How to STOP OVER Pursuing The WOMEN you ACTUALLY Want to DATE and are ATTRACTED TO (Female Nature)
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Guys when a woman hasnt put it out in 3 dates and tells you “what are you looking for ? I am looking for a serious relationship that’s why I wanna take things slow” does this fall within iron rule #3 of Rollo Romassi, namely not worth waiting ?
I am saying who I say I am but no luck
Casey did you, yourself get rejected a lot in the past too? I wish you shared some more stories in the past.
@CaseyZander you da fucking man bro
Once again indifference and emotional unavailability is the key to unlock her desires
This is probably the hardest. You do have to be "unavailable", but not "too unavailable" otoh. The balance depends on you. And make it so.
I meant unavailability by being authentically busy, but yes, you have to take time from busyness to spend with her, i agree with you, bruh
wtf is "opening up" lol
Bwahahahahaha, really? You know that Casey doesnt actually know wtf hes talking about right? Dudes so obsessed with muscles he probably prefers dudes.
@@Darkmouse20001 I disagree, In this video he share a concept a old successful man told me, but he was a natural seducer so he just said the concept to me without explanation, Casey explained everything in 15 minutes.
It’s actually amazing when you get rejected. It’s such a relief. No potential future regret, no ambiguity, no wasted time.
i love it
Woman will not make you happy, just bring problems
Better become a problem solver then big guy
This video hit hard. I got my "dream girl" and felt nothing. Dropped her and focused on pursing my purpose. Life couldn't be better. I don't even bother with women right now because my self love has taken over and none of them are even worth my time at this point. I have been rejecting women and that has boosted my confidence even more.
How about you get some pvssy?
"bother with women" you sound like they're some kind of enemy or obligation. What are you even doing this all for if you're not even liking women...
@@unexpected8166 I didn't mean to come off aggressive, I'm just saying its not a priority in my life right now. And if I am going to hold my women to a standard, then I need to be above that standard.
You're making sense now. I like the thinking in your last sentence, I feel the same@@habibidan
Congrats, I guess?
Casey is 100% spot on.. I’m 27, the older and more mature I get, the less I care. You start believing in yourself more, i respond to women when I feel like it, more confidence= more women
False self belief is still delusion.
If you're incapable of delusion... well.
Kind of hard to believe in myself or self work if I'm older than you and the ONLY thing I know is *rejection*
And remember now ALL other women are in HER shadow. She was the only... love I guess...
I can't even fuckin fap worth a shit now...
I hate it.
Be ok with rejection, be outcome independent. If it’s a No, move on.
Low esteem dudes can't do this cuz they too 😺
I will not be outcome dependent, too many things can go wrong.
Literally just laugh it off. She'll be back
I'm okay with rejections
And never be ashamed that you desire women, because that's just a man is
This guy actually spitting facts. Now I understand why these hot women always end up choosing the bums instead of the ideal guy.
You still don't get it.
They choose the bums based off what they do to her emotionally. They just HAPPEN to be bums. The look / attitude / charisma etc. Doesn't matter if they are bums or not.
Age and maturity is the greatest freedom. Children, your own children are what make you complete. My daughters are grown now and on their own but knowing they are successful and well balanced is what makes me feel complete.
Men you have to come to a point where you are complete and happy with who you are. This does not mean that you are perfect. Own who you are, your flaws (mine is impatience) and the women will gravitate to your authenticity
Don't even accept the flaws. Focus solely on the strengths and gaining more weapons (strength). Chances are you can't fix "flaws" anyway.
When you die, it won't matter. Your soul moves on. That doesn't mean you should just be lazy and do whatever, unless you really want to. But the whole "you only have one life" causes you to live in fear but there is literally nothing to fear. When you can realize that, life is sooooo much better 😎
What’s better is that this is a test run for many other lives you will live (samsara) Death is scary but living an unfulfilled life is even scarier.
Casey's content is so detailed yet he lays it out so it's easy to understand his concepts. Whenever I find myself getting weak or not standing my ground with a woman I come here to reinforce this stuff and the results are always positive for me, even if there is an initial conflict. Best channel out there.
Pursuing women is distracting, takes energy, and wastes time even when it is reciprocated and leads to sex. It’s still empty.
What does satisfy? Going to the gym and working on my body, working on projects that come to fruition, and working on creative expression or legacy. The rest is secondary.
Casey is 100% correct. Been a loner all my life. I have no desire for a large social group, social interactions, circle of freinds, starting a business, or any "abundance" other than peace. I like to hike, camp, work on my car, DIY projects, crypto investing, and being outdoors on my own. I used to think "getting a life" could be defined by others. Once I started living life on my own terms and investing in stoicsim I realized that the pursuit of peace and getting as close to the Creator as possible in my ways and actions is all the life I need. Funny thing is living this way makes so many folks uncomfortable - thats how I know Im on the right path. I dont care that my car is 14 years old, I dont care that I dont have a large group of friends, I dont care that my cell phone isnt the newest...I am at peace. No kids, no wife, just peace. Live life on your own terms gentlemen.
Don't you feel drowned in comfort zone by avoiding relating to women and having kids?
@@conte1989 Not at 49 years old. Been there and done that. Had plenty of women in my life and so when I reflect on how much time I spent with them and how I was never able to find a woman with the qualities I require in a wife, it didnt make sense to have children and risk getting divorced or becoming a single parent or live my life as a simp (happy wife/happy life) in fear of my wife leaving me and taking my kid because she's "bored". I date on my own terms now and have no problem with being alone. If I was younger I might feel FOMO but I know better at this stage in my life. Funny thing is the women I meet in their late 30s (mostly single mothers) are panicking trying thier hardest to get me to marry them. Its really something to see. They are bold with it - barely make it past the first date or online interaction without them mentioning marriage when they realize I dont have kids and never been married.
@@conte1989 It's the opposite. The comfort zone is, precisely, to choose marriage and kids. If you are happy with yourself, and love yourself, you won't need that. Plus, if you are successful and strong, the only thing you will attract are envious people and parasites. If you need to get laid, there are top notch services which provide top notch women for pleasurable moments.
Same here! I'm 52, no kids no wife. I'm fine
Is this real? Because as a man I believe there is NO internal fulfillment without people.. maybe you haven't seen what is present on the other side.. maybe you just got comfortable being in your comfort zone for too long..
if you are an alcoholic, she will leave you because you are an alcoholic,
if you are sober, she will leave you for an alcoholic
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Hah! I have had women leave because I party and have had women leave because they were bored with me not going out late on weeknights. Cant win lol
@@jjberg83
Because your are not considerate women as individuals being. You want to simplifie and a theorem which works with all women 🤷🏽♀️.
You meet women with differents points of vue. That's it !
Get a saint Bernard 😅
Cringe
I'm a 64 year old man now and he is spot on. You are who you are. That doesn't mean you don't keep improving who you are but your doing it for you no one else. Step back and learn to love yourself and what you have become. If you have something you don't like about yourself change it but do it for you. I do agree with many things he is saying and many I wish I would have learned at a much younger age so learn you younger men as fast as you can.
Bro this is literally it. Just experienced this recently and have more options with girls because I genuinely don't care. Great video Casey
Rejection can be useful personally I’d rather be rejected hard then lied to and let down soft. Just focus that energy and frustration it creates in positive healthy way, i’m going to increase my gym routine, or set some achievable goals, lose 10 more pounds, Focus on my finances, And start with whichever one you think is lacking the most.
Yup. Fix what is possible to fix. Finances will come as they come. Focus on more short term / immediate gains like body transformation. You'll see the change sooner and it'll keep you motivated
This advice is pure GOLD🔱
the only "dating coach" anybody should be listening to
its crazy how accesing to this informations is free
True internal strength is to have the ability to cognitively control your own thoughts and emotions..... As well as to cultivate and project a consistently congruent character to the world.
And people underestimate that congruent character could mean the ability to produce 10 different characters. Each with a specific purpose. But that's Pro-Level skill right there.
Guys as a dj and a womanizer I can say this guys is 100% spot on . Respect
Just the video I needed, top notch, thanks dude
God bless you Casey. These past few videos have been very helpful
This video was deep, its one of the best. You presented the concept of being a true man who embraces his leadership role, in a clear and precise manner.
THIS guy has it figured out!
Gospel Casey! I am proud of you Brother. I am 67 and respect your your knowledge and work, thanks
I was critical of you in the recent past, when you showed contradiction within the path. I have been following you for a while now and I must say that you have found the summary. great job, congratulations!
I aspire to have your confidence and masculinity.
God bless you Casey. It’s a blessing for all men having your content freely available. Another absolute masterclass. Keep up the amazing work brother 💪🏾
best timing in my life for this video uncle c
Not another Red Pill Channel. Excellent !!!
Casey, you changed me a lot! Thank you from the depth of my heart.❤
Fantastic video, keep up the great work Casey!
Going on a date for the first time after a 4 year relationship! Binged your videos to prep
Is it possible to after having messed things up with a girl and the relationship is deteriorating to implement these and turn it back around ?
Man oh man, truly grateful.
What is this feeling i always felt extra masculine after watching caseys video
Now this is solid!
Best message all year! I got a little high hearing this one 🤟🏽 much love bro. Everyone read this… hope you guys are kicking some ass💥
A woman should should be a compliment to your already established life. Not a necessity.
Right on time. I was just thinking all of this. Thank you for video. I appreciate it and you.
Your best video so far. It sums up most of your videos till so far
This was such a bs video. No actual insight
one of the hardest casey's video
Thank you, that’s all
6:50 what you havent said is the reason why. Women want the opposite of who they are, so when you stick to who you perceive to be, she is attracted to that because women are not comfortable EVER with who they are, EVER. Estrogen is the reason they are insecure, flaky, constantly changing.
absolutely the best video EVER, too well done in such a short time. Congrats!
Rollo Tomassi's first book chapter 1 : " We are who we say we are"!
I don’t have the mental energy to pursue or text or whatever the fuck women anymore. It’s counterproductive anyways. After 15 years of reinforcement regarding how women operate, it’s automatic.
Have 100% interest and 0% attachment tho.
Thank you Casey. So many men need to know this.
Instead of the Art of Dating you could call it- the Art of NOT Validating.
You nailed it I think,, well done.
100 percent no cap
0:29 Our Masculine Spiritual Guru does it again
Casey is a genius 🙏🏿
Makes sense, thank you.
This is the only guy that I take dating advice from...
07:35 💎
When you let the woman persue you, you allow her to dive into her own hypergamous nature - beautiful.
This is the video I've been waiting for
All nice and tidy, what if, however, I am a kind and decent human being? I'm not joking - I'm not simping or anything at all, but I want to make the world a better place, even if it means to offer help or to do a nice gesture
💯 always feel more prepared after watching your videos
As a woman... o.o i never thought myself as a da vinci code to break. Interesting channel though. I like to see how men think and go through.
Of course you don’t. Women tend to be very flaky, inconsistent, and unpredictable. As a man, it’s best to be indifferent and let the women come on their own accord.
Great video casey, I've been wanting this video precisely... The unlimited energy it gave me is beyond my imagination 😎
Bro you are Tony stark about girl but can you improve your handwriting 😅
Learning this rn irl
You are saviour man
When you meet a women that is smart intelligent hot and you and her mix like water and Kool aid
Full circle is closed
My boy always speaking truth
Thanks Casey, this video came in the best time for me, I have a lot of women in my life, however I’m only interested in my sexy boss, she is attracted already, my issue is that I have to hold myself back, I think because she is the only one I shouldn’t get close to 😂
Please help!
If you let her know this your done, probably loose your job too. You have to be very careful there. If you smash you must play it off like she means nothing to you. Otherwise it's going to end very badly
Men are the prize, the women should be pursuing us 😂
Casey and coach Cory Wayne will change your life
What does it mean "let the women pursue you", man? We still need to approach women. We still need to initiate. No matter how self-sufficient and strong we are as men women don't fall from the sky on our lap. In my opinion, you need to hone your mix in what you are suggesting a bit. The action part is missing.
Yes, i agree, you must make your intentions known to the chick other wise there is nothing for the chick to chase unless she can read your mind and thats unlikely to happen, bruh
I agree. The “let women pursue” approach only works for SOME men. It never worked for me.
He actually meant do not over pursue; you chase 2 or 3 times and if she remains adamant, ignore her by going after other girls( generate options).
Confident is almost another word for SECURE. Once, you've decided to stop being needy and insecure, you can start being SECURE. SECURE in that whatever you're doing is whatever you're doing. Pay attention to the momentum of your self. Stay SECURE. All the thinking and what ifs and maybes and "If I just did this" will only lead you away from being SECURE. Be secure. It's the opposite of insecure.
Briefly,,,,,, Man you are spot on....... Hey,,,,,,, girl backed off , I "backed off" It wont 8 hrs later shes sending kissy face emoji. Ohh she suddenly didnt have time to come over, txt, talk, nun of that . I didnt pursue, didnt txt , call or nuthin. She txted good night, i said good night , nuthin more...... next morning kissy faces for the first time in a week. Your shit works. Dont pursue!!!!!
The quality of this content is insane, holy hell.
You seem mumbly and tired. Are you ok?
CASEY THANK YOU SO MUCH !
I wanted to make a longer comment, but nothing else matters, just thank you bro ! You give golden nuggets and nothing else.
Best video ever, Casey is who he says he is 💯
but I'm a hunter, I love me a chase
Love from 🇮🇳 casey
These it's amazing is like i woke in Paradise, I solved some chilhod traumas regarding my mother, then I took and solved as well issues with my father. Started of sudden not giving a shit about women and right now after 1 month the amount of women that i get with 35 if unbeliveble! They run after me, never going back!
The basketball player is secretly the crypto millionaire. The cowboy is really the rapper. Women looking for congruence is stereotyping men according to tgeir perception. Based on what they think about who a man is, is totally different from who that man actually is. Theres plenty of basketball players that when you ask how did you get involved in the sport they say i was tall. Its just a job for them. What your addessing casey is perception is reality to women and people in general. But its really not. People are not who they appear to be.
Lack of caring or not being outcome dependent comes through success in the first place. Scarcity is what drives mens outcome dependence.
Is just agreeing enough? Do I need to do something to apply this? Once I agree I might fall for lust or one of those "you can't have me" bitch looks. Those tend to be strong triggers. I think it's all mental and body language. Your body language must be "I transcend men" and enjoy my body and mind in the here and now.
I've been watching Casey for a few years now. Even after solving his problem, he's become more confident and more grounded in who he is. Buy the blueprint, and if you don't have the $$$, find a way to get it and get ready to put some work into who you really are.
The issue today: people have Multiple interests. So it becomes harder to Pick* a "category" to fit into. This applies mostly to very intelligent/intellectual people. They struggle the most.
Bro was cooking hard in this one 🔥
Oh and BTW. 💯💯
There is such a rare animal as a coyote or chamillion. Who can morph into multiple characters/personalities at will and easily. And THAT is his own personal skill/characteristic.
excellent presentation
This is great man and so damn true. Get yourself right and be happy with your life. A great woman will just add to it NOT make it
This was a really good one
I lost all of my girls by overpursuing after I got them. Excitement is the bane of any relationship and the way your congruency is tested longterm. However when you don't care if she exists or not, she's glued to you and you can't get rid of her.
Absolute gold, this one is special really needed it, don't want to f#ck up my current relationship, by behaving like previous times, Legend Casey
Over pursuing shows the state of need and in which they’ll lose interest very quick. That applies to even married man regarding their wives.
Guys when a woman hasnt put it out in 3 dates and tells you “what are you looking for ? I am looking for a serious relationship that’s why I wanna take things slow” does this fall within iron rule #3 of Rollo Romassi, namely not worth waiting ?
May God bless him all the happiness. Casey has gifted me a girl in my arms....... Tysm........ Gee he is a God.........
I rarely ever make comments on videos but I wanted to take a moment to let you know you that you did the unthinkable in my eyes.. you actually changed my life. And it’s not just a saying. Hope we meet down the road
Your comprehensive synopsis on how to carry thyself and giving women permission to slip into their own hypergamous nature is impressive, Casey.