate but happy men cheat too.. I thought my husband and I had the perfect marriage. One day his ex-girlfriend from years ago contacted him. He went behind my back & cheated on me for almost 2 years. He confessed all of this & I took the initiative to divorce him... It's been a few years and he's still with her. Happily married from what he says...
Thank you.
My wife has been cheating on me for years. With multiple people affairs at the same time. I didn't know or see it coming from her. My angel. Now I don't know what to do. Please help me!!
My wife started a 7 year long affair 1 month after we bought a new home, I was so happy to finally get a place that was big enough for a family of five. I still can't believe that she would have risked a 20 year marriage and a new home over a drug addict loser with no job who spent his life living in and out of motels and on the streets.
My sincere advice.
Focus on yourself.
Bring all your focus inward.
Who are you?
What do you now want?
Once you find deep inner peace and self love, you heal old wounds.
Every moment you reflect and focus on what ifs is many moments of your life lost.
That last sentence- so true
They are very much in denial about themselves
All she ever did was run away u are so right
Yes the dream home I didn't get her
They don't have guts to sit down with u and talk they never go to a shrink because they will try shrink them
What about the willing cheating partner? The one who knows both the spouses. The one who pretended to be a friend only to betray with thr spouse. I have people tell me the betraying partner is also a victim. I do not believe this concept
That sounds horrible.
Great????
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Good video. You look very professional and attractive. Nice to see you with something on your shoulders. Didn’t like videos with the thin top straps. Sorry just my opinion but took away from the very important nature of the talks.
I don't think it's ok to say that you don't like how much skin the Lady might be showing. Why you judged that as a bad thing is obviously on you, you might be surprised to know many people weren't in the least distracted by her choice of top. It isn't ok to talk like that to any woman, it's inappropriate. I think the quality of the video and it's content, isn't less useful or looks more professional just by changing from a top with straps to one with full sleeves and come up to the neckline. With kindest and respect I think it would be far kinder to keep those kinds of opinions to yourself.