I wish I knew this earlier… A woman was wanting to help me, getting upset I wouldn’t let her, was wanting to bring me food. Instead I pushed her out when I should’ve been doing opposite 🤦♂️
Why are you upset? That means you rejected her, you won. You showed you didn’t want her. She’s the loser here. Why are you complaining when she’s done that to tons of guys herself? Now she gets a taste of her own medicine
"Her natural desire is to take on his desires" this principal subtly manifests in a womans subconcious mirroring beahaviour when she finds herself attracted to a man.
A woman will change support for football team and even change support to opposite political party she supported before for her new man I’ve seen this a dozen times
Bro… this is literally life changing, texted this girl I’m dealing with “Need fuel this weekend start thinking bout wha 2 cook” & she responded SUPER Feminine, the stuff Casey teaches really works
@@amandaburleson2035tf you on? She paying with her own money. And after that daddy will get head and a massage. Only thing she gets is a „good job“ and a kiss.
There are exceptions, some women are dominating, and some men are masochistic, but in general, there’s definitely a masculine, feminine dynamic, which we have tried to scrub away as a society, but it’s still there
I literally have two girls that do all this for me unconditionally because they essentially know deep down they can never have me. I did not commit to either, nor do I plan to. Everything this guy is saying is true. It’s all about internal strength of a man.
Do you sleep with them alternately? Man I’m interested in this topic, so you basically stay “single” without committing exclusively , but I suppose that when you date them you also bang them, or am I wrong?
Front and back end game are very different if you just want to play games for the rest of your life and keep doing what you’re doing but sooner than later when you want a mother for your children you’re going to have zero experience in back endgame, I humbly advise you to play your chances and get hurt now so you don’t have to when you’re 50
00:03 A woman feels unloved if she doesn't serve or please you. 02:14 Women need to feel actively assisted and led in a relationship. 04:09 Women feel valued by serving and pleasing the man they love. 06:10 Actively find things for her to do to create emotional dynamic 08:15 Allowing the woman to help with basic household activities leads to a deeper connection. 10:07 Leading and directing activities makes her feel feminine 12:02 Making a woman feel feminine by involving her in daily tasks 13:55 A woman feels loved when she serves and pleases you. 15:58 A woman feels loved when she serves and pleases you. 17:47 A woman feels unloved if she doesn't serve or please you
Married 24 years and this is 100% accurate … my wife is from Argentina and I met her I realized right away it made her happy to do things for me … and make her feel appreciated afterwards and she’ll be the happiest lil girl you’ve ever seen.
If she cannot please you, it’s YOU. You as a man must know what you want in order to lead a women. If she’s not pleasing you thats your fault because you don’t know wtf you want from her. How can she please you if you don’t even know what pleases you?
MBT and CASEY RUclips videos are 100% REAL yesterday before taking a woman I’m seeing too a coffee shop I took her too the car wash and after washing my truck she was helping me vacuum without me asking, later that night she said she loved me for the first time
Whenever i see caseys videos tittled like this one all it does is remind me of what i had for Most of the 20yrs we were together she was always doing things for me id wear the same shirt 2 days in a row . Because she'd wash and hang up clothes before bed she was sweet and kind to me. Would feed my friend's helped me raise my daughter If you have a woman like this gentleman take these words as a reminder to step outside your awesome situation every now and then to make sure youre not fucking it up She divorced me 3 yrs ago and im just now getting to where my life isnt dogshit When you fuck up a blessing such as i had it costs an unmeasurable amount of everything
Thank You Casey, you’ve opened up my eyes to things I denied myself and once it was my belief and tradition. West is fucked. If you are reading this and you are a father Protect your sons from the coming up 304s.
Great video man, I did this with a girl subconsciously and always wondered why does she like me so much. It’s cuz I was unknowingly doing the things and now it makes perfect sense. This is lowkey the best channel for dating advices for men.
I swear to god i watched this video, sent my girlfriend a text for a pretty big favour and she replied "of course ill do that!". Ten minutes later she sends me a printscreen of some horoscope shit of how compatable we are. On god Casey youre a fucking legend.
IT MAKES SOOO MUCH SENSE! it explains a lot of the stories women have told me of men they have dated long term...However, those men unfortunately were bums. Thank you Casey
that's stacking a bunch of psychological tricks (we tend to like more people that we do stuff for because we wouldn't be doing it if we didn't like them) hypergamy (wouldn't be listening to anyone that isn't higher in hierarchy/better than her, so if she is listening then she assumes he's better than her) after long time of having A people tend to crave Z (men want peace and quiet after whole day at work, women want to be useful after years of "just be pretty"...or geek youtubers now want to be fighters etc ) sunk cost fallacy (the more she invested the more she will keep investing, and any sort for female "investment" is huge considering their passive nature to just "show up" and get picked)
A helping role is a woman's God given purpose "And the Lord God looked at Adam and said, it is not good that the man should be alone, I will make a help mete for him ". Another great video Casey👍👍!
You so right bro!!! I’m constantly asking my gals , which ever one is over for the weekend ,to do small things for me! This is something I figured out for myself… It works ,and they always happy when I reach out to them to hang out for the weekend 👍
@@UnknownRED333 that’s why you need other women wanting you so she can stay loyal. Nothing makes a woman stay loyal except a man has a lot of options especially if the man is the best man she ever has. If a man is the best man a woman has but he doesn’t have any options her happiness will soon fade away and possibly leaving him because other women aren’t checking for him, in other words she sees a man with options that has value by looking at the amount of women wanting her man, because she knows once she leaves he’ll get another one immediately afterwards.
I once promised a girl I would treat her to the best scones in town. But when I arrived to pick her up she was baking scones herself. Terrible scones but it was clear that she would rather put in effort herself than being 'courted'.
Facts. My girlfriend is Thai and lives in a different city but she allways comes to my place. I never go to hers. She usually brings me food and gives me massages almost every time. We would call that unfair but women don't see it that way and she's allways happy to see me 😊
When i hear Casey starting the intros with "This will make a lot of people uncomfortable but i dont really care" I know its going to hit different,,, for sure
The women I’ve been seeing for less than a month literally went and cleaned my 3600square ft house I’m remodeling when I was at work with just me saying I wish I had more help 🤔 this literally was happening when this video was posted
I hope you see this comment Casey If a man asks a woman for help she would think that he is dependent on me and that could decrease the man's SMV and she will end up leaving her.
@@Kennymacdougall Reality is a lot of women look at it this way. This worked once upon a time, but this will not work for a good portion of women these days. This will be a huge turn of to any women with a fairly large level of independence which is a lot of them.
@@yourfoodforthought I don't know which women you are referring to and how you draw those conclusions but for me this has always worked, even with feminists. They are the most obedient of them all.
If you are not leading her by taking her out, paying bills, protecting her etc and simply giving her cute little task she wont hit her feminine side, and just won't take it.
Also understand if she is no longer interested in doing things for you then she is losing love and interest in you She is possibly now doing these things for someone else
This does sound wild because i hate it when they do that....now that would create a double standard because then i would just be telling her to do things and me never wanting to cater to her and her neediness. Lol
Men this is so crazy im litirally doing this stuff what you talking about and it works 100% since i startet watching your videos and aply all this things everything worktout well thanks mate ❤
Yeah man great video. This works especially with bubbly and sensitive women for sure. Tone of voice and atmosphere plays major role depending on her personality...
This was the best message I've received in a long time. I needed this right now and what you said is exactly what I needed for my relationship. Casey thank you very much.
A great example of this in a movie is Uncut Gems. Julia Fox's character in that movie was a RYDER. I fell in love. He was always giving her little assignments, and not only that, but she was actively thinking of ways to contribute. She was fully on board for his program.
That ending was hilarious bro. She’s happy to give you the remote half the time” so true 🤣🙏🏻 my girl will make a complaint at first then come back with the remote with a little smile. Crazy😂😂
The other issue is find personaly is why get help for something I can do myself in half the time or more efficiently/to my liking?? Takes me back to that old saying can’t find good help these days.. 🤷🏾♂️
I advise all you to visit an Italian family and watch the dynamic of the Husband and wife! Then you'll understand how a women needs to be treated and feel loved.
This is why many women fall for their bosses/managers. I myself have been in this kind of relationship and several of my friends as well. And they usually are long lasting
So,no we would be irrational to expect men to GIVE UP their masculinity.That's ridiculous!!Only to simply CHANGE how men carry their masculinity.The key here is a HEALTHY BALANCE.
One of your better videos. I imagine its because she's hard wired to please the man to get on his good side. So when she pleases him then it psychologically makes her feel good. On the other hand, once she gains tenure in the relationship, over time, this phenomenon will likely, unfortunately, dissipate, and should have been mentioned.
That's why secretaries often fall for their bosses, nurses for the doctors they work with, etc...
Yes thats a serious problem
Dont even get me started with the nurses! 🤮
noted sir
wow thats crazy, i just took that in.
Do you have any story?@@bobbyscalchi4013
I wish I knew this earlier…
A woman was wanting to help me, getting upset I wouldn’t let her, was wanting to bring me food.
Instead I pushed her out when I should’ve been doing opposite 🤦♂️
We've all been there bro I was like that with me ex lol. Better that you learned it now!
Why are you upset? That means you rejected her, you won. You showed you didn’t want her. She’s the loser here. Why are you complaining when she’s done that to tons of guys herself? Now she gets a taste of her own medicine
@@marcusmcgraw3519 this is who you dont want to turn into
"A man lives through his work. A woman lives through a man living his work." -- William Yeats, Irish poet.
He did not quote this
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. [Genesis 2:18]
William does indeed YEET!
@@somedude5951 Exactly where my mind went.
"Her natural desire is to take on his desires" this principal subtly manifests in a womans subconcious mirroring beahaviour when she finds herself attracted to a man.
Masculinity leads.
Femininity nurtures.
Lead and assist with dignity and grace.
A woman will change support for football team and even change support to opposite political party she supported before for her new man I’ve seen this a dozen times
Yup, that's yet another reason for men to become strong so that politics doesn't get this out of hand
Facts!!!! They WANT to be in the man’s shadow
Just imagine, they're voting.
1 man with 50 women: he stays the same mostly
1woman with 50 guys: she can change 50 times
Which is why it's haram for a Muslim woman to marry a non Muslim but a Muslim man can marry a non Muslim.
The more you value her, the more she'll take you for granted.
I disagree. Maybe with Western women yes but with Asian women the dynamic is naturally different.
Are you implying that behavior like this equates to you not valuing her tho? Because this is how women feel valued.
The sad part is as much as I don’t want to agree with this my experience tells me it is 100% true, not 99% true but 100% true
@@Something-tz2vwSo what do you mean? The more you value Asian women the more they like you?...Stop the Cap.
@@Something-tz2vw, it's a myth.
Bro… this is literally life changing, texted this girl I’m dealing with “Need fuel this weekend start thinking bout wha 2 cook” & she responded SUPER Feminine, the stuff Casey teaches really works
now best is to cashapp her 50 bucks so she can go grocery shopping.
@@amandaburleson2035yes, you men are getting it! This is seriously good advice and that demonstrates provider mentality
@@amandaburleson2035tf you on? She paying with her own money. And after that daddy will get head and a massage. Only thing she gets is a „good job“ and a kiss.
@@amandaburleson2035 that is a horrible suggestion. When she buys it she is literally investing into him.
This is one of your best videos imo.
This is how "selfish behavior" in a man allows a woman to fit into her feminine and be happy. Truly.
one of his better videos indeed....
agreed
Concur
Agreed
There are exceptions, some women are dominating, and some men are masochistic, but in general, there’s definitely a masculine, feminine dynamic, which we have tried to scrub away as a society, but it’s still there
This is why dating single moms is out of the question
Facts
I'm dating a single mom and what do you know, she's the most feminine girl I've ever dated 🤪
why?
Because essentially their child is the one they are feminine for
you not are a priority, their child is. @@timothyn4699
I literally have two girls that do all this for me unconditionally because they essentially know deep down they can never have me. I did not commit to either, nor do I plan to. Everything this guy is saying is true. It’s all about internal strength of a man.
Do you sleep with them alternately? Man I’m interested in this topic, so you basically stay “single” without committing exclusively , but I suppose that when you date them you also bang them, or am I wrong?
Same here. I have two girls who live with me doing this in every way possible.
Front and back end game are very different if you just want to play games for the rest of your life and keep doing what you’re doing but sooner than later when you want a mother for your children you’re going to have zero experience in back endgame, I humbly advise you to play your chances and get hurt now so you don’t have to when you’re 50
@@ElearningDigest and when they meet, you'll be like poor ol' Muammar Ghaddafi at the end
@@mtlicq They have already met. We all sleep in the same bed.
00:03 A woman feels unloved if she doesn't serve or please you.
02:14 Women need to feel actively assisted and led in a relationship.
04:09 Women feel valued by serving and pleasing the man they love.
06:10 Actively find things for her to do to create emotional dynamic
08:15 Allowing the woman to help with basic household activities leads to a deeper connection.
10:07 Leading and directing activities makes her feel feminine
12:02 Making a woman feel feminine by involving her in daily tasks
13:55 A woman feels loved when she serves and pleases you.
15:58 A woman feels loved when she serves and pleases you.
17:47 A woman feels unloved if she doesn't serve or please you
Married 24 years and this is 100% accurate … my wife is from Argentina and I met her I realized right away it made her happy to do things for me … and make her feel appreciated afterwards and she’ll be the happiest lil girl you’ve ever seen.
“I will make a help meet for you…”, (Genesis 2:18, KJV).
If she cannot Please you it's her not you.
Exactly. Most women ARE HELLA INSECURE BRO. IT’s a modern society thing that stems from generation and generation
@@DragonwaveOG Big Facts
If she cannot please you, it’s YOU. You as a man must know what you want in order to lead a women. If she’s not pleasing you thats your fault because you don’t know wtf you want from her. How can she please you if you don’t even know what pleases you?
@@kingdee5388 tell me you're A SIMP without telling me you're a SIMP!!
@@DragonwaveOG that's why MGTOW is the best move these Modern women are delusional.
As Vegeta says: Servent women! Bring me a drying cloth at once!
😂😂😂😂
Oooh yeah Vegeta is a very good role model I tell you😂😂
🤣😂
@@GervazioKaminga well that servent women ended up marrying Vegeta, so he is a good role model 😂
MBT and CASEY RUclips videos are 100% REAL yesterday before taking a woman I’m seeing too a coffee shop I took her too the car wash and after washing my truck she was helping me vacuum without me asking, later that night she said she loved me for the first time
i hope you replied with " i know you do " then a wink
Whenever i see caseys videos tittled like this one all it does is remind me of what i had for
Most of the 20yrs we were together she was always doing things for me id wear the same shirt 2 days in a row . Because she'd wash and hang up clothes before bed she was sweet and kind to me. Would feed my friend's helped me raise my daughter
If you have a woman like this gentleman take these words as a reminder to step outside your awesome situation every now and then to make sure youre not fucking it up
She divorced me 3 yrs ago and im just now getting to where my life isnt dogshit
When you fuck up a blessing such as i had it costs an unmeasurable amount of everything
Thank You Casey, you’ve opened up my eyes to things I denied myself and once it was my belief and tradition. West is fucked. If you are reading this and you are a father Protect your sons from the coming up 304s.
Great video man, I did this with a girl subconsciously and always wondered why does she like me so much. It’s cuz I was unknowingly doing the things and now it makes perfect sense. This is lowkey the best channel for dating advices for men.
I swear to god i watched this video, sent my girlfriend a text for a pretty big favour and she replied "of course ill do that!". Ten minutes later she sends me a printscreen of some horoscope shit of how compatable we are. On god Casey youre a fucking legend.
😂nice
Lmaooo
IT MAKES SOOO MUCH SENSE! it explains a lot of the stories women have told me of men they have dated long term...However, those men unfortunately were bums. Thank you Casey
Big fat smile on my face buddy! I've needed this kind of knowledge for some time...
*FRAME*
I'm a king and she's happy to serve me.
Didn't work so well i even said i need YOU to drill out those broken exhaust manifold bolts. Either she hates me or chevys
I need you to re-shingle this roof
@@timothyn4699Hey babe I need you to open this jar
Bad ass! 😂
😂😂
You need to start even smaller bro.
Like heal cancer, stop wars or hunger
Go girl 😂
My woman feeds me and is always on point with my favorite beverage. Thumbs up this time, despite the wife-beater/throw pillow vibe.
This explains A LOT. She loves doing stuff for me. I also like to do things for her, but it's better if I do the handyman/ mechanic type of chores
thats the spirit
that's stacking a bunch of psychological tricks
(we tend to like more people that we do stuff for because we wouldn't be doing it if we didn't like them)
hypergamy (wouldn't be listening to anyone that isn't higher in hierarchy/better than her, so if she is listening then she assumes he's better than her)
after long time of having A people tend to crave Z (men want peace and quiet after whole day at work, women want to be useful after years of "just be pretty"...or geek youtubers now want to be fighters etc )
sunk cost fallacy (the more she invested the more she will keep investing, and any sort for female "investment" is huge considering their passive nature to just "show up" and get picked)
Elite comment
@@killbill95100 Elite 🤣🤣🤣
@@mtlicq3r337 ELiTe
A classic: confusion between cause and effect
It’s easy when you give and nothing coming in return. Just turn around and move on😉
this is the high value content no other youtuber will give you. Awesome
A helping role is a woman's God given purpose "And the Lord God looked at Adam and said, it is not good that the man should be alone, I will make a help mete for him ". Another great video Casey👍👍!
You so right bro!!!
I’m constantly asking my gals , which ever one is over for the weekend ,to do small things for me!
This is something I figured out for myself…
It works ,and they always happy when I reach out to them to hang out for the weekend 👍
this really is the cherry ontop for my game/relationship work. Awesome video Casey, dropping such undervalued truth bombs
facts feels like i have all the pieces to this game now
the most important video I've seen for how to maintain a longterm relationship with a woman.
It's all about balance. Don't care enough and she gonna leave you. Care too much u will smother her.
Nah no matter what you do shé will never be happy or content
@@UnknownRED333 that’s why you need other women wanting you so she can stay loyal. Nothing makes a woman stay loyal except a man has a lot of options especially if the man is the best man she ever has. If a man is the best man a woman has but he doesn’t have any options her happiness will soon fade away and possibly leaving him because other women aren’t checking for him, in other words she sees a man with options that has value by looking at the amount of women wanting her man, because she knows once she leaves he’ll get another one immediately afterwards.
The only real relationship guru out here
Dr. Orion Taraban too.
@@mtlicqSeconded
Rom Wills
I once promised a girl I would treat her to the best scones in town. But when I arrived to pick her up she was baking scones herself. Terrible scones but it was clear that she would rather put in effort herself than being 'courted'.
you found gem
This is a very important topic that isn't talked enough. Casey explains it the best too.
Women love being told what to do, she’ll tell you different
Facts. My girlfriend is Thai and lives in a different city but she allways comes to my place. I never go to hers. She usually brings me food and gives me massages almost every time. We would call that unfair but women don't see it that way and she's allways happy to see me 😊
that's actually amazing, and makes a lot of sense. too bad i did not knew this channel while i was still married
Best thing to do when you’ve guys been seeing eachother for a couple weeks is ask her to massage you. That’s literally peak nurturing and femininity
When i hear Casey starting the intros with "This will make a lot of people uncomfortable but i dont really care"
I know its going to hit different,,, for sure
Dr Casey, fukin genius!
What a wise man you are Casey, keep it up, really helping here
The women I’ve been seeing for less than a month literally went and cleaned my 3600square ft house I’m remodeling when I was at work with just me saying I wish I had more help 🤔 this literally was happening when this video was posted
You are a genius! You're connecting missing links especially with things that really confuse us about how God attended for things to be.
I hope you see this comment Casey
If a man asks a woman for help she would think that he is dependent on me and that could decrease the man's SMV and she will end up leaving her.
I lost a girl before doing this . Said she felt like my mum having her do stuff for me ! 😂
Be happy. If she says that, then she's not the right girl for you anyway. Or she did not respect you in the first place
@@Kennymacdougall Reality is a lot of women look at it this way. This worked once upon a time, but this will not work for a good portion of women these days. This will be a huge turn of to any women with a fairly large level of independence which is a lot of them.
@@yourfoodforthought I don't know which women you are referring to and how you draw those conclusions but for me this has always worked, even with feminists. They are the most obedient of them all.
@@yourfoodforthought nah this only doesn't work if she is completely broken.
If you are not leading her by taking her out, paying bills, protecting her etc and simply giving her cute little task she wont hit her feminine side, and just won't take it.
Also understand if she is no longer interested in doing things for you then she is losing love and interest in you
She is possibly now doing these things for someone else
My girl recently went with me to a metal concert and I was surprised that she enjoyed it
This does sound wild because i hate it when they do that....now that would create a double standard because then i would just be telling her to do things and me never wanting to cater to her and her neediness. Lol
Casey, I needed to hear this. THANK YOU!!
Men this is so crazy im litirally doing this stuff what you talking about and it works 100% since i startet watching your videos and aply all this things everything worktout well thanks mate ❤
Yeah man great video. This works especially with bubbly and sensitive women for sure. Tone of voice and atmosphere plays major role depending on her personality...
This makes perfect sense. God created Eve to serve and ASSIST Adam.
Solid gold. I'm experiencing this now
This was the best message I've received in a long time. I needed this right now and what you said is exactly what I needed for my relationship. Casey thank you very much.
Yea fr if my guy friends weren’t putting out after I bought dinner I’d be pissed😂
Huge pits brother in Christ 🤍👑
A great example of this in a movie is Uncut Gems. Julia Fox's character in that movie was a RYDER. I fell in love. He was always giving her little assignments, and not only that, but she was actively thinking of ways to contribute. She was fully on board for his program.
This makes sense unless she already hates doing anything for you
This is one of the most revelling videos I have watched in this channel, really mind blowing...
That ending was hilarious bro. She’s happy to give you the remote half the time” so true 🤣🙏🏻 my girl will make a complaint at first then come back with the remote with a little smile. Crazy😂😂
This dude is firing on all Cylinders. Great content my G.
The other issue is find personaly is why get help for something I can do myself in half the time or more efficiently/to my liking?? Takes me back to that old saying can’t find good help these days.. 🤷🏾♂️
This video from my boy, Casey Zander, is pure GOLD ! 🔥
Book of Genesis: God says, "It is not good that man should be alone. I will make an help-meet for him."
1:40 assisting you
5:05 again
9:40 the same way you would feel masculine
10:35 I NEED I NEED
12:50 i want YOU to do that, feels special
Great message Casey. A unique perspective that I’ve never contemplated before.
I advise all you to visit an Italian family and watch the dynamic of the Husband and wife! Then you'll understand how a women needs to be treated and feel loved.
This is why many women fall for their bosses/managers. I myself have been in this kind of relationship and several of my friends as well. And they usually are long lasting
As a lady, I approve these messages.😁
White Chocolate spitting bars! AMS level.🔥🔥🔥
AMS is a loud mouthed loser. More like beta male strategies
Amazing content literally experienced the last example last night couldn't agree more
So,no we would be irrational to expect men to GIVE UP their masculinity.That's ridiculous!!Only to simply CHANGE how men carry their masculinity.The key here is a HEALTHY BALANCE.
I'm the type of man that wants to express my love and gratitude toward her; however, this has shifted my paradigm
This literally changed my life
This is a masterpiece. I am going to write it down .
Damn this makes total sense😂🔥🔥
This kind of explains some things that I did wrong with my ex . Thanks Casey I’m gonna do better next time
Great question here- how successful is your own dating life?
You think I should mention to the girl I'm dating that telling me "I'll call you later" and not doing it is wrong and correct her in a good manner?
This is gold man, gold!!
My friend “Willow” said you’re wrong! She said this while untangling the knots of her armpit hair.
😂😂😂😂😂
Shave them pits patchoulli tits! Said that to mine and she was bare wooden floor!
you are the best ..i feel you are as real friend ..thank you bro
Bro good video it’s good to know there is a way to get in there mind. I kind of thought that was just not possible thanks Casey.
This some real GAME right here !!!!!!
One of your better videos.
I imagine its because she's hard wired to please the man to get on his good side. So when she pleases him then it psychologically makes her feel good. On the other hand, once she gains tenure in the relationship, over time, this phenomenon will likely, unfortunately, dissipate, and should have been mentioned.
He actually gave this priceless information for free????????
FIRE
u made so many things make sense right now
Selfishness desires more selfishness and fools chase even bigger fools.
True Bro ...
In Casey we trust
This here is 1000% factual frm my experience
Uncle Casey with the new background
Going through some of this now.. thanks for the tips!!!!
Casey.. man. love you 🤣 you hit it every time👌🏼
Great video casey
Incredible video, opened my eyes
The pizza to go sauce actually broke me 😂 really drives your point home