A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Nathaniel I can’t say I don’t feel a little sorry for you but here. She doesn’t comment on yt vids about you she’s not trying to call you or get you back , so why are you ? If she doesn’t want you why are you gonna do yourself like that and still chase her ?!?! F that h**
Yep if you're breaking up and she disgusts you either cry or pretend to cry she will be gone forever. If you like what she got don't cry and your liable to be getting booty calls for God knows how long.
Only let in the ones that deserve it. They are easy to spot . Just watch what they do and think about what they don't want to tell you. Skeletons in the closet lead to bones flying out of their mouth eventually. Let 'em talk long enough and a little bone of a clue comes out for you. Never fails.
How are you going to keep being mysterious when you are together for years and eventually have kids? At the end of the day you ll just have to be yourself. All this advice is for short term dating, sane men want to have kids not have useless short terms.
Because it’s all bullshit. A woman who wants a serious relationship will be turned off by this shit the same way she is by push over needy men. Just be normal and you’ll get the relationship you desire.
@@Katarzyna-h2z yes she has hobbie and a private life. And we like to keep each other updated on what is going on. My parents are the same and I like that way of communicating
@@yourfoodforthoughtyeah guys, did you ever hear him ranting about his mother? Sounds exactly like the women he describes to be angry upon. Every psychologist knows, that the relationship to your mother determines your relationship to women, I really wish, he'd get into therapy. He could be a good coach.
Casey, my good man, I respect and admire your work and purpose and I have learned a lot from you since I have been watching your highly educational videos, regardless of my advanced age and life experience. Now, having said that I'd like to return the favor and share some basic knowledge from heart to heart, from man to man: It is only befitting for a man of your status and position to speak proper English. You have the tendency to build wrong perfect tense forms is a little quirk I have realised while listening to you. Irregular verbs have a third form called past participle you need to use. Come came come Do did done Drink drank drunk See saw seen Etc. It's not "I have came." but I have come (past particle, 3rd not 2nd, simple past, form!) "I have seen" not "I have saw" which is a very obvious example. Sometimes 2nd and 3rd form are identical such as fight fought fought, catch caught caught etc but more often than not they ain't. Proper use of present perfect tense will only contribute to your authority. All power to you, I love you my man! 💪🏼
Really depends on the woman..... You don't necessarily want to tell her too much about yourself and what you're doing...... However, there actually are some women that you can have somewhat logical dialogue with and it actually stimulates them in a good way.
Casey, your videos have completely transformed my life in the best way possible. I cannot even imagine how difficult and unfulfilled my life would be if I hadn not discovered your channel. Thank you for being such a positive influence and for all that you do.
This is great. Because I personally don't say shit to women. I let women deal with those guys while I focus on my money! It all works out in the end! She knows nothing of me, and I keep my sanity by getting to the BREAD and focusing on LOCKING IN on what's really important in life than goofy ass hoaz
Her: so what have you been up to, how have you been? Him: I’m great, just got a promotion at my job, just brought a new house Her: ugh he’s so lame MAKE IT ALL MAKE FCKING SENSE😂
Agree... that the more you give the less they think they need to bother with you . The mindset is?..." that their women and their at a disadvantage and they deserve to be pampered". It's always been a one way street with women. Until I said: "forget it...I don't have time for it. The6 immaturity, lack of value given to my affairs, etc. . Just to name 2 reasons. It's right it's a mindset default until corrected which occurred regularly.
When she wonders what you do, she gets insecure and assumes preselection also. I remember a few months ago I sent a pic of me all dressed up to some chick and I told “I’m going out 😏” and she was like “WHO IS SHE that you’re seeing tn 😫” and she couldn’t stop messaging me when I went out that night, even tho I just went out to play billiards with my homies.
Spot on! It’s mystery that creates a stronger sense of attraction for a woman towards a man. If she constantly knows what your up to, the mystery disappears and the routine and inevitably boredom sets in for the woman. Once the woman is bored cracks will start to appear in the relationship, cracks that under the right circumstances can signal the end of the relationship!
2:02 if she doesn't care about updates in your life to know what direction you are going, trust me, it's because she at the moment dont see you as long term. you are just for right now, something to occupy her time, sleep with, she doesnt count on you for her and offspring future survival. This is CRITICAL for a woman to know if she interested in you long term. However, do not volunteer information, she will view you as insecure and trying to sell yourself... it MUST ALWAYS BE HER asking for updates on your life IF she interested.
@@troobix_snot legit at all its a sneaky way to spy on you, don’t you ever fall in that trap. Keep your space bro she will respect you for that and keep looking up to you.
Casey again and again you prove to me how right you are. This is 100% facts, even one girl told me this directly, paraphrasing: “like don’t tell me whats going on, it’s a turn off.” Exactly word for word, and at the time I thought was just strange and rude, now I understand.
7:22 totally true. i have few women who on a consistent basis text/vnote me asking "where in the world are you now / which time zone are you in". I am not dating these women, BUT THAT IS WHERE YOU NEED THEM TO BE, wondering about you. The other to that I get a lot is "when are you coming back". That only part I still working, they will ask that A LOT while I am away, and when I am back THEY FREEZE. And no we werent having a conversation and then they ask that, that is the random out of the blue message they will send. No they not asking me to collect and take something back for them, actually NONE have EVER asked me that. The ones who show up, they just show up smash and that's it.
Great advice. Zander with the intrapersonal dynamics and how to be edgy advice, Corey with the 50k view blueprint for setting dates and how not to be perturbed, LFA with the degenerate social culture advice and family topics, Tripp with the dating interactions. I know each channel is trying to monetize and grow their own brand but taking and creating your own system from each channels advice is the way to go.
Basically, don't be a Tryhard with your communication. Only give out communication that she finds interesting, or when she first asks. Let her seek and pull the information from you.
If you're talking about during a relationship with a woman than yeah it's best to not keep updating your next move throughout the day that's just weird and simpish, but if it's women you'll see here and there and they start a conversation with you 1st there is nothing wrong about telling here bits and pieces about yourself. And this is why what you're saying is not completely true because there are college athletes who talk about making it to the professionals one day, they keep the masses updated, they don't care what people think, or if any man has a specific goal they're going to acquire someday it's nothing wrong it's intriguing. It all depends on how much the woman likes you as a man, if you do it for her tell her a good thing about your life is actually a good thing, and if you have talent you're gonna be more desirable. Why you think these women go after the guys who pursue their purpose, they usually display it without trying. You can't be completely quiet, you can't be a mannequin. A lil info never hurt no one. But yeah it really all depends how much she sees you as a rarity compared to other men, and how much she likes the guy.
For everyone to learn: What do you say when she asks what are you doing or what are you eating? Anything that sparks her interest? Can’t always completely ignore the text or question sometimes need to say something… Stuff
This is great information about how to weed out women who want a man for his status and who don't want a man who actually loves them 👍 Although, writing about what you're doing all the time is just annoying for all involved.
10:45 and this is exactly why i been winning with women forever since. issue i had in my teens and early 20s was, once they approached and we start talking, i started to become too open and available, so they lost interest. they like, ugh, this guy aint what he seem to be. once i curbed that.... total game changer. now i dictate which girl i see and when and more so, if i cant be bothered with one, i know what to do for HER to leave. but if she disrespect me in ANY kind of way, i instantly cut her off.
Her disrespecting you once is usually just a test to see how you handle being disrespected. Big Herc said that prison gang leaders do the same thing to a new guy for the same reason. Do you stand up to her or let her walk all over you? Don't cut her off unless it becomes a pattern. If she crosses a boundary, let her know and tell her that if she does it again you will walk. She will respect you for having a boundary, and you are good. She will test again at a later time but the more tests you pass the fewer of them there will be.
@@ErikLibertyif she’s testing you that means she doesn’t like you. It’s clear you guys have no clue. FYI, being available means TO WORSHIP HER. You can be available to talk about how great you are, cuz if she walks away from that you lose nothing and didn’t care about her
@@marcusmcgraw3519 Wrong. All women test the men they date and are in a relationship with. It's been dubbed by the pickup community as "shit tests." Passing them is crucial. It's the only way that a woman can know whether you are legit or just a talker putting up a phony front. For example, a woman will test you by suddenly pulling away randomly even though everything has been going perfect. She wants to see how you respond in order to see how needy you are. She can't just ask you how needy you are because you can lie about it too easily or even be honestly mistaken in your assessment of yourself. A test is the only way she can discover the truth. Here are a couple videos on the subject which you can look up. "The #1 TEST that HOT WOMEN DO to gauge your DATING VALUE and SMV compared to OTHER MEN When DATING!" "5 Tests Women Give Men & How To Beat Them"
@@marcusmcgraw3519 Don't know where my other comment went, but here is another video on this topic. Women test you when they like you because they are actually considering you as a potential option and are hoping you will pass the test so that they have a reason to see you again. Do THIS when WOMEN TEST YOU on a DATE (Casey Zander's Dating LIFE EXPOSED) ruclips.net/user/shortsDa31fEHiH24
No need of all this philosophy and dating technical, basically womens respect and engage with a man who is ready to commit for marriage, dating is a story some where you can't figure out the reality
This is also true in relationships. Long ones. Failure of ANYthing you plan, whether you could control it or not, makes them see you as a failure or inept, over time.
I think of this the complete opposite women miss out on good men as much as men miss out on good women nobody’s perfect men could talk themselves out of getting laid women can talk themselves out of getting relationship.
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The one caveat I would make is that the supplies to women who have tons of options. If the girl is not attractive, or really into you she might be down for updates. You definitely have to know how to read the room. If it's a hot chick, you definitely don't want to be an open book
Crazy. Just started speaking to a new woman. And she said iv definitely got her attention. I said why, she said because I'm consistent, make her laugh and obviously looks. So it's kind of misleading. This woman said she loves the consistency of me texting or calling her every day...work that one out then?
I keep my life as private as possible. When a woman asks me information, I will be playful and fun but I won't be an open book. Make her ask questions. I've had women say "I want to know more about you." I tell them they have to ask questions. If you just talk about your childhood and upbringing and unload on her without her putting in effort / chasing you, she won't get much fulfillment from that. Don't be a cold robot or anything but don't blabber on and on about your life where she knows everything and there is no more mystery to you.
Holy Dear god I just did all of that and I kind of knew I was doing the wrong thing. But let me explained it was our first conversation after a year and a half of break up. It was unexpected longer than I planned. It was a 6 year relationship. I felt as if I was lowering my value. What do I do now?
let her come to you, don’t pursue, I too broke up w a girl after a year no contact we spoke to each other and I kept pushing for dates, this showed low value on my end and she never wanted to go on a date with me
after that she got the vibe I was talking to another woman and suddenly wanted to go on a date with me, shes now stalking all my social media posts to this day, long story short, keep it pushing man and stack up other options
Basically they don’t care about anyone but themselves, i know, i live with 3 women. They would say the same about me too, because i had enough ages ago.😂
How's this line for puttin the brakes on a woman's advancements when she asks what wrong or why don't you want me... "Im not so sure I want to fulfill your hypergamy."🤣
All good but how about the woman da follow u they always see what u doing up loading videos everyday talking about woman 😂. Is all good your channel is good don't agree in everything u should make a video about semen retention if u abel to master da ur a King
What to do when a girl send i love you meme on Instagram......it is a meme ...what to do...is it a game ...should we say yes or we should react ....or we should say her it need time ... please help ..-
I have to earse her number and forget about it. . We need to get over our selfs. Its not easy . It feels like a dark cloud over takes us . Let her go . Sometimes takes time. You make mistakes. Dont care she doesn't care
This si so true. I have been using this for years unkowingly. When I look back at the firls I gave updates to and more information. They are gone. The ones I gave little to no information. They are still around and chasing me.
2:28 yea dont, unless she asks or she brings it up. and what happens with me, they always bring it up because they see it as a way to GAIN ACCESS / GET CLOSER to me. Once they seem like they drifting when they bring it up, or after they not following throw, they just used it to get close to you. It's best to talk about things that are NOW, the latest bull crap that is going on on social media. Where u wanna go on vacation, more lighter topics.
Personally I would take this advice very lightly for an actual long term gf … this stuff mostly works to F around short term with somewhat less intelligent women. The principles apply for all women but you gotta tone it down and use these lightly with respectable women that you’re serious about 🤷🏻♂️
Funny thing, she tried call it a "date" and i told her i do not date nor this will be date in fact they will never have a date but rather a moment and that's top . That spin her head hard. Other one try's to flirt hard and i am just laying back, yesterday she lost mind and told i already lead 30 to 0 in flirting score, seems my jackhammer cant break that wall. Next thing she started ranting that there are 2 types of woman; one who love idgfa men and other who prefer i gaf type of man. I just told her she is playing a game now trying to confuse my mind and mess things up to become subjective to situation and bailed out.
So I had good first date with a girl. We had rlly fun and after the date we texted both that we liked it. Now I’m on vacation for 1 Week. Should I text her a lil something once in the middle of the week to keep the interest or should I wait the 1 week I’m on vacation and text after to get a 2nd date. Not so sure about just not texting, since the date was going well…would appreciate your help or some tips from your own experiences guys 🙏🏽
Question: How would you guys deal with a woman who actually shows an interest in your life? I’ve dealt with women who have mentioned that my closed-off nature makes them feel disconnected to me. I always just say that what you see is what you get, and there’s isn’t much else below the surface. What do you guys think? Is there another way to handle this?
0:15 you need her to ask you for updates, trust me. and if she ain't, she not interested in you to find out. Why? she NEEDS to know she is SECURE with you and if her nature doesn't urge her to know this, then she does not see you as long term, just for right now.
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An old boy here aka an unc, nothing learned but confirmed. Been telling my guys this for awhile.
silence is golden what you don't say is more powerful
What you don't say won't hurt you
@@reclaimtheframe exactly
When in doubt, keep yo foo mouth shut.
People worship God because God doesn't talk, but his presence is felt.
@@jeansollot6419 strongly disagree with you, coming from a man I suppose double texts and constantly trying to please a woman lol
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
I do want to get married one day but I like learing from people mistakes
Women: 'I want a guy that can communicate and be open about his feelings' Don't do it. It's a trap.
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Nathaniel I can’t say I don’t feel a little sorry for you but here. She doesn’t comment on yt vids about you she’s not trying to call you or get you back , so why are you ? If she doesn’t want you why are you gonna do yourself like that and still chase her ?!?! F that h**
If I want a woman to leave me, I just treat them really well, they get bored and leave on their own, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Yep if you're breaking up and she disgusts you either cry or pretend to cry she will be gone forever. If you like what she got don't cry and your liable to be getting booty calls for God knows how long.
As Coach Corey Wayne would say, the phone is for setting dates.
Dr love, the system
My life is simple work gym eat sleep repeat I don't have nothing to prove or say to womans. If they want to get in they are welcomed 😂😂😂
Only let in the ones that deserve it. They are easy to spot . Just watch what they do and think about what they don't want to tell you. Skeletons in the closet lead to bones flying out of their mouth eventually. Let 'em talk long enough and a little bone of a clue comes out for you. Never fails.
Yeah don’t welcome all comers- I am inclined to think that doing so is a form of bulljive
How are you going to keep being mysterious when you are together for years and eventually have kids? At the end of the day you ll just have to be yourself. All this advice is for short term dating, sane men want to have kids not have useless short terms.
Exactly, my gf wants to hear what I do all day. She gets angry when I don't communicate
Because it’s all bullshit. A woman who wants a serious relationship will be turned off by this shit the same way she is by push over needy men. Just be normal and you’ll get the relationship you desire.
Does you women have any hobbies or just privet life?
@@Katarzyna-h2z yes she has hobbie and a private life. And we like to keep each other updated on what is going on. My parents are the same and I like that way of communicating
@@yourfoodforthoughtyeah guys, did you ever hear him ranting about his mother? Sounds exactly like the women he describes to be angry upon. Every psychologist knows, that the relationship to your mother determines your relationship to women, I really wish, he'd get into therapy. He could be a good coach.
Casey, my good man,
I respect and admire your work and purpose and I have learned a lot from you since I have been watching your highly educational videos, regardless of my advanced age and life experience.
Now, having said that I'd like to return the favor and share some basic knowledge from heart to heart, from man to man: It is only befitting for a man of your status and position to speak proper English. You have the tendency to build wrong perfect tense forms is a little quirk I have realised while listening to you.
Irregular verbs have a third form called past participle you need to use.
Come came come
Do did done
Drink drank drunk
See saw seen
Etc.
It's not "I have came." but I have come (past particle, 3rd not 2nd, simple past, form!)
"I have seen" not "I have saw" which is a very obvious example. Sometimes 2nd and 3rd form are identical such as fight fought fought, catch caught caught etc but more often than not they ain't.
Proper use of present perfect tense will only contribute to your authority.
All power to you, I love you my man! 💪🏼
This is gold. Applies to coworkers and parents too.
Really depends on the woman..... You don't necessarily want to tell her too much about yourself and what you're doing...... However, there actually are some women that you can have somewhat logical dialogue with and it actually stimulates them in a good way.
Yeah these videos are for the majority of females. Low value ones which are most nowadays
Casey, your videos have completely transformed my life in the best way possible. I cannot even imagine how difficult and unfulfilled my life would be if I hadn not discovered your channel. Thank you for being such a positive influence and for all that you do.
Ok relax
@@robertsabharwal9787 Ok half Indian!
Good to see fellow Indian Casey followers, he's single handedly saving millions of men
The older man is not more mature. He is wiser to a womans toxic games.
I’ve found that just saving the convo for a FaceTime call 2-3 times a week works pretty good
But girls wanna text that’s the problem. They judge a guy over a message it’s terrible
2-3x a week? Way too much. See her once a week and a 5-10 minute call in-between is all you need
@@XXWXX911I see her everyday
@@XXWXX911yeah 2-3 times a week is way too much.
@@XXWXX911bro you’re not andrew tate. we know they decline your calls jk jk
This is great. Because I personally don't say shit to women. I let women deal with those guys while I focus on my money! It all works out in the end! She knows nothing of me, and I keep my sanity by getting to the BREAD and focusing on LOCKING IN on what's really important in life than goofy ass hoaz
Pigeon brains sadly
Women coming to conclusions about you on their own terms is extremely important.
What does he mean with updates? I think to mention you are going out. Or having a roadtrip with a girl would display preselection.
Me: Destroys her in the sack but is otherwise as cold as 1984 Arnold in Terminator.
Her: You're incredible but so robotic sometimes 🫤
You can't win 😂
Her: so what have you been up to, how have you been?
Him: I’m great, just got a promotion at my job, just brought a new house
Her: ugh he’s so lame
MAKE IT ALL MAKE FCKING SENSE😂
Have women always been this confusing? It really shouldn't be this hard.
Basically they are toddlers
Agree... that the more you give the less they think they need to bother with you . The mindset is?..." that their women and their at a disadvantage and they deserve to be pampered". It's always been a one way street with women. Until I said: "forget it...I don't have time for it. The6 immaturity, lack of value given to my affairs, etc. . Just to name 2 reasons. It's right it's a mindset default until corrected which occurred regularly.
Bro I am truly grateful I found your channel. Please keep doing your work, you are doing God’s work. Bless you.🙏🙏
Teach us how to have multiple women in our relationships. So they all get along too.
When she wonders what you do, she gets insecure and assumes preselection also. I remember a few months ago I sent a pic of me all dressed up to some chick and I told “I’m going out 😏” and she was like “WHO IS SHE that you’re seeing tn 😫” and she couldn’t stop messaging me when I went out that night, even tho I just went out to play billiards with my homies.
Spot on! It’s mystery that creates a stronger sense of attraction for a woman towards a man.
If she constantly knows what your up to, the mystery disappears and the routine and inevitably boredom sets in for the woman. Once the woman is bored cracks will start to appear in the relationship, cracks that under the right circumstances can signal the end of the relationship!
What does he mean with updates? I think to mention you are going out. Or having a roadtrip with a girl would display preselection.
2:02 if she doesn't care about updates in your life to know what direction you are going, trust me, it's because she at the moment dont see you as long term. you are just for right now, something to occupy her time, sleep with, she doesnt count on you for her and offspring future survival. This is CRITICAL for a woman to know if she interested in you long term. However, do not volunteer information, she will view you as insecure and trying to sell yourself... it MUST ALWAYS BE HER asking for updates on your life IF she interested.
What if she always wants to share locations? as in she wants you to share your live location on iPhone indefinitely? And she shares hers.
@@playtimewitheddy That can be legit only if you are like married. Not dating.
@@troobix_snot legit at all its a sneaky way to spy on you, don’t you ever fall in that trap. Keep your space bro she will respect you for that and keep looking up to you.
True, a women’s interest in the man’s future, and men’s interest is her past
@@troobix_s what about girlfriend and boyfriend?
Girls don't care about what I'm doing...
You have to be high value before they give a toss.
The more i listen to these gurus the more i'd rather be alone. What a complicated mess, who wants all this nonsense
I have a saying that I live by: Never pet a burning dog....
Casey again and again you prove to me how right you are. This is 100% facts, even one girl told me this directly, paraphrasing: “like don’t tell me whats going on, it’s a turn off.” Exactly word for word, and at the time I thought was just strange and rude, now I understand.
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What Casey is saying is so true, which is why being 'partners' in a relationship is so detrimental. Being 'partners' ruins all the mystery.
If you don’t listen to this man you will regret it and lose her fast
7:22 totally true. i have few women who on a consistent basis text/vnote me asking "where in the world are you now / which time zone are you in". I am not dating these women, BUT THAT IS WHERE YOU NEED THEM TO BE, wondering about you. The other to that I get a lot is "when are you coming back". That only part I still working, they will ask that A LOT while I am away, and when I am back THEY FREEZE. And no we werent having a conversation and then they ask that, that is the random out of the blue message they will send. No they not asking me to collect and take something back for them, actually NONE have EVER asked me that. The ones who show up, they just show up smash and that's it.
"I am not dating these women"... that says a lot😂
All women are temporary unless they prove otherwise.
Yeah I should have listened to this earlier
Great advice. Zander with the intrapersonal dynamics and how to be edgy advice, Corey with the 50k view blueprint for setting dates and how not to be perturbed, LFA with the degenerate social culture advice and family topics, Tripp with the dating interactions. I know each channel is trying to monetize and grow their own brand but taking and creating your own system from each channels advice is the way to go.
Basically, don't be a Tryhard with your communication. Only give out communication that she finds interesting, or when she first asks. Let her seek and pull the information from you.
If you're talking about during a relationship with a woman than yeah it's best to not keep updating your next move throughout the day that's just weird and simpish, but if it's women you'll see here and there and they start a conversation with you 1st there is nothing wrong about telling here bits and pieces about yourself. And this is why what you're saying is not completely true because there are college athletes who talk about making it to the professionals one day, they keep the masses updated, they don't care what people think, or if any man has a specific goal they're going to acquire someday it's nothing wrong it's intriguing. It all depends on how much the woman likes you as a man, if you do it for her tell her a good thing about your life is actually a good thing, and if you have talent you're gonna be more desirable. Why you think these women go after the guys who pursue their purpose, they usually display it without trying. You can't be completely quiet, you can't be a mannequin. A lil info never hurt no one. But yeah it really all depends how much she sees you as a rarity compared to other men, and how much she likes the guy.
Huge pits 🤍👑
For everyone to learn:
What do you say when she asks what are you doing or what are you eating? Anything that sparks her interest?
Can’t always completely ignore the text or question sometimes need to say something… Stuff
This is great information about how to weed out women who want a man for his status and who don't want a man who actually loves them 👍
Although, writing about what you're doing all the time is just annoying for all involved.
Hahahaha first one cracked me up because that’s so true
Bangers
"I have came" - Casey when he comes
10:45 and this is exactly why i been winning with women forever since. issue i had in my teens and early 20s was, once they approached and we start talking, i started to become too open and available, so they lost interest. they like, ugh, this guy aint what he seem to be. once i curbed that.... total game changer. now i dictate which girl i see and when and more so, if i cant be bothered with one, i know what to do for HER to leave. but if she disrespect me in ANY kind of way, i instantly cut her off.
Her disrespecting you once is usually just a test to see how you handle being disrespected. Big Herc said that prison gang leaders do the same thing to a new guy for the same reason. Do you stand up to her or let her walk all over you? Don't cut her off unless it becomes a pattern. If she crosses a boundary, let her know and tell her that if she does it again you will walk. She will respect you for having a boundary, and you are good. She will test again at a later time but the more tests you pass the fewer of them there will be.
@@ErikLibertyif she’s testing you that means she doesn’t like you. It’s clear you guys have no clue. FYI, being available means TO WORSHIP HER. You can be available to talk about how great you are, cuz if she walks away from that you lose nothing and didn’t care about her
@@marcusmcgraw3519 Wrong. All women test the men they date and are in a relationship with. It's been dubbed by the pickup community as "shit tests." Passing them is crucial. It's the only way that a woman can know whether you are legit or just a talker putting up a phony front. For example, a woman will test you by suddenly pulling away randomly even though everything has been going perfect. She wants to see how you respond in order to see how needy you are. She can't just ask you how needy you are because you can lie about it too easily or even be honestly mistaken in your assessment of yourself. A test is the only way she can discover the truth. Here are a couple videos on the subject which you can look up.
"The #1 TEST that HOT WOMEN DO to gauge your DATING VALUE and SMV compared to OTHER MEN When DATING!"
"5 Tests Women Give Men & How To Beat Them"
@@marcusmcgraw3519 Don't know where my other comment went, but here is another video on this topic. Women test you when they like you because they are actually considering you as a potential option and are hoping you will pass the test so that they have a reason to see you again.
Do THIS when WOMEN TEST YOU on a DATE (Casey Zander's Dating LIFE EXPOSED)
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Casey. thanks
me in Colombia learning from these vids
No need of all this philosophy and dating technical, basically womens respect and engage with a man who is ready to commit for marriage, dating is a story some where you can't figure out the reality
Don’t do it that’s why I’m divorced
This is also true in relationships. Long ones. Failure of ANYthing you plan, whether you could control it or not, makes them see you as a failure or inept, over time.
The more you watch this the more u ask yourself why bother
Yea this guys videos are legit
I think of this the complete opposite women miss out on good men as much as men miss out on good women nobody’s perfect men could talk themselves out of getting laid women can talk themselves out of getting relationship.
These type videos 🎯💯
Casey Zander is literally out here doing God’s work, dropping gems of wisdom every time 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Ladies, be afraid… the balance of power is realigning 👌🏽💯
😂😂😂You are tooooo needy for that game
The one caveat I would make is that the supplies to women who have tons of options. If the girl is not attractive, or really into you she might be down for updates. You definitely have to know how to read the room. If it's a hot chick, you definitely don't want to be an open book
Dude no matter thier options or hottness, a fat poor slob can hook a 10 if he acts the right way
Timely information for the King.
Another great video. Spot on
Spot on man thanks for this
Crazy. Just started speaking to a new woman. And she said iv definitely got her attention. I said why, she said because I'm consistent, make her laugh and obviously looks. So it's kind of misleading. This woman said she loves the consistency of me texting or calling her every day...work that one out then?
That's a trap 😀
If you think what they tell you has any bearing on what they think, I would implore you to reevaluate. Down is up, left is right.
You’re in for a RUDE AWAKENING 🤣
@@severinemanday4334 Explain?
@@ZoomKing-fp8gh how?
Without doubt, Casey is the real stuff!
Brilliant casey! Your instructions are amazing😊
I keep my life as private as possible. When a woman asks me information, I will be playful and fun but I won't be an open book. Make her ask questions. I've had women say "I want to know more about you." I tell them they have to ask questions. If you just talk about your childhood and upbringing and unload on her without her putting in effort / chasing you, she won't get much fulfillment from that. Don't be a cold robot or anything but don't blabber on and on about your life where she knows everything and there is no more mystery to you.
Holy Dear god I just did all of that and I kind of knew I was doing the wrong thing. But let me explained it was our first conversation after a year and a half of break up. It was unexpected longer than I planned. It was a 6 year relationship. I felt as if I was lowering my value. What do I do now?
let her come to you, don’t pursue, I too broke up w a girl after a year no contact we spoke to each other and I kept pushing for dates, this showed low value on my end and she never wanted to go on a date with me
after that she got the vibe I was talking to another woman and suddenly wanted to go on a date with me, shes now stalking all my social media posts to this day, long story short, keep it pushing man and stack up other options
Basically they don’t care about anyone but themselves, i know, i live with 3 women.
They would say the same about me too, because i had enough ages ago.😂
Man, I gotta say (no hate)…..it always irritates me the way you say “food” (ffoouud) 🤦🏽♂️
How's this line for puttin the brakes on a woman's advancements when she asks what wrong or why don't you want me... "Im not so sure I want to fulfill your hypergamy."🤣
All good but how about the woman da follow u they always see what u doing up loading videos everyday talking about woman 😂. Is all good your channel is good don't agree in everything u should make a video about semen retention if u abel to master da ur a King
How do you create hypergamy if you are dating someone within the workplace
What to do when a girl send i love you meme on Instagram......it is a meme ...what to do...is it a game ...should we say yes or we should react ....or we should say her it need time ... please help ..-
I have to earse her number and forget about it. . We need to get over our selfs. Its not easy . It feels like a dark cloud over takes us . Let her go . Sometimes takes time. You make mistakes. Dont care she doesn't care
8:10 often staying silent dont do a shit for me. Disagree about that. Sometimes it does though.
This si so true. I have been using this for years unkowingly. When I look back at the firls I gave updates to and more information. They are gone. The ones I gave little to no information. They are still around and chasing me.
Thank you 🙏🙂
Keep in mind that this type of information can be used to send a woman on her way. To allow another woman to fill her spot 😊
Telling her where you eat is complete bull junk
2:28 yea dont, unless she asks or she brings it up. and what happens with me, they always bring it up because they see it as a way to GAIN ACCESS / GET CLOSER to me. Once they seem like they drifting when they bring it up, or after they not following throw, they just used it to get close to you. It's best to talk about things that are NOW, the latest bull crap that is going on on social media. Where u wanna go on vacation, more lighter topics.
I treated my girl, like you said, and now she's leaving.
sounds like she’s super clingy and needy
She would've left anyway
Good, weed out the ones who don’t respect you
Then let her go, if you have options you don't care if she leaves, bruh
Personally I would take this advice very lightly for an actual long term gf … this stuff mostly works to F around short term with somewhat less intelligent women. The principles apply for all women but you gotta tone it down and use these lightly with respectable women that you’re serious about 🤷🏻♂️
Definitely makes sense
Funny thing, she tried call it a "date" and i told her i do not date nor this will be date in fact they will never have a date but rather a moment and that's top . That spin her head hard. Other one try's to flirt hard and i am just laying back, yesterday she lost mind and told i already lead 30 to 0 in flirting score, seems my jackhammer cant break that wall. Next thing she started ranting that there are 2 types of woman; one who love idgfa men and other who prefer i gaf type of man. I just told her she is playing a game now trying to confuse my mind and mess things up to become subjective to situation and bailed out.
So I had good first date with a girl. We had rlly fun and after the date we texted both that we liked it. Now I’m on vacation for 1 Week. Should I text her a lil something once in the middle of the week to keep the interest or should I wait the 1 week I’m on vacation and text after to get a 2nd date. Not so sure about just not texting, since the date was going well…would appreciate your help or some tips from your own experiences guys 🙏🏽
Get in touch with her after you get back.
Question:
How would you guys deal with a woman who actually shows an interest in your life?
I’ve dealt with women who have mentioned that my closed-off nature makes them feel disconnected to me.
I always just say that what you see is what you get, and there’s isn’t much else below the surface.
What do you guys think? Is there another way to handle this?
She will pull back, guaranteed
Casey is a god given blessing for mens❤
So when she asks you how you been, whats new with you. How do you maintain the mystery without revealing what you been up to🤔
one to two word answers...low investment into the conversation and long breaks between texts
works 4 ladies as well 🎯 🤭
Bro you got no game
Spitting facts!
Incredible video
Casey you are my role model❤
Thank you ❤😅nice tan
Good video topic man 💯
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0:15 you need her to ask you for updates, trust me. and if she ain't, she not interested in you to find out. Why? she NEEDS to know she is SECURE with you and if her nature doesn't urge her to know this, then she does not see you as long term, just for right now.
Thank you sensei🙏🏾
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In Casey we trust
But what when she asks on a daliy base What iam doing Right now or this day? What should i ask
Ask her to stop, or else you'll fall out of Casey's protocol.😂
Talk about nature, sunset, plants and good vibes.
FACTS 100%
On point