WHEN to PROPERLY PULL BACK to maintain her attachment so she CHASES YOU when dating (advanced game)
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If she doesn't come back, she did you a favor.
Yo I be at this club pretty much every week why these 2 girls that have been cold literally stalked me all night or had their friends spy on me
Either she wasn’t interested or she doesn’t care to play the game. If you do this to the wrong woman you might lose someone unnecessarily. It’s a gamble
@@yourfoodforthoughtyep. This happened to me . But I think by doing this it’s revealed she didn’t care as much as she said . She chased me hard but I still had my suspicions which have been proven right .
@@damien4v3 always trust ur instincts
You stay alome
Anyone who disagrees has not experienced a pullback yet
amen
Varies on the women. Most women I’ve dated never pulled back on me once. The ones that did, did so for apparent reasons, others not so apparent. Nothing is one size fits all.
Bro I’m uncircumcised I pullback everyday when I psss excellence
I always thought it was just BPD, but now I realize it's just a woman acting naturally
@@yourfoodforthought did u dump them bcuz of how big of a pimp u are?
I did this. She lasted a day and a half... If she's chasing you, she isn't replacing you.
I did this . She’s lasted 5 weeks… and she was chasing me hard before and seemed very much invested . I’ve been on my purpose but I’m miffed as to why she hasn’t reached out . Maybe ive pulled back too many times and she’s given up . But I had to do it this long as there was certain things she was doing that put me off .
@@damien4v3She didn’t reach out or she did after 5 weeks?
@@MarceloHenriqueAlmeida still nothing . In my head I was pulling back for a bit no set time but maybe a week . Then after a week I realised she hasn’t messaged or called . So I carried on and it’s been 5 weeks. We were seeing each other for 4 months but just under a year ago she broke up with her ex of 7 years . So maybe it’s still too soon ? She had a few people she dated for a bit after and dumped because they come on too strong so I wasn’t the immediate rebound.
@@damien4v3 That’s odd. I don’t think you’re the problem. From what you’re telling me, perhaps her ex is back?
@@MarceloHenriqueAlmeida no he’s in a relationship with another woman. He broke up with her so she’s scared of getting hurt again I think and the reason she can be cold emotionally .
When she pulls back: “Congratulations, you played yourself”
Give her a quarter to put in her ass because she played herself 😊
Her pulling back first may lead to an actual breakup.
You pulling back first keeps the relationship intact.
💯
She’s gonna pull back “oh noooo one less headache in my life” lmao
@@Doidao-xx5vffacts , it don’t matter if you pull back or she does just know your worth and you’ll be solid regardless.
I pulled back and ended the relationship. The next day she called left a message I never returned the call
Nope. If you pull back from a woman that has a healthy state of mind and dislikes uncertainty and games she will dump you. This method only works on ppl that suffer from toxic instability and low self esteem.
Lmfao when he said it's the little things you used 15 words in a text message and you should of used 8. That's true AF
That's so true. I was guilty of writing so much, one long sentence. I forget I'm writing from a computer. What she sees on her cell phone as a thesis.
I finally made things much shorter. I hit the tab for every sentence. Short and to the point. Match and mirror them in every way.
Women want more of your time if they like you... however that often leads to comfort which KILLS desire. Most woman are not aware that comfort kills desire. Casey is correct to pull back as it will make her a little uncomfortable but her desire level will increase subconsciously.
Paradoxical
Women are overgrown, evil children.
@@thebradmarkschannel957 If I could sum up women in one word it would be indeed paradoxical
I'll say that I'm the same way like those woman though. The 2nd and 3rd sessions arent as good as that first nut. Sometimes Im already planning getting her the fuck out.
not only that... the best way to attract a woman you like, is showing her you have access to other women.
never fails.
The pullback game is real. Women are like cats. I had the body and career, but was missing this key ingredient in a 20 year relationship. The games never end my friends
💯 truth. Never does
She was attached to me for 10 years. The moment I started chasing her, she left
@@mmr0221 crazy how that works, been there never again, ever.
Don't like cats....i like dogs🎉🎉
@@mmr0221 like clockwork....called hypergamy..btw check it out
I always pullback after a great moment to leave her on a high…
hell yeah
Same. And the last message they received from me was at 11:11 lmao stay toxic. City boys we up.
Bro same hahaha ,
do you completely cut contact when you pullback or keep it minimal?
@@yktv_antt let her miss you or contact first
FYI...women are told to do this too by female dating coaches, soooo...looks like everyone will pull away and things will just go to shit
Well yea.. if men are playing these stupid games with good women they will start to walk away too 🤷🏻♀️
I thought the men are supposed to chase anyways 🤔
@@AshwiniMoon9irl who the hell knows anymore. Makes me just want to give up and start loving cats. Seems easier, lol
@@js77z Right! 🤷🏻♀️😆🐈⬛🐈
@@AshwiniMoon9irl I don't know why this showed up on my feed but a healthy woman doesn't want these games. I never did any of this with my man and he didn't do it to me... It was so easy and natural.
It is very scary to pull away your first few times and it will feel like you're doing something wrong. Happens to all of us. But stick it out and focus on filling your time with stuff you like to do and know you are fundamentally doing the right thing.
Exactly put! God bless you🙏🏾
Precisely. To successfully pull back, you really have to genuinely not care much about the relationship. This in turn means that you constantly have to be aware of "better options" and even that you have to be very aware of the girl's negative parts. You in a way have to convince yourself that the relationship is really not that important.
Yep
I found this to be so true as well. It feels wrong but it always works if you do it in the right amounts.
She won’t appreciate your presence if you don’t deprive her of it periodically.
Female dating coaches tell women this too though...so, yeah. Looks like everyone is just supposed to play games
@@js77zfemale women coaches suck and are the reason dating is harder, what type of idiot would advise a women to play hard to get with a high value man. Most women realize and ignore it, they would mostly play these games with a guy who is not as high value.
@@js77z A woman will get emotional and miss you when you pull back.
A man should be on his purpose and busy enough to not worry about her at all. Modern men get needy and push her away.
I’ve seen everything Casey teaches play out with woman like clock work. When you notice a woman starts going cold you pull back completely 5-10 days and they always come back because you showed you don’t NEED them so they WANT you more.
Best case you increase her desire for you, worst case you eliminate a woman that’s not that into you. A woman with high interest will eventually make contact first if she’s genuinely interested in you.
@@jmorefit1 lol, I guess that's why none of my relationships work out. When a guy pulls back, it's "see ya never!" For me! 🤣🤣🤣
@@js77zYeah, love and feelings in a relationship are not anymore natural spontaneous moves, they have become highly technical games to play and win.
Bro is dropping absolute gems recently
It’s always the ones we don’t like that falls in love with us and it’s always because we do this without knowing.
FACTS
😂
You: I cant stop thinking about you.
Her: 👻
lmaoooooooooooo 😆😆😆
Guys, the solution to dealing with the truth about women is so simple. Just seek out casual short-term flings and forget about marriage and long-term relationships - they lead to nothing but a lifetime of stress and misery.
Good
Sounds sad tbh
@@juli0511sad? You mean like all of the men in marriages who live every day fighting with their wives and getting no action?
Yeah, the truth about dealing with degenerate women. The truth for God fearing and good women is the total opposite.
@@juli0511That's life.
how do I find a girl who hasn't had the bioweapon injection? Needs to be a critical thinker.
this has to be dumber than girls refusing to date a guy below 6 foot
Lookup "Amish girls near me"
Good question! Nothing more of a turn off than a human lab rat who can’t think for themselves who doesn’t question anything
I have the same concern. Soon they will be lying saying they are PB. We gonna need more blood tests: one on the first date and another after she gets pregnant
@@somethinderpsteriousPB?
All of this works 100% if u just play your cards right, don't go extreme by ignoring her, just give it to her sparingly, what Casey is teaching here everything is sums up by this concept, "mind control".
Exactly. You can be fully present and make her feel great at times, but only sparingly and infrequently. The key is that she can't take your attention for granted.
I didn’t pull back first… She has started the mini breakup already after 1 year. Guess what..? I couldn’t care less. I’m just going to the gym everyday, just got a promotion, spending time with my family and hanging with my bros. She asked if we could hangout one night this week, I said I’m busy with work and will take a rain check. She didn’t like that
hell yeah bro. good shit
She had her chance king
See what happens when you get busy. They see this and it bothers them. So they reach out to you.
@@joeb5578 bro youre spot on. i had a girl wanna come over this weekend. fuck i had to haul ass to squeeze her in but it worked. she kept sayying "I missed you." And I would say "Why?" She had no response
Yeh because you beat her at her own game. They don’t like losing leverage Everything is a game with them because they think they’ll always have options. Idk you but I’m proud of you for not letting her drag you down to the point where your balls are on the floor. Most of them pride themselves on psychologically and emotionally pulling the strings of men and you denying her that power makes her feel worst. It’s crazy how making us feel like shii makes most of them feel proud of themselves. It’s like that’s the only time that they’re happy, when they could emotionally move you.
Met a girl at the club we hooked up 3 times. I pulled back told her I’m not looking for anything serious, she went to yapping. No contact for 2 weeks. Last night she FaceTimes me saying “ her friend dared her to call me and to hang up when I answer” chick was so hooked we stayed on the phone for 20 minutes. This the same chick 2 weeks ago was asking for a relationship now she wants me to “come over next Thursday & drink” 😂
"This is where the games begin"...never heard a more true statement about women.
when to pull back:
* 1. The woman takes a vested interest in the man's day (e.g. sends good morning texts or asks about his day)
* 2. The woman shares fluff or filler information about her day (e.g. sends texts about her activities or thoughts)
* 3. The woman makes an effort to please the man outside of the bedroom (e.g. does favors for him or brings him gifts)
Wow Master! Thanks!
💪🏻😎
This is like punishing good behavior. This does eventually run them off
@@CorbinB-Rax I'm confused.. I think you're right.
@@CorbinB-RaxI guess balance is key?
Female here. If a man pulls back and doesn't reciprocate when I do the things above, I will also lose interest thinking this man is too emotionally unavailable/withdrawn and just detach. Will eventually just find someone who can give back the energy and effort I give.
It's called the dating "game" for a reason.
She's not your mother, she's not your sister, she's not Madonna.
Put on your full "game mode" always, or you get played out. Albeit, women are also always on their "game" Mode. It's fair play.
Good luck finding any deep relationship
@@stephanea5364 I want something that's practical, logical and beneficial for all parties involved. That "Deepness" you are talking about, is an illusion, from a masculine perspective. You don't start out with a feminine, looking out for Deepness.. else, you will sink in that "Deepness". My opinion though.
@@stephanea5364 deep relationship should be with Christ not a female bruh
@@drewbeholy9760 Oh no a religious nut
@@drewbeholy9760 Are you gonna get down on your knees and start praising Jesus? Do you want to feel his salvation all over your face?
My wife will tell me she think I hate her, then profess her love the next. I don't respond to the tests, or try to "prove" my love. I let her stew on it. Her emotions can't budge me off balance.
You’re sick.
God damn Casey your videos are a gut punch but they are a gut punch I need to straighten myself out. Noticed myself doing a lot of these things in the past, finally starting to put myself first and putting women on the back burner, pulling back and applying no contact. Keep up the great videos
My so sweet and so "not like the others" GF just start pulling back, looking at her now I can't believe she would do this because she is so shy and so sweet and so needy, Oh boy I was for a surprise. Right now I am the one trying to pullback, screw this whole soulmate no sense.
Thank you for your common sense on saying that men need to band together to regain the leverage we lost in the dating game. Unfortunately, too many men want to tear each other down in hopes of attracting a woman instead and it’s sickening to see
just my experience: the market promotes this is the West. Women have way too much leverage. I think guys who tear each other down are just acting in survival. They are blinded to what they are doing because the environment they are in is so fucked up they know no better. this is one reason i believe the West is done..men have disbanded. they are eating each other.
I think only men can be true friends
@@Stanley_Baby I agree
Men have NEVER EVER had leverage in the dating game 😂😂😭😭
You sound like you want to date men 😂
Even when you get a woman in your life you can’t fully enjoy her.
Either you hang out with her too much and get soft or you hang out too much and she sees you as needy.
All these fucking games
gotta love it. the spice of life.
You have no choice but to play the game
Nowadays, women do part-time relationships, they will be there for a few months later they will leave you, dont worry there are million more in line.
Asian women clean your house automatically. You don't need 'game'. Just get a passport.
Actually, we're already seeing problems with the Asian women now. Feminism is spreading. Western men who moved to South East Asia are reporting back more & more the women are starting to act like America women over there too. It's social media & dating sites. Their use has now spread to every corner of the world & destroyed women everywhere.
You must pullback when we do it it’s for the best , when she does it , it’s to create chaos
Nope when she does it it’s because she’s found someone that is mature enough not to play these games.
@@SugarBaby-kj7vv Yeah because modern women are so mature right
@@KyxLimitless 🤣
I want to be part of this movement - Casey. This is all pure gold. I think about all the other relationships I had, The more I tried to get away, the more they chased.
Damn... This one sunk in. Perfectly explained. Thank you
4 weeks ago, I got tired of her bipolar warm cold.
I went UNDERGROUND.. Totally IGNORING her tweet baits..EVERYTHING!
I needed to GAIN CONTROL of the situation. I CAN'T be arsed!! Fr fr
During this time, I got to clear my head, add rational thinking, ...it WASn't easy.. but I no Pșšÿ..I an the SUPERSTAR of my life, all other mortals around me are my subjects!
Right now, I'm so indeferent to her presence and existence.. I just don't care..
Today she texted me, I miss ya, we need to talk..
I tols her yes we talking..and just left it at that..her expecting me to call her back. And yes I am planning on calling her back,
In the year 7086😂
I know all that. But I made the mistake of living with my a GF at her place. I couldn't pull back efficiently, and I sure wanted to. As soon as you feel a dip in their attraction, do it. I don't think there's much reason to do it first for no reason, and why bother thinking of these games. But as soon as her attraction dips. do it! Don't wait. And don't live with her...
That's my wife. I hate she played me this the first time and I have to live like this detached emotionally. I can only love her 50% else I will be destroyed
Unfortunately, it sounds like a man can never be ALL-IN with a woman, that he always has to have one foot out the door. This is probably true even in marriage, because when a man shows a woman that he is ALL-IN, she begins to take him for granted, gradually loses attraction for him, as he is no longer a challenge for her, and she no longer has to compete with other women to keep him. So, if a man is smart, he will always have one foot out the door -- even in marriage. This might sound toxic, and it's probably better not to even get married in the first place, but a man must always have viable options and women that he's talking to, and flirting with, if not actually sleeping with on the side. This promiscuous behavior on the part of the man, along with him primarily focusing on his grind and his purpose, and his masculine and independent demeanor -- he doesn't make her his focus, but focuses on himself instead, and she is just along for the ride attitude -- will definitely work to his advantage by showing her that he has one foot out the door and can leave her ass behind at any time.
You get this. But I would add that we need to give up on marriage. You can't keep a woman long anymore. Prenuptials will be getting invalidated soon. No woman is worth half your wealth. We need to be thinking in terms of long-term relationships, living in separate places (to avoid common law marriage) & with 1 or 2 feet out the door.
I believe this can can apply to life though.. You can't go all in with anybody. That's just asking for trouble. "Never Commit to Anyone" (48 Laws of Power)
@@Gescobar009 Except your children, you are ALL-IN for them, right ? Also, there was a time when marriage meant being ALL-IN for each other. But women today are never ALL-IN even when they get married, they have become 'liberated' and so always keep their options open. We men must do the same and never completely commit to just one woman forever. Commitment is no longer valued, it's now a liability.
@@alwaysgreatusa223 It's simpler. Western women are not made for marriage. Takes a foreign woman of low status. The end of the marriage must always constitute a major loss for her, in economic, social and reputational terms. End of the story.
Women love men who don't simp
did you smoke a joint before this video
Now I’m mad he didn’t being enough for everyone
Unlikely
He is lying, all you men are going to lose your women 😂
You can't "lose" a woman
this is a very well done put together video appreciate it a lot thank you from London uk 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 👊🏾
This is really bad advice. This is a good way to sabotage an otherwise perfect relationship. When you put your ego above the connection, don’t be surprised if you lose the connection. Collaborate, don’t compete. Competing with her hardens her, makes her trust you less, makes you not the man who makes her feel safe. Choose love not fear.
Women already do that with men. So it’s time men learn to adapt and play a game too. F it let’s all be depressed 🤷🏾♂️. Y’all don’t care about men anyway unless we are benefiting yall. So not much if a loss on our end. There’s rarely anything to gain from dealing with the gem side of the fence. You BFF outta do everything anyway.
You’re absolutely right. I had a man I loved very much that did this to me and I would have done anything for him but he clearly started taking guidance like this from ppl that monetise off of insecurity to sell their relationship courses to naive men. I can tell you that when he began doing this I chased at first because I had no idea what was going on. It caused me a lot of confusion, instability, heart ache, unhappiness and stress and once I began to view him as a man that was capable of playing these kind of mind games and willing to inflict this type of emotional manipulation and uncertainty on me for some kind of ego boost, validation and power dynamic control, I completely lost all respect and trust in him and no longer felt safe investing myself in him and I decided to walk away. If you play these kind of games with a woman that wants a healthy relationship, doesn’t like games and is searching for safety and healthy companionship you will lose her. This will only work if you’re trying to get laid or if she doesn’t see a future with you and gets a kick from games. If she is a headstrong woman that knows what she wants and isn’t toxic these games will make her chase temporarily but eventually she will leave you and wait for a man that is mature enough and reliable enough not to play these silly unhealthy games.
@@SugarBaby-kj7vv Well said!
I’m sorry he made that choice. It seems like he lost a good woman.
@@SugarBaby-kj7vvHe played the game wrong, simple as that
It means I'm toxic. Actually at that point i don't pull back. I simply cut off.
Your videos are worth watching! So much wisdom.
7:43 she is ACTIVELY thinking about him and most importantly, IN HER FEELINGS about him.
I cant explain how true this is, other than how I got to this stage with a girl I really liked and after 3 months she pulled back. I thought I was doing everything right (in person), but deep down I went weak for this one woman and she could sense it (Interestingly where I really messed up was over text message). Truth is I needed this heartbreak to learn a brutal lesson. Thanks Casey
If you don't mind me asking, how is it that you messed up?
I would like to understand how men think in these situations.
You see I am in a similar situation, but I am pulling back because I realized I wanted commitment and he isn't ready. And that's okay. I did all these greenflags from the get-go but obviously it didn't matter in my situation. 😂
@@vivien5tarmessed up by caring too much and responding
I’ll go as far as texting them at 11:11 before disappearing for a week. Works every time. Stay toxic Kings 😈
😂😂😂 "Diabolically clever!"
At this point Case You helped Me realize that I have to love Myself before loving a woman... the reason I say this is because I was always told that about children but it never really clicked until listening to You and Fit Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Anyone know if I need to wait until she does all 3 things? Or is it cool to pullback if she does 2/3 things?
Which one are you missing? You can probably pull back now, it might provide you the 3rd one you are missing hahaha
I did pull back/walk away first and she unfollowed/removed me off Instagram, our only form of contact. Been two weeks, I haven't said anything and neither has she. Damn
She was going to leave you anyway. If not, she would have chased after you by now. Her loss.
Stay strong she will return
@@TheEast-hn7jb Thanks, appreciate it. I havent reached out, will stay strong. Ultimately, its my fault, i told her i wasnt interested when I really was and she obviously got hurt and deleted me. Hopefully, with time and patience, ill hear from her
I think you came with the right intention, but didn’t play your cards right. You went completely cold/dead. I think the key is to keep her on an edge, or gray area. Notice how he said minimize, or cut communication in half. And, she has to have an immense interest level. The key is to lead her on, and then show the ambiguity. I don’t know how far you two were in the talking stage. But notice how Casey said after a few months; and when she’s deeply invested. This doesn’t usually work in the starting stage. It’s more later.
@@Hugh_G_Rection69-f8f Yes you're right, i realise my mistake now. We were 2 dates in but had not slept together. I basically told her i wasnt interested and when she said it was a shame i wanted to drop the whole thing, i responded sarcastically and jokey over text (i know, rookie mistake). Its clear i was impatient and expected more too soon, instead of being chill and letting it grow at her pace.
The only issue is now, with no communication or social media connection, how can I re-attract her?
0:30 this why i comment on your videos and others in support, sharing my own experiences. Women have pulled together LONG AGO, what we see now is YEARS of them working together to gain leverage.
Why did they do that...?
11:16 doesn't have to be in days... just follow my formula. 2:1, 3:1. 1:1. With ANYTHING with women, use that formula. One eg, texting. She text you twice first, then you text her once first. After that she 3 then you 1, then she 1, then you 1 THEN REPEAT THE CYCLE. NEVER do more than 1. Why this works, at least for me? the 3:1 she is initiating, she may start to feel she doing too much, so you do 1:1 and it pulls her back. Then the 2:1 starts it over again. But mix it up though, dont want her catching on to a pattern, they NOT stupid.
Afghanistan has the right idea
Been seeing this chick whos pretty cool (shes 23 im 35). she’s used to these pathetic boys that i actually pulled back for about 2 weeks and shes chasing me even more now. glad i did it first
I ❤️ the uncomfortable truths...they're always 🎯
2 months? Girls on dating apps ghost you after two days
Delete those apps
First of all, no games is good at all just be you. However, if you decide to play this game, make sure you are 10. if you are below 7 don’t even think about playing any games. unless you are a millionaire or a billionaire.
sounds so stupid hearing the sentence "slept together" before her even showing emotional interest like the good morning texts that you mentioned as an example. Wtf world do we live in where girls and guys have sex before normal romantic connection??
I'd kill to see a womans reaction to this video😂😂
Women don’t live in reality
@gothamindembaum 💯 they think they can do no wrong or “I’m different” or “ this advice is for girls with issues” bullshit. They’re all the same
@gothamindembaum I guess It's their defense mechanism
Woman here….The right woman will LOVE your interest, your affection, and your attention. If you pull back, then YOU begin game playing. Then the relationship is not worth it. Just show up and be your authentic self 🤷🏼♀️
@@LeftRight4029 lol
narcissist. do this as well. with the love bombing. be carefull.
Just sent this video to my girlfriend and told her that she checks all the boxes for me to pull back but i wlll do her a favor and not pull if she promise to behave well
Ill keep you updated how it goes
That’s got to be the dumbest thing you could of done, never tell women your tactics 🤦♂️
Bro now when you pull back she'll think it's not genuine and that you have low smv you played yourself
"Come together"? "Stop competing"? "As a brotherhood"? So we are after the same thing...? Then why do I get the notion that you prefer things this way? Because to be fair - just look at yourself. You seem like the man women **would** be choosing (like pre-selection). And the one that most men get cheated on because of. You mean to tell me that you feel the same things I do? Even though I don't care that we have differences - I feel that I know. We must not want the same thing.
You would **feel** inclined to want women to yourself. I think a lot of men would. I'll be honest - I would choose to die alone if it meant everyone else was paired up in a way that they all felt satisfied. I would be happy to be the one to take that loss because I just can't feel that love exists anymore. I've seen too much. Even to the most purest of people - ruined. So, with this, you say that you really want the same? Would you let go of having what you hoped for if it was for this cause?
solutions time. i want to know why even bother if this is all true and how to maintain a stable relationship and having a family
As soon as we get back the dating market, here’s the problem. Only fans is ruining the dating market. for us. no man wanna be with a sex worker because this shit is becoming the norm.
It's really not. Just get out in the real world
What if I ignore her and she starts calling or asking why are you avoiding me? What should I say or do?
I’m learning so much from these videos.So glad we don’t have to pay to see them,even though it be worth every penny.Thank the Lord for Casey!
Simple solution to women - DONT CARE, NEVER COMMIT, TAKE WHAT YOU GET, VALUE YOURSELF, AND REMEMBER THERES ALWAYS A HOTTER GIRL WAITING FOR YOU!
I think I got it. I know what you have to do. First you need to find a girl you like and then once you know you like her you need to unlike her. You need to not care about a relationship. You need to seek to only sleep with her and realize that relationships will take a toll on you and will take you too much time. Be happy with where you're at and enjoy the sleep buddy situationships. Always see her as a friend first because you don't want to get a relationship. Wait until she asks to be in an exclusive relationship and agree with her then (but because dating multiple women is time consuming). Then one day after months of dating, once you have seen her parents, start considering loving her but keep being indifferent in your day to day.
Facts. Everyday you have to make her emotions change. Good or bad. Happy or sad.
Some girls will get mad and intentionally ignore you after you pull something like this.
Oh well they’ll come back they always do in my experience
Was seeing a girl since 2 months. Everything was going right, had all the 3 green signals which Casey mentioned and then she pulled back. It has been 3 days and I havent contacted her since. I know she will text me in a few days, but any suggestions how to deal when she does?
Out of genuine curiosity here, How do you pull back in a long term relationship
Go travel alone somewhere or guy friend getaways more often
@@moheganson I’ve done that before. I’ve been able to hold long term relationships for a while in my experience, but still feel it’d be useful to hear a breakdown for more ways to go about it than what I’ve been doing already.
That's a trick question. There is no such thing as a long-term relationship anymore. 😂
@@Sam_SoCalit doesn't matter what you do just don't tell her. Start going to the movies by yourself or with a bro like once a week but don't tell her. If you live together, put cool clothes on and leave without telling her where you are going and go get coffee. Come back after a few hours and don't tell her where you were. Just say vague things like, its "classified information" or keep it super simple like "don't worry about it."
If you aren't living together it's easier, just go missing and when she has shown she is really worried wait another hour or 2 and then reply. If you want to take it a step further, send a message saying "Just had an accident" then don't reply for a day and put your phone on silent. Tread with caution and don't make her worry to often, just enough so she starts to show her concern and thank her or reward her for caring the next time you see her after doing this.
9:24 she is INTEGRATING you in to her daily routing. She WANTS you to know her schedule and what she does when and where.
the casey "i actually have a dream" speech. the epic sequal to mjkjr "i have a dream" speech
So what to do once u get married? Make a video plz
Married?! 😆 Guys, help! Milo is stuck in a Disney movie. Help me pull him out before he does something stupid with half his wealth!!
You can't get married anymore. Marriage is dead globally. Because of social media & dating sites you can't keep a woman anymore. Soon enough prenuptial agreements will be invalidated RETROACTIVLY.
Marriage is over. You've got to change with the times or you WILL be losing half your wealth.
Fcking cuckold wanting to marry
I''ve thought about that over and over again for years brother. My opinion: there's no solution. You accept the consequences once you enter into that agreement..You thumb your nose at Nature . Nature will not be happy.
Don't get married
If you really want to know if she's about you just be assertive let her know ehat you want pursue then fall back if she's not reciprocating the same energy keep it moving because you'll know when a gurl likes you and always remember dont want something that doesn't want you.🥂💯
100 percent. This is the most biggest gem in the comment section.
Just tell her straight up what you want, if she’s into it you’ll know. If not walk away and keep your life moving
@@nathancarter6311no man should be telling a woman he wants a relationship. What kind of nonsense are you spreading…
@@RevealedFilms wake up, grow a pair and get off the Andrew Tate brainwash bandwagon, I can see you licking windows from here.
10:05 man once she does that she is ALL IN. Like cooking, cleaning, getting you some sort of gift, especially if she took note of something you wanted and she got it. YES, WOMEN SPEND MONEY ON MEN. Just note, it MUST be a man she ACTUALLY LIKES. 9 out of 10 men they date or even with they dont actually like, they just taking whatever benefits they get from it. YES, women can disconnect physically and sleep with a man, issue is when that man even if she disconnected, after he treats her like she was just another hit, THEN she gets in her FEELINGS.
what do you do if she pulls back first. experiencing this rn after sleeping with this chick for months
start looking for another one. You fkked up by not already pulling back after many months. It's over bro. You confessed your feelings now she is not feeling it. The technique is called push/ pull. It's a manipulation head game. YOU are not suppose to let her game you bro LOL It's designed to use on women. I used this back in the 80's. You are suppose to bang then go cold. They get upset then you warm them up and bang again, then go cold . Rinse and repeat. It emotionally fuks with their head. Push pull is designed to be a rollercoaster, scary but exciting. The highs and lows are like a drug for the woman.
Instead of focusing on what to do, focus on what not to do.. don't double text, don't chase, don't give free validation by watching their stories on IG. Take that time to focus on yourself. If she comes back great, if she doesn't it's her loss
Pretend she died
@@cuzyes7068 you right, shits hard to do cause i caught feels and now am always thinking the worse but i gotta pull back too. ive made the mistake of gettin mad and callin her out on her shit
🔥🔥🔥 your gonna get cancelled my man good shit!!!!
Nope. The 10% of men will always dominate. From a girl here
pull back from the beginning. don't call don't initiate don't beg don't chase. that will solve everything . you ask how to get girls then. you put yourself in places and situations to be seen. statistically atleast one girl in the room likes you. some environments towns states are better than others depending on the market that likes you. there's nothing like genuine interest from a lady.
that dream will never happen because of lust. if anything it’s only going to get worse
What if she matches your pull back. You pull back and then she starts pulling back with you. What's that mean?
Shes not attached
That means she can get gone my friend there are billions of women on this planet, go find another one
The actual technique is called push/ pull. YOU act interested enough to get laid then go cold. She gets upset and emotional then you warm up to get laid again, then go cold. Rinse and repeat. If she is pulling back on you, you are NOT playing the game correctly. If you screw up the game is over. You go find a new partner to play the game. When she pulls back, she is not playing. It means she lost interest. Once that happens, it is almost impossible to recover. Learn from your mistakes. I mastered the push pull back in the 80's. It's a mind fuk game. If you do it correctly she will feel emotions like being on drugs/ rollercoaster. You push pull give and take over and over.
@@SKRooU2We have a old dog in our kennel today, sharing knowledge from the 80’s. Love to see it
@@MarcRebilletClips 80's were the best. Man I am lucky to be alive. Some of the music was the best but some was really silly too. I remember when MTV came out back when it was actually a music video channel. MTV launched many music artists and bands to superstardom by being visual instead of just auditory. The 80's was a fun partying atmosphere, where sex, weed, alcohol and rock in roll were over the top. LOL The best years of my life were definitely in the 80's. (Early 90's were great too)
Yup.. I contest to EVERYTHING Casey's saying!
Going through one of the biggest pull back in life at the moment. 22 years married and shit is just getting real over here. I've been adjusting and establishing my masculine frame these last few weeks.
this is so fucking accurate, currently pulling back after those flags, and she is pursuing
if you have to play this games she will just be headache the further you date her
Main point: men focus on your purpose and being the ultimate man
Attachment styles invalidate and supercede half of his content. It's still informative. Although outdated and coming from a place of struggling for power. This obsession isn't healthy.
And that is a follow.
I met this girl, we clicked right away slept over at hers, and went fine for 2-3 weeks. We really do enjoy chilling together, similar habits, it's just also fun. She's very direct, and made me indirectly understand that she (as much as she wanted) she couldn't keep liking me if i didn't make myself scarce. At this point we've had crazy sex 2-3 times a week at least (like hours, then again in morning, really good sex).
That kind of sparked me looking into it, finding these videos, and now I can see all my mistakes. She pulled back, but kind of telling me why. So, combined with the videos, I understood and just switched: focused only on my job, my things, gym. She sent a goodnight hug, then she tried calling in the morning. in the daytime i sent a pic of a hike, took the day off and just let her know i'm out doing stuff, hadn't asked her out or anything. Overall just fully adopting the indifferent stance (and truly so.. it cleared my mind, i stopped caring what would happen, as i was aware it's out of my power).
So now suddenly she's reaching out, she's letting me know what she's doing, she's sending vids and pics. Saw her briefly as she used my house after work to change for a concert, and she was so different.. she came to kiss me, she was just in a completely different stance. Asked when we could meet, saturday i couldnt. sunday too i can't, so we left it for tuesday. She now answers right away, puts smileys.
However this goes, this woman has sparked an improvement in me that no woman ever has. I can kind of see she can sense what she's doing and she's trying to make herself like me more, even if i made those mistakes.
EDIT: she has also (before the distancing phase), cleaned my kitchen without me asking (while i was finishing work in home office). She brought me a nice coffee mug, a flask, and cute pen for work. She got me a glass jar for my w##d. She helped me find an accountant to setup a company I was working on setting up. I can really see how she's behaved like a perfect woman, and I was really ignorant.
Truth is..... It's a toxic thing to do..... However,, if a woman ever does pull back on you first..... If you have other options and you happen to cheat on her with these options..... If she finds out odds are she will pursue you again and regret pulling away from you in the first place...... Which her motives for doing this are also kind of toxic to begin with.
UNCLE C! I fell off your content but your back in the algorithm, so glad your channel has exploded!
They are the most nitpicky Royal Pains in the asses and never-ending source of stress gentlemen, it's probably much cheaper with no aggravation if you just go to Asian massage parlors. I do notice one thing about this man's videos, I don't see any interaction with people here in the commentary. This is very strange.
i agree with all, bt things change when your 50, some rules sort of change
Its.more simple:
attention/investment ratio baseline should always be 2/3.
Immediatly as you notice you go over it , pull far back to 1/3, for a while until you are stable enough again to get back to baseline 2/3.
Harsh part for men is we want to draw a baseline in absolute numbers, when for attraction only proportion/ratio matters
Why do guys think this is the way to keep a woman?
Not men being avoidants on purpose creating anxiously attached women
Guys this doesn’t always work. If you do this it will piss certain girls off. And if she’s stubborn she will definitely hold out. I think pulling back not just to be a jerk is a better approach. Like things got super busy with a work project etc.
she told me im more invested then she is, but she initiates the hang outs, and the texts, and the hand holding/cuddling etc. says she really likes me and wants to make me happy. cooks for me, takes me on dates and pays, but says she cant open up, always asks who im texting. any ideas?
Rollo wants me to tell u. That you need to finish unplugging. You understand female nature but you’re not Alpha yet.
Stop competing, form and join the brotherhood to make mens changes for the better, makes sense, I support it and like it too.