You submit to God and she submits to you. If she refuses to submit to you, it's because she's submitting to someone else. People can only be emotionally connected to one person at a time and if it's not you, it's him!👉🏾
You do realize that means majority of men are just roaming around the planet either living for God totally or waiting for a rare virgin. This is going to get harder and harder to as the times of revelation are revealed
I agree to disagree with your statement but ultimately there is some truth to your statement. I think that a woman can be emotionally connected to more than just one person. I’ve seen woman connected to two different guys before and struggle with who to go with. That does happen more than people think it does.
1.) don't trust them 2.) don't follow them 3.) quit smiling with them 4.) quit playing with them 5.) be on guard in their presence 6.) never submit to women 7.) never play with women 8.) don't open a heart to them 9.) don't love them unconditionally 10) worship God, not women
Every black man in this country could be the next George Floyd and yet THIS is how y'all are wasting your lives away. You could be educating people and ending white supremacy and racist police violence. You could be forming labor unions and advocating for worker's rights and overthrowing oligarchy. You could be ending wars and bringing home soldiers and helping veterans to repair their lives. You could be healing the planet from corporate destruction. You could be marching to end the genocide in Palestine. You could be saving animals from dog fighting rings and abuse and neglect. You could be planting trees. You could be running for political office and making the system better for everyone. You could be holding OTHER MEN accountable instead of encouraging them to abuse women and abandon children and brutalize animals. You could be working to stop colonialism and the oppression of the global south. You could be healing generational trauma from centuries of slavery and capitalism and exploitation. You could be healing your mental health and developing a relationship with a God of your understanding that fulfils you from the inside out. You could be building close friendships and community ties with emotionally healthy men and women and experiencing the happiness that comes from that. You could just up and decide one day to actually care about something or someone besides yourselves. *If men put all the energy they waste policing us into policing themselves and being good humans, maybe we wouldn't be arming and funding an actual holocaust right now,* on the brink of two nuclear wars total and societal collapse while the most murderous empire in human history-- built and run by men-- is about to burn down entire planet. But instead you're here doing this. Plotting the demise of the very people that gave you the pathetic, wasted life you're living is your priority. And THAT, fellas, is why women want absolutely nothing to do with you anymore. *PS. Many of the women that you hate so much got teargassed, arrested, beaten, and vilified marching and demonstrating and resisting against the very racist police violence that threatens black men's lives. BUT HERE YOU ARE INSTEAD.* Maybe we should just let you try your luck with the cops.
NEVER, give a woman money. NEVER. pay her bills. NEVER, give her family money or gifts. thats her job not yours. NEVER, sign a govt. contract with her. it gives her leverage and increases her value and lowers yours while she did nothing to earn it. NEVER, feel sorry for her. women sometimes like to play victim for their bad decisions and not planning ahead. no one is going to feel sorry for us and bail us out so why do that for her?
Exactly right. I was going to say all those things. No marriage, no kids, no cohabitation. You only put your name on your cars and your house. Not a woman that doesn't add a real, tangible value to your life.
Every black man in this country could be the next George Floyd and yet THIS is how y'all are wasting your lives away. You could be educating people and ending white supremacy and racist police violence. You could be forming labor unions and advocating for worker's rights and overthrowing oligarchy. You could be ending wars and bringing home soldiers and helping veterans to repair their lives. You could be healing the planet from corporate destruction. You could be marching to end the genocide in Palestine. You could be saving animals from dog fighting rings and abuse and neglect. You could be planting trees. You could be running for political office and making the system better for everyone. You could be holding OTHER MEN accountable instead of encouraging them to abuse women and abandon children and brutalize animals. You could be working to stop colonialism and the oppression of the global south. You could be healing generational trauma from centuries of slavery and capitalism and exploitation. You could be healing your mental health and developing a relationship with a God of your understanding that fulfils you from the inside out. You could be building close friendships and community ties with emotionally healthy men and women and experiencing the happiness that comes from that. You could just up and decide one day to actually care about something or someone besides yourselves. *If men put all the energy they waste policing us into policing themselves and being good humans, maybe we wouldn't be arming and funding an actual holocaust right now,* on the brink of two nuclear wars total and societal collapse while the most murderous empire in human history-- built and run by men-- is about to burn down entire planet. But instead you're here doing this. Plotting the demise of the very people that gave you the pathetic, wasted life you're living is your priority. And THAT, fellas, is why women want absolutely nothing to do with you anymore. *PS. Many of the women that you hate so much got teargassed, arrested, beaten, and vilified marching and demonstrating and resisting against the very racist police violence that threatens black men's lives. BUT HERE YOU ARE INSTEAD.* Maybe we should just let you try your luck with the cops.
That's definitely the case, I trusted my wife, it was cool when we went out with other couples, once she started going out with her single friends it went south real fast
That brother was spot on with those words of wisdom. If you're weak, she won't respect you my brother. Let Jesus Christ lead you and you will always stand up like a man, period!!!!!
I fully agree with you and men should be jailed if found to be the father and pay reparations! Furthermore, if you were not there having unprotected sex, their names would not be called except if the woman is no in her right mind.
You men forget that you came through the portal of a woman? You men created a neiche of harassment and violence only to turn around and capitalizes on calling it protection. Protection from who exactly? Violent gnomes like yourselves?
Never expect a woman to be ‘on time’. Never cry in front of her, she’ll see that as the man being ‘weak’ and use that as a way to take the man for granted. Never say you ‘love’ her unless you mean it and keep your word. Never call her ‘outside’ her name. Never hit her out of anger. If there’s ‘any suspicion’ that she doesn’t love you never eat anything she cooks for you. She should always dress to impress you at home not outside for anybody else in the world. If you’re just friends dating and she starts arguments with strangers, strange men, quit her. If you’re married to her then deal and workout all these things together🤷🏼.
I don’t know why this popped up in my algorithm but prayers and healing to the man behind this channel. There are good women and men out here. This channel sounds dedicated to women who look to take advantage of men! Moment of silence for the men who have been hurt. On the flip side there are also men who do women dirty too. So this video is actually interesting to watch to learn another perspective
I hope I don't sound preachy because I'm not religious. However I've been living life from a Biblical perspective for the last 30 of my 52 years on Earth. The Most High (TMH) had a very interesting relationship with Israel his people, and I equate it to Manhood. Let me explain. TMH set boundaries and laid out expectations for his people. This is what you CAN do, and this is what you CANNOT do, and despite the fact that he could utterly destroy them, his biggest threat was that if they crossed those boundaries he'd leave them to their own devices and unprotected from their enemies. We as men can do all that, and our greatest superpower is that we can walk away from an uncooperative women. So my rules that have served me well are. 1. Set boundaries and expectations. 2. Be ready to exact whatever penalties you've enumerated for transgressions of your boundaries. (In other words, if you say that doing X will get you Y make sure you stand on that.) 3. Never allow a Woman to disrespect you in any way. (This can also be part of your boundaries just make sure she knows you don't play that.) 4. Her job is to be a help and or support as well as a companion to me, not the other way around. If she has Girl Boss dreams she is perfectly free to pursue them on her own, and I wish her the best of luck with all that, but your not what I'm looking for. AND 5. I run my household and make the decisions. I may seek her opinion or counsel on certain matters or I may not. In the end I take responsibility for the choices even if I go with her suggestions or counsel, and I never REGRET any of my choices but I do learn from making bad ones. Anyway I could write a book on it but I'll stop there. Just my 2 cents.
I agree with this man about what he's saying, meeting women online such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other websites. Those women have kids, want money, and sleep with other men with stds, it's best to stay with the one you have or make sure she needs to be replaced before going into debt with another
Its disgusting for real big dawg. Some dudes just happy to be a presence of a woman and ignore everything but will fight you for pointing it out. It makes my blood boil for real.
Some of these men have been made weak by their mothers. One adult guy that I know was cooking Thanksgiving dinner instead of the mother, like she had him trained.
That's right they will have you trained if you don't put your foot down these females want to be the dominant in the relationship they don't like it when they can't get over
Cooking is a skill set . It has nothing to do with weakness. Mainstream media, school, college when they started teaching you their version of how to be a man, all the problem going to start from there. Matrix want man to be like feminine and women to musclin. If you are awake man , You will understand very quickly. Specially in North America they are killing our family structure. Healthy family structure play viral rule in a man or woman life. Most high created man as a leader and provider and womans created to be carrier of your child and taken care of family. You can live in 2080 if you try to change the order created by most high. You will going to face problem. God bless you all.
Peace =Respect & Vice Versa, they go hand and hand, imo. This list is wisdom, Brotha, a Blessing to anyone who takes heed. My grandfather told me “A woman can help or hinder you, get you one who’ll help you.”
I agree wholeheartedly with this one especially that phone...thats just like going thru my purse... Now, that lawnmower rubbed me the wrongway...if I bought that zeroturn you had better ask me if whoever wanna borrow it can. And my answer to you will be you better make damn sure they know they’re buying us a BRAND NEW one if they break it.
You both must submit to GOD , you must be dedicated to each other , he ultimately has the last word but , try not to control her because doesn't control you it must be voluntary that's what make it work .
I love videos like this. Please don't stop posting. I was raised by a single mother. I'm 61 videos like this, which takes the place of an absent father.
This video made me feel better with breaking it off with an ex that I’ve been mourning for years. Today is her death day and I have mixed feelings about it but this video proves to me I’m glad I didn’t mess with her for longer than wanted. As she wasn’t right for me and although it hurts all the time I spent with her to come up with less, I’m now more certain that it’s probably for the better. I’m still picking up the pieces but I now am learning I need to move on and that it’s not selfish. Thank you.
Btw I am now picking up the bible to seek guidance on how to live my life and better myself despite many setbacks. I am also working with my passions to rebuild a damaged psyche and honestly I just gotta learn how to have fun again to deal with sickness and pain.
MAN UP!!!! If it makes you feel uncomfortable don't go for it. Keep your boundaries. Me!!! I don't take no sht off of nobody, a woman don't have a chance. Love em like crazy. But don't take no sht off women. And guess who taught me that, A woman. Who happened to be my mother
If she's into her home girls and you are into your home boys, you both need to be alone. In the words of Neely Fuller, black people should run when they see another black person.
I really enjoyed this video,I am a 48 year old Man that has learned a lot about what you talked about.I lost sight of myself but I'm in a better place.Great job
I'm from South Africa I've just watched and listened this video ma big brother you've awakened me man God is great and i did subscribed thank you very much big brother.
Excellent Guidelines 💯 I Live by them as a Confident Black Man Who knows My Worth @ The same time Upgrading My Self, My Territory & My Standards Thank you Wise Words to Live by On this Podcast 🤳🏿☝🏿💯
Hey Darwynn thank you for speaking the truth I'm guilty I've let women use me fir years now I don't let them use me for anything anymore I thank you again my brother
Ha ha ha. It’s amazing how illogical women are. They look in the mirror, know they are fat but cannot accept that assessment from you. They are emotional creatures. Not logical human beings when in relationships. When they ask, “Do I look fat?” they are really asking, Do you love me?” Responding with the white lie, “Of course not. You look great.” translates to, “I love you baby.” It’s like learning a foreign language. For a guy like me who has always had a “scientific, engineering” logical mind from a small boy on it can sometimes drive me to near distraction to have to play these childish games. 🤣
I had a buddy tell me he knows someone who found out years later in his disease wife's diary that all three children were not by him. He now lives a very lonely sad depressed life. He doesn't talk to HER kids because it is just too much to bear. All the kids are grown now and completely hate their disease mother.
As a woman 👠👠 I have to agree and I behave this way now ,u shouldn't let your spouse struggle if they need help and u both gotta pick each other up if u fall 👍🏽 u have to be your own person and have your own hobbies and friends this will save your relationship can't be around each other 24/7 not healthy 😉
Ask to go through her phone and see what she says. Lol I learned a long time ago if someone is suspicious of me cheating for absolutely no reason then I already know who's cheating. Been there done that. I'm addicted to being single and my sanity. I have grown to feel no use for dating whatsoever. I wish I didn't feel that way but I've grown to enjoy my own space my own money. Come and go without needing to ask anyone. Almost married twice and dodged two big bullets there. After that second one I said to hell with it. Trying to date in this day and age is like deciding which squatter is more tolerable. Some people have that need for companionship. I'm not one of those people. It's sad but relationships bring more stress and irritability than they're worth anymore.
Right right. But you can forgive but you have to move on.Not forgive and Stay with her. Can't hold a grudge all your life according God's way. Your thoughts
I learned and much was confirmed with shared content. You leave me a choice to believe in young brothers despite the opposite. PS... Rondell McPherson, Tallahassee
Speaking real shit not enough people out here speakin this shit when it comes to building a relationship play strong relationship a healthy little a healthy relationship
The last point is 50/50. If the man isn’t giving his woman the sexual needs, she going to get it somewhere else. To an extent, she can be forgiven because it was the man’s fault for not giving her action. If the man is giving her action everyday and she still cheats, open the door, say your goodbye and start again. Have self respect and never take her back. If they can do it once, they will do it again
@@darwynnmcpherson I know brotha’s in most of these positions especially going out clubbing her WHOLE birthday month 🤣 not coming home till the next day at 1/2 pm her excuse “Iwas drunk spent the night at my girlfriends house” I know she done cheated on my dawg he’s too chill and square for her he’s not fun in her eyes 🤦🏾♂️
Greetings : I'm from the Netherlands. At 7.00 minutes, you stated categorically , "Don't let her check your phone." Here's the thing: I'm working for a charity, so my job is more important than our relationship and, to a certain extent, my pride. Now, this may seem odd, but please take a close look at my icon. You should notice that it's a complex geometric pattern. Bare with me : I can do complex MATH, but my brain can't do smartphones, and that will remain so for the rest of my life. I need to lean on my partner to check my smartphone once a week. Again: I'm working for a charity, and my job is far more important than my pride. So, would you still make that categorical statement "Don't let her check your phone" towards my situation?? I'm waiting for your response.
It seems everybody an expert these days and my people takes lead but are the most dysfunctional people in America. Don't know who they are, care not to find out, but can give advise on relationship and marriage. Incredible!
100% agreed. My problem I have kids with my salvadoran wife Yes I did paternity test which i did as soon I noticed red flags.. a man will feel when something isn't right. So anyways. I don't know i should get divorced. I'm afraid divorce will be expensive in California. California is based on your income. She'll screw me up badly or deal with her toxic/ narcissist personally.
I agree with 99.99% of this. I don't agree with the lying about her appearance. Which no solutions to that statement were offered. I think there's an underlying message when women ask do you think I'm fat or I'm gaining weight. They already know the answer to this question. Especially when clothes no longer fit properly. It's really do you still find me attractive. Do you still love me the same even though I've gained weight. I feel you have to answer these questions delicately, don't lie, but don't be brutally honest either. Women have, emotions, hormones, kids, and you probably sat by while she gained that extra weight. Let her know you love her and if there's anything she doesn't like about herself your willing to help her. You have a new, subscriber my friend. That stop spending your last dime hit home.
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You submit to God and she submits to you. If she refuses to submit to you, it's because she's submitting to someone else. People can only be emotionally connected to one person at a time and if it's not you, it's him!👉🏾
Either someone else or a demon
@@leeolie3728 yeah that demon called BPD/NARCISSIST!.........
I believe you...
You do realize that means majority of men are just roaming around the planet either living for God totally or waiting for a rare virgin. This is going to get harder and harder to as the times of revelation are revealed
I agree to disagree with your statement but ultimately there is some truth to your statement. I think that a woman can be emotionally connected to more than just one person. I’ve seen woman connected to two different guys before and struggle with who to go with. That does happen more than people think it does.
1.) don't trust them
2.) don't follow them
3.) quit smiling with them
4.) quit playing with them
5.) be on guard in their presence
6.) never submit to women
7.) never play with women
8.) don't open a heart to them
9.) don't love them unconditionally
10) worship God, not women
Your 10 comments will save a man life in this new era we living in cause they looking a weak man to make they life easy
10 interesting facts
@@cedricmiller4370 I agree.
Stay single , stay a virgin sound like you about to go to combat with another country
And lose
Every black man in this country could be the next George Floyd and yet THIS is how y'all are wasting your lives away. You could be educating people and ending white supremacy and racist police violence.
You could be forming labor unions and advocating for worker's rights and overthrowing oligarchy.
You could be ending wars and bringing home soldiers and helping veterans to repair their lives.
You could be healing the planet from corporate destruction.
You could be marching to end the genocide in Palestine.
You could be saving animals from dog fighting rings and abuse and neglect.
You could be planting trees.
You could be running for political office and making the system better for everyone.
You could be holding OTHER MEN accountable instead of encouraging them to abuse women and abandon children and brutalize animals.
You could be working to stop colonialism and the oppression of the global south.
You could be healing generational trauma from centuries of slavery and capitalism and exploitation.
You could be healing your mental health and developing a relationship with a God of your understanding that fulfils you from the inside out.
You could be building close friendships and community ties with emotionally healthy men and women and experiencing the happiness that comes from that.
You could just up and decide one day to actually care about something or someone besides yourselves.
*If men put all the energy they waste policing us into policing themselves and being good humans, maybe we wouldn't be arming and funding an actual holocaust right now,* on the brink of two nuclear wars total and societal collapse while the most murderous empire in human history-- built and run by men-- is about to burn down entire planet.
But instead you're here doing this. Plotting the demise of the very people that gave you the pathetic, wasted life you're living is your priority.
And THAT, fellas, is why women want absolutely nothing to do with you anymore.
*PS. Many of the women that you hate so much got teargassed, arrested, beaten, and vilified marching and demonstrating and resisting against the very racist police violence that threatens black men's lives. BUT HERE YOU ARE INSTEAD.*
Maybe we should just let you try your luck with the cops.
NEVER, give a woman money.
NEVER. pay her bills.
NEVER, give her family money or gifts. thats her job not yours.
NEVER, sign a govt. contract with her. it gives her leverage and increases her value and lowers yours while she did nothing to earn it.
NEVER, feel sorry for her. women sometimes like to play victim for their bad decisions and not planning ahead.
no one is going to feel sorry for us and bail us out so why do that for her?
Exactly right.
I was going to say all those things.
No marriage, no kids, no cohabitation.
You only put your name on your cars and your house. Not a woman that doesn't add a real, tangible value to your life.
Every black man in this country could be the next George Floyd and yet THIS is how y'all are wasting your lives away. You could be educating people and ending white supremacy and racist police violence.
You could be forming labor unions and advocating for worker's rights and overthrowing oligarchy.
You could be ending wars and bringing home soldiers and helping veterans to repair their lives.
You could be healing the planet from corporate destruction.
You could be marching to end the genocide in Palestine.
You could be saving animals from dog fighting rings and abuse and neglect.
You could be planting trees.
You could be running for political office and making the system better for everyone.
You could be holding OTHER MEN accountable instead of encouraging them to abuse women and abandon children and brutalize animals.
You could be working to stop colonialism and the oppression of the global south.
You could be healing generational trauma from centuries of slavery and capitalism and exploitation.
You could be healing your mental health and developing a relationship with a God of your understanding that fulfils you from the inside out.
You could be building close friendships and community ties with emotionally healthy men and women and experiencing the happiness that comes from that.
You could just up and decide one day to actually care about something or someone besides yourselves.
*If men put all the energy they waste policing us into policing themselves and being good humans, maybe we wouldn't be arming and funding an actual holocaust right now,* on the brink of two nuclear wars total and societal collapse while the most murderous empire in human history-- built and run by men-- is about to burn down entire planet.
But instead you're here doing this. Plotting the demise of the very people that gave you the pathetic, wasted life you're living is your priority.
And THAT, fellas, is why women want absolutely nothing to do with you anymore.
*PS. Many of the women that you hate so much got teargassed, arrested, beaten, and vilified marching and demonstrating and resisting against the very racist police violence that threatens black men's lives. BUT HERE YOU ARE INSTEAD.*
Maybe we should just let you try your luck with the cops.
I agree bro
these new women and especially the younger, are out for benefits, money for sure, and what they can get out of you
PREACH!!!!!
She either really likes you or she doesn't theres no middle ground fellas! Sorry! If you can't CORRECT her you can't PROTECT her, period!
exactly right I agree with you homie
That's definitely the case, I trusted my wife, it was cool when we went out with other couples, once she started going out with her single friends it went south real fast
Yep!!!
That brother was spot on with those words of wisdom. If you're weak, she won't respect you my brother. Let Jesus Christ lead you and you will always stand up like a man, period!!!!!
DNA testing should be mandatory in ALL cases, and the cost should be included with the delivering of the child.
I fully agree with you and men should be jailed if found to be the father and pay reparations! Furthermore, if you were not there having unprotected sex, their names would not be called except if the woman is no in her right mind.
lol why are you procreating with a woman you don’t trust or have no marriage to?
@@ththim7785 I know you’re a black woman from your comments
Most people don't pay anyways😂😂
You are 100% right brother. Never pardon the last one.
A man's peace is the most important part 🙏 in his life 🙏 everything else is secondary.
Gentleman bottom line is.. You can’t protect what you can’t control. Also, no girl trips with single girlfriends.
You men forget that you came through the portal of a woman? You men created a neiche of harassment and violence only to turn around and capitalizes on calling it protection. Protection from who exactly? Violent gnomes like yourselves?
@@therealcoachross u can't protect what u can't control period!!!
For sure!! Single women keep single women single! 💯💯💯
So true that happened to me my wife started hanging with single woman and that's what broke up are mirage 😢
Married ones too and the gate keeping tactics are counterproductive in these times.
@@Jesse-h4fso sorry to hear.
@@TexasAlabamaBoi205 FACTS!!!!!!!
And married ones. They wanna be on top so give shit advise so they lose the good man but keep the shit guy. Trust me.
Never expect a woman to be ‘on time’. Never cry in front of her, she’ll see that as the man being ‘weak’ and use that as a way to take the man for granted. Never say you ‘love’ her unless you mean it and keep your word. Never call her ‘outside’ her name. Never hit her out of anger. If there’s ‘any suspicion’ that she doesn’t love you never eat anything she cooks for you. She should always dress to impress you at home not outside for anybody else in the world. If you’re just friends dating and she starts arguments with strangers, strange men, quit her. If you’re married to her then deal and workout all these things together🤷🏼.
I don’t know why this popped up in my algorithm but prayers and healing to the man behind this channel. There are good women and men out here. This channel sounds dedicated to women who look to take advantage of men! Moment of silence for the men who have been hurt. On the flip side there are also men who do women dirty too. So this video is actually interesting to watch to learn another perspective
This brother is telling you tye truth. These are the rules of the game.
I’ve watched 3 of your videos……and you’re 3 for 3, spot on! I am subscribed! Respect.
Thanks and welcome
I hope I don't sound preachy because I'm not religious. However I've been living life from a Biblical perspective for the last 30 of my 52 years on Earth. The Most High (TMH) had a very interesting relationship with Israel his people, and I equate it to Manhood. Let me explain.
TMH set boundaries and laid out expectations for his people. This is what you CAN do, and this is what you CANNOT do, and despite the fact that he could utterly destroy them, his biggest threat was that if they crossed those boundaries he'd leave them to their own devices and unprotected from their enemies. We as men can do all that, and our greatest superpower is that we can walk away from an uncooperative women.
So my rules that have served me well are.
1. Set boundaries and expectations.
2. Be ready to exact whatever penalties you've enumerated for transgressions of your boundaries. (In other words, if you say that doing X will get you Y make sure you stand on that.)
3. Never allow a Woman to disrespect you in any way. (This can also be part of your boundaries just make sure she knows you don't play that.)
4. Her job is to be a help and or support as well as a companion to me, not the other way around. If she has Girl Boss dreams she is perfectly free to pursue them on her own, and I wish her the best of luck with all that, but your not what I'm looking for.
AND 5. I run my household and make the decisions. I may seek her opinion or counsel on certain matters or I may not. In the end I take responsibility for the choices even if I go with her suggestions or counsel, and I never REGRET any of my choices but I do learn from making bad ones.
Anyway I could write a book on it but I'll stop there. Just my 2 cents.
I agree with this man about what he's saying, meeting women online such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other websites. Those women have kids, want money, and sleep with other men with stds, it's best to stay with the one you have or make sure she needs to be replaced before going into debt with another
Lmao yooooo thats wild having access to the internet and social media?
So it’s the internets fault lol
Replaced hmmm interesting
Like these 10 no no's my brother. It's right on point 👉🏿
10 years of pure hell, Federal and State taxes and license taken, only to find out that the child wasn't mine,whew, glad i made out of it.
Damn. 💔🤲🏾🙏🏾
Well Damn!!! You have story to tell these youngsters..
😮
🙏🏾‼️‼️
I'm sure you had an idea but you looked the other way.
Its disgusting for real big dawg. Some dudes just happy to be a presence of a woman and ignore everything but will fight you for pointing it out. It makes my blood boil for real.
Facts Mr. Thomas Facts!
@@darwynnmcpherson Why are you contradicting yourself?
@@darwynnmcpherson Great Advice from this video!
@@texasmade2719 Thank you
Simps .
Some of these men have been made weak by their mothers. One adult guy that I know was cooking Thanksgiving dinner instead of the mother, like she had him trained.
That's right they will have you trained if you don't put your foot down these females want to be the dominant in the relationship they don't like it when they can't get over
My ole lady can’t cook lol I have to cook Thanksgiving
Cooking is a skill set . It has nothing to do with weakness. Mainstream media, school, college when they started teaching you their version of how to be a man, all the problem going to start from there. Matrix want man to be like feminine and women to musclin. If you are awake man , You will understand very quickly. Specially in North America they are killing our family structure. Healthy family structure play viral rule in a man or woman life. Most high created man as a leader and provider and womans created to be carrier of your child and taken care of family. You can live in 2080 if you try to change the order created by most high. You will going to face problem. God bless you all.
😂😂, there is a place where MEN cook and that's for his children if the wife isn't around
lol
Solid info bro, you are on point
Appreciate that
100% facts.
Peace =Respect & Vice Versa, they go hand and hand, imo. This list is wisdom, Brotha, a Blessing to anyone who takes heed. My grandfather told me “A woman can help or hinder you, get you one who’ll help you.”
Absolutely Anthony!!! Glad i was able to find you bro.
@@darwynnmcpherson Thank You & likewise, Sir. ✊🏽💪🏽🙏🏽
BRAVO Darwynn McPherson for this very informative and enlightening content! AMEN-ASE!
Glad it was helpful!
Good stuff Darwinn - especially for for this society we are living in today 😟
Thanks. As the society evolves, our awareness has to as well.
I agree wholeheartedly with this one especially that phone...thats just like going thru my purse... Now, that lawnmower rubbed me the wrongway...if I bought that zeroturn you had better ask me if whoever wanna borrow it can. And my answer to you will be you better make damn sure they know they’re buying us a BRAND NEW one if they break it.
This take was well thought about and well said.
Thanks 💯💯💯
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Men submit to God, woman submit to men! A lot of women don’t like the sound of that one, but it’s only 100% true
I second this!
Amen insisting on submission have already lost. Relationships involve mutuality
You both must submit to GOD , you must be dedicated to each other , he ultimately has the last word but , try not to control her because doesn't control you it must be voluntary that's what make it work .
Actually it’s not so many pastors speak on this
But who is God?
I love videos like this. Please don't stop posting. I was raised by a single mother. I'm 61 videos like this, which takes the place of an absent father.
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Yo you on the money I'm 47 and be preaching the same thing to the young fellas on my job, I just found your channel keep up the good homie!
Work
Thanks will do
Good Stuff Brother!! I’m subscribing!!👏🏾👏🏾
Thanks and welcome aboard brother
3:41 don't help her find anything, once she does and she start feeling like she better than you or she can do better than you, she out the door.
I agree & its a red flag
Let her be out, shiiit
Facts
Fellas, a woman is never yours.! It is just your turn!
100% False.
This is so timely Bruh! You brought some great points to this video. Stay on YOUR purpose Fellas!
This video made me feel better with breaking it off with an ex that I’ve been mourning for years. Today is her death day and I have mixed feelings about it but this video proves to me I’m glad I didn’t mess with her for longer than wanted. As she wasn’t right for me and although it hurts all the time I spent with her to come up with less, I’m now more certain that it’s probably for the better. I’m still picking up the pieces but I now am learning I need to move on and that it’s not selfish. Thank you.
Btw I am now picking up the bible to seek guidance on how to live my life and better myself despite many setbacks. I am also working with my passions to rebuild a damaged psyche and honestly I just gotta learn how to have fun again to deal with sickness and pain.
@kaikoda8709 Absolutely this is a major W for you brother. I’m here be your side!
MAN UP!!!!
If it makes you feel uncomfortable don't go for it.
Keep your boundaries.
Me!!! I don't take no sht off of nobody, a woman don't have a chance.
Love em like crazy. But don't take no sht off women.
And guess who taught me that, A woman. Who happened to be my mother
Great video bro
Thanks!!!
Young man keep educating these dudes.
If she's into her home girls and you are into your home boys, you both need to be alone. In the words of Neely Fuller, black people should run when they see another black person.
I really enjoyed this video,I am a 48 year old Man that has learned a lot about what you talked about.I lost sight of myself but I'm in a better place.Great job
Glad it was helpful!
Very well laid out steps. Clear and concise facts!
Much appreciated!
I'm from South Africa I've just watched and listened this video ma big brother you've awakened me man God is great and i did subscribed thank you very much big brother.
You’re welcome my brother from the motherland 🫱🏾🫲🏿💯💯💯
Excellent Guidelines 💯
I Live by them as a Confident Black Man
Who knows My Worth @ The same time Upgrading My Self, My Territory & My Standards
Thank you
Wise Words to Live by On this Podcast 🤳🏿☝🏿💯
If you knew your worth, you definitely wouldn't be calling yourself "black" God Almighty didn't call you that.
Forgive her for cheating I'll leave😂😂😂
Hey Darwynn thank you for speaking the truth I'm guilty I've let women use me fir years now I don't let them use me for anything anymore I thank you again my brother
Hey Carl we all have a story brother. You're Welcome
Yes we sure do just gotta do better in these ways
Number 2 hits different and is real.
Don't ever let anyone axe you a question, make them ask you a question..
Telling a woman she's fat will end most relationships. They do not let that go.
Ha ha ha. It’s amazing how illogical women are. They look in the mirror, know they are fat but cannot accept that assessment from you. They are emotional creatures. Not logical human beings when in relationships. When they ask, “Do I look fat?” they are really asking, Do you love me?” Responding with the white lie, “Of course not. You look great.” translates to, “I love you baby.” It’s like learning a foreign language. For a guy like me who has always had a “scientific, engineering” logical mind from a small boy on it can sometimes drive me to near distraction to have to play these childish games. 🤣
I had a buddy tell me he knows someone who found out years later in his disease wife's diary that all three children were not by him. He now lives a very lonely sad depressed life. He doesn't talk to HER kids because it is just too much to bear. All the kids are grown now and completely hate their disease mother.
Thanks for sharing this. TBH this is very sad. I wonder how was not able to see the kids do not resemble him?
WoW, Phenomenal Content. U R The Astronomical UniT. Thanks for Helping Brothers All over the World. May God continue to Bless you and your Family....
So inspirational Brig... I appreciate the recognition and the praise. All blessing to GOd. I will keep helping!!!
Thanks brother for the video,this helps a lot,subscribed.Thanks a lot bro.
Thanks for the sub! Now I’m starting to see which content is best to make.
Quite A Sound Advice! Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Please keep this kind of content up brother
Will do! Any ideas that I can work on that can be similar to this. I struggle doubling down lol
Bro you dropping some real 💎s
Thanks
Facts on facts family! Great video!
Thanks
As a woman 👠👠 I have to agree and I behave this way now ,u shouldn't let your spouse struggle if they need help and u both gotta pick each other up if u fall 👍🏽 u have to be your own person and have your own hobbies and friends this will save your relationship can't be around each other 24/7 not healthy 😉
Your opinion isn't relevant info this forum but "okay".
@@RJ12347 🙄🙄hush 🤫 no one asked your single ass
@@RJ12347 hush !
Ugh, I agree with you 100% hate to admit it, but it is true. I am this way now. ❤️🔥
"Superbly expressed!"
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Ask to go through her phone and see what she says. Lol
I learned a long time ago if someone is suspicious of me cheating for absolutely no reason then I already know who's cheating. Been there done that. I'm addicted to being single and my sanity. I have grown to feel no use for dating whatsoever. I wish I didn't feel that way but I've grown to enjoy my own space my own money. Come and go without needing to ask anyone. Almost married twice and dodged two big bullets there. After that second one I said to hell with it. Trying to date in this day and age is like deciding which squatter is more tolerable. Some people have that need for companionship. I'm not one of those people. It's sad but relationships bring more stress and irritability than they're worth anymore.
I’d like to talk with you about this shoot me an email let’s talk about it. I may be able to help you out.
Agree💯 Word, Bless you brother!! Solo the way to go...
Great sound wisdom young King 👑
Very well said.
Great heads up! 👍👍
Great video man!
Good advice, my brother.
Thanks brother
Real Talk!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎯💯
Nice information brother..God bless u
Same to you
Well said. Peace 🕊.
You saying some really positive things man
Thanks glad you found the video
The background music,fire.
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Facts on 🔝 of Facts
👍🏿👍🏿💪🏿💪🏿. I know these things already, but thanks for the reinforcement.
You’re welcome
Right right.
But you can forgive but you have to move on.Not forgive and Stay with her. Can't hold a grudge all your life according God's way.
Your thoughts
I 100% agree.
Facts dropped straight
Great video bro
Thanks for the visit
What’s the name of the track playing in the background? The beat sounds like lyrics to go but I’m not completely sure.
Slum Village - The Look Of Love (Remix)
@@darwynnmcpherson Thanks!
Great information 👍
Glad it was helpful!
You are awesome! Sir thank you 😊
Thank you
Real talk bro real talk !!!!!
Some stuff u just never knew. But I’m glad I know now!! 💯
Salute!
I learned and much was confirmed with shared content. You leave me a choice to believe in young brothers despite the opposite. PS... Rondell McPherson, Tallahassee
Speaking real shit not enough people out here speakin this shit when it comes to building a relationship play strong relationship a healthy little a healthy relationship
The last point is 50/50. If the man isn’t giving his woman the sexual needs, she going to get it somewhere else. To an extent, she can be forgiven because it was the man’s fault for not giving her action.
If the man is giving her action everyday and she still cheats, open the door, say your goodbye and start again. Have self respect and never take her back. If they can do it once, they will do it again
Serious tings bredda!
Thanks bro
This video should have 42,000 LIKES 👍🏾
Facts!!!
@@darwynnmcpherson I know brotha’s in most of these positions especially going out clubbing her WHOLE birthday month 🤣 not coming home till the next day at 1/2 pm her excuse “Iwas drunk spent the night at my girlfriends house” I know she done cheated on my dawg he’s too chill and square for her he’s not fun in her eyes 🤦🏾♂️
good information, very good
Appreciate
So true dead on killed it bro
Greetings : I'm from the Netherlands. At 7.00 minutes, you stated categorically , "Don't let her check your phone." Here's the thing: I'm working for a charity, so my job is more important than our relationship and, to a certain extent, my pride.
Now, this may seem odd, but please take a close look at my icon. You should notice that it's a complex geometric pattern.
Bare with me : I can do complex MATH, but my brain can't do smartphones, and that will remain so for the rest of my life. I need to lean on my partner to check my smartphone once a week.
Again: I'm working for a charity, and my job is far more important than my pride. So, would you still make that categorical statement "Don't let her check your phone" towards my situation??
I'm waiting for your response.
This is what I'm going threw RIGHT NOW! MAN 🤦🏾
It seems everybody an expert these days and my people takes lead but are the most dysfunctional people in America. Don't know who they are, care not to find out, but can give advise on relationship and marriage. Incredible!
THANK YOU BRO 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
Any time!
I can dig it...
you are saving lives bra
Appreciate it!!!
100% agreed. My problem I have kids with my salvadoran wife Yes I did paternity test which i did as soon I noticed red flags.. a man will feel when something isn't right. So anyways. I don't know i should get divorced. I'm afraid divorce will be expensive in California. California is based on your income. She'll screw me up badly or deal with her toxic/ narcissist personally.
What's the song in the background?
Slum Village - Look if Love (Remix)
@@darwynnmcpherson Thanks bruh!
@@tomclancy7257 No problem
I agree with 99.99% of this. I don't agree with the lying about her appearance. Which no solutions to that statement were offered. I think there's an underlying message when women ask do you think I'm fat or I'm gaining weight. They already know the answer to this question. Especially when clothes no longer fit properly. It's really do you still find me attractive. Do you still love me the same even though I've gained weight. I feel you have to answer these questions delicately, don't lie, but don't be brutally honest either. Women have, emotions, hormones, kids, and you probably sat by while she gained that extra weight. Let her know you love her and if there's anything she doesn't like about herself your willing to help her.
You have a new, subscriber my friend. That stop spending your last dime hit home.
Good points.
I concur 300%
My guy you cookin😂😂😂😂
You Totally Right 👍