When she's about to cheat, she does these things

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  7 месяцев назад +17

    Catch a cheating partner by checking out this secret recorder: Link to the KT1000 secret recorder: knightsecurity.io/products/mini-voice-recorder-and-mp3-player?rs_ref=d3qtY4gZ

  • @jameslee-uk4pm
    @jameslee-uk4pm 2 года назад +1051

    Men have a problem noticing things sometimes. When we do and we ask a simple question we get slapped in the face with an argument about trust. She's cheating.

    • @oraciojuarez8055
      @oraciojuarez8055 2 года назад +31

      Can you please explain this to me I'm actually kinda going threw something like this man ...

    • @doctordef324
      @doctordef324 2 года назад +3

      @@oraciojuarez8055 bro, if she's acting suspicious, back off, talk to other women... if you know your girlfriend has cheated, then treat her like a hoe until you finally dump her... use her up then jump ship... be heartless not heartbroken!!!!😎😎😎😎😎😎😎 it's so many single ladies out here to pick from!!!!! Be a KING!!

    • @JustinFreedom33
      @JustinFreedom33 2 года назад +7

      @MRFADED1x  💯

    • @oraciojuarez8055
      @oraciojuarez8055 2 года назад +65

      I ended it the other day found out she was setting times on her calendar and deleting the private videos

    • @Itsmeagain12345
      @Itsmeagain12345 2 года назад +8

      @@oraciojuarez8055 😳

  • @elotoca
    @elotoca Год назад +300

    As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .

    • @aaravzoc1979
      @aaravzoc1979 Год назад +3

      If you ask them or confront them straight out without evidence they will deny it absolutely, If they are cheating on you *Johnsonspy* can help you get backdoor access to your spouse cell phone.

    • @jamesguiberteau6607
      @jamesguiberteau6607 Год назад +4

      Did she cheat on you while you were in combat?

    • @nifoob977
      @nifoob977 Год назад +5

      @@jamesguiberteau6607 mine did! lol she left a message while sleeping with him and moaning as a humiliating thing while I was in Iraq

    • @daniele3000
      @daniele3000 Год назад

      Thank you for your service sir 🙏

    • @corneliussatcher6735
      @corneliussatcher6735 Год назад

      @@aaravzoc1979 what do I need to do to get that johnsonspy

  • @HelloRajugaming123
    @HelloRajugaming123 6 месяцев назад +119

    Your work speaks volumes of the kind of man you are. efficient, organized and result oriented well done , Dale Valskov you're soo good at what you do

  • @okowrightbalaxy7237
    @okowrightbalaxy7237 Год назад +327

    Some women don't deserve faithful men.

  • @rehmatullha3309
    @rehmatullha3309 6 месяцев назад +224

    Dale Valskov . I really appreciate your efforts and dedication towards the work. May God bless you to keep showing your worth and skills like this in the future

  • @jayramhk1074
    @jayramhk1074 6 месяцев назад +113

    It's amazing what you do Dale Valskov We need a lot of people with your skills and set who have good intentions and spread love

  • @Gufran105
    @Gufran105 6 месяцев назад +132

    As a person and professional you couldn't get any better than Dale Valskov is a very reliable person and an excellent professional in the IT field. He is the type of person you want to work that's passionate, hardworking and knowledgeable. You’re The Best 100%

  • @TanishKumar-iz8hx
    @TanishKumar-iz8hx 6 месяцев назад +113

    The efficiency of this Dale Valskov is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work jack!!

  • @arush7169
    @arush7169 6 месяцев назад +112

    Congratulations, Dale Valskov I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs, We musttake every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to You!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.

  • @yawampofo8529
    @yawampofo8529 2 года назад +2604

    If a lady cheats,to me the relationship is over.

    • @kennedymprah3172
      @kennedymprah3172 2 года назад +33

      Yes man Mr Ampofo

    • @GoEunbeol_049
      @GoEunbeol_049 2 года назад +68

      And what if a man cheats?
      Just asking 🤦

    • @kennedymprah3172
      @kennedymprah3172 2 года назад +292

      @@GoEunbeol_049 if the man cheats the relationship continues its normal my dear. 😆😅

    • @dedetetteh2167
      @dedetetteh2167 2 года назад +82

      @@GoEunbeol_049 both men and women are human beings and are capable of getting hurt by a cheating partner. And so I’ll say; if your partner cheats on you, and you can’t forgive(which is capable of causing lots of problems for both of you should you choose to continue the relationship) please walk away. Period!!!

    • @dedetetteh2167
      @dedetetteh2167 2 года назад +45

      @@kennedymprah3172 it’s abnormal! No one is immune to pain. Women are not immune to pain.

  • @FoeMondo
    @FoeMondo 2 года назад +177

    I just shed a tear but I already knew this day was coming so I’m officially emotionally detaching myself. I will be happy soon

    • @hintixmotivation5852
      @hintixmotivation5852 Год назад +13

      I am doing the same thing too, I am checking out and also trying to work on myself and have fun in life! But my daughter whom I love so much is what hurts me the most, that she will be raised by a low value woman!

    • @mudd8844
      @mudd8844 Год назад +10

      Lifes short get to living

    • @treywilson4310
      @treywilson4310 9 месяцев назад +1

      You happy yet?

    • @allAdvise727
      @allAdvise727 8 месяцев назад

      I was seeing this girl since a year we are together, we both shared very good loving bond with each other she is very much fond of me❤ but out of nowhere she is talking to a man who is older age (45) for about month now and you know what happened that man purposely shared all his text messages involving kissing talks etc and he wants me to go away from her.. And when I saw the texts it just killed me from inside, should I continue with my gf or not, because after knowing this I'm feeling a bit different for my gf and if I do continue with her I'll loose the self-respect for me in my own eyes.. we both are in our early 20's..
      This older man is trying to destroy my relationship.. I'm very confused.

    • @ishida3730
      @ishida3730 8 месяцев назад

      Hope u doin well

  • @romarioalexander2445
    @romarioalexander2445 Год назад +45

    I've been watching these and I've never been more alert in my relationships. May the Lord protect this lady ❤

  • @vaseemJen-np2yr
    @vaseemJen-np2yr 6 месяцев назад +98

    It just kept glitching on me when I tried this video tutorial so firstly I would say thank you for the video and secondly, thank you Dale Valskov meeting you was a blessing in disguise keep up with the good work I'm sure a lot of people will be needing your assistance iin the nearest future after seeing this

  • @SanjayThakur-og1sw
    @SanjayThakur-og1sw 6 месяцев назад +62

    Account of mine also got hacked and I followed the method as explained in this video but I'm unable to proceed after recording the selfie video. Thank you Dale Valskov . It brings me immense joy to witness his name appearing frequently in comments, a clear indication of the commendable work he’s been doing.

  • @davidbarnard1409
    @davidbarnard1409 Год назад +103

    When you're married you must not have opposite sex friends.
    My wife and I have that rule and stick to it . I don't mean FB friends. I mean friends who you can occasionally have coffee with . Or occasionally drive to work with.... Or friends who have similar hobbies that you do together. This creates risk. When a woman says "you can trust her" and she has these friends she really means . " I won't do anything.... But if something happens it's probably all your fault because I felt "abandoned emotionally" , "disrespected" , " you weren't present in the relationship",

    • @godfreyhamadziripi9595
      @godfreyhamadziripi9595 Год назад +7

      True

    • @garysavala665
      @garysavala665 Год назад +17

      No such thing as male friends just orbiters

    • @nicholasbuyoya4290
      @nicholasbuyoya4290 Год назад +3

      You can’t use a sugar cane for support without one sitting down and eating it….. what comes first orange colour or orange 🍊

    • @henrymaruni6758
      @henrymaruni6758 7 месяцев назад

      Very powerful principle. No such thing as opposite sex friends. Point is, theres almost no man who's not yr husband or immediate brother whos not masturbated with you in mind. Even cousins are a risk. Facts are stubborn

    • @1_THE_MAN_1
      @1_THE_MAN_1 2 месяца назад

      @@davidbarnard1409 A shoulder to cry on, becomes a dick to ride on.💯

  • @PramodRay-dl5hh
    @PramodRay-dl5hh 6 месяцев назад +112

    Honestly, Dale Valskov I'm amazed by your consistent ability to deliver exceptional work every single time. Your willingness to lend a helping hand during my time of need is deeply appreciated. Thank you for your support and kindness.. I take pride in your capability to overcome any challenge and consistently achieve outstanding results regardless of the circumstances.

  • @ReXlErick
    @ReXlErick 2 года назад +438

    Honestly I just found you and let me say it is a rarity to find a woman with so much logical sense and reasoning it’s astounding in this day and age.

    • @ZAY2TIMES.
      @ZAY2TIMES. 2 года назад +3

      BIG FACTS💯💯💯

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr 2 года назад

      I mean would you believe what most women say including her ? or go with intuition

    • @janiemaebeauty
      @janiemaebeauty Год назад +5

      A lot of you have women in your lives like your mother, sister etc who try to warn you about these types of women but you refuse to listen. It never ceases to amaze me that you have these women underneath your nose who can help you make better decisions but you all don't utilize them.
      Then complain after.

    • @Fred-ns1tl
      @Fred-ns1tl Год назад

      Women cab be dam smart! Don't ever underestimate them. Everyone can bring something to the table--even if they've made stupid decisions.

    • @adekeyebernard7899
      @adekeyebernard7899 Год назад

      A lot of sense of humour and kudos to Jessica. So eloquent and very inspiring to watch your videos ❤

  • @firegamer9185
    @firegamer9185 6 месяцев назад +114

    In both personal and professional realms, Dale Valskov shines as an outstanding individual. His work within the IT field consistently showcases reliability and excellence. Dale Valskov possesses a unique blend of passion, dedication, and profound knowledge that distinguishes him from others. His unwavering commitment to delivering exceptional results renders him an indispensable asset to any project or team.

  • @MosesNdualu
    @MosesNdualu Год назад +123

    When a woman cheat she will never tell the truth again

    • @derrickmoon3296
      @derrickmoon3296 3 месяца назад +7

      She swore on her kids life. Very low then I fould the email confirming it.

  • @REALflat1
    @REALflat1 Год назад +247

    Ive been all through this with my 2nd exwife. Despite all the intentional misdirection, lies, phone related lies, new clothing, non responsive texts, blatant lies with the help of a coworker, 1000's of new text messages on the bill but none on her phone....i caught on and caught her. Basically, if you have to play detective in your own marriage...its over. Divorce her ASAP and move on.

    • @kingsleyovuo7171
      @kingsleyovuo7171 Год назад +5

      My brother…marriage is not for you

    • @elijahfrancis9889
      @elijahfrancis9889 Год назад +15

      @@kingsleyovuo7171 what makes you the expert? With your hurtful comment...plz

    • @andreamcgehee5072
      @andreamcgehee5072 Год назад +1

      Then when men check it should be over... that's what us women go threw all the time

    • @Charmandurrrr
      @Charmandurrrr Год назад +8

      I feel you brotha, luckily I got out of there before marriage, but even after 7 months of trying to make things work with a master of deception and manipulation I finally gave up. She messed up my psyche for like 18 months

    • @jks3849
      @jks3849 Год назад +3

      Marriage is not for everyone

  • @deakdeagen938
    @deakdeagen938 Год назад +86

    Another tell tell sign is if a women suddenly changes her appearance. If she starts paying more attention to or wearing new/more makeup. If she starts to loose weight. If she starts wearing more revealing clothing. If she suddenly becomes overly interested in fitness. If she starts to investigate or mentions some sort of augmentation. If she has become unavailable in your relationship and is making changes to her appearance, she is trying to impress someone other than you.

    • @byanymeans214
      @byanymeans214 7 месяцев назад

      🎯💯

    • @Gonz3693
      @Gonz3693 6 месяцев назад +3

      Fitness really a sign?

    • @eddieanthony6886
      @eddieanthony6886 4 месяца назад +4

      @@Gonz3693 yes. She is trying to attract another man .

  • @kennethwallen5572
    @kennethwallen5572 Год назад +36

    I really like listening to Jessica! It is the unique clarity of her voice! She has a British accent,but it is light,and only adds to the pleasing sound of her voice. She perfectly pronounces every word,which makes it easy to understand everything she says! Thanks,Jessica,it is truly a pleasure hearing you talk!

    • @tomdebevoise
      @tomdebevoise Год назад +1

      So true, I am slightly hard of hearing she clips every syllable perfectly.

    • @kennethwallen5572
      @kennethwallen5572 Год назад +1

      @@tomdebevoise I too,have poor hearing! Maybe that is partly why I enjoy her voice! And I also like the way she doesn't talk so fast that her words seem to run together. Being a bit hard of hearing,I don't like it when someone is talking so fast,because it is usually difficult to break it down to individual words; a sentence often sounds like one very long word to me! I wonder if this lady has had some professional voice coaching at some point? But yes,I find her voice a pleasure listening to,I just wish more folks could speak in a similar manner! Good day to you,sir!

    • @slinux8420
      @slinux8420 Год назад

      😢

    • @dn30001
      @dn30001 5 месяцев назад

      Dale Valskov

  • @yokeesumo1955
    @yokeesumo1955 2 года назад +26

    Sometimes we see all these red flags but still, hang in hoping this person will change. Nice video from a deep beautiful voice of Jessica OS

  • @St_rajput_ff_20
    @St_rajput_ff_20 6 месяцев назад +116

    The TIME and EFFORTS you had put into this work that is beyond excellence . Take my cordial thanks! You are really an efficient, organized and result-oriented man. I haven’t seen such quality work in a long time. Great job, Keep it up.And i will make sure the world knows more about you and the good deed you have done for me, people like you Dale Valskov, with your help i was able to catch my cheating gf

  • @samuelmwariri5085
    @samuelmwariri5085 2 года назад +29

    To be honest, I don’t know how you manage to do such a good job every single time. Very well done! Jessica OS

  • @antonyndegwa6265
    @antonyndegwa6265 2 года назад +267

    The Signs in short:
    1. She's UNAVAILABLE without valid explanation.
    2. She constantly MENTIONS this NEW PERSON.
    3. She IGNORES you when around some people.
    4. She receives personal GIFTS from men.
    5. She is increasingly DECEPTIVE.
    6. She makes no SACRIFICES for you.

    • @tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229
      @tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 2 года назад +12

      Legend

    • @MrMr-pt8qj
      @MrMr-pt8qj 2 года назад +3

      Naona wakenya tunaumia haha

    • @antonyndegwa6265
      @antonyndegwa6265 2 года назад +2

      @@MrMr-pt8qj Haha itabidi tujielimishe mkuu. Wacha nikasikize amerix naye anasema nini hii sato lol.

    • @MeCanik79
      @MeCanik79 2 года назад +6

      These are just a few signs. At 42, I've seen all these and more.

    • @jeanstunt
      @jeanstunt 2 года назад +3

      🙏🙏🙏Thank you for your help ♥️🙏

  • @priyaginiupadhayay26
    @priyaginiupadhayay26 Год назад +45

    It’s amazing how I’m thinking about your subject matter in my head about my relationship and RUclips sends you to me. Actual AI mind reading but I digress. I’m glad you were sent to me in a time of uncertainty about my relationship and the change in actions about my woman. New subscriber. Thank you Jessica. I hope one day I can find someone as beautiful, natural and intelligent as you are. Peace Queen

    • @TheGintama86
      @TheGintama86 Год назад +2

      Its probably using ur cokkies and previous browsing to find videos that would interest u. Ur nrver alone when ur online buddy

    • @henrymaruni6758
      @henrymaruni6758 7 месяцев назад

      You just echoed my sentiment 😅

  • @asanteL
    @asanteL 2 года назад +167

    Her actions will tell you all you need know, If you have boundaries and she consistently violates them then just move on.

  • @victorjones7071
    @victorjones7071 2 года назад +233

    I had that happened in my young years; she met this guy, and started mentioning his name like a Hindu mantra, and of course, she said " He is just a friend, and if you trust me, you will not say anything." I did not say anything to show her my trust. Needless to say, she left with him. To this day, I do not tolerate male "friends". When she says I am being controlling, I say, "I would never control you, do what you want, however, I do not have to be part of it." It works well.

    • @hadzisaniii
      @hadzisaniii 2 года назад +19

      I hate Male friends

    • @Christopher._M
      @Christopher._M 2 года назад +7

      That's exactly the way.

    • @amlivinginhell
      @amlivinginhell 2 года назад +5

      this is exactly what i was dealing with until this month

    • @douglascampbell4993
      @douglascampbell4993 2 года назад +19

      No such thing as male friends, they are just orbiters.. 🤷‍♂️

    • @bishopmontel2
      @bishopmontel2 2 года назад +8

      Stand for something or fall for anything

  • @prasanthbelgur8467
    @prasanthbelgur8467 6 месяцев назад +116

    I'm literally overwhelmed, You are a blessing to the world. I can't thank you enough Dale Valskov for helping me with my account recovery. My prayers will always be with you and your team. Keep it up guys. Love from Maldives. There are many people out there I pray everybody get help.

  • @70s.x_
    @70s.x_ 2 года назад +562

    You saved me from my toxic relationship
    Thank you!

  • @invisibledreams5052
    @invisibledreams5052 Год назад +80

    She stays with you for security, until she gets guarantees from the other green side!

    • @evelyna_paula1747
      @evelyna_paula1747 8 месяцев назад +2

      What if it is marriage?

    • @RevealedFilms
      @RevealedFilms 2 месяца назад

      @@evelyna_paula1747same thing. Marriage and dating are no different to women

    • @allinspiriation6140
      @allinspiriation6140 2 месяца назад

      @@evelyna_paula1747 same thing. I have to friends who had wives that left them when they thought they found security

  • @Mark-g8m7e
    @Mark-g8m7e Год назад +15

    This woman makes more sense then all the rest put together. Thank you Jessica.

  • @emmanuelaluma5581
    @emmanuelaluma5581 2 года назад +95

    Jessica your content is so sound and enlightening. You're a massive resource person on relationships.

  • @hassanzorome7497
    @hassanzorome7497 2 года назад +15

    Great content JESSY listen from NY you’re authentic & genuine that’s why I like watching your video keep doing the good job.

  • @danielguido5115
    @danielguido5115 Год назад +28

    It's sad when you work so hard for something and it ends up falling apart. I'm going through it right now after sacrificing 10 years for her just for you to be let down. But what makes it so much worse is that I lost myself in the process allowing it so my kids could grow up with a family unlike I had

    • @mamanemcakesandtreats3974
      @mamanemcakesandtreats3974 Год назад +4

      I will keep you in prayer.

    • @michaellee4537
      @michaellee4537 Год назад

      I had everything before I met my gf and now I dont trust her but I. Have no friends left my family are out and we just fight 247 and if I ever catch her in a lie she calls me crazy

    • @moorshound3243
      @moorshound3243 4 месяца назад

      @@danielguido5115 don't worry dude you will be ok.

  • @roundball6592
    @roundball6592 2 года назад +9

    Thanks for this vid, you’re out here saving the hearts, time and money of men.

  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  2 года назад +372

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact you on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

    • @DrNio-sh5mx
      @DrNio-sh5mx 2 года назад +8

      I think you should do a video on this

    • @juniormarshallhastings723
      @juniormarshallhastings723 2 года назад +2

      12:25 Hello Jessica.... I have been a faithful subscriber who have been observing that all of your content is anti-woman and pro-men..... It would be courteous to be less one sided.... Let’s hear both sides of the story.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 года назад +33

      @@juniormarshallhastings723 😊 thanks junior. But as my channel header suggests. This is a channel that offers relationship advice to men. That's my niche. I'm sure there are other channels that offer the other way round. 🙏🏾

    • @termaineday7317
      @termaineday7317 2 года назад +2

      @@juniormarshallhastings723 thankfully thank you

    • @FeelLikePac
      @FeelLikePac 2 года назад +6

      Jessica O sounds like you and I are ready to develop something now.

  • @mechailreydon3784
    @mechailreydon3784 10 месяцев назад +8

    Cheating is the ultimate form of betrayal in a relationship

  • @hogglinebulldoggs361
    @hogglinebulldoggs361 2 года назад +267

    Better listen guys I was in a 10 year relationship and allowed some of these things until it literally drove me crazy, never again I had no growth for 10 years focusing on someone who didn’t love me, NEVER again

    • @diverseconscious5262
      @diverseconscious5262 2 года назад +8

      True indeed 13 teen years for me

    • @hadzisaniii
      @hadzisaniii 2 года назад +8

      Double digit years??💀

    • @soubermustapha3695
      @soubermustapha3695 2 года назад

      May god rain on her, make her feel many many tough sleepless nights. -karma

    • @nanijones9697
      @nanijones9697 2 года назад +8

      I'm going through that now 20yr. I'm ready to leave.

    • @hadzisaniii
      @hadzisaniii 2 года назад +6

      @@nanijones9697 Are you okay bro?

  • @federicomuller5348
    @federicomuller5348 2 года назад +68

    when you start feeling, thinking, wondering, etc, why or what or where, etc, it is because definitely something is wrong in your relationship and 99.99% she already is cheating on you, 100% of what Jessica has explained is so true nothing to add nor subtract. I have always dreamed finding a couple carrying those values like fidelity, loyalty and transparency but it seems those valued got stuck to the past back in the 60's

  • @ayanokoji_kiyotaka123
    @ayanokoji_kiyotaka123 Год назад +10

    *Johnsonspy* , you're one of my favorite people on this planet.. (And I don't even know you personally). The way in which you present your work, the content and the access is just awesome. Thank you!! This project is unbelievably amazing and thanks for presenting my the access with so much positivity!! All the best from Germany....!!!!!!

  • @djnagl
    @djnagl 2 года назад +226

    When women cheat the relationship has been over for sometime and the man just doesn't know it yet. For a woman to cheat its emotional, planned and she no longer has respect for you so its over.

    • @kalimbaayinde25
      @kalimbaayinde25 2 года назад +14

      Not necessarily. If a woman cheats. Sometimes it’s revenge cheating

    • @djnagl
      @djnagl 2 года назад +14

      @@kalimbaayinde25 Exactly my point its emotional and planned thank you.

    • @Inextrovert_313
      @Inextrovert_313 2 года назад +1

      How can you tell she's over it emotionally?

    • @davidleonard7439
      @davidleonard7439 2 года назад +23

      @@djnagl speak for yourself and not ALL women. There are plenty of women who are just...disloyal. There are plenty of women who choose to exercise their options because a man hitting on her, may be more PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE than her man at home. None of this has anything to do with emotions...and even if it DID, it just goes to show how pitiful and fake women are because they will go sleep with some random guy....then walk in the house and tell your man "I love you" 🙄
      Don't even sit here and pretend as if, women cheat for an entirely different reason than men.
      Because F.Y.I (coming from a man)...
      Don't let tik tok videos or movies like "how Stella got her groove back" fool you in to thinking that, men don't ALSO cheat for emotional reasons. If you are not providing everything your man desires, he will look else where. Period. We aren't some horn dogs who can't keep our thing in our pants.

    • @davidleonard7439
      @davidleonard7439 2 года назад +1

      @@djnagl my bad...I'm assuming you're a woman. My apologies if you arent

  • @peregrine162.
    @peregrine162. 2 года назад +77

    For guys girlfriends or wives:
    Suddenly the gym.
    Suddenly yoga pants.
    Suddenly male co workers
    Suddenly no calls or text.
    Suddenly off to the store.
    Suddenly phone is turned down.
    Suddenly expensive luxury items.
    Suddenly showers after work
    Suddenly changes perfume
    The list goes on and on.

    • @harryblueskin
      @harryblueskin 2 года назад +15

      Absolutely bang on!
      Suddenly have to work an extra shift at work
      Suddenly stopped putting any work shifts on the calendar
      Suddenly started to put down their phone as you get closer
      Suddenly buy you gift for no reason
      Suddenly start accusing you of cheating
      Suddenly going out with the girls more

    • @peterstone172
      @peterstone172 2 года назад +4

      Yeah, the gym..

    • @robertshade8631
      @robertshade8631 2 года назад +4

      Does anyone have the name of the person who can connect to a cheater especially like one in Philippines?I mean like an individual investigator type to expose a fraud cheater,

    • @bullydakidd2023
      @bullydakidd2023 2 года назад +7

      Jessica kept mentioning a woman sneaking behind her boyfriend's/husband's back with another man. Fellas it's not always a Man she is cheating on you with. Women also cheat on you with other women and it's going on BIG TIME.
      Men are always looking out for other men she could be cheating with when in reality it's another woman. There are a whole lot of wives and girlfriends sleeping with other women and their husband or boyfriend are clueless. She has a BFF that's she has been sleeping with long before she met you and she introduces her to you as one of her best friends. There is also the "new girl " at work or the new female friend she met at yoga class or the gym. And that other woman may have a boyfriend or husband themselves. And she will go out to have lunch or drinks with that other woman, and most of the time she won't invite you. A good sign that she is sleeping with that other woman? She says something like "I'm hanging with Tiffany tomorrow" and she doesn't invite you. Now as a man, you're like "cool. Go do your girl hang out thing...I don't care. "
      And she'll go sleep with Tiffany , then go out for those drinks, and come back to you that night. ....
      LOTS of men need to wake up and realize a lot of women are undercover and date/marry men only because men can be manipulated more in giving up their resources and/or they don't want their family to know that their preference is women.
      Lots of women know about this but none will mention this. I haven't found a content creator who talks about this even though it's been going on big time and for a long time. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and on the planet of Venus they keep bigger secrets.

    • @smcnally33
      @smcnally33 Год назад +1

      Suddenly long phone calls to besties
      Suddenly projects insecurities to relieve guilt
      Suddenly seems happy and elated
      Suddenly suggests you have a boys night out
      Suddenly admits minor infidelities
      Suddenly increases girlie nights out
      Suddenly goes to bed early and asleep b4
      Suddenly seeks more intimacy
      Suddenly stays out later
      Suddenly changes shift or work routines
      Suddenly tries to get you jealous( emotional release) and touting self worth.

  • @gettinsomebread9529
    @gettinsomebread9529 Год назад +12

    THIS IS ALL IVE NEEDED TO FIND ME SOME CLOSURE, THANK YOU SO MUCH "And yet she is not willing to let this person go, trust me if she didnt cheat whit him she definitely will!!! "

  • @jamesramondetta
    @jamesramondetta 2 года назад +87

    #2 is the obvious one that I have experienced. If shes willing to debate and argue with you about this other person, and even try to deflect the attention to you, that you are over reacting, etc, it's time to move on, over and done.

  • @Patrick-yv4og
    @Patrick-yv4og 2 года назад +26

    You made my holiday jessica. Really being educated by your videos

  • @Sebastian-qu9ve
    @Sebastian-qu9ve Год назад +15

    If she does any of this, exit the relationship asap. Do not hesitate or think about it or anything just leave. Don't say a word don't care just leave.

    • @kyvian251
      @kyvian251 Год назад

      Exactly, don’t do like I did and ignore every red flag. Because love is blind. Look at it objectively

  • @jonathandacosta2045
    @jonathandacosta2045 2 года назад +45

    Everything she’s saying is spot on! I experienced all of these excuses with one woman, and it turned out she was cheating and gaslighting me the entire time.

    • @rambo7089
      @rambo7089 2 года назад +4

      Lol I've been there

    • @mauriceblackman7540
      @mauriceblackman7540 Год назад +1

      I experience this and we have daughter together just don't know how to manage this situation I believe that it is also a spirit that they let go in live happily ever after.

  • @ernestgyamfi5536
    @ernestgyamfi5536 2 года назад +18

    Hmmm,sometimes the signs are so clear but we refuse to see. I've always advised myself not to force any relationship🙏

    • @kiddoutlaw600
      @kiddoutlaw600 2 года назад

      I’m good on a relationship just here for fun

  • @MOR4PH
    @MOR4PH 4 месяца назад +8

    If you're not married and believe your partner is cheating just leave them because it's not worth figuring out if you're right or wrong for closure because the uncertainty shouldn't be there and it's unhealthy for the other person to have that doubt if they're not

  • @kellytor79
    @kellytor79 2 года назад +59

    Great advice!!!!! A matter of choice and acceptance! Know your worth! And always be valued!!!!!

  • @jacksleazy1426
    @jacksleazy1426 2 года назад +9

    Have never regretted watching your content @Jessica thank you so much for this, more love from 🇰🇪 🇰🇪

  • @abdulkarimdahir5022
    @abdulkarimdahir5022 4 дня назад

    This is really very genuine episode, with full of real life facts, very true on cheaters. Excuses for being not available , deception, and not willing to sacrifice for your relationship are the take away.

  • @coreyrivers6496
    @coreyrivers6496 2 года назад +27

    Everything you said is exactly the truth and what I'm going through Rock bottom thank you for your help

    • @dieselhackoninstagram6201
      @dieselhackoninstagram6201 2 года назад

      🔼🔼🔼 EVER felt cheated on and want to spy on cheating partner across all social media, kindly message this professional above

    • @yahyamohamed9093
      @yahyamohamed9093 2 года назад

      Going through it now

  • @michael.oayantuga4095
    @michael.oayantuga4095 2 года назад +43

    You’re a great speaker! Blessed with a marvelous voice, beautiful accent, confident personality and beauty. You’re going places 🙏🏿

  • @boti_depok
    @boti_depok 9 месяцев назад +2

    I can feel ur passions on this topics and believe you have made the scripts from real life examples. Such an extraordinary lessons. Thank you

  • @edwardololo716
    @edwardololo716 2 года назад +99

    Exactly what has been happening in my relationship since November 2021 I finally got tired of enduring this emotional torture and I let her fully go with him since she boldly said she can’t quit the friendship till I make it up to her 100% someone she barely knows for 7month but the friendship is now valuable than our relationship of 4years . The most hilarious thing is that a day after I told her to fully move her way the next day she publicly went out with him drove his car and even posted with childish write up thanks jessy
    Jessica u are a genius

    • @shadymhaine3947
      @shadymhaine3947 2 года назад

      It’s serious

    • @inelussteve
      @inelussteve 2 года назад +9

      Damn man that was hard ! U had to let her go ..🙄

    • @SPECTRA890
      @SPECTRA890 2 года назад +9

      Learn not to care bro. Follow Casey Xander on RUclips bro, take the L. You did Good bro

    • @wedznarrow6063
      @wedznarrow6063 2 года назад +10

      You did the right thing brother,been there done that learnt alot. How are you doing now??? 💯🙏

    • @JesusisGodofcreation
      @JesusisGodofcreation 2 года назад +5

      You'll be fine,

  • @fredrickkiwala6767
    @fredrickkiwala6767 2 года назад +18

    Your message Jessica they don't just make us aware,,, but you always save people's life's " emotionally, Psychologically etc ,,, keep it up

  • @jamaleadris1677
    @jamaleadris1677 Год назад +27

    Half way through and I agree with everything you have said so far. I have good lying/cheating radar and these have definitely been the tell tale signs. I've been single for years and even as a single man, women still lie about other men they are seeing.

  • @cosmasscmps
    @cosmasscmps 2 года назад +254

    Hey Jessica, all true I dated a girl for 6 years,at the fourth year I noticed these things because I paid attention to her sudden change ,we got issues I forgave and forgot everything but after 2 years we broke up finally, I think when there is a cheating issue it's better to let go that relationship.

    • @CEO-hh8dl
      @CEO-hh8dl 2 года назад +2

      No offense, what were you thinking dating her for that long period without marriage? That was too long to stay with you at least talk about being married for six years and it will make sense. She will probably be tired of u not doing the right thing which is to officially make her wife and not some girlfriend thing.

    • @robertswift6101
      @robertswift6101 2 года назад +19

      @@CEO-hh8dl marriage is a business arrangement

    • @cosmasscmps
      @cosmasscmps 2 года назад +16

      @@CEO-hh8dl marriage is not the most important thing in a relationship, that's where you get it wrong.

    • @CEO-hh8dl
      @CEO-hh8dl 2 года назад +1

      @@cosmasscmps . Sex is the most important thing i guess 🤷! Why do we start relationship with a lady if not to marry her one day? Once it's not working in the early stages go away rather than keeping her too long in ur house having sex with her and depreciating her only to leave her after 5 years. She probably won't like to stay anymore because she was expecting marriage and it's not coming.

    • @cosmasscmps
      @cosmasscmps 2 года назад +5

      @@CEO-hh8dl I think you still don't get it go and read well my first comment before responding, anyway it's better to jump into marriage and divorce after a couple of years right? 😅 I can see how wise you are.

  • @josephcuevas3503
    @josephcuevas3503 2 года назад +27

    Looking back before she cheated on me,
    All this signs were there..I was blinded by my love and affection for her,
    Thank you for the enlightenment and this video confirmed everything,
    NOW I'm fully free of the trauma..Thank you kindly ma'am😘

  • @serkandag3080
    @serkandag3080 Год назад +247

    Absolutely love this. My spouse and I have been together for 12 years and recently had a daughter in 2020. It has not been easy, we are still learning and now with a 2 year old, things are out of wack but I know him and I will figure everything out. *Johnson spy* definitely helped me see his text a bit more clearly so thank you for that.

    • @aaravzoc1979
      @aaravzoc1979 Год назад +3

      If you ask them or confront them straight out without evidence they will deny it absolutely, If they are cheating on you *Johnsonspy* can help you get backdoor access to your spouse cell phone.

    • @fook-joby-den6172
      @fook-joby-den6172 11 месяцев назад

      She exaggerates things like claiming I’m always angry, & literally fabricates my “anger in the hopes accusing me of being angry when I’m not 5x+ will eventually make me upset so I can be blamed for her irrational tangent.
      Most recently, she claims questions such as “where are you or What are you doing to me is what she claims is me acting “Controlling”.
      However, I say that IF I Cannot ASK such simple questions that are part of any healthy transparent relationship, THEN she won’t have to LIE, Contradict, Or Come up with a story on the spot, so her life will be exponentially much less stressful so she can lie, cheat and deceive, privately bc she too much of a fucking coward to OWN her Fucking Actions & FESS up the truth like an adult.

  • @davidk.forrest2828
    @davidk.forrest2828 2 года назад +6

    This Is genuine truth !
    It happen to me !
    This how I know Jess on point , listen to her she your eyes , thank you Jess !!!

  • @KingPorter
    @KingPorter 2 года назад +58

    Ya know.......I'm never ever again gonna doubt myself or my instincts ever again. Literally every single thing said in this video I've been saying FOR YEARS!!!!!!
    I will never again.

    • @Willie_Wahzoo
      @Willie_Wahzoo 2 года назад +2

      Whamin LOVE to make you doubt yourself. Don't let them. They will try to shame you into obedience to them. If they do that, GET AWAY from them. They are straight up nefarious.

  • @larbiyaw7832
    @larbiyaw7832 Год назад +5

    Very powerful Jessica. Extremely powerful

  • @Captmach4
    @Captmach4 2 года назад +59

    Never assume you are the only one, especially at the start of the relationship.

    • @souschef4489
      @souschef4489 2 года назад +21

      For the entirety of a relationship.

    • @rizanz2108
      @rizanz2108 Год назад +1

      ​@@souschef4489 😂

    • @mamanemcakesandtreats3974
      @mamanemcakesandtreats3974 Год назад +6

      Amen to that! I was naive to think I was the only one, and my soon to be ex husband was texting 9 other women.

  • @swapandas4504
    @swapandas4504 2 года назад +8

    Somebody give this lady a medal !! Your arguments are just (let's say) fantastic !!! Why didn't I come across your channel earlier !!????!
    Subscribing right now !!!

  • @NAKErnestgh
    @NAKErnestgh 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love you, Jessica. You are so good at what you do. Keep doing it. You are a blessing.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much!

  • @jasonvandervalk3679
    @jasonvandervalk3679 2 года назад +167

    I'm a 40 year old man. I have only been in 4 relationships I have been very hurt in all of them. I was raised old fashioned by my parents that are going on 60 years of marriage. I find in this world today its very hard to find a woman with values. I don't believe in changing my values just because someone else doesn't want the same.

    • @pezpezedzed
      @pezpezedzed 2 года назад +17

      this is what i fear. im 23 and everyone seems to be unable to value themselves let alone a relationship. my parents have been married for 30yrs

    • @universalman5861
      @universalman5861 2 года назад +5

      Its not hard at all to find women with values. There are so many good, respectful women in the world. Probably YOU wouldn't want a woman with good values. Most men who talk like you never took the time to really know the person you were getting involved with. The world is wonderful and full of decent respectful women.

    • @jasonvandervalk3679
      @jasonvandervalk3679 2 года назад +13

      @@universalman5861 I get to know a woman for months before I consider being in a relationship with her. The reason It doesn't work is because she isn't the person she says she is. I'm not one to just be ok with that.

    • @XTRABIG
      @XTRABIG 2 года назад +12

      Yeah brother. It's the state of affairs. best thing to do is work on yourself. improve. study. save money.

    • @jbthajugganaut793
      @jbthajugganaut793 2 года назад +11

      Unfortunately times have changed my brother. 😥. I refused to date these 304s and single mothers.

  • @jermainesummers3823
    @jermainesummers3823 2 года назад +105

    No woman or man could or can ever be just friends! Interacting consistently will always lead to what nature made us for!

    • @joeyocom5087
      @joeyocom5087 2 года назад +4

      I had a female friend for several of my horniest years. We were both good looking but she was more like a sister and I was like a brother she never had. We slept in the same bed but never cuddled or had sex.
      Uh, and yes, I bedded many women and did have relations, just not with her. We still communicate of FB every now & then, but she married and I don't mess around talking to married women.....gets you in trouble

    • @Tonyconstanza
      @Tonyconstanza Год назад +2

      @@joeyocom5087 that’s just you though the exception isn’t the rule

    • @KubanKevin
      @KubanKevin Год назад +4

      @@joeyocom5087 no. She just chose to have you only as a friend and nothing more, and you rolled along with it for whatever your personal reason may be. If she told you she wanted to smash 100% you would’ve hit it. Only women get the luxury of choosing male friends who are almost completely always circling her for a chance to smash.

    • @hintixmotivation5852
      @hintixmotivation5852 Год назад +6

      Exactly, my soon to be ex-wife is consistently talking to this guy over zoom, while working from home, and 95% of her conversations is about private parts and so on, I am cool-headed and haven’t left her yet because of my daughter, I already applied for an overseas 2 years program, everything submitted, just waiting for the approval, once I get it, I will hand her my divorce papers, she’s talking about us moving out to another place and this and that, she will be in for a big shock, they are over 3.7 billions women in the world, they can’t all be sluts!

    • @padwan67
      @padwan67 Год назад

      💯

  • @joelibekwem8324
    @joelibekwem8324 Год назад +7

    This is true.
    My girlfriend did all this shit last year,it really affected me mentally and affected my final examination....God just helped me 😭😭

  • @365motivation.9
    @365motivation.9 2 года назад +56

    If you truly loves her,and she is cheating on you,your instincts always tells you,though we usually ignores that gut feelings....and is call self betrayal.

    • @jaimesmith2266
      @jaimesmith2266 2 года назад +2

      I gotta gut feeling my girl of 3 years is cheating every single time i try to spend time with her she got something to do its like tf im wasting my time for.

    • @coldhardtruth333
      @coldhardtruth333 2 года назад +1

      @@jaimesmith2266 time to go ..

  • @TyJames1219
    @TyJames1219 2 года назад +34

    Don’t have to tell us to subscribe. Any man with a head on his shoulders can immediately see how big of a goldmine this channel is. Extremely knowledgeable and well spoken.

  • @andrasfabian4606
    @andrasfabian4606 Год назад +4

    Very helpful insights. Now maintaining my marriage of 14 years. I promised to "never stop dating" her. Early on as a new couple I would text and get suspicious of a few guy friends of hers. She said "drop the text leash", "your jealousy is not attractive, not sexy". She never bothered my favorite lady friend but welcomed her. Emotional cheating? You are allowed to think of whatever or whomever you wish. According to this I am an "albatross" and she has many "red flags". That special friend zone is a priceless resource. 💌

  • @muhammadal-farouq7342
    @muhammadal-farouq7342 2 года назад +544

    My little heart was broken when I was 13 and my mom said: “You can’t trust girls.”
    I said: Mom, you’re a girl!
    She said: Right! I know what I’m talking about.
    🤯🤣🤣

  • @selamfitwi8364
    @selamfitwi8364 2 года назад +7

    I went through that in my early 20’s but it worked out in my favor stay strong friends and dont let deteriorate your journey

  • @kennethvaughn5967
    @kennethvaughn5967 Год назад +12

    The second point even applies to friends of the same gender. Always going out with one specific person all of a sudden is usually just a co-conspirator or a convenient excuse for not being with you. Spending a disproportionate amount of time going out with the neighbor girl is most likely because the neighbor girl is her copilot for meeting men.

  • @rodneysessoms8804
    @rodneysessoms8804 2 года назад +211

    I figured this out years ago and called my ex wife out on it. We didn't share the same bed after that, long story short God blessed with with a far better woman than I could ever find myself. She did me a big favor cheating on me lol

    • @African1313
      @African1313 2 года назад +4

      Great stuff bro

    • @samuelerighawilliams
      @samuelerighawilliams 2 года назад +3

      Wonderful

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR 2 года назад +14

      Facts bro. The same shit happened with me minus the cheating but she started treating me worse and worse u wouldnt even believe the shit she did to me & said. Things 100% happen for a reason… the new one i met is absolutely amazing & now she fucked up for good & things fell into place

    • @rodneysessoms8804
      @rodneysessoms8804 2 года назад +15

      @@redline350zHR my momma used to tell me, That greener grass on the other side will turn browner on them a lot faster lol

    • @deezywhypreeboss2949
      @deezywhypreeboss2949 2 года назад +1

      It's a rass blessing

  • @dorneeeuring6103
    @dorneeeuring6103 2 года назад +19

    Listen guys the only thing you need to remember is Don’t be available when someone is emotionally and mentally unavailable.

  • @clwilliams9287
    @clwilliams9287 2 года назад +37

    I caught my ex wife cheating. 1. When a woman looks like she’s going on a date when she leaves the house. From frumpy wife to hottie in the club.
    2. I also found flowers, jewelry, and lingerie hidden in drawers or her closet.
    Finding romantic gifts and dressing like she’s going on date is how I caught her. She divorced me when I caught her. She accused me of being a domestic abuser because I went through her closet and found the gifts.

    • @HavinFunNDeezLastDayz
      @HavinFunNDeezLastDayz Год назад +8

      A narcissist. I empathize with you.

    • @Atonement-
      @Atonement- Год назад

      She's a TERRORIST bro ... Let her know she is from here on out .. That's her new dog collar name

    • @stevo981
      @stevo981 Год назад +2

      You are lucky that she left. Good riddiance.

    • @Wyntrborn
      @Wyntrborn Год назад +1

      Good riddance !!!

    • @rojetar8304
      @rojetar8304 Год назад +1

      You did the right thing. I feel you and congratulations for your freedom.

  • @tomau3946
    @tomau3946 2 года назад +35

    A woman is no longer yours if there is someone, ANYone, in her life more important than you.

    • @jaimesmith2266
      @jaimesmith2266 2 года назад +2

      I believe that because my girl always put her friends and family above me smh.

  • @stephencorbitt2752
    @stephencorbitt2752 Год назад +7

    She quotes the other guy and calls him to help her solve problems that she used to depend on you to do. It's already over.

  • @junivybes7745
    @junivybes7745 2 года назад +45

    Jessica is genius when it comes to love or relationship content✌️

  • @guillaumemg61
    @guillaumemg61 2 года назад +15

    I feel sorry for myself. I wish that I had come across your RUclips channel 5 years ago.

  • @ConfusedFieldHockey-em6bt
    @ConfusedFieldHockey-em6bt 5 месяцев назад +5

    They cause arguments out of nowhere causing total confusion

  • @sarahboakye7691
    @sarahboakye7691 2 года назад +16

    Great points Jessica 👏❤️
    This is eye opening for us all 🤩

  • @blackheartman2174
    @blackheartman2174 2 года назад +5

    Grandma use to say "if fish comes out of water and say shark is coming believe him cause he lives there" your videos are educational and informative that's one of the reason why I watch not necessarily because I got trouble at home per sà

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    @smart_sonu_0049 6 месяцев назад +115

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  • @kipkoechignazio3405
    @kipkoechignazio3405 2 года назад +17

    Hey, I've been watching you for sometime but this has to be the MOST POWERFUL video in this channel; the passion, the energy 🙌

  • @damonsta3
    @damonsta3 2 года назад +35

    omg this hit me so hard I seen signs and was too dumb to realize what was happening before our marriage, then the divorce came.

    • @erinmerlot8826
      @erinmerlot8826 2 года назад +2

      Correction you weren't dumb you were just ignorant to the fact what was going on just a lot of us are. There's a lot of pressure from our spouse's family members because of mine I was around one of my own family bro. I mean everyday. So at least a big old smoking mirror you think you see things one way but the things that are distorted win over seemingly over night. Be strong keep your head up my wife divorce me dude and had everything and I'm still paying alimony and child support. But if you put God first he'll put them in a situation where they need you at some point as well he'll put you in a point where breaking bread won't hurt you at all may your cup runneth over brother blessings till next time

  • @frmp9181
    @frmp9181 Год назад +1

    I like the way you talk. Calm and articulate

  • @tawandamataka133
    @tawandamataka133 2 года назад +5

    A GREAT TEACHER. THIS IS EYE OPENING.

  • @emmanuelamissah9131
    @emmanuelamissah9131 2 года назад +34

    She did all these things before she cheated, I misinterpreted it as mood wings. You're spot on jessy

    • @kalimbaayinde25
      @kalimbaayinde25 2 года назад

      Bet you had other women 😂

    • @emmanuelamissah9131
      @emmanuelamissah9131 2 года назад +1

      @@kalimbaayinde25 excuse you

    • @kalimbaayinde25
      @kalimbaayinde25 2 года назад

      @@emmanuelamissah9131 l guarantee you’ve cheated on your woman. Stop it.

    • @emmanuelamissah9131
      @emmanuelamissah9131 2 года назад

      @@kalimbaayinde25 massa abeg shift with your guarantee. I never cheated on that girl. Not every man is like you so u STOP IT!!

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Год назад +2

    And I cut off, so MANY friends to prove my loyalty to this individuals emotional safety and respect the boundaries of our relationship

  • @johnandrewservice8598
    @johnandrewservice8598 2 года назад +4

    Wow Jessica. You have mentioned so many key facts that I have experienced. I can’t thank enough for highlighting these issues. Thanks so much for sharing your wonderful insights, much love and blessings to you dear. Again thank you Onelove ❤️💛💚🌷

  • @agyeimaxwell.
    @agyeimaxwell. 2 года назад +10

    Tips love this soul, such a amazing personality. Keep soaring higher Jesse .🔥💕🙏👊💯

  • @petekhauv2476
    @petekhauv2476 Год назад +2

    Love your clarity and deliberate analysis of this subject.

  • @cophisblogs
    @cophisblogs 2 года назад +7

    Always my favorite teacher on relationships ✅✅✅✅