They're much more reliable than men. Because most of those behaviours are instinctive, they cannot help them. It's up to the man to be above it and understand. We should be happy we have that power. If she cheats on you and dumps you, I realize now, it's 99.9% my fault: either for having not understand what she really wants, or for not having exited when she clearly wasn't behaving right in the first place. ALL encounters I can think of, I can spot my mistakes and the effect. In some cases, women are literally crying that they can't be attracted to you anymore because you did one of those mistakes. They can't help losing that sexual attraction.
My best friend just went through a breakup. This girl was infatuated with him when they first met, cause he wasn’t giving her any of his time or attention. Then they started dating, he cried in front of her, they spent all their time together, and he said he’d always be there for her. She dumped him within a few months of dating
you always be there for her after you are married like 5 years not 2 weeks. Being there for her after 2-3 weeks looks suspicious. No wonder women dumps the guy. It doesnt make sense.
When you do the right things, she TELLS you you're a jerk but STAYS with you. When you do the wrong things, she TELLS you that you're such a GREAT GUY/NICE GUY, but LEAVES you.
Subconscious attraction mechanisms, wired for safety and reproduction disguised as love, nothing wrong with it and has served a purpose. Love it or leave it. Or become aware, follow god and intuition.
@@dayneminThey say Hollywood has repeatedly shown the false narratives and imitations of love. While that’s true, I’ve also seen films that demonstrate what Casey’s been talking about. There are content creators who’ve finally articulated and explained how and why they work, but I found that Casey has explained it best. Like bad boys
Lol hes just farming your stupidity. He denies that long term relationships are even possible, and that you can only date women. However there are many cases of marriages and relationships working. Notice how he never actually is in a relationship and doesnt have kids. Tell us how to have a family instead of how to be a degenerate, try that.
Glad he touched on the part about women dont need to know much about you,they will give it up to you aslong as they like your vibe,energy,and feel comfortable with you.Knowing to much isn’t stimulating
@@moheganson dont let it throw you off guard is the best thing to do,personally ive done that in the past when i dont expect a girl to be so fascinated/interested/attracted to me.Play it cool.I like to kind of lean in ,tilt my head up and maintain eye contact to listen to what they’re saying.Keep it light!if anything is to come out your mouth.
As an older guy myself this is spot-on. Everything women ask for is a test to see if the man will bend. They legitimately want "it," but they don't want
For a guy under 30 man you have the knowledge and maturity of a guy twice your age. I wish this shit was around when i was in my 20s and 30s instead we had all the psycho babble bs about getting in touch with feelings and showing your emotions. I ALWAYS knew it was bs but unfortunately played along. You know how that turned out. Oh well better LATE than never
How old are you now and what will save us younger ones? Every time I get with a girl the same shit happens, I commit, treat her with respect, buy her gifts and then she dries up, goes cold on me and either she leaves or I leave
yeah, we were. but the cool thing is, if you can manage to (and it's not easy) BLEND the two? - you hit that PERFECT level of "toxic-I want to love&fuckhimforever-ity" ...eye. why. kay. ...why. fkn. kay.
No, he hasn‘t! He‘s using the BS he learnt in his limited experience with women and sells it as „truth“, which is dangerous enough. Follow his advice and you know how to navigate toxic women and toxic relationships - good luck in your miserable lives!
This is something I've been feeling deep down for a very long time but never could quite put into words. This doesn't just apply to women. Men feel suffocated and smothered by a relationship that becomes comfortable and familiar too quickly as well.
woman hate happy dudes. i have a pretty awesome life and enjoy my job and i noticed when i would go on dates with a big smile in a good mood id never get laid or get that chick to want another date and as soon as i started coming across as more strict not trying to laugh not showing how happy iam being more cold i get laid right away and they want to keep seeing me. i can say stuff that will make them laugh and keep them in a good mood but while staying slightly cold and stern
no. You're probably incel who looks happy that get his first date so women are disgusted by you. If you had friends, male friends and looked happy, that would be another story. If your purpose to get laid, anyone can do that lol. Enjoy having a healthy relationship acting like a stone cold. Women will dump your ass.
@@jeansollot6419actually it's exhilarating once you get used to it. My wife loves me more than ever. And other women are attracted to me like a magnet
makes a lot of sense, there are things that I do as a man from a logical standpoint, and when I try these logical things with women the outcome is not the best, but when I start trying illogical things with women I get a much better response
The only way to have them like you more is to do as Casey says. Most guys think that they’ll get the girl and that’s it. But women will try to change you to test if you’re emotionally strong enough.. that’s what Casey is talking about
You make a good point. I’ve always drawn women that are more intense and like me much more than I like them. Then all the ones I’m Gaga over never liked me the same
I had a girl chasing me for about 7 months while i gave her just the right amount of attention, because i just wanted to keep her as a friend. Next thing i know she hit me up and asks do have a drink, during this she says “this is a date, right?” I’m like sure. And then bam only thing i can think about is her and i blew it again.
A woman falls in love with the feelings produced by her own individual ideas and perception of a man..... This is why her love is fickle and fleeting..... If anything changes her ideas and perception of a man, that will also change her feelings for that man.
Damn if this isn't the truth. Just be the dude she measures all dudes in her head with and leave her when The time is necessary. You will be her post wall reflection
5:35 dont say to a woman "i want to build with you", no matter what it is. ANYTHING long term with a woman, IT MUST BE COMING FROM HER FIRST. Once YOU do that, it signals to her weakness, no options and then you are not a prize to her. She MUST FEEL that she GOT you over from you deciding to no longer go solo plus to "win" you away from other female options. MUST. This dynamic must ALWAYS REMAIN, once it breaks she WILL LEAVE. ANY sign of WEAKNESS to a woman, is weakness and she takes that as inability to PROTECT.
Thank you Casey, you clear my mind about relationships with women. Now I understand better and know myself deeper. If it’s not for you, I wouldn’t know myself and be lost. SO THANK YOU!!
Us guys who have a lot of experience with dating many woman figure this stuff out the hard way. You younger guys who haven't been completely kicked in the nuts by a girl will find out the fuckery that goes on eventually. Then you can join the dark side with us. The dark side is cold and unforgiving.....but its a hell of a lot better than living in the illusion of "true love" "fairytales" and "Happily ever after" that most simps and modern woman believe to their core .
@@alexleggett6270 you feel better and start to see the shit as comical when u realize all the bullshit was just in your own head and conditioned to believe it but reality is how can you form a permanent connection with someone who who cant even make up their mind up what to eat or dress to wear on certain day 😂😂😂😂😂
BPD men are also included here, anyone with an arrested development really, women are obviously in there; probably anyone who grew up with a single mother.
When someone says a typical character trait of a woman i find i can always add 'like a child' on the end of it. Womens emotional intelligence rarely goes beyond a 18 year old.
This is similar to getting a girl back after you screwed up. Shower her with attempts, apologies, attention. Train her like show up every Tuesday & Thursday, or call her every Monday Wednesday Friday on a schedule. No matter what she says, her rejection is welcome, around the 3rd week go ghost. What or who do you think she is going to be looking for on that 3rd Monday & Tuesday? You or your call. Your next move is show up fresh like no other, like her bff job or somewhere you know someone she knows will see you. Talk about and ask about everything & everyone but her.
bro this man was sent by God to protect men from themselves. For those of you familiar with KAKA a famous soccer player in his era a millionaire his wife wrote a message and she literally said the words « he was too perfect for me i felt something was missing ! » if millionaires can’t keep them with money and cooking food for her and adoring her you think you can? with a 9-5? anyhow am glad i found this man at a younger age and it changed my entire life!
1:42 and this why women are so attached to men who DON'T ANSWER HER CALL, "forget" to call back, doesn't give her straight direct reassuring answers... especially to her insecurities about how he feels. But she gets hope every now and then when he "give her crumbs", then he pulls back (if she EVER do a pull back before you do, YOU LOSING BIG TIME). Back in the days this was famously called "push pull" and it worked and it STILL works today.
That only works so long. If the woman really wants a future with you she will get tired of waiting and you will look back and kick yourself in the balls for letting a good one go you need Dissermont in this situation tread those waters lightly
Gawd dayumn CZ you are jacked AF! looking great brother, u are the father we needed bro you are the realest in the game, much love from the Netherlands❤💪🏾
i think he talked about this in one his 1000 videos. Dont know which video to be honest.The dating one is when they pull back and wait to see if you reach out.
I always played hard to get because, common knowledge. The girls that were into me, were really there for me. Then I would think I was in love. Dedicate to her and say lovy dovy stuff. Dumped within 2 months.
They only see men as a retirement plan. A resource to be extracted. Living with them is like doing time for a crime you didn’t commit. Living with them definitely takes the fear out of dying. You can either love them or understand them, it cannot be both. It’s only once when you truly understand them, you will never love nor be in any kind of relationship with them ever. It is what it is. Stay safe fellas. Enter at own Risk ☠
This is always great advice for dating outside of church because church freaks still respect the sanctity of love 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊 thanks Chase I get it now!
Casey you are wise well beyond your years when it comes to this shit. Honestly wish I would have started listening to you years ago. Not trying to stroke your ego whatsoever but preach it man!
is it just me who noticed that all of Casey Zander's content is just saying "focus on yourself and don't give a fuck about her" with diferrent titles on the videos?
Casey I have something to add, we should understand and be okay with having feelings for a woman and we should love her but we shouldn't express it openly, every now and then but not all the time though. Instead of saying I Iove you, just say I like you or if she asks about how you feel just say you're a really cool girl to me and only show love in the honey moon faze then slowly let it go after that it works for me then they are left thinking of the love they once shared with you. Essentially speaking breaking her heart, in order to do that you have to show love from the start, then slowly pull away and be distant that works most of the time to make a woman fall in love, but it rarely ever works to keep her around, I've noticed the best way to keep her around is to be cold and not show emotions she may not have feelings for you that way but she has respect, women hardly ever stay with guys there emotions go heavy over because they are always nervous around those types of guys and if she isn't comfortable with a man then she isn't sticking around very long. So if your wanting her to fall in love you have to make her emotional for you and make her nervous at all times in your presence and the only way to do that is to be romantic with her and show love to her and then break her heart by becoming distant with her and saying things that make all of her emotions go wild make her happy one minute angry the next. The best way to keep her around is by being distant and not showing alot of affection towards her just treating her normally and pulling away every now and then. But rarely do girls ever stay with guys that they have huge feelings for.
Decided to take the lady I'm seeing to the beach this weekend for her to throw a wrench in the plot at the end of the trip saying she doesn't like my music, and dislikes my word choices. I was ready to call it off, thinking I blew things. Didn't say anything after the trip, then she texts me saying she had a good time and wish she was better at explaining herself. I see this as matching up with Casey's logic behind women. I didn't give in when she criticized me and held my ground while being diplomatic if you would. I still haven't responded, I'm assuming this is her being emotionally invested to some extent..if not I'm sol... hahaha
when I was in my 20ies I didn't have a clue back then. I dated wrong women and I didn't know why. Only in my 30ies I began to understand how the relationship works between men and women. What the red flags are and the green flags.
Been through both extremes of the spectrum, blue to red. It’s still insane to me that the optimal relationship is the one where the woman is constantly complaining and using her sex to corrupt and dismantle you…
Oh and for those with kids in the mix, be careful when dealing with narcs. The one I am working my way away from has three of her cousin’s kids and managed to Hijack their survivor benefits. 😢
Guess I shouldn't be surprised that most of the women who were interested in dating me didn't have that much in common with me. Shallow, small talk conversations mostly. There were exceptions, but often times they didn't share the same beliefs or values as me. One woman who I was into a few years ago, I felt she should be giving me a chance because we had similar beliefs, values and interests. We even looked like we could be a good couple. But she was more into this guy who used her for sex, made her watch anime with him against her wishes, and other things that really bothered her. And he even showed interest in another girl, but she was determined to keep a relationship going with that ex after breaking up twice. She even threatened to kill herself then lie about being pregnant to get him to come back. Even after refusing the advice from me, friends and family to stay away from him, she couldn't help herself. I kept trying to get her to give me a chance, but eventually I tried moving on to other woman who were clearly more interested in me. I watch reaction videos of several married couples who react to movies, tv shows and anime I like. They appear to have a great time, great chemistry, have thoughtful conversations discussing what they just watched. Is it so unrealistic to want a woman who shares much of the same things as I do? I would like a girlfriend/wife similar to these reactors who just appear to be a lot of fun to watch what I like to watch and talk about what we watched like they do.
a man will have understanding when he knows you will never be loved how you love one good thing about this info. is you can guarantee she will leave you once you care about her, use this to your advantage
I just recently broke up with my narc ex fiancé glad that didn’t occur! At this moment I am unable to move out but having to live with her now is going to be stupid. She said she wants me on the couch. Fuck that I am as much entitled to sleep on the bed as much as she.
If she has nothing to complain about, change or fix, no challenge in you to overcome, she will get bored, and the most unreliable woman to be with is the one whose feelings you no longer command.
It seems you only create content for attracting girls.. but never once in the relationship and building and maintaining a long lasting relationship/marriage. Maybe you can create some content for that too? Would be nice to have that balance on your channel. Appreciate all the great content so far!
Casey you are talking about a particular type of girl here! The good looking dollybird type that’s used to getting her own way. You don’t need to play all these games and be on your guard with the right woman. Yea it helps if she knows you have choices but apart from that you can be yourself
Dated different types of girls and this is actually true. Have even seen female friends who are 4s or 5s pull these types of stunts on their dudes as well. He’s definitely on to something.
I dated super intelectual, philosophical, apparently rational, emotional, deep and sensitive women. Who liked all sorts of complex, underground music, books and movies, just like me. It doesn't matter. When time comes, IT'S EXACTLY the same as the dollybird type.
Ive often times found, your instinct as a man, the things youve been programmed to believe, if you do the complete opposite, you will see far better results.
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They're much more reliable than men. Because most of those behaviours are instinctive, they cannot help them. It's up to the man to be above it and understand. We should be happy we have that power. If she cheats on you and dumps you, I realize now, it's 99.9% my fault: either for having not understand what she really wants, or for not having exited when she clearly wasn't behaving right in the first place. ALL encounters I can think of, I can spot my mistakes and the effect. In some cases, women are literally crying that they can't be attracted to you anymore because you did one of those mistakes. They can't help losing that sexual attraction.
My best friend just went through a breakup. This girl was infatuated with him when they first met, cause he wasn’t giving her any of his time or attention. Then they started dating, he cried in front of her, they spent all their time together, and he said he’d always be there for her. She dumped him within a few months of dating
Me too but it took a few years.
you always be there for her after you are married like 5 years not 2 weeks.
Being there for her after 2-3 weeks looks suspicious. No wonder women dumps the guy. It doesnt make sense.
@@theskateboardfancould you have turned it around?
Omg cried infront of her! She never come back now 🤦
You are conflating behaviours. sure they all stem from the same thing. Your friend is a piss week kid .
When you do the right things, she TELLS you you're a jerk but STAYS with you. When you do the wrong things, she TELLS you that you're such a GREAT GUY/NICE GUY, but LEAVES you.
Subconscious attraction mechanisms, wired for safety and reproduction disguised as love, nothing wrong with it and has served a purpose. Love it or leave it. Or become aware, follow god and intuition.
@@dayneminThey say Hollywood has repeatedly shown the false narratives and imitations of love. While that’s true, I’ve also seen films that demonstrate what Casey’s been talking about. There are content creators who’ve finally articulated and explained how and why they work, but I found that Casey has explained it best. Like bad boys
it’s the twilight zone
Yes I’ve been called rude just to be told weeks later ‘why haven’t you been calling me?’
And when you only watch videos like this you will stay a virgin for the rest of your life
thank god this man exists
Lol hes just farming your stupidity. He denies that long term relationships are even possible, and that you can only date women. However there are many cases of marriages and relationships working. Notice how he never actually is in a relationship and doesnt have kids. Tell us how to have a family instead of how to be a degenerate, try that.
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Nice g80 you shouldnt have a problem pulling
You wanna keep a woman, focus on you. You wanna lose a woman, focus on them
nice and simplified.
Pure wisdom. Thank you Casey.
Thank you. You are right, go by her actions, never believe her words.
Glad he touched on the part about women dont need to know much about you,they will give it up to you aslong as they like your vibe,energy,and feel comfortable with you.Knowing to much isn’t stimulating
Oh they certainly can TALK if they’re really into you. I just nod my head and listen for minutes on end and can’t even get a word in
@@moheganson dont let it throw you off guard is the best thing to do,personally ive done that in the past when i dont expect a girl to be so fascinated/interested/attracted to me.Play it cool.I like to kind of lean in ,tilt my head up and maintain eye contact to listen to what they’re saying.Keep it light!if anything is to come out your mouth.
This sort of mental load to communicate interest is not normal. Our generatiin is fucked
As an older guy myself this is spot-on. Everything women ask for is a test to see if the man will bend. They legitimately want "it," but they don't want
Spot on bro!
Interesting
The problem is getting funding for another gf if you have that you can have as much tail as you can afford. Women love power just don’t give them any.
A woman wants everything from you..... Except your genuine love and care.
Spot on
They only love the attention and validation and their real love is for their children. I’m an unhappy husband so I’m going through it
yo. this comment is wild, this gotta be a quote.
Sadly I can confirm that
She actually will PUNISH those men who give her love and care
Definitely overcoming challenges is a big part of building masculinity and gaining wisdom
For a guy under 30 man you have the knowledge and maturity of a guy twice your age. I wish this shit was around when i was in my 20s and 30s instead we had all the psycho babble bs about getting in touch with feelings and showing
your emotions. I ALWAYS knew it was bs but unfortunately played along. You know how that turned out. Oh well better LATE than never
Yip gen x was “brainwashed “ to believe shit
@@Exposemedia4uand older millennials
How old are you now and what will save us younger ones? Every time I get with a girl the same shit happens, I commit, treat her with respect, buy her gifts and then she dries up, goes cold on me and either she leaves or I leave
yeah, we were. but the cool thing is, if you can manage to (and it's not easy) BLEND the two? - you hit that PERFECT level of "toxic-I want to love&fuckhimforever-ity"
...eye. why. kay.
...why. fkn. kay.
No, he hasn‘t! He‘s using the BS he learnt in his limited experience with women and sells it as „truth“, which is dangerous enough. Follow his advice and you know how to navigate toxic women and toxic relationships - good luck in your miserable lives!
Man figured this all out in 2022, implemented in 2023 and never ever missed. Wish someone showed me a blueprint back in 2021.
Wish I had access to this in 2001
Same here, tried implementing some tips but kept changing my beliefs
Same here, I'm 52 and had my own small condo for decades but never get laid because I was so stupid. This info would have helped me greatly
genius.. "masculinity is built" ..overcoming hardship, and developing wisdom. exactly.. genius Casey
This is something I've been feeling deep down for a very long time but never could quite put into words. This doesn't just apply to women. Men feel suffocated and smothered by a relationship that becomes comfortable and familiar too quickly as well.
Depends
Marriage is suffocating
woman hate happy dudes. i have a pretty awesome life and enjoy my job and i noticed when i would go on dates with a big smile in a good mood id never get laid or get that chick to want another date and as soon as i started coming across as more strict not trying to laugh not showing how happy iam being more cold i get laid right away and they want to keep seeing me. i can say stuff that will make them laugh and keep them in a good mood but while staying slightly cold and stern
no. You're probably incel who looks happy that get his first date so women are disgusted by you. If you had friends, male friends and looked happy, that would be another story. If your purpose to get laid, anyone can do that lol.
Enjoy having a healthy relationship acting like a stone cold. Women will dump your ass.
You right mate
AMS talks about this
Because you’ve demonstrated the polarity between the masculine and the feminine.
the strong silent type. evolution wise stoicism is primal and predatory. imagine u in your most masculine mode like in war. u wouldnt be smiling
Do not lust over her and you will maintain your masculinity.
@@jeansollot6419 listing is sinful and feminine
You should always be on guard about your masculinity. That's why your on this channel you fool!
@@jeansollot6419 As corny and as frivolous as that sounds sweetheart, I don’t blame him for being so reserved.
So don't have sex with her
@@jeansollot6419actually it's exhilarating once you get used to it. My wife loves me more than ever. And other women are attracted to me like a magnet
makes a lot of sense, there are things that I do as a man from a logical standpoint, and when I try these logical things with women the outcome is not the best, but when I start trying illogical things with women I get a much better response
Breaking down the female matrix.
The most natural way to achieve this dynamic is by dealing with women that like you more than you necessarily like them.
The only way to have them like you more is to do as Casey says. Most guys think that they’ll get the girl and that’s it. But women will try to change you to test if you’re emotionally strong enough.. that’s what Casey is talking about
You make a good point. I’ve always drawn women that are more intense and like me much more than I like them. Then all the ones I’m Gaga over never liked me the same
So the fat and ugly ones? 😆
I had a girl chasing me for about 7 months while i gave her just the right amount of attention, because i just wanted to keep her as a friend. Next thing i know she hit me up and asks do have a drink, during this she says “this is a date, right?” I’m like sure. And then bam only thing i can think about is her and i blew it again.
A woman falls in love with the feelings produced by her own individual ideas and perception of a man..... This is why her love is fickle and fleeting..... If anything changes her ideas and perception of a man, that will also change her feelings for that man.
Bingo
This is why dont marry them. Their love is fickle. A woman canot love a man. Not really.
Damn if this isn't the truth. Just be the dude she measures all dudes in her head with and leave her when The time is necessary. You will be her post wall reflection
5:35 dont say to a woman "i want to build with you", no matter what it is. ANYTHING long term with a woman, IT MUST BE COMING FROM HER FIRST. Once YOU do that, it signals to her weakness, no options and then you are not a prize to her. She MUST FEEL that she GOT you over from you deciding to no longer go solo plus to "win" you away from other female options. MUST. This dynamic must ALWAYS REMAIN, once it breaks she WILL LEAVE. ANY sign of WEAKNESS to a woman, is weakness and she takes that as inability to PROTECT.
Casey Zander saved me a lot of dissapointment xD
@@jeansollot6419 these tips will only help us, some times you learn by others failed experiences
@@jeansollot6419 fr its hard to believe these harsh truths as well until you experience them yourself. no regrets tho
Thank you Casey, you clear my mind about relationships with women. Now I understand better and know myself deeper. If it’s not for you, I wouldn’t know myself and be lost. SO THANK YOU!!
Us guys who have a lot of experience with dating many woman figure this stuff out the hard way.
You younger guys who haven't been completely kicked in the nuts by a girl will find out the fuckery that goes on eventually. Then you can join the dark side with us. The dark side is cold and unforgiving.....but its a hell of a lot better than living in the illusion of "true love" "fairytales" and "Happily ever after" that most simps and modern woman believe to their core .
Be careful not to get swallowed by that darkness 🔥🚬
@@mat7083 Its like excersize...... It sucks as you are going through it....but you come out stronger and feeling better on the other side.
It doesn't feel bad, for me it's relief like "oh I don't have to worry about it"
Legend
@@alexleggett6270 you feel better and start to see the shit as comical when u realize all the bullshit was just in your own head and conditioned to believe it but reality is how can you form a permanent connection with someone who who cant even make up their mind up what to eat or dress to wear on certain day 😂😂😂😂😂
So they are like children. Got it.
They really are.
That’s simply it.. I don’t understand how they “mature” faster than men. Definitely isn’t emotional security
BPD men are also included here, anyone with an arrested development really, women are obviously in there; probably anyone who grew up with a single mother.
Don’t hate the players…
When someone says a typical character trait of a woman i find i can always add 'like a child' on the end of it.
Womens emotional intelligence rarely goes beyond a 18 year old.
This is similar to getting a girl back after you screwed up. Shower her with attempts, apologies, attention. Train her like show up every Tuesday & Thursday, or call her every Monday Wednesday Friday on a schedule.
No matter what she says, her rejection is welcome, around the 3rd week go ghost.
What or who do you think she is going to be looking for on that 3rd Monday & Tuesday? You or your call.
Your next move is show up fresh like no other, like her bff job or somewhere you know someone she knows will see you.
Talk about and ask about everything & everyone but her.
bro this man was sent by God to protect men from themselves. For those of you familiar with KAKA a famous soccer player in his era a millionaire his wife wrote a message and she literally said the words « he was too perfect for me i felt something was missing ! » if millionaires can’t keep them with money and cooking food for her and adoring her you think you can? with a 9-5? anyhow am glad i found this man at a younger age and it changed my entire life!
That story genuinely shocked me. Just proves everything Casey says
Salute from Brasil
Because it isn't about money and the rest of the things you mentioned
You’re the Goat Bro You’ve helped me so much Very much Appreciated ‼️❤️
Once she feels she has you, once she knows she can break your heart, once she knows you cant walk away. She will walk away
Great video Casey, and its hard to give a man props, but I am extremely impressed with you. I'm so sad that I'm almost 53 and just finally learning
1:42 and this why women are so attached to men who DON'T ANSWER HER CALL, "forget" to call back, doesn't give her straight direct reassuring answers... especially to her insecurities about how he feels. But she gets hope every now and then when he "give her crumbs", then he pulls back (if she EVER do a pull back before you do, YOU LOSING BIG TIME). Back in the days this was famously called "push pull" and it worked and it STILL works today.
That only works if a women has real interest in a man. In most cases if you do that they will move on to the next guy.
That only works so long. If the woman really wants a future with you she will get tired of waiting and you will look back and kick yourself in the balls for letting a good one go you need Dissermont in this situation tread those waters lightly
Gawd dayumn
CZ you are jacked AF! looking great brother, u are the father we needed bro you are the realest in the game, much love from the Netherlands❤💪🏾
"jacked AF!" LOOOOOL.
Soldaat je bent zeldzaam bro wees scherp sherp💯
These vids help with facing less disappointment
Yeah instead of drinking to excess I’ll watch one of these. Sometimes both tho 😂
@@mohegansonfacts but for me I smoke 😭
Masculinity is built while developing wisdom. 💯 Big Casey, talk your shit 🔥
extremely spot on and congruent with my experiences. anyone who refuses to believe what is being outlined here is in for a rude awakening
Nature gave you this power and you’re sharing this out of Responsibility. “ with great power comes great responsibility” well done sir. Well done.
I have been texting with a women for 3 weeks and she is spilling her love for me and I have just been having fun teasing her.
Thanks!
Make one on the tests women make when they’re in a relationship, VS the ones they make when they’re getting to know you.
@casey THIS THIS
He has
i think he talked about this in one his 1000 videos. Dont know which video to be honest.The dating one is when they pull back and wait to see if you reach out.
I always played hard to get because, common knowledge. The girls that were into me, were really there for me. Then I would think I was in love. Dedicate to her and say lovy dovy stuff. Dumped within 2 months.
Banger
You’ve been killing it as of late my dude!
My life is so insane that I don’t think I could have a stable relationship in the first place.
My man dropping straight fire facts as usual 💪
alot of hate from comments but you made it simple to the point and without ego 👍🏽
Good work Casey - you are taking work of Robert Greene, Machiavelli and Rollo TOMAISSI to next level
This is one of the best you've done, sir. Cheers!
Bro your vids are Gold
They only see men as a retirement plan. A resource to be extracted. Living with them is like doing time for a crime you didn’t commit. Living with them definitely takes the fear out of dying. You can either love them or understand them, it cannot be both. It’s only once when you truly understand them, you will never love nor be in any kind of relationship with them ever. It is what it is. Stay safe fellas. Enter at own Risk ☠
She will also always run back to this type of guy too, ALWAYS!
8:38 masculinity= value =Real Competence take time = older = wiser
This is always great advice for dating outside of church because church freaks still respect the sanctity of love 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊 thanks Chase I get it now!
honestly, this dude drops knowledge. if you're young, you should listen up.
its probably too late for any of this stuff to matter for me though.
Just curious, how old are you? I’m 35 and feel the same way.
@@juventinocasillas3023 just a bit older than you.
Also 35 and feel like I still have many years left in my prime,never too late I know guys who are 45+ still crushing it with women and life.
Have you felt like females have changed? Or is it just me?
Casey you are wise well beyond your years when it comes to this shit. Honestly wish I would have started listening to you years ago. Not trying to stroke your ego whatsoever but preach it man!
is it just me who noticed that all of Casey Zander's content is just saying "focus on yourself and don't give a fuck about her" with diferrent titles on the videos?
Boils down to down to that
Another banger! I’ve witnessed this numerous times.
Bingo! We're winning!
They enjoy polarity makes no sense but that's them...
Exactly
I don’t know about disrespect if u try to have a connection lol. Women usually don’t disrespect that often.
Afghanistan has the right idea
That's a classic patriarchal society. Patriarchs know a females real nature.
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Finally some are waking up
Bro was a woman in past life
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lol this was standard PUA talk back in the early 1990s
@@mgtow-balance3409 really?
@@mgtow-balance3409 What's PUA?
Women want fun but the only she will be truly can have that fun is if you’re having fun in your life.
casey you are amazing. thank you for your work . keep going
Casey I have something to add, we should understand and be okay with having feelings for a woman and we should love her but we shouldn't express it openly, every now and then but not all the time though. Instead of saying I Iove you, just say I like you or if she asks about how you feel just say you're a really cool girl to me and only show love in the honey moon faze then slowly let it go after that it works for me then they are left thinking of the love they once shared with you. Essentially speaking breaking her heart, in order to do that you have to show love from the start, then slowly pull away and be distant that works most of the time to make a woman fall in love, but it rarely ever works to keep her around, I've noticed the best way to keep her around is to be cold and not show emotions she may not have feelings for you that way but she has respect, women hardly ever stay with guys there emotions go heavy over because they are always nervous around those types of guys and if she isn't comfortable with a man then she isn't sticking around very long. So if your wanting her to fall in love you have to make her emotional for you and make her nervous at all times in your presence and the only way to do that is to be romantic with her and show love to her and then break her heart by becoming distant with her and saying things that make all of her emotions go wild make her happy one minute angry the next. The best way to keep her around is by being distant and not showing alot of affection towards her just treating her normally and pulling away every now and then. But rarely do girls ever stay with guys that they have huge feelings for.
I think you need to connect. Its a balance between attraction and connection. I lost a few women in the past due to not enough connection
Casey Top man as usual
Women accel in logic when it comes to manipulating men
So true
This video should be on your top 3
Love you man, you always speak some good shit. I need to keep hearing it to drill it into my skull.
You should teach in schools....boys and men need this information.
Decided to take the lady I'm seeing to the beach this weekend for her to throw a wrench in the plot at the end of the trip saying she doesn't like my music, and dislikes my word choices. I was ready to call it off, thinking I blew things. Didn't say anything after the trip, then she texts me saying she had a good time and wish she was better at explaining herself. I see this as matching up with Casey's logic behind women. I didn't give in when she criticized me and held my ground while being diplomatic if you would. I still haven't responded, I'm assuming this is her being emotionally invested to some extent..if not I'm sol... hahaha
when I was in my 20ies I didn't have a clue back then. I dated wrong women and I didn't know why. Only in my 30ies I began to understand how the relationship works between men and women. What the red flags are and the green flags.
Been through both extremes of the spectrum, blue to red. It’s still insane to me that the optimal relationship is the one where the woman is constantly complaining and using her sex to corrupt and dismantle you…
Oh and for those with kids in the mix, be careful when dealing with narcs. The one I am working my way away from has three of her cousin’s kids and managed to Hijack their survivor benefits. 😢
Guess I shouldn't be surprised that most of the women who were interested in dating me didn't have that much in common with me. Shallow, small talk conversations mostly. There were exceptions, but often times they didn't share the same beliefs or values as me.
One woman who I was into a few years ago, I felt she should be giving me a chance because we had similar beliefs, values and interests. We even looked like we could be a good couple. But she was more into this guy who used her for sex, made her watch anime with him against her wishes, and other things that really bothered her. And he even showed interest in another girl, but she was determined to keep a relationship going with that ex after breaking up twice. She even threatened to kill herself then lie about being pregnant to get him to come back. Even after refusing the advice from me, friends and family to stay away from him, she couldn't help herself. I kept trying to get her to give me a chance, but eventually I tried moving on to other woman who were clearly more interested in me.
I watch reaction videos of several married couples who react to movies, tv shows and anime I like. They appear to have a great time, great chemistry, have thoughtful conversations discussing what they just watched. Is it so unrealistic to want a woman who shares much of the same things as I do? I would like a girlfriend/wife similar to these reactors who just appear to be a lot of fun to watch what I like to watch and talk about what we watched like they do.
You are deceived
its 100% unrealistic, unfortunately. have to deal with it.
9:00 Thank you DEfender of MEN!
Another gem as always.
a man will have understanding when he knows you will never be loved how you love
one good thing about this info. is you can guarantee she will leave you once you care about her, use this to your advantage
I just recently broke up with my narc ex fiancé glad that didn’t occur! At this moment I am unable to move out but having to live with her now is going to be stupid. She said she wants me on the couch. Fuck that I am as much entitled to sleep on the bed as much as she.
Great as always, the Professor of this 💯
it worked ❤ Thanks Casey Love From India
Im in my mid 60s. Ive used much of Casey's advice in the past. However, i think woman in thier 60s want a man to fall in love with
Everything after 8:30 is gold gents,take it in.
If she has nothing to complain about, change or fix, no challenge in you to overcome, she will get bored, and the most unreliable woman to be with is the one whose feelings you no longer command.
Choose a woman that chooses u not one u need to chase or impress ! Thats the difference
Great content my bro 💎
It seems you only create content for attracting girls.. but never once in the relationship and building and maintaining a long lasting relationship/marriage. Maybe you can create some content for that too? Would be nice to have that balance on your channel. Appreciate all the great content so far!
You are always on point man!😊
Big brother Casey❤
Actually many of these points are true
Casey you are talking about a particular type of girl here! The good looking dollybird type that’s used to getting her own way. You don’t need to play all these games and be on your guard with the right woman. Yea it helps if she knows you have choices but apart from that you can be yourself
it's less blatant with other types of women but still there (& in some ways more difficult to deal with because you're not expecting it)
Dated different types of girls and this is actually true.
Have even seen female friends who are 4s or 5s pull these types of stunts on their dudes as well.
He’s definitely on to something.
I dated super intelectual, philosophical, apparently rational, emotional, deep and sensitive women. Who liked all sorts of complex, underground music, books and movies, just like me. It doesn't matter. When time comes, IT'S EXACTLY the same as the dollybird type.
@@Cyab22 Pure truth.
I agree. There’s a balance and I’ve had fun relationships where I never had to play games or be Beta nor Alpha
Married now with kid
can you make a video on how to properly give her validation when she does something for you or compliments you?
Ankther wonderful sermon from uncle C .. 💪🏾💪🏾🏆
Ive often times found, your instinct as a man, the things youve been programmed to believe, if you do the complete opposite, you will see far better results.
Thanks!
Always spot on.
"This could not be further from the truth"
with more knowledge she gets about you, doubt increases as to how true her fantasies were.
True King solomon had 1000 wives and david had 500 ,It makes sense
God, if I had at least 50 I wouldn’t be able to remember half of their names lol
Not just that, but also castrated male servants (actual simps) to maintain them. True king stuff.
@@ForceField9 the Guy had Good and Mines , Even Now he still had palaces named after Him, THATS WHAT WE GET WHEN MAN SEEK WISDOM OVER MONEY, most man nowadays would prefer money over WISDOM hence why they misarable and depressed always finding comfort on Alcohol
Yeah and Christians jealous Muslim has four wives 😂😂