FREE Call with Jonathon► jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7-- jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove How Men Choose Their SoulMate (FREE Gift) www.jonathonaslay.com/gift/ Self-Love the Book: www.selflovethebook.com The "What Would Love Do?" Podcast www.jonathonaslay.com/category/podcast/ Recommended Books jonathonaslay.com/book-recommendations Follow Me On Instagram instagram.com/jonathonaslay/ Join this channel to get access to perks: ruclips.net/channel/UCDOXs_34FF93o66Z-S0py1gjoin Get a FREE copy of my dating vows here: www.jonathonaslay.com/datingvows
I never felt worthy, even when married. Finally met a wonderful man. He is a communicator, and tells me how he feels, which I am not used to. It feels great, it's like a dream. Not kidding, he just told me that when he looks at my face, time stands still. I had to ask my daughter if that was a good thing or a bad thing. Starting over at 71.
Reality, many women who want marriage/relationship will remain single…women who want companionship many will have to settle/compromise/be flexible. If you meet someone who ticks many boxes, consider yourself very, very lucky.
Yep, at that age, most men are looking for a nurse with a purse. Companionship, sex and sharing bills is their goal, at that age, being a provider for a woman is not benefitting them. Besides most older women are already financially independant and just want to feel loved again.
LeeAnn is great! She needed your positive feedback and push Jonathan - she’s surrounded by death & dying -it’s a hard energy to carry when you’re trying to live & move forward with life. Bless her & you 🙌🏽❤️🩹❤
Why does it seem that whenever the host opens his mouth he's lecturing and quite rowled up in these one on ones interrupting them constantly. It's tiresome, and he needs to listen more or maybe just try a gentler approach. These people are baring their souls and can barely get a word out edgewise. And one more thing, in most of these videos the critique is of women's approach to how to 'catch a man'. I suggest that the focus be the other way around. What does the man bring to the table? If it's not much, there's your answer. And don't spend your time trying to change people. Go live your life enjoying every minute of it you can, surrounded by whomever you choose, whether it's a relationship or just a friend, or in the great company of your ownself. Being alone does not have to mean being lonely. Time is precious and we don't need to hold our breath waiting for "the one" to show up. If they're out there, they'll find you, just don't be a hermit. And by the way, unless you're committed to only one person, you can actually have more than one 'friend' or partner. Good luck, have as much fun with it you can muster up. :)
Simple answer to this lady ..99 pc of ppl are just not dating and marrying at 69 years of age ..essentially it's going to be the 75 year plus man that would be your "match" or the 30 year old fetishist or scammer. Sharp answer but unfortunately true. Id say, just go about your life and remove dating from your target. If it happens, it happens. Potentially you are a bit desperate, perhaps not used to being single ...so that's a red cloth to a bull for scammers btw ...You seem well presented, but facts are facts.
I'm also from a big town and now live in a tiny town of 3.5k and most men here are several generations from here, farmers, totally different mindset. so i only date in the big city one hour from here, i never date from around me. when you're of a different type of person you have to find your type of people. go to the nearest big city. ❤
Whether you are with someone or with yourself....it doesn't matter...contentment is key, content to simply be yourself. I like that mindfulness book called 30 Days to Overcome Loneliness by Harper Daniels.
Im so worthy, and surrounded by incredible men. I'm carefully venturing into a .... "Gosh, I like you!" friendship. I'm hoping we click, he's pretty amazing. If no, at least i have a new friend.
@@JonathonAslay ...I have to say...if not for you, my superhero, I probably wouldn't have known this man of value. Please keep up the crusade of getting us women in the right headspace to recognize a good man when we see one. You are appreciated and loved, sir! 🥰
She was all over the place with what she said. Maybe she needs to write down what her list of needs are. She also seems to have a very young spirit too. Great interview, she just needs to be more decisive.
I think sometimes both men and women get burnt out from dating and maybe just need to take short break. We all try too hard at times to the extent that it can get exhausting and discouraging when we have high expectations and feel a little impatient. And we may overanalyze too. Maybe take a vacation, have fun with friends and family, spend time catching up on your favorite Netflix shows or movies. Give yourself time to relax and refresh your mind/spirit. We get so fixated at the destination that we forget to enjoy the journey. Peace and love to all.❤️
so, it looks like you erased my previous comments on this video from before. She was in the same place I was in. I just got there. I had got on match because I was there and I knew noone. I wish you would have seen my comments, because I was ready to jump on and explain to you that Whitefish, MT is a dfferent place and I understood where she was coming from. I don't think you should have used her as an example, it was maybe 25 percent mindset, but places have a big impact also. i don't think you were right to use her like this
Sometimes people cannot be too selective. Let's be brutally honest. Although I attract men half my age but you know the majority of men, no matter the age they just want ponani. Not for me. At my age, most of my age are not active and I cannot settle for that. If I were looking for a man to die, that would be perfect but I cannot stoop that low. I can't stomach that.
Hi !! JA and everyone on this channel ✋ Yeah! I want that question. What can I bring to the table that's very popular question this day and age. I believe there are still great men and women on the planet 😊. Hi to Lea Ann
I actually like you. You offer good information. I lost track if you are still with your lady. People are so disappointing. Just be ok with yourself and if it comes it comes. If not. Let it ok
Sorry it happens. I'm not alone here.. I thought I had healed and got my cards on the table clear what I want. He promised he had what I wanted but I figured out none of my critical needs were met. No quality time, no reciprocity, no long term goals n I ended it....Yes, its tricky dating at mid age where each person has an already determined goal.. n your significant is goal less or if he has, not with u...
FREE Call with Jonathon► jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7-- jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
How Men Choose Their SoulMate (FREE Gift) www.jonathonaslay.com/gift/
Self-Love the Book: www.selflovethebook.com
The "What Would Love Do?" Podcast www.jonathonaslay.com/category/podcast/
Recommended Books jonathonaslay.com/book-recommendations
Follow Me On Instagram instagram.com/jonathonaslay/
Join this channel to get access to perks:
ruclips.net/channel/UCDOXs_34FF93o66Z-S0py1gjoin
Get a FREE copy of my dating vows here: www.jonathonaslay.com/datingvows
I never felt worthy, even when married. Finally met a wonderful man. He is a communicator, and tells me how he feels, which I am not used to. It feels great, it's like a dream. Not kidding, he just told me that when he looks at my face, time stands still. I had to ask my daughter if that was a good thing or a bad thing. Starting over at 71.
Thanks for sharing 👍 That's great 🙏💖
Amen, gb n wish you the best.
WATCH! to solidify, he’s not love bombing you.
@@julieevans3110 , it's so sad... But your correct....my trust has been shattered from so many bad experiences
@@ravenraven966 yes, your right, it is so despairingly sad 😞 😢
Reality, many women who want marriage/relationship will remain single…women who want companionship many will have to settle/compromise/be flexible. If you meet someone who ticks many boxes, consider yourself very, very lucky.
For sure
Women need to feel a physical attraction to a man also. I have experienced this even though these men had a good heart
Yes they do
Yep, at that age, most men are looking for a nurse with a purse. Companionship, sex and sharing bills is their goal, at that age, being a provider for a woman is not benefitting them. Besides most older women are already financially independant and just want to feel loved again.
LeeAnn is great! She needed your positive feedback and push Jonathan - she’s surrounded by death & dying -it’s a hard energy to carry when you’re trying to live & move forward with life. Bless her & you 🙌🏽❤️🩹❤
Thank you 😊
You’re very welcome! 🙏🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💯
Why does it seem that whenever the host opens his mouth he's lecturing and quite rowled up in these one on ones interrupting them constantly. It's tiresome, and he needs to listen more or maybe just try a gentler approach. These people are baring their souls and can barely get a word out edgewise. And one more thing, in most of these videos the critique is of women's approach to how to 'catch a man'. I suggest that the focus be the other way around. What does the man bring to the table? If it's not much, there's your answer. And don't spend your time trying to change people. Go live your life enjoying every minute of it you can, surrounded by whomever you choose, whether it's a relationship or just a friend, or in the great company of your ownself. Being alone does not have to mean being lonely. Time is precious and we don't need to hold our breath waiting for "the one" to show up. If they're out there, they'll find you, just don't be a hermit. And by the way, unless you're committed to only one person, you can actually have more than one 'friend' or partner. Good luck, have as much fun with it you can muster up. :)
It's my style
It's his style! And I knew that his style was going to chase off his last very beautiful woman and it did. He was constantly butting in on her too😢
Im 5’10”, confident, and I realize I intimidate men… but I am really only attracted to men who are confident and hard to intimidate😂
Thanks for your advice prayers that she finds someone very amazing as she is
Wishing you all good fortune, LeeAnn! You are sparky, sensitive and vibrant!!
Fingers crossed!
Simple answer to this lady ..99 pc of ppl are just not dating and marrying at 69 years of age ..essentially it's going to be the 75 year plus man that would be your "match" or the 30 year old fetishist or scammer. Sharp answer but unfortunately true. Id say, just go about your life and remove dating from your target. If it happens, it happens. Potentially you are a bit desperate, perhaps not used to being single ...so that's a red cloth to a bull for scammers btw ...You seem well presented, but facts are facts.
Possibly
Loved this!!! Thank you Jonathon❤❤
Happy to hear...
Lea Ann seems like a high energy fun lady !! … Perhaps she needs to shake it up a bit and seek a younger man 🥰😘
I'm also from a big town and now live in a tiny town of 3.5k and most men here are several generations from here, farmers, totally different mindset. so i only date in the big city one hour from here, i never date from around me. when you're of a different type of person you have to find your type of people. go to the nearest big city. ❤
God's blessings to all Amen 🍀🙏😇🙏😇🙏😇
I like this hot seat guest. Great interview and I learned a lot
Jonathan you don't represent most men. She is completely right
She is not self sabotaging at all.
I said maybe...
Currently, two men tell me that they're too busy with work to invest. 😂
❤🙏 You were wonderful with this lovely lady...thank you for being you.
I’m bring a lot! I’m top shelf. I’m the full package
Ex
😂 im Can spell
Sounds like Lee Ann ILungren hasn't healed from her divorce
She should get in tune with herself and then the universe will align with her properly
Whether you are with someone or with yourself....it doesn't matter...contentment is key, content to simply be yourself. I like that mindfulness book called 30 Days to Overcome Loneliness by Harper Daniels.
Im so worthy, and surrounded by incredible men. I'm carefully venturing into a .... "Gosh, I like you!" friendship. I'm hoping we click, he's pretty amazing. If no, at least i have a new friend.
Yay!
@@JonathonAslay ...INDEED!!! 😁
@@JonathonAslay ...I have to say...if not for you, my superhero, I probably wouldn't have known this man of value. Please keep up the crusade of getting us women in the right headspace to recognize a good man when we see one. You are appreciated and loved, sir! 🥰
She was all over the place with what she said. Maybe she needs to write down what her list of needs are. She also seems to have a very young spirit too. Great interview, she just needs to be more decisive.
It's raining great men!!!
Eyesight can be a problem when you’re a little kid though Jonathan … don’t agree w/that one … gotta claim all the credit we can get man😉🤭😘
I think sometimes both men and women get burnt out from dating and maybe just need to take short break. We all try too hard at times to the extent that it can get exhausting and discouraging when we have high expectations and feel a little impatient. And we may overanalyze too. Maybe take a vacation, have fun with friends and family, spend time catching up on your favorite Netflix shows or movies. Give yourself time to relax and refresh your mind/spirit. We get so fixated at the destination that we forget to enjoy the journey. Peace and love to all.❤️
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. VERY ILLUMINATING ❤❤
I love this lady tbh❤
Homegirl thinks she’s a “10”, but…… NOPE
Worked an an affirmation coach for months on this topic. Nothing changed.
Lea may need to move somewhere else.
Men do not want to be loved for their heart .
so, it looks like you erased my previous comments on this video from before. She was in the same place I was in. I just got there. I had got on match because I was there and I knew noone. I wish you would have seen my comments, because I was ready to jump on and explain to you that Whitefish, MT is a dfferent place and I understood where she was coming from. I don't think you should have used her as an example, it was maybe 25 percent mindset, but places have a big impact also.
i don't think you were right to use her like this
I didn't erase it
@@JonathonAslay ok Jonathon thank you I feel like I know you because I have been listening to you for awhile now. Hot seat soon
Sometimes people cannot be too selective. Let's be brutally honest. Although I attract men half my age but you know the majority of men, no matter the age they just want ponani. Not for me. At my age, most of my age are not active and I cannot settle for that. If I were looking for a man to die, that would be perfect but I cannot stoop that low. I can't stomach that.
Hi !! JA and everyone on this channel ✋
Yeah! I want that question.
What can I bring to the table that's very popular question this day and age.
I believe there are still great men and women on the planet 😊.
Hi to Lea Ann
Thanks for sharing!!
She said that she overwhelms them. It may be that she uses too many words.
I am not that old
How old are you?
I actually like you. You offer good information. I lost track if you are still with your lady. People are so disappointing. Just be ok with yourself and if it comes it comes. If not. Let it ok
Sadly, she ended the relationship a year ago...
Sorry it happens. I'm not alone here.. I thought I had healed and got my cards on the table clear what I want. He promised he had what I wanted but I figured out none of my critical needs were met. No quality time, no reciprocity, no long term goals n I ended it....Yes, its tricky dating at mid age where each person has an already determined goal.. n your significant is goal less or if he has, not with u...
@@JonathonAslay, I must say I am shocked...was not keeping up with you..what happened
If there are no good men, I say don't do it. It is a young person's game.
Why do so many women assume that they are not being approached by men b/c the men are intimidated by them?🫣
I know, right.