Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
What do I do,I have a Kid with a big manipulator, currently I moved out of my rented apartment for her,she has children before we started and she also lied about her age, emotionally, physically and financially I have invested on the relationship, discovering all these on my own am losing it,what do I do😭😭😭😭
This message is to recognize your contribution to the team’s tracking and spying success. Your commitment had been exemplary and your hard working is an inspiration to everyone around you. You’re a professional *johnsonspy*
I don’t know how I learnt all these traits without ever having listened to anyone teach me them. Watching Jessica break them down just as I thought of them gives me the confidence that there is something about my thought and observation that is unique and it may be a gift. I am a student of life and by just observing human behavior and psychology which for me is a deep subject matter in the game of life, I have be able to self-teach myself by observation.
Media movies and the united comradeship of Oprah and Tyler Perry.. I thought Beyonce would be that good influencer but Beyonce is a woman of the highest quality... marriage, career, and a nuclear family unit.....she obviously was not easily lead astray. Oh yeah and she's pro-black . Love her no Cap
Second wife very manipulating an extremely pleasant with it. on my side was 23 years of experience with her. Year two of marriage I knew what she was doing and told her it was not needed but to talk to me. When she didn’t talk I decided that enough was enough. She became violent even tried to get me arrested. Had an order to keep me out of my own home. Divorced in April 2016. Have built n improve myself since. Love yourself enough to say no without hurting them (emotionally) if you can. She still tried to manipulate her way into getting part of my tax refunds after more than a year apart. Some are extremely violent and deadly when they can not get their way. 🌷
Top 7 Baby!.. Jess keeps it real..No BS here..the truth and nothing but the truth..She cares about her subbys..God Bless You for spreading the knowledge..most appreciated my friend. Enjoy your weekend. 🙏. Lets get this lady to 100,000 and beyond subs..she deserves it..
I really appreciate this Jessie... ones a guy do a great thing for a lady or some other things, she will be the most happiest woman on Earth...by the time you know it, she is carried away by her emotions...she starts doing stupid and crazy things...like calling you sweet names, things she has never tell you before...she becomes talkative...she is not her real self that moment... by the time you know it, you're being manipulated...you can be so deceived to the fact that, you'll do more more things for her...when you come back to your logical thinking,you regret and noticed you were trapped...Guys let be wise for women knows how to trap we guys...
I was badly manipulated emotionally and financially by the first woman i love! This will create a complex towards women, and honestly a lot of this are true! I was stupidly loving , innocent and honest! And i’m a pessimist mostly! These things reassure my pessimism!!
And that's what so hard about relationships, you have to figure out if your with someone who is real. But the trick is not to really listen to what they say (sometimes what they "verbalize" is part of the manipulation). it's their actions & behaviors that you have to watch. They can tell you anything, but if they are not following through, can't keep their promises, and like to frequently change their mind to run their narrative. Then, your either dealing with a manipulator, an emotional basket case, or someone who suffers mentally....
@@osamaqtaitat some time we feel love can change the way a person treats you but if a person is mentally unstable their is almost nothing you can do to change that
Good morning. Thanks for your insight and knowledge . I'm in a relationship that I'm not sure what is going on. These tips help me to identify some things I didn't understand. You are a blessing.
I love the last solution to dealing with manipulative women: learn to say NO. That has saved me so much integrity. Even if you decide to say YES, its better to first say No, than to say YES initially and later change it to NO. Jessica is a good at discussing this relationship matters,
I've encountered this just this month and I'm out of that relationship... Jessica you're really doing a very good job, your research is superb and accurate and your tips helps a lot.
Thank you so much, I am in the same boat and trying very hard to leave because we have children. It's been many years of perseverance with a hope that things will change😢
Listen, every day you stay with him, is a day you lost with your children. You can change that by asking legal advice now. Have him removed, ask for alimony and child support. You are going to feel way better than you are calling the shots in your life. Your children are going thru the abuse with you both now. Give them a chance to have a life without abuse!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
I believe no one can manipulate or try to control anyone if they love them.. if someone tries such behaviors, just run for yo life coz I believe LOVE is just being free and enjoying each other.
I hear ya - LAVY! This is a good example why you have to be very careful who you get involved with - because they could possibly ruin your life, and the career that you’ve worked so hard for. You have to pay really close attention early on in the relationship, to see if you can spot any red flags before it’s too late. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
OS thnx dia all are true bt, on solutions side mi have done 2 of them, Thinking and questioning her a lot for her munipulate and Saying no at times for her requirements this made mi to learn manage her characters of munipulate, fooling and lying mi of wlc at times I catch her she apologizes for her mistakes, this made her fear mi and always respectful to every thing shes gona do when am out of home, thnx dia so much 👍👍👍💥💥🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
She hit a lot of points. One is saying NO narcissistic women hate that word and they'll call you names, expose their hands, I found out a lady was cheating on me all because I said NO.. She spazzed out. She confirmed everything I had always suspected
Absolutely amazing 🤯 this sounds exactly like my last relationship for more than a 8 years. I was gaslighted and manipulated, been apart now for three years and still trying to reprogram my mind from all the toxic… you’re always on point by the way 🥰. Have a wonderful weekend!
I'm a year out from 13 years of it. Wasn't left with anywhere to go and had to just stick it out. Hoping it's just S.T.O.P. enjoyed good days, waited out bad days was the routine..
@@daviedood2503 Facts 💯... You need to be happy with your self before you can make anyone else happy. There are many women out there, It's just a matter of when you are ready and willing to start another relationship. Honestly I'm happy being single at the moment, could be for a long while. Peace out bro ✌
@@t-panda808 same man. I'm not getting involved with that 80% divorce rate. I'm just glad I didn't have children with her nor marry her. I'd be up a creek with no paddle. 😂
I just heard about this Channel and I believe that it's definitely a channel that men need to have. I've seen a lot of men manipulated over the years and it makes me so sick. I'm the type of person who does not like to see anyone being manipulated but I find that women tend to do it more than the opposite sex and have caused a lot of grief in not only men's lives but even in the Church, workplace, etc. I firmly believe that mothers need to teach their sons what to look out for but most do not. I appreciate this channel.
You speak systematic, calm and clearly. Besides the wonderful contents, it's such a pleasure just to listen to your presentation. Kind regards. Izak Van Der Merwe (Cape Town)
I've been a widower for almost 6 yrs after 30 yrs of being happily married. I tried dating a yr ago after meeting what I thought was a honest, sincere, woman. We seemed to have a lot in common. Three months into the " relationship " I saw her flip and reveal her real personality. She bad mouthed everyone including her own kids, she was extremely self centered and wouldn't compromise on the smallest of things. Everything had to be her way. Her opinions were the truth and if I disagreed, I was wrong and " unstable" for thinking the way I do. Sex was one of her favorite weapons. Not only did she with hold it, she had to have her pleasure and did and when she got hers .. sex was over. At the four mth mark, I ended the nightmare, changed my number and set her stuff on the porch. I gave dating a shot and I don't think I want to play those games again.
Great thanks, Jessica! you are on point...... however I have one thing to comment on here....and... that is, your beautiful and sweet voice, coming along with a great command of the English language ... I really enjoy listening to you.
Great piece! It's about time our society (Ghana) especially get to know these manipulators (narcissistic sociopaths/personality disordered beings, etc) exist, the serious (mostly permanent) psychological damages they can cause and how to identify them.
Thank you so much for releasing this video. I have identified several women who are in my life that use the manipulative strategies that were highlighted to either force me to do what they want or to degrade/emasculate me. Please keep doing what you are doing Jessica OS 🙏🙏🙏
@@serenitysmith352 agreed. It wasn't my intention to come across as misogynistic, it just so happens that the two main people who have relied on these strategies happen to be females.
Great channel and very useful recommendation, many thanks for your efforts, may i ask when setting up the mirroring device you mentioned that it has to use the same Apple ID Account (child one), but does it need the same SIM card and number ? i.e. i have to set up the two devices one after the other using same Apple ID, SIM card then do the recommended setting changes thanks *JOHNSON SPY* for the phone spying
Can't stop appreciating *Johnson* for putting an end my sleepless night. Finally i can read my husband msgs without him knowing. Thanks for the great service
Great message with a thorough analysis of the whole game played on most of us till we became aware of what was really happening, Hmmmm eye Asem ooo. Thank you very much Jessica
My ex have all this, I thought I was wrong leaving her, I thought I was wrong thinking she is manipulating, but the fact is that I wasn't happy at all, she made me act crazy hitting walls cause I don't want to hit her, now I know I made the right decision leaving her
Thank you Jess. I must say I am truly been manipulated for some time now , I have waisted my Time, Money and Emotions on this woman I am currently dating. Most things you mentioned are evident, I see that most times. I think I have a clear stand now on how to deal with it cause it has been affecting my mental health for almost 6 months now. I truly appreciate your work and advices . thank you. Regards, Newman ~God bless you~
@@isaacaryeetey9862 Men die early for so many reasons such as 1) Most of them are older than their wives. 2) Stress from work ,life or even society 3) Men have more dangerous jobs women and could run into accidents 4) Men have more secrets to cover up , especially the unfaithful ones and are sometimes over stressed from these. 5) Men don't take care of themselves, they are used to people taking care of them and picking up after them and the list goes on.
Great insight and spot on.. I just left a manipulative gaslighting user...single mothers seem to hone this skill to extract resources..she never denied sex..but did nothing else for me..often dissappearing..lame excuses..never really contributing anything to move the relationship forward ..just taking and paying with sex..transactional cold indifference..i finally woke up and walked...she never deserved me to begin with..her luck ran out..sad life..
Though your title describes manipulative women it is, as you also mentioned, the traits of manipulative people. I’ve had and seen men do EXACTLY the same thing. I’m not a woman, but i’ve seen a manipulative character up close. Instead of tears used by manipulative women, it was an outburst of rage on an object by the man, to get the outcome they desired without compromising. Compromising is the key word. ANYONE wishing to get me to do something with little to no compromise about my objection, is manipulative. “Thank You!” for sharing this. ❤️🖤💚
Glad I am free from an emotionally abusive relationship. God!! Thanks for putting my experience into proper context Jess💅💅 Now I know for sure that I made the right call😇
I have been into such relationship. She used emotional blackmail, sex, always wanting me to prove I loved her while she wouldn't do anything of such, easily bursting into tears at any slightest argument.
I missed a number of your inspirations , but just know i admire your work, your inspiring, keep doing it...its worth watching. Soon i will on your panel!
Whenever I listen to Jessica I see the other version of today’s woman(feminist extremist).If she really does what he preaches then I can say men should be careful with women of that type--I mean take them seriously when you have one. For this version of women they really take their men very seriously. Whatever a man requires in a relationship they never disappoint. But be ware! They are independent and can’t be trampled on just like that. Women who advises men to open their eyes on women men should not be taken for granted. I know many women disapprove what she stands for , especially in this generation. But women Jessica is not ANTI-WOMEN. Her brain is of different calibre. I LOVE YOU JESSICA. Keep keeping up what you are doing. Only some few mothers would even give this weapons to their sons.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
This girl recently started calling me sweet names, I knew she is about something. I kept quiet for two days and she got obsessed to convince me coz I refused to talk to her even when I went to buy things where she works. Later she told me she is pregnant, I congratulated her and said she will become a mother. She was very surprised coz she thought I would panic. So later she asked money for abortion and I told her that I never assist people in killing unborn babies. She got sick and asked a break off work. Now she realized she wasn't pregnant but also I wasn't dumb. She is afraid I will never return to her once caught a liar. most women can be very dramatic.
One day I was minding my own business than I came across your channel. At first, your beauty attracted me to watch your very first video because damn you are BEAUTIFUL! Than I realized your content surpassed your beauty long story short, I truly admire your content. Genuine love, From East London South Africa.
the most annoying part is there is nothing you gain from such women and relationships you only get used, manipulated and tormented using the love you have for her against you. i keep wondering how women can use a man so rough for years bcs he loves her without feeling pity. but what they dont know is love is a spirit and once you abuse love wait for pay back. i thank God i know this all long once they cant control,use or manipulate you for their satisfaction come and see anger and hate from them. most importantly if her friend is ising her boyfriend anyhow and she cant use you like that some will go diabolical but it is ok let her try if you know how to keep God's law. innocent people need to wake up and stand strong these days satan move through opposite sex to destroy them.
I want to become a member but I can no longer afford even $3. I fell into the trap and i'm in so deep I gave up everything. So much that I am a heart transplant patient and even though I will die if I miss more than two doses of my medication, I can no longer afford them. She has me so that I can't even leave. We're married and I can't afford separation or divorce. If I leave I gotta carry a 100 pound bag and my closest walk will take 3-4 hrs. I'll be dead before I can make that. I put all I would and could ever have into her and our marriage and as a result there is nothing left for me. I am now a dead man walking. I have to take and comply with anything she does, says or wants so I can survive long enough to get myself straight and then leave. I was smart enough to keep all texts and proof of what she's doing and done which when I'm finally positioned I can divorce her for emotional and mental cruelty. I'm praying I make it to that point. Don't know what to do now. Warning to all you manipulated and gaslighted out there. If you think it ain't that serious, read this again.
I can honestly say none of these things work on me. When it comes to women, I do what I want when I want they can take it or leave it, and I act that way because that seems to be the attitude of women these days! I’m unapologetic for things I feel strongly about because who is a woman to tell me I’m wrong about my opinions. The only female I ALLOW to manipulate me is my granddaughter and that’s comes from a place of me loving her and letting her get away with it to a certain extent, not because of stupidity. I have a big chip on my shoulder when it comes to modern women so I don’t let them get away with any of the dumb shit they try! But if they are truly good respectable women they don’t have to use manipulative tactics and there aren’t many I’ve known a couple and those are the ones I treat right!
Marry for 30 years the last 6 years was the worst She withholding sex or Any intermatcy So I just ignored her Now she said I'm gay 😪😪😪 Now she try to get intermate I just said no I told her to save it for her next life I don't really care anymore
I am gone past that stage where a woman cries or insults me or withhold sex to get me to do something. The simple thing is to learn to say NO when necessary and stick by it, it works.
I had a female friend whose abusive behaviour made me permanently end our friendship. She became too demanding, manipulative, erratic, emotional, she would call and text 30 messages a day. I got fed up and spent 3 months saying no more communication. She still sends emails. My advise to the ladies, if you see a successful, desirable, humble, good gentleman. Refrain from emotional tests and have patience in communication. You can scare good reliable guys away.
KP.True.Its important to understand the heart can be desperate and treacherous at times.Jer.17:9. Understanding principles in the bible to protect yourself and learn what love is.
They tell you that you're being insecure when you confront them about their negative behavior. Also the "if you loved me, you'd..." And "All you want from me is sex"
All her points were great! The one thing I don't agree with what she said was about not taking life seriously. I take life very seriously because we only get one and we are not promised tomorrow. But we have to have balance also and not enjoying this beautiful life that was giving to us can cause significant trauma in our lives. Can't take life so serious that we don't have fun and enjoy it. But also not being so loose with life to the point we take it for granted and not appreciate it.
❤😂 you said it all ..they complain insecure when you confront them . My partner will always complain that all I want is SEX! I feel bad cos is not true , I just need that bonding but at a point I learnt to damn the sex , unless she wants it but it's not SAFE to the relationship..what do u think ?
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
What do I do,I have a Kid with a big manipulator, currently I moved out of my rented apartment for her,she has children before we started and she also lied about her age, emotionally, physically and financially I have invested on the relationship, discovering all these on my own am losing it,what do I do😭😭😭😭
Am 25,but it seems she's close to 40 she lied about her age, almost everything!!
I Just Love You Soo Much.
God bless you for us
What about she call you a next man’s name?? 😓
Thanks for the eye opener
I'm so glad there is a women saying all this, because if a man made a channel like this, he would be pushed over the edge
As a woman this is teaching me to do better in my relationship and be mindful of my actions. Thank you
Good disposition
This message is to recognize your contribution to the team’s tracking and spying success. Your commitment had been exemplary and your hard working is an inspiration to everyone around you. You’re a professional *johnsonspy*
Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
Thanks
Quick question. Can the manipulation be also sub-concious most of the time
I don’t know how I learnt all these traits without ever having listened to anyone teach me them. Watching Jessica break them down just as I thought of them gives me the confidence that there is something about my thought and observation that is unique and it may be a gift. I am a student of life and by just observing human behavior and psychology which for me is a deep subject matter in the game of life, I have be able to self-teach myself by observation.
same here.....i'm thankful to God for such. Im so quick to pick and thwart them
Media movies and the united comradeship of Oprah and Tyler Perry.. I thought Beyonce would be that good influencer but Beyonce is a woman of the highest quality... marriage, career, and a nuclear family unit.....she obviously was not easily lead astray. Oh yeah and she's pro-black . Love her no Cap
You must be a Gemini I guess
Same here. Thanks to Jessica for confirming it
@@OpanaKSofficial 😂😂😂😂😂
Jessica, I have experienced fellow pastors encourage wives to use the very tactics on their husbands. Thank you for this clarity.
Wow!!!!
The part where you said, "Never take things @ face value, think clearly before you act"....it sunk in deeply...
Second wife very manipulating an extremely pleasant with it. on my side was 23 years of experience with her. Year two of marriage I knew what she was doing and told her it was not needed but to talk to me. When she didn’t talk I decided that enough was enough. She became violent even tried to get me arrested. Had an order to keep me out of my own home.
Divorced in April 2016. Have built n improve myself since.
Love yourself enough to say no without hurting them (emotionally) if you can. She still tried to manipulate her way into getting part of my tax refunds after more than a year apart. Some are extremely violent and deadly when they can not get their way. 🌷
I've seen these situations, where the person who you thought was your best friend, can turn into your worst enemy, BE CAREFUL........
Top 7 Baby!.. Jess keeps it real..No BS here..the truth and nothing but the truth..She cares about her subbys..God Bless You for spreading the knowledge..most appreciated my friend. Enjoy your weekend. 🙏. Lets get this lady to 100,000 and beyond subs..she deserves it..
They have been dealing with us, thank ma’am for all these revelations.
Your voice, energy and presence is so calming!
With great power comes great responsibility. She could manipulate and get anything from a guy, but uses her wisdom for good.
Bravo
Ever since I started following this channel I decided to chill love and work for my self
I was once controlled but then i learnt to value my self and moved on, thankyou Jessica
🙌
Thank you I wi don't want to but I will
I love it when you say ‘MY GUY’ . JOS , it pains me a lot of Africans don’t have access to your wealth of wisdom. I need to be with you. 💋
Daniel, you're very right
@@ademolatolulope9444 you welcome
You’re almost at Judge Toler’s level. Keep sending these videos. I’m getting medicine from every video. 🙏🏽
Toler is a bias 🤡
This makes me think that getting into any relationship with a woman means entering into a power struggle.
It also makes me think that I should never take anything any woman says at face value. Sort of like if I hired a felon to help me with my business.
Its almost like its because it is those things.
@@Eans_urban_jungle A "no trust" situation
That’s how it is…
There'll always be that power struggle but a man has gotta be a man
I really appreciate this Jessie...
ones a guy do a great thing for a lady or some other things, she will be the most happiest woman on Earth...by the time you know it, she is carried away by her emotions...she starts doing stupid and crazy things...like calling you sweet names, things she has never tell you before...she becomes talkative...she is not her real self that moment... by the time you know it, you're being manipulated...you can be so deceived to the fact that, you'll do more more things for her...when you come back to your logical thinking,you regret and noticed you were trapped...Guys let be wise for women knows how to trap we guys...
I was badly manipulated emotionally and financially by the first woman i love! This will create a complex towards women, and honestly a lot of this are true! I was stupidly loving , innocent and honest! And i’m a pessimist mostly! These things reassure my pessimism!!
And that's what so hard about relationships, you have to figure out if your with someone who is real. But the trick is not to really listen to what they say (sometimes what they "verbalize" is part of the manipulation). it's their actions & behaviors that you have to watch. They can tell you anything, but if they are not following through, can't keep their promises, and like to frequently change their mind to run their narrative. Then, your either dealing with a manipulator, an emotional basket case, or someone who suffers mentally....
It’s the suffering mentally that a lot of us feel we can change but not knowing mental illness is real
@@tristansharp1624 I don’t understand
@@osamaqtaitat some time we feel love can change the way a person treats you but if a person is mentally unstable their is almost nothing you can do to change that
A lot of good information here. Thank you for posting!
Good morning. Thanks for your insight and knowledge . I'm in a relationship that I'm not sure what is going on. These tips help me to identify some things I didn't understand. You are a blessing.
Mannn
Your explanations are flowing and excellent, thank you
This is exactly what is happening to me now. Thanks for your advice. God bless you
Jessica you are smart, Intelligent and very eloquent.You hit the nail right on the head
I love the last solution to dealing with manipulative women: learn to say NO. That has saved me so much integrity. Even if you decide to say YES, its better to first say No, than to say YES initially and later change it to NO. Jessica is a good at discussing this relationship matters,
I've encountered this just this month and I'm out of that relationship...
Jessica you're really doing a very good job, your research is superb and accurate and your tips helps a lot.
The "Silent Treatment" is also a manipulative tactic.
My long distance fiancé is the opposite calling 100 times
That’s a big red flag 🚩 fr
Real talk, thanks for keeping it real, we need more men studying the word of God.
I needed it! Thanks Jess🙏🏽
I love your presentations. ❤
Jess is always on point. Insightful! 💯
Thank you so much, I am in the same boat and trying very hard to leave because we have children. It's been many years of perseverance with a hope that things will change😢
Listen, every day you stay with him, is a day you lost with your children. You can change that by asking legal advice now. Have him removed, ask for alimony and child support. You are going to feel way better than you are calling the shots in your life. Your children are going thru the abuse with you both now. Give them a chance to have a life without abuse!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
I believe no one can manipulate or try to control anyone if they love them.. if someone tries such behaviors, just run for yo life coz I believe LOVE is just being free and enjoying each other.
I hear ya - LAVY!
This is a good example why you have to be very careful who you get involved with - because they could possibly ruin your life, and the career that you’ve worked so hard for.
You have to pay really close attention early on in the relationship, to see if you can spot any red flags before it’s too late.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Mehn 💥
💯🎯✅
veery veerryy true💯💯💯💯💯💯💯❤
This woman speaks the truth and is worth listening to.From an old white guy.
Honestly the manipulation in my relationship is getting worse every day and I'm fed up.
Thank you for your advice
i feel the same way😭😭
My advice is to leave. I made the mistake of putting up with it, since I didn’t know I was being manipulated. I blame myself for it everyday
Same 😭 I have been dealing with this for years but I just don’t want to leave my daughter.
@@mostlysimple sorry
Man I been stuck for 10 years cause I dont wanna leave my babies, but Im miserable 😭😭😭
OS thnx dia all are true bt, on solutions side mi have done 2 of them, Thinking and questioning her a lot for her munipulate and Saying no at times for her requirements this made mi to learn manage her characters of munipulate, fooling and lying mi of wlc at times I catch her she apologizes for her mistakes, this made her fear mi and always respectful to every thing shes gona do when am out of home, thnx dia so much 👍👍👍💥💥🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
I needed this particular one all along....great job Jessy...Nigeria
never knw Jessica had this much presence on RUclips ..OMG!! Girl uve been working
she close to a Mill Subs.. Big Ups!!
She hit a lot of points. One is saying NO narcissistic women hate that word and they'll call you names, expose their hands, I found out a lady was cheating on me all because I said NO.. She spazzed out. She confirmed everything I had always suspected
wow..crazy
You did the right thing all it takes two lettered word "no". And watch their actions you have achieved in staying in your power.
#4... i know it as "if...then" statements. You describe it so accurately. Its so destructive.
This is right, I've faced this emotional blackmail from ma somebody...
Love you sissy. I have been a victim of the above twice and I regret I did not respond well. Now I know . Thanks a lot.
Absolutely amazing 🤯 this sounds exactly like my last relationship for more than a 8 years. I was gaslighted and manipulated, been apart now for three years and still trying to reprogram my mind from all the toxic… you’re always on point by the way 🥰. Have a wonderful weekend!
I'm a year out from 13 years of it. Wasn't left with anywhere to go and had to just stick it out. Hoping it's just S.T.O.P. enjoyed good days, waited out bad days was the routine..
@@daviedood2503 That's a long time, stay positive man.. wishing you peace and happiness from here on out.
@@t-panda808 thanks man. Just focus on u. Never feel guilty for choosing YOU especially FIRST. Who cares if u put YOU over some chick first.
@@daviedood2503 Facts 💯... You need to be happy with your self before you can make anyone else happy. There are many women out there, It's just a matter of when you are ready and willing to start another relationship. Honestly I'm happy being single at the moment, could be for a long while. Peace out bro ✌
@@t-panda808 same man. I'm not getting involved with that 80% divorce rate. I'm just glad I didn't have children with her nor marry her. I'd be up a creek with no paddle. 😂
Wish you were around years ago. Learned so much, and everything you touched on is so factual.
You nailed it Jess! 100% spot on🎯
Thank you!
Jessica did her homework, she never disappoints, I have been here before 10k Subs
I just heard about this Channel and I believe that it's definitely a channel that men need to have. I've seen a lot of men manipulated over the years and it makes me so sick. I'm the type of person who does not like to see anyone being manipulated but I find that women tend to do it more than the opposite sex and have caused a lot of grief in not only men's lives but even in the Church, workplace, etc. I firmly believe that mothers need to teach their sons what to look out for but most do not. I appreciate this channel.
You speak systematic, calm and clearly. Besides the wonderful contents, it's such a pleasure just to listen to your presentation.
Kind regards.
Izak Van Der Merwe
(Cape Town)
I've been a widower for almost 6 yrs after 30 yrs of being happily married. I tried dating a yr ago after meeting what I thought was a honest, sincere, woman. We seemed to have a lot in common.
Three months into the " relationship " I saw her flip and reveal her real personality.
She bad mouthed everyone including her own kids, she was extremely self centered and wouldn't compromise on the smallest of things. Everything had to be her way. Her opinions were the truth and if I disagreed, I was wrong and " unstable" for thinking the way I do. Sex was one of her favorite weapons. Not only did she with hold it, she had to have her pleasure and did and when she got hers .. sex was over.
At the four mth mark, I ended the nightmare, changed my number and set her stuff on the porch.
I gave dating a shot and I don't think I want to play those games again.
This is what happens after the honeymoon period- for many women. The mask comes off. Proceed at your peril.
Stay away from single Mothers
I have subscribed to this channel a while ago.. Atlast I just bumped into a video that says 90% of my relationship.. Ubarikiwe sana Jessica..
Talk about tears Jessica . That is the most used tactic among many women to manipulate men. Thank you Jessica preciate
Jessica, you are admirable. A good teacher and leader. Bravo.
Never have I come here & left uninformed ♥️🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Great thanks, Jessica! you are on point...... however I have one thing to comment on here....and... that is, your beautiful and sweet voice, coming along with a great command of the English language ... I really enjoy listening to you.
Great piece!
It's about time our society (Ghana) especially get to know these manipulators (narcissistic sociopaths/personality disordered beings, etc) exist, the serious (mostly permanent) psychological damages they can cause and how to identify them.
AMEN HALLE'LU'YAH!!!
This is a good video, I like your content.
You are giving out the truth about toxicity in relationships, so kudos for that.
Thank you so much for releasing this video. I have identified several women who are in my life that use the manipulative strategies that were highlighted to either force me to do what they want or to degrade/emasculate me. Please keep doing what you are doing Jessica OS 🙏🙏🙏
No
@@serenitysmith352 agreed. It wasn't my intention to come across as misogynistic, it just so happens that the two main people who have relied on these strategies happen to be females.
Thank you so much for strengthening my spirit. I definitely found myself in it. You just removed fears in me.
You are so welcome
This is so sad & she is so right that is why I don't want a relationship I rather be single....
You are really filling the mind that I have been trying to find true
Great channel and very useful recommendation, many thanks for your efforts, may i ask when setting up the mirroring device you mentioned that it has to use the same Apple ID Account (child one), but does it need the same SIM card and number ? i.e. i have to set up the two devices one after the other using same Apple ID, SIM card then do the recommended setting changes thanks *JOHNSON SPY* for the phone spying
Can't stop appreciating *Johnson* for putting an end my sleepless night. Finally i can read my husband msgs without him knowing. Thanks for the great service
Great message with a thorough analysis of the whole game played on most of us till we became aware of what was really happening, Hmmmm eye Asem ooo. Thank you very much Jessica
My ex have all this, I thought I was wrong leaving her, I thought I was wrong thinking she is manipulating, but the fact is that I wasn't happy at all, she made me act crazy hitting walls cause I don't want to hit her, now I know I made the right decision leaving her
I have to leave!!! I have had enough
My sister, thank you for shading light on this topic....
Thank you Jess. I must say I am truly been manipulated for some time now , I have waisted my Time, Money and Emotions on this woman I am currently dating. Most things you mentioned are evident, I see that most times. I think I have a clear stand now on how to deal with it cause it has been affecting my mental health for almost 6 months now.
I truly appreciate your work and advices .
thank you.
Regards,
Newman
~God bless you~
It is well
Many guy I now understand why most of the fathers die and leave the mothers behind so much stress hmmmm
God help men🤦🏼♂️
@@isaacaryeetey9862 Men die early for so many reasons such as
1) Most of them are older than their wives.
2) Stress from work ,life or even society
3) Men have more dangerous jobs women and could run into accidents
4) Men have more secrets to cover up , especially the unfaithful ones and are sometimes over stressed from these.
5) Men don't take care of themselves, they are used to people taking care of them and picking up after them and the list goes on.
Great insight and spot on..
I just left a manipulative gaslighting user...single mothers seem to hone this skill to extract resources..she never denied sex..but did nothing else for me..often dissappearing..lame excuses..never really contributing anything to move the relationship forward ..just taking and paying with sex..transactional cold indifference..i finally woke up and walked...she never deserved me to begin with..her luck ran out..sad life..
Though your title describes manipulative women it is, as you also mentioned, the traits of manipulative people. I’ve had and seen men do EXACTLY the same thing. I’m not a woman, but i’ve seen a manipulative character up close. Instead of tears used by manipulative women, it was an outburst of rage on an object by the man, to get the outcome they desired without compromising. Compromising is the key word. ANYONE wishing to get me to do something with little to no compromise about my objection, is manipulative. “Thank You!” for sharing this.
❤️🖤💚
Thank you Jessica for these info. You're doing great. Keep it up.
Glad I am free from an emotionally abusive relationship. God!!
Thanks for putting my experience into proper context Jess💅💅
Now I know for sure that I made the right call😇
Your films are great since they're really instructive for men, thus I like viewing them.
Very insightful. Thanks Jessica!
Keep up with the great work.
Am binge watching you videos! Thumbs up and subscribed!
Awesome! Thank you!
I have been into such relationship. She used emotional blackmail, sex, always wanting me to prove I loved her while she wouldn't do anything of such, easily bursting into tears at any slightest argument.
I missed a number of your inspirations , but just know i admire your work, your inspiring, keep doing it...its worth watching. Soon i will on your panel!
It's amazing how @Jessica is well informed 🥰
Super talk, I now understand how it works..
Thanks, all the way from Tanzania.
I love everything about your content Jess...
Can't wait to meet you IRL someday 😌😌
u are amazing jessica u made me feel good i just got out a bad relationship and u made me feel great
My favorite on this one🥰🥰As usual.
Alpha males will not fall for any of these manipulations for the most part. Great videos and I am always learning. I will subscribe to this channel.
cute .
Nonsense. Literally every guy can get got.
Shit. Play these games with me I'll step out or leave. Because I know wussup. It's pure bullshit
@@daquanmcdonald7104 MY MAN!!
Whenever I listen to Jessica I see the other version of today’s woman(feminist extremist).If she really does what he preaches then I can say men should be careful with women of that type--I mean take them seriously when you have one. For this version of women they really take their men very seriously. Whatever a man requires in a relationship they never disappoint. But be ware! They are independent and can’t be trampled on just like that. Women who advises men to open their eyes on women men should not be taken for granted. I know many women disapprove what she stands for , especially in this generation. But women Jessica is not ANTI-WOMEN. Her brain is of different calibre. I LOVE YOU JESSICA. Keep keeping up what you are doing. Only some few mothers would even give this weapons to their sons.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
This is another beautiful piece, am most grateful dear
This girl recently started calling me sweet names, I knew she is about something. I kept quiet for two days and she got obsessed to convince me coz I refused to talk to her even when I went to buy things where she works. Later she told me she is pregnant, I congratulated her and said she will become a mother.
She was very surprised coz she thought I would panic. So later she asked money for abortion and I told her that I never assist people in killing unborn babies. She got sick and asked a break off work. Now she realized she wasn't pregnant but also I wasn't dumb. She is afraid I will never return to her once caught a liar.
most women can be very dramatic.
One day I was minding my own business than I came across your channel. At first, your beauty attracted me to watch your very first video because damn you are BEAUTIFUL!
Than I realized your content surpassed your beauty long story short, I truly admire your content.
Genuine love,
From East London South Africa.
i appreciate this. Thanks for the feedback too Amzile
the most annoying part is there is nothing you gain from such women and relationships you only get used, manipulated and tormented using the love you have for her against you. i keep wondering how women can use a man so rough for years bcs he loves her without feeling pity. but what they dont know is love is a spirit and once you abuse love wait for pay back. i thank God i know this all long once they cant control,use or manipulate you for their satisfaction come and see anger and hate from them. most importantly if her friend is ising her boyfriend anyhow and she cant use you like that some will go diabolical but it is ok let her try if you know how to keep God's law. innocent people need to wake up and stand strong these days satan move through opposite sex to destroy them.
Wonderful advice from a Wonderful lady, thanks and God bless you!
Jessica Os is a well-loaded relationship expert and one of the best I've seen so far. I enjoy your lectures ... Keep it up!!!
Every word you say is truth Mam. Keep your good work going. Thank you goodness.
I want to become a member but I can no longer afford even $3. I fell into the trap and i'm in so deep I gave up everything. So much that I am a heart transplant patient and even though I will die if I miss more than two doses of my medication, I can no longer afford them. She has me so that I can't even leave. We're married and I can't afford separation or divorce. If I leave I gotta carry a 100 pound bag and my closest walk will take 3-4 hrs. I'll be dead before I can make that. I put all I would and could ever have into her and our marriage and as a result there is nothing left for me. I am now a dead man walking. I have to take and comply with anything she does, says or wants so I can survive long enough to get myself straight and then leave. I was smart enough to keep all texts and proof of what she's doing and done which when I'm finally positioned I can divorce her for emotional and mental cruelty. I'm praying I make it to that point. Don't know what to do now. Warning to all you manipulated and gaslighted out there. If you think it ain't that serious, read this again.
It is well with your soul. Be strong pls
@@omoobaalana I'm so strong 💪 I'm still here however I'm not stronger than the chains I'm bound with YET. I'm doing push ups lol 😆
Manipulation is a very subtle thing, very clever spirit. Severe Observation is needed.
I can honestly say none of these things work on me. When it comes to women, I do what I want when I want they can take it or leave it, and I act that way because that seems to be the attitude of women these days! I’m unapologetic for things I feel strongly about because who is a woman to tell me I’m wrong about my opinions. The only female I ALLOW to manipulate me is my granddaughter and that’s comes from a place of me loving her and letting her get away with it to a certain extent, not because of stupidity. I have a big chip on my shoulder when it comes to modern women so I don’t let them get away with any of the dumb shit they try! But if they are truly good respectable women they don’t have to use manipulative tactics and there aren’t many I’ve known a couple and those are the ones I treat right!
Modern women? Women from all generations do this 🙄
That's right Take it or leave it
Go and took away her ring, you know the things.
Let's take away.
I heard in the most. Worse way
What should I do now
@@91toinfinity Facts! I just think modern women are worse.
This one end my problems already. Thanks
Marry for 30 years the last 6 years was the worst
She withholding sex or Any intermatcy
So I just ignored her
Now she said I'm gay 😪😪😪
Now she try to get intermate
I just said no
I told her to save it for her next life
I don't really care anymore
Relax. Sit down with each other and talk it out. Try 100% to make your marriage work again. Happily
30 years broe....please see if there's a way to solve it sometimes the unwise don't believe they need to learn
Wow,"Rip as in you were like save it for the next life". 😭😭😭😂
Why didn't you leave her before?
I am gone past that stage where a woman cries or insults me or withhold sex to get me to do something. The simple thing is to learn to say NO when necessary and stick by it, it works.
Great channel Jessica Os, continue the good scripts in relationship
Thank you! Will do!
Jessica
Why do wives deny their husbands SEX?
@@benjaminokine65 They like using it as a bargaining tool in anything they want to accomplish.
I had a female friend whose abusive behaviour made me permanently end our friendship.
She became too demanding, manipulative, erratic, emotional, she would call and text 30 messages a day. I got fed up and spent 3 months saying no more communication. She still sends emails.
My advise to the ladies, if you see a successful, desirable, humble, good gentleman. Refrain from emotional tests and have patience in communication.
You can scare good reliable guys away.
Thank you very much Jessica.. this is an eye opener
You will not even realize you’re been manipulated when you madly in love. Love is a scam sometimes
Yes human love is a scam.
You have to know the difference between human and godly love
KP.True.Its important to understand the heart can be desperate and treacherous at times.Jer.17:9. Understanding principles in the bible to protect yourself and learn what love is.
Very honest!! Thank you so much for your insight about this.
They tell you that you're being insecure when you confront them about their negative behavior.
Also the "if you loved me, you'd..."
And "All you want from me is sex"
All her points were great! The one thing I don't agree with what she said was about not taking life seriously. I take life very seriously because we only get one and we are not promised tomorrow. But we have to have balance also and not enjoying this beautiful life that was giving to us can cause significant trauma in our lives. Can't take life so serious that we don't have fun and enjoy it. But also not being so loose with life to the point we take it for granted and not appreciate it.
"If you love me you'd.. " every guy has heard these words😆.
Women ain't shyyyt.
❤😂 you said it all ..they complain insecure when you confront them .
My partner will always complain that all I want is SEX! I feel bad cos is not true , I just need that bonding but at a point I learnt to damn the sex , unless she wants it but it's not SAFE to the relationship..what do u think ?
This is a library 📚 of its kind, big up OS
*Emotional blackmail
*Sex
*Excessive compliments
*Need for Love proof
*Dramatic statements
*Just joking always
*Croc' tears.....
Wow.... Just Subscribed😍
Yes this video did help me I knew exactly what you were talking about right away.