I admit being a simp, cooking, driving her around, money, anything she wanted, She told me she was leaving because I was “too old fashioned” some months later she came up to me in a club, she was crying and telling me how she didn’t realise what she had with me, I wished her well in the future and thanked her for the Lesson. Now when I meet a woman I let her know I’m happy on my own.
find you a woman that states this when she spots your girlfriend trying to control you if she says "im not trying to make ya life harder, i wanna make ya d*ck harder" then thats a back up right there
*Being the one who always pays, initiates, and invests while she gives nothing back isn’t just unfair - it’s exhausting. Great reminders here to protect one’s energy and time!*
4. Don't be afraid to show her you can move on from her. 5. Build your self esteem for yourself fellas, not her. She will use it against you if you let her. 6. Your mother can only tell you what she thinks man is. Start chilling with real dudes that give you the man talk you'll be able to quickly understand and pick up.
The covert narcissist will love bomb you at first, giving you all the sex and praise. She will present as perfect. Then, she will tell you how she was hurt before, and ask you to promise never to hurt her. It would kill her if you left, she says. She targets you because you are a caring, good man who lives up to his promises (it is not a lack of self-esteem per se). You are her romantic mark. After she gets commitment from you, she will start trying to tear you down and emasculate you. She will isolate you from everyone. Eventually, she will be compelled to discard you psychologically. That can mean leaving, or staying but just hating you and passive aggressively hurting you every day. She treats you like an object, the sole purpose of which is to serve her needs and to punish. She wants to destroy you, because deep down she is trying to individuate. She is a broken child that chose to never grow up. And she never will.
I just met someone recently and she started with this. I recognized it and got away. 2 kids, claiming the dad walked away from the “family” and hadn’t been heard from in 12 years, begging me to promise to never hurt her, oh and started talking about this commitment that I don’t remember agreeing to. Then after came the drama, lies, fights, attempts to manipulate with sex etc… She even went as far as telling me her cycle started the following week, but somehow was on the first time we did it. However, that following week she asked to have sex with me (when the cycle was supposed to be on originally) and persistent that I came in her. I know how the cycle window works. I put her out my house and blocked her THAT DAY!
@@kurtjames9487 I learned this far too late. Liar. Control freak. Manipulator. Tells the truth only when it benefits her twisted agenda. Doles out favors that actually benefit her in the long run.
I've come to the realization that ALL women are going to have some red flags. The solution: deal with them on their level, do not put them in a position they are not suppose to be in. Have fun, don't beg move on.😊
Be a real man and correct them like a gentlemen, as soon as you see the flag, politely tell her. If she resists then don’t leave the door open on the way out. Let them know why they aren’t getting a relationship, so that they may actually improve for the next guy.
@@heisenburg8608 that doesn't work try to tell women what they can do to minimise their chances of being raped and see what response you get, they are beyond help
@@droiid6547 but the red flags you are thinking about are like he wears brown shoes, he has a twin, he doesn't drive or cook etc. it's completely irrelevant. When a woman has a red flag she basically wants to waste your time or give you an STD or something. They pretty much all lack what I would call a basic quality like honesty, loyalty, humour, kindness etc. They think that being a single mother, a rape victim or divorced etc are good things. The reality is it shows they lack patience and sense
@@OrlandoAnderson-pt3nb jesse lee peterson says it in a giod way - forgive your parents, but dont listen to them. Dont listen as in - you are youre own person
Mine is my relationship with my father, my mom did any and everything for me and my sister, never spoke bad of my father or stopped him from seeing us..hope this just ain't hating on women for a bunch of fake alpha males
When you gave the reason why some men allow women to treat us this way, i realized how many early memories i have of my mom just completely ignoring me and acting like i didn't exist, in different kinds of scenarios. She ended up leaving my father before i was even a teenager and started a slam campaign against him to me, which had been working for most of my life until I was forced to see the reality of things. Its no wonder I've let so many women treat me like crap, despite me having so many manly and desireable traits. Thanks for the video. It confirmed that I am seeing things more clearly now. Women have basically zero control over me these days, because I genuinely don't care anymore.
💯💯💯 thanks for this perspective. You and I have something in common 🫱🏾🫲🏽. You will love my video that comes out on Thursday. Right now it is on the community wall released earlier to members of the channel. It will be published Thursday.
Speaking of Red Flags. Recognize. If it's all about "Me. Me. Me.", ask her: "What about me. What do I want. What do I need. What makes me happy." If the answer you get is silence, or she talks some BS. Show your pride & respect for yourself, and bounce. Us men put up with too much. It doesn't always pay to "be nice" or be "the understanding one".
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy???
@@BLACKMASKSOUL491is this real or are you just being silly? She is going to sleep with your cousin eventually or another guy and the fact she told you means she thinks you’re weak and doesn’t respect you. Your relationship is over.
And here I am, a good woman who was hurt by a bad man. Why can’t the good people link up with other good people and vice versa? It’s like every relationship has the bad person. I watch these social media “baddie” types with 4 baby daddies and bad attitudes run over and mistreat good men. Meanwhile, here I am, no kids, never married, emotionally healthy, wishing I had a good man, and I meet up with a man who lied to me and destroyed my kind heart. A wolf in sheep’s clothing. It’s like you really just can’t trust anyone. This crap is exhausting.
Sounds like you have the basics down you just struggle with vetting for the right guy. Shoot me an email if you’d like to have some help getting to the bottom of this.
WHEN WOMEN DEFINE WHAT A MAN IS THERE IS WHERE THE PROBLEM IS. WHEN WOMEN CHANGE THEIR DEFINITION OF WHAT A MAN IS OR SEE THE GOOD MEN THAT THEY HAVE IN THEIR FRIENDZONE THEN THEY WILL PERHAPS FIND A GOOD MAN
Not just female advice: how you treat anyone is how you'll treat everyone. If she's being nasty to someone for something minor, then turns around and talks sweetly to you, eventually she'll get tired of wearing that nice mask because she feels like you're too invested to break connection and then she'll be nasty to you too.
My mother didnt neglect us financially, we had everything we wanted financially & more...she just never really told us she loved us, was never there for us on the emotional support or supported our dreams..our Father was cool, but he went mostly with whatever she wanted to do..which led me to dealing with a red flag woman much longer than I should have
One i was dating asked to move in with me just after four months. I told her to go get her own apartment or stay in a extended stay hotel for awhile while we get to know each other first. She blew up, cussed me out, disrespected me over the phone. I ghosted her a**. Keep it moving fellas
@@Jason-nosaJ Women (and most men in general) are authoritarian. Ie: have a deep need to be controlled or to control. It's mostly subconscious. Few people can handle being free.
Awesome work, Dale valsko ! It's so satisfying to see you putting in the effort to stop those shady characters. Protecting the public, especially the elderly, from those despicable con artists is crucial. You truly deserve recognition and appreciation for keeping us secure. I'm thrilled for you because you're my sibling. Your accomplishments definitely make you a strong contender for the Nobel Peace Prize. Keep up the outstanding performance!!!!!
I knew this was going to be refreshing, having my own experience with women and being older already this is a great video for the younger ones. Bless you sir
There is no doubt that you will rise fast at the apex of your career Perry Moskva . Because you are a very intelligent, smart, hard worker and your work ethic par excellence. Keep going People like you take the IM out of Impossible by becoming PRO at tackling Problems. You Rock!
yup, I ignored red flags right from jump. It did not work out well and mercy was never in the equation. not from this one. kept my son away from me and I'm positive never felt a twinge of guilt. fortunately, God brought a truly good woman into my life. she has a gentle, quiet spirit and always is my soft place to land. now I'm much closer to God and my wife is probably the most Holy person I've ever met. apart from missing my son, I wake up happy every day.
This Channel agree with this video strongly as this channel teaches a lot of things to do in relationship. There are so many tips on how to identify, make them chase you, and if they are cheating or want to use you. great video Darwynn McPherson.
Oh my GOD 🙏 having a father around saved me as a man the value in it is like up there with oxygen . Having a naive mother with low self esteem and no confidence in nothing I remember him forcing her to do things for us and forced her to take care of her business
Wow 🤯 you are the first who got my eyes sweating... "Then you realize..." Never considering my life after a vid of less than 10 minutes, I am truly speechless my friend! Red-pilled for several years, I think this was the puzzle piece I was looking for. God bless 💕 you got yourself a new subscriber
Bro... That mother perspective hit me to their core. Mom's is a disconnected womanizer from her kids because of divorce and being put up for adoption. I never really processed that part of my issues. That's so real.
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Great video! I suffered with low self esteem and idk why but my ex would state things about mother neglecting me but little dud i know she knew where my low self esteem stemmed from smh and i ddint
When my girl knows she did something wrong to me, she always buy my gifts. Then when we go around my family she’s always talking about her anxiety is kicking in. What does that mean?
When a woman knows she's using you or is doing something bad to you behind your back, she doesn't feel comfortable being around your family, especially your mom or sisters.
Seems like she buys you gifts to butter you up, out of guilt. Also trying to avoid being around your family by claiming to have “panic attacks” is to isolate you from your family. Trying to gain your sympathy to divide you from your family. Sounds pretty manipulative, never give up on your family. They will be there long after she is gone. How do I know? Same thing happened to me. First it was anxiety around my family, so I gave in and shunned them for almost 20 years. Then it was my friends, that she claimed were not good for me. End result: extreme isolation and dependency on her. Be careful my friend
Last time she disrespected me I became abstinent. I realized the sex was always the way she fixed things. After a couple of months, It felt like a haze was lifted off of me and I could see things clearly.
I told the one that I was with during that time a good minute ago I’m not going to get into a childish tit for tat with you. I’m let you keep that childish energy of foolishness and at the same time show you that “see ya and good riddance energy and keep it pushing . I Ain’t going through all that Doc.
We men must be with honor too, Because a woman Can only cheat If a guy is going to be Ok knowing She has a Boyfriend Or husband and still do her. Even though its thrilling to do someone else' girl, never do it...Because that guy could be you. I did things like that in the past and it fucked me up too, it messes with your head. We guys got too look out for each other more..If a woman says she'll only date a guy a certain height tell her to get lost, Because we could also could have been a short guy. If a shorter guy than average isn't good enough for you, I would say you are an idiot Because If it is a short guy with a good heart She should be so lucky. We guys ultimately have the Real power, they need us more than we need them, its true. So never do anything to another guy that you would be heartbroken About yourself Because most guys dont deserve that stuff, only assholes maybe and psychopaths. Still, be as good as you can and never waste your time with a woman that doesn't give you respect. These women need to learn this the hard way unfortunately Because all the simps have inflated their ego's.
@@politiekincorrecttv880 It always amazes me how a man, even if he is single, can knowingly be with another man’s wife, when the husband doesn’t know. Any man who does that is every bit as low as the woman.
I dealt with thsi for 7 years i was 20 she was 25 i know nothings about relationships she was my first real thing i ignore all flags bec i loved her for her and i currently got left for another men she is from Belize and she went on a trip December 2023 went out partying the whole 9 yards i got into her phone and got all the proof she been talking to a guy for almost a year i am broken torn apsrt used abused idk what to do
She never cared about the line. My boundaries never mattered to her. I wasted 22 years with her. My mom was better than that. My dad was a different story
Routines when changed are not to both sides agreeing.When you are with your partner how often do you back down for its manners or the right thing to do.Dont look back or even compare because its not going to happen unless you take actions now.
6.42 min in, why is rewarding good behaviour bad, if bad behaviour should be condemned, would it not maintain a balance? Because obviously if she's well behaved she should get your time and good energy, and no attention at all if she is bad. Which prompts my question here
I also think you’re wrong about where self esteem comes from. I think it comes from the father, most of us out here playing low self esteem sex games with women because we didn’t have a father’s love either. High self esteem comes when your father is proud and boosts your confidence. A lot of men out here having to figure that out by themselves. Having a father tell you that what you did is good or that you make him proud, is probably the biggest confidence boost we get as kids. Reason being, mum is always there and kids respect dads hustle more, so words of encouragement matter more. We still have a mums warm touch and kept fed, but we don’t really listen to her words of encouragement.
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I think I know why us men allow it or overlook red flags, it’s obviously low self esteem but it’s because we’re chasing pleasure instead of our purpose. Overlooking red flags does t matter when you just want the sex right, but then some time later people get hurt. The solution is the focus, not to care about pleasure so much. This ultimately becomes more attractive to women, for obvious reasons, like being able to get up and walk out regardless if it means you’re losing access to her 😸.
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No its not always about the mother or father not being there ,low self esteem can come from social issues, or being mistreated by ones peers, or other personal issues
That was a worker; she was just like my mom. She “dated” for bills. One man was rent; one jewelry, one car payment, one was Vegas trips. You get the point; I grew up watching that exact thing.
i ignore red flags because i feel like i have to, i cant afford to put strong boundaries. whenever i do, the women just end up leaving quicker. some of us just aren't attractive to women so we have to settle for nothing or scraps
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U r right, sir....I have experienced it
I admit being a simp, cooking, driving her around, money, anything she wanted, She told me she was leaving because I was “too old fashioned” some months later she came up to me in a club, she was crying and telling me how she didn’t realise what she had with me, I wished her well in the future and thanked her for the Lesson. Now when I meet a woman I let her know I’m happy on my own.
Excellent testimony
@@hardlines2635 I hate that I wasn’t warned by the women in my family, now I’m in my 30’s with a better understanding
Every time I felt like someone was trying to control me, I left. People like that don’t build you up. They tear you down and try to break you.
@@FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv Yes they do. That goes for male & female.
find you a woman that states this when she spots your girlfriend trying to control you
if she says "im not trying to make ya life harder, i wanna make ya d*ck harder" then thats a back up right there
*Being the one who always pays, initiates, and invests while she gives nothing back isn’t just unfair - it’s exhausting. Great reminders here to protect one’s energy and time!*
A lot of us have low self esteem because we were raised by our mothers. Either when our dads were not in the picture or because they were overworked.
@@joesphschramm3754 Overworked to fucking hell. Not my mom's fault in that case, but fact's fact.
@@joesphschramm3754 I h8te my mother shes ny greatest Opp
4. Don't be afraid to show her you can move on from her.
5. Build your self esteem for yourself fellas, not her. She will use it against you if you let her.
6. Your mother can only tell you what she thinks man is. Start chilling with real dudes that give you the man talk you'll be able to quickly understand and pick up.
Mothers are the LAST place to go to for life advice for men. Brothers need to contact distant family or community brothers.
The covert narcissist will love bomb you at first, giving you all the sex and praise. She will present as perfect. Then, she will tell you how she was hurt before, and ask you to promise never to hurt her. It would kill her if you left, she says. She targets you because you are a caring, good man who lives up to his promises (it is not a lack of self-esteem per se). You are her romantic mark. After she gets commitment from you, she will start trying to tear you down and emasculate you. She will isolate you from everyone. Eventually, she will be compelled to discard you psychologically. That can mean leaving, or staying but just hating you and passive aggressively hurting you every day. She treats you like an object, the sole purpose of which is to serve her needs and to punish. She wants to destroy you, because deep down she is trying to individuate. She is a broken child that chose to never grow up. And she never will.
The ugly truth behind the curtain. I lived this.
100% facts!
I just met someone recently and she started with this. I recognized it and got away.
2 kids, claiming the dad walked away from the “family” and hadn’t been heard from in 12 years, begging me to promise to never hurt her, oh and started talking about this commitment that I don’t remember agreeing to. Then after came the drama, lies, fights, attempts to manipulate with sex etc…
She even went as far as telling me her cycle started the following week, but somehow was on the first time we did it. However, that following week she asked to have sex with me (when the cycle was supposed to be on originally) and persistent that I came in her. I know how the cycle window works.
I put her out my house and blocked her THAT DAY!
For me, the days of chasing women are over!! Also the only woman I trusted was my mother!!
And she was Suspect 😮
@@ryanbain618 so how is the man chasing life?
I learned at a very young age that my mother is not a trustworthy person.
@@kurtjames9487i learned this when i got older but thats due to her brainwashing me
@@kurtjames9487 I learned this far too late. Liar. Control freak. Manipulator. Tells the truth only when it benefits her twisted agenda. Doles out favors that actually benefit her in the long run.
I've come to the realization that ALL women are going to have some red flags. The solution: deal with them on their level, do not put them in a position they are not suppose to be in. Have fun, don't beg move on.😊
@@mrnobody3949 You have your fun and broom them fast or better yet get an escort
Be a real man and correct them like a gentlemen, as soon as you see the flag, politely tell her. If she resists then don’t leave the door open on the way out. Let them know why they aren’t getting a relationship, so that they may actually improve for the next guy.
@@heisenburg8608 that doesn't work try to tell women what they can do to minimise their chances of being raped and see what response you get, they are beyond help
not only woman dude lol
@@droiid6547 but the red flags you are thinking about are like he wears brown shoes, he has a twin, he doesn't drive or cook etc. it's completely irrelevant.
When a woman has a red flag she basically wants to waste your time or give you an STD or something. They pretty much all lack what I would call a basic quality like honesty, loyalty, humour, kindness etc. They think that being a single mother, a rape victim or divorced etc are good things. The reality is it shows they lack patience and sense
"Having low self esteem comes from your connection with your mother". Absolutely spot on! My mother and I never got on.
Exactly!
@@andyhinds542 bro I love my mom but her advice always are not what I believe in …always some advice where I am being burden
@@OrlandoAnderson-pt3nb jesse lee peterson says it in a giod way - forgive your parents, but dont listen to them. Dont listen as in - you are youre own person
Mine is my relationship with my father, my mom did any and everything for me and my sister, never spoke bad of my father or stopped him from seeing us..hope this just ain't hating on women for a bunch of fake alpha males
@@bryangrantham8187 that’s good for you brother..not every mom is gonna be as good as your mom or dad as good as you dad that’s the reality of life
This dude is on a hole nother level insightful!!! I'm 43 years old and can tell you that I've learned what he's saying through grit and hard knocks!!!
Hey guys always know you're the prize - don't lower yourself; don't beg to be in a toxic relationship
When you gave the reason why some men allow women to treat us this way, i realized how many early memories i have of my mom just completely ignoring me and acting like i didn't exist, in different kinds of scenarios. She ended up leaving my father before i was even a teenager and started a slam campaign against him to me, which had been working for most of my life until I was forced to see the reality of things.
Its no wonder I've let so many women treat me like crap, despite me having so many manly and desireable traits.
Thanks for the video. It confirmed that I am seeing things more clearly now. Women have basically zero control over me these days, because I genuinely don't care anymore.
💯💯💯 thanks for this perspective. You and I have something in common 🫱🏾🫲🏽. You will love my video that comes out on Thursday. Right now it is on the community wall released earlier to members of the channel. It will be published Thursday.
@darwynnmcpherson I subscribed immediately after watching this video, I look forward to more
You’ll have more I promise
You are 100% correct on these women. I think there is shift happening with good valued men in this country.
Just learn to use the word "NO", and a lot of issues will be solved.
@@user-sy6jf4hm3t Facts…. It’s those yes men who are always the first to be respected.
Speaking of Red Flags. Recognize. If it's all about "Me. Me. Me.", ask her: "What about me. What do I want. What do I need. What makes me happy." If the answer you get is silence, or she talks some BS. Show your pride & respect for yourself, and bounce. Us men put up with too much. It doesn't always pay to "be nice" or be "the understanding one".
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Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy???
facts
@@BLACKMASKSOUL491is this real or are you just being silly? She is going to sleep with your cousin eventually or another guy and the fact she told you means she thinks you’re weak and doesn’t respect you. Your relationship is over.
Straight up facts. God bless you my brothers and be the beacon of hope all men strive for.
And here I am, a good woman who was hurt by a bad man. Why can’t the good people link up with other good people and vice versa? It’s like every relationship has the bad person. I watch these social media “baddie” types with 4 baby daddies and bad attitudes run over and mistreat good men. Meanwhile, here I am, no kids, never married, emotionally healthy, wishing I had a good man, and I meet up with a man who lied to me and destroyed my kind heart. A wolf in sheep’s clothing. It’s like you really just can’t trust anyone. This crap is exhausting.
Sounds like you have the basics down you just struggle with vetting for the right guy.
Shoot me an email if you’d like to have some help getting to the bottom of this.
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Will do, thanks!
WHEN WOMEN DEFINE WHAT A MAN IS THERE IS WHERE THE PROBLEM IS. WHEN WOMEN CHANGE THEIR DEFINITION OF WHAT A MAN IS OR SEE THE GOOD MEN THAT THEY HAVE IN THEIR FRIENDZONE THEN THEY WILL PERHAPS FIND A GOOD MAN
@@freddiestranger9783 You have given me a video idea. I need to talk about the friend zone more.
What makes you a good woman
Not just female advice: how you treat anyone is how you'll treat everyone.
If she's being nasty to someone for something minor, then turns around and talks sweetly to you, eventually she'll get tired of wearing that nice mask because she feels like you're too invested to break connection and then she'll be nasty to you too.
My mother didnt neglect us financially, we had everything we wanted financially & more...she just never really told us she loved us, was never there for us on the emotional support or supported our dreams..our Father was cool, but he went mostly with whatever she wanted to do..which led me to dealing with a red flag woman much longer than I should have
Great story! This goes to show you that some of our fathers ignoring red flag women also had something to do with our future manipulation
One i was dating asked to move in with me just after four months. I told her to go get her own apartment or stay in a extended stay hotel for awhile while we get to know each other first. She blew up, cussed me out, disrespected me over the phone. I ghosted her a**. Keep it moving fellas
stumbled onto this by accident. i appreciate your help and pointing those of us in need,in the right direction
Glad I could help and thanks!!!
“No body does something just once “
Remember that
Pay attention fellas. Class has started let's go !!
Being "too nice" = Mark, Chump, Sucker.
Women want to be used, if you're not allowing her to be used by you she will flip the script and use you.
Well said
@@Jason-nosaJ Women (and most men in general) are authoritarian. Ie: have a deep need to be controlled or to control. It's mostly subconscious. Few people can handle being free.
No balanced human wants to be used. We are all products of Western society where humans are to be exploited.
"women want to be used"? very interesting...why do you say this? I am intrigued
1. She says Hello 2. She introduces herself. 3. She says "I love you" (nope, she never does)...
Good job young man this is real good information for a lot of men...
Thanks!
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Gentlemen. If you lead with your pocket, you would forever do so!
@@saeculasaeculorum6218 Very true!!!
Awesome work, Dale valsko ! It's so satisfying to see you putting in the effort to stop those shady characters. Protecting the public, especially the elderly, from those despicable con artists is crucial. You truly deserve recognition and appreciation for keeping us secure. I'm thrilled for you because you're my sibling. Your accomplishments definitely make you a strong contender for the Nobel Peace Prize. Keep up the outstanding performance!!!!!
This is so true. Wish I had have seen this before it happened to me . Trust me it will never happen again. Thanks again
You are so welcome
I knew this was going to be refreshing, having my own experience with women and being older already this is a great video for the younger ones. Bless you sir
You’re welcome sir. Blessings to you as well!
You just explained why I’m single.
Me 2.
When you're Wearing Rose Colored Glasses Red Flags just look like Flags 🌹
This is an intelligent comment.
We’re blessed to have u giving us a warning
It’s an honor
You actually explain it so well with the video
There is no doubt that you will rise fast at the apex of your career Perry Moskva . Because you are a very intelligent, smart, hard worker and your work ethic par excellence. Keep going People like you take the IM out of Impossible by becoming PRO at tackling Problems. You Rock!
yup, I ignored red flags right from jump. It did not work out well and mercy was never in the equation. not from this one. kept my son away from me and I'm positive never felt a twinge of guilt. fortunately, God brought a truly good woman into my life. she has a gentle, quiet spirit and always is my soft place to land. now I'm much closer to God and my wife is probably the most Holy person I've ever met. apart from missing my son, I wake up happy every day.
This Channel agree with this video strongly as this channel teaches a lot of things to do in relationship. There are so many tips on how to identify, make them chase you, and if they are cheating or want to use you. great video Darwynn McPherson.
Thank you sir appreciate that
Oh my GOD 🙏 having a father around saved me as a man the value in it is like up there with oxygen . Having a naive mother with low self esteem and no confidence in nothing I remember him forcing her to do things for us and forced her to take care of her business
Joe, appreciate the story sir. Fascinating how much of an impact a father is to his children.
Wow 🤯 you are the first who got my eyes sweating... "Then you realize..." Never considering my life after a vid of less than 10 minutes, I am truly speechless my friend! Red-pilled for several years, I think this was the puzzle piece I was looking for. God bless 💕 you got yourself a new subscriber
Welcome Aboard my friend! Bless you too!
Bro... That mother perspective hit me to their core. Mom's is a disconnected womanizer from her kids because of divorce and being put up for adoption. I never really processed that part of my issues. That's so real.
Glad we were able to shed light on this Hugh
Crazy but true. If she cooks for you it could be her way to keep you distracted. It's that meticulous. You need to set those boundaries.
I respect this guy, what a gift hes giving. My problem is i have red flags too and theyre situational
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When they can manipulate you, they decide to cheat and leave you
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Great advice. Fellas don't settle for manipulative trash
Great video!
I suffered with low self esteem and idk why but my ex would state things about mother neglecting me but little dud i know she knew where my low self esteem stemmed from smh and i ddint
Thanks for sharing!! Unfortunately a lot of us has been there, but more importantly we are here working together keeping each other aware...
Most of men's problems & issues with women come when u are emotionally invested
Wow, this is very informative and so true. Speaking from experience. Thanks for the insight.
You’re welcome
When my girl knows she did something wrong to me, she always buy my gifts. Then when we go around my family she’s always talking about her anxiety is kicking in. What does that mean?
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This is I’ll require further elaboration please shoot me an email. Bruizzr@outlook.com
When a woman knows she's using you or is doing something bad to you behind your back, she doesn't feel comfortable being around your family, especially your mom or sisters.
Seems like she buys you gifts to butter you up, out of guilt. Also trying to avoid being around your family by claiming to have “panic attacks” is to isolate you from your family. Trying to gain your sympathy to divide you from your family. Sounds pretty manipulative, never give up on your family. They will be there long after she is gone. How do I know? Same thing happened to me. First it was anxiety around my family, so I gave in and shunned them for almost 20 years. Then it was my friends, that she claimed were not good for me. End result: extreme isolation and dependency on her. Be careful my friend
she’s trying to use gifts as an apology to throw you off. Self respect as a man is a must
You should set boundaries with anybody you deal with not just ruin
Last time she disrespected me I became abstinent. I realized the sex was always the way she fixed things. After a couple of months, It felt like a haze was lifted off of me and I could see things clearly.
I disrespect them back.
Same cause I truly love tit for tat
I told the one that I was with during that time a good minute ago I’m not going to get into a childish tit for tat with you. I’m let you keep that childish energy of foolishness and at the same time show you that “see ya and good riddance energy and keep it pushing . I Ain’t going through all that Doc.
Very high quality video, thx :D
Glad you liked it!
Very hard lesson but very important. Thank you
You’re welcome bro
We men must be with honor too, Because a woman Can only cheat If a guy is going to be Ok knowing She has a Boyfriend Or husband and still do her. Even though its thrilling to do someone else' girl, never do it...Because that guy could be you. I did things like that in the past and it fucked me up too, it messes with your head. We guys got too look out for each other more..If a woman says she'll only date a guy a certain height tell her to get lost, Because we could also could have been a short guy. If a shorter guy than average isn't good enough for you, I would say you are an idiot Because If it is a short guy with a good heart She should be so lucky. We guys ultimately have the Real power, they need us more than we need them, its true. So never do anything to another guy that you would be heartbroken About yourself Because most guys dont deserve that stuff, only assholes maybe and psychopaths. Still, be as good as you can and never waste your time with a woman that doesn't give you respect. These women need to learn this the hard way unfortunately Because all the simps have inflated their ego's.
@@politiekincorrecttv880 It always amazes me how a man, even if he is single, can knowingly be with another man’s wife, when the husband doesn’t know.
Any man who does that is every bit as low as the woman.
This man is speaking the truth
One of the most important messages I’ve ever received.
Big up Rudebwoy love this still, gonna share this with the masses ✨👊🏾✨
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Excellent advice! Thanks 😊
Thanks for watching!
Things are more manageable when you treat people according to how they carry themselves.
She has to know you are happy and love yourself
Brilliant presentation. Got it! And thanks.
Thank you for watching!
And fathers who reciprocate their wives/mothers' behaviours are what I call Males-lesbians. 😂
Great info, Sir. 👍
Great content bruv
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I dealt with thsi for 7 years i was 20 she was 25 i know nothings about relationships she was my first real thing i ignore all flags bec i loved her for her and i currently got left for another men she is from Belize and she went on a trip December 2023 went out partying the whole 9 yards i got into her phone and got all the proof she been talking to a guy for almost a year i am broken torn apsrt used abused idk what to do
I may be able to help you overcome this, shoot me an email
@@darwynnmcpherson me and her is done she plan to sleep with him and everything her mind is set but what's you're email ?
@@darwynnmcpherson I can't keep her she doesn't want to be kept she doesn't respect me at all
Bruizzr@outlook.com
Understood.
You are used, torn, and abused, you may need to address that…
She never cared about the line. My boundaries never mattered to her. I wasted 22 years with her. My mom was better than that. My dad was a different story
Routines when changed are not to both sides agreeing.When you are with your partner how often do you back down for its manners or the right thing to do.Dont look back or even compare because its not going to happen unless you take actions now.
6.42 min in, why is rewarding good behaviour bad, if bad behaviour should be condemned, would it not maintain a balance? Because obviously if she's well behaved she should get your time and good energy, and no attention at all if she is bad.
Which prompts my question here
Its not good to reward correction. Let correction be correction and not followed up with a thanks or gift, Etc.
I also think you’re wrong about where self esteem comes from. I think it comes from the father, most of us out here playing low self esteem sex games with women because we didn’t have a father’s love either. High self esteem comes when your father is proud and boosts your confidence. A lot of men out here having to figure that out by themselves. Having a father tell you that what you did is good or that you make him proud, is probably the biggest confidence boost we get as kids. Reason being, mum is always there and kids respect dads hustle more, so words of encouragement matter more. We still have a mums warm touch and kept fed, but we don’t really listen to her words of encouragement.
This speaks with a powerful tunity
Great video. Appreciate the blessing
Thanks for watching!
Well articulated and put together which was very insightful power packed and
Thanks for watching
@@darwynnmcpherson and also for subscribing, you left that part out.
You really have a gift when it comes to delivering a message point blank.
Thank Emmanuel!!!
Your comments are very inspirational and it is the very thing that gives me motivation to be consistent and enjoy doing this everyday! Great to have you as a subscriber! Welcome to the family!!!
Wow from experience of being used you’re so right
It really is!
BRO THANK THANK YOU VERY VERY MUCH FOR TELLING THE TRUTH 👍🏿
You’re welcome Jeffrey!!!
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I think I know why us men allow it or overlook red flags, it’s obviously low self esteem but it’s because we’re chasing pleasure instead of our purpose. Overlooking red flags does t matter when you just want the sex right, but then some time later people get hurt. The solution is the focus, not to care about pleasure so much. This ultimately becomes more attractive to women, for obvious reasons, like being able to get up and walk out regardless if it means you’re losing access to her 😸.
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No its not always about the mother or father not being there ,low self esteem can come from social issues, or being mistreated by ones peers, or other personal issues
I agree with you 100%
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Met this woman in May but one of the conditions she gave me was she needed me to pay her rent monthly.
What condition did you give her in exchange?
@@darwynnmcpherson I didn’t give her any condition, it was either her way or there would be no relationship.
Was there a relationship?
@@darwynnmcpherson was brief now been in no contact but she has unblocked me now?
That was a worker; she was just like my mom. She “dated” for bills.
One man was rent; one jewelry, one car payment, one was Vegas trips. You get the point; I grew up watching that exact thing.
Story of my life right now....🥺
i ignore red flags because i feel like i have to, i cant afford to put strong boundaries. whenever i do, the women just end up leaving quicker. some of us just aren't attractive to women so we have to settle for nothing or scraps
I understand brother. I can help you with this issue. Shoot me an email so you can level up and master walking away from manipulation.
My mother and my sister are guilty of this
Guilty of the conditioning?
I needed this
Glad you found it steph
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Thanks King
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This is so true
Wow this was amazing thank you
You’re welcome
Action over words all day, words 1st tho after that there's only action
Same here. Thats real!
Many thanks, Esteemed
Preach Sir!
I need help from u thats more than a emercency please how can i come into contact with u
Shoot me an email: bruizzr@outlook.com
The number one reason for men staying in these relationships that no one talks about is
"SPAGHETTI IS A HELL OF A DRUG"
Lmao i think i know what you talking about. Is the spaghetti spiked???
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"THE BEYONCE SPECIAL"
And you ain't going NOWHERE
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No lies were spoken in this video fellas.
Naw we need to normalize not blaming the men...the low self esteem, no boundaries rhetoric is bullshit...
Truth
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It is better to renew your women every year or in every few years time because as they age they become unattractive work on cash flow new one everytime
I NEVER chased women....in me i dont have that ability...if they wanna do what they wanna do? Then be gone
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