When my husband and I decided I'd stay at home 9 years ago to homeschool our children, my husband's business grew in such a way we didn't need a second income. God is so faithful!
Wait till he start spending money on younger and prettier woman and lies to you saying he needs to stay away because of business. men cannot be trusted
To an extent. Your Husband should be honorable as a husband. For example, in Titus after Paul explained how a woman is to love her husband he wrote " and ye men likewise". That said a Godly woman should not marry a dishonorable man and Godly men likewise. This is where a good mother and father come in. A Godly man and woman are going to raise Godly sons and daughters.
When my husband and I agreed to live a Biblical marriage, he submits to Christ, I submit to him, our marriage improved tenfold and I never felt so free. I submit to my husband out of obedience to God and God blesses him! If I act without my husband’s blessing, it NEVER goes well for me. As I remain obedient to God and pray for my husband, He has my back. He shows me over and over, even when I argue with Him. Lol. I’m grateful for women like you! Thank you.
Same for me. Almost had a fatal accident because I decided something without consulting my husband first, but thank GOD that he saved me unharmed and I was able to see my mistake.
Women are so afraid of growing old. What they do not understand: A good husband will always see a wife such as yours, like the day he met her. Indeed I look at my wife, and sometimes I swear I see into her childhood - I see her the way her mother and father saw her when she was growing up.
I’m still single at 47 due to sexual trauma when I was young causing a fear of men. I’m finally at a point, with the help of Jesus through Celebrate Recovery, ready to trust God to bring a godly husband to me. My intention is to be the best godly wife I can be, and possibly a godly stepmother and step grandmother. So this video is very timely for me. Thank you so much for making this video Lana. You and your husband are so sweet and I’m so excited that you are finally blessed with a baby!
I highly suggest Karyn Seitz "The Happy Wife School" as well as this site. The Biblical Wisdom taught from both of these pages will give an amazing amount of protection and preparation from temptation from many of the devil's lies that are rampant in today's culture.
I completely understand your choice in this. I've been where you are too. I was 13 years old when it happened. I'm 35 now and God has sent me a loving, faithful and God loving man. May God bless you my friend! Praying for you today and I'll add you to my prayer list.
I remember when my mom became a stay at home mom when I was a kid and feeling so much happier after that point on. I was less anxious too. That’s how I know, personally, how valuable stay at home mothers are to their family
@heatherfar8245 Isn't a woman's place in the home ? How about preaching Titus 2:4 again and again to just blow up our demonic feminist culture once for good ? No need to make conferences and talk for hours. Just point to what is WRITTEN and nothing else. The problem is today's women are too proud and rebellious to acknowledge that everything written about women , in good or bad is absolute truth.
Beautifully done! I had to make a conscious decision to get out of the drivers seat of my marriage (I was there because he wasn’t!) but the minute I told him we were all following His lead, it made him more aware, and he stepped up! (I actually told him not to lead us to hell!😳) It takes time, but a slow, steady rise in leadership is better than a steady DECLINE of your family. Stay prayerful and persistent!
Keena you did the right move, this all thing about the libaration of women in the early 70's, that was finance by the Rokerfeller, you see where im going! the plan to destroy the familly and biblical teaching. We "Man" let free range to woman as we were told by woman im "independent" as Lana says it does not work and the leader is the man, also it does not mean that woman can not build a great carear and so on. Im glad i foun d Lana as we need to go back to the scriptures, the Bible is the book of life, and we moved away from it, we see whats happening in the world today, the transgender and mutilation of kids, have a great day Keena
When you honor and respect your husband, something's gonna start changing, something is going to start happening in his heart towards you. When you speak and feed that primary need in your husband, things are going to shift in your marriage. Absolutely. Beautifully said Lana
Unless he is an abusive and narcissistic person. Then he will likely take those words of honor to further self-inflate and cause destruction and pain at every turn. It is NOT HONORING to God to enable and support the evil and destructive behaviors of another person.
@gobigandgohomeschool4882, I find that when women accuse their man of being a narcissist, it's usually because he doesn't bow to her every demand and he fails to read her mind or meet all of her arbitrary, emotionally subjective, and ever-changing expectations of him that she failed to communicate. And when the man finally stands up for himself because he's sick of her psychological tactics and mental abuse, he is labeled the abuser. So if you're actually in a relationship with an actually abusive man, then why did you marry him in the first place? You could have avoided the entire situation. But you didn't.
Since my husband and I became Christians, the Lord has really worked so much in our home and specially in my heart! I changed my heart and my actions as a wife, and truly that was the best thing. I have never been happier ❤ our marriage is at its best stage. Great content ❤
I can make this promise to every family out there. If you do what the Lord commands and the man goes out and works and the woman stays home to take care of the kids the Lord will provide. If you are obeying the Lord, He will open the way for you to do what He's commanded.
I agree with you! I really like having my husband be in charge of all the big things and my favorite place to be in the world is when I can lay my head on his heart and hear it beating. I always feel safe and loved.
Being a stay at home mom at the beginning was very challenging as I had always worked prior to having kids. It was something I had to give to the Lord and knew it was the best for my children. Now I homeschool our children and have added one more child and love the fruit that has come from it. We constantly get many compliments not only on how well mannered our children are but they know the word of God and they help maintain the home. The Lord has shown me that my children are my ministry and ever since it’s been changed for me.
Absolutely! It is hard to fully express how much well raised children can and will bless the world and society throughout generations. There is almost no more important a ministry.
I loved the part about being my husband’s crown! I cried at the stay at home mom part. It is good to be reminded that it is the will of God to do this. Thank you! Please film more content like this. God bless you & your family!
@@stevemacinnis5000Trust God at all times, pray for the wife He has for you. Follow God. He can cause you to meet your future wife in any place. Joseph met his in Egypt according to tradition. She had had a major conversion experience prior. Even in a very pagan society God gave Joseph a believing wife. Joseph lived faithful to God too. There are places where you can go (church etc) to meet others but: '...a prudent wife is from the LORD'. Prov 19:14. Listen to God, if you are serious in wanting His way He'll let you know if you are (or not) to be with someone you're getting to know. Keep your spiritual ears open. God provided for His saints and often miraculously, even in negative circumstances (Joseph & his wife; Isaac & Rebekah; Boaz & Ruth) He can do the same for you!
I had plans on being at home to raise my new baby that’s coming soon. My husband abandoned me and now i am becoming homeless. I have such anxiety about letting anyone stay with my baby. I’m so broken. I have been praying that my husband would be free from the demonic bondage that is causing him to make irrational decisions based on the confusion and attacks of the enemy through other people and his mind being distorted from the truth. Please I ask that warrior prayerful people join in with me on praying for my husband to be delivered from those spirits and pray for me and my baby (our family).
I came here because my sister’s name is also Lana. She died in 2021 at 38 years. I started diving into more about heaven and now see more in the spirit than I ever have.
@@jesse75well women are taught to make men happy and make her children happy. Also make every other family member happy. So who makes the woman happy? I don't like that kind of reasoning but I also understand that there are just some impossible people. But it's time to stop that silly trope of women being chaos and can't be understood. It's fine when it's a joke, but it's like taking it as a joke too long and people literally think it's the truth. If you ask me, men are the ones more complicated. A woman only wants to be loved and be secure in her place unless you went looking for some lunatic. Tell your wife you love her, every so often, plan time to spend with and communicate, recognize her on some special days, if your the gifting type, well get her gifts once in a while, if not write a note , or make something silly. Most women will be completely sold on those few things. It's really not that hard. Relationships should give each participant mutual care.
My daughter has stage 3 ovarian cancer she is 43 she has 2 kids a girl and a boy 10 and 4. The cancer is spreading and the chemo treatments are not working and has caused damage to her body. I know God can heal her we need a miracle. Please pray for her and her kids and ask everyone to pray for her too. Please it has been over 2 years now 🙏 Pray
Praying ❤ Have you broken generational curses? You need to do it. Also make sure she is not holding on to unforgiveness. These could be hinderances in healing. Cancel the diagnosis. Bind spirit of death and infirmity and cast it out in Jesus name!
@@joannhurt Father please touch and heal your precious daughter. Have mercy and compassion on her. Pour out your spirit on her & make her whole again. Reverse all damage. Remove every sickness & disease. Thank you for giving us new hope every day. My sister is in good hands. You will not fail her. The joy of the Lord is our strength. We rejoice always, give thanks in all circumstances, knowing you provide every need. Thank you in the name of Jesus.
Almighty God, Jehovah-Rapha(Ex 15:26) send your Word and heal this mother,(Psalm 107:20) in Jesus' name- do what medicine and doctors cannot! We join faith and ask this in Jesus' name- the name above all other names! Amen!
I have been fighting my husband so much lately because I resent him for letting me become a stay at home mom. I was a single mom of one when we got together. I worked 2 jobs and barely had enough time to spend with my son. I had more money in my bank account but my bond with my son wasn’t as strong. When I got remarried and Covid hit i started working from home and then became pregnant with my second son. I become a stay at home mom and had my third son soon after. We don’t have much money, my husband works so much and he tells me to stay home and enjoy our boys. We homeschool them so it gets overwhelming. Honestly society just makes me feel so bad for staying home, my friends and family make me feel unaccomplished and unfulfilled but in reality I know I’m not. I’ve just been ungrateful. Im so glad I stumbled on this video. I see now this is what’s best for my family and I should follow my husband who does truly follow God. I want to be a good biblical wife. My family deserves that. ❤️🙏
What stood out for me Lana was when you mentioned that society today is trying to pull women out of their natural role in the home, getting us into this career driven mindset which is helping to destroy the divinely intended family structure. The plans of the enemy are so deeply and cunningly woven into our daily lives, thank you for making that point
Thank you for praying for single morhers. I really needed it. I am now building my career where I can work at home so I can still raise my child and be present w/ him. 🙏 Praise God
I am not a wife, but I love the biblical teaching you are teaching us about a Godly wife. My mother is a single mom, and she is amazing, but I do not have that wife figure to look up to. I pray that the Lord continues to strengthen you with His Holy Spirit and guide you in this new ministry. God bless you and your family
I loved this, I did tear up when she said that someone else is raising their children bc I have cried about this many times and wish that I could stay home with my kids. I’m a single mom sadly but maybe one day. The Lord has however blessed us greatly by covering all our needs(emotional, physical, financial, etc) and making me a nurse. So many blessings He has given..I can afford to take some days off sometimes to be with them and I really appreciate that. I thank her for her prayers.
I wonder if there is a remote job you would be able to do so you could be home. I mean you would still be working so not fully available but at least at home. Like our insurance and doctors office have hotlines to call and speak with a nurse. Idk just trying to help. What I do know know is seeking God daily in everything helps He knows our desires and what is good for us if it's His will He will provide a way for you.
Thank you Lana for teaching us about how to be a Godly wife. I hope one day I’ll be a blessing to my future husband. Being single for a while and I am learning little by little
Wow, you're so cute, honey! You will definitely be a Godly wife! I'm looking for a Godly wife, can you help me? 😏😘 If you're interested, I'll send you my email, and I can get your number from there, sound good? God bless you honey, and I hope to hear from you soon. ❤❤❤🙏
Lana, God really corrected me through the part about manipulation. I didn’t realize how when I say things to my husband with the goal of getting him think differently I am using manipulation. It’s not my role to try and shape his thoughts or even alter them.
Thank you I have been married 36yr and I have been a stay at home Mom and when my kids left I fell apart for 6to7 yr. GOD HAS AWAKED ME NOW AND I AM TRING TO DO BETTER MY HUSBAND IS STILL WITH ME I GIVE GOD THE GLORY FOR THIS ALWAYS I NEEDED TO HERE THIS SO MUCH I WANT THIS FOR MY HUSBAND HE IS A GREAT MAN HE HAS BEEN A HELP WITH MY WHOLE FAMILY ALL THIS TIME HE WAS A FOREST FIREFIGHTER AND HELPED PEOPLE IN BIG STORMS HE HELPS PEOPLE ALL THE TIME I WANT TO BE BETTER FOR HIM I PRAY FOR THIS. AMEN AMEN AMEN
I love that you shared your message in this video, Lana. My favorite part that you highlighted was how you shared that the wife’s submission to her husband does not mean or make her less valuable! This is powerful!
I totally agree 10000% with this and the belief of trusting Gods order and Word. He knows best and chose how He sees best fit, with pure intention. I will do as He commands. Every day I learn more and this was a very excellent encouragement. Lets go stay at home mamas, raising the babies.
Well, I think we all desire what she describes, but it truly takes both in proper harmony with God to succeed. I didn't consider my husband & I to be unequally yoked when we married . . . I truly thought I could learn from him about scripture & grow in my faith & I have, but I didn't realize that he was running away from God.
watching me as a young man, this is fruit for the soul just hearing a women of God that truly knows the word speak with true wisdom, i can’t wait to be married sometime to honor my wife as she honors me. God is truly amazing 🥲
You are beautiful! Thank you for this. I’m working on becoming a Godly woman and submissive wife. Too much culture and mainstream life has infiltrated my mind and marriage. Becoming a biblical wife has changed our home life ❤️
I wish I knew this over 30 years ago, but now kids are grown, our marriage almost ended several times, but now I’m saved and understand my role better. We were so broke, but we did both agree that I stay at home till the kids started school. Praying for my husband’s salvation and appreciate your video.
I was literally scrolling through my RUclips feed and felt an unction to watch this video. After listening I can see why. I have been in thought over the past week about some dissatisfaction I am experiencing within my marriage and God has literally spoke EVERY POINT you mentioned to me at one time or another. I know this was a reminder from Him to go back to applying the action steps of what He has told me in regards to my part as the wife despite my husband's actions. Wow! I am just in awe at how on point you were speaking from the Word of God in regards to this topic. I KNOW the Lord led me to watch this video. He truly cares about our marriages! Thank you for your obedience in sharing the truth about our roles as wives in a confused culture 🙌🏾
Amen, this was beautiful, and you are a gentle and Godly role model whose words are powerful. I am grateful I found this tonight, it really blessed me.
This teaching will never get old because Pastor Lana is here to keep us in constant reminder of the importance of applying biblical principles to guard your marriage, home and family . God bless you and your channel 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am so glad to have been able to stay home and make sure my child got the word of God a lot through church and me and my husband rather than being at some job and leaving my child in the hands of who knows what. You did good Lana and it was a blessing to me and I know many women out there that need to hear they are equal and not as the world sees women as less than. God bless you and your husband and child that will be coming into a lovely Godly home praise the Lord.
Spot on Pastor Lana, I am a stay at home wife and mother. I can attest that everything you’ve said is true. My family is happy and well rounded. I teach them a lot about God and the bible and it’s because I have time. They love my meals my special treats I bake regularly and the extra time we get to go to the park or cuddle! If you can make it work please search your heart and stay home for your family. There is so much joy and gratification in serving your family. Do not listen to what the world calls good or evil because the devil is a liar. You can stand in the gap for your family when you are in your lane as Pastor Lana said. Amen great advice and great video ❤
How can someone teach you how to live by the Bible but call themselves a pastor. That's directly against the teachings of scripture itself. Now to be fair I don't know if she calls herself that but I noticed your comment and this is a very big problem in culture today ....it's direct disobedience for any woman to claim office of pastor or asurp authority over man, the Bible is very clear ....
I found this video really encouraging, and one line that struck out to me was "The wife is the crown of her husband". I really needed to hear that because, as you mentioned, we are not the neck, and I struggle with that because I want everything to be perfect and don't want to let my husband make "mistakes".
It's so nice to see Pastor Vlads wife doing a video. God Bless you and your Ministry,School, and marriage in Jesus name. Thank-you sister Lana for this biblical teaching video. You did so well explaining the role God made for us as man and woman in a marriage. 🙏✝️🩷
I love how you spoke about stay-at-home moms. This is something I'm dreaming of. It is such a blessing raising your children and having this time with them. I love how honest you are about it.
I have been a wife, mother and step mother for 16+ years and I must say that you picked the perfect 5 topics to touch on. What a wonderful video Lana, I look forward to what you will present in the future! ❤
loved this ! I'm 21 newly married and it helps tremendously. I loved your point how we shouldn't just respect our husbands-but men in general so including his dad, my brothers, etc. Thank you!!
I love that you are stating that women can be CEOs and run big companies but when it comes to marriage women are to submit to their husband. I have been both a SAHM & a working mom in different times in our lives. I am homeschooling our child but I also am going to school online to finish my degree. I think it’s okay to do both if you want to. I think it’s just important that my family still comes first.
I think it also has to do with what a woman is called to do. My sister was called to the ministry as a teenager. She was able to be a stay at home mom when her kids were small. When they were older elementary she started interning at the church and going to school. She was a working mom but was also close to her kids because our church is across the street from their school. She has served in children’s ministry for over 15 years now and has just started a preteens ministry at church 2 years ago and it’s been extremely successful and impactful in the lives of these kids. So I think it can depend on where The Lord calls you.
@@staceystitches As QuietlyContemplating posted the verse above: "That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, , good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. " (Titus 2:4-5) Your sister has already been called to do something. It is not to have someone else teach and and raise their children.
@QuietlyContemplating first, we are going to act like a more detailed description of an honorable wife in Proverbs 31, doesn't exist in the Bible. We are also going to pretend, that we literally read each verse in the Bible separately, without other instances and verses for context. Is that what you're suggesting? By the way, do you apply the same standard to everything in the Bible? The short verse didn't say to do A but because it says do B, then you can only ever do B because somehow doing A has to be wrong or some sin. So are you suggesting that every single action we may do is precisely described in the Bible and if it's not expressly spelled out to do so, then we may not do so? So, the Bible does say we should waste time in gossip and unending reasoning, but here we are on RUclips and you're engaged in what is a worthless discussion. How is that action covered in the Bible? Now, using you example of employer and employee. So, since I've worked before, I literally know what it takes to be an employee, and just because your job title and description highlights some tasks, no reasonable employer expects you literally think you can only act exactly per described duties. Also, employees go home and their lives include all sorts of interests and activities. So, the example makes no sense...we are not robot machines automated for a single task. There are things highlighted as honorable to do, that doesn't mean do that only and only alone.
@@STak-ju7gx The Bible is clear that a wife should stay at home and manage it (Proverbs 31, Titus 2:5,1 Timothy 5:14). Nit pick all you want. On the arguing thing, this is not arguing, this is rebuke false teachings. That is what we are commanded to do.
I'm so very grateful and blessed that I get to stay home and watch my children. We lived by the penny for so long but it's worth it. God always provides our needs. I'm so grateful to live out my calling. All glory to God!
Thank you Dear Pastor Lana for enlightening us with the role of women in marriage from the scriptures. It encouraged me and helped me to correct where necessary. Happy that a female oriented biblical channel from the Hungrygen platform is created. Thanks for your efforts and support 🙏. God bless you and Pastor Vlad 🙏.
We agreed, at the beginning of our marriage, that I would stay at home. This was a newer concept for my husband. We did not have support from his parents so there was a lot of pressure. There were many times it was financially challenging. But I NEVER regret it. I chose motherhood in earnest as our two children arrived. I made many mistakes but also prayed many times for wisdom. God provided miracles to provide for us that encourages me to this day. He is present! Now as my children are adults and the oldest has chosen to put aside the Christian belief we have, I continue to pray that God would speak to him and change his heart. Motherhood doesn't stop when your children grow up, it just requires different actions. Now as we enter retirement we continue to live off of the remains of our one income, we know there will be challenges. We continue to live in relationship that mutually is respectful of each other as God has encouraged. My son has commented on this when he sees many relationships are failing around him and ours continues to hold and be a work in progress. I have felt very blessed by God and am thankful I've trusted Him even when it has felt very hard and challenging at times. I have undoubtedly experienced Him in our marriage and the raising of our family. God is faithful.
AND, what she didn't say is that ribs serve a role of PROTECTING the heart! A good wife will protect the heart of her husband. Also noteworthy, is that when God removed one of Adam's ribs to create Eve, Adam's physical heart would have been slightly more vulnerable/less protected due to the gap created between the remaining ribs.
I'm imagining being like Adam and waking up from that sleep and both Adam thinking..."God, you created her (a helpmate) for me!?!?!?" That must have been amazing to wake up to.
@@framboise595Amen! One thing I realized years ago, after rebelling against God, was that not following His ways is a terrible idea, and I suffered consequences for that. We serve a merciful and perfect God.
I was widowed 8 yrs ago after 41 yrs of marriage. I loved & miss my husband. I also miss being a wife. I am able to live alone and single, but I want and need marriage to a godly husband who will love & cherish me always, as I will also do for him. There is a couple in my church who married in their 80’s after both were widowed. They seem to be so in love are so sweet together. I’m in my 70’s, & pray for God to send the right godly man my way-a man who desires a godly woman for a wife, and sees me as the one he desires and wants to pursue to be his wife. Lord, hear my prayer. 🙏
Hi Lana, I’m a new subscriber and I am a Catholic wife and mother. The best way I have found to explain submission is to fully understand the meaning- so ‘sub’ = under, so ‘under’ the mission of your husband. The husband’s mission? To get his wife and children to heaven, to protect and care for his wife, to be willing to die for her as Christ died for His Church. I’m guessing all wives want that! ❤
No human can get anyone else to Heaven . But, I think what you are meaning is that the father should see to it that God is central to earthly life. A father sets the example of being faithful and raising his children to do the same.
Thank you Lana… i’ve lost my goal and interests in being a good wife in the future all because I was so broken and my kindness and good works have been taken advantage of by someone and since then I gave up trying to be good but this really helps me and redeem the heart of being the best wife and mother for my future husband and kids ☺️🙏
I have taken many bible studies for marrie and being a Christian wife but it was years ago. I knew everything is in thia video, but as wives we get tired. After listening to her, i feel like of the Holly Spirit re-strengh me. I NEED THIS ! THANKS
ThankYou - Aamen 🙏 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. (Eph 5:21, KJV) That ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Rom 15:6, KJV)
Hello, I have been a wife for 23 years. My DH and I met in church and to the glory of the LORD we are both on the same page in most things. We love the LORD very much and is our desire to honor Him in everything you do. I have learned and am learning each day how to be a better wife and mom. I loved what you said about us being a crown - great reminder. Thank you very much. Keep up the work!!
Awesome! Such a great video and looking forward to more. Yes there is no condemnation for women who have to work. I am a single mother because my husband passed- so yes I work hard. I would love to have been given the opportunity to be home with my kids as they were growing up. Such wisdom for those who have husbands who work and can sustain the family!
Pastor this was amazing. I came to know about your channel through your husband's channel, I value him and the work he does. But after this video I can honestly say , It makes sense that you are his wife. You guys are equally great, wise and good hearted. I'm loving it
Well said. A wife role in her marriage is to rise her children and to be an assistant to her husband. Assistant means a lot, also a helper. Standing near by your husband you can see what is lacking and complet him becoming one flesh one person.
Thank you for this Biblical uplifting 🙏🏼 As hard as this is to hear for me right now, I need it. I am currently feeling unwanted and unprotected and like I may be too much of a burden. I have been working hard at trying to be submissive, builder, and a help mate but never feeling like its enough and am ready to let go and just give up and let the enemy and all his workers just win and have my marriage.
I love how you explained the role of a wife in submitting to her husband: not because he is better than she is, but because it encourages him to become a leader. I believe it also helps the wife to develop meekness and become like Jesus Christ, who, as you said, submits to the Father. Of course, if a husband is abusive, then a wife should protect herself and her children by getting away. But if he is not abusive, the effect of a submissive wife, while knowing how capable and intelligent she is, I think encourages him to reciprocate that respect and honor her and love her.
New subscriber here! I love how you shared what the scripture says about women as wives and motherhood. Please upload more videos like this. You approached it in a very calming and reassuring way, one that makes my heart at ease and calms down the voices of the worldly beliefs I grew up in. THANK YOU and I look forward to more contents like this. ❤❤❤
It's sad for some women to think that being a stay home mom is oppression. To think that raising your own kids is less of a success than chasing the bag is appalling. Life is precious, and raising the future generations well is more than money. Money is good but your children's upbringing is way more than that. Keep up the good work. We need more wives and husbands talking on the subject of marriage than single people.
It is very stressful for many modern women to stay at home due to the ever rising cost of living. But I don’t deny that being a stay at home mum is a very noble job. For as long as one can afford it, or rather if the husband thinks he’s financially ok in supporting the family alone, I don’t see why the wife should not stay at home. To conceive a child is already very laborious, especially during the birth process so why should women add on more stress from work to their life?
My thoughts exactly. A lot of people get married for the wrong reasons. Once a couple has a child/children, priorities SHOULD evolve. With the right/God-fearing man, everything is easy. With the polar opposite, everything is hard.
Good ONLY when the husband is Godly and foesnt opress her snd makebthe vhildren suffer. Most of wanting to work came from bad men and bad leadership from men who satan had attacked prior to be mostly selfish and oppressive instead of protective and providing.
Thank you Lana for being faithful to obey the Lord on this topic. I pray more women know the Lord and would listen to this advice. I just subscribed to your blog and praise the Lord for his blessings on you and pastor Vlad. I know you will be great parents and I will continue to pray for you both, your children and ministries 🙏🏻🤗
I am Catholic and me and my wife both work unfortunately. We have 2 teenage kids and raising them in a public school system is very challenging, they get easily swayed even though we teach them Godly things. All I know now, raising them with my wife makes it more doable. I don't know how it will be like if I raised them just myself or just my wife. With the cost of living these days, one income may not be enough. God Bless!
@bryant475 I hope you know Protestantism stems from the Catholic Church. Christ founded the Catholic Church... denominations were only "born again" barely just 500 years ago. I was a former Prot for over 20 years, there is soooo sooo many errors in the ways the different Prot branches teach
When my husband and I decided I'd stay at home 9 years ago to homeschool our children, my husband's business grew in such a way we didn't need a second income. God is so faithful!
Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
God is leading me to take this step 🙏🏾
You and your husband pastor Vlad are a very good inspiration. May God triple all blessings in your lives
Wait till he start spending money on younger and prettier woman and lies to you saying he needs to stay away because of business. men cannot be trusted
Amen 🙏🏽
You don't honor your husband because he's honorable, you honor him because you're Honorable 🤯 loved that!!!❤
The same goes to me. I honor my father & mother not because they’re honorable. But because I AM HONORABLE
You honour your husband because Christ is honourable. The man fulfils the representation of Christ, the wife represents the church.
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@@kickinthegob exactly
To an extent. Your Husband should be honorable as a husband. For example, in Titus after Paul explained how a woman is to love her husband he wrote " and ye men likewise". That said a Godly woman should not marry a dishonorable man and Godly men likewise. This is where a good mother and father come in. A Godly man and woman are going to raise Godly sons and daughters.
When my husband and I agreed to live a Biblical marriage, he submits to Christ, I submit to him, our marriage improved tenfold and I never felt so free. I submit to my husband out of obedience to God and God blesses him! If I act without my husband’s blessing, it NEVER goes well for me. As I remain obedient to God and pray for my husband, He has my back. He shows me over and over, even when I argue with Him. Lol. I’m grateful for women like you! Thank you.
May God continue to grace and protect your family
A woman like you is so rare in this world 😢😥
God bless you and your marriage
I want this so much
Same for me. Almost had a fatal accident because I decided something without consulting my husband first, but thank GOD that he saved me unharmed and I was able to see my mistake.
When I read biblical accounts of a wife, I"m happy to say it always reminds me of my wife. 34 years married and love her more than ever.
You are truly blessed as is she I am sure. May God continue to bless your life and marriage together.
Women are so afraid of growing old. What they do not understand: A good husband will always see a wife such as yours, like the day he met her.
Indeed I look at my wife, and sometimes I swear I see into her childhood - I see her the way her mother and father saw her when she was growing up.
I’m still single at 47 due to sexual trauma when I was young causing a fear of men. I’m finally at a point, with the help of Jesus through Celebrate Recovery, ready to trust God to bring a godly husband to me. My intention is to be the best godly wife I can be, and possibly a godly stepmother and step grandmother. So this video is very timely for me. Thank you so much for making this video Lana. You and your husband are so sweet and I’m so excited that you are finally blessed with a baby!
Celebrate recovery was awesome gift for me.
I highly suggest Karyn Seitz "The Happy Wife School" as well as this site. The Biblical Wisdom taught from both of these pages will give an amazing amount of protection and preparation from temptation from many of the devil's lies that are rampant in today's culture.
Lifting you in prayer sister
Celebrate Recovery helped me too. I had alcoholism, depression and fear of men from sexual molestation & rape. Jesus freed me.
I completely understand your choice in this. I've been where you are too. I was 13 years old when it happened. I'm 35 now and God has sent me a loving, faithful and God loving man. May God bless you my friend! Praying for you today and I'll add you to my prayer list.
I remember when my mom became a stay at home mom when I was a kid and feeling so much happier after that point on. I was less anxious too. That’s how I know, personally, how valuable stay at home mothers are to their family
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Isn't a woman's place in the home ? How about preaching Titus 2:4 again and again to just blow up our demonic feminist culture once for good ?
No need to make conferences and talk for hours. Just point to what is WRITTEN and nothing else.
The problem is today's women are too proud and rebellious to acknowledge that everything written about women , in good or bad is absolute truth.
Beautifully done! I had to make a conscious decision to get out of the drivers seat of my marriage (I was there because he wasn’t!) but the minute I told him we were all following His lead, it made him more aware, and he stepped up! (I actually told him not to lead us to hell!😳) It takes time, but a slow, steady rise in leadership is better than a steady DECLINE of your family. Stay prayerful and persistent!
Keena you did the right move, this all thing about the libaration of women in the early 70's, that was finance by the Rokerfeller, you see where im going! the plan to destroy the familly and biblical teaching. We "Man" let free range to woman as we were told by woman im "independent" as Lana says it does not work and the leader is the man, also it does not mean that woman can not build a great carear and so on. Im glad i foun d Lana as we need to go back to the scriptures, the Bible is the book of life, and we moved away from it, we see whats happening in the world today, the transgender and mutilation of kids, have a great day Keena
Awesome. At least you advised him not to lead the family to hell.
Thank you so much for this video ❤. We pray that God gives us strength to be good wives.
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You're a good wife.
When you honor and respect your husband, something's gonna start changing, something is going to start happening in his heart towards you. When you speak and feed that primary need in your husband, things are going to shift in your marriage.
Absolutely. Beautifully said Lana
Unless he is an abusive and narcissistic person. Then he will likely take those words of honor to further self-inflate and cause destruction and pain at every turn. It is NOT HONORING to God to enable and support the evil and destructive behaviors of another person.
@@gobigandgohomeschool4882 why would you marry someone like that. And are you limiting God on what he can do to a man's heart.
Same problem
@gobigandgohomeschool4882, I find that when women accuse their man of being a narcissist, it's usually because he doesn't bow to her every demand and he fails to read her mind or meet all of her arbitrary, emotionally subjective, and ever-changing expectations of him that she failed to communicate. And when the man finally stands up for himself because he's sick of her psychological tactics and mental abuse, he is labeled the abuser. So if you're actually in a relationship with an actually abusive man, then why did you marry him in the first place? You could have avoided the entire situation. But you didn't.
@@smokingcrab2290 Wow! Have you walked in those shoes?
Thank you Lana! Perfect timing as a I prepare to be the best wife I can 💗
"Homemakers" by Bryson Gray
Same🙏🏼💕
Whoever and wherever you are... For being humble and wanting to be the best wife you can God will bless you and your upcoming marriage.
Whaaaa you're getting married?! What have I missed... I love your channel
Nice to hear there are some around. Rare.
Since my husband and I became Christians, the Lord has really worked so much in our home and specially in my heart! I changed my heart and my actions as a wife, and truly that was the best thing. I have never been happier ❤ our marriage is at its best stage. Great content ❤
I can make this promise to every family out there. If you do what the Lord commands and the man goes out and works and the woman stays home to take care of the kids the Lord will provide. If you are obeying the Lord, He will open the way for you to do what He's commanded.
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I agree with you! I really like having my husband be in charge of all the big things and my favorite place to be in the world is when I can lay my head on his heart and hear it beating. I always feel safe and loved.
Being a stay at home mom at the beginning was very challenging as I had always worked prior to having kids. It was something I had to give to the Lord and knew it was the best for my children. Now I homeschool our children and have added one more child and love the fruit that has come from it.
We constantly get many compliments not only on how well mannered our children are but they know the word of God and they help maintain the home.
The Lord has shown me that my children are my ministry and ever since it’s been changed for me.
Absolutely!
It is hard to fully express how much well raised children can and will bless the world and society throughout generations. There is almost no more important a ministry.
I loved the part about being my husband’s crown! I cried at the stay at home mom part. It is good to be reminded that it is the will of God to do this. Thank you! Please film more content like this. God bless you & your family!
Just spread your legs and keep those meals coming. That's what God designed women for.
Wow, there's another one! I'm a 25-year-old Christian man looking for a Biblical wife like you and Lana. Where can I find them? 😍🙏
@@stevemacinnis5000Trust God at all times, pray for the wife He has for you. Follow God. He can cause you to meet your future wife in any place. Joseph met his in Egypt according to tradition. She had had a major conversion experience prior. Even in a very pagan society God gave Joseph a believing wife. Joseph lived faithful to God too. There are places where you can go (church etc) to meet others but: '...a prudent wife is from the LORD'. Prov 19:14. Listen to God, if you are serious in wanting His way He'll let you know if you are (or not) to be with someone you're getting to know. Keep your spiritual ears open.
God provided for His saints and often miraculously, even in negative circumstances (Joseph & his wife; Isaac & Rebekah; Boaz & Ruth) He can do the same for you!
I had plans on being at home to raise my new baby that’s coming soon. My husband abandoned me and now i am becoming homeless. I have such anxiety about letting anyone stay with my baby. I’m so broken. I have been praying that my husband would be free from the demonic bondage that is causing him to make irrational decisions based on the confusion and attacks of the enemy through other people and his mind being distorted from the truth. Please I ask that warrior prayerful people join in with me on praying for my husband to be delivered from those spirits and pray for me and my baby (our family).
The Lord will make a way for you. Sometimes it doesn't come in the way we want, but He will make a way. ❤
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Hello ,Maybe you should try the water fast or Daniel fast just to pray for him .
God hav mercy on you
May God save your marriage. Bless you. Keep us updated sis🥺
I came here because my sister’s name is also Lana. She died in 2021 at 38 years. I started diving into more about heaven and now see more in the spirit than I ever have.
Encounter Ministries RUclips channel. Mark Hemans)\\
We need this taught more. Would greatly reduce marriage break ups, so many people get too busy and their relationship deteriorates.
Women make us men responsible for their happiness. An impossible feat.
That's the problem.
@@jesse75well women are taught to make men happy and make her children happy. Also make every other family member happy. So who makes the woman happy?
I don't like that kind of reasoning but I also understand that there are just some impossible people.
But it's time to stop that silly trope of women being chaos and can't be understood. It's fine when it's a joke, but it's like taking it as a joke too long and people literally think it's the truth.
If you ask me, men are the ones more complicated. A woman only wants to be loved and be secure in her place unless you went looking for some lunatic. Tell your wife you love her, every so often, plan time to spend with and communicate, recognize her on some special days, if your the gifting type, well get her gifts once in a while, if not write a note , or make something silly. Most women will be completely sold on those few things. It's really not that hard. Relationships should give each participant mutual care.
@@STak-ju7gx golden rule is the answer.
My daughter has stage 3 ovarian cancer she is 43 she has 2 kids a girl and a boy 10 and 4. The cancer is spreading and the chemo treatments are not working and has caused damage to her body. I know God can heal her we need a miracle. Please pray for her and her kids and ask everyone to pray for her too. Please it has been over 2 years now 🙏
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Thank you for praying for her God bless you 🙏
Praying ❤ Have you broken generational curses? You need to do it. Also make sure she is not holding on to unforgiveness. These could be hinderances in healing. Cancel the diagnosis. Bind spirit of death and infirmity and cast it out in Jesus name!
@@joannhurt Father please touch and heal your precious daughter. Have mercy and compassion on her. Pour out your spirit on her & make her whole again. Reverse all damage. Remove every sickness & disease. Thank you for giving us new hope every day. My sister is in good hands. You will not fail her. The joy of the Lord is our strength. We rejoice always, give thanks in all circumstances, knowing you provide every need. Thank you in the name of Jesus.
Almighty God, Jehovah-Rapha(Ex 15:26) send your Word and heal this mother,(Psalm 107:20) in Jesus' name- do what medicine and doctors cannot! We join faith and ask this in Jesus' name- the name above all other names! Amen!
I have been fighting my husband so much lately because I resent him for letting me become a stay at home mom.
I was a single mom of one when we got together. I worked 2 jobs and barely had enough time to spend with my son. I had more money in my bank account but my bond with my son wasn’t as strong.
When I got remarried and Covid hit i started working from home and then became pregnant with my second son. I become a stay at home mom and had my third son soon after. We don’t have much money, my husband works so much and he tells me to stay home and enjoy our boys. We homeschool them so it gets overwhelming.
Honestly society just makes me feel so bad for staying home, my friends and family make me feel unaccomplished and unfulfilled but in reality I know I’m not. I’ve just been ungrateful.
Im so glad I stumbled on this video. I see now this is what’s best for my family and I should follow my husband who does truly follow God. I want to be a good biblical wife. My family deserves that. ❤️🙏
If other women criticise you, they are probably jealous.
Good on you for realizing it and desiring to change
Show me a god-fearing woman who criticizes you.
What stood out for me Lana was when you mentioned that society today is trying to pull women out of their natural role in the home, getting us into this career driven mindset which is helping to destroy the divinely intended family structure. The plans of the enemy are so deeply and cunningly woven into our daily lives, thank you for making that point
The natural role of a woman is to lead the world. She was created first (chromosome XX) and the male came out of her XY. Educate yourself.
So archaic and ridiculous
Thank you for praying for single morhers. I really needed it. I am now building my career where I can work at home so I can still raise my child and be present w/ him. 🙏 Praise God
I pray God blesses your career and your most important role as a mother.
@@ThankfulDad thank you. God bless you too!
I am not a wife, but I love the biblical teaching you are teaching us about a Godly wife. My mother is a single mom, and she is amazing, but I do not have that wife figure to look up to. I pray that the Lord continues to strengthen you with His Holy Spirit and guide you in this new ministry. God bless you and your family
God's got you girly!
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I loved this, I did tear up when she said that someone else is raising their children bc I have cried about this many times and wish that I could stay home with my kids. I’m a single mom sadly but maybe one day. The Lord has however blessed us greatly by covering all our needs(emotional, physical, financial, etc) and making me a nurse. So many blessings He has given..I can afford to take some days off sometimes to be with them and I really appreciate that. I thank her for her prayers.
I wonder if there is a remote job you would be able to do so you could be home. I mean you would still be working so not fully available but at least at home. Like our insurance and doctors office have hotlines to call and speak with a nurse. Idk just trying to help. What I do know know is seeking God daily in everything helps He knows our desires and what is good for us if it's His will He will provide a way for you.
Thank you Lana for teaching us about how to be a Godly wife. I hope one day I’ll be a blessing to my future husband. Being single for a while and I am learning little by little
Wow, you're so cute, honey! You will definitely be a Godly wife! I'm looking for a Godly wife, can you help me? 😏😘 If you're interested, I'll send you my email, and I can get your number from there, sound good? God bless you honey, and I hope to hear from you soon. ❤❤❤🙏
I hope you find a God fearing man, God fearing people are hard to find, but worth waiting for
Lana, God really corrected me through the part about manipulation. I didn’t realize how when I say things to my husband with the goal of getting him think differently I am using manipulation. It’s not my role to try and shape his thoughts or even alter them.
Thank you I have been married 36yr and I have been a stay at home Mom and when my kids left I fell apart for 6to7 yr. GOD HAS AWAKED ME NOW AND I AM TRING TO DO BETTER MY HUSBAND IS STILL WITH ME I GIVE GOD THE GLORY FOR THIS ALWAYS I NEEDED TO HERE THIS SO MUCH I WANT THIS FOR MY HUSBAND HE IS A GREAT MAN HE HAS BEEN A HELP WITH MY WHOLE FAMILY ALL THIS TIME HE WAS A FOREST FIREFIGHTER AND HELPED PEOPLE IN BIG STORMS HE HELPS PEOPLE ALL THE TIME I WANT TO BE BETTER FOR HIM I PRAY FOR THIS. AMEN AMEN AMEN
A wife is her husband's crown👑not the neck💥
Yes, we love this content❤Please keep them coming💃 Thank you Pastor Lana❤
Not the pain in the neck.
I love that you shared your message in this video, Lana. My favorite part that you highlighted was how you shared that the wife’s submission to her husband does not mean or make her less valuable! This is powerful!
Bro your so biast...😂
I totally agree 10000% with this and the belief of trusting Gods order and Word. He knows best and chose how He sees best fit, with pure intention. I will do as He commands. Every day I learn more and this was a very excellent encouragement. Lets go stay at home mamas, raising the babies.
Praying for the wife I haven’t met yet.
Lana's the perfect Christian wife, eh? I wish we could just clone her over and over again because this world needs more women like her!
You will find one that you truly desire.
Amen
Well, I think we all desire what she describes, but it truly takes both in proper harmony with God to succeed.
I didn't consider my husband & I to be unequally yoked when we married . . . I truly thought I could learn from him about scripture & grow in my faith & I have, but I didn't realize that he was running away from God.
There's plenty of respectful, virtuous, beautiful sisters out there. I pray you find her!!
watching me as a young man, this is fruit for the soul just hearing a women of God that truly knows the word speak with true wisdom, i can’t wait to be married sometime to honor my wife as she honors me. God is truly amazing 🥲
You are beautiful! Thank you for this. I’m working on becoming a Godly woman and submissive wife. Too much culture and mainstream life has infiltrated my mind and marriage. Becoming a biblical wife has changed our home life ❤️
"Lies Women Believe" is a helpful book!
I cried when you mentioned about being a Stay at Home Mom 🥹 Thank You Lord for this validation. I love serving my family and the ministry. 🙏🏼
These wise words from this wise woman are needed now more than ever. Thank you for this wonderful message of truth and light.
Congratulations so excited to hear what the Lord blesses you with to teach us. Nice to see a woman of God in teaching.
I wish I knew this over 30 years ago, but now kids are grown, our marriage almost ended several times, but now I’m saved and understand my role better. We were so broke, but we did both agree that I stay at home till the kids started school. Praying for my husband’s salvation and appreciate your video.
I was literally scrolling through my RUclips feed and felt an unction to watch this video. After listening I can see why. I have been in thought over the past week about some dissatisfaction I am experiencing within my marriage and God has literally spoke EVERY POINT you mentioned to me at one time or another. I know this was a reminder from Him to go back to applying the action steps of what He has told me in regards to my part as the wife despite my husband's actions.
Wow! I am just in awe at how on point you were speaking from the Word of God in regards to this topic. I KNOW the Lord led me to watch this video. He truly cares about our marriages! Thank you for your obedience in sharing the truth about our roles as wives in a confused culture 🙌🏾
Amen, this was beautiful, and you are a gentle and Godly role model whose words are powerful. I am grateful I found this tonight, it really blessed me.
This teaching will never get old because Pastor Lana is here to keep us in constant reminder of the importance of applying biblical principles to guard your marriage, home and family .
God bless you and your channel 🙏🙏🙏🙏
"Pastor Lana" is as unbiblical as it gets. Women are expressly forbidden from being pastors by God.
@@Bohemond_Rises 7:37 She should have mentioned not only the order in the family, but also the church.
I am so glad to have been able to stay home and make sure my child got the word of God a lot through church and me and my husband rather than being at some job and leaving my child in the hands of who knows what. You did good Lana and it was a blessing to me and I know many women out there that need to hear they are equal and not as the world sees women as less than. God bless you and your husband and child that will be coming into a lovely Godly home praise the Lord.
Spot on Pastor Lana, I am a stay at home wife and mother. I can attest that everything you’ve said is true. My family is happy and well rounded. I teach them a lot about God and the bible and it’s because I have time. They love my meals my special treats I bake regularly and the extra time we get to go to the park or cuddle! If you can make it work please search your heart and stay home for your family. There is so much joy and gratification in serving your family. Do not listen to what the world calls good or evil because the devil is a liar. You can stand in the gap for your family when you are in your lane as Pastor Lana said. Amen great advice and great video ❤
I absolutely love this ! You’re so right in everything you said. I hope to be a wonderful wife/mother as much as you someday ! May God Bless You 🤍
@@FaithfulDreamy you will be! Be blessed sister ♥️
How can someone teach you how to live by the Bible but call themselves a pastor. That's directly against the teachings of scripture itself. Now to be fair I don't know if she calls herself that but I noticed your comment and this is a very big problem in culture today ....it's direct disobedience for any woman to claim office of pastor or asurp authority over man, the Bible is very clear ....
@@elenisophiaa you are a great and a blessed woman,may God enable us women to enjoy serving our families & living for Jesus wholeheartedly.
Yes everyone would love to stay at home but unfortunately it’s not possible in today time .
Well, I’ve never heard better teaching about this topic. Thank you, I will spread this video, many people needs to hear it ❤
I found this video really encouraging, and one line that struck out to me was "The wife is the crown of her husband". I really needed to hear that because, as you mentioned, we are not the neck, and I struggle with that because I want everything to be perfect and don't want to let my husband make "mistakes".
It's so nice to see Pastor Vlads wife doing a video. God Bless you and your Ministry,School, and marriage in Jesus name. Thank-you sister Lana for this biblical teaching video. You did so well explaining the role God made for us as man and woman in a marriage. 🙏✝️🩷
I love how you spoke about stay-at-home moms. This is something I'm dreaming of. It is such a blessing raising your children and having this time with them. I love how honest you are about it.
I have been a wife, mother and step mother for 16+ years and I must say that you picked the perfect 5 topics to touch on. What a wonderful video Lana, I look forward to what you will present in the future! ❤
Sure you have. You look 22.
loved this ! I'm 21 newly married and it helps tremendously. I loved your point how we shouldn't just respect our husbands-but men in general so including his dad, my brothers, etc. Thank you!!
This is GOLD. thanks for sharing your wisdom, and that contained with the Word of God
Thank you for this, sister. We need more women of God to speak the Word of God into us women and help us grow.
I love that you are stating that women can be CEOs and run big companies but when it comes to marriage women are to submit to their husband. I have been both a SAHM & a working mom in different times in our lives. I am homeschooling our child but I also am going to school online to finish my degree. I think it’s okay to do both if you want to. I think it’s just important that my family still comes first.
I think it also has to do with what a woman is called to do. My sister was called to the ministry as a teenager. She was able to be a stay at home mom when her kids were small. When they were older elementary she started interning at the church and going to school. She was a working mom but was also close to her kids because our church is across the street from their school. She has served in children’s ministry for over 15 years now and has just started a preteens ministry at church 2 years ago and it’s been extremely successful and impactful in the lives of these kids. So I think it can depend on where The Lord calls you.
@@staceystitches As QuietlyContemplating posted the verse above:
"That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, , good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. " (Titus 2:4-5)
Your sister has already been called to do something. It is not to have someone else teach and and raise their children.
@@QuietlyContemplatingwhat you just quoted said nothing about a woman working a job, studying for a degree, or schooling online.
@QuietlyContemplating first, we are going to act like a more detailed description of an honorable wife in Proverbs 31, doesn't exist in the Bible. We are also going to pretend, that we literally read each verse in the Bible separately, without other instances and verses for context. Is that what you're suggesting?
By the way, do you apply the same standard to everything in the Bible? The short verse didn't say to do A but because it says do B, then you can only ever do B because somehow doing A has to be wrong or some sin. So are you suggesting that every single action we may do is precisely described in the Bible and if it's not expressly spelled out to do so, then we may not do so? So, the Bible does say we should waste time in gossip and unending reasoning, but here we are on RUclips and you're engaged in what is a worthless discussion. How is that action covered in the Bible?
Now, using you example of employer and employee. So, since I've worked before, I literally know what it takes to be an employee, and just because your job title and description highlights some tasks, no reasonable employer expects you literally think you can only act exactly per described duties. Also, employees go home and their lives include all sorts of interests and activities. So, the example makes no sense...we are not robot machines automated for a single task.
There are things highlighted as honorable to do, that doesn't mean do that only and only alone.
@@STak-ju7gx The Bible is clear that a wife should stay at home and manage it (Proverbs 31, Titus 2:5,1 Timothy 5:14). Nit pick all you want. On the arguing thing, this is not arguing, this is rebuke false teachings. That is what we are commanded to do.
Good and ultimate truth teaching God bless you more again ❤❤❤❤
🙏🙌🏽💪🏽🥰 I loved the stay-at-home mom part and being able to dedicate our homes and children to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ 🕊💝
❤Yes This Content IS SO SO Refreshing,Thank YOU for Sharing this Important Message from God for Us Wives!!!!!!!!!!😊
This is so good!!! Every wife both newly wed and married for 50 years should hear this and share it!
Yes. They will NOT hear it though because of the cultural influence over women over the past 70 years.
I needed to hear this today❤ Thank you Lord🙌
I'm so very grateful and blessed that I get to stay home and watch my children. We lived by the penny for so long but it's worth it. God always provides our needs. I'm so grateful to live out my calling. All glory to God!
Love this, Pastor Lana. I’ve been really embracing these truths about my role in being my husbands helper🙏🏻 It’s a beautiful thing💗
Thank you for your awsome teeching! Enjoyed it sooo nuch!
Beautifully stated, Lana! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I wish someone would send my wife this. If I would send it to her, she would disregard it.
Great video. God bless you
Thank you Dear Pastor Lana for enlightening us with the role of women in marriage from the scriptures.
It encouraged me and helped me to correct where necessary.
Happy that a female oriented biblical channel from the Hungrygen platform is created.
Thanks for your efforts and support 🙏.
God bless you and Pastor Vlad 🙏.
We agreed, at the beginning of our marriage, that I would stay at home. This was a newer concept for my husband. We did not have support from his parents so there was a lot of pressure. There were many times it was financially challenging. But I NEVER regret it. I chose motherhood in earnest as our two children arrived. I made many mistakes but also prayed many times for wisdom. God provided miracles to provide for us that encourages me to this day. He is present! Now as my children are adults and the oldest has chosen to put aside the Christian belief we have, I continue to pray that God would speak to him and change his heart. Motherhood doesn't stop when your children grow up, it just requires different actions. Now as we enter retirement we continue to live off of the remains of our one income, we know there will be challenges. We continue to live in relationship that mutually is respectful of each other as God has encouraged. My son has commented on this when he sees many relationships are failing around him and ours continues to hold and be a work in progress. I have felt very blessed by God and am thankful I've trusted Him even when it has felt very hard and challenging at times. I have undoubtedly experienced Him in our marriage and the raising of our family. God is faithful.
I loved the mention of woman, Eve, being created from the rib to be beside Adam. Right near the heart to be loved ❤
AND, what she didn't say is that ribs serve a role of PROTECTING the heart!
A good wife will protect the heart of her husband.
Also noteworthy, is that when God removed one of Adam's ribs to create Eve, Adam's physical heart would have been slightly more vulnerable/less protected due to the gap created between the remaining ribs.
I'm imagining being like Adam and waking up from that sleep and both Adam thinking..."God, you created her (a helpmate) for me!?!?!?" That must have been amazing to wake up to.
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Indeed. Nothing is more male-centric than the Bible.
It's God's way and it's perfect.
@@framboise595Amen! One thing I realized years ago, after rebelling against God, was that not following His ways is a terrible idea, and I suffered consequences for that. We serve a merciful and perfect God.
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Indeed but the Western church has become awfully gynocentric .
Modern teachings on marriage are dreadful.
I was widowed 8 yrs ago after 41 yrs of marriage. I loved & miss my husband. I also miss being a wife. I am able to live alone and single, but I want and need marriage to a godly husband who will love & cherish me always, as I will also do for him. There is a couple in my church who married in their 80’s after both were widowed. They seem to be so in love are so sweet together. I’m in my 70’s, & pray for God to send the right godly man my way-a man who desires a godly woman for a wife, and sees me as the one he desires and wants to pursue to be his wife. Lord, hear my prayer. 🙏
We need more women like her preaching this to the world
We just need more women like her!
Its one of the biggest travesties in the world that woman are not teaching other woman these principles.
You are a blessing Lana I appreciate that you are You.
God is using you and will tremendously honor your obedience to Him.
Hi Lana, I’m a new subscriber and I am a Catholic wife and mother. The best way I have found to explain submission is to fully understand the meaning- so ‘sub’ = under, so ‘under’ the mission of your husband. The husband’s mission? To get his wife and children to heaven, to protect and care for his wife, to be willing to die for her as Christ died for His Church. I’m guessing all wives want that! ❤
Please learn about how Catholicism and how it is contrary to Biblical Christianity, in order to be saved, you must be born again! God bless!
No human can get anyone else to Heaven . But, I think what you are meaning is that the father should see to it that God is central to earthly life. A father sets the example of being faithful and raising his children to do the same.
True biblical teaching .Pravo biblijsko poučavanje.
This is a fantastic breakdown of what a biblical wife looks like. Wonderfully said.
Now the problem is...how do we find these women? 😂😂😂
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@@stevemacinnis5000you train them, bring them to heel
Thank you Lana… i’ve lost my goal and interests in being a good wife in the future all because I was so broken and my kindness and good works have been taken advantage of by someone and since then I gave up trying to be good but this really helps me and redeem the heart of being the best wife and mother for my future husband and kids ☺️🙏
I have taken many bible studies for marrie and being a Christian wife but it was years ago. I knew everything is in thia video, but as wives we get tired. After listening to her, i feel like of the Holly Spirit re-strengh me. I NEED THIS ! THANKS
And congratulations on your little one! God is SO good!
Thank you Lana! I learned something you said, a family is like an Army and the head of the family is the husband thank you 🙏
I appreciate you being so calm and peaceful as you discuss these topics
Proud to be a #tradwife. I praise God for giving me a godly husband...all glory to my Savior Jesus Christ!🙏💖💖💖
Amen!
Thank you Mam.
Your voice is soothing..
Love from Nigeria. ❤
This was a beautiful teaching Lana! ♡
I loved how gentle you are. I had forgotten that we are our husbands crown. That is motivation for me to do better. Thank you!
ThankYou - Aamen 🙏
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. (Eph 5:21, KJV)
That ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Rom 15:6, KJV)
Hello, I have been a wife for 23 years. My DH and I met in church and to the glory of the LORD we are both on the same page in most things. We love the LORD very much and is our desire to honor Him in everything you do. I have learned and am learning each day how to be a better wife and mom. I loved what you said about us being a crown - great reminder. Thank you very much. Keep up the work!!
You are such a wise woman in Christ..God bless you and your ministries!!☺️👍🙏
Well balanced Analysis of husbands and wives role in the family
Congratulations
Awesome! Such a great video and looking forward to more. Yes there is no condemnation for women who have to work. I am a single mother because my husband passed- so yes I work hard. I would love to have been given the opportunity to be home with my kids as they were growing up. Such wisdom for those who have husbands who work and can sustain the family!
Pastor this was amazing. I came to know about your channel through your husband's channel, I value him and the work he does. But after this video I can honestly say , It makes sense that you are his wife. You guys are equally great, wise and good hearted. I'm loving it
Your message was so refreshing to my heart and soul! Thank you for sharing!
The way you described submission put it in a different light for me. It's not as bad as I thought cause I had the wrong view. Thanks!
Well said. A wife role in her marriage is to rise her children and to be an assistant to her husband. Assistant means a lot, also a helper. Standing near by your husband you can see what is lacking and complet him becoming one flesh one person.
Congrats 🎊 ❤woman of God 🎉 May Gods Grace be upon you and this channel - so souls will be saved and demons destroyed - in Jesus mighty name- ❤amen 🙏
When your ready to interview a PK let me know- 😂
This is a good and well-balanced teaching on a difficult subject.
hi lana from houston texas can’t wait to meet you at called to conquer
Thank you for this Biblical uplifting 🙏🏼 As hard as this is to hear for me right now, I need it. I am currently feeling unwanted and unprotected and like I may be too much of a burden. I have been working hard at trying to be submissive, builder, and a help mate but never feeling like its enough and am ready to let go and just give up and let the enemy and all his workers just win and have my marriage.
I love how you explained the role of a wife in submitting to her husband: not because he is better than she is, but because it encourages him to become a leader. I believe it also helps the wife to develop meekness and become like Jesus Christ, who, as you said, submits to the Father. Of course, if a husband is abusive, then a wife should protect herself and her children by getting away. But if he is not abusive, the effect of a submissive wife, while knowing how capable and intelligent she is, I think encourages him to reciprocate that respect and honor her and love her.
If husband and wife are in a biblical church the other Christians will not let her alone if her husband is abusive in any way.
@@pwmsensitive Yes, true Christians care for and love each other.
Beautiful said!
You and Vlad are full of wisdom. Great video. Let's all keep the commandments of God every day and praise Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior!
New subscriber here! I love how you shared what the scripture says about women as wives and motherhood. Please upload more videos like this. You approached it in a very calming and reassuring way, one that makes my heart at ease and calms down the voices of the worldly beliefs I grew up in. THANK YOU and I look forward to more contents like this. ❤❤❤
It's sad for some women to think that being a stay home mom is oppression. To think that raising your own kids is less of a success than chasing the bag is appalling. Life is precious, and raising the future generations well is more than money. Money is good but your children's upbringing is way more than that.
Keep up the good work. We need more wives and husbands talking on the subject of marriage than single people.
It is very stressful for many modern women to stay at home due to the ever rising cost of living. But I don’t deny that being a stay at home mum is a very noble job. For as long as one can afford it, or rather if the husband thinks he’s financially ok in supporting the family alone, I don’t see why the wife should not stay at home. To conceive a child is already very laborious, especially during the birth process so why should women add on more stress from work to their life?
My thoughts exactly. A lot of people get married for the wrong reasons. Once a couple has a child/children, priorities SHOULD evolve.
With the right/God-fearing man, everything is easy.
With the polar opposite, everything is hard.
Good ONLY when the husband is Godly and foesnt opress her snd makebthe vhildren suffer. Most of wanting to work came from bad men and bad leadership from men who satan had attacked prior to be mostly selfish and oppressive instead of protective and providing.
Thank you Lana for being faithful to obey the Lord on this topic. I pray more women know the Lord and would listen to this advice.
I just subscribed to your blog and praise the Lord for his blessings on you and pastor Vlad. I know you will be great parents and I will continue to pray for you both, your children and ministries 🙏🏻🤗
I am Catholic and me and my wife both work unfortunately. We have 2 teenage kids and raising them in a public school system is very challenging, they get easily swayed even though we teach them Godly things. All I know now, raising them with my wife makes it more doable. I don't know how it will be like if I raised them just myself or just my wife. With the cost of living these days, one income may not be enough. God Bless!
Please learn about how Catholicism and how it is contrary to Biblical Christianity, in order to be saved, you must be born again! God bless!
@bryant475 I hope you know Protestantism stems from the Catholic Church. Christ founded the Catholic Church... denominations were only "born again" barely just 500 years ago. I was a former Prot for over 20 years, there is soooo sooo many errors in the ways the different Prot branches teach