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  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy 5 месяцев назад +28

    In Dreamgirls, Jimmy Early (Eddie Murphy’s character) was married the entire 8 years he was with Lorelle. 😭 he was with her so much I forgot he had a wife. I started thinking he had gotten divorced. That’s one of the main romance plots I can think of where one person was married the entire time.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +4

      That's a great point! Jimmy had practically left his wife, or maybe it was just that they were together since they spent most of their time on the road. Now I wanna watch that movie again. BTW, I love that song Jimmy sang "I Meant You No Harm".

    • @Chrysyyyy
      @Chrysyyyy 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@HeitCheri omg. Dreamgirls is my fave movie! I can watch it 24/7. 😂 & yes, I love that song too! I loved all of his performances. But, that makes sense too. He probably saw Lorelle more than he saw his wife bc of their job.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      @Chrysyyyy I love that movie too! I remember getting the soundtrack when it came out! Heit hates musicals, but I can play that soundtrack back and forth! 😄

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      And on the subject of that song, I always wished they had done a full version for the soundtrack without the comedy rap part at the end. Just sing the whole thing like the beginning!

    • @Chrysyyyy
      @Chrysyyyy 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@HeitCheri omg. My dad hated how much we would play the soundtrack in the car! 😂😂 esp when we would be in the car singing/reciting “It’s All Over” & they def should’ve done a full version of that song. Because it really was a good song. 😭😭

  • @theresalanice
    @theresalanice 5 месяцев назад +49

    The mama doesn’t know any better smh. That’s why she’s her age and alone. Savannah needs to do the exact opposite 😂

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +3

      This part!

    • @leelee5593
      @leelee5593 5 месяцев назад

      I agree

    • @Nevaeh1
      @Nevaeh1 5 месяцев назад +5

      The mother was trying to live vicariously through her daughter. If she could pull a man like Kenneth at her age, she would. Also, she was struggling financially. She wanted her daughter to have a man with money so that her daughter could keep providing for her. The money was what made her define him as a good man. Good men don't cheat on their wives.

  • @MyUniqueBeauty
    @MyUniqueBeauty 5 месяцев назад +16

    "He's a good man, Savanna! A good man! 🤡"

  • @leelee5593
    @leelee5593 5 месяцев назад +12

    This is crazy it was a good movie about girlfriends but whew they had a lot going on. Ppl have to realize that happiness comes and goes you can’t make anyone happy they have to do that themselves.

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 5 месяцев назад +13

    I guess Savanah wasn't in **put on shades** good hands....😎
    🎶YEEEEEEAAAAAHHHH!!!🎶

  • @asiahdingle5824
    @asiahdingle5824 5 месяцев назад +20

    That mother is a hot mess 😂😂. He's a good man Savannah, a good man 😑

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂

  • @abdullahhasanprattmd3327
    @abdullahhasanprattmd3327 5 месяцев назад +7

    This soundtrack is one of the most congruent with its motion picture of any that I can think of. Great take on the lyrics Ri. I low key think its movies like this and soul food that always set unrealistic goals for Tyler Perry Movies.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes indeed! ❤️

  • @DTVKR
    @DTVKR 5 месяцев назад +13

    Wait ain’t Kenneth, Zeke(love and basketball)? He just a dog all around, he plays the roll well😭😂

    • @DTVKR
      @DTVKR 5 месяцев назад +3

      DESPERATION

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +3

      Kenneth, Zeke... He's been typecast when it comes to these movies. He still played the president on 24. 😆

  • @geminip.1525
    @geminip.1525 5 месяцев назад +3

    My favorite line is he’s a good man Savannah! The mom was definitely delusional

  • @therealmarlonbellamy
    @therealmarlonbellamy 5 месяцев назад +8

    DESPERATION!!!! Fun facts: Dennis Haysbert appeared on 227. Starlita Dupois & Robert Townsend were mother & son in Odd Jobs & Hollywood Shuffle. She was also in Strapped, Three Strikes & Friday After Next.

  • @Deana_A
    @Deana_A 5 месяцев назад +9

    Honestly men have this way of making woman feel in love with them vs actually being in love. Sex makes everyone happy including women. If he’s unhappy in a marriage that means he’s looking for someone or something to satisfy him cause he fell in love with his wife for a reason and now he’s looking for another reason to leave her. Marriage isn’t always about happiness but also about knowing yourself that man is lost lol

  • @charenzo95
    @charenzo95 5 месяцев назад +3

    Tasha's mother on Power is just like Savanah's mother. Don't let him get away is their motto. You can't keep anybody who doesn't want to be kept. Not Savanah or the wife.

  • @caliBornbEauty
    @caliBornbEauty 5 месяцев назад +4

    Desperation lol
    Savannah's mom was aware of Kenneth cheating but felt like he checked enough other boxes that one little flaw would ruin him for her daughter. She felt like cheating is minor. But he got a good job, he's handsome and successful and he LOVES you girl! lol. The mama didn't see the manipulation. She just felt like anything is better than no man and you could do a lot worse than a man like Kenneth. smh. Mama was speaking out of experience and fear

  • @marvinwhittaker
    @marvinwhittaker 5 месяцев назад +2

    Just like the song If Loving You Is Wrong, I Don't Want To Be Right.

  • @Lenaaa_Beana
    @Lenaaa_Beana 5 месяцев назад +11

    He definitely dialed *67 before calling his wife from Savannah phone. And his wife dialed *69 and called back 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +4

      😆 His wife knew what was up!

  • @geminip.1525
    @geminip.1525 5 месяцев назад +2

    Desperation! I just found your channel. I love these deep dives and fan theories! I just binged the why did I get married series and it was great and thought provoking thanks guys I have definitely subscribed!

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      Welcome aboard! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @oreabejide
    @oreabejide 5 месяцев назад +17

    the rizz conversation was so funny 😭😭

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +8

      😆 We old, so... 😂

    • @kJ-gk5qu
      @kJ-gk5qu 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@HeitCheriY’all make 50 look 40 (If not correct my bad, though I heard it spoken about in 1 of Y’all channels)with Y’all style/personality, & always have interesting perspectives, really a hidden gem in YT.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @charenzo95
    @charenzo95 5 месяцев назад +2

    Funny thing is in the part 2 book she ended up in a lucky marriage that she shouldn't have gotten in to in the 1st place. Nobody would peer pressure me into blowing up my life. After all that she accomplished her mother was still making her feel like she wasn't ish because it was more than likely in her future to be unmarried. Not necessarily single forever but without a husband . In her mother's day the need for a spouse was rarely emotional and savanah didn't have those needs. They lady messed her up.

  • @100Stratusfiedx
    @100Stratusfiedx 5 месяцев назад +3

    Ohh you adding that Aleyxss Tylor video is a throwback. Don’t let know man hit the bottom 😂

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂 If you know, you know!

  • @Lay__Loves
    @Lay__Loves 5 месяцев назад +8

    Desperation. He's a bad man, Savannah!

  • @LovelyBabyG
    @LovelyBabyG 5 месяцев назад +5

    Its weird memories keep you in a choke hold and men play on that to keep you there and listening to their lies😒😒😒

  • @charleshall9488
    @charleshall9488 5 месяцев назад +15

    That voice of Dennis.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +4

      He has a great voice--That's why he's the Allstate man 😊

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 5 месяцев назад +8

    My daughter is Gen Z & I've never heard her say "rizz". I've heard her say "wig", "naure" & "pleak" but not "rizz" 😂

    • @alexis-marie_9920
      @alexis-marie_9920 5 месяцев назад +1

      rizz is kinda Gen Alpha

    • @Jessica.Shawnte
      @Jessica.Shawnte 4 месяца назад

      @@alexis-marie_9920no it’s Gen z. There’s still minors who are Gen z

  • @BlackQueenA1825
    @BlackQueenA1825 5 месяцев назад +1

    Another good video. I loved your breakdown of this dynamic. Savannahs' mom and her DESPERATION about Savannah possibly losing a "good man" could have really done so much to mess up Savannah's life. I do think that her mom loves her. I actually see glimpses of my mom when I watch this movie. But I do hope that this movie really helped women see what's wrong with the way that her mom thought.

  • @johnnydavis5080
    @johnnydavis5080 5 месяцев назад +6

    Fyi...the actor just turned 70 years old this week

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      Really? Last time I saw him he was on Sway in the morning giving politics advice.

  • @vivalapinkchic
    @vivalapinkchic 5 месяцев назад +3

    Lordt not the Alexyss K Tylor clip. Savannah's mom gave me Betty Wright, a piece of man is better than none at all vibes.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      I had forgotten all about that clip about hitting the root till I saw this again. 😆

  • @dorothydandridge3937
    @dorothydandridge3937 5 месяцев назад +3

    DONT LET THE ALLSTATE MAN NEAR YOUR OVARIES LADIES😂😂 He did the same thing to halle berry in queen. The sidechicks were raised to be sidechicks was a whole sermon. Mama just trifling. She didn't give af how that turned out. Too many women are dead because of love triangles. I have the book and watched the movie. It's a good story but alllll the women are desperate.

  • @BrittaniasWaves
    @BrittaniasWaves 5 месяцев назад +1

    Not a black classic but in "the wedding planner" the movie is about a woman falling in love with her male client whos getting married and it follows the romcom formula as if im suppose to root for this... like what 😅

  • @AT-zl6dk
    @AT-zl6dk 5 месяцев назад +8

    Notorious
    Biggie & faith versus biggie & lil Kim
    Ray
    Ray Charles & B versus Ray Charles & Marjorie

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      🤭😂🤭

  • @yourstrulykaai
    @yourstrulykaai 5 месяцев назад +1

    Would you both consider doing a video on Two Can Play at That Game, or is that movie already self explanatory? 😅

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      We'd consider it. There are a bunch of folks we haven't gotten to, but we consider all the films in the genre. ☺️

  • @noglitznoglamour7386
    @noglitznoglamour7386 5 месяцев назад

    I want to do a waiting to exhale themed new years party.. i need ideas

  • @alynettabeck7
    @alynettabeck7 5 месяцев назад +1

    Desperation. Great review!

  • @quietstorm7684
    @quietstorm7684 5 месяцев назад +4

    Desperation!

  • @snakeeye166
    @snakeeye166 5 месяцев назад +1

    As a gen z who avidly watches yall, we've been saying rizz for a few months now lol. And someone without charisma is also known as having "negative rizz" 😂

  • @nenerideout5522
    @nenerideout5522 5 месяцев назад +1

    Dennis is fine not going to lie 😮❤

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      Dennis might not be a liar, but his characters 😆

  • @questioneverythingtv
    @questioneverythingtv 5 месяцев назад +4

    This should be good 😂😂😂😂

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      Hope you enjoy!

  • @SelfLove4eva
    @SelfLove4eva 4 месяца назад

    My 9 year old son came home and told me he has rizz 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

  • @TheOriginalGaPeach
    @TheOriginalGaPeach 5 месяцев назад

    😢😢Desperation 😢

  • @MelaninGold
    @MelaninGold 3 месяца назад

    Desperation😢

  • @coreywalker5651
    @coreywalker5651 5 месяцев назад +1

    DESPERATION!

  • @groovy_kid3958
    @groovy_kid3958 5 месяцев назад +8

    Gen z here. Yes they use rizz if im not mistaken it came from one of the streamers in the group AMP. i could be wrong tho. But that term is played out now. I havent heard anyone use it recently.

    • @AwkwardBlackGal613
      @AwkwardBlackGal613 5 месяцев назад +1

      I just hear white guys saying it lol

    • @groovy_kid3958
      @groovy_kid3958 5 месяцев назад

      @@AwkwardBlackGal613 of course not tryin to soundprejuice but you know sht gets played out when white folks get ahold of our slang.

    • @Phoenix-Rising4
      @Phoenix-Rising4 5 месяцев назад

      My kids be saying it but what is it tho ?

    • @groovy_kid3958
      @groovy_kid3958 5 месяцев назад

      @@Phoenix-Rising4 basically smooth talkin to get a girl number or whatever. Its just another word for having game.

    • @groovy_kid3958
      @groovy_kid3958 5 месяцев назад

      @@Phoenix-Rising4 i think ive reached “unc status” at this point lol im 24.

  • @Leonpj21
    @Leonpj21 5 месяцев назад +3

    Well, I I guess he wasn't in the friendly hands of Allstate after all

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      The was in "good hands" cause her mama said "Savannah, that's a good man!" 😂😂😂

    • @Leonpj21
      @Leonpj21 5 месяцев назад

      @@HeitCheri Right

  • @Mkultra1186
    @Mkultra1186 5 месяцев назад +2

    Look how sweaty that’s dang sheet is at 15:05!!

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +2

      🤭😂🤭 I never noticed that!

    • @Mkultra1186
      @Mkultra1186 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@HeitCheri like they took the scenic route to pound town lmao

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      😆 ☠️💀 😆

  • @Jadehere118
    @Jadehere118 5 месяцев назад

    I couldn't do it i couldn't take nothing he says seriously 😂😂 its the voice lol

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      😆 He talking about, "Savannah, now is not the right time..." 😆

  • @ericanicole5480
    @ericanicole5480 5 месяцев назад +1

    Desperation ❤

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      Yessss!!!! ❤️

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 5 месяцев назад +2

    Desperation

  • @bunnysb2587
    @bunnysb2587 5 месяцев назад +4

    The mother is not a good role model

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yes you are right

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +3

      She is a full on mess, and what's dangerous is how aggressive she is with the foolishness!

  • @charenzo95
    @charenzo95 5 месяцев назад

    My kids say riz and just like everything else, they don't ever know the roots of their slang. I can explain my generations ebonics. 😊 They're calling hot dogs glizzies for no reason. A glizzy was a code word for a Glock when I was young, like gliz- ock. 😊

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      😆 these kids 🤦🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️😆

  • @Think-see
    @Think-see 5 месяцев назад +1

    How did the saying go? You lose them the same way you got them.

  • @goddessnoir290
    @goddessnoir290 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @InstantlyGlam
    @InstantlyGlam 5 месяцев назад +3

    DESPERATION If I’m not mistaken Savanna made enough money to take care of herself and her mother she didn’t need a man

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes she did. That part of the conversion we were talking about Robin and the impact of raising her baby alone on her budget. Also we were talking about the mother who clearly doesn't have enough money. Savannah clearly had plenty of money for herself and her mother. Hopefully it didn't seem like we were saying she needed a man to take care of her. She wanted a man, and that's what we were also speaking to... How she could get what she wanted in a healthier situation.

  • @UNKLP66
    @UNKLP66 5 месяцев назад +1

    Desperation 🔴⚪️

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @teesacquiredtaste
    @teesacquiredtaste 5 месяцев назад

    Desperation 🤍
    I will forever support.
    Love the pov & break-down.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  5 месяцев назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @angelaabron3080
    @angelaabron3080 5 месяцев назад +4

    Desperation

  • @missmisher
    @missmisher 5 месяцев назад

    Desperation!

  • @goddessnoir290
    @goddessnoir290 5 месяцев назад +1

    Desperation

  • @orangevf1
    @orangevf1 5 месяцев назад

    Desperation

  • @Faith-bp1xx
    @Faith-bp1xx 5 месяцев назад +1

    Desperation