NO... THE BIBLE HAS MESSED UP BELIEVERS THINK ABOUT IT if Porn was the problem, it wouldn't be targeting JUST BELIEVERS. it'd affect everyone, Believers, Non Believers, Satanists, Muslims Hindi... everyone Biblical, HAS NOTHING TO DO with your Sex life if it does... YOU HAVE A PROBLEM No mate... RELIGION IS THE PROBLEM THE BIBLE IS THE PROBLEM
@@johntiggleman4686 Lets be honest though the phrase "to bring your sex life INTO... BIBLICAL ALIGNMENT" is a fucking stupid and retarded phrases to speak. it's hard enough to make a woman happy, Let alone trying to bring your sex life in alignment with something.... that... really isnt that important in life
But you have had sex before, haven't you? Whenever is not in the 10 Commandments is fair game. "Thou shall not covet thy neighbour's wife". That is why God made clear examples of David and Sodom & Gomo
We did too! We've repented and waited until our marriage. It is very pleasing to the Lord, I pray, that our God gives you strength! It's not easy, but he will hear the prayers of those, who desire to live according to his will. You can make it!
@Prestin Hurshberry that's actually wrong. You see this in multiple accounts in the old and new testament. Sex does not marriage, a official, public commitment does.
I was raped 3 times in my life. I am having theraphy for that, christian counseling. Thank you for naming this. It's important to talk about all of this. God bless.
Hi, I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, it is aweful. Happened to me as well. I pray you find healing and please don't lose hope in Jesus, He can heal you too. ❤
I thank for ur life and I hope u have learnt also avoid the guys house even in relationship if possible, better meet each other in the open place to avoid rape
I love the way that you both were in such unity as a marriage unit. So beautiful to see. The way you flowed in teaching together. You really demonstrate a healthy marriage and I felt the HG’s wisdom and love on your teaching on this
Except that she has no right to bring it the way she does. He just caters to her and to all the females in his church. That's what churchianity is about. Preaching sexual consent shows how henpecked husbands are . It is downright satanic .
@@martinkuliza You think Vlad is biblical ? Have you ever read what is written at all ? People like him who preach the modern feminist lie of sexual consent just follow Satan. Want proof ? Show me one passage in the Bible where God cares about a woman's consent . You can search for ages. His teachings reeks of hatred ..of men of course because he just sides with controlling ./rebellious females who think that their husband should have sex with them only if and when they want it ?? Who do those females think they are ? Where is their submission gone ? Moreover , what did God create men with a higher sex drive (usually ) ? To have it be subjected to females who usually have a lower one ???????? Is God such a sadist ? Does not God love his sons ? Is he not wise and balanced ? How can men with high sex drives be satisifed and not fall in temptations 1 Co 7:5 is they can't have sex at will as God wants it ? How can you a man -and so many others not assert your God given rights and your own MALE identity anymore ? God made men sexually different : higher sex drive , made to take , to seize , to conquer , to possess. Women : lower sex drive (usually) , made to be taken , to be sexually desired(women crave being sexually desired ) Modern men are all wrong. I'm a woman and I can't believe how men can be so weak today and hate their own created nature so much and try to equalise it all with women . I recently read a biological survey where I learnt something stunning about my own body . The survey shows that a woman's body does not get wet just because of desire ( female desire is not even a thing for sex) but it is a way the body protects itself against potential rape. You realise how God designed women ? For total submission , no consent , just enduring . And yet what he made was good , right ? It must explain why so many women have rape fantasies and why a high percentage of adult women experience orgasm during rape. All these are facts that back up God's vision of sex (we can see it especially in the OT but also in the NT) . It's biology and biology is nothing but the physical expression of God's will for mankind. Always bear in mind that the lie of sexual consent enables the sex with lower sex drive to rule over the other. It definitely comes from the pit of hell .
I really love the way Lana looks at Pst Vlad when he speaks, with so much intent and love, to assimilate his every words. This is beautiful to watch and as someone preparing for his wedding, I hope I can bring so much value to my wife the way Pst. Vlad does
I love how straightforward, clear, concise, yet gentle you both were while addressing this topic! GOD Bless and may He continue to anoint you both and your family. 😊❤🙏🏾
It’s hilarious that you think you know if Jacob had a threesome with both of his wives at the same time. Like, how can you say you know that, and you not be the crazy one? You have absolutely no proof or no how if that’s true.
@2012Whit Gentle ? What can be gentle about someone who calls a MARRIED man abuser for having sex with his own wife as GOD wants it ? He's not gentle. He's a wolf. Saying that Jesus does not give husband permission to have sex witht their own wives is pure lie , pure blasphemy . So , he gives them permission to have sex with prostitutes or their brother's wife ? It is clearly demonic. Satan is speaking through him. A wife is her husband's propriety. It is none of a pastor's business to know what a husband does in bed. Does he put cameras in the bedroom ? What those modern pastors do is very very serious you know.
@msjesslynn Except that husbands are not told to discuss with their wives and negotiate anything since the wife has to be submissive in everyhting. Vlad does not preach the Bible at all anyway. He could not care less about God's patriarchal and male-centric vision. Churchians just hate God. They worship another god : woman.
@@framboise595What do you mean the husband doesn’t have to discuss anything with the wife?Dont u know that without two people understanding they cannot walk together?They have to discuss and come to an understanding and agreement before it can work.Because the woman has to be submissive doesn’t mean he shouldn’t discuss this topic with her
@@framboise595God is not male centric,everyone is Equal before the creator.The fact that he has placed the male as the head doesn’t mean he is male centric understand this
@ When someone submits to someone else , no "agreement" is needed ! He can discuss if he wants to , but he does not have to ! The more men discuss with their wives , the more the wife takes over because women are way more subtle and craftier than men . They master emotions , communication and feelings better than men , which enables them to take control. Men are superior in everyway except those realms that are put first all the time in our female-dominated societies. No force , no coercion , no domination anymore ..too manly . Just emotions , feelings , communications and LOVE as emotional blackmail and men are beaten by a "weaker vessel". Samson and Delilah. It is a trap. Men engage in a woman's area and get burnt. Where on earth does the Bible focus on discussion and communication as if the sexes were on equal foot ? Nowhere. It is modern humanism , psychology , feminism ..all our carnal devilish "isms".
Thank you Lana. I use to have insecurities too, but as I learn to accept who i am and God created me Unique and beautiful, I began to feel more beautiful and comfortable with myself. Thank you Lord
Are you ignorant? Please Google "professional degrees for ordination to priestly ministry, theological research and purpose is preparation for ministries in the Church". Yes, you don't need to have a degree to be a pastor. Lots of people 'teach' in God's name, but it doesn't necessary mean those are legit teachings. Vlad claims to be a leading pastor of the HungryGen Church. A pastor must be able to teach (Titus 1:9; 1 Tim 3:2). All pastors are preachers, but not all preachers are pastors. Also ask yourself what is 'HungryGen Church"? Does Vlad and Lana appear elder to you? Hope it helps.
@@live1telescope795 Hi ! There are so many ignorant fools among churchians , you're right. Btw , do you realise that this teacher preaches the Luciferian lie of "sexual consent" in marriage ?
I think one of our duties as godly women is to celebrate our sensuality and beauty with our husbands. This pleasure has no bounds, if the woman knows how to do this. It is really through woman that a man encounters intimacy, an opening of his heart, and the two become one flesh, over and over again, knowing each other deeper, as we learn to know God.
@@smalltimeoutdoors6112 This is beautiful but it's the DUTY of the wife. The woman was made for the man. Not the opposite. She is there for him. He has authority over her and over her body.
@@mihaiarmy666 (Hebrews 2, v. 14), "Pursue peace with all people, and Holiness, without which NO one will see the Lord:" (1 Peter 1, v. 15), "But just as he who called you is holy, so Be Holy in all you do;"
@@mihaiarmy666 (2 Corinthians 7, v. 1), "Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us Cleanse ourselves from All Filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting Holiness in the fear of God."
I do thank you for addressing these issues that the church as a whole is avoiding as the plague. The issue that is not being addressed is the steady and increasing diminishing of sexual desire usually experienced by the wife. No one is talking about how to address this critical issue
@@bobcobb158 This! Couldn't agree more. Porn is a plague of our century. So many young people, especially men are thinking that porn is normal. No, it is not. It distorts sexuality and robs people of real connection and healthy sex
Wife diminish in sexual desire usually because the husband no longer physically takes care of himself, is overweight, unattractive and unhygienic and/or also because they no longer view their husband as a “hero” or as their protector/leader. The Bible says women must submit, to do that a man must embody characteristics that would cause a woman to want to submit to him, like making her feel safe and secure, providing her, protecting her, being a leader to her and to his family/community, being brave and courageous, sticking with his morals and values regardless of others’ opinions. He can work on his character and embodying a man of god, brave, steadfast and kind to become more attractive to his wife. It’s actually not that complicated.
I won't return insult for insult. I simply stated that there is a problem that no one is addressing. I wasn't looking for a character assassination or general put down.@@saludosalsol
1.8k views nd only 489 likes wow..says alot 😒not many pple liked this message bcuz it hit to close to home.. This message was very well needed for many thank you for speaking on it
Probably true but in my case I had to go back and like the video after you made this comment. I don't usually give thumbs up or down. I just watched the video and move on.
Many times we soak in the message so much that by the end of the message we start thinking about it we forget to like .all those views means the message is powerful and we love it.let me press my like though 😂
@@TheScotsman1977 Godly ? So , the Luciferian lie of "marital rape" is godly ? Have you ever read the Bible at all ? You realise that this man is just JUSTIFYING wives resisting their husbands in bed instead of being submissive like loving does (Proverbs 5:18)? This man is teaching PURE EVIL.
4. Is kind of an inaccurate. The Bible commands a husband & wife not to deny one another. So even if there’s nothing non-consensual happening someone is still in the wrong if they’re denying their spouse.
The best way to avoid problems in intimacy is to have deep conversations about intimacy before you get married. If the couple are not on the same page, don't get married. It will avoid a world of problems later.
I am talking about people who are not married and who have not been intimate yet. If people sleep together before they get married, they already have their answers.
Thank you for sharing this❤️ God bless you both🙏❤️ My boyfriend and I are 49 years old and we’re waiting with sex until we get married. Blessings from Norway 🇳🇴🙏❤️
This is wonderful to hear. So many people--especially our age--fornicate in direct opposition to the clear instructions of the Lord that fornicators will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. May He bless you and your boyfriend!
@@wheatNtares the problem with marrying later in life is that most people are not virgins at that age. Once you've already had sex, it's much harder to stop doing it. I believe ideally God wants people to marry young, so they can enjoy only one sex partner for life.
@@gregorywootton3870 sex is spiritual marriage, yes. That's what most people don't realize, we are spiritually bonded to every person we have sex with. There is no such thing as "casual sex"
“Some have reasoned that when there is common consent between husband and wife, then any sort of deviant behavior in the marriage bed is acceptable. If common consent is enough to set aside the Word of God then Ananias and Sapphira should not have been found guilty of lying to the Holy Spirit.” ~Frank Hammond, The Marriage Bed.
Ananias and Sappharias Died Because They Lied About Money They Said They were going to give and They withheld and Kept some of it thus violating the thou shall not steal and vowing a vowing with your mouth then not paying it They Died because they Lied. Had Nothing to Do With Their Marital Bed. So of These Comment Let Me See Alot of So called Believer Don't Know or Live The Scriptures. They Don't possess The Comfortor The Holy Ghost because You Dont Hear Him Preached or Taught And He Teaches All Truth. No Where In God Word Can ANYONE Tell You What To Do In You Marriage Bed With Your Husband or Wife No Preacher Or Pastor has That Right. I've Seen Alot of People Marriages get Messed Up By Them Placing Men of God in places in Their Lives That Not Their Business.. IF Jesus Said Let No Man Deceive You That Means You Need To Know They Word Yourself Through The Holy Ghost Having A Personal Relationship With Jesus And Living A Life By Demonstration. Going into a building Doesn't Make you Saved or Have A True Relationship With Jesus or Live a Life Of Holiness Towards ALL PEOPLE. And America has the Most Racist Christian That Are On Their Way To HELL Because The Jesus That They Bible Describes and What He Preached IS NOT What Is Displayed In America.. This Is Not A Nation Under God As It Claims And The People Serve Pagans God's and Holidays And Think They'll Enter Into The Kingdom. Rude Awakening. When America Repents For Real And Stops Lying Of This False History It's made itself believe for Centuries it maybe a smidgen of Redemption God Hates Liars It's An Abomination To Him.. Only Truth Will Stand And Those Who Have Loved According To Jesus Word Will Enter In. Play Time Is Over For Fake Christians. Apostle George 💯 O.G Florida 🌴
@Anne-yh1vv Ananias and Sapphira 5 Now a man named Ananias, together with his wife Sapphira, also sold a piece of property. 2 With his wife’s full knowledge he kept back part of the money for himself, but brought the rest and put it at the apostles’ feet. 3 Then Peter said, “Ananias, how is it that Satan has so filled your heart that you have lied to the Holy Spirit and have kept for yourself some of the money you received for the land? 4 Didn’t it belong to you before it was sold? And after it was sold, wasn’t the money at your disposal? What made you think of doing such a thing? You have not lied just to human beings but to God.” 5 When Ananias heard this, he fell down and died. And great fear seized all who heard what had happened. 6 Then some young men came forward, wrapped up his body, and carried him out and buried him. 7 About three hours later his wife came in, not knowing what had happened. 8 Peter asked her, “Tell me, is this the price you and Ananias got for the land?” “Yes,” she said, “that is the price.” 9 Peter said to her, “How could you conspire to test the Spirit of the Lord? Listen! The feet of the men who buried your husband are at the door, and they will carry you out also.” 10 At that moment she fell down at his feet and died. Then the young men came in and, finding her dead, carried her out and buried her beside her husband. 11 Great fear seized the whole church and all who heard about these events. ( Acts 5:1-11 )
You two are amazing together. I’m blessed to have visited your church years ago and now I can follow you on RUclips. My husband and I watched this video. Spot on with it being biblical!
@theolivetone2097 Except that it's not biblical at all. There is no such thing as "rape" in God's eyes sionce the husband has authority over his wife's body and can use this authority at will unless he agrees to stop the sex for a while . That's what the BIBLE says . That's not what this heretic says.
@@Polynuttery Love your wife but don't you touch her ..is what those misandric heretics teach and men , the glory of God , bashed , shamed all the time by those fake churches just sit there and take it. The BIBLE that they never ever quote and that people never ever read clearly says that a man gets married to avoid sexual immorality 1 Co 7:4. . To avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife ( in Greek language "have" is own in fact ). It is in Greek "Let every man own his wife and every woman be owned by her husband " man active tense /woman passive tense Man glory of GOD , woman glory of MAN , made for him , to please him , to obey him , to be his delights . Ok ?? So my question is , HOW is he going to avoid sexual immorality if he is told that he CANNOT have sex with HIS OWN wife ? You realise how demonic their teachings can be ? It is the WIFE who is in total rebellion and who needs severe rebuking but those cowards prefer putting the blame on men who are INNOCENT in God's eyes. A husband going to HIS wife for sex does good in God's eyes. God made the woman FOR the man and not the man for the woman. Marriage is for SEX according to the Bible. Your question is totally irrelevant because "love" never rules out sex but is typical of the modern emasculated churchian who is afraid of acting like a real man in the bedroom. There is nothing more male-centric and Patriarchal than the Bible but their teachings are female-centric. They are not even 1% in line with the Bible. So , who do YOU follow ? Heretics like Vlad and co (how many preach the same lies but are never exposed because people are illiterate these days ? They go to school , they study but cannot read anymore !!) or the LORD who tells you to go and have sex whenever you want and need Proverbs 5:18 in order to keep safe from temptations 1 Co 7:5 ?
@@Polynuttery You understand what the BIBLE says ? To avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife (...) 10 Co 7:4 Do you realise that GOD (who is not preached by Vlad and co at all ) sees marriage as a sin fix ? Do you realise that sexual consent is a doctrine of demons ?
@@framboise595This is what the Bible actually says: 1 Corinthians 7:4 KJV "The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife." Regarding intimacy, according to the Scripture quoted above, the husband is commanded to yield his body to the sexual needs of his wife, the same as his wife is to yield her body to the sexual needs of her husband. Moreover, there is no justification for rape found in anywhere in the Scripture; but the opposite is found in 1 Corinthians 7:5 KJV: "Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency." Yes, the husband can have intimacy with his wife, but not at will, but only with the "consent" of his wife (According to 1st Corinthians 7:5). If the husband wants to fast or have sex with his wife but she does not physically nor verbally consent to such, then according to 1st Corinthians 7:5, he cannot fast nor have intimacy at that time. Likewise the wife to the husband. For both must consent. This is what the Bible says.
@@Polynuttery How would that relate to the command to have a wife in order to avoid sexual immorality ? And how can a wife supposed to be submissive resist her husband ? See how demonic this teaching can be ? To avoid sexual immorality , let every man HAVE HIS WIFE 1 Co 7:4 You really think you and your feminist buddies can fool the Lord ? You think that God allows wives to do what they want with their bodies ??? There is no such thing as "sexual consent" in God's eyes. But God is definitely hated , mocked , bashed by all those churchians who claim to love him. God gave men higher sex drives but they cannot act on it ? You think it works this way with God ? Making it all about the woman is an abomination in his eyes since he made the woman FOR the man , for HIS needs first and foremost . Isaiah 3:12 The same curse is upon us. It is getting clearer day after day.
Sex is like duct tape - the more places you stick it, the less it sticks. God gives deep love to those who seek it, and God blesses what He connects. Erotic love cannot exist without agape love. God blesses a morally pure union without perversions. The perversions are from pornography. God bless your ministry. 🕊️🙏🏻💟🛡️
Matthew 7:21-23 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
@@yuriyagarkov8919it speaks about people who trust in their works for salvation, instead of trusting in Jesus Christ for salvation a 100% many people missinterpret this verse, it does not have anything to do with the topic im the Video.
@@yuriyagarkov8919 Are you Moscoviti? Lots of people 'teach' in God's name, but it doesn't necessary mean those are legit teachings. Vlad claims to be a leading pastor of the HungryGen Church. A pastor must be able to teach (Titus 1:9; 1 Tim 3:2). All pastors are preachers, but not all preachers are pastors. Also ask yourself what is 'HungryGen Church"? Does Vlad and Lana appear elder to you? Hope it helps.
@@yuriyagarkov8919 Unless proven otherwise, according to my observation, Mr and Mrs Savchuk are typical televangelists, or youtubevangelists, resembling a neo-pentecostal movement to gain mega profits following the footsteps of the doctrine of prosperity theology (K. Copeland) smoothly gliding on "new age" topics.
Decent presentation from you two! I was going to object to discussing the bedroom on social media like it's becoming fashionable among christians who have lost the knowledge of the difference between holy and profane recently. But this is good. God bless you.
At 7:28 you say: If one spouse says, "This will make me feel closer to you" but the other says "I don't think it will," the conclusion should be that it's therefore not going to be beneficial to the marriage. I am sure I'd agree. If my wife says I want you to do this, or I want to do this to you (let's say for example, for some reason she wants to blindfold me and tie my hands), and I think to myself, "This isn't really going to help me, in fact I'm a little uncomfortable with the idea," Apostle Paul says in 1 Cor. 7, each spouse has authority over the other's body. So although I may initially be uncomfortable with what she wants, my focus is NOT primarily on my own needs: My need to feel close to her. My need to feel comfortable. Me, me, me. No, my focus is on doing everything I can to make her feel as intimate and as close to me as she possibly can be. So I will work on becoming comfortable with her suggestion. If she wants me to wear a men's fragrance that I just don't care for at all, I will make an effort to wear it just for her. My goal is not to smell nice to myself. My goal is to smell nice to her. For that reason, I wouldn't go into a store and buy a fragrance that I like. I will buy a fragrance that she says she likes. The same goes for many other things in the bedroom. Sticking only with what you have always known, and what you are comfortable with, means that you'll never learn, change or grow. It is a give and take, an exploration forward by two people.
I also didnt know that being intimate while a woman is on her menstrual cycle which believe it or not is common is one of the sins God despises Leviticus 18:19
@@marvinwerth9421 Yeah , typical of churchians. They prefer listening to heretics like Vlad who teach "sexual consent" , a doctrine of demons rather than the LORD who forbid men to touch women on their menstrual cycle. Modern churchians could not care less about the Lord . They are too illiterate to read what is written.
@marvinwerth9421 In the old Testament the men went 7 days with no sex while their wife was in purification. Are you telling me with Jesus we have even less self control now? Jesus went 33 years no sex, no masturbation. We gotta show some restraint. Otherwise your going to end up cheating on your wife.
1 Corinthians 7:2-5 So I’ve been married for 16 years. I always want it. She never wants it. She never initiates it. Now it has been over six months. She makes me feel shamed for asking, married and alone. That is not God‘s arrangement for married people to be forced into celibacy .
I am a wife with a very low sex drive, so I can understand your wife. Before I got married my mom told me that sex would not always be fun and might sometimes even feel like another thing on a long list of things to get done in a day. But she said that if I want my husband to stay satisfied and faithful to me, it was up to me to give him sex often and to make it fun for him. Not just lay there like a board. Lol any ways, it took me about 4 years into our marriage before I could climax. And I've learned that how to make it fun for him is to just enjoy it myself. And also the more often we do it the more fun it is for me. Hope this helps. Your wife is not alone. Hopefully you both can learn to satisfy each other.
See if something external to sex is making your wife take distance from you in sex, sex is a product of all the love you give your wife, how much you spend time with her, how much she feels safe with you, how much you take care of her, these things are first, then comes sex, ask your wife why she doesn't have sex with you, and act as she says in God's name
I Corinthians 11: 13-16 "Judge among yourselves. Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not even nature itself teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a dishonor to him? But if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her; for her hair is given 1to her for a covering. But if anyone seems to be contentious, we have no such custom, nor do the churches of God." 1 Corinthians 11:14-15. The passage discusses whether it is appropriate for a man to have long hair and suggests that nature teaches that it is a disgrace for a man to have long hair. The phrase is also used more generally to suggest that nature teaches wisdom. If you do dog-style positions in sex, you are literally doing something that is a "dog" move. Therefore, you are treating each other as animals. Nature itself is self-explanatory. Our physiques teach us how to do things appropriately. Don't invert the scripture, but you should learn its principles. You cannot invert scriptural and scientific principles. Don't make wicked impasse of an inverted doctrine. It is perversion to do exactly the way animals do things without considering their anatomy.
Let us all understand this: Deuteronomy 27:8 (NASB) “You shall write on the stones all the words of this Law very clearly.” Deuteronomy 4:2 (NASB) “You shall not add to the word which I am commanding you, nor take away from it, so that you may keep the commandments of the LORD your God which I am commanding you.” Psalm 12:6 “The words of the LORD are pure words; Like silver refined in a furnace on the ground, filtered seven times.” Psalm 18:7-8 (NASB) “The Law of the LORD is perfect, restoring the soul; The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple. The precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart; The commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.” Once we’ve understood that God’s Torah is clear, it is final - no additions or subtractions, it is pure, it is perfect, and it is meticulous in detail, let us read Leviticus chapters 18 and 20 that describes in detail the rules on sexual conduct. Praise to the Most High.
Nobody is not eating their lobster! Dem BBQ pork ribs are mighty tasty too! There are 613 laws that were required of the Jews...God made it plain to Peter that a "New Covenent" is what Christ's death initiated....
I think as long as the sexual activities are kept strictly between the husband and the wife, and no one else, nothing is really off limits. It just matters what each person is comfortable with.
I miss my husband! He passed away from a TBI and a broken neck in 2021. We were faithful, and I have chosen to remain married in my heart ❤️. My ring is staying on. I am not going to date. I was with my husband for 41years., since we were 17. ❤I miss him 😢.
Thank you for this teaching. I know y'all have a lot of young people in your congregation. Please keep stressing to them that they should keep their virginity, even if they are engaged to be married. I made the mistake of giving mine away to my first boyfriend, and then, since I was already "defiled," I started having sex with other men (not a lot, but there shouldn't have been ANY other "lovers" in my life. I was forced to have an abortion, and I chose to give another child up for adoption. The result of that heartbreak is that I have suffered sexual dysfunction in my Christian marriage for the entire 33+ years I've been married. I'll never forget the one day my husband asked me to submit to anal sex because, he said, "You allowed other men to do that to you." He did not *physically* hurt me that day, but he made me very, very sad.
Hello, thank you for sharing your story and I pray for healing for you 🙏i mean that in the kindest and most respectful way but i sincerely hope that whatever your past is, whatever your sins are, you know that it is never okay to be forced to do anything you don't want to (+ is not biblical in that case), and "submission" is not forcing the other like that, even if you did it before, even if he really wants to, even if you weren't the best wife today or whatever... you, like anyone, deserve grace for whatever mistake and trauma you may have and not emotional blackmail to push you to do something against your will. That is not loving, nor patient, nor kind... I hope you are safe, and i hope that you can expose that that limit shoudn't be crossed to your husband and that he will learn from that and change. Take care of you.
FYou are broken but at your own hand, No one else. You are a narcissist. Everything is about you. If you didn't have a lot of men, then the sexual dysfunction is entirely your choice. No doubt you used it against your husband. I am don't think anal sex is right, but no man wants to be told that he is subservient to a previous man in your life. You held that anal sex over your husband. Then no doubt let him know how very sad you were, even though it didn't hurt and you done that with other men. You don't get that because everything is about you. No one forced you to have an abortion. No one put a gun to your head. You just didn't want to live with the consequences of your actions. It is time to surrender to Jesus, NOT your religious Jesus. Not the Jesus in your mind. Surrender to Jesus, who is Gold Almighty. Only God can remove that filthy mind you have that you are one who has been violated. You have been violating your husband sexually for 33 years. You are broken, Time to get unbroken. Only God can do that. You can't because you have chosen a very gross path.
@@Riannalynn123 He didn't force her. He ASKED her. You women are horrible at this stuff. Blame the man. You can't see how much a narcissist this woman is. Everything is about her. She was sexually dysfunctional by choice, punishing her christian husband for 33 years. I doubt he actually wanted anal but was tired of being played by this woman. Tired of the lack of sex while she was talking up her past exploits with men. This woman is clearly a narcissist.
The interesting thing about Christian courting is usually we cannot be present with each other too much. It can be too arousing. Even if my future partner is in the same or next town, it’s better for us to do Bible study together in public than be alone.
@@_Amarin it's not wrong to have a strong sexual desire, it is a gift from god. it's usually not a self control issue when people have strong sexual desire. it is acting on it outside of marriage that is wrong. i would only take the medication if the temptation is too strong, otherwise you may damage the gift god gave you (and your future spouse)
I’ve been single for 4 years and remained celibate for that time. I’m hopeful I’ll be prepared once the right man comes along, but at 44 I’m wondering if I’m too late.
A LITTLE ADVICE......... The right man..................... never COMES ALONG You have to look for him You have to work on the relationship If you were thinking it was just GOING TO HAPPEN......................NO.. it doesn't work like that and now.. You're 44 WELL FUCKING DONE GOD..... WELL DONE INDEED Even if you find a guy today, it'll take say 2-3 years to establish a relationship, You'll be 47 Now.. the thing is, Once you're over 40 THE CHANCE OF COMPLICATIONS AT BIRTH.. REALLY GETS HIGH Say 42 at the latest Now.. perhaps you don't want kids.... that then is fine. but i reckon most women want kids even if you have the kid and everything find you'll belike 47, so by the time you're 55 THAT KID IS RUNNING AROUND LIKE CRAZY SAYING... Cmon mommy kick the soccer ball with me and you're like..... Pheewww, I just can't do this , My Knee, My back, My Neck, My Cardio... My... Everything else WELCOME TO WHAT THE BIBLE DOES FOR PEOPLE and here's the kicker You're then going to get told (Since you are in a vulnerable state) that IT'S PART OF GOD'S PLAN AND YOU'LL THEN GO YOUR ENTIRE LIFE WITHOUT A PARTNER and tell yourself you did it for god. Because.. What other option do you have You're not going to say to yourself... I fucked up and i admit it. NO ONE DOES THAT BUT DO YOU SEE NOW WHAT RELIGION DOES ? it gives you stupid rules to follow and IT KNOWS YOU WILL COMPLY BECAUSE...... YOU GAVE UP YOUR LIFE PARTNER FOR RELIGION that means... YOU'LL LITERALLY DO ANYTHING FOR RELIGION and that is what we call INDOCTRINATION or PSYCHOLOGICAL PROGRAMMING
It’s never too late. Seek God and ask him for your spouse and wait for Him to send them to you. When the time comes you will know and be wise in your decision as the devil will try to deceive you
@@tawanzaratliff6860 "Seek God and ask him for your spouse and wait for Him to send them to you. " LMFAO... Well. You're just a wealth of knowledge aren't you ? HAVE YOU EVER ACTUALLY BEEN MARRIED ? See...... YOU DO NOT Just wait for a spouse, that's stupid Let alone WAIT FOR GOD TO SEND THEM... that's just Universally stupid also... THE TIME NEVER just comes. You have to MAKE THE TIME Do you understand the stupidity in telling someone "" be wise in your decision" I CHALLENGE YOU TO OULINE A PROCEDURE FOR "BEING WISE IN DECISIONS" AND .... What the fuck the devil has to do with a spouse...... I guess this makes sense in your head, doesn't it ?
@@rayted9073 YEAH.. DEFINITELY it might be.............. PRAYERS (who would think huh) or maybe............. THE BIBLE (Crazy huh.....Who would think it) Or maybe......... INCORRECT ADVICE AND STUPID RULES
Didn't watch the full video, but just reacting to the headline. Some Christians getting into subjects they honestly have no buisness getting into. Focus on what matters, saving souls and preaching the gospel! Unreal!
This was perfect. I always cringe a bit when I hear someone start talking about this topic, because some people like to add rules and regulations to sex in marriage that are simply not scriptural. They take certain scriptures and put modern day interpretations or their own personal biases to them. And God warns against adding to scripture. As a Christian pre-marital counselor, I applaud your commitment to letting scripture interpret itself and giving Godly scripture based counsel. Thank you!
@prestinhurshberry8417 like I thought...should've kept silent. It's Bible, not bibles. Evidently, it's a book you know nothing about and need to start reading...a lot. Meanwhile, I'll enjoy my vaginal, oral, and anal with my consenting, ordained spouse. Hebrews 13:4.
@@samuelbrown7831 If you are not hearing from Holy Spirit on this, you can know that anal sex is extremely painful, results in the recipient needing surgery to restore normal bowel functioning and is completely unnatural. It has been used as a cheap substitute for a vagina by homosexuals and perpetuated by the porn industry which wrongfully depicts this disgusting act as enjoyable. Those are actors given laxatives who are numbed by drugs and they also suffer from various infections by spreading harmful waste bacteria entering other orfices it doesn’t belong. Your anus is designed by God as an exit for waste, period. If you still believe this is a biblical act I ask you seek wise counsel and deliverance from perversion. Gods ways are not harmful to either party.
@@prestinhurshberry8417 ok etymology doesn't explain how oral or anal sex between loving, consenting, married adults is unacceptable, demonic or animal like. Please use Biblical text(s) to support your claim
The Bible says that the martial bed is undefiled. As long it is between the husband and wife only then it is good . Too many pastors try to make a list of things not allowed even between married couples . Whatever the two want to do is good period.
I like you teaching but my husband takes few second and he tells me if he takes more minutes it will make him grow older faster in holy marriage is it true need your advise
I would also add, if this is both self-giving, unitive and open to life? Are we becoming one body? Are we open to life? The procreative aspect is not always present due to women's natural cycle, but if intentionally removing unitive aspect and/or procreative through barriers or contraception, then it's denying one or both aspects of sexual act.
Well said Cody. Sex to many is still a dirty word. There is no book that can dictate what consenting adults may or may not do behind closed doors. Which reminds me, where are my fluffy rabbit ears?😊
@@johnjustice4420 exactly, but what god allows is anything (assuming that anything doesn't contain some external sin) exclusively between the couple, assuming it's consensual.
Pretty simple of an answer for this question. Sex is and was intended for procreation, anything that is not capable of accomplishing that directly is not "allowable". Sodomy is described as an "unnatural" sex act. The definition of a natural sex act is anything that directly intends on and can succeed in procreating, biblically. One of the things you'll find you'll be giving up as you progress in getting closer to God is lust. Even for your wife or husband. Lust is not described as a good thing in a marriage anywhere in the bible. Only described as sinful nature. Hopefully then you can rise above the desires of the flesh and desire your wife or husband in an emotional way not a base self fulfilling type of way. The mouth and anus are not reproductive areas, and are wholly considered sodomy. In the bible and in definition. Adam and Eve were not aware of their nakedness in part due to not having the desires of the flesh. Sin changed that. The kind of desires we find ourselves having for our mates now are not without sin. There is very little in regards to how we approach and view sex, even with our wives or husbands, that is not sinful in nature. At least for most of us. On the other hand the bible says you will desire each other. But what desires and where are the desires coming from? The desire was instilled for procreation. So, again, if it is not for procreation purposes it is not the desire you were inherently instilled with. We were not inherently programmed to want bj's. Those come from sinful places. Anal is most def out of the question. I realize it is difficult to accept. The world is fueled by sex and money. This is just the answer, biblically. Need citation? LMK
And if you follow that recipe, you will find you do not "need" to be a performer, hung like mr.ed, and or all those other self depressive, performance anxiety, insecure, all around enjoyment robbing, mentally destructive, relationship destructive, unnecessary complications, simply By following the Words of God. See how it always, and I mean always, works out when you do so. God's word says you procreate with your mate and desire each other out of love. Period. IF you figure that out emotional sex will defeat every problem I listed and many more.
I agree it’s supposed to be Godly Love and not Lust. Really bothers me that christians bring worldly demonic lust into their marriage. Love satisfies a heart but lust is empty and causes a damaged heart.
This is actually basic common sense to me but you're right our world has polluted our minds so badly most folk today would think one was crazy for saying what you said. 😢. I just pray for a husband who loves me and we don't need to be corn stars on our bedroom, just love each other and do God's will.
If the spouse is asexual or the spouse does not want to have sex, what do you think the other person should do? It's easy to preach or be in the gallery to comment. You will understand the pain only if you go through these circumstances.
Only people who don't want sex should only marry each other. Because it opens up a nasty window for sin and adultery for the person who wants to have sex with their spouse. Masturbating and doing sexual things outside of the marriage bed with your spouse is also a sin.
Are you ignorant? Please Google "professional degrees for ordination to priestly ministry, theological research and purpose is preparation for ministries in the Church". Yes, you don't need to have a degree to be a pastor. Lots of people 'teach' in God's name, but it doesn't necessary mean those are legit teachings. Vlad claims to be a leading pastor of the HungryGen Church. A pastor must be able to teach (Titus 1:9; 1 Tim 3:2). All pastors are preachers, but not all preachers are pastors. Also ask yourself what is 'HungryGen Church"? Does Vlad and Lana appear elder to you? Hope it helps.
Throughout history the Church has maintained a very specific moral code for sexuality, which involes preserving the nature of the sex act and its spiritual implication. This is what we can learn studying the Church's view on married people's sex life: *Anal sex is sodomy so it's not right even between spouses. *Oral sex is not much mentioned but we can conclude that can be practiced as a form of foreplay if both agree and feel there's nothing wrong with it (if you feel convicted in your heart that it's somehow wrong then don't do it). *Sex toys are perverted objects. *Porn should not take place in marriage. *Masturbation is wrong since it deviates from the nature of the intimate act. *Kinks such as perverted roleplays shouldn't be practiced by the spouses neither. *Denying sex to your spouse without a serious reason is sexual defraudment. *But forcing your spouse is neither right (involves violence). *Ejaculation should always happen in the natural way (meaning not outside). *Contraceptives are damaging for the woman's health & can cause abortions, so the spouses should be open to life since the purpose of marriage is creating a family for God's glory. ✝️
No kidding some women cant carry a pregnancy full term the better option is birth control. Not to mention some men in wheelchairs can't even cum without special sex toys to help them. Just because you are married in a wheelchair it doesn't mean you shouldn't cum. 🤦
Not everybody believes in the church’s teachings. People do not have the vow of chastity to God . The human nature according to God’s law is procreation. A friar priest asks to me can you keep the vow of chastity until expiry next month? I said yes. He did not say anything for after that. Did he imply I could have after?
Intimacy is based on many factors in a marriage: how well you communicate verbally, how many things you share. Also one needs to be willing as a partner to satisfy another partner's needs, even if it's not your first choice and doesn't cause any discomfort. Therefore you can't categorically say that a particular sexual practice is "bad". Marital sexuality involves exploration, trying different things.
One thing he did not say that he should of said at the 2:23 mark in the video was that marriage is to be between two people! What he should have said that god said in the Bible is marriage is between a man and a woman! So he had the gay people going see we’re ok! God also says in the Bible man shall not lie with man and woman shall not lie with woman.
I’ve followed your videos for quite a while Vlad I know this is Lana’s video. It’s a very grey area for us Christian’s but your explanations are very informative and helpful. It is interesting that you state the married couple shouldn’t deprive each other this actually happened in my marriage. My wife was on the pill many years ago thing became difficult and the pill seemed to be the cause of the issues so it was decided I would get a vasectomy to eliminate her fears of getting pregnant and it would solve the being deprived in the marital bed . So I did as she asked and you’d think problem solved but no it didn’t . After about twenty years it finally came to a head and we got divorced . If I meet someone I commit adultery. I wasn’t a practicing Christian at that time some years later I found Jesus again got baptised and became a born again Christian . I can’t find a partner now for fear of breaking the adultery commandment and remain celibate .
"Marriage is between 2 people, not a whole neighborhood". Lol, good point
Or community
"it may take a village to raise a child, but definitely not the whole town to make one"
Tell that to King Solomon and to King David. My question to you, did God bring Abigail to David to marry?
neighborhood should be able to comment, advise, and in some cases: enforce.
Early Christians and Jews were all Polygamist. Polygamy can't be denied as a feature of religion.
Porn has really messed up so many believers. It's a hard pill to swallow, but we must bring even our sex lives into biblical alignment.
I agree. You have to purify your mind first and then you will not lust of the flesh!
NO... THE BIBLE HAS MESSED UP BELIEVERS
THINK ABOUT IT
if Porn was the problem, it wouldn't be targeting JUST BELIEVERS.
it'd affect everyone, Believers, Non Believers, Satanists, Muslims Hindi... everyone
Biblical, HAS NOTHING TO DO with your Sex life
if it does... YOU HAVE A PROBLEM
No mate...
RELIGION IS THE PROBLEM
THE BIBLE IS THE PROBLEM
It's the lustful spirit rebuke it
Won't work for my wife. Doesn't care if she has sex with me. Let's hear what these two would suggest. I can almost hear it anyway.
@@johntiggleman4686
Lets be honest though
the phrase "to bring your sex life INTO... BIBLICAL ALIGNMENT"
is a fucking stupid and retarded phrases to speak.
it's hard enough to make a woman happy, Let alone trying to bring your sex life in alignment with something.... that... really isnt that important in life
My boyfriend and I are not having sex till after we get married. This has been very hard to do but we want to plz God.
But you have had sex before, haven't you?
Whenever is not in the 10 Commandments is fair game. "Thou shall not covet thy neighbour's wife". That is why God made clear examples of David and Sodom & Gomo
@Prestin Hurshberry what is abstinence?🍆🍑🍆🍑🍆🍑
We did too! We've repented and waited until our marriage. It is very pleasing to the Lord, I pray, that our God gives you strength! It's not easy, but he will hear the prayers of those, who desire to live according to his will. You can make it!
@Prestin Hurshberry that's actually wrong. You see this in multiple accounts in the old and new testament. Sex does not marriage, a official, public commitment does.
@@viertelvoracht965 oh.🍯🍯🍯
I was raped 3 times in my life. I am having theraphy for that, christian counseling. Thank you for naming this. It's important to talk about all of this. God bless.
Hi, I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, it is aweful. Happened to me as well. I pray you find healing and please don't lose hope in Jesus, He can heal you too. ❤
raped by husband or?
My God heal you.
😂
I thank for ur life and I hope u have learnt also avoid the guys house even in relationship if possible, better meet each other in the open place to avoid rape
Love the way you guys repeat it oftenly, it keeps the viewers (including me) on track, and definitely, not lost.
I love the way that you both were in such unity as a marriage unit. So beautiful to see. The way you flowed in teaching together. You really demonstrate a healthy marriage and I felt the HG’s wisdom and love on your teaching on this
Except that she has no right to bring it the way she does.
He just caters to her and to all the females in his church.
That's what churchianity is about.
Preaching sexual consent shows how henpecked husbands are . It is downright satanic .
Thank y’all for this, I know it may have been uncomfortable but these truths were needed to be said and heard.
@@martinkuliza
You think Vlad is biblical ? Have you ever read what is written at all ?
People like him who preach the modern feminist lie of sexual consent just follow Satan.
Want proof ? Show me one passage in the Bible where God cares about a woman's consent . You can search for ages.
His teachings reeks of hatred ..of men of course because he just sides with controlling ./rebellious females who think that their husband should have sex with them only if and when they want it ??
Who do those females think they are ? Where is their submission gone ?
Moreover , what did God create men with a higher sex drive (usually ) ? To have it be subjected to females who usually have a lower one ????????
Is God such a sadist ? Does not God love his sons ? Is he not wise and balanced ?
How can men with high sex drives be satisifed and not fall in temptations 1 Co 7:5 is they can't have sex at will as God wants it ?
How can you a man -and so many others not assert your God given rights and your own MALE identity anymore ?
God made men sexually different : higher sex drive , made to take , to seize , to conquer , to possess.
Women : lower sex drive (usually) , made to be taken , to be sexually desired(women crave being sexually desired )
Modern men are all wrong. I'm a woman and I can't believe how men can be so weak today and hate their own created nature so much and try to equalise it all with women .
I recently read a biological survey where I learnt something stunning about my own body . The survey shows that a woman's body does not get wet just because of desire ( female desire is not even a thing for sex) but it is a way the body protects itself against potential rape.
You realise how God designed women ? For total submission , no consent , just enduring . And yet what he made was good , right ?
It must explain why so many women have rape fantasies and why a high percentage of adult women experience orgasm during rape.
All these are facts that back up God's vision of sex (we can see it especially in the OT but also in the NT) . It's biology and biology is nothing but the physical expression of God's will for mankind.
Always bear in mind that the lie of sexual consent enables the sex with lower sex drive to rule over the other.
It definitely comes from the pit of hell .
I really love the way Lana looks at Pst Vlad when he speaks, with so much intent and love, to assimilate his every words.
This is beautiful to watch and as someone preparing for his wedding, I hope I can bring so much value to my wife the way Pst. Vlad does
@mosesabunike2055
You mean henpecked Past Vlad ?
Can't you see how he caters to women and let wives rule the bedroom ?
Are you that blind ?
@mosesabunike2055
A man who gives his wife too much value for herself always ends up controlled by her.
I love how straightforward, clear, concise, yet gentle you both were while addressing this topic! GOD Bless and may He continue to anoint you both and your family. 😊❤🙏🏾
Hi Whitney, I agree with you, tough subject to discuss, they’re approach was very tasteful and informative ❣️😊🙏🏼
It’s hilarious that you think you know if Jacob had a threesome with both of his wives at the same time. Like, how can you say you know that, and you not be the crazy one? You have absolutely no proof or no how if that’s true.
They didn’t talk about it enough. They left to many options available.
@@shawnr4814
Nothing inspired by the Lord and Bible-based as usual.
@2012Whit
Gentle ? What can be gentle about someone who calls a MARRIED man abuser for having sex with his own wife as GOD wants it ?
He's not gentle. He's a wolf.
Saying that Jesus does not give husband permission to have sex witht their own wives is pure lie , pure blasphemy .
So , he gives them permission to have sex with prostitutes or their brother's wife ?
It is clearly demonic.
Satan is speaking through him.
A wife is her husband's propriety. It is none of a pastor's business to know what a husband does in bed. Does he put cameras in the bedroom ?
What those modern pastors do is very very serious you know.
I really like how both of you as husband and wife decide to talk about this delicate issue together ... I agree with everything you say as a wife.
@msjesslynn
Except that husbands are not told to discuss with their wives and negotiate anything since the wife has to be submissive in everyhting.
Vlad does not preach the Bible at all anyway. He could not care less about God's patriarchal and male-centric vision.
Churchians just hate God. They worship another god : woman.
@@framboise595What do you mean the husband doesn’t have to discuss anything with the wife?Dont u know that without two people understanding they cannot walk together?They have to discuss and come to an understanding and agreement before it can work.Because the woman has to be submissive doesn’t mean he shouldn’t discuss this topic with her
@@framboise595God is not male centric,everyone is Equal before the creator.The fact that he has placed the male as the head doesn’t mean he is male centric understand this
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When someone submits to someone else , no "agreement" is needed ! He can discuss if he wants to , but he does not have to !
The more men discuss with their wives , the more the wife takes over because women are way more subtle and craftier than men . They master emotions , communication and feelings better than men , which enables them to take control.
Men are superior in everyway except those realms that are put first all the time in our female-dominated societies.
No force , no coercion , no domination anymore ..too manly .
Just emotions , feelings , communications and LOVE as emotional blackmail and men are beaten by a "weaker vessel".
Samson and Delilah.
It is a trap. Men engage in a woman's area and get burnt.
Where on earth does the Bible focus on discussion and communication as if the sexes were on equal foot ?
Nowhere. It is modern humanism , psychology , feminism ..all our carnal devilish "isms".
Thank you Lana. I use to have insecurities too, but as I learn to accept who i am and God created me Unique and beautiful, I began to feel more beautiful and comfortable with myself. Thank you Lord
Are you ignorant? Please Google "professional degrees for ordination to priestly ministry, theological research and purpose is preparation for ministries in the Church". Yes, you don't need to have a degree to be a pastor. Lots of people 'teach' in God's name, but it doesn't necessary mean those are legit teachings. Vlad claims to be a leading pastor of the HungryGen Church. A pastor must be able to teach (Titus 1:9; 1 Tim 3:2). All pastors are preachers, but not all preachers are pastors. Also ask yourself what is 'HungryGen Church"? Does Vlad and Lana appear elder to you? Hope it helps.
@@live1telescope795
Hi ! There are so many ignorant fools among churchians , you're right.
Btw , do you realise that this teacher preaches the Luciferian lie of "sexual consent" in marriage ?
This is powerful confirmation and teaching!!!
If the Spirit says don't do it, don't do it ❤
There are many spirits.
my spirit tells me "fuck whoever you can" if the other party wants it,
If a spirit says dont eat it, it's an evil spirit
@@ALH-xj1ps
Correct
Johnny Walker
Jack Daniels
Name 1 time, IN ALL HISTORY when a spirit said anything ................1 Time
I think one of our duties as godly women is to celebrate our sensuality and beauty with our husbands. This pleasure has no bounds, if the woman knows how to do this. It is really through woman that a man encounters intimacy, an opening of his heart, and the two become one flesh, over and over again, knowing each other deeper, as we learn to know God.
My husband is emotionally unavailable. He is verbally abusive. I have shut down and don’t want to have sex
how are you?@@destinywilliams5763
This is beautiful.
@@destinywilliams5763
Submit to him in everything. Your body is his anyway. Not yours.
@@smalltimeoutdoors6112
This is beautiful but it's the DUTY of the wife. The woman was made for the man. Not the opposite.
She is there for him. He has authority over her and over her body.
This is really edifying.
Even in the marriage bed we are to be holy, pure, clean, righteous and godly.
Top bad we can't be holy nither pure or clean...but yes,we can be righteous and respecting the word of God
But Holy ? After death maybe
@@mihaiarmy666 (Hebrews 2, v. 14), "Pursue peace with all people, and Holiness, without which NO one will see the Lord:"
(1 Peter 1, v. 15), "But just as he who called you is holy, so Be Holy in all you do;"
@@mihaiarmy666
(2 Corinthians 7, v. 1), "Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us Cleanse ourselves from All Filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting Holiness in the fear of God."
@mihaiarmy666 get rekt Ioser
@@jonathanisrael9714So pretty much you're saying you have to be perfect to get to heaven?So that means no one's going
Great video from you both. Concise, Biblical and very positively framed. Well done. I look forward to seeing more from you both.
I do thank you for addressing these issues that the church as a whole is avoiding as the plague. The issue that is not being addressed is the steady and increasing diminishing of sexual desire usually experienced by the wife. No one is talking about how to address this critical issue
You are so spot on!
Pornography is plaguing the church more than anything, and the fact that most church leaders are avoiding addressing it just makes it worse.
@@bobcobb158 This! Couldn't agree more. Porn is a plague of our century. So many young people, especially men are thinking that porn is normal. No, it is not. It distorts sexuality and robs people of real connection and healthy sex
Wife diminish in sexual desire usually because the husband no longer physically takes care of himself, is overweight, unattractive and unhygienic and/or also because they no longer view their husband as a “hero” or as their protector/leader. The Bible says women must submit, to do that a man must embody characteristics that would cause a woman to want to submit to him, like making her feel safe and secure, providing her, protecting her, being a leader to her and to his family/community, being brave and courageous, sticking with his morals and values regardless of others’ opinions. He can work on his character and embodying a man of god, brave, steadfast and kind to become more attractive to his wife. It’s actually not that complicated.
I won't return insult for insult. I simply stated that there is a problem that no one is addressing. I wasn't looking for a character assassination or general put down.@@saludosalsol
1.8k views nd only 489 likes wow..says alot 😒not many pple liked this message bcuz it hit to close to home.. This message was very well needed for many thank you for speaking on it
Probably true but in my case I had to go back and like the video after you made this comment. I don't usually give thumbs up or down. I just watched the video and move on.
Many times we soak in the message so much that by the end of the message we start thinking about it we forget to like .all those views means the message is powerful and we love it.let me press my like though 😂
This video is excellent, biblical and Godly. Thank you.
@@TheScotsman1977
Godly ? So , the Luciferian lie of "marital rape" is godly ?
Have you ever read the Bible at all ?
You realise that this man is just JUSTIFYING wives resisting their husbands in bed instead of being submissive like loving does (Proverbs 5:18)?
This man is teaching PURE EVIL.
thats normal for youtube videos
❤ Powerful couple! Thank you for sharing truth on all subjects
1. Adultery
2. Threesomes
3. Porn
4. Non-consensual sex
so all of the above all all good then?
@@smkthomas2no. It is very obvious that these types of things are prohibited within a marriage or at all.
@@smkthomas2 No... lol
5. Wife bait and switching husband
6. Wife moving the goal post on husband
7. Chore play
8. Feminism
I could go on, but I think that's enough for now.
4. Is kind of an inaccurate. The Bible commands a husband & wife not to deny one another. So even if there’s nothing non-consensual happening someone is still in the wrong if they’re denying their spouse.
Dog in the background too cute 🥰
Really needed this thank you so much guys🙌🙌🙌
It's not difficult to live a sexually pure life. Stop making excuses. Be holy!
AMEN
Why not?🛀🛀🛀🛀
Amen
"Be Holy" by Bryson Gray is a great song!
Easy to say when you're a woman
You guys had this talk so respectfully. Thank you.
The best way to avoid problems in intimacy is to have deep conversations about intimacy before you get married. If the couple are not on the same page, don't get married. It will avoid a world of problems later.
I agree
Further, don't expect them to change their views after marriage if they already said "no" to something.
I agree with u but in the discussion of intimacy it should be outside ur home if possible in the church or open place to avoid temptation
I am talking about people who are not married and who have not been intimate yet. If people sleep together before they get married, they already have their answers.
I AGREE 1000%
Thank you for sharing this❤️ God bless you both🙏❤️ My boyfriend and I are 49 years old and we’re waiting with sex until we get married.
Blessings from Norway 🇳🇴🙏❤️
A new world record!
This is wonderful to hear. So many people--especially our age--fornicate in direct opposition to the clear instructions of the Lord that fornicators will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. May He bless you and your boyfriend!
Sex is marriage, not the ceremonies. jesus's himself defined it that way with the woman at the well.
@@wheatNtares the problem with marrying later in life is that most people are not virgins at that age. Once you've already had sex, it's much harder to stop doing it. I believe ideally God wants people to marry young, so they can enjoy only one sex partner for life.
@@gregorywootton3870 sex is spiritual marriage, yes. That's what most people don't realize, we are spiritually bonded to every person we have sex with. There is no such thing as "casual sex"
God bless the both of you. I'm married and this really helped me. Praise God 👏 🙌 👏
If you are divorced and remarried and you're a woman and your first husband is still alive you are living in open adultery.
“Some have reasoned that when there is common consent between husband and wife, then any sort of deviant behavior in the marriage bed is acceptable. If common consent is enough to set aside the Word of God then Ananias and Sapphira should not have been found guilty of lying to the Holy Spirit.”
~Frank Hammond, The Marriage Bed.
Ananias & Sapphira lied to the Holy Spirit, lying is clearly forbidden in the word, verbatim.
Ananias and Sappharias Died Because They Lied About Money They Said They were going to give and They withheld and Kept some of it thus violating the thou shall not steal and vowing a vowing with your mouth then not paying it They Died because they Lied. Had Nothing to Do With Their Marital Bed. So of These Comment Let Me See Alot of So called Believer Don't Know or Live The Scriptures. They Don't possess The Comfortor The Holy Ghost because You Dont Hear Him Preached or Taught And He Teaches All Truth. No Where In God Word Can ANYONE Tell You What To Do In You Marriage Bed With Your Husband or Wife No Preacher Or Pastor has That Right. I've Seen Alot of People Marriages get Messed Up By Them Placing Men of God in places in Their Lives That Not Their Business.. IF Jesus Said Let No Man Deceive You That Means You Need To Know They Word Yourself Through The Holy Ghost Having A Personal Relationship With Jesus And Living A Life By Demonstration. Going into a building Doesn't Make you Saved or Have A True Relationship With Jesus or Live a Life Of Holiness Towards ALL PEOPLE. And America has the Most Racist Christian That Are On Their Way To HELL Because The Jesus That They Bible Describes and What He Preached IS NOT What Is Displayed In America.. This Is Not A Nation Under God As It Claims And The People Serve Pagans God's and Holidays And Think They'll Enter Into The Kingdom. Rude Awakening. When America Repents For Real And Stops Lying Of This False History It's made itself believe for Centuries it maybe a smidgen of Redemption God Hates Liars It's An Abomination To Him.. Only Truth Will Stand And Those Who Have Loved According To Jesus Word Will Enter In. Play Time Is Over For Fake Christians. Apostle George 💯 O.G Florida 🌴
That's a word!!!! God will put a check in your spirit if He's displeased with what you're doing.
@Anne-yh1vv Ananias and Sapphira
5 Now a man named Ananias, together with his wife Sapphira, also sold a piece of property. 2 With his wife’s full knowledge he kept back part of the money for himself, but brought the rest and put it at the apostles’ feet.
3 Then Peter said, “Ananias, how is it that Satan has so filled your heart that you have lied to the Holy Spirit and have kept for yourself some of the money you received for the land? 4 Didn’t it belong to you before it was sold? And after it was sold, wasn’t the money at your disposal? What made you think of doing such a thing? You have not lied just to human beings but to God.”
5 When Ananias heard this, he fell down and died. And great fear seized all who heard what had happened. 6 Then some young men came forward, wrapped up his body, and carried him out and buried him.
7 About three hours later his wife came in, not knowing what had happened. 8 Peter asked her, “Tell me, is this the price you and Ananias got for the land?”
“Yes,” she said, “that is the price.”
9 Peter said to her, “How could you conspire to test the Spirit of the Lord? Listen! The feet of the men who buried your husband are at the door, and they will carry you out also.”
10 At that moment she fell down at his feet and died. Then the young men came in and, finding her dead, carried her out and buried her beside her husband. 11 Great fear seized the whole church and all who heard about these events. ( Acts 5:1-11 )
Thanks for the content. I am able to apply this info to my marriage today. It was helpful, informative, and easy to digest. God bless you!
Very good points! Thank you. God bless you both.
@maxfaubus3116
Do you realise that he teaches the feminist doctrine of "sexual consent" going harsh against God's will for marriage ?
You two are amazing together. I’m blessed to have visited your church years ago and now I can follow you on RUclips. My husband and I watched this video. Spot on with it being biblical!
@theolivetone2097
Except that it's not biblical at all.
There is no such thing as "rape" in God's eyes sionce the husband has authority over his wife's body and can use this authority at will unless he agrees to stop the sex for a while .
That's what the BIBLE says . That's not what this heretic says.
@@Polynuttery
Love your wife but don't you touch her ..is what those misandric heretics teach and men , the glory of God , bashed , shamed all the time by those fake churches just sit there and take it.
The BIBLE that they never ever quote and that people never ever read clearly says that a man gets married to avoid sexual immorality 1 Co 7:4. .
To avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife ( in Greek language "have" is own in fact ).
It is in Greek "Let every man own his wife and every woman be owned by her husband " man active tense /woman passive tense
Man glory of GOD , woman glory of MAN , made for him , to please him , to obey him , to be his delights . Ok ??
So my question is , HOW is he going to avoid sexual immorality if he is told that he CANNOT have sex with HIS OWN wife ?
You realise how demonic their teachings can be ?
It is the WIFE who is in total rebellion and who needs severe rebuking but those cowards prefer putting the blame on men who are INNOCENT in God's eyes.
A husband going to HIS wife for sex does good in God's eyes. God made the woman FOR the man and not the man for the woman.
Marriage is for SEX according to the Bible.
Your question is totally irrelevant because "love" never rules out sex but is typical of the modern emasculated churchian who is afraid of acting like a real man in the bedroom.
There is nothing more male-centric and Patriarchal than the Bible but their teachings are female-centric. They are not even 1% in line with the Bible.
So , who do YOU follow ? Heretics like Vlad and co (how many preach the same lies but are never exposed because people are illiterate these days ? They go to school , they study but cannot read anymore !!)
or the LORD who tells you to go and have sex whenever you want and need Proverbs 5:18 in order to keep safe from temptations 1 Co 7:5 ?
@@Polynuttery
You understand what the BIBLE says ?
To avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife (...) 10 Co 7:4
Do you realise that GOD (who is not preached by Vlad and co at all ) sees marriage as a sin fix ?
Do you realise that sexual consent is a doctrine of demons ?
@@framboise595This is what the Bible actually says:
1 Corinthians 7:4 KJV
"The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife."
Regarding intimacy, according to the Scripture quoted above, the husband is commanded to yield his body to the sexual needs of his wife, the same as his wife is to yield her body to the sexual needs of her husband.
Moreover, there is no justification for rape found in anywhere in the Scripture; but the opposite is found in 1 Corinthians 7:5 KJV:
"Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency."
Yes, the husband can have intimacy with his wife, but not at will, but only with the "consent" of his wife (According to 1st Corinthians 7:5). If the husband wants to fast or have sex with his wife but she does not physically nor verbally consent to such, then according to 1st Corinthians 7:5, he cannot fast nor have intimacy at that time. Likewise the wife to the husband. For both must consent.
This is what the Bible says.
@@Polynuttery
How would that relate to the command to have a wife in order to avoid sexual immorality ?
And how can a wife supposed to be submissive resist her husband ?
See how demonic this teaching can be ?
To avoid sexual immorality , let every man HAVE HIS WIFE 1 Co 7:4
You really think you and your feminist buddies can fool the Lord ?
You think that God allows wives to do what they want with their bodies ???
There is no such thing as "sexual consent" in God's eyes.
But God is definitely hated , mocked , bashed by all those churchians who claim to love him.
God gave men higher sex drives but they cannot act on it ?
You think it works this way with God ?
Making it all about the woman is an abomination in his eyes since he made the woman FOR the man , for HIS needs first and foremost .
Isaiah 3:12 The same curse is upon us. It is getting clearer day after day.
Sex is like duct tape - the more places you stick it, the less it sticks. God gives deep love to those who seek it, and God blesses what He connects. Erotic love cannot exist without agape love. God blesses a morally pure union without perversions. The perversions are from pornography. God bless your ministry. 🕊️🙏🏻💟🛡️
Sex is a misdemeanor. And the more I miss, the meaner I get.
@@johntiggleman4686 🤨?
@@johntiggleman4686 Maybe you need vitamins? 🤔
@@unknown9392 That's from a bumper sticker I have. I don't really get meaner. Just more withdrawn.
@@unknown9392 Already taking vitamins.
Matthew 7:21-23 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
Great scripture and so thru, can you tell how it fits in this topic. Thanks
@@yuriyagarkov8919it speaks about people who trust in their works for salvation, instead of trusting in Jesus Christ for salvation a 100%
many people missinterpret this verse, it does not have anything to do with the topic im the Video.
@@yuriyagarkov8919 Are you Moscoviti? Lots of people 'teach' in God's name, but it doesn't necessary mean those are legit teachings. Vlad claims to be a leading pastor of the HungryGen Church. A pastor must be able to teach (Titus 1:9; 1 Tim 3:2). All pastors are preachers, but not all preachers are pastors. Also ask yourself what is 'HungryGen Church"? Does Vlad and Lana appear elder to you? Hope it helps.
@@yuriyagarkov8919 Unless proven otherwise, according to my observation, Mr and Mrs Savchuk are typical televangelists, or youtubevangelists, resembling a neo-pentecostal movement to gain mega profits following the footsteps of the doctrine of prosperity theology (K. Copeland) smoothly gliding on "new age" topics.
@@live1telescope795no it doesn't. Why slander others?
Very good point ,good credit .God wants us to be pure and holy.Thanks for shearing.
Thank you for your boldness to speak up about this. Praise God!
Decent presentation from you two!
I was going to object to discussing the bedroom on social media like it's becoming fashionable among christians who have lost the knowledge of the difference between holy and profane recently. But this is good. God bless you.
At 7:28 you say: If one spouse says, "This will make me feel closer to you" but the other says "I don't think it will," the conclusion should be that it's therefore not going to be beneficial to the marriage. I am sure I'd agree. If my wife says I want you to do this, or I want to do this to you (let's say for example, for some reason she wants to blindfold me and tie my hands), and I think to myself, "This isn't really going to help me, in fact I'm a little uncomfortable with the idea," Apostle Paul says in 1 Cor. 7, each spouse has authority over the other's body.
So although I may initially be uncomfortable with what she wants, my focus is NOT primarily on my own needs: My need to feel close to her. My need to feel comfortable. Me, me, me. No, my focus is on doing everything I can to make her feel as intimate and as close to me as she possibly can be. So I will work on becoming comfortable with her suggestion.
If she wants me to wear a men's fragrance that I just don't care for at all, I will make an effort to wear it just for her. My goal is not to smell nice to myself. My goal is to smell nice to her. For that reason, I wouldn't go into a store and buy a fragrance that I like. I will buy a fragrance that she says she likes.
The same goes for many other things in the bedroom. Sticking only with what you have always known, and what you are comfortable with, means that you'll never learn, change or grow. It is a give and take, an exploration forward by two people.
I also didnt know that being intimate while a woman is on her menstrual cycle which believe it or not is common is one of the sins God despises Leviticus 18:19
We are not living under the "law"....There is a shower down the hall!
@@marvinwerth9421
Yeah , typical of churchians. They prefer listening to heretics like Vlad who teach "sexual consent" , a doctrine of demons rather than the LORD who forbid men to touch women on their menstrual cycle.
Modern churchians could not care less about the Lord . They are too illiterate to read what is written.
@@marvinwerth9421No, it's still gross along with so e other types of sex.
Depends on how badly you want her!
@marvinwerth9421 In the old Testament the men went 7 days with no sex while their wife was in purification. Are you telling me with Jesus we have even less self control now? Jesus went 33 years no sex, no masturbation. We gotta show some restraint. Otherwise your going to end up cheating on your wife.
I’m glad and thankful to God that I’m coming across this video when I’m still single.
Very good information on this subject. 🙏
1 Corinthians 7:2-5
So I’ve been married for 16 years. I always want it. She never wants it. She never initiates it. Now it has been over six months. She makes me feel shamed for asking, married and alone. That is not God‘s arrangement for married people to be forced into celibacy .
I am a wife with a very low sex drive, so I can understand your wife. Before I got married my mom told me that sex would not always be fun and might sometimes even feel like another thing on a long list of things to get done in a day. But she said that if I want my husband to stay satisfied and faithful to me, it was up to me to give him sex often and to make it fun for him. Not just lay there like a board. Lol any ways, it took me about 4 years into our marriage before I could climax. And I've learned that how to make it fun for him is to just enjoy it myself. And also the more often we do it the more fun it is for me. Hope this helps. Your wife is not alone. Hopefully you both can learn to satisfy each other.
Prayers
See if something external to sex is making your wife take distance from you in sex, sex is a product of all the love you give your wife, how much you spend time with her, how much she feels safe with you, how much you take care of her, these things are first, then comes sex, ask your wife why she doesn't have sex with you, and act as she says in God's name
Time for DIVORCE!!! Don't keep sex from your partner for no reason!
Maybe she had alot of sex before marrying you? 🤷♂
Very good straight down the line
Great teaching! Clear and concise! Thank you! (Btw, loved the dog at 6:41 made me smile ☺)💯
I Corinthians 11: 13-16
"Judge among yourselves. Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not even nature itself teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a dishonor to him? But if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her; for her hair is given 1to her for a covering. But if anyone seems to be contentious, we have no such custom, nor do the churches of God."
1 Corinthians 11:14-15. The passage discusses whether it is appropriate for a man to have long hair and suggests that nature teaches that it is a disgrace for a man to have long hair. The phrase is also used more generally to suggest that nature teaches wisdom.
If you do dog-style positions in sex, you are literally doing something that is a "dog" move. Therefore, you are treating each other as animals. Nature itself is self-explanatory. Our physiques teach us how to do things appropriately.
Don't invert the scripture, but you should learn its principles. You cannot invert scriptural and scientific principles. Don't make wicked impasse of an inverted doctrine. It is perversion to do exactly the way animals do things without considering their anatomy.
Very Lovely video. I always love to see you both on the screen :)
Wow. This is amazing! Great advice. ❤❤❤These 2 are doing a great service of God.
Love how you tell it like it is to people tryin to justify sinful acts in marriage! They are crazy!
You'd be surprised at the number of Christians that try to justify oral sex. Its sad.
I hope many believers will watch this
I appreciate you both and this ministry! Thank you for this!
Let us all understand this:
Deuteronomy 27:8 (NASB) “You shall write on the stones all the words of this Law very clearly.”
Deuteronomy 4:2 (NASB) “You shall not add to the word which I am commanding you, nor take away from it, so that you may keep the commandments of the LORD your God which I am commanding you.”
Psalm 12:6 “The words of the LORD are pure words; Like silver refined in a furnace on the ground, filtered seven times.”
Psalm 18:7-8 (NASB) “The Law of the LORD is perfect, restoring the soul; The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple. The precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart; The commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.”
Once we’ve understood that God’s Torah is clear, it is final - no additions or subtractions, it is pure, it is perfect, and it is meticulous in detail, let us read Leviticus chapters 18 and 20 that describes in detail the rules on sexual conduct.
Praise to the Most High.
@Prestin Hurshberry uh oh!🤯🤯🤯🌑
Nobody is not eating their lobster! Dem BBQ pork ribs are mighty tasty too! There are 613 laws that were required of the Jews...God made it plain to Peter that a "New Covenent" is what Christ's death initiated....
Any. Because the notion anyone cares or should care is ludicrous.
Amen 🙏 thanks for you both
Good! Great message to married couples!
I think as long as the sexual activities are kept strictly between the husband and the wife, and no one else, nothing is really off limits. It just matters what each person is comfortable with.
Beautiful marriage! God bless you and strengthen you both in Jesus Name.
Yes, beautiful marriage while money around...
@@live1telescope795if the money is spend preacing the gosepl, where problem?
I miss my husband! He passed away from a TBI and a broken neck in 2021. We were faithful, and I have chosen to remain married in my heart ❤️. My ring is staying on. I am not going to date. I was with my husband for 41years., since we were 17. ❤I miss him 😢.
@@Debra-k1f I'm sorry for your loss, may the Lord bless him and keep him. Peace of Christ.
@@Sniper_Cat_71 thank you!
Thank you for this teaching. I know y'all have a lot of young people in your congregation. Please keep stressing to them that they should keep their virginity, even if they are engaged to be married. I made the mistake of giving mine away to my first boyfriend, and then, since I was already "defiled," I started having sex with other men (not a lot, but there shouldn't have been ANY other "lovers" in my life. I was forced to have an abortion, and I chose to give another child up for adoption. The result of that heartbreak is that I have suffered sexual dysfunction in my Christian marriage for the entire 33+ years I've been married. I'll never forget the one day my husband asked me to submit to anal sex because, he said, "You allowed other men to do that to you." He did not *physically* hurt me that day, but he made me very, very sad.
Praying for healing dear sis 🙏. Thankfully, our God is a God of restoration and healing; redemption and so much more. 2 Corinthians 5:17
Hello, thank you for sharing your story and I pray for healing for you 🙏i mean that in the kindest and most respectful way but i sincerely hope that whatever your past is, whatever your sins are, you know that it is never okay to be forced to do anything you don't want to (+ is not biblical in that case), and "submission" is not forcing the other like that, even if you did it before, even if he really wants to, even if you weren't the best wife today or whatever... you, like anyone, deserve grace for whatever mistake and trauma you may have and not emotional blackmail to push you to do something against your will. That is not loving, nor patient, nor kind... I hope you are safe, and i hope that you can expose that that limit shoudn't be crossed to your husband and that he will learn from that and change. Take care of you.
Im so sorry that happened to you. That was not ok of him and i pray for healing and comfort over her Lord Jesus amen🤍🙏
FYou are broken but at your own hand, No one else. You are a narcissist. Everything is about you. If you didn't have a lot of men, then the sexual dysfunction is entirely your choice. No doubt you used it against your husband.
I am don't think anal sex is right, but no man wants to be told that he is subservient to a previous man in your life. You held that anal sex over your husband. Then no doubt let him know how very sad you were, even though it didn't hurt and you done that with other men. You don't get that because everything is about you. No one forced you to have an abortion. No one put a gun to your head. You just didn't want to live with the consequences of your actions.
It is time to surrender to Jesus, NOT your religious Jesus. Not the Jesus in your mind. Surrender to Jesus, who is Gold Almighty. Only God can remove that filthy mind you have that you are one who has been violated. You have been violating your husband sexually for 33 years. You are broken, Time to get unbroken. Only God can do that. You can't because you have chosen a very gross path.
@@Riannalynn123 He didn't force her. He ASKED her. You women are horrible at this stuff. Blame the man. You can't see how much a narcissist this woman is. Everything is about her. She was sexually dysfunctional by choice, punishing her christian husband for 33 years. I doubt he actually wanted anal but was tired of being played by this woman. Tired of the lack of sex while she was talking up her past exploits with men. This woman is clearly a narcissist.
Thank you for teaching about today's modern issues. Thank you for discussing things that are hard to talk about.
Love this! The church should be discussing this. It's Biblical, and should be an open discussion in the church... it's been taboo way to long.
Very good discussion 🎉team
God said that the marriage bed is without sin so if it’s not a specific sin in Scripture then it’s ok for a married couple to do in their bed.
Those 3 questions are very helpful 👍
THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONCERN IN WHAT IS LAWFUL. ALL MY LOVE💙💜❤️
LAWFUL ????? .... IN SEX ????
Wow, i can't even begin to stress how fucked up of a comment that is
This video brought many things into perspective for me. Thank you.
Love you too thank you for teaching the truth word of God's word❤❤❤❤
Amazing lesson!!! God bless you both!!!
God bless you both, Jah bless from Croatia😊
Thank you for this video. I needed this message
Thank you for posting this video.
Good teaching, yall!
The interesting thing about Christian courting is usually we cannot be present with each other too much. It can be too arousing. Even if my future partner is in the same or next town, it’s better for us to do Bible study together in public than be alone.
You have a self control issue then. There's medication for that and also therapy, I suggest you use it
@@_Amarin it's not wrong to have a strong sexual desire, it is a gift from god. it's usually not a self control issue when people have strong sexual desire. it is acting on it outside of marriage that is wrong. i would only take the medication if the temptation is too strong, otherwise you may damage the gift god gave you (and your future spouse)
I’ve been single for 4 years and remained celibate for that time. I’m hopeful I’ll be prepared once the right man comes along, but at 44 I’m wondering if I’m too late.
A LITTLE ADVICE.........
The right man..................... never COMES ALONG
You have to look for him
You have to work on the relationship
If you were thinking it was just GOING TO HAPPEN......................NO.. it doesn't work like that
and now.. You're 44
WELL FUCKING DONE GOD..... WELL DONE INDEED
Even if you find a guy today, it'll take say 2-3 years to establish a relationship, You'll be 47
Now.. the thing is, Once you're over 40
THE CHANCE OF COMPLICATIONS AT BIRTH.. REALLY GETS HIGH
Say 42 at the latest
Now.. perhaps you don't want kids.... that then is fine.
but i reckon most women want kids
even if you have the kid and everything find
you'll belike 47, so by the time you're 55 THAT KID IS RUNNING AROUND LIKE CRAZY SAYING...
Cmon mommy kick the soccer ball with me
and you're like..... Pheewww, I just can't do this , My Knee, My back, My Neck, My Cardio... My... Everything else
WELCOME TO WHAT THE BIBLE DOES FOR PEOPLE
and here's the kicker
You're then going to get told (Since you are in a vulnerable state) that IT'S PART OF GOD'S PLAN
AND YOU'LL THEN GO YOUR ENTIRE LIFE WITHOUT A PARTNER and tell yourself you did it for god.
Because.. What other option do you have
You're not going to say to yourself... I fucked up and i admit it.
NO ONE DOES THAT
BUT DO YOU SEE NOW WHAT RELIGION DOES ?
it gives you stupid rules to follow and
IT KNOWS YOU WILL COMPLY BECAUSE......
YOU GAVE UP YOUR LIFE PARTNER FOR RELIGION
that means... YOU'LL LITERALLY DO ANYTHING FOR RELIGION
and that is what we call INDOCTRINATION or PSYCHOLOGICAL PROGRAMMING
It’s never too late. Seek God and ask him for your spouse and wait for Him to send them to you. When the time comes you will know and be wise in your decision as the devil will try to deceive you
@@tawanzaratliff6860
"Seek God and ask him for your spouse and wait for Him to send them to you. "
LMFAO...
Well. You're just a wealth of knowledge aren't you ?
HAVE YOU EVER ACTUALLY BEEN MARRIED ?
See......
YOU DO NOT Just wait for a spouse,
that's stupid
Let alone WAIT FOR GOD TO SEND THEM...
that's just Universally stupid
also... THE TIME NEVER just comes.
You have to MAKE THE TIME
Do you understand the stupidity in telling someone "" be wise in your decision"
I CHALLENGE YOU TO OULINE A PROCEDURE FOR "BEING WISE IN DECISIONS"
AND .... What the fuck the devil has to do with a spouse......
I guess this makes sense in your head, doesn't it ?
I wld advise u to go fr prayers either to a true Apostle or a true prophet something might be delaying yr marriage.
@@rayted9073
YEAH.. DEFINITELY
it might be.............. PRAYERS
(who would think huh)
or maybe............. THE BIBLE
(Crazy huh.....Who would think it)
Or maybe......... INCORRECT ADVICE
AND STUPID RULES
I love the teachings from both of you..❤God bless you.
Didn't watch the full video, but just reacting to the headline. Some Christians getting into subjects they honestly have no buisness getting into. Focus on what matters, saving souls and preaching the gospel! Unreal!
This was perfect. I always cringe a bit when I hear someone start talking about this topic, because some people like to add rules and regulations to sex in marriage that are simply not scriptural. They take certain scriptures and put modern day interpretations or their own personal biases to them. And God warns against adding to scripture.
As a Christian pre-marital counselor, I applaud your commitment to letting scripture interpret itself and giving Godly scripture based counsel. Thank you!
Excellent presentation, and thanks for using scripture to back up your points!
Anal sex is also an abomination in Yahuah’s sight. It’s perverse and leads to other perversions.
Based on what?Scripture please. Don't use Leviticus because that applies to "homosexuality"
@@prestinhurshberry8417based on what? A man made doctrine? Give proper scripture or be silent
@prestinhurshberry8417 like I thought...should've kept silent. It's Bible, not bibles. Evidently, it's a book you know nothing about and need to start reading...a lot. Meanwhile, I'll enjoy my vaginal, oral, and anal with my consenting, ordained spouse. Hebrews 13:4.
@@samuelbrown7831 If you are not hearing from Holy Spirit on this, you can know that anal sex is extremely painful, results in the recipient needing surgery to restore normal bowel functioning and is completely unnatural. It has been used as a cheap substitute for a vagina by homosexuals and perpetuated by the porn industry which wrongfully depicts this disgusting act as enjoyable. Those are actors given laxatives who are numbed by drugs and they also suffer from various infections by spreading harmful waste bacteria entering other orfices it doesn’t belong. Your anus is designed by God as an exit for waste, period. If you still believe this is a biblical act I ask you seek wise counsel and deliverance from perversion. Gods ways are not harmful to either party.
@@prestinhurshberry8417 ok etymology doesn't explain how oral or anal sex between loving, consenting, married adults is unacceptable, demonic or animal like. Please use Biblical text(s) to support your claim
Thats funny! Three crazy people 😂😂😂
The Bible says that the martial bed is undefiled. As long it is between the husband and wife only then it is good . Too many pastors try to make a list of things not allowed even between married couples . Whatever the two want to do is good period.
about time someone got this out in public..thanks sooo much...praise Yahuah....
Very helpful thank you ❤
Very helpful information 🙏🏾
God bless you guys
Just a simple thank you. God bless you two.
I like you teaching but my husband takes few second and he tells me if he takes more minutes it will make him grow older faster in holy marriage is it true need your advise
Anything you both like. Its called freedom.
I never seen his wife before. She's absolutely gorgeous!
She is so pretty 😍. A model ❤
most eastern European women are
Thank you! Very balanced analysis!
These 3 questions are important! The second part of the video would make a great video itself. Maybe upload it as a short video?
10 out of 10. God bless
I would also add, if this is both self-giving, unitive and open to life? Are we becoming one body? Are we open to life? The procreative aspect is not always present due to women's natural cycle, but if intentionally removing unitive aspect and/or procreative through barriers or contraception, then it's denying one or both aspects of sexual act.
god made sex for both purposes. to have sex in marriage when children are not a possibility is not sinful, just because one of the 2 purposes is gone.
Leave the married couple alone if they doing anything in agreement in closing doors there is no problem !!!😊
Wrong. If the couple is married and follows God's design, not everything is okay
@@HashiraInfernal can you please help me with any scriptures that can explain this case. Thanks
In marriage? Whatever you guys like. That's it. It's not complicated.
Well said Cody. Sex to many is still a dirty word. There is no book that can dictate what consenting adults may or may not do behind closed doors. Which reminds me, where are my fluffy rabbit ears?😊
No, not whatever you guys like....The marriage bed must be undefiled.
It must still be within what God allows.
Anything you want within marriage is ok no 3 somes
everything except anal. That's satanic and unsanitary
@@johnjustice4420 exactly, but what god allows is anything (assuming that anything doesn't contain some external sin) exclusively between the couple, assuming it's consensual.
Pretty simple of an answer for this question. Sex is and was intended for procreation, anything that is not capable of accomplishing that directly is not "allowable". Sodomy is described as an "unnatural" sex act. The definition of a natural sex act is anything that directly intends on and can succeed in procreating, biblically. One of the things you'll find you'll be giving up as you progress in getting closer to God is lust. Even for your wife or husband. Lust is not described as a good thing in a marriage anywhere in the bible. Only described as sinful nature. Hopefully then you can rise above the desires of the flesh and desire your wife or husband in an emotional way not a base self fulfilling type of way. The mouth and anus are not reproductive areas, and are wholly considered sodomy. In the bible and in definition.
Adam and Eve were not aware of their nakedness in part due to not having the desires of the flesh. Sin changed that. The kind of desires we find ourselves having for our mates now are not without sin. There is very little in regards to how we approach and view sex, even with our wives or husbands, that is not sinful in nature. At least for most of us.
On the other hand the bible says you will desire each other. But what desires and where are the desires coming from? The desire was instilled for procreation. So, again, if it is not for procreation purposes it is not the desire you were inherently instilled with. We were not inherently programmed to want bj's. Those come from sinful places. Anal is most def out of the question.
I realize it is difficult to accept. The world is fueled by sex and money. This is just the answer, biblically.
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And if you follow that recipe, you will find you do not "need" to be a performer, hung like mr.ed, and or all those other self depressive, performance anxiety, insecure, all around enjoyment robbing, mentally destructive, relationship destructive, unnecessary complications, simply By following the Words of God. See how it always, and I mean always, works out when you do so. God's word says you procreate with your mate and desire each other out of love. Period. IF you figure that out emotional sex will defeat every problem I listed and many more.
Straight up facts.
I agree it’s supposed to be Godly Love and not Lust. Really bothers me that christians bring worldly demonic lust into their marriage. Love satisfies a heart but lust is empty and causes a damaged heart.
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This is actually basic common sense to me but you're right our world has polluted our minds so badly most folk today would think one was crazy for saying what you said. 😢. I just pray for a husband who loves me and we don't need to be corn stars on our bedroom, just love each other and do God's will.
Very important tips god bless u🙏🙏🙏
If the spouse is asexual or the spouse does not want to have sex, what do you think the other person should do? It's easy to preach or be in the gallery to comment. You will understand the pain only if you go through these circumstances.
Only people who don't want sex should only marry each other. Because it opens up a nasty window for sin and adultery for the person who wants to have sex with their spouse. Masturbating and doing sexual things outside of the marriage bed with your spouse is also a sin.
VERY GOOD EDUCATIVE, HEALTHY ADVICE FOR MARRIED COUPLES . ALSO FULL OF WISDOM AND LIFE KNOWLEDGE OF WHAT IS GOOD -VS. -WRONG IN A MARRIAGE.E.V.
Are you ignorant? Please Google "professional degrees for ordination to priestly ministry, theological research and purpose is preparation for ministries in the Church". Yes, you don't need to have a degree to be a pastor. Lots of people 'teach' in God's name, but it doesn't necessary mean those are legit teachings. Vlad claims to be a leading pastor of the HungryGen Church. A pastor must be able to teach (Titus 1:9; 1 Tim 3:2). All pastors are preachers, but not all preachers are pastors. Also ask yourself what is 'HungryGen Church"? Does Vlad and Lana appear elder to you? Hope it helps.
Throughout history the Church has maintained a very specific moral code for sexuality, which involes preserving the nature of the sex act and its spiritual implication. This is what we can learn studying the Church's view on married people's sex life:
*Anal sex is sodomy so it's not right even between spouses.
*Oral sex is not much mentioned but we can conclude that can be practiced as a form of foreplay if both agree and feel there's nothing wrong with it (if you feel convicted in your heart that it's somehow wrong then don't do it).
*Sex toys are perverted objects.
*Porn should not take place in marriage.
*Masturbation is wrong since it deviates from the nature of the intimate act.
*Kinks such as perverted roleplays shouldn't be practiced by the spouses neither.
*Denying sex to your spouse without a serious reason is sexual defraudment.
*But forcing your spouse is neither right (involves violence).
*Ejaculation should always happen in the natural way (meaning not outside).
*Contraceptives are damaging for the woman's health & can cause abortions, so the spouses should be open to life since the purpose of marriage is creating a family for God's glory.
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Oral sex is also sodomy.
Contraceptive is better than abortion and not all are unhealthy , if not alot of unhealthy human beings will be produce😅
No kidding some women cant carry a pregnancy full term the better option is birth control. Not to mention some men in wheelchairs can't even cum without special sex toys to help them. Just because you are married in a wheelchair it doesn't mean you shouldn't cum. 🤦
You should have taken classes on marriage sex because you have such missed out on the pleasure of pure marriage sex.
Not everybody believes in the church’s teachings. People do not have the vow of chastity to God . The human nature according to God’s law is procreation. A friar priest asks to me can you keep the vow of chastity until expiry next month? I said yes. He did not say anything for after that. Did he imply I could have after?
Intimacy is based on many factors in a marriage: how well you communicate verbally, how many things you share. Also one needs to be willing as a partner to satisfy another partner's needs, even if it's not your first choice and doesn't cause any discomfort. Therefore you can't categorically say that a particular sexual practice is "bad". Marital sexuality involves exploration, trying different things.
Oral sex is a sin.
@@OmegaMusicRecords Biblical passage saying that?
@MrRezillo 1 Corinthians 6:9
@@OmegaMusicRecords What "Bible" are you reading?? That passage says nothing of the kind; you're being dishonest.
@MrRezillo Sodomy is oral sex
The 3 questions are so helpful thank you!
One thing he did not say that he should of said at the 2:23 mark in the video was that marriage is to be between two people! What he should have said that god said in the Bible is marriage is between a man and a woman! So he had the gay people going see we’re ok! God also says in the Bible man shall not lie with man and woman shall not lie with woman.
Marriage is between man and women. You can’t be a husband without a wife. Gay marriage isn’t a real marriage
I’ve followed your videos for quite a while Vlad I know this is Lana’s video. It’s a very grey area for us Christian’s but your explanations are very informative and helpful. It is interesting that you state the married couple shouldn’t deprive each other this actually happened in my marriage. My wife was on the pill many years ago thing became difficult and the pill seemed to be the cause of the issues so it was decided I would get a vasectomy to eliminate her fears of getting pregnant and it would solve the being deprived in the marital bed . So I did as she asked and you’d think problem solved but no it didn’t . After about twenty years it finally came to a head and we got divorced . If I meet someone I commit adultery. I wasn’t a practicing Christian at that time some years later I found Jesus again got baptised and became a born again Christian . I can’t find a partner now for fear of breaking the adultery commandment and remain celibate .