Repent from the evil powers and rituals you did with TB Joshua. The evil spirits were imparted to you and the powers you use to get crowds, money and do deliverance are from voodoo, marine spirits and dark rituals. Please denounce these powers so that you can start clean with holy spirit. Be prepared to lose worldly influence but redeem your soul. You are initiating those who.follow you into satanism
Repent from the evil powers and rituals you did with TB Joshua. The evil spirits were imparted to you and the powers you use to get crowds, money and do deliverance are from voodoo, marine spirits and dark rituals. Please denounce these powers so that you can start clean with holy spirit. Be prepared to lose worldly influence but redeem your soul. You are initiating those who follow you into satanism
Pastor Vlad, great video. I always see a lot of these videos about the husbands loving their wives etc. Is there any potential videos coming about the wife loving her husband?
I once saw a little girl disrespecting her mother and her father said “Do not speak to my love that way. She is my wife and my best friend, you will not treat her that way.” He talked about his wife in such a way that their children know they are important but they cannot replace what their mother means to him. Defend your wife and she will feel loved.
Excellent point. I always wished my husband would step in when the kids were disrespectful bc I thought it would demonstrate a united front and defense, and also show our sons how to protect "their future wives." I think it looks better when DAD steps in and teaches his sons, particularly, how to respect women, instead of mom trying to make that argument, defending herself against them. Teenage boys don't like to be told what to do or how to do it by women, including their moms. So when Dad steps up, they will learn quickly not to provoke mom or disrespect women.
My late husband told me before he passed to buy myself flowers from him,to this day i have bought myself flowers to me from him,it has been 4 yrs,i live with all the love he had for me,i miss him dearly❤
There's a lot that I've learnd hear i gro up without a father and now i have a family blessed with a beautiful wife and 2 kids but today I've learnd how to treat my wife thank you Man of God 🙏🙏🙏
One thing I learnt - When listening - give 100 percent attention to her, and look deeply into her eyes - don't let yourself be distracted - nothing is more important than her.
In 2018 I almost got divorced because I wasn't giving my wife the attention she needed due to work, fast forward to today I make more and work less after I started investing I can say we're one big happy family again
Great Job Vlad! My husband does 90% of these, but his relationship with Jesus isn't where it needs to be...yet! I have faith that the Lord is working on him ❤ The only thing I would add is: be patient with your wife especially as she is getting older and her hormones and her body isn't as receptive or as energetic as before?? Thank You so much & God bless you and your Wife & Baby Boy Samuel..
Great tips, Vlad! Just a few more - * Maintain financial transparency with your wife. * Make provisions for her to freely go out with her friends. * If you have young kids, take up babysitting by yourself, so that she can participate in church and her ministry pursuits enough. * Help her find time to pursue her hobbies. * During a fight/argument, assure her that though there may be differences, you and she are still on the same team.
Moreover, he doesn’t stop by jus preaching, but also FOLLOWS in his own life . He is a doer 👍So only he can give things in detail. Praise God for pastor Vlad !
Root for her, be her cheerleader! Cook for her clean up the house do stuff without her reminding you Be in a good physical shape Smell nice Dance with her serenade her write her poems Buy Mininful sentimental gifts
Ruth here, l don't want a poem, l don't want flowers in the house, l will take a magazine but don't want to waste so let me choose, or a cross stitch pattern,
I got my husband to watch this video by simply saying, “Honey, you will finally understand me.”🤭 This was SOOOOOO good!😁 I can’t even count how many times we both laughed, acknowledging how true these things are. Well, maybe I laughed a bit more than he did…Such a blessing!😅 One thing I’d like to add would be for a husband to initiate or at least willingly participate in prayer with his wife. I’d like to see husbands run to God first and LEAD their wives into prayer…rather than feeling obligated to pray because it looks bad if they don’t or to get the wife to stop nagging about praying together. Be blessed! Thank you for the great message.🙏🏼🌻
Yes ❤ Having your husband be the spiritual leader of the home is so important. Not that you are dependent on him for your faith, you should believe for yourself, but having someone to walk beside and support you and take the lead in being an example of faith for the entire family takes such a weight off your shoulders.
I do 3 or 5 of these and want to do more. My wife is 11 years my senior, college grad and more worldly experienced than I. I love her. I love Jesus. She does not respond positive to me when I open the door, always cook and/ or wash the dishes, try to get her to have a set prayer time together; did I mention that I love my wife? , but she does thank me for doing the things the man should do. Mow the lawn, wash the car, take out the garbage. She does a great job at caring for our health by always looking for the best type of diet. She is great at doing the laundry and ironing. I tell thank you and how I appreciate the work she does. I acknowledge when I see her showing concern for others especially my adult children and grandchildren. Thank you for pointing out about the need to do more on being the spiritual leader.
Thank you for putting this together. My wife sent this to me 😬. But I watched the whole video and love it. I do many of these, but there is always room to be better. I’m going to take this to heart as it made me realize how important this is for my wife.
Something I really appreciate and it’s a little humbling is for men, he listed 20 things you can do to love us in practical ways. For women, he gave us only 12. I feel he didn’t cheap out on how husbands can love their wives. It’s pretty sweet!
Another brilliant video 👏🏻 One thing that my husband does which I really appreciate, is that he boasts about my qualities in front of friends and colleagues and always says how God blessed him with me as his wife. This public appreciation of him having me as his wife makes me feel so valued in front of everyone. It also shows any woman who thinks she has a chance that the position is well and truly taken and irreplaceable. 😜☺️
Talking about the wife's qualities to others is a huge one and a double effect if both partners can do that. I also like the one about a husband complimenting his wife on her character. Both would make me feel very valued.
Excellent video Brother I’ve been married for 28 years here in April to my beautiful wife as a husband I can always do better in loving my wife as Christ loves the church. These are 20 excellent recommendations. I encourage all husbands to apply these godly principles in loving your wife.
Two things that I'd add to what was mentioned is: for husbands to spend time with other (Godly married men ). My husband has guy friends who are married but aren't fully walking with the Lord, that Still drink, get high. The second: to be open to Christian marriage counseling.
Buy her flower... pick flowers even. Here in South Africa, it is so costly to buy flowers. So, pick one or two out of the garden, she'll love you still ❤
I PREFER picked flowers. You didn't just go grab some because they were there and you happened to see them. You went out looking for them, selecting with care the best of the flowers!!!
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
I get why what you're saying is important, and I honestly want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it work. We've tried different methods, like therapy, to fix things.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
I am a wife and I laughted at how well is described what we need. Many of the things the pastor mentioned are things they I told my husband over and over again. I'll share this video with him, maybe this will help him understand better.
I love my husband, but things happened for a reason.. i have faith that he has better plan for me.. For now I am working on myself, learning how to be a godly woman for the better future
I have always opened the door for my wife, even when we were dating❣️ It is amazing how many people stop and stare as she waits for me to come around and open the door. It was more common 45 years ago❣️ Same with the garbage and the toilet seat, come on men, we need to respect our for our wives❣️
I love doing that but my wife usually gets to the door before me because I'm carrying the car seat 😂 occasionally I manage to get there first and it feels great lol
Wow!!! This is such an amazing teaching. I was happy with tears flowing down. It ministered to me deep. Thank you Brother Vlad I appreciate your work on this teaching! It was the BEST teaching on (How to love your wife)!! I love my soon to be Husband even more. Blessings to your gorgeous wife💐
My husband is such a wonderful husband and I couldn't ask for a better spouse, he's my life long everything after God, nothing comes before the Father.
Once I started referring to my wife (among other things such as) my gift from God, I don't think she would care if I never called her by her name again
Your quick run down on loving wives was good and the other one about loving husbands it was encouraging My marriage is in a heap we are seperated he isn’t a Christian but I will keep praying blessings Donna
@@ancamarcu2046I don't get it I'm kinda confused on this topic. So women don't have to love their husbands just respect him? Why would he feel loved because he's respected? Respect doesn't feel like love
I was smiling through this teaching especially the taking the photo part. We just have to put in he effort to keep getting the results in our marriages. Thank you Pastor good Word.
You are so right about everything you said I need to do everything you said I love my wife and I want to show her that I love and appreciate her every day
Great advice, I do most of those things and I learned a thing or two thanks. Been married 45 years in April so I guess I've done something right, but there is always room for improvement.
Thank you for this! My husband respects you, I hope he watches it. He loves and serves the Lord and is faithful to me and I'm thankful for that. I love to serve him and our 6 children. But sometimes I get a bit sad and discouraged because he hardly ever seems to notice me or how hard I work. And I'm not talking Instagram, but there'll be hardly any pictures showing that I've been there, too, cause I take all the family photos. I don't like to pose anyway, just sometimes in pregnancy, but he doesn't understand it. Little things could make a big difference. I've been telling him for 13 years, if I cry just give me a hug, but he doesn't. And no, I don't neglect him physically. When I saw your gender reveal party I was quite sure you don't need it but you did it for your wife. God bless you!
Yes ❤ I've always been one to shy away from having my picture taken, so I take responsibility for at least a big part of it, but I've realized that there are very few pictures of me with my husband and children except for family photos I insist on once a year or so. I love them, but they're not the same as candid shots. I want to be able to look back at photos and see that I was part of this family, too.
@@j.8678 Guess we should pray that our husbands will understand and then tell them how important it is to us and ask them to take pictures, too. Might need some gentle reminders until they get into the habit.
Love this list. I would add hand written letters. It is amazing how taking the time to sit down and write your thoughts and feelings to another person causes you both to grow together.
Blessing bother in CHRIST Jesus 🙏, sir we men have a great opportunity to record our wives thoughts and prayers to help us remember the important things to her, also we must write them down and study them like hone work when we did in school, prayers are always the best for our family's and thankfulness to our ABBA FATHER GOD in all things will allow us to keep our wife. Blessing keep the faith always trust our ABBA FATHER GOD and congratulations on your new children!!! 🎉
This was very interesting and informative. Much appreciated. A word to the wise is sufficient. Hoping to be married one day and have a very understandable husband who will love me the way God expect him too.
This is a great video, as a single woman, some Godly qualities to expect in a future husband. I know a lot of people are requesting a video on how wives can love their husbands, but the Bible says for wives to respect their husbands (I think because it’s easier for us to love than to respect, and men really appreciate that respect…), so I would love a video on ways wives can respect their husbands. 😀
To add to your list: * Give her reassurance when she needs it; women have many worries and need reassurance from their husbands that everything will be okay *Have her back; stand up for her/be on her side when others are involved (obviously there are extenuating circumstances) * Don't share personal stuff that should be kept between husband & wife * When you're on a date, make her feel like the only woman in the room *MAKE EYE CONTACT, and don't look away so quickly; for women, this is deep connection
These are so much more important to me than flowers or gifts or being called beautiful. There's definitely a time and place for those, but being seen and truly listened to is so much more important ❤
7:52 I feel this is a major point us men have to learn sooner than later ! I always had these positive thoughts on my wife and her looks but I kept them in my head and only gave her looks which didn’t transfer my thoughts to her so eventually she helped me realize like you may think these things but me as a woman, I enjoy hearing it come out of your mouth. And it made total sense because after all, God said power is in the tongue aka your voice. Speak and it shall make more sense than internal thoughts would
While I am truly happy for those who enjoy a fulfilling marriage, it breaks my heart to be alone and see videos like this. It's like telling someone who is starving how to properly cook a filet mignon.
In his time and as Pastor has said, God bless you to use this time to continue to grow as we all need and be used of Him and in his time, amen, amen, we know he is sooo good ❤🙏🙏🙏
That's a feeling many can sympathize with, i would suggest for you to really look internal and to reflect. Reflecting on your habits etc. Are the things youre doing, consuming, entertaining in line with the word? Are you seeking Christ daily, consistently, genuinely? If you have a desire in your hear thats in line with the word, God will honor that in his timing. Trust me waiting can be frustrating but look at it as a time of preparation and trust that he has your best intetest at heart. Sending you lots of love from Canada ❤
I totally understand and pray the Lord brings you the right person at the right time! But these are great videos to watch to know what to expect in a Godly marriage, and as a preparation for that. Be encouraged, friend. ☺️
Jen grice. I am a believer in Jesus as the messiah and have studied the great mystery of how God still will take the adulterous Israel back. But many men out there don’t know this or know God but still love cover and give thier lives for thier families. It’s in a man’s nature. The reason I say this is women find excuses not to live according to the instructions of the word because they think thier men are not Christian enough. So not true.
All points are good appreciate them all but #20 is the boss my husband and I share this with young couples. Thank you Pastor. I missed the marriage conference.😢 The Love Language book he mentioned is by Gary Chapman good book.
Hi pastor, can you please pray with me to God to help me to love my wife I don't have none of these things you mentioned for my wife, she is complaining every time she is not happy with our love life. I need God intervention I don't want to divorce it can affect me badly to my calling of salvation. We are not happy at all.. Frm:South Africa
Encourage her spiritual journey…her alone time with God and time with God together should be added to this list. Asking her about her day and about her quiet time is another one.
Hello Pastor Vlad, Thank you to you and your wife for your ministry. I watch your videos often. I loved your video on 12 ways to respect your husband also! I would love your advice please... I really liked everything you had to say in this video. However I honestly struggled to relate. I've been married to a man who has been abusive with his words far too often and who has been very controlling. Some may refer to his behaviors as that of a narcissit. So honestly I struggled a bit to relate to this video as I found a lot of what a woman in a healthy relationship looks for becomes less important when you're in an unhealthy marriage. The loving behaviors I look for in MY husband are simply ones that makes me feel honored, respected and safe. Such as just simply not calling me names, or controlling me, or not have scary outbursts of rage. Or simply not twisting things to make me feel responsible for his own actions, or not making me feel like a horrible wife when I know in my heart I've tried to do my best to submit to my husband and serve him, only to feel like I'm dying inside because it's never enough. I would love it if you would consider sharing any wisdom in an upcoming video that is more specific to women who may be in unconventional or toxic relationships. Because just simply feeling safe physically and emotionally with my husband would be 1000 times better than my current situation, even if he didn't do next to none of these things you listed here in the video. Thank you again for all the wisdom you and your lovely wife have shared. I love listening to you both and have learned much more wisdom to apply to my life from your ministry. God bless you both and congratulations on the little one!
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Repent from the evil powers and rituals you did with TB Joshua. The evil spirits were imparted to you and the powers you use to get crowds, money and do deliverance are from voodoo, marine spirits and dark rituals. Please denounce these powers so that you can start clean with holy spirit. Be prepared to lose worldly influence but redeem your soul. You are initiating those who.follow you into satanism
Repent from the evil powers and rituals you did with TB Joshua. The evil spirits were imparted to you and the powers you use to get crowds, money and do deliverance are from voodoo, marine spirits and dark rituals. Please denounce these powers so that you can start clean with holy spirit. Be prepared to lose worldly influence but redeem your soul. You are initiating those who follow you into satanism
Pastor Vlad, great video.
I always see a lot of these videos about the husbands loving their wives etc.
Is there any potential videos coming about the wife loving her husband?
I once saw a little girl disrespecting her mother and her father said “Do not speak to my love that way. She is my wife and my best friend, you will not treat her that way.” He talked about his wife in such a way that their children know they are important but they cannot replace what their mother means to him. Defend your wife and she will feel loved.
Excellent point. I always wished my husband would step in when the kids were disrespectful bc I thought it would demonstrate a united front and defense, and also show our sons how to protect "their future wives." I think it looks better when DAD steps in and teaches his sons, particularly, how to respect women, instead of mom trying to make that argument, defending herself against them. Teenage boys don't like to be told what to do or how to do it by women, including their moms. So when Dad steps up, they will learn quickly not to provoke mom or disrespect women.
Very true!!!
My late husband told me before he passed to buy myself flowers from him,to this day i have bought myself flowers to me from him,it has been 4 yrs,i live with all the love he had for me,i miss him dearly❤
There's a lot that I've learnd hear i gro up without a father and now i have a family blessed with a beautiful wife and 2 kids but today I've learnd how to treat my wife thank you Man of God 🙏🙏🙏
God way is the true and only way.
One thing I learnt - When listening - give 100 percent attention to her, and look deeply into her eyes - don't let yourself be distracted - nothing is more important than her.
So true. Feeling unheard = Feeling unloved.
He never listens, I will talk and engage when he's talking but when I talk it goes in one ear and out the other.
In 2018 I almost got divorced because I wasn't giving my wife the attention she needed due to work, fast forward to today I make more and work less after I started investing I can say we're one big happy family again
@@chaiwat7393Could you please explain how beginners like me can start making this much
Could you please explain how beginners like me can start making this much
Great Job Vlad! My husband does 90% of these, but his relationship with Jesus isn't where it needs to be...yet! I have faith that the Lord is working on him ❤
The only thing I would add is: be patient with your wife especially as she is getting older and her hormones and her body isn't as receptive or as energetic as before?? Thank You so much & God bless you and your Wife & Baby Boy Samuel..
LOL My husband does 90%, how many %% you are giving to your husband?? lol LOVE is giving , not receiving
Great tips, Vlad! Just a few more -
* Maintain financial transparency with your wife.
* Make provisions for her to freely go out with her friends.
* If you have young kids, take up babysitting by yourself, so that she can participate in church and her ministry pursuits enough.
* Help her find time to pursue her hobbies.
* During a fight/argument, assure her that though there may be differences, you and she are still on the same team.
God bless u
So good!
Strong disagree on the financial transparency. That rarely goes well.
I’m a woman and I agree with everything pastor Vlad said. Now waiting on a video for us women and how to love our husbands.
His wife made one
@@cynthiaolsen5965 thank you for this 🙂
@@cynthiaolsen5965do you know where that video is? Does she have a channel? I want to watch the video
Loving a man is learning to submit to him.. as Man learns to submit to Christ..
Submitting doesn't happen automatically.. it is learned.
@@Brother_bryan thank you 🙏🏾
I hear the word submit a lot but there’s no specific explanation or much info submission means. Could you elaborate?
Me and my husband work to keep a friendship. We call each other best friends! If we can keep being best friends. It makes our marriage so much better!
Marriage must be built on friendship, faithful, transparent friendship.
I love how pastor Vlad is stating the simplest yet powerful tips that if actually followed, it will 100% improve your relationship.
Moreover, he doesn’t stop by jus preaching, but also FOLLOWS in his own life . He is a doer 👍So only he can give things in detail.
Praise God for pastor Vlad !
Wonderful Points I agree With You Pastor Vlad.. I follow some of these points.. I love my wife She is so gorgeous.. She is God sent
Root for her, be her cheerleader!
Cook for her
clean up the house
do stuff without her reminding you
Be in a good physical shape
Smell nice
Dance with her
serenade her
write her poems
Buy Mininful sentimental gifts
Ruth here, l don't want a poem, l don't want flowers in the house, l will take a magazine but don't want to waste so let me choose, or a cross stitch pattern,
Need to work on these things as a wife for my husband too
Me and my wife has been listening to all these marriage teachings and are marriage did a 180 for good. This was a God sent.
I got my husband to watch this video by simply saying, “Honey, you will finally understand me.”🤭
This was SOOOOOO good!😁 I can’t even count how many times we both laughed, acknowledging how true these things are. Well, maybe I laughed a bit more than he did…Such a blessing!😅
One thing I’d like to add would be for a husband to initiate or at least willingly participate in prayer with his wife. I’d like to see husbands run to God first and LEAD their wives into prayer…rather than feeling obligated to pray because it looks bad if they don’t or to get the wife to stop nagging about praying together.
Be blessed! Thank you for the great message.🙏🏼🌻
Yes ❤ Having your husband be the spiritual leader of the home is so important. Not that you are dependent on him for your faith, you should believe for yourself, but having someone to walk beside and support you and take the lead in being an example of faith for the entire family takes such a weight off your shoulders.
I do 3 or 5 of these and want to do more. My wife is 11 years my senior, college grad and more worldly experienced than I. I love her. I love Jesus. She does not respond positive to me when I open the door, always cook and/ or wash the dishes, try to get her to have a set prayer time together; did I mention that I love my wife? , but she does thank me for doing the things the man should do. Mow the lawn, wash the car, take out the garbage. She does a great job at caring for our health by always looking for the best type of diet. She is great at doing the laundry and ironing. I tell thank you and how I appreciate the work she does. I acknowledge when I see her showing concern for others especially my adult children and grandchildren. Thank you for pointing out about the need to do more on being the spiritual leader.
Thank you for putting this together. My wife sent this to me 😬. But I watched the whole video and love it. I do many of these, but there is always room to be better. I’m going to take this to heart as it made me realize how important this is for my wife.
Something I really appreciate and it’s a little humbling is for men, he listed 20 things you can do to love us in practical ways. For women, he gave us only 12. I feel he didn’t cheap out on how husbands can love their wives. It’s pretty sweet!
Another brilliant video 👏🏻
One thing that my husband does which I really appreciate, is that he boasts about my qualities in front of friends and colleagues and always says how God blessed him with me as his wife. This public appreciation of him having me as his wife makes me feel so valued in front of everyone. It also shows any woman who thinks she has a chance that the position is well and truly taken and irreplaceable. 😜☺️
Very few husbands do it especially in Asia. They feel we don't need to express love in public. But when it is criticism, they are more open.
Talking about the wife's qualities to others is a huge one and a double effect if both partners can do that. I also like the one about a husband complimenting his wife on her character. Both would make me feel very valued.
Excellent video Brother I’ve been married for 28 years here in April to my beautiful wife as a husband I can always do better in loving my wife as Christ loves the church. These are 20 excellent recommendations. I encourage all husbands to apply these godly principles in loving your wife.
Two things that I'd add to what was mentioned is: for husbands to spend time with other (Godly married men ). My husband has guy friends who are married but aren't fully walking with the Lord, that Still drink, get high.
The second:
to be open to Christian marriage counseling.
I just found your beautiful channel! Flowers are cheap at Sam’s too! I’ll be married to. My wife 33 years ! We’ve been together over 34 years!
God, I've never cried before while watching a video!! You're an amazing husband. I hope I can come close to you one day!! 🙏🏼
Buy her flower... pick flowers even. Here in South Africa, it is so costly to buy flowers. So, pick one or two out of the garden, she'll love you still ❤
Some of us prefer this actually ❤
I think picking flowers a more meaningful gesture for sure.❤
Either is fine❤❤❤ I also give him flowers!!!
I PREFER picked flowers. You didn't just go grab some because they were there and you happened to see them. You went out looking for them, selecting with care the best of the flowers!!!
My wife is heaven sent and I am a lucky man Thank the Lord
Me too, thank you Jesus!
Blessed, it isn’t luck! 😄
a lot of great tips! Thank you for the video I brought out my notebook lol I would also add reading the Bible together ! that one is a game changer!
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
I get why what you're saying is important, and I honestly want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it work. We've tried different methods, like therapy, to fix things.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
You should... I promise you will not regret it.
I am a wife and I laughted at how well is described what we need. Many of the things the pastor mentioned are things they I told my husband over and over again. I'll share this video with him, maybe this will help him understand better.
I love my husband, but things happened for a reason.. i have faith that he has better plan for me.. For now I am working on myself, learning how to be a godly woman for the better future
I used to lack all what Pastor is saying but right now I want to be the champion of applying it in my relationship
I have always opened the door for my wife, even when we were dating❣️ It is amazing how many people stop and stare as she waits for me to come around and open the door. It was more common 45 years ago❣️
Same with the garbage and the toilet seat, come on men, we need to respect our for our wives❣️
That brings me to tears brother 😭❤️🫂❤️🙏🫂Awesome, awesome job 🫠❤️🙏❤️🫂
I love doing that but my wife usually gets to the door before me because I'm carrying the car seat 😂 occasionally I manage to get there first and it feels great lol
@@Mrwiseguyisthebest doesn,t it, bless you, Amen❣️
🤗😁 Finally someone is on POINT! I have been trying to tell my husband this for 17 years. ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Pastor Vlad thank you for a living example of a Godly Husband.🔥
All points are appreciative. Pray for us Brother. All glory to God.
Vlad I want to thank you for your videos. I experienced a healing annouting from one of your sermons before.
I would love a “20 ways to love your husband” version from your wife!
I second this
Wow!!! This is such an amazing teaching. I was happy with tears flowing down. It ministered to me deep. Thank you Brother Vlad I appreciate your work on this teaching! It was the BEST teaching on (How to love your wife)!! I love my soon to be Husband even more. Blessings to your gorgeous wife💐
AMEN! I'm praying for all of us good wives.
My husband is such a wonderful husband and I couldn't ask for a better spouse, he's my life long everything after God, nothing comes before the Father.
Bro… such powerful wise words for men of every age… humble thyself and cherish her selflessly!!!
Great servant of God i have learnt more from u even at the age of 32yrs of my marriage from Africa Kenya Nairobi shalom
Once I started referring to my wife (among other things such as) my gift from God, I don't think she would care if I never called her by her name again
That was so helpful in our marriage & it was such a wonderful blessing it will be 38 wonderful years for us
Your quick run down on loving wives was good and the other one about loving husbands it was encouraging My marriage is in a heap we are seperated he isn’t a Christian but I will keep praying blessings Donna
God bless you pastor 🙏 what a beautiful message
Praise the Lord it's a good day to be alive 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
God bless you Pastor
Thank you very much man of God,may God bless you..
Pastor please post a video on how a wife can love her husband.
Yes please. Because is it us, or us it them. That dont care , about love. Like it's whatever to them
We are called to respect …. That’s kinda of equal as that’s how they feel loved.
Women should be,submissive to their husband's that what the Lord instructed them.
@@ancamarcu2046I don't get it I'm kinda confused on this topic. So women don't have to love their husbands just respect him? Why would he feel loved because he's respected? Respect doesn't feel like love
@ancamarcu2046
I agree to an extent, but someone can respect a boss, a rival, or even an enemy, but that doesn't mean love is involved.
Thank you Pastor. Please continue to pray for me. I'm struggling with my inner demons and it's affecting my marriage too. 😢
I was smiling through this teaching especially the taking the photo part. We just have to put in he effort to keep getting the results in our marriages. Thank you Pastor good Word.
You are so right about everything you said I need to do everything you said I love my wife and I want to show her that I love and appreciate her every day
Through this video I learn so much how to love my wife
Great advice, I do most of those things and I learned a thing or two thanks. Been married 45 years in April so I guess I've done something right, but there is always room for improvement.
Thank you for this! My husband respects you, I hope he watches it.
He loves and serves the Lord and is faithful to me and I'm thankful for that. I love to serve him and our 6 children. But sometimes I get a bit sad and discouraged because he hardly ever seems to notice me or how hard I work.
And I'm not talking Instagram, but there'll be hardly any pictures showing that I've been there, too, cause I take all the family photos. I don't like to pose anyway, just sometimes in pregnancy, but he doesn't understand it.
Little things could make a big difference.
I've been telling him for 13 years, if I cry just give me a hug, but he doesn't.
And no, I don't neglect him physically.
When I saw your gender reveal party I was quite sure you don't need it but you did it for your wife.
God bless you!
Yes ❤ I've always been one to shy away from having my picture taken, so I take responsibility for at least a big part of it, but I've realized that there are very few pictures of me with my husband and children except for family photos I insist on once a year or so. I love them, but they're not the same as candid shots. I want to be able to look back at photos and see that I was part of this family, too.
@@j.8678 Guess we should pray that our husbands will understand and then tell them how important it is to us and ask them to take pictures, too. Might need some gentle reminders until they get into the habit.
@angelab4518 Yes. He will when asked, I just don't think to ask often. Definitely something for us both to work on.
That was so GOOD! Thank you JESUS❤
Thank you so much Pastor Vlad. It means a lot to me. Hope my hubby appreciates it too. Ty for your insights in so many areas always
Thanks!
Thank you for your giving, God bless you!
Love this list. I would add hand written letters. It is amazing how taking the time to sit down and write your thoughts and feelings to another person causes you both to grow together.
Blessing bother in CHRIST Jesus 🙏, sir we men have a great opportunity to record our wives thoughts and prayers to help us remember the important things to her, also we must write them down and study them like hone work when we did in school, prayers are always the best for our family's and thankfulness to our ABBA FATHER GOD in all things will allow us to keep our wife. Blessing keep the faith always trust our ABBA FATHER GOD and congratulations on your new children!!! 🎉
Amen! Let her know you think about her when she's gone!!! And you can't wait to get home!!!
I agree 100% praise the Lord for this❤️
Please pray for me a proverbs 31 woman . Thank you brothers and sisters in christ .
This was very interesting and informative. Much appreciated. A word to the wise is sufficient. Hoping to be married one day and have a very understandable husband who will love me the way God expect him too.
Congrats on the baby boy. Thanks for this video.
Thank you for making this video this is very helpful to married couples.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻You are blessed in teaching. Everything you said is true and on point. God bless you and your family.
This is a great video, as a single woman, some Godly qualities to expect in a future husband. I know a lot of people are requesting a video on how wives can love their husbands, but the Bible says for wives to respect their husbands (I think because it’s easier for us to love than to respect, and men really appreciate that respect…), so I would love a video on ways wives can respect their husbands. 😀
All of the above are completely on point!
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To add to your list:
* Give her reassurance when she needs it; women have many worries and need reassurance from their husbands that everything will be okay
*Have her back; stand up for her/be on her side when others are involved (obviously there are extenuating circumstances)
* Don't share personal stuff that should be kept between husband & wife
* When you're on a date, make her feel like the only woman in the room
*MAKE EYE CONTACT, and don't look away so quickly; for women, this is deep connection
These are so much more important to me than flowers or gifts or being called beautiful. There's definitely a time and place for those, but being seen and truly listened to is so much more important ❤
@@j.8678 . ..agreed.
I love your teachings
I love the way you did this video- funny fun and really valuable!
I agree with all of this. You are right!! ❤🙏
Awesome Pastor Vlad ❤
7:52 I feel this is a major point us men have to learn sooner than later ! I always had these positive thoughts on my wife and her looks but I kept them in my head and only gave her looks which didn’t transfer my thoughts to her so eventually she helped me realize like you may think these things but me as a woman, I enjoy hearing it come out of your mouth. And it made total sense because after all, God said power is in the tongue aka your voice. Speak and it shall make more sense than internal thoughts would
So true!!! Thank you pastor Vlad!! God bless you!!
While I am truly happy for those who enjoy a fulfilling marriage, it breaks my heart to be alone and see videos like this. It's like telling someone who is starving how to properly cook a filet mignon.
You can look at it in the way of being happy for others… and for yourself when that time comes 🥰
In his time and as Pastor has said, God bless you to use this time to continue to grow as we all need and be used of Him and in his time, amen, amen, we know he is sooo good ❤🙏🙏🙏
That's a feeling many can sympathize with, i would suggest for you to really look internal and to reflect. Reflecting on your habits etc. Are the things youre doing, consuming, entertaining in line with the word? Are you seeking Christ daily, consistently, genuinely?
If you have a desire in your hear thats in line with the word, God will honor that in his timing. Trust me waiting can be frustrating but look at it as a time of preparation and trust that he has your best intetest at heart. Sending you lots of love from Canada ❤
I have had brothers in Christ die waiting @@user-si6gs3ne8l
I totally understand and pray the Lord brings you the right person at the right time! But these are great videos to watch to know what to expect in a Godly marriage, and as a preparation for that. Be encouraged, friend. ☺️
A man must know God’s love before he’ll be able to love a wife.
So true
Jen grice.
I am a believer in Jesus as the messiah and have studied the great mystery of how God still will take the adulterous Israel back.
But many men out there don’t know this or know God but still love cover and give thier lives for thier families. It’s in a man’s nature. The reason I say this is women find excuses not to live according to the instructions of the word because they think thier men are not Christian enough. So not true.
I don’t know Gods love
@@charlesbroderick5030When you truly understood love, you understood gods love.❤️
Couldn't agree more.
This is huge, thank you, Vlad!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
My husband has been faithful in all these things and I fall in love with him more and more every day. We’ve been happily married for 30 years.
That's amazing 🥰😍
Thanks Vlad
That was awesome, thanks for sharing this
Thank you Jesus amen 🙏 🙌
Vald these are amazing and applicable points to show True Love ❤.
Pastor very nice message
Love this please keep making this, we need more focus on successful marriage
You are awesome in this place blessed brother
All points are good appreciate them all but #20 is the boss my husband and I share this with young couples. Thank you Pastor. I missed the marriage conference.😢 The Love Language book he mentioned is by Gary Chapman good book.
Great video. I appreciate and approve this message ❤🎉 🙏.
The photographer one made me laugh out loud
Thank you for your sharing for us.
Thank you brother
Hi Vlad. Thank you ❤️. Do have a similar video for our wife’s, how we can show Love for our husbands please? 🌹
Good teaching. New subscriber
Hi pastor, can you please pray with me to God to help me to love my wife I don't have none of these things you mentioned for my wife, she is complaining every time she is not happy with our love life. I need God intervention I don't want to divorce it can affect me badly to my calling of salvation. We are not happy at all..
Frm:South Africa
Try implementing these things and maybe that will change
Encourage her spiritual journey…her alone time with God and time with God together should be added to this list.
Asking her about her day and about her quiet time is another one.
❤❤tthank you Pastor ,God bless you indeed ❤❤
Who you surround yourself will influence you.
Nothing but Gems ! 💪🏼
Wow these are all awesome tips
You nailed it. Thank you ❤
Hello Pastor Vlad,
Thank you to you and your wife for your ministry. I watch your videos often. I loved your video on 12 ways to respect your husband also! I would love your advice please...
I really liked everything you had to say in this video. However I honestly struggled to relate. I've been married to a man who has been abusive with his words far too often and who has been very controlling. Some may refer to his behaviors as that of a narcissit. So honestly I struggled a bit to relate to this video as I found a lot of what a woman in a healthy relationship looks for becomes less important when you're in an unhealthy marriage. The loving behaviors I look for in MY husband are simply ones that makes me feel honored, respected and safe. Such as just simply not calling me names, or controlling me, or not have scary outbursts of rage. Or simply not twisting things to make me feel responsible for his own actions, or not making me feel like a horrible wife when I know in my heart I've tried to do my best to submit to my husband and serve him, only to feel like I'm dying inside because it's never enough.
I would love it if you would consider sharing any wisdom in an upcoming video that is more specific to women who may be in unconventional or toxic relationships. Because just simply feeling safe physically and emotionally with my husband would be 1000 times better than my current situation, even if he didn't do next to none of these things you listed here in the video.
Thank you again for all the wisdom you and your lovely wife have shared. I love listening to you both and have learned much more wisdom to apply to my life from your ministry.
God bless you both and congratulations on the little one!
I hear you. 🫂💝🙏