If a woman isn't SERVING or ASSISTING you on your purpose, she'll NEVER love you or feel feminine!

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  3 месяца назад +6

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  • @tcprime
    @tcprime 3 месяца назад +114

    She needs to almost become like your personal assistant.
    She will look up to you and respect you.

    • @boykush3732
      @boykush3732 3 месяца назад

      Haha mee t00

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 3 месяца назад

      Secretary

    • @Duet163
      @Duet163 3 месяца назад

      ​@@moheganson😂

    • @2corinthians5-19
      @2corinthians5-19 3 месяца назад

      I pay people for that at work. Don't need a personal assistant at home.

    • @hristopavlov298
      @hristopavlov298 3 месяца назад +1

      @@2corinthians5-19 That a roundabout way to say your paid personal assistant at work is covering the duties of your willing personal assistant at home or? 😂

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 3 месяца назад +82

    The more that a woman assists and helps you with important tasks...... The more dedicated she will be to you.

    • @TheyCallMe_TC
      @TheyCallMe_TC 3 месяца назад +1

      And remember it's about respect not love

    • @iban53
      @iban53 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@TheyCallMe_TCyou mean she'll respect you more?

    • @TheyCallMe_TC
      @TheyCallMe_TC 3 месяца назад +6

      @@iban53 yes she cant love you if she doesn't respect you

    • @JoeBudd-D
      @JoeBudd-D 3 месяца назад

      @@TheyCallMe_TC better to be a side piece nowadays. Cheat with her instead of get cheated on.

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 3 месяца назад

      So you want a mommy. Typical.

  • @EseShad0w316
    @EseShad0w316 3 месяца назад +68

    Facts. The more she invests in you, the more she falls in love.

    • @missinlink6733
      @missinlink6733 3 месяца назад +6

      They are useless until you make them useful! Having her run your errands or go get food keeps them invested in you!

    • @geralkay3012
      @geralkay3012 3 месяца назад

      ​@missinlink6733 😂True. Make them feel useless even they're useful sometime.

  • @krishna335
    @krishna335 3 месяца назад +59

    Learn to let go early on. It's difficult, no doubt, but you'll save yourself from a ton of pain.

    • @change_your_stars3262
      @change_your_stars3262 3 месяца назад

      Agreed

    • @NC-un7tr
      @NC-un7tr 3 месяца назад +13

      Women can leave a man the moment they found someone better. Live for yourself and detach emotionally

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 3 месяца назад +35

    Break yourself out of the false idea that you as a man are not supposed to ask or request anything from a woman...... She actually wants to help you.... All you need is the courage and fortitude to ask and direct........ Yo Casey bro, it makes perfect sense.

  • @zsuzsuspetals
    @zsuzsuspetals 3 месяца назад +12

    Oh my gosh you are so right! To have such wisdom at a young age is impressive! A man who is rough around the edges is exactly what I've always said I loved about my husband. I felt needed in his life. He had ambition and goals but he needed the woman's touch in his life. When I see a movie and a man has the perfect job, he's cooking the woman dinner and his apartment is spotless and decorated perfectly, it would be a turn off for me. I thought it was a weird me thing but over the years I've learned it's most women. Just like a man doesn't want the strong independent woman who can do it all. Men and women want to feel needed.
    I'm very happily married for 25 years so it worked! 🥰

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

      most women? not in this day and age. not many traditional women. Women in the work force changed things for the most part. Divorces skyrocketed when women entered. You get women saying all of time they don't need a man and their "independence" Liberal mindset has ruined dating for many. You have about 80% of women dating only 10% of men so 90% get left out.

  • @C.CHILLZ
    @C.CHILLZ 3 месяца назад +25

    Casey speakin facts. I remember my uncle dropped a gem on me when I was 13. He said biologically Men, protect, provide, and lead, as to where Women nest, nurture, and assist. This was once the traditional roles of the nuclear family in the West.

    • @greenspiral2955
      @greenspiral2955 3 месяца назад +4

      And this is how we build together

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

      that's not how it is anymore. Divorce rates are more than 50%. When women entered the workforce divorces skyrocketed. Nowadays *0% of women date ony 10% of men the other 90% of men are shit out of luck.

    • @davidvalko8749
      @davidvalko8749 Месяц назад

      @@SKRooU2 We make our future with our actions and beliefs. Fuck what everyone else is doing, make life good for you. Casey has a lot of wisdom. So do others. You'd do worse than following his advice.

  • @ThePersianOne
    @ThePersianOne 3 месяца назад +23

    I make sure to ask her to do small things day to day. "Hey babe can you make me a coffee. Can you fold my clothes." Etc.. Even when it comes to bedroom dynamics (though you can be more dominant/assertive here). Women are naturally submissive. They want you to tell them what to do and if they are into you, they'll be happy to do it (sometimes without you even asking). Compliment her when she behaves the way you want, let her actions show you. If she ain't doing it with a smile on her face, find one who will.

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

      you haven't been with many in the bedroom because alot are dominant

    • @ThePersianOne
      @ThePersianOne 3 месяца назад

      @@SKRooU2 I'm naturally dominant so I want my women submissive in the bedroom. But hey, if you're a submissive man I guess dominant women in the bedroom is great for you!

  • @geoeconomics5629
    @geoeconomics5629 3 месяца назад +16

    Correct
    She will always check if you have options and she will check your social status

  • @Sayed-du9px
    @Sayed-du9px 3 месяца назад +16

    Casey is drunk as usual 😂😂😂😂

    • @garymardle2120
      @garymardle2120 3 месяца назад +1

      Uncle C….back on the sofa….

    • @novaheads
      @novaheads 3 месяца назад +1

      I thought he doesn’t drink

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

      with his bankie and cowboy hat

  • @natoslayer2907
    @natoslayer2907 3 месяца назад +6

    This is stuff a woman does if she loves you. Not stuff that makes her love you. Don't confuse symptoms with causes.

    • @arrascaBP
      @arrascaBP 3 месяца назад

      I agree with you, woman will just help you with tasks if she’s infatuated at first place, and that comes down to the good and old attraction

  • @Mechaneer
    @Mechaneer 3 месяца назад +7

    None of this works *at all* if she doesn't see potential in you for some reason. If she does, she will think think she can help improve the areas you're lacking, or that those areas won't matter because you'll eventually be uber successful despite the negative qualities. If she doesn't see you winning in a very big way, these shortcomings or negative qualities you describe are nothing other than just that, shortcomings and negative qualities that will exclusively repel her.

  • @fredc3543
    @fredc3543 3 месяца назад +5

    If she doesn't invest in you, she has nothing to lose.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 месяца назад +3

    5:53 just cut to it. women are nurturers & supporters BY NATURE, if she don't feel like that then she wont be attracted to you. Take men for eg. if you cant provide... HOW DO YOU FEEL... less of a man correct? Yes, so she feel less of a woman, she is not of any use to you, she won't feel feminine, she won't be submissive. i already said on previous video i aint gonna have my room messy or anything like that, that is not who i am and that ish piss me off and makes me uneasy. so how then? they always see me as a guy they need to crack open, figure out, be part of whatever i am about because i am ALWAYS on to something progressive.

  • @johngraves2417
    @johngraves2417 3 месяца назад +1

    A man who doesn't NEED a woman is still the best way to be. A man should only WANT a woman. Big difference there...

  • @iban53
    @iban53 3 месяца назад +4

    🤔 so now this is more important than preselection?

  • @ashraquehussain5936
    @ashraquehussain5936 3 месяца назад +7

    absolutely 💯 correct

  • @alexj1897
    @alexj1897 3 месяца назад +3

    First 2 minutes didn't tick all the way down before I was already like, "Whoa, really interesting insight into how us guys are and what can be a potential pitfall for us."
    Another great one, Casey.

  • @Turbo_Tastic
    @Turbo_Tastic 3 месяца назад +1

    love these daily un-brainwashing deprogramming sessions; I really think all the propaganda that we are taught is to make sure our relationships don't work out

  • @nictibbetts
    @nictibbetts 3 месяца назад +1

    “came together inside” erm what?

  • @pinkplayspkmn5011
    @pinkplayspkmn5011 3 месяца назад +4

    Great video and I 100 percent agree

  • @Cardo1z1
    @Cardo1z1 3 месяца назад +1

    Tru my mom started hating me the older i got and start doing shit my self i actually thauvht i would get more respect from her but it was even worst when she did all my shit for me listen to casy he is right

  • @soundscaperecordings1111
    @soundscaperecordings1111 3 месяца назад

    Bro stop going on your "movement" though please 😂 300 casey simps out of 511,000

  • @omnislasherRX7
    @omnislasherRX7 3 месяца назад +1

    This is so true. A super cute girl I had a crush on in high school was like that I.e. sometimes really wanted to help out in any way or form. She even got the results of my exams for me and brought then to my house without me asking! I thought she was being ridiculous to ask if she could help with trivial things and even things that did matter. I know now it was because she sincerely wanted to come into my frame. I was too young and I think scared of commitment and diffucult to trust people to realise it back then. I was thinking ok now you can do that for me but what keeps you from doing that for another guy later? I felt I had no control over the interaction. It's amazing how certain girls embrace their femininity so early! Now she is a divorced super duper milf in her late 30s with two daughters 😅

  • @klkhabo3272
    @klkhabo3272 3 месяца назад +3

    Ohhh!! Casey is in love! He sounds happy. Good for you 💌. Hope your audience can finally actualise.

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

      that gay pride cowboy hat roped him in a cowpoke LOL

    • @soundscaperecordings1111
      @soundscaperecordings1111 3 месяца назад +1

      He would never admit that. To anyone

  • @justinvargas1116
    @justinvargas1116 3 месяца назад +1

    It makes sense on some levels, but doesn’t it contradict the “full stack man” thesis a little?

  • @langmastery9382
    @langmastery9382 3 месяца назад +1

    This is powerful stuff you're sharing here. It takes real courage and insight to recognize and address these subconscious patterns that can make or break our relationships. Your message is clear - allowing a woman to assist and support us isn't a sign of weakness, but rather a key to deepening the connection and letting her feminine nature shine. Keep empowering men to understand and embrace this dynamic. Your impact is evident in the positive changes you're facilitating.

  • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
    @HANZELVANDERLAAY 3 месяца назад +3

    Casey, kikin it like he's in an opium den....I like it🎉

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 3 месяца назад

      Bearskin rug, concubines at his feet

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

      gay asf

  • @brancodesouza137
    @brancodesouza137 3 месяца назад +1

    Man, I really appreciated your energy in this video, you seemed chill, zen.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 месяца назад +1

    8:40 because i am a neat freak and wont be having my place messy. what i do is, if she wants something she gotta EARN it, some times i say how most times i dont. that puts her in a state of wanting to please to receive and hypergamy is satisfied. it is even worst if she does something wrong, she MUST do something to make it up and it may take awhile before i even let it past.

  • @nictibbetts
    @nictibbetts 3 месяца назад +1

    bro is literally bundled up on the couch

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад +2

      with his bankie and cowboy hat LMAO he thinks he has it all figured out

    • @nictibbetts
      @nictibbetts 3 месяца назад +1

      @@SKRooU2 it’s cringe as fuck broke back vibes

  • @danmurray1143
    @danmurray1143 3 месяца назад +1

    Hang on. You told us in MANY previous videos to not show interest in her. You said we would fail "Interest Tests" if we did. Now you're saying to give her tasks to help you to show you're interested in her.

    • @429kostas
      @429kostas 3 месяца назад +3

      I think the secret is to not show interest in a direct way like telling her how much you love her very often, that's when they lose respect for you. Them helping you in any way is a mean to make bond with you even unconsciously...

  • @jeremyking5309
    @jeremyking5309 2 месяца назад

    I don’t understand, on one hand im hearing women like already made men, and on the other hand I’m hearing women like men who assist men on their purpose now I’m just lost.

    • @laygossom2655
      @laygossom2655 2 месяца назад

      Bro do what u want u can't change ur plan on a day based on the weather , women are like weather their likes guy preferences are always changing never consistent cause of emotions and what's popular

  • @kat-601
    @kat-601 3 месяца назад

    I never got laid by l girl i didn't ask verbally or silently with just energy & lve been extremely lucky with woman because l used them as my teacher all through life & especially about their bodies. Yeah l had fun! lm 63 now and Red Pilled & see through all their bullshit.

  • @kat-601
    @kat-601 3 месяца назад

    Thanks im fully red-pilled Casey- lm 63 on yr 28 2nd time around & she"s shutdown on me. I'm getting myself in a better place & she's told me she sees a little clearer now. I need to join the ch because of how good info lve found here. Happy Wife ch had a mention from a viewer about you so that's how l found you. You & Karyn at the Red Pill Happy Wife YT ch. Are both spot on!! I can't thank you enough.

  • @dbradley3173
    @dbradley3173 3 месяца назад +1

    This explains some things

  • @SKRooU2
    @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

    IMPORTANT: One of the most important things I can say about relationships is the only ones that work out are the ones where both people love each other the same or really close to the same amount. Usually one or the other will love the other one more and there will be too much of a difference and the relationship won't work. The one that loved the least will either break up or do something like cheat to cause a breakup. Yea sometimes love will grow and the relationship might stay together but the most successful relationships are ones that love each other equally. They don't think there is anyone better in the world for them so they don't cheat. They will put more effort into the relationship and will be afraid of losing the other person to someone else. But listen to what I just told you so it might help you in your next relationship or at least you will know what went wrong. If you are in a relationship and there seems to be a large gap in the love between you and your partner and you don't see the gap equaling out then you might be wasting your time. It could be a sign you are in a relationship with the wrong person and you might need to end it and find someone where you share equal feelings and love.

  • @brandonbarker6245
    @brandonbarker6245 3 месяца назад

    Casey I tested rewarding there behavior if it's good. This lady got upset at me since I was bust an abruptly had to drop plans. She was pissed trying to control me psychological by getting me to give in to her bad attitude. I ignored her canceled plans I told her I would only reward and spend time if her behavior was good she ended up apologizing and falling into a submissive femine persona then there after we will meet another day together now with me having psychological dominance

  • @GrahamLaight
    @GrahamLaight 3 месяца назад

    Also for yourself: if you have a team (of at least one person) helping with your mission, you're more likely to keep going after it.

  • @danielmericle732
    @danielmericle732 3 месяца назад +1

    That is So True!!!

  • @Brazconj
    @Brazconj 3 месяца назад

    That’s crazy this is literally Genesis 2 : 18 in the Bible CRAZY !

  • @fedfed96
    @fedfed96 3 месяца назад +4

    Bro didn't even bothered to get up for this vid. A true redpill grift conveyor

    • @ut07
      @ut07 3 месяца назад +2

      🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • @vanessac1965
    @vanessac1965 3 месяца назад

    It does make sense. We want to feel needed and purposeful just like you do because life is a team effort. Maybe it's advice for health or handling life we can offer if not practical tasks. Either way we need to feel like we're bringing something valuable to the table so we're both investing in the future

  • @eazy3960
    @eazy3960 3 месяца назад +1

    western woman says no

  • @eliasharding3376
    @eliasharding3376 3 месяца назад

    I learnt to look after my self cook for my self clean for my self I don't need a woman to say you do everything for your self. I am leaving.
    Well just go
    I had a marriage I had a girlfriend.
    It's a pattern they see I like things looking good I had to pick up there mess because .
    I tell them about there mess they say you do it you clean it up.
    So I bundle all there sh.t up throughout the door her as well.
    I have to change my ways for the low life .absolutely NO

  • @Aotearoa.
    @Aotearoa. 3 месяца назад

    I been single long time but yes hahaha the woman is very very hard work 😂

  • @Bombwill
    @Bombwill 3 месяца назад

    Next Video Topic: How To Regain The Power In A Relationship As A Man

  • @greenspiral2955
    @greenspiral2955 3 месяца назад

    And this is how we build a life together. You kill the game, we skin and cook it to free you up to do man stuff

  • @JoeBudd-D
    @JoeBudd-D 3 месяца назад

    Don't need a women to be your assistant. AI is coming.

  • @philippeohlund2850
    @philippeohlund2850 3 месяца назад

    I agree. Women assist, help, and nurture, when there is love. Great video! 👍🏻

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 месяца назад

    0:01 if she dont feel to be part of what you are about, then she just using you until she finds who she really wants. women are followers, never forget this.

  • @samgebhardt5135
    @samgebhardt5135 3 месяца назад

    What are your thoughts on The Way of the Superior man

  • @lukassteinberg6965
    @lukassteinberg6965 3 месяца назад

    Casey Scammer strikes again

  • @ChristopherBotelho3052
    @ChristopherBotelho3052 3 месяца назад +1

    Added to Favorites

  • @Dr.CJ21
    @Dr.CJ21 3 месяца назад

    Casey is einstein & freud of relationships 👍

  • @funnyshorts6830
    @funnyshorts6830 3 месяца назад

    If i have to be a mess, I'll stay alone.

  • @cristian.ilie.018
    @cristian.ilie.018 3 месяца назад

    I definitely don't get it!

  • @ekspert12340
    @ekspert12340 3 месяца назад

    Oh yeah, your vids help a lot😊❤

  • @electronicsafrica
    @electronicsafrica 3 месяца назад

    I've watched many of your videos ... this is much more positive than many of your videos that focus on Jezebel tendencies of low quality women. We should all ignore Jezebel thirst trap women and look for quality women even if they rare as unicorns

    • @laygossom2655
      @laygossom2655 2 месяца назад

      Let us know when u have caught a unicorn 😂😂😂😂

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 месяца назад

    2:15 and that is what happened with my ex, her words were literally... "you don't need me". though, she encouraged us to move in and live together, did, started from scratch, no furniture nothing. she did the cooking, we both worked from home in 2017. but even with all that, she still FELT like i didt need her, as much as she knew i wanted her, she did not feel like she was needed.

    • @arrascaBP
      @arrascaBP 3 месяца назад +2

      She might found someone else and just left you with this excuse, women NEVER tells the truth about break ups

  • @skaltura
    @skaltura 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for reminding of this :)

  • @YondaimeApproved
    @YondaimeApproved 3 месяца назад

    Thank you 🙏🙂

  • @Kakekutter
    @Kakekutter 3 месяца назад

    I agree 100%

  • @sarahmika6649
    @sarahmika6649 3 месяца назад

    That's one reason why rich men get cheated on..

    • @natoslayer2907
      @natoslayer2907 3 месяца назад

      Dont over complicate it. Rich men get cheated on because she was using him for money. Also the rich man is probably a validation seeking try hard. Women are attracted to men who do not try and are just born special.

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 3 месяца назад

    Yeah! CONFIRMED

    • @frankdavf4599
      @frankdavf4599 3 месяца назад

      But nobody s perfect, maybe extraordinary(you manage to have a tight schedule and done lots of things on theday)

  • @JoseMartinez-bh1ng
    @JoseMartinez-bh1ng 3 месяца назад +3

    I diagree. My parents have been married for 36 years and my dad still cooks cleans does work around the house and finds ways to make money even at his age. My mom always tells me my dad knew how to do everything when she met him, she didn't have to be his mom and they're in it forever. It's sweet.

    • @Ben.Chaser
      @Ben.Chaser 3 месяца назад +4

      lol

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages 3 месяца назад +6

      If she isnt his mom, why is he her dad by paying all the major bills and letting her effectively live with zero responsibility of the house?

    • @ut07
      @ut07 3 месяца назад +2

      🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 3 месяца назад +1

      What does your mom do to contribute.

    • @TheTrueTrinity888
      @TheTrueTrinity888 3 месяца назад

      Your mom probably had her fun already

  • @exitthematrix1487
    @exitthematrix1487 3 месяца назад +2

    Show us your dedicated serving gf big boi Casey 😅😢😊

    • @cy_young_9104
      @cy_young_9104 3 месяца назад +4

      He’s right.

    • @James-dt7ky
      @James-dt7ky 3 месяца назад

      Inflatable doll.

    • @natoslayer2907
      @natoslayer2907 3 месяца назад

      ​@@cy_young_9104 nah he's confusing symptoms with causes. Women help men they love. They don't fall in love with men that need help.