Sex is not carrying your cross, I believe you as a Christian should follow New Testament Jesus teachings because by the word you will be saved. This world doesn't know the truth, and the word is the truth. Christians should be humble and abstain, I think as a Pastor you are preaching a different word not New Testament
Sex is not God, Sex is not gross, it's a gift .. ..Me saying it as a rape survivor by God's grace🙌♥️ Enjoying it with my wonderful husband 🙌♥️ Thank you Daddy from above🙌♥️ King Yah I'm restored.
I Thank FATHER GOD For Your Complete Healing From This Traumatic Experience Grateful You Have A Husband To Love And Care For You. No One Should Go Through This No One It Is Pure Evil. Blessings!!!
Thank you for you indepth teaching! We need this type of talk and scriptural based learning of God's princples more often. This is never discussed to such an extent on the Sunday morning service. Many leading the church either shy away from it or glaze the surface. I commend you on the work you've done and are doing. This information is applicable to all of any religious background. Thank you for clearly presenting and bringing understanding to God's words regarding the marriage bed.
Jesus give me strength. I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord I feel like I’m failing miserably as a single mother. Both sons are special needs I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them on my own. I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus guide me and give me strength. I have faith you will carry me through this difficult time.❤️
May the Lord our Savior give you strength, guidance, and comfort you in your trials. Pray the blood of Jesus over your situation and that He shows you a clear and prosperous way. God bless you!
1 Peter 3:7 Husband, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as HEIRS WITH YOU OF THE GRACIOUS GIFT OF LIFE.... indeed, sex is a gift from God❤
Dear pastor, blessings to you . Great video. Please, can you make a presentation about the ways, methods of contraception that are pleasing before God. This is very important, given that sometimes there are inclinations, such as illness, aging, the age difference of the spouses, or the decision not to want a child. Doctors also have their own opinion when you come to them for a check-up. That is why I ask you for some presentation, advice on acceptable ways to protect against pregnancy, and a healthy sexually intimate life for the rest of the spouse's life.
No pornography in or outside of marriage. Just a NO NO at all times. Could never understand why people would want to watch other people naked or having sex. Illness.
It's not different from any other sin though. Some people struggle with it, some don't. I have experience in struggling with that in the past, while another may never understand it.
You don't understand the appeal of porn? Let me help you -to provide arousal sufficient for masturbation. Now there are many reasons for masturbation but a common one is ejaculation - and even then, many reasons for that - relief, health & wellness, pleasure, help prevent adultery, etc. The fundamental answer to your comment is: humans (esp men) are sexually aroused visually. That's why people use porn.
First off I want to thank you both for your walks with or Lord Jesus Christ. I’m soooooooo faaaar from needing this teaching.(I mean I’m 23)but I think God has called me to be as Paul.(no wife mean….obviously not an apostle) Either way,I know one thing is to be had from this teaching…..Purity of heart and selfishness between Partners.(and in my case potential partners) Also no adultery in physical or mental(thought)forms!!!!!!!!!!!
Cherish yourself, as body of Christ, as daughter please be very careful, as you go in the sin, lust will destroy you and guy etc. Please pray and be strong, bold, awake. Live your youth acording to Bible, learn about yourself about Jesus, pray about future marriage, health wealth, learn something. Be careful, blessings🌻
I agree this is the scriptural ideal. However, few ever deal with the HUGE risk you take if you go the virgin-until-marriage route. By postponing physical intimacy until marriage then the couple has no way to know if they are sexually compatible. If you find out you are not compatible AFTER you have committed your life to your spouse then you, my friend, are in for a lifetime of abject misery. This is what happened to me.
I feel a bit sad and lonely watching this, and today was already kind of a bad day for me. I don’t want to rush into a marriage just for intimacy or do anything else foolish, but I wish I could just shut down the hormones and desires and whatever until it’s no longer a sin for me to act on them. What good are they right now?
Always initiating intimacy is exhausting. As a husband, its also respecting my wife if she has no interest in being intimate. I've never approved of a television in the bedroom, but now tablets and cell phones have filled that space.
I think 1 &2 are flipped. I think the pleasure comes first, and as a result of the pleasuring overflowing, we get children. First God, then your spouse. From your spouse and an outpouring of pleasure and love when two people join, Then children come forth as a fruit from the parents putting each other first.
I have some important questions! My husband and I are trying to the best of our ability to live a Godly marriage and do what’s right. 1: is it okay to take sexual videos with your spouse or send pictures to them? Bc were allowed to adore each others bodies but is something like that considered a sin? 2: I have been dealing with sexual spouses since I was very young. All I remember is getting touched at 6 yrs old but I know other things have happened to me before that age that I just don’t remember. That caused a lot of sexual sin in my life and I’ve never been attacked by a sexual demon until I got married. I get attacked in my sleep and ik this is tmi but I will literally have sex in my dreams and feel myself finish in my sleep and it’s completely out of my control. It feels like something is taking a piece of my soul it literally leaves me so exhausted to the point of extreme fatigue and even nausea. But my desire is only for my husband and I’m not sinning sexually, to my knowledge so I’m not understanding why demons would have authority to do this to me? If anyone has some advise pls share
@@tiongekavina3397 thank you, I was planning on doing this soon! I’m currently pregnant right now and I can’t really fast like I want to but I’m definitely going to start fasting once I give birth. I’m called to be a prophet I get a lot of prophetic dreams so I believe that’s probably one big reason why the devil tries attacking me in my dreams. A very trusted friend I know does deliverance and we’re setting up a time to do it for both me and my husband. Even tho I can’t fast, God can still do a mighty work
I have been visited in my sleep as well. More than once. It wasn't until I was married and I denied the demon did it reveal itself. But call on the name of Jesus in your sleep and deny it. I have not been visited since but I still battle with other hurdles. I will pray for you
regarding your first question- I do not claim to have any knowledge or scripture to back me up and this is just my opinion- but I would refrain from videoing yourselves. What is the purpose? I'm not sure I would consider the act sin. But what does your husband want with the video? To watch at work? I am not judging but I don't see any positive purpose. He can come home and enjoy your company, it is good to practice self restraint. If I were a friend I would recommend a fast of sorts. Just an idea.
Please make video presentation about natural birth control, which God aproves. We all have free will, but like in Bible says that is sin to man throw out semen outside the womb(woman). So what if that happens sudenly, during intercourse, is that husband in sin getting punished etc. There is so many questions about that theme,especially to new believeres. Thank you
It was a sin in the Bible because the man didn’t want to continue his brother’s family line. He only wanted to have sex with his sister in law. This was disgusting in the sight of God. But it isn’t a sin if it happens in a normal context as in a couple doesn’t want babies and they use this as a method of birth control then it’s of course allowed.
It's interesting to know about this information, but if a woman has an irregular period she will likely be taken in randomly with every little mistakes so I go with @oceanneel's idea. But thanks for sharing the topic
What are your thoughts when dating a Christian man with the intent to marry. But the man has destroyed his temple for 46 years and can’t consummate the marriage. He physically can’t fulfill his sexual marital duty 1 Corinthians 7:3-5? To be blunt the man has complete erectile dysfunction prior to meeting. Almost 2 years of trying all natural ways to heal along with prayer and fasting.
This is good thsnk you but my husband never seems to want to be intamate with me I don't understand why I feel very rejected by him pls pray for us thank you
You make the very important point that spouses are to provide for the sexual needs of their partner. Always. BUT you then say the one not getting their needs met cannot 'demand' their marital 'rights'. OK, so how do you suggest this dilemma be resolved? That is, one spouse absolutely refuses intimacy … and their partner is starving.
What would you say about if the spouse simply just never wants to have sex and doesn’t show it or even pursues it but the other does and they end up having sec with their spouse but it’s just one person having sex with the other but the spouse receiving the sex is on board with it?
@@houseofvdv The consequences of what ? Not being idiotic enough to put yourself in a position where you can loose EVERYTHING including your kids ! Or the consequences of false accusations ! Which ones are you referring to
Kids are not kids anymore these days small children know everything they are not innocent, including the adolescents and the Christian parents are spoiling and encouraging these kind of things Shockingly true
No one is obliged to have sex with you, including your wife. It's extremely primitive and predatory to expect sex out of a person, especially a woman. And to even try and use your incompetence to attract your wife, to betray and cheat... says a lot about what sex means to you
Please be careful who you seek counsel from. Not all "religious " authorities are qualified to give this kind of advice. Some will give bad and harmful advise.🙏
What about when the husband has struggled with lust and even emotionally and mentally betrayed you but promises that won’t happen again except he still thinks it’s normal to look at other women and fantasize of other women when having sex with the wife?
Sex is not carrying your cross, I believe you as a Christian should follow New Testament Jesus teachings because by the word you will be saved. This world doesn't know the truth, and the word is the truth. Christians should be humble and abstain, I think as a Pastor you are preaching a different word not New Testament
No, women please don't ever let a man sleep with you when you don't want it. Never have sex FOR the other person. A person who loves and respects you, will never accept sleeping with you when you don't want it. Respect above all. Enough damaging notions that would only impact women negativley! If someone is rejecting intimacy with you, it is your fault. There is no such thing as "withholding" sex.
The amount of stories and lies in this conversation blows my mind. Attraction cuts through everything. If a woman is truly desiring a man, her past abuses will not prevent her from having sex. If she gives that excuse, she's just not attracted
I am Christian. After years of thinking about rhis issue, I would say leave rhe bible at the door and let rhe man and woman enjoy each other. God does not micromanage sex in the bedroom.
if God made sex for pleasure then why is it wrong to have sex if you are not married and david had sex with babsheba and they were not Married Jacob had sex with different women and abraham had sex with Hagar while he was married to sarah !
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Sex is not carrying your cross, I believe you as a Christian should follow New Testament Jesus teachings because by the word you will be saved. This world doesn't know the truth, and the word is the truth. Christians should be humble and abstain, I think as a Pastor you are preaching a different word not New Testament
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Sex is not God, Sex is not gross, it's a gift .. ..Me saying it as a rape survivor by God's grace🙌♥️ Enjoying it with my wonderful husband 🙌♥️ Thank you Daddy from above🙌♥️ King Yah I'm restored.
Hallelu-Yah 🤍🙏🏽
I Thank FATHER GOD For Your Complete Healing From This Traumatic Experience Grateful You Have A Husband To Love And Care For You. No One Should Go Through This No One It Is Pure Evil.
Blessings!!!
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Thank you for you indepth teaching! We need this type of talk and scriptural based learning of God's princples more often. This is never discussed to such an extent on the Sunday morning service. Many leading the church either shy away from it or glaze the surface. I commend you on the work you've done and are doing. This information is applicable to all of any religious background. Thank you for clearly presenting and bringing understanding to God's words regarding the marriage bed.
Jesus give me strength. I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord I feel like I’m failing miserably as a single mother. Both sons are special needs I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them on my own. I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus guide me and give me strength. I have faith you will carry me through this difficult time.❤️
May the Lord our Savior give you strength, guidance, and comfort you in your trials. Pray the blood of Jesus over your situation and that He shows you a clear and prosperous way. God bless you!
Emotional purity is so important, loved that you guys mentioned that, thanks, blessings!
Thank you. Very clear Biblical teaching.
Pure, Passionate, Pleasure & Protected
1 Peter 3:7
Husband, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as HEIRS WITH YOU OF THE GRACIOUS GIFT OF LIFE....
indeed, sex is a gift from God❤
Thanks for this, you guys! Important teaching! Been praying God teach us about such things recently! Amen! 👍👍👍☝️
Thank you
Both of you are speaking truth.
Sex is the super glue in marriage
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Absolutely....🛀🛀🛀
This is TRUTH between a covenant married couple.
Dear pastor, blessings to you . Great video. Please, can you make a presentation about the ways, methods of contraception that are pleasing before God. This is very important, given that sometimes there are inclinations, such as illness, aging, the age difference of the spouses, or the decision not to want a child. Doctors also have their own opinion when you come to them for a check-up. That is why I ask you for some presentation, advice on acceptable ways to protect against pregnancy, and a healthy sexually intimate life for the rest of the spouse's life.
No pornography in or outside of marriage. Just a NO NO at all times. Could never understand why people would want to watch other people naked or having sex. Illness.
Yes, illness. But illness of cuple. It happend when man is rejected from bedroom.
It's not different from any other sin though. Some people struggle with it, some don't. I have experience in struggling with that in the past, while another may never understand it.
You don't understand the appeal of porn? Let me help you -to provide arousal sufficient for masturbation. Now there are many reasons for masturbation but a common one is ejaculation - and even then, many reasons for that - relief, health & wellness, pleasure, help prevent adultery, etc. The fundamental answer to your comment is: humans (esp men) are sexually aroused visually. That's why people use porn.
What a great discussion from a biblical perspective! Thank you two for sharing this widsom. May God continue to bless your union and family!!
First off I want to thank you both for your walks with or Lord Jesus Christ.
I’m soooooooo faaaar from needing this teaching.(I mean I’m 23)but I think God has called me to be as Paul.(no wife mean….obviously not an apostle)
Either way,I know one thing is to be had from this teaching…..Purity of heart and selfishness between Partners.(and in my case potential partners)
Also no adultery in physical or mental(thought)forms!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes! That’s amazing!
Wow! This is an eye opener on both parts
This is empowerment to give that!!! Love it!!! Wow. I am empowered to meet my husbands sexual needs, wowwwww
Christ really wants he's children to be virgin until marriage but the devil wants to push me into sexual life before marriage
Cherish yourself, as body of Christ, as daughter please be very careful, as you go in the sin, lust will destroy you and guy etc. Please pray and be strong, bold, awake. Live your youth acording to Bible, learn about yourself about Jesus, pray about future marriage, health wealth, learn something. Be careful, blessings🌻
I agree this is the scriptural ideal. However, few ever deal with the HUGE risk you take if you go the virgin-until-marriage route. By postponing physical intimacy until marriage then the couple has no way to know if they are sexually compatible. If you find out you are not compatible AFTER you have committed your life to your spouse then you, my friend, are in for a lifetime of abject misery. This is what happened to me.
This video taught me so much thank you ❤❤❤
I feel a bit sad and lonely watching this, and today was already kind of a bad day for me. I don’t want to rush into a marriage just for intimacy or do anything else foolish, but I wish I could just shut down the hormones and desires and whatever until it’s no longer a sin for me to act on them. What good are they right now?
I can relate 😢
My wife passed away year and a half ago and I know what you mean
Amen🙏🏽 I love it
Sex is the super glue in marriage ❤
I do need to be careful who l super glue with
Always initiating intimacy is exhausting. As a husband, its also respecting my wife if she has no interest in being intimate. I've never approved of a television in the bedroom, but now tablets and cell phones have filled that space.
🙏🏾💛☀️💛🙏🏾God bless us all
I think 1 &2 are flipped. I think the pleasure comes first, and as a result of the pleasuring overflowing, we get children. First God, then your spouse. From your spouse and an outpouring of pleasure and love when two people join, Then children come forth as a fruit from the parents putting each other first.
Sex = sacred energy exchange
"You dont experiment with superglue"
Ehm...kiddo me used to stick her fingers together with superglue 😂 it was fun.
God is always good
Amen 🙌
Purity is FIRST
I have some important questions! My husband and I are trying to the best of our ability to live a Godly marriage and do what’s right.
1: is it okay to take sexual videos with your spouse or send pictures to them? Bc were allowed to adore each others bodies but is something like that considered a sin?
2: I have been dealing with sexual spouses since I was very young. All I remember is getting touched at 6 yrs old but I know other things have happened to me before that age that I just don’t remember. That caused a lot of sexual sin in my life and I’ve never been attacked by a sexual demon until I got married. I get attacked in my sleep and ik this is tmi but I will literally have sex in my dreams and feel myself finish in my sleep and it’s completely out of my control. It feels like something is taking a piece of my soul it literally leaves me so exhausted to the point of extreme fatigue and even nausea. But my desire is only for my husband and I’m not sinning sexually, to my knowledge so I’m not understanding why demons would have authority to do this to me?
If anyone has some advise pls share
Mark 16:17, Luke 10:19, God has given you authority to cast out demons. Go on a three days of prayer and fasting and command it out.
@@tiongekavina3397 thank you, I was planning on doing this soon! I’m currently pregnant right now and I can’t really fast like I want to but I’m definitely going to start fasting once I give birth. I’m called to be a prophet I get a lot of prophetic dreams so I believe that’s probably one big reason why the devil tries attacking me in my dreams. A very trusted friend I know does deliverance and we’re setting up a time to do it for both me and my husband. Even tho I can’t fast, God can still do a mighty work
I have been visited in my sleep as well. More than once. It wasn't until I was married and I denied the demon did it reveal itself. But call on the name of Jesus in your sleep and deny it. I have not been visited since but I still battle with other hurdles. I will pray for you
regarding your first question- I do not claim to have any knowledge or scripture to back me up and this is just my opinion- but I would refrain from videoing yourselves. What is the purpose? I'm not sure I would consider the act sin. But what does your husband want with the video? To watch at work? I am not judging but I don't see any positive purpose. He can come home and enjoy your company, it is good to practice self restraint. If I were a friend I would recommend a fast of sorts. Just an idea.
Protection
Please make video presentation about natural birth control, which God aproves. We all have free will, but like in Bible says that is sin to man throw out semen outside the womb(woman). So what if that happens sudenly, during intercourse, is that husband in sin getting punished etc. There is so many questions about that theme,especially to new believeres. Thank you
It was a sin in the Bible because the man didn’t want to continue his brother’s family line. He only wanted to have sex with his sister in law. This was disgusting in the sight of God. But it isn’t a sin if it happens in a normal context as in a couple doesn’t want babies and they use this as a method of birth control then it’s of course allowed.
It's interesting to know about this information, but if a woman has an irregular period she will likely be taken in randomly with every little mistakes so I go with @oceanneel's idea. But thanks for sharing the topic
Sex is not dirty sex is gift from God
Christ really wants me to flee from forncation
Yes God gift to man
Agree. Lust is not sex.
What are your thoughts when dating a Christian man with the intent to marry. But the man has destroyed his temple for 46 years and can’t consummate the marriage. He physically can’t fulfill his sexual marital duty 1 Corinthians 7:3-5? To be blunt the man has complete erectile dysfunction prior to meeting. Almost 2 years of trying all natural ways to heal along with prayer and fasting.
Why on earth would someone want to bring in toys etc? Love one another should be enough.
Ohio joining in.
What do people do then when chronic illness is involved?
I like being single
This is good thsnk you but my husband never seems to want to be intamate with me I don't understand why I feel very rejected by him pls pray for us thank you
Amen
Yes
I wish God would remove my burning passion, so that I would not desire sex and fall into sexual temptation 😔
Protection is the purpose of sex in the marriage
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You make the very important point that spouses are to provide for the sexual needs of their partner. Always. BUT you then say the one not getting their needs met cannot 'demand' their marital 'rights'. OK, so how do you suggest this dilemma be resolved? That is, one spouse absolutely refuses intimacy … and their partner is starving.
❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Sex is a gift from god!
What would you say about if the spouse simply just never wants to have sex and doesn’t show it or even pursues it but the other does and they end up having sec with their spouse but it’s just one person having sex with the other but the spouse receiving the sex is on board with it?
sounds great in theory but I live in reality (what IS not what should be) so there goes your whole argument for biblical sexuality
Not really, you will just have to live with the consequences of that reality.
@@houseofvdv The consequences of what ? Not being idiotic enough to put yourself in a position where you can loose EVERYTHING including your kids ! Or the consequences of false accusations ! Which ones are you referring to
Denial of sex happens when one of the partners sleep around
but it doesnt have to be for that, some people are sick, or have trouble emotionally etc, or are struggling with some things.
ED is a problem too
Kids are not kids anymore these days small children know everything they are not innocent, including the adolescents and the Christian parents are spoiling and encouraging these kind of things Shockingly true
38:47 *DOG*
If a wife with holds sex she is opening the door for an affair for her husband do you agree .
No one is obliged to have sex with you, including your wife. It's extremely primitive and predatory to expect sex out of a person, especially a woman. And to even try and use your incompetence to attract your wife, to betray and cheat... says a lot about what sex means to you
IM NOT ALLOWED TO MARRY , SO HAVE PEACE
Please be careful who you seek counsel from. Not all "religious " authorities are qualified to give this kind of advice. Some will give bad and harmful advise.🙏
What about when the husband has struggled with lust and even emotionally and mentally betrayed you but promises that won’t happen again except he still thinks it’s normal to look at other women and fantasize of other women when having sex with the wife?
My husband looks at other women. I'm not sure what's going on in his head though. Never thought about lusting after them. It hurts though..😢
Sex is not carrying your cross, I believe you as a Christian should follow New Testament Jesus teachings because by the word you will be saved. This world doesn't know the truth, and the word is the truth. Christians should be humble and abstain, I think as a Pastor you are preaching a different word not New Testament
1 Corinthians 7
I feel so bad for my husband I’m never in a mood! It’s been years!
And remember, sex is god's gift for marriage, never to be ashamed of...period!🟣🟫🟣🟫🟫🟫
Just don`t start at the stove...it might be still hot...
No, women please don't ever let a man sleep with you when you don't want it. Never have sex FOR the other person. A person who loves and respects you, will never accept sleeping with you when you don't want it.
Respect above all.
Enough damaging notions that would only impact women negativley!
If someone is rejecting intimacy with you, it is your fault. There is no such thing as "withholding" sex.
The amount of stories and lies in this conversation blows my mind.
Attraction cuts through everything. If a woman is truly desiring a man, her past abuses will not prevent her from having sex. If she gives that excuse, she's just not attracted
Awawa
Are you married.
I am Christian. After years of thinking about rhis issue, I would say leave rhe bible at the door and let rhe man and woman enjoy each other. God does not micromanage sex in the bedroom.
God does not kone what he is doing.
What 🫠
if God made sex for pleasure then why is it wrong to have sex if you are not married and david had sex with babsheba and they were not Married Jacob had sex with different women and abraham had sex with Hagar while he was married to sarah !
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