Your intuition is 99% right. Don't gamble with your instincts. Be firm with your standards and authenticity, but don't be rude. If you're not comfortable with a particular development, don't entertain it. You may end up being a simp, hence losing your self-respect. Walk away and keep working on your well-being. You will surely meet someone who best suits your values.
*Pay attention to patterns - if her interest fades when you stop giving her what she wants materially or emotionally, it’s a sign she might be more focused on the benefits than the connection.*
She called me other day and said I'm really down cos had to go to 3 funerals this week( to get sympathy) but it's amazing how convincing she is and always draws me in with special tone of voice to make me part with cash again,never known someone to go to so many
For someone I know, sign 6 was the nail in the coffin, when the girl decided to go clubbing with her friends and not being in the wake of my friend's parent. Broke up after that.
So my ex always blames her depression on why she’s distant and the fact that I don’t have anybody so she doesn’t want to be a burden but i haven’t talked to her in a month, she hasn’t answered my text or calls but when she does contact me she usually does need help as of late. The last few times we talked she didn’t ask for anything she was checking on me but before those last few times I did give her money. Do you all think she’s using me? Or am I trippin? I mean she truly is in a bad place right now I know for an absolutely fact but why doesn’t she respond to me?
Bro to Bro Let her go. Move on and don't let her come near your life. Set that boundary and enjoy yr life......She's definitely using you and knows you'll allow it
Lol was in this situation this week .where the woman wanted me to give her money to get herself a cellphone she paid only 50rand an i had to give her two hundred an fifty .i didn't reply to her text that day an when i saw her on that day i asked her whose gonna be using that phone.then she said okay no problem etc .next day i got a texted saying this is boring i cant do this anymore 😂 well i was like just because i didn't give you money for the phone ...i played its cool an told her with all due respect you can leave i don't mind ...my people keep in mind ive only known her for 2 n ahalf weeks 😅 i told her no prob u can go .why must i spend on something im not gonna use ..was i wrong or right please tell me.
@demetriusjames9535 yes bro thank you so much for that . I felt disrespected in that case I can't let a person I just met just demend n feel in titled to what I worked so hard for ,n she just comes so easily n jst demend just like that
I'm currently in this situationship and right after watching the video I told the person that I can't do this no more and y'all guess what she said? 😂😂😂
Ps... Family are the worst .. I had two sisters and a nephew, I was always there for them, helping them out, dealing with their problems. And ever now and then they would be there for me, but not for long, they would come up with any and every exscuses. Until they stepped out of line. That was it for me, I disowned them, with zero to do with them
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Thanks so much. I really enjoyed your motivational speech
Your intuition is 99% right. Don't gamble with your instincts. Be firm with your standards and authenticity, but don't be rude. If you're not comfortable with a particular development, don't entertain it. You may end up being a simp, hence losing your self-respect. Walk away and keep working on your well-being. You will surely meet someone who best suits your values.
I wonder how jessica is always correct and straightforward , greatly appreciate your effort and advice.
*Pay attention to patterns - if her interest fades when you stop giving her what she wants materially or emotionally, it’s a sign she might be more focused on the benefits than the connection.*
Chairwoman of relationships .. 🙏🏽🙌🏾. 🐐
The brotherhood must employ u
I wish I had seen this back in March. But that's fine, it's never to late to learn. You just described my ex.
You are already free of her, at least. Lesson learned!
@demetriusjames9535 is it weird that I miss her?
Have you ever thought that the times are changing...
There isn't any room for relationships no more
It’s not only relationships that emotional manipulation is used. Family, work place, and church can be added to list as well!
How can I like this video more than once?? This is solid advice and truth.
I'm here again, Jess. You never miss.
She called me other day and said I'm really down cos had to go to 3 funerals this week( to get sympathy) but it's amazing how convincing she is and always draws me in with special tone of voice to make me part with cash again,never known someone to go to so many
Ooooh!!!! Jessica, this is so refreshing, amazing timing. How eyes opening this message is.
Thank you
God bless you Jessica continue the good works.
"Let this sink in" - That was golden!!!
I haven’t viewed the video yet but already love it
U just brought out everything about my Ex. Telling me things her dad will do if he was alive.
Always on point 👉. Thanks Jess
I’ve never clicked so fast 💨
@@LoyceFitness me to bro and number one hit the spot🤦🏾♂️
@ sip some water my Gee
Thank you for sharing Jess
She is a vampire..guy just make sure you feet are on your shoulder and run and never look back ...
A parasitic vampire
This video is so accurate ,been there 3 times
This one hit HARD.
Hello Madam Jess 🥰🥰
Thank's for Smart Narration💋💋
For someone I know, sign 6 was the nail in the coffin, when the girl decided to go clubbing with her friends and not being in the wake of my friend's parent. Broke up after that.
That is exactly how they behave
I just dumped one recently
Another great video
Truth is said men!
6:40
She’ll make you pay collateral damages for other people’s actions 😂
Jess is the best ❤❤😂😂
Thnx so much coach❤
classical Jessica
Thank you Jessica God bless you so much I need to hear this this what have been thinking about since morning thank you so much
Very true, Jessica.
I could care less I have 100% checked out of relationships and dating
@@mikewhite8170 brosky relax 😂😂😂
So my ex always blames her depression on why she’s distant and the fact that I don’t have anybody so she doesn’t want to be a burden but i haven’t talked to her in a month, she hasn’t answered my text or calls but when she does contact me she usually does need help as of late. The last few times we talked she didn’t ask for anything she was checking on me but before those last few times I did give her money. Do you all think she’s using me? Or am I trippin? I mean she truly is in a bad place right now I know for an absolutely fact but why doesn’t she respond to me?
Bro to Bro
Let her go. Move on and don't let her come near your life. Set that boundary and enjoy yr life......She's definitely using you and knows you'll allow it
Shalom my divine sister
We using each orther
Perfect 🙏❤️
😂awesome ❤
Lol was in this situation this week .where the woman wanted me to give her money to get herself a cellphone she paid only 50rand an i had to give her two hundred an fifty .i didn't reply to her text that day an when i saw her on that day i asked her whose gonna be using that phone.then she said okay no problem etc .next day i got a texted saying this is boring i cant do this anymore 😂 well i was like just because i didn't give you money for the phone ...i played its cool an told her with all due respect you can leave i don't mind ...my people keep in mind ive only known her for 2 n ahalf weeks 😅 i told her no prob u can go .why must i spend on something im not gonna use ..was i wrong or right please tell me.
You were ABSOLUTELY in the right! I am of the mindset that men do not give women money unless the woman is committed to the man.
@demetriusjames9535 yes bro thank you so much for that . I felt disrespected in that case I can't let a person I just met just demend n feel in titled to what I worked so hard for ,n she just comes so easily n jst demend just like that
Jessica is my girlfriend…. She just doesn’t know it yet😆😍😅🤷🏾
First viwer ❤❤❤
Say something about genotype please
Yes 😭😭😭, so what should I do 😢
I'm in this, I really need help Jessica please 😭😭
Run
@SpencerSoyemi should I tell her, or I should just leave without letting her know.
Scary stuff
I'm currently in this situationship and right after watching the video I told the person that I can't do this no more and y'all guess what she said? 😂😂😂
She said Okay 😂
Wetin the mumu talk?
@francisgkmamuzu5048 😂😂😂😂
Ok, say your mumu don finally do😪
She said , I need this or that. Blank stare
Thanks for the advice
Tq ❤
Life
Is this relate with depressed girl too???
I think dat me
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Ps... Family are the worst ..
I had two sisters and a nephew, I was always there for them, helping them out, dealing with their problems.
And ever now and then they would be there for me, but not for long, they would come up with any and every exscuses.
Until they stepped out of line. That was it for me, I disowned them, with zero to do with them
It's not just women who do that. It can be your male friends that use you.
I was used a lot in my younger years, and now I have zero to do with them