If Your Girl Is Doing These 8 Things, She's Gone FOREVER

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 185

  • @darwynnmcpherson
    @darwynnmcpherson  17 дней назад +10

    This Free Compatibility Quiz Prevents you from connecting with people who are not evenly yoked:
    darwynn-mcpherson.ck.page/06ee73377f

  • @DigitalAce444
    @DigitalAce444 16 дней назад +94

    1. Emotional and Physical Disengagement
    2. Digital & Social Distance
    3. Turns Away from Connection
    4. Avoiding Important Conversations
    5. Increased Criticism & Contempt
    6. Secrecy & Privacy
    7. Lost of Shared Vision
    8. Complete Lack of Jealousy

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  16 дней назад +1

      🫱🏾‍🫲🏽💯💯💯

    • @matthewrose8451
      @matthewrose8451 15 дней назад

      This list is excellent to cross reference from. Thanks for sharing this @DigitalAce444.
      Go where your energy is reciprocated, celebrated, and appreciated.
      Meeting someone with the same mindset as you is rare.

    • @goblinzl1
      @goblinzl1 15 дней назад

      I noticed women will get that last rent or car payment before moving on. It was planned guys. Deal with it.

    • @joshgen8533
      @joshgen8533 7 дней назад

      I have something to share, hopeful for a response. I dealt with a so called Christian (if that means anything) girl(24) and me (22) at the time we started dating in 2022, she had male of signs in the beginning of social media hype lusting after thirst traps and I can tell she was just lustful, but she couldn’t get the men she really wanted to get. I ultimately built her up, I workout a lot, I cook, I do a lot of things with skill and showed her dressing a tad better, keeping herself up and she got high on herself. She moved down here to California to be with me and her job in her field paid over 100k only in cal. So I didn’t really have a career yet, just still trying to get on with law enforcement still. I took her to belize for her bday, to her to Aruba to propose, took engagement photos in Dominican, etc. I put in a lot of effort In just two years. Her parents rejected me and put a lot of stuff in her head and all her aunties are all single moms. So she made a lot of comments towards me after about a year or so on, like all the high valued men are taken, only with me because she lost her virginity, she said a man is only the head of the house and not wife, she told me at work her coworkers said their partners were lazy and made no money and she tried to compare me to them, called me crazy because she liked other men’s pics, towards the end her coochie had a fish odor, she would get two hour massages especially on payday, on her bday earlier this year she got a room at the Hilton embassy with her homegirls overnight where I wasn’t there and when I was there to set up and help she ran to the room after valet parking where I had to find the room myself, she had a private Instagram story, I had so many dreams about her cheating and changing into a modern whore, she lied a-lot and I caught her deliberately cropping out photos she sent me to prove her innocence when I would sometimes question her about text messages with others even when those text messages weren’t that alarming, a lady came up to me at my job and showed me nudes, I told her and she didn’t care, im now going back and forth to court because she left me in the middle of the night after finding out some stuff not related to abuse or cheating and she put a restraining order on me trying to claim domestic violence. This is a lot to pack in a message, but that’s some of it, towards the end she was acting way off and she was never really respectful to my boundaries since we constantly argued even if I just addressed heron things.. any thoughts ? Forgot to add in there later in the relationship she said “stretch me out” while having sex.. sorry for the essay

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  5 дней назад

      Shoot me an email sir!

  • @ArnoldWatson
    @ArnoldWatson 16 дней назад +66

    Fellas, this man is on point with everything mentioned. I was married for 25 years and saw all of these things play out exactly!

    • @kevhauser
      @kevhauser 16 дней назад +3

      Yeah..like CONTEMPT ...22 years 4 me..

    • @subzhero4069
      @subzhero4069 16 дней назад +2

      omg really? it ended after so many years?

    • @ArnoldWatson
      @ArnoldWatson 16 дней назад +4

      @ She had an affair(S) and decided to proceed.

    • @tonycash5550
      @tonycash5550 16 дней назад

      Wow Whoa

    • @gregbuze9143
      @gregbuze9143 16 дней назад +2

      @@ArnoldWatson !! Shit !! You and Me both !!! After 26 years !! The signs are there

  • @stephanoewilks1908
    @stephanoewilks1908 16 дней назад +70

    This is all true & the most disturbing thing is that you don’t even got to do nothing wrong towards a female for them to switch up on you or do you dirty

    • @FukemStudios
      @FukemStudios 15 дней назад

      💯

    • @riofacts8283
      @riofacts8283 14 дней назад +3

      Facts

    • @bryanp8606
      @bryanp8606 14 дней назад +5

      Exactly…so it’s not your fault. Just be prepared!!

    • @T.Ric.
      @T.Ric. 11 дней назад

      Facts

    • @stanmoney8470
      @stanmoney8470 8 дней назад

      FACTS! Some women just dick hop! They jock one guy to the next! Doesn't even matter that she's married! A lot of women are entertaining the DMs! And are getting involved while losing interest in their husbands. Will put their entire family on the line! The best thing I can say is son prenups and get DNA on your children at birth! It's sad but you just cannot trust them!

  • @Typofinn
    @Typofinn 15 дней назад +23

    Happened to me a week ago. She literally told me she mentally checked out. Its hard and it stings but at the end of the day this will make me a better man. I can only go up from here with gods help. No vices, focus on yourself.

  • @johnz.2907
    @johnz.2907 14 дней назад +24

    1 major sign: disagreeing.
    Him: Hey babe its sunny out today.
    Her: No it's not, its cloudy.
    Thats only sign you need.

  • @Ghanaba23
    @Ghanaba23 14 дней назад +36

    Modern women are not meant for long term relationships. If she’s with you, she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Work hard, be attractive, save lots of money, and treat women like a luxury car you just leased

    • @T.Ric.
      @T.Ric. 11 дней назад +2

      @@Ghanaba23 so true

    • @misterx4253
      @misterx4253 7 дней назад +1

      Yeah...its not worth it anymore....

    • @atmwayne
      @atmwayne 4 дня назад +2

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @8MunchenBayern8
      @8MunchenBayern8 День назад +1

      Facts they are always looking to "trade up".

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 День назад +1

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @TheeGemstone
    @TheeGemstone 6 дней назад +7

    The statement about her using “I”, “me” and “my” instead of “us, “we” and “ours” is an overlooked red flag in a relationship.

  • @charlesdavid-p1y
    @charlesdavid-p1y 8 дней назад +228

    This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita 8 дней назад +1

      The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y 8 дней назад

      Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita 8 дней назад

      Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y 8 дней назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.

    • @Diesel3R
      @Diesel3R 5 дней назад

      Damn bro, that sucks. Luckily for you there are like 5 billion other women out there

  • @alonzoneloms5651
    @alonzoneloms5651 14 дней назад +13

    Any time the Vibes and Patterns change! There is always somebody on the other end. I don't care what they said.

  • @ahmadabdallah7125
    @ahmadabdallah7125 16 дней назад +69

    Let the crap leave, women are replaceable

    • @ArnoldWatson
      @ArnoldWatson 16 дней назад +4

      @@ahmadabdallah7125 Amen to that!👌

    • @Radnash_ic
      @Radnash_ic 16 дней назад +5

      Just replaced my ex, life is good

    • @juliusreed5273
      @juliusreed5273 10 дней назад

      @@ahmadabdallah7125 preach KING

    • @MrLisaFischer
      @MrLisaFischer 10 дней назад +2

      Let the demon go. Your finances will improve. Your body will get better as you have time to go to the gym. You will have more time to pursue your business and to spend time reading and studying.

    • @juliusreed5273
      @juliusreed5273 10 дней назад +3

      @@Radnash_ic man they don’t appreciate us homie I cleared 125,000 last year I’m tired of begging women

  • @asdfxcvbn746
    @asdfxcvbn746 16 дней назад +35

    big brain strategy: can't get cheated on or left if you never get in a relationship to begin with. because of women's emotional, fickle, disloyal & unpredictable nature, its making less & less sense for men to commit to women at all, in long term as in marriage, or even temporary as just boyfriend & girlfriend. based on women's dating behavior in the last 10 to 20 years, men should do situationships only. if she has a wandering eye, post thirst traps or entertains other men online & you're not feeling it, drop her for the next girl. have 4 options & cycle them out based on their behavior & interest level. this is how gen-z men are having to adapt to the new apocalyptic hookup culture & dating landscape that women have created & subjected young men to... it is what it is.

    • @alonzoneloms5651
      @alonzoneloms5651 14 дней назад +2

      Spin, Rinse, and Repeat!! Not fully committed. Quick venture into another relationship! You are in the Rotation/ Matrix of the relationship!! Social Media is a Narcissist paradise!

    • @MuchelDupas
      @MuchelDupas 7 дней назад

      I agree try stay close when she pregnant or she can abort at higher % After that u can leave that all u have to do

    • @charisma4200
      @charisma4200 День назад

      @@asdfxcvbn746 got it

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 День назад

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 Relationships are for LOSERS

  • @bramz211
    @bramz211 16 дней назад +17

    i saw at least 7 out of 8 signs in my ex wife during the last 2 years of my marriage. At some points I was prepared for her leaving but she was still around and I wondered why, I "cried" a lot secretly trying patch things up... Till I asked for divorce and thank god we didnt made a baby

  • @ogriss412
    @ogriss412 10 дней назад +6

    The emotional distance is what I’m noticing and the constant social media connection! I’m not on social media but she is

  • @nothingbutfacts1676
    @nothingbutfacts1676 16 дней назад +16

    It not so bad if the woman loses interest if she is someone who are causally dating. However, if this woman is the mother of your children or your wife or both. This takes on another meaning.

  • @sofp
    @sofp 14 дней назад +11

    If a woman do this, you’d better let her go. The end of a relationship tells more about her than the rest. A good person will leave you respectfully

  • @reddogg7787
    @reddogg7787 15 дней назад +11

    If you got 2 work so much that it effects your mental health.
    It’s not worth your time or energy.

  • @quantumprocess5954
    @quantumprocess5954 7 дней назад +4

    To all the below slow men...Quit worrying about a female leaving for heavens sake. Everything about them "leaves"...looks...
    fertility...loyalty...
    attentions...finances..
    and ultimately...YOU ! The comprehensive competence of this is logical...death settles all affairs permanently...and they leave with that on their own too. Focus on YOU.
    © 2024 Spaceport Productions LLC

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 16 дней назад +17

    Know the signs and keep it moving when she does her worst.😮 But such is life and life is such... Learn to let go that's the moral of the story

  • @Beerios
    @Beerios 13 дней назад +5

    Damn, this information was hard to swallow because all of it checked out and I only noticed these things stepping back and seeing the bigger picture. I thought we were happy, we had a bond and she was what I thought to be my best friend. Ten years being together didn't mean a damn thing to her and she didn't care for future plans. I'm glad we separated devoid of her cheating habits and gambling addiction.
    If she doesn't make the same effort you do for a relationship, she isn't worth the time. Don't go chasing it, focus on you.

  • @peterm9335
    @peterm9335 8 дней назад +5

    Man, i gotta do the last step quick now.. 😅

  • @ForeverForward4070
    @ForeverForward4070 5 часов назад +1

    6 years in and it’s happening…hurting me bad but I’m just rolling with it

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  51 минуту назад

      Hold on as long as you can bro, but do not accept infidelity

  • @JettTv101
    @JettTv101 12 дней назад +5

    it's not your girl, it's just your turn

  • @jarrodmartin2204
    @jarrodmartin2204 16 дней назад +13

    Damn this is on point!!! Boys I’m currently living this.. we have a one year old and we haven’t had sex since before he was born.. last night I asked her to leave my house, she’s now gone but she didn’t even care when I said that… bro this girl does not love me anymore ay… hard to process but it is what it is…

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  16 дней назад +1

      Omg this is sad especially for the little one schedule a 1:1 with me if you see opportunity to fix it brother I’m here for ya!!!

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 День назад +1

      DNA TEST ASAP.

  • @runexscapexBotz
    @runexscapexBotz 15 дней назад +7

    Just never fully attach,
    Woman are like cats, they gone sometimes for days sometimes for weeks.
    But curiosity killed the cat.

  • @T.Ric.
    @T.Ric. 11 дней назад +2

    I'm so glad I found your channel. You are speaking the words I be thinking!!

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  11 дней назад

      💯💯💯🫱🏾‍🫲🏽🫱🏾‍🫲🏽🫱🏾‍🫲🏽

  • @nolanbaptiste358
    @nolanbaptiste358 16 дней назад +10

    Men have to check that behavior fast so the wife or girlfriend knows that things will stay solid.

    • @c.conga11
      @c.conga11 16 дней назад +3

      @nolanbaptiste358 Once that behavior starts it's over. If you have to "check" her she's too far gone. She'll just start hiding things better

    • @nolanbaptiste358
      @nolanbaptiste358 16 дней назад

      @c.conga11
      Well with all do respect I think the sooner you check her the more respect she has for her man because if you don't check her at all then you know the relationship or marriage is over so men must check women fast not later.

    • @ajaxtanked
      @ajaxtanked 15 дней назад +4

      Fuck all that check. The girl that’s worth even checking wouldn’t have you worried anyway. If she’s that far gone to where she needs to be checked, she’s viewed as freind with benefits to me. No more dates and effort

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 День назад

      Often times the best way to check a woman...........IS BY LEAVING HER,AND THE SOONER THE BETTER........STOP GETTING INTO RELATIONSHIPS.

  • @CliveHenry
    @CliveHenry 6 дней назад +2

    Quality information. Facts. I'm sharing ...

  • @wsjmusic2732
    @wsjmusic2732 7 дней назад +2

    All it took was one time for this to happen to me . After that logic kicked in it makes no sense to emotionally invest in women ever. I’m always a gentleman, always nice and kind , but refuse to be blindsided again . Funny thing is since I took that approach I can’t keep ‘them off me

  • @SmarticalBoy12
    @SmarticalBoy12 11 дней назад +7

    Don’t chase women.
    Instead of texting and filling up her DM‘s with a whole bunch of BS
    We are not put on this earth to chase after a woman and her beauty. You will waste time, energy and unnecessary money.
    work on becoming a better version of yourself.
    Get fit, get your career in order, get your money right and get your mind right.
    Become stoic and be the best you can be.
    The right one for you will show up just keep building your life.
    Enjoy life by yourself

  • @fender1000100
    @fender1000100 2 дня назад +1

    Any woman wants to leave me theres always the next one. I never go deep emotionally with no woman. I have known their nature for decades.

  • @Web3Jet
    @Web3Jet 5 дней назад +2

    Excellent video, thanks!

  • @christinav8131
    @christinav8131 2 дня назад

    Thank you.
    These are all EXACT things men do when they're done too

  • @shawnrigney4354
    @shawnrigney4354 13 дней назад +5

    MEN YOU HAVE ONE MOTHER CHERRIESH HER LOVE HER GIVE HER YOUR TIME SHES ONE AMONGST THE UNIVERSE.SHES UNIQUE.CANT BE REPLACED AND WILL LOVE YOU IF YOU DOWN AND OUT BUT WOMEN OUT THERE ARE OPPOSITE AND ARE REPLACEABLE THEIR LOVE IS CONDITIONAL WITH TERMS AND CONDITIONS THEY DONT TRULY LOVE YOU TRUTH THEY NEVER CARRIED YOU FOR NINE MONTHS AND STILL CARED FOR YOU UNTIL JEZZEBEL ENTERED YOUR LIFE LEFT YOU AND THE END YOUR MUMS ARMS WERE OPEN TO ACCEPT YOU .WOMEN COME AND GO THEY LIKE THE FIRST AND LAST PAGE OF A BOOK BUT YOUR MUM IS YOUR LIFE STORY INSIDE THAT BOOK.❤

  • @ryanarline3678
    @ryanarline3678 15 дней назад +6

    Great video!

  • @SureshR-c5x
    @SureshR-c5x 6 дней назад +1

    Very good video. My ex was showing all these signs and I was telling her to dump me as I felt she can do so much better. For some reason, she was refusing to dump me but displayed all the signs you mentioned in your video.
    She was always comparing me to her ex and other men. We never had sex nor did I meet her family and friends.
    She used to blow out whenever it was her turn to spend money and go to her male friends house as he’s cooked dinner for her.
    I ended it out of love for her because she needed a man and I wasn’t that. I’m a weak guy who’s inexperienced, passive and unliked by the public. No woman should be with someone like that.
    After the break up, she told me I was never her gf and only in a situationship. She was chatting to other men while she was telling me I’m her partner.
    She said she never liked me but why was she being possessive over me? She even threatened to knock me out when I tried ending it to her face.
    We were an item for 7 weeks but friends for 6 months. Fell in love with her very quickly.
    It was my first experience at 41. I’m 44 now and gave up after this experience

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  6 дней назад

      If you want to overcome this, use the links in the description to work with me.

    • @SureshR-c5x
      @SureshR-c5x 5 дней назад

      @ clicked on link, subscribed but no email received. Did this twice

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  5 дней назад

      Shoot me an email:
      Bruizzr@outlook.com

  • @Blackheartedhendrix313
    @Blackheartedhendrix313 9 дней назад +1

    Great points g! 🔥🔥😮‍💨, low key triggering from back then lol 😂!

  • @moejohnson8459
    @moejohnson8459 14 дней назад +5

    🔥 🔥. D what's up slim. Dude your speaking the honest truth. Fellas I cosign all these points. Fellas don't fool yourself. Some of you'll are dealing with this at this moment. She's picking her new dude right now!! Stop falling for the soft sweet voice and sex. She's just waiting on the right time. Beat her to that moment, shiit you do it. Why waste your time?

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  14 дней назад +1

      🫱🏾‍🫲🏽💯 My Man Moe!!!

    • @moejohnson8459
      @moejohnson8459 14 дней назад +1

      @darwynnmcpherson 😂 why play games D. Dudes are waaay too caught up these days man. And females know it. This is the main reason they take advantage with the quicks.

  • @dceufan
    @dceufan 16 дней назад +5

    3:31 - This was the ex-girlfriend right there!! Gawd .. I remember it all. #smh

  • @wojdy
    @wojdy 2 дня назад

    Everything checked out..... So cold

  • @dalewikfors9194
    @dalewikfors9194 11 дней назад +3

    I wish I knew all this back in 2007. Live and learn

  • @rob-m9m
    @rob-m9m 16 дней назад +7

    How would this affect a marriage where the wife has shown narcissistic traits for the past few years?

    • @floyd27860
      @floyd27860 16 дней назад +5

      I'm divorcing mines. 19 years... 10 of them horrible!

    • @FukemStudios
      @FukemStudios 15 дней назад

      @@floyd27860 I'm divorcing mine 32 years... 5 of them horrible!!

  • @scu2r
    @scu2r 12 дней назад +4

    Women have a time and date to leave their man once they are in the Hypergamy mode.

  • @carlosrios8920
    @carlosrios8920 14 дней назад +2

    Amazing video man!

    • @darwynnmcpherson
      @darwynnmcpherson  13 дней назад

      Thanks, glad you found it! 💯🫱🏾‍🫲🏽

  • @dicksonmuleya300
    @dicksonmuleya300 10 дней назад

    Thank you exactly what am going through at the moment

  • @stevenmoreno9405
    @stevenmoreno9405 16 дней назад +1

    Thank you Darwynn!

  • @ashleyknowles6613
    @ashleyknowles6613 13 дней назад +1

    Salute from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @missvicki9535
    @missvicki9535 8 дней назад +1

    I am a female. These traits can be the same for a female or male who is getting ready to leave the relationship. Men do the same thing. I know from experience in a past relationship. Do the men agree with this?

  • @joseg3003
    @joseg3003 8 дней назад +1

    100 percent facts happened to me.

  • @phillipramsay2419
    @phillipramsay2419 16 дней назад +1

    Got to admit you know your stuff. Publish your book ...I will buy it !!!

  • @lindseytufts2968
    @lindseytufts2968 16 дней назад +1

    You are on point.

  • @alonzoneloms5651
    @alonzoneloms5651 14 дней назад

    Non Jealousy aka Disconnect to the next adventure!!

  • @kblewis1054
    @kblewis1054 14 дней назад +1

    FACTS!

  • @ryanbain618
    @ryanbain618 16 дней назад +1

    Bingo.......fellas pls wake up!!

  • @ericv4152
    @ericv4152 День назад

    What if they avoid telling you who the person is or doesn’t show what the person looks like does that mean they still involved with the person? even though she wants to work things out

  • @JOHN-tk8eb
    @JOHN-tk8eb 11 дней назад +1

    Let her go😮

  • @derrickoverbey2819
    @derrickoverbey2819 4 дня назад

    Remember and know how Sin was adopted to Man Some are able to fight the temptation a lot will remain corrupted… it’s sad truth, Man said to woman “GOD SAID DO NOT EAT OF THE FORBIDDEN TREE” or you shall truly die But she said the serpent says you can eat from it and not… Most men we love us a good woman , Just make sure she fears God and you are able to always be the man God Made you to be… You men were made and you are a gift to her because she was made from you for you not the other way around, some say they believe but they can’t or don’t agree with how God made things and in his Order…

  • @kashmirirose3733
    @kashmirirose3733 15 дней назад +1

    Sorry to bust your bubble, but she came back tighter than ever. When I came to her she was like "WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT WAIT!"

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 9 дней назад

      @@kashmirirose3733 had not really had that happen

  • @nothing-b2n
    @nothing-b2n 11 дней назад +1

    Yes it is,,,BRO

  • @stylewithaltitude
    @stylewithaltitude День назад

    When she wants "space" theres someone else in rhe picture.

  • @sirjacko79
    @sirjacko79 16 дней назад +1

    💯% F.A.C.T.S

  • @freddiefresh3509
    @freddiefresh3509 10 дней назад +1

    I seen all these signs. I really didn’t care when my wife left I was tired of the back and forth. Just more disappointed on how she was leaving. Str8 punk sh*t. Have no respect for her at this point in my life. The messed thing is I still have to interact with her due that we have a child together. All I can say is good luck grass ain’t never greener on the other side.

    • @lawrencekelly8979
      @lawrencekelly8979 9 дней назад +1

      Understand completely Bro.. Accept I got 3 youngins from my marriage.. Keep it cordial for the kid and give this over to God.. Jesus will give you the peace you need Trust me... She didn't leave you.. She was removed.... Fight through to get to the blessing of this situation on the other side..

  • @tomkane9233
    @tomkane9233 7 дней назад

    How can i speed this along?😂

  • @troymoviemadness7130
    @troymoviemadness7130 16 дней назад +2

    My bm done all these I found out about a guy and we broke up now it's been a few weeks she wants me to take her back and she trynna see I'd I still love her.also she refuses to tell the truth about having a e x with the guy and I have the proof should I leave her or work it out we have 3 kids

    • @andrewbiondo1412
      @andrewbiondo1412 16 дней назад

      @@troymoviemadness7130 that’s a tough situation since you have 3 kids involved. You have to ask yourself if she cheated is that something you can deal with or are you going to have anxiety and stress when she’s out and about an you don’t know what she is doing. Don’t forgive her for it because she knows she can do it again and you will take her back. Also you are going to have to set up boundaries and stick to them or she will manipulate them to get her way. You have to really consider your mental well being. Good chance if she cheated once she’ll do it again. Best of luck. 18 years with my wife and trying to save it because we have 3 kids, nothing fun about it and just trying to work on myself to give her space. Almost been a year since she mentioned divorce, she’s still hear but I haven’t seen improvement in her really, think it’s nearing the end.

    • @EE-kt8sh
      @EE-kt8sh 16 дней назад +6

      Walk away from her for life. Try as much as you can to be in the kids lives.

    • @troymoviemadness7130
      @troymoviemadness7130 16 дней назад

      Dang this is sad 😢 ​@EE-kt8sh

    • @floyd27860
      @floyd27860 16 дней назад +1

      Bounce!!! I stayed in 2015 after she cheated... worse mistake I ever made. Now getting divorced.
      BTW - I have 3 children also & asking for joint custody

    • @troymoviemadness7130
      @troymoviemadness7130 15 дней назад

      @floyd27860 so sorry that happened to you bro also my bm is my first love I had no past relationships or trauma she destroyed me and made living he'll and I treated her how she treated me now she blaming the relationships and her cheating on me lol wtf

  • @Rabbit.760
    @Rabbit.760 16 дней назад +4

    I gotta give your vid a watch, but then I gotta get back to Trump!

  • @OTF600Youthug
    @OTF600Youthug 3 дня назад

    F them and forget them that's how I moving this year call me the bad guy

  • @NickFoleyTV
    @NickFoleyTV 12 дней назад +1

    💯

  • @FC-xc3zy
    @FC-xc3zy 3 дня назад

    Comes with bodies and the spirits of other men

  • @sleepinggiant575
    @sleepinggiant575 14 дней назад +1

    Oh shit...

  • @edysmith9758
    @edysmith9758 9 дней назад +1

    Sounds like a guy too me. This goes both ways.

  • @derrickoverbey2819
    @derrickoverbey2819 4 дня назад

    Men if you not sure or she makes you feel unsure you Remember that you can do the same things so be able to live in a box if that’s what you do for your own future, look out for you and the money you make for yourself Be the man God made you to be if she doesn’t want to be their for you let her go because she’s got her own plans for you and your Money… Don’t forget Woman was tempted by Satan and in a very Slick way because the woman goes out her way to fool man and Satan wants that… Why is what she has Worth a man paying for it but a Man’s Stuff isn’t her body is for sale what about yours, you both getting the same thing but hers cost… Think for a Minute, WHO MAD UP THAT LAW AND WHO INVENTED THAT RULE😂

  • @superlyger
    @superlyger 13 дней назад

    You should stop saying bro if you’re nearing 40.

  • @1967suhana
    @1967suhana 5 дней назад

    one and only rule for men: there are many fish in the sea

  • @nianzuri
    @nianzuri 11 дней назад +1

    Just realized I haven't subscribed