3 Things Must Happen Before A Man (Over 40) Knows You're The One
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I would rather spend 20 years with an older man who loves me, than 50 years with a younger man who doesn’t. Just saying. ☕️😁❤️
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Hi Jessica
Absolutely. When we are toxic to ourselves. We attract the same. The more you love yourself the more we seek what we can actually give back. The mirror effect. Self love and the willingness to keep our peace is the first step to a loving relationship 💓 choosing solitude over chaos.
Indeed
It’s all about setting boundaries and making it very clear that you respect yourself.
Indeed
I remember reading an interview with Alice Cooper. He and his wife tell each other regularly they are with each other "till the end" (forgive me if I'm paraphrasing). I thought and think that is so beautiful - they will be with each other till, essentially, the pass on to their next life. That to me is real love. How comforting and loving that must be. Anyway, thank you for your video.
My pleasure 🙏
After listening to your advice for the last 5 years, I am ready to open my heart to a man that I have been vetting this whole time. You laughed when I said I had been vetting him for 5 years, you asked if he was still alive. It's all those things I've been looking for in a man! While listening to your advice and putting your advice to the test, I believe I have finally found that one! I don't want to change him and I am willing to take care of him as we grow old together;😊
Yay! I'm happy for you ☺️
@@JonathonAslay thanks to my
"big brother,"
I felt sorry for G yesterday. I have never been that woman and the desperation she felt seemed sad. I was told many years ago to not depend on a man...financially or otherwise. So i never have. I believe you have to appreciate and have a mutual respect for one another. Be true to yourself. Thank you Jonathon for your wisdom!! I appreciate you!❤👍
@@debbiemoeller2169 me too - it’s so easy to get wrapped up in the moment. But then what? I believe that’s why she reached out… & then the ego says.. but! But? … However, Jonathan is right! We don’t have time to play… hopefully more men get the memo…
@@lorrainec3673 agree 100%
You are so on point with this video, Jonathon. I believe that when we practice self-love, know our worth and set healthy boundaries, we will attract healthy relationships into our lives. A healthy realtionship starts with a foundation of friendship.
Exactly
Finding real is not faint of heart. I’m willing Jonathon…you’re a crusader for love and I have been watching you for years. Hugging my teddy bear and will have a real one soon 😍
Deception of Chemistry. So true. This is the most important time to question each other’s compatibility. Chemistry creates an illusion of trust.
Amen Jonathan, I hear you.. my work puts me in touch with reality of mortality all the time, sad to say. Since Jan, one Young human client and some of my elderly pet clients passed away...it makes one wonder for sure...Thankfully my youngest says he'll take care of me and I can live with him when I get old....I pray I wouldn't have to depend on him, but it helps to have a back up plan...
Thank you Jonathan- many need this wake up call...Bless! 🙏💐🌞
Jonathan you are Spot on, the nurse/ purse is real, both ways as we age. The thing that must be in the open is does your partner truly value you or are they there for the” ride “ ? I’ve lived this scenario and realized that yes, in a heartbeat the toxic man would leave without a second glance if I didn’t give the amount of attention and stay under his passive aggressive narc toxic control. Mistake vetting that one- divorce !Out with the old and in with the new.. glad I made my exit and can live free. That experience doesn’t stop me from my new partner and I going the distance, it’s a very different feeling of reciprocity.. empathy, love and kindness . Toxic people it’s all about them all the time .. curb those mf’s ladies.. and move on to your dream.. replace the person not the dream.. as Susan Winter says so eloquently. Enjoy the time we have left because we know not the hour or the day. 🎉 enjoy every day ❤
Yes
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you😊❤
Sometimes we don’t even know we have fall in love until we have fallen in love. Sometimes we don’t know the person we are dating as well in love with us until they are fall in love with us. Hopefully you both fall together, right Jonathan.
I was married for 33 yrs and my one passed from Cancer. I would definitely go down the marriage road again with a special person if love was there and they are true to the relationship. Love is love…yes you might have to take care of someone but if you love them…you want to be there for them. It could be them taking care of you-remember that!
I'm glad you do these videos they helps so many
Awe... thank you 😊
Thank you Jonathon
Good stuff, thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it
This is one of my favorite videos
Happy to hear 😊
Very nice advice thank you!!💙🙏
Glad it was helpful!
Jonathon you're so down to earth 🌎, truly i mean that but i have to be honest that you make me cry, thank you for your work and also supporting others who really desire a life partner
How do I make you cry?
@@JonathonAslay because it's personal as it's the realization of things void and missing in life which obviously left with loneliness, despair and longing just to understood and cared for, moments of sadness, hugs and gratitude Jonathon 👍🙏
I want to be his nurse and mind being a purse. what i do for him is out of love. I do it for love. And i notice he does the for me. For better or worse. We know what we want. And that is each other. It's Great. I feel bless. Jonathan, i like your videos. I watch them to see if i am missing anything. You are very good.
Thanks for sharing!!
Great Talk!
Thanks ☺️
Good conversation with truth & reality we all need Jonathon. Relationships take work, strength, unselfishness & unconditional love! We all fall short in commitment when things get hard. Thanks for the hugs & back to you.❤ Two things we could all use more of, good music & warm hugs.
Well said!
Newly subscribed from England.
I learned a lot from your explanation of the importance of appreciation.
I have the 80% & now I realise that I can actually appreciate the 20% Im not crazy about.
I definitely have the care element on both sides. We have had to prove that early on in our relationship where we could have drifted apart.
We didnt.
It made us stronger. You have helped me to accept him fully. I already love him, im prepared to take care of him, I definitely want to do that.
Now, thanks to you, I can work on appreciating the difference between us.
Hes already reached that stage. He accepts me fully.
Btw im 59, hes 56.
Thanks so much.
Yay!
Great video ❤ and inspiring true desire
Glad you enjoyed it
Great conversation Jonathon totally agree once we accept that we can take of one another on a 50:50 level than Bob’s your uncle happy days I reckon. Acceptance is key here
Maybe
Boy I’ve got problems.
very interesting
How so...
BIG BIG HUGGS 🫂🫂
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At 58 I often get mistaken to be in my early 30s, including at the gym when I have no make up and enjoying combo moves and supersets. I’ve never been on meds and have pretty much nailed down the longevity front and have a fully remote job to love for decades longer. I would love to find a man similar in health, whatever the chronological age, to enjoy the next 40 years or so with. But OMG where is such man who is also bona fide single and financially free? I’m sorry, I do not want to be anyone’s nurse, cook, or maid, either.
Except when he might need to be a nurse…we never know what the future holds. 💜
How can he see you?
Truly let it go and you'll find him ❤
@@JonathonAslayAt the gym, while on looooooong walks, on the Koko Head hike, at Waimea Bay…. 😊 I’m on IG, same screen name.🤙🏽
@@deec411In the meantime, I’ll just keep being happily single and living my best life ;-)
Question: What are the components of ingredients equals Chemistry in a relationship?
My 5.5 year relationship just ended. I thought he was the one. And he couldn’t see it. So I said if he couldn’t make steps towards what was next it was time for us to be done. He left a message eek after. But when we had the last conversation he said. I’m not saying this is what I want but maybe one day down the line I’ll realize you’re the love of my life and realize you’re the one who got away. I haven’t spoken to him since. As he couldn’t ever tell me who his female friends were. The entire relationship. So hard. I tried. He’s 51.
I,m Soo Sorry i,m 42 years old and Single From Ohio When your Ready to go in to dating let me Know
@@tiffanyburke2785 you should've left 4 years ago
What's your zodiac sign, Jonathon?
He is a Leo
@@myratraney Thanks, Myra! That fits!
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So what are the 3 things!?
Did you watch the video?
No wrong we love ourself an lookin for provider real men want to take care of you that bonds you !
Ladies he knows nothing ..date a provider
Given 80% of the population can only support themselves, that leaves only 20% to choose from.
Why do you need a provider? I can look after myself, but choose to share my life with someone who cares and is willing to share their life with me also... FYI, Jonathon knows a heck of a lot, and is very informative. Please have respect 🙏
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