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Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
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Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my BF and i gave him 2nd chance but my emotions for him is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with him bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Johnsonspy
Love nowadays is scam. My woman has all of this category listed here and we are still trying to settle back once again but now i think am lucky to watch this video. May God bless you Jessica
Thank you so much dear. The girl I'm reaching out and consider to become my wife has all the five but mostly flirting with other guys and doesn't want any of my people to know her. So money minded after showing me signs of relationship interest . Ignoring her for days now has brought her sorrow especially when she's other ladies coming around to buy goods from my business. I'm very grateful Jessica. ❤️🤝
2021, Feb 26. I ended my relationship because my girlfriend was talking to many other guys, and i mean many. We had discussed it many times before and she told me im overreacting, im insecure, im controlling, but to scare me off from raising the issue again she told me that im abusive and she knew for sure ill take her very seriously if she said that, thats the day i knew for sure that my feelings dont matter to her, and that she can do or say anything to make her flirting tendencies seem right. It was hard for me to call it quits because i had fallen in love with her, but yes i had to do it and ever since i have seen myself happier than i was when i was still with her.
Sadly enough I am in that phase right now. My new girlfriend still communicates with her ex I believe ex husband and tells me she doesn't. But I just saw today that the dm back and forth. I had already asked her to please kill it, and there are still guys in her dm and her reaction to them as well. Really feel like that's not alot to ask someone to stop doing in a relationship.
I spent 3 years being single and was celibate for 14 months through covid. NO social media from 2015-present and im a non drinker so the bar scene wasn't my thing. In the midst of being lonely and depressed I told myself that this was my chance to become better for myself, and not for anybody else. Finally I found a girl who does not exhibit any of these behaviors and I've never been so happy my entire life! 🥰
@@25-8 She happened to be one of my best friend's cousins, which made me nervous at first because I didn't want to loose a good friend if anything didn't work out, but I suppose it was destiny! And I'm still very happy with her.
It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!
Oh my, you learn something everyday. I learn to stand back, just watch her and don't be so forth coming of your asset's that you have. There are good and bad women out there, but don't be so into her that you neglect your self and the type of women you are looking for.
When your in a serious relationship you wake up every morning and say too yourself what can I do for this person too make her day better and she does the same thing what can she do too make your day better .Not what can I do to make My day better
I am 38yo divorcee. And I've never cheated on a single person in my entire life. But I've been cheated on in every relationship including my marriage. Looking back at it. Whenever I was a teen and young adult... I wasted a lot of time being committed to people who were loose with their loving. "For lack of a better term" And as I reflect... I had no business being serious and committed in any relationship. Should have been friends and played the field like everyone else. But instead I was mature and wanted a future with the women who I dated. Unfortunately they wanted to explore their options. And I was left holding the bag. Even in my marriage. I'm starting to lose hope with being with a woman as loyal as myself. Because look how well that worked out for me in my marriage. I was ready to settle down. But my ex wife just wanted a status. I've been cheated while I was dating my ex-wife... while I was engaged to my ex-wife... and during our entire marriage. Meanwhile I've never looked at another woman once. But hey... That's life. I'm doing better without a cheater dragging me down. I can focus on me and my career. One good thing that came out of our failed marriage is. We don't have any kids in common. So I don't have to deal with her whatsoever. So I consider myself blessed for not being tied down to someone who's into entertaining multiple males while being married to me. Dodge that bullet... And counting my blessings
As an older man, if I could go back in time to my 20's, I'd immediately move out of the US and marry a women who wasn't American. Women from many other countries still value men.
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
I Absolutely Hate when people Flirt when they are in relationships!! To me, it is disrespectful. Secondly, I think Flirting is a way of trying to sniff out someone they may be interested in. I do not consider Flirting as "just innocent"
Flirting , if the girl is married , is not an innocent gesture but an intentional show of interest which will lead to something destructive to her marriage ! Cheating will result to the ff : scandal , breakup and the worst killing !
They say we learn from our own mistakes kkkk The other one actually taught you how to be in a relationship you should thank her for that kkkkk just kidding
I am that attention seeker woman. And that has caused me to emotionally cheat several times. Not proud of entertaining other men but like Jessica said, we need that reassurance. FELLAS just Becuz you got her doesn’t mean the work stops. We still want to feel wanted and appreciated just like the first time you laid eyes on us. ANYYWAYY God Bless y’all AMEN
I think “doesn’t mean the work stops” is the wrong choice of words. A relationship isn’t a job and if you have to try to hard you’re probably not right for each other. I get your overall point though.
I 50/50 agree because a man can do everything and still get cheated on it can be that one thing he doesn’t do like maybe not spend time with you because he has to work to pay the bills and we get upset and go emotionally cheat out of boredom or something 😢
What a very sensible lady. I think there is a lot of good advice here, and I do not think any apology is needed for such sensible and well balanced views
I can't put in to words, how much of a Blessing you are! They say we don't realize how Blessed we are until the Blessing is gone! I hope my brothers and sisters see what I see! People like you only come along every century! Many Blessings my sister! REAL!
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You brought out some great points but married men and women only cheat when their routine changes. Married people don't have the time to cheat because they are trying to make what they have work so they have a routine. I'm not talking about boring things, I'm talking about the time couples spend with or away from each other. I don't mean to be lengthy but here is an example. A guy I know was paid to break up a married couple by the sister who didn't like the bride. He was paid $150 everytime he took this woman out on a date. Bit the husband and wife worked but their hours were different. She part-time real-estate usually get home before he did but it change when she met this guy. First she met him at the gym and they talked mind you pictures were taken of the two interacting. The routine never changed until he invited himself to one of her open houses. She was late getting home but she lied about why. Then they went out to lunch and she was late again, he decided to invite her to play basketball the next time they were at the gym. So she wore her sport bra and shorts and like all through their meeting pictures were taken of then hugging, him kissing her on her cheeks. The pictures were given to her husband again she was late and he asked her why. Yes she lied again. He showed her the pictures and her first words were "Let Me Explain". Her defense, were you spying on me? It was innocent but she lied because she knew what she was doing her husband might not approve. They never had sex but she was so comfortable with him she flirted back. They got a divorce after that even when he found out his sister set his wife up. He didn't marry the woman his sister wanted him to marry. Here's my point, people in relationships especially married people won't meet IG models unless they are setup too. They just don't have the time and when the routine is broken and excuses start, its a good chance they are with someone else.
Great video. Add to that list the woman with low self esteem, who later develops the absent wife syndrome. That's the woman who is married to a man who although tries to give her attention will be cheated on still because she is constantly daydreaming about her exs, office colleagues or any random guy who smiles at her. The issue is not that she lacks attention, the issue is no amount of attention can fill the void of low self esteem that is beneath her need for attention.
Yup I knew a woman like that. No amount of attention her husband gave was enough. She cheated on him with multiple men and he still stayed. They been married 10 years. Some guys have no self worth neither
I knew someone like this. ALWAYS wanted serious attention and tried to keep me over all the time, but what was significant to me was that she was very low self esteemed and very passive aggressive. Just blamed all other men (most specifically exes and her father) for all of her issues. And even just blamed others for all inconveniences. The need for attention is ridiculously strong and if I’m not in their sight, they go ghost to try to play us. Luckily, it’s best to just fight fire with fire until it’s all over. Also had a spending habit, used to party, airdrop pics at parties and just HU with many different men, but tries, till this day, to keep it secret and not talk about it, when you know the real colors of them.
@@techsprint4122 this the kick here. She came up with a story that she suffers from PTSD and her and her husband started going to therapy and now she is labeled as hypersexual. So now when she cheats her husband knows it's because of her "condition". Smh at that point u just got to blame the man for being stupid
Why would you still be looking for what you have at hand... eiiiii. Basically women are insatiable 🤦. Pls take note people, it's related to both women and men🔥. Thanks Jessica 👏❤️
Really good info as usual. Never ever ask her for her phone or messages she receives.. It makes you look insecure as hell.. Have a few plates around so if she cheats, you'll thank her she has saved you time.
That overly friendly flirting been there especially at work,with coworkers my last relationship ended this way when she finally got caught up so yeah all facts in my opinion!
Ms. Jessica hit it on the nose with not bringing or inviting the man to public outings and still doing social media while so-called committed to U. I like the fact she did not mention intimacy as a factor at all and just pointed out certain characteristics that she might be creeping on U!
Jessica, you are a breath of FRESH air!! Soooo many people get caught up in thinking that men are the only cheaters in the world. I've known/seen many women being untrue to their "significant" others only to still have the blame for this infidelity be put on the man. Thanks for telling the REAL story about some females! I dig your coolness, classiness and truthfulness!!!!!!!!!!!!!
👍🏻 Some need female to female pulling on actions then again seen messages some men would never get to see awful sad times. Its like they wanna get away with all kinds and put on croc tears. Some damaged men out there. These online social apps just all fake, can lead bad choices.
And again the woman who still maintain a great deal of closeness with her EXs even after you guys have started dating. Just a matter of time the Okafor's law will come into play.
They also like to spring the "we are just friends" nonsense as an excuse to have male friends. Hellooo: There is no "friendship" between a man and woman that will not ultimately lead to sex - unless the man is gay or a blood relation.
This is not true if you are better at what she was not getting from him. Which is attention. Validation. Same with a man that will stop cheating or being a ladies man. Wecwantvto be the Apple of each others eyes.
Amen sister ! You've just opened the eye's of a lott've blind men's like myself who have been hurt and I wasted time hoping that this was the right woman for me ! Hoping she'd change her malicious ways ? But like you said ? When she's with him .he's only making her s--t look good while her other man gets a full course meal ! And he gets sloppy seconds ! Thanks again sis ! And god bless and be safe !
Really enjoyed this video and many other video's you've done. I was raised in a Christian home and grew up with Christianity. All the girls I would date were from church. Everyone of those girls cheated on me. I decided to change my life and leave those girls alone. Since then, haven't been cheated on. Not saying every Christian is a cheater. Nor trying to start anything, but I feel like this should of been included with your list.
Lolol. I never dated dudes in church. It is not about being churchy. I find ppl who have a high sense of ethics/moral values better than churchy ppl. My parents are not religious but they are the most loyal couple I know. That is why when I dont even consider churchy ppl at all
@@aeiou0123 yes. I learned my lesson. Since I left that life and lifestyle. Things have been so much better for me. Not only that, they are more truthful than those so called Christian. Thank you for making me feel that I'm not alone in my opinion on cheating Christian.
Jess,thanks for the Forensics on Relationships...! Unapologetically, I say,of course, you've heard it from so many persons,but this is my version... Jess, you're SMART, BEAUTIFUL AND JUST COOL...!
I watched this video and I agree you made some points worth reflecting on. I have particularly dealt with woman number 4. She didn't show me off and later broke up with me amongst other signs. I enjoyed the video. Weldone.
All you say make me so happy Im alone , dont want or need this drama in my life. I used to try the dates apps and spent a good bit of money, but gave all that up 10-15 yrs ago and am happier for it.
This lady is well versed with women's character. She's excellent everything she said my gal ain't in the list but she craves attention and even complains I ain't giving her attention. I promise to up my game
I love what you have to say about flirting!! It’s so dangerous! There is no such thing as “innocent flirting “ if you are married or in a committed relationship!! As Jessica said, “Why??” What’s the purpose or intension?? To what end?? Furthermore, what kind of message does it send to the person who you flirting with??To them it means “I might be available.” Then what happens when that person walks by and slips you a note with his/her phone number ?? Maybe you’re going through a tough time with your partner, and one day you pull that number out and dial it. I think we all know the rest of the story! If you’re totally single, flirt away! And oh, by the way, make sure the person that you flirt with is also totally single!!
If you don't want to get cheated on stay away from relationships, when you agreed to get involved getting cheated on is a big possibility ppl mind change like the weather, temptation is everywhere..
1 of the hardest characteristic to master is self-control. A person who is in tune with themselves emotionally, mentally & physically will know self-control and understand right from wrong when in a committed relationship. 🍷😊
You are amazing, I'm older than you, but you've reopened my eyes. I've been passing your knowledge to my nephew, who's growing up to be a good man. I'd wish I'd had this information when I was younger
Kenyan men are the most faithful of all men in Africa according to a recent survey.....we tend suffer a lot because the other gender is always cheating
I agree sis with eveythi you said. However, these traits also apply to both genders. It sucks to meet men and women of Intergrity and of moral values. In all of these, love exists and people of good heart do exist too.
Every thing u said about in this video were bang on. One of the most well reaserched & facts about women cheating. So glad I found your channel. Keep posting such things.
This is an invaluable advice to any man who want to get and maintain a durable and healthy relationship with a woman. One of the secrets to long life and prosperity.
😂😂😂 @ type #1 - very low loyalty. Jessica, I just started listening to you a few days ago and I am all ears. keep pouring our phenomenal wisdom. Blessings always.
This our generation ankasa mobile money, smart phones and the internet has spoilt things for us🤦🏿♂️ it’s sad. Cause I witnessed how our parents used to going about this things back in the days and it was nice..I like how you said attention😹
🇯🇲 Any female with at least two of those tendencies should have as her medical care-giver, a Pediatrician & is worthy of a baby-sitter. She's better suited for the world of PG13 & parental consent. Many of us men assign our name of endearment "Baby" for the dual reasons of our protectorate role and the childlike temperments of some women, even beyond child-bearing.
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Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
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Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my BF and i gave him 2nd chance but my emotions for him is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with him bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Johnsonspy
Love nowadays is scam. My woman has all of this category listed here and we are still trying to settle back once again but now i think am lucky to watch this video. May God bless you Jessica
Thank you so much dear. The girl I'm reaching out and consider to become my wife has all the five but mostly flirting with other guys and doesn't want any of my people to know her. So money minded after showing me signs of relationship interest
. Ignoring her for days now has brought her sorrow especially when she's other ladies coming around to buy goods from my business. I'm very grateful Jessica. ❤️🤝
Jessica, I dated all these girls and got rid of them all. You are one smart girl.
2021, Feb 26. I ended my relationship because my girlfriend was talking to many other guys, and i mean many. We had discussed it many times before and she told me im overreacting, im insecure, im controlling, but to scare me off from raising the issue again she told me that im abusive and she knew for sure ill take her very seriously if she said that, thats the day i knew for sure that my feelings dont matter to her, and that she can do or say anything to make her flirting tendencies seem right. It was hard for me to call it quits because i had fallen in love with her, but yes i had to do it and ever since i have seen myself happier than i was when i was still with her.
Sadly enough I am in that phase right now. My new girlfriend still communicates with her ex I believe ex husband and tells me she doesn't. But I just saw today that the dm back and forth. I had already asked her to please kill it, and there are still guys in her dm and her reaction to them as well. Really feel like that's not alot to ask someone to stop doing in a relationship.
Guess i really find one woman thats stand out for the guys. You are that eye opener thumbs up .
She’s right you see those that seek attention are so annoying they feel like drop everything for me and they are also so selfish it always about them
We Jamaican men need to sit at the feet of this beautiful and Intelligent lady from Mama Africa. Really leant a lot. Thanks Jessica.
I spent 3 years being single and was celibate for 14 months through covid. NO social media from 2015-present and im a non drinker so the bar scene wasn't my thing. In the midst of being lonely and depressed I told myself that this was my chance to become better for myself, and not for anybody else. Finally I found a girl who does not exhibit any of these behaviors and I've never been so happy my entire life! 🥰
Finally a comment that takes accountability! Hope you and your love continue to grow.
Happy for you bro! 👍🏾✊🏾
so glad to hear it man!
Congratulations how did you find her
@@25-8 She happened to be one of my best friend's cousins, which made me nervous at first because I didn't want to loose a good friend if anything didn't work out, but I suppose it was destiny! And I'm still very happy with her.
It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!
Oh my, you learn something everyday. I learn to stand back, just watch her and don't be so forth coming of your asset's that you have. There are good and bad women out there, but don't be so into her that you neglect your self and the type of women you are looking for.
Jessica, Jessica, has anyone told you that your voice is powerful!! No forced accent, just pure eloquency and command!!!
When your in a serious relationship you wake up every morning and say too yourself what can I do for this person too make her day better and she does the same thing what can she do too make your day better .Not what can I do to make My day better
She's just absolutely right...I hv dated all sorts of women of such character she explained...
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House? 💯 In 2 yeah she paid. 100 pounds for kicking BNI in Europe its question. She will die 🎲. She never thought?
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Type 4 made me smile, it just makes it easier for one to detach if and when necessary.
Honestly lol number 4 I already knew she was a pick meshia with that one. I’m single until engagement period
“You are Nana Yaa Asante Waa of Love indeed”!
I am 38yo divorcee. And I've never cheated on a single person in my entire life. But I've been cheated on in every relationship including my marriage. Looking back at it. Whenever I was a teen and young adult... I wasted a lot of time being committed to people who were loose with their loving. "For lack of a better term" And as I reflect... I had no business being serious and committed in any relationship. Should have been friends and played the field like everyone else. But instead I was mature and wanted a future with the women who I dated. Unfortunately they wanted to explore their options. And I was left holding the bag. Even in my marriage. I'm starting to lose hope with being with a woman as loyal as myself. Because look how well that worked out for me in my marriage. I was ready to settle down. But my ex wife just wanted a status. I've been cheated while I was dating my ex-wife... while I was engaged to my ex-wife... and during our entire marriage. Meanwhile I've never looked at another woman once. But hey... That's life. I'm doing better without a cheater dragging me down. I can focus on me and my career. One good thing that came out of our failed marriage is. We don't have any kids in common. So I don't have to deal with her whatsoever. So I consider myself blessed for not being tied down to someone who's into entertaining multiple males while being married to me. Dodge that bullet... And counting my blessings
Traveled that same road my friend.
As an older man, if I could go back in time to my 20's, I'd immediately move out of the US and marry a women who wasn't American. Women from many other countries still value men.
Try a kenyan woman and you will cry and get depression those women are daughters of jezebel my friend risk and cry later
Filipina women are the best!
Take a Muslim woman. And you have loyalty
If you want to go with other culture. Be able to handle the culture. I Know. Have kids with 4 African women
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Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
I Absolutely Hate when people Flirt when they are in relationships!! To me, it is disrespectful. Secondly, I think Flirting is a way of trying to sniff out someone they may be interested in. I do not consider Flirting as "just innocent"
Amen, emotional cheating = cheating
You are spot on. Actually the "lust" for flirting with others than your partner is the very first step of cheating. :)
Myself and my wife flirt. We have a very strong bond and trust each other more than anything. It’s just fun sometimes.
Flirting , if the girl is married , is not an innocent gesture but an intentional show of interest which will lead to something destructive to her marriage ! Cheating will result to the ff : scandal , breakup and the worst killing !
@@paulfool8728 Only problem is.. That it is the women with a ring on who are the easiest by far, to get laid with.
My Ex is qualifying in all 5 categories, thank God the one i have now is nowhere among the 5, big up sis Jessica
You are still knowing each other, tell us next year kkkkk
@@SamuelMalo Hahaha nooo we are already in two years and she knows very well why i separated with my ex b'se she knows her
They say we learn from our own mistakes kkkk
The other one actually taught you how to be in a relationship you should thank her for that kkkkk just kidding
This comment cracks me up 😂😂😂
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I am that attention seeker woman. And that has caused me to emotionally cheat several times. Not proud of entertaining other men but like Jessica said, we need that reassurance. FELLAS just Becuz you got her doesn’t mean the work stops. We still want to feel wanted and appreciated just like the first time you laid eyes on us. ANYYWAYY God Bless y’all AMEN
Once I get a woman undressed....no attention you will ever get afterwards. That's how it works for most men.
I think “doesn’t mean the work stops” is the wrong choice of words. A relationship isn’t a job and if you have to try to hard you’re probably not right for each other. I get your overall point though.
And what attention do you give for your guy?
Excuses 😑 if I gotta work that hard then you not the 1 for me respectfully
I 50/50 agree because a man can do everything and still get cheated on it can be that one thing he doesn’t do like maybe not spend time with you because he has to work to pay the bills and we get upset and go emotionally cheat out of boredom or something 😢
What a very sensible lady. I think there is a lot of good advice here, and I do not think any apology is needed for such sensible and well balanced views
I wish that I had found that type of woman on the first go. A virtuous woman is good to find.
Well said, I have to say this is very accurate. Use your instincts and read between the lines. Another name for woman #1 would be....The Gold Digger!
You just spoke the truth, especially point 1 and 3. U just spoke about my immediate past chic.
I can't put in to words, how much of a Blessing you are! They say we don't realize how Blessed we are until the Blessing is gone! I hope my brothers and sisters see what I see! People like you only come along every century! Many Blessings my sister! REAL!
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You brought out some great points but married men and women only cheat when their routine changes. Married people don't have the time to cheat because they are trying to make what they have work so they have a routine. I'm not talking about boring things, I'm talking about the time couples spend with or away from each other. I don't mean to be lengthy but here is an example. A guy I know was paid to break up a married couple by the sister who didn't like the bride. He was paid $150 everytime he took this woman out on a date. Bit the husband and wife worked but their hours were different. She part-time real-estate usually get home before he did but it change when she met this guy. First she met him at the gym and they talked mind you pictures were taken of the two interacting. The routine never changed until he invited himself to one of her open houses. She was late getting home but she lied about why. Then they went out to lunch and she was late again, he decided to invite her to play basketball the next time they were at the gym. So she wore her sport bra and shorts and like all through their meeting pictures were taken of then hugging, him kissing her on her cheeks. The pictures were given to her husband again she was late and he asked her why. Yes she lied again. He showed her the pictures and her first words were "Let Me Explain". Her defense, were you spying on me? It was innocent but she lied because she knew what she was doing her husband might not approve. They never had sex but she was so comfortable with him she flirted back. They got a divorce after that even when he found out his sister set his wife up. He didn't marry the woman his sister wanted him to marry. Here's my point, people in relationships especially married people won't meet IG models unless they are setup too. They just don't have the time and when the routine is broken and excuses start, its a good chance they are with someone else.
Women with Father issues are prone to this as well.
Thank you Jessica but I am 21 and happy SINGLE - No Ex and no Next , It is always better to not Gamble when you don't know what the result will be
Love you program
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And the table really got shook........ 👌🏾
Great video. Add to that list the woman with low self esteem, who later develops the absent wife syndrome. That's the woman who is married to a man who although tries to give her attention will be cheated on still because she is constantly daydreaming about her exs, office colleagues or any random guy who smiles at her.
The issue is not that she lacks attention, the issue is no amount of attention can fill the void of low self esteem that is beneath her need for attention.
You're saying something.
Yup I knew a woman like that. No amount of attention her husband gave was enough. She cheated on him with multiple men and he still stayed. They been married 10 years. Some guys have no self worth neither
I knew someone like this. ALWAYS wanted serious attention and tried to keep me over all the time, but what was significant to me was that she was very low self esteemed and very passive aggressive. Just blamed all other men (most specifically exes and her father) for all of her issues. And even just blamed others for all inconveniences. The need for attention is ridiculously strong and if I’m not in their sight, they go ghost to try to play us. Luckily, it’s best to just fight fire with fire until it’s all over.
Also had a spending habit, used to party, airdrop pics at parties and just HU with many different men, but tries, till this day, to keep it secret and not talk about it, when you know the real colors of them.
@@CookWithStephh She was probably good at hiding it. I ask myself why would they ever tell the truth.
@@techsprint4122 this the kick here. She came up with a story that she suffers from PTSD and her and her husband started going to therapy and now she is labeled as hypersexual. So now when she cheats her husband knows it's because of her "condition". Smh at that point u just got to blame the man for being stupid
A woman who keeps it honest... You are one in a million Jessica... Thanks and GOD BLESS YOU...
Hey Alot Of Men Cheat Too and I Always Tell Folks If The Situation Isn't Working Out The Best Thing To Do Is Break Up Then Move Forward To The Next.
Why would you still be looking for what you have at hand... eiiiii. Basically women are insatiable 🤦. Pls take note people, it's related to both women and men🔥. Thanks Jessica 👏❤️
Sis. More to the women.
@@stgreaterlight ..... and the men😉
@@sarahboakye7691 😂😂
@@minetv1323 🤩
True both men and women
This presenter is spot on. Well outlined Nubian Princess.
she is the Queen
She is one of the best and famous presenters in Ghana
@@agyapongdaniel nice to know
@@agyapongdaniel oh thanks..it's first time listening to her and I wanted to know where she comes from.
Really good info as usual.
Never ever ask her for her phone or messages she receives.. It makes you look insecure as hell.. Have a few plates around so if she cheats, you'll thank her she has saved you time.
😅😅😅 you’re right
That overly friendly flirting been there especially at work,with coworkers my last relationship ended this way when she finally got caught up so yeah all facts in my opinion!
Ms. Jessica hit it on the nose with not bringing or inviting the man to public outings and still doing social media while so-called committed to U.
I like the fact she did not mention intimacy as a factor at all and just pointed out certain characteristics that she might be creeping on U!
My love for your content has really grown, madam intelligent and authentic. Kenya is represented.
I love kenya 🇰🇪😍
@@JessicaOS you're welcome anytime, remember to travel with your bike.
I am a jamaican and love kenyan people,big up
@@dwightclarke246 welcome anytime brother. We love you Caribbeans too, you'll always be our brothers of descent.
@@dwightclarke246 She's a Ghanaian, not a Kenyan
Jessica, you are a breath of FRESH air!! Soooo many people get caught up in thinking that men are the only cheaters in the world. I've known/seen many women being untrue to their "significant" others only to still have the blame for this infidelity be put on the man.
Thanks for telling the REAL story about some females! I dig your coolness, classiness and truthfulness!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You’re absolutely right !! I said almost the same thing, but dealt with flirting when you’re taken ! Check it out!!😊
CLASSY!
👍🏻 Some need female to female pulling on actions then again seen messages some men would never get to see awful sad times. Its like they wanna get away with all kinds and put on croc tears. Some damaged men out there. These online social apps just all fake, can lead bad choices.
Yes 👍🏾
And again the woman who still maintain a great deal of closeness with her EXs even after you guys have started dating. Just a matter of time the Okafor's law will come into play.
They also like to spring the "we are just friends" nonsense as an excuse to have male friends. Hellooo: There is no "friendship" between a man and woman that will not ultimately lead to sex - unless the man is gay or a blood relation.
Yes bro I had the same experience
This is not true if you are better at what she was not getting from him. Which is attention. Validation. Same with a man that will stop cheating or being a ladies man. Wecwantvto be the Apple of each others eyes.
@Chizoba Ani 😆😆😆😆😆
Oya come and explain Okafors law
You hit the nail on the head. I never met her family members.
Amen sister ! You've just opened the eye's of a lott've blind men's like myself who have been hurt and I wasted time hoping that this was the right woman for me ! Hoping she'd change her malicious ways ? But like you said ? When she's with him .he's only making her s--t look good while her other man gets a full course meal ! And he gets sloppy seconds ! Thanks again sis ! And god bless and be safe !
I must confess that I've learnt alot since i came across your channel. Keep up the good work Ms. JESSY
Much love all the way from Nigeria!
Really enjoyed this video and many other video's you've done. I was raised in a Christian home and grew up with Christianity. All the girls I would date were from church. Everyone of those girls cheated on me. I decided to change my life and leave those girls alone. Since then, haven't been cheated on. Not saying every Christian is a cheater. Nor trying to start anything, but I feel like this should of been included with your list.
Lolol. I never dated dudes in church. It is not about being churchy. I find ppl who have a high sense of ethics/moral values better than churchy ppl. My parents are not religious but they are the most loyal couple I know. That is why when I dont even consider churchy ppl at all
@@aeiou0123 yes. I learned my lesson. Since I left that life and lifestyle. Things have been so much better for me. Not only that, they are more truthful than those so called Christian. Thank you for making me feel that I'm not alone in my opinion on cheating Christian.
Yoh... I’ve been cracking over the part U said, “... U are in deep trouble and no amount of praying can get U out.”
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Lol
@@JessicaOS u r wonderful sis. God bless u abundantly
Jess,thanks for the Forensics on Relationships...! Unapologetically, I say,of course, you've heard it from so many persons,but this is my version... Jess, you're SMART, BEAUTIFUL AND JUST COOL...!
I watched this video and I agree you made some points worth reflecting on. I have particularly dealt with woman number 4. She didn't show me off and later broke up with me amongst other signs. I enjoyed the video. Weldone.
Some women will show you off on some of her social media, simply to get at or hurt some specific guy out there
Good men need more Jessica's in their lives.
YES
Absolutely
This is a start to unite
Lol
Facts
You are awesome, I'm learning English from you as well as life lessons .
Thanks for this content i just leant my mistake no 1 to 3 was what i was into until my eyes 👀 was open
All you say make me so happy Im alone , dont want or need this drama in my life. I used to try the dates apps and spent a good bit of money, but gave all that up 10-15 yrs ago and am happier for it.
We know this,bring what we don't know and what kills us slowly.
So on point!I wish I'd known this two years back!All the same thanks alot,just confirmed and learnt alot
Right on I found out 4 years to late but these point are right on!!!
Nice one...we love you Jessica..from Kenya East Africa
Same here
repping the 254 too
I would call her the female version of Amerix
@@evansmboya1210 on some things.sometimes her biology kicks in.kumbe Hii mbogii ya Kenya tuko Kila mahali .
254 yoooh
Thankyou Jess, very informative content....Am all the way from South Africa.
This lady is well versed with women's character. She's excellent everything she said my gal ain't in the list but she craves attention and even complains I ain't giving her attention.
I promise to up my game
I'm very sure that so many ladies will surely fight JESSICA for exposing them
Now the table is unrepairable, thank you Jessica 🤣🙏🏾
😂😂😂😂
Jessica is genius.. We as Kenyan men appreciate your content 100%
Thanks 🥰😊
Hahhaha ....so true.
I support this post with a goat
Its a Kenyan thing to never subscribe to a channel this quick, i did it.
@@robertkinuthia7371 Hahaha. Why not though?
I love what you have to say about flirting!! It’s so dangerous! There is no such thing as “innocent flirting “ if you are married or in a committed relationship!! As Jessica said, “Why??” What’s the purpose or intension?? To what end?? Furthermore, what kind of message does it send to the person who you flirting with??To them it means “I might be available.” Then what happens when that person walks by and slips you a note with his/her phone number ?? Maybe you’re going through a tough time with your partner, and one day you pull that number out and dial it. I think we all know the rest of the story! If you’re totally single, flirt away! And oh, by the way, make sure the person that you flirt with is also totally single!!
You said it all Monica. I am experiencing it now.
Great, I think I have this also
I have noticed some women may feel their friends may take you away from them and may intend hiding you from them.
7:26 No amount of prayers? That got me!😂😂😂
Best part of the video
😆 🤣 😂 BARS
If you don't want to get cheated on stay away from relationships, when you agreed to get involved getting cheated on is a big possibility ppl mind change like the weather, temptation is everywhere..
Good point 💯
1 of the hardest characteristic to master is self-control. A person who is in tune with themselves emotionally, mentally & physically will know self-control and understand right from wrong when in a committed relationship. 🍷😊
Ain’t that the truth
True
Nah, you just gotta find a Chic that aint
a Smut🤨.
That a well made research from my sister. I recommend every man to hear this and decide for themselves 🤔🤔
You are genius Jessica thanks for the info
Men to thirsty
Thanks for sharing...i will definitely stay away from these men.
Sister ... I'm sending love to you .... I'm experiencing #2 & #3 right now ... you're confirming my thoughts ...
You are amazing, I'm older than you, but you've reopened my eyes.
I've been passing your knowledge to my nephew, who's growing up to be a good man. I'd wish I'd had this information when I was younger
Am watching from kenya great content everyday
Love your content,
Looks like you have massive support from Kenya.
I love kenya!!
@ARINDA JC not really we are just careful about ourselves
@@JessicaOS please visit us soon
@ARINDA JC don't start, it won't end well.
Kenyan men are the most faithful of all men in Africa according to a recent survey.....we tend suffer a lot because the other gender is always cheating
I agree sis with eveythi you said. However, these traits also apply to both genders. It sucks to meet men and women of Intergrity and of moral values. In all of these, love exists and people of good heart do exist too.
Nah some traits like "Attention" its doesn't apply on MEN . we don't put attention as priority on our relationships . RESPECT is on top to most men .
Thanks for sharing... Not a bad layout. This was pretty general and to the point.
Thank you Jessy.. You’re amazing
Every thing u said about in this video were bang on. One of the most well reaserched & facts about women cheating. So glad I found your channel. Keep posting such things.
Nice content I must confess, much love from Anambra in Nigeria
Oba people, how obi cubana and groups, I hear say u dey stone bundles of currency there
You're so well-spoken and have a very lovely voice.
This is an invaluable advice to any man who want to get and maintain a durable and healthy relationship with a woman. One of the secrets to long life and prosperity.
Knowledge is power. You are totally right with all you said!
Unfortunately it's extremely difficult to find the right person these days
Pretty much
You are right
Jessica is such a beautiful soul. My kinda of woman
You must be blind she very handsome
@@boldandnew crazy stuff lol
Wtf
Clown 🤡
@@flintvalentine4020 🕳
Jess you just rocked the boat with this one🤣.
Wow.... For so long I thought I was the problem
Seems I've been dating the wrong type of women all along
Thanks alot Jessica.... 🔥
😂😂😂 @ type #1 - very low loyalty. Jessica, I just started listening to you a few days ago and I am all ears. keep pouring our phenomenal wisdom. Blessings always.
Who would dislike this video ? Like absolutely why ?
The women that’s GUILTY of the behaviors Jessica is talking about.
Because they're the people who she's talking about. Or some weak simp who this apply too 😆🤣
Someone that's guilty of these things
Thank you for your video it showed me what I knew but I needed a woman’s point of view on it lol thank you 💯
You just described my last wife she was all of the above
Bro. I'm heading that way fast...
Thank God I discovered this and fled. Guys listen very well.
I appreciate you. This is a tough subject with much substance in each category.
The people disliking are probably these women 😂😂🚶♂️
Yep because they are the ones she's talking about
This our generation ankasa mobile money, smart phones and the internet has spoilt things for us🤦🏿♂️ it’s sad. Cause I witnessed how our parents used to going about this things back in the days and it was nice..I like how you said attention😹
Thank you, out of the 5 my ex has 4 of those qualities I didn't want to convince myself
This comment right here! 🙌🏽
Great thing you saw this vid
I like this lady, she is a very intelligent and matured lady. She has great content 👍👍👍
Thank you..that last advice made the whole video sensible 👏
Glad it was helpful!
This is to me is your best and most educative video of yours I've seen...the contents are quite apt and juicy.
Thanks Jessica, it was quite helpful
🇯🇲 Any female with at least two of those tendencies should have as her medical care-giver, a Pediatrician & is worthy of a baby-sitter.
She's better suited for the world of PG13 & parental consent.
Many of us men assign our name of endearment "Baby" for the dual reasons of our protectorate role and the childlike temperments of some women, even beyond child-bearing.
This is really a great lesson💯💯💯
Jessica I just want to say may God bless you strengthen you and keep you in all your doing
I got this one, truth is what you have spoken