Women use body enhancements for other women, some women feed off clicks, views and likes. Men don't give a dam about the BBL BS as a matter of fact we clown yall.
It took a 3rd world childhood, with actual child labor and receiving discipline from public school teachers, for me to realize the Bible is about gratitude, humility and self-sacrifice. First world parents need to teach this, ideally while avoiding overindulgence or over-promising a life free of all external stressors, because this life isn't even the end-all-be-all. I am nothing; HE is everything! That's where inner peace comes from.
No, the paid for physical body is less attractive than the natural body. We say this stuff constantly and women do not listen. Your natural body is FINE.
"[3] Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. [4] Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight." 1 Peter 3:3
Imagine going to do your bbl surgery praying to God that your surgery be successful when God has nothing to do with that stuff. Worse when you claim to be a christian telling people to trust God and love yourself.
I really don't understand the appeal of an exaggerated woman's body at all. BBL's, very thick legs, huge bums and breasts - these are not attractive to me at all. My own wife is tall, very slender, and dark skinned and that's what I like.
its simply for attention and to say i look better than you. No too many reasons to invest that much time and effort into looking sexy for church if its all about the message. yes it does take away from the message, and that is why people think church is a joke nowadays. Not sure whats going on the wyte community but in the blk community, we're trying hard to bridge the gap between what it means to live christian life and a city girl life.
2 Timothy 3:2 In-Context 1 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2 People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4 treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God- 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.
The Kardashians started all that NOT even being black women and they've been very successful so far. Just because they were already the preferences of alot BM!
Man here. I 100% prefer women with natural hair, no body altercations and dresses modestly. Us men have always stated that we like our women with natural hair, it’s just that simple. But nah, most don’t listen. Also let me make this clear.. WE DONT CARE ABOUT BODY PARTS! You can have a big butt with a crappy attitude. If you think you need BBLs in order to make yourself look beautiful, no one will take you seriously and that’s a fact. When I say we like our women natural, we do.
It’s not insecurity it’s attention seeking!!! Someone whose insecure would be to scared to have that level of attention thrown their way!! Women crave attention and nowadays the easiest way to get it is by having sexually exaggerated bodies!!
@@UncleRoams people seek attention for various reasons,.....it could be because their lonely, it could be for validation or its just in their personality to be ceter stage!
I got a BBL over 14yrs ago before all these instagram girls caught on to it or social media and when it was very expensive to get done. I didn’t get it for a man but to fill out my clothes and look better naked when I saw myself in the mirror. I actually only wanted hips and did the gym thing for yearssss before I got it done. But mind you, I don’t have Instagram or post pics of my body for attention. But again, this was BEFORE social media. I hate that these New Age BBL women have messed it up for women like myself who really did GET IT DONE FOR MYSELF, MYSELFFFF!!
Maybe if you say myself enough times you will convince yourself it's true. You cut in to the body God gave you for attention from men whether you believe it or not.
@@u.n.c.undernewconsideratio4063 I 👏🏽 SAID 👏🏽 WHAT 👏🏽 I 👏🏽 SAID. Now you fake Christian so fake concerned about another STRANGER’s body. Why don’t you take that same FAKE concern and go evangelize or worry about ministering to the homeless which I think GOD would judge you more on than worrying about I did to MY body.
The same could be said for a woman who hit the gym and lost 75 lbs naturally. She's gonna show it off too in most cases, especially given how she actually had to put in the hard work. My only concern with bbls are the health risks. Imo, most black women are naturally blessed, and we don't need a bbl. Most of us could get those same results with sqauts, some diet changes, and a few sit-ups. That said, men can't have it both ways. If you want a woman with an IG baddie body, other men are gonna want her, and because of all the work she put into her appearance, she's gonna exude a confidence that an insecure man will take issue with. Most people labeled "arrogant" are only called that by other people who lack self-confidence. We're quick to slap women who know they look good or have a lot going for themselves as stuck-up or arrogant. A man who's not secure enough in who he is to have a very beautiful woman on his arm without trying to dim her light, should get a woman who's 40 lbs overweight or doesn't put work into her appearance and leave those other women alone.
Deuteronomy 23:17 “There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel." Deuteronomy 23:18 “Thou shalt not bring the hire of a whore, or the price of a dog, into the house of the LORD thy God for any vow: for even both these are abomination unto the LORD thy God.”
Me personally, even though the attitude and other things can be factored into it, I'm just not into fake beauty. Now I know some things are done to enhance or achieve a certain style(like with certain weave tracks)and I'm fine with that when done tastefully(still not my thing,but I get it). But when it comes to body enhancement,even if I were into it,many females get horrible jobs done in turn making them look way worse than what they started with,look like a body shop just threw some bondo and fiberglass on without any prep or finish work to mold and contour it to a great finish (any car guy knows what that look like in the end).
Another male view… natural = wife. Fake = good time. I like both, but only one is my desired wife. The other is a physical desire and NOT a wife for me. The desire to enhance your beauty seems to be to attract the attention of the world… which leads to the character issues you spoke of. I want a woman who only wants my gaze and attention. .. and a natural body = a higher probability that will be true. Nothing is guaranteed but I know which one I’m betting on and which one will get a ring from me.
Oh snap! You in DC? What's good, neighbor! I can tell you're a very modest woman, as you're one of the few creators I've seen that doesn't have her assets in the shot to keep the retention rate high. So you might not understand that the majority of women today aren't modest. Black church was always a fashion show. I guess now the show has evolved to include not only what labels you're wearing, but getting work done as well. The shameful thing is that there are women who were born with curvy bodies who do their best not to be a distraction, meanwhile the women who bought theirs (who likely grew up jealous of the curvy women) flaunt theirs. I'm not saying that women have to be "shame faced" like some denominations do, but 1 Timothy 2:9-10 still applies.
Thank you for noticing that I do my best to be modest while filming. Esp since most of my viewers are men. I have lived in Maryland for over 8 years and I love it here! 🙌🏾
@nnekaonyilofor awesome! I'm a content creator also. I have a couple of faceless channels, but this is my personal one. I've lived in Maryland 20 years. Glad you're enjoying it. Looking forward to seeing more of your content.
Have hard men saying they only use bbls but not for marriage that bad some say they snell so bad I recently did a research about the blood clots makes them smell anyways
Its women competiting with other women. Becky and Snow bunnies did it first. Then sistas follow. Becky been wearing extensions in their hair, eye lashes and foundation on their face along with colorful make up. True story i use to date this girl when she was 19,she was bonafide 9/10.... my cousin met her and was like OMG how did you get her, fast forward 20 later. She has a bunch of bright colors on her face gobs of weave. She saw me on facebook an i had no idea who she was. i was like oh my how the mighty has fallen. i asked her why she wears so much make up and weave. Her hair was pretty and so was her face back in 90s??? She looked better than toni braxton back in those days.
Liking fashion has nothing to do with showing every crack and crevice of your body. BW in the past didn’t show so much and were still fabulously pretty and classy. These women are showing way more than Chaka Khan, a non BW like Raquel Welch, Pam Grier, and India Arie-all women who had or have extremely curvaceous bodies, and they didn’t have to advertise it in an unladylike fashion to let you know they were attractive.
Until we begin to accept that there is a cultural shift in our society, we will never understand the why. Our societal value system has/is changing drastically and maybe not for the best. Consider this, we accept the evolution of everything else in our lives, cars from the 1960 verses today's cars, rotary phones to these mini computer we walk around with everyday, why is it we are so opposed to someone wanting to change their looks? Is it because we think its dangerous, and someone could die? Humans have been modifying their bodies since ancient times with piercings, today it's the next level of modification for individual reasons. A lot of guys will come on here and say the want a natural woman and that is their choice and rightly so. I strongly believe that all the BBLs and other body changes might be a form of body dysmorphia, much like the guy in the gym who is / or is not a competitive bodybuilder, but is obsessed with bigger muscles. The only difference is he/she is working hard to get it....with maybe some illegal pharmaceutical help, while the others are going under the knife. Both of these result in death in some cases. Why do we accept one and not the other? Are both of these cases a self-esteem issue? Does wanting to look better a self-esteem issue? Food for thought.
I always said natural I don’t even like even they wear plenty make up, extra long eyelashes and nails.. wigs and such I don’t mind but damn nothing natural is wild
Is it necessary for religion to hold this frame of logic/reason & the nature of human beings. Logic and reason and simply put education can elevate a people and their culture.
Unpopular scenario: i wanted surgery to be invisible. After years of bullying/torment/ostracism during formative years- you can start to believe you don’t even look female _(as an adult in her late twenties I can see I have a hyper feminine baby face, my face looks the same as it did a decade ago. I also have a petite frame, AA cups, narrow hips of not just a narrow waist)_ From age 14 I had a decade long struggle where I would dream of superhero surgeons giving me fillers, injections, minimally invasive and extremely invasive surgeries. Even fantasized about getting lower ribs removed so I wouldn’t have boy hips ( I don’t, repeated rejection and boys copying each other can destroy your self perception) At this time I didn’t know I had body dysmorphic disorder (fun fact; if a broad online says she’s struggled with that there’s a 99% chance she’s s liar or genuinely moronic enough to not know the difference between dissatisfaction + poor body image + misperception + having emotions of DYSPHORIA not pathological visualizations of DYSMORPHIA ugh 😑 But I thought this would just help me look like every other girl and not standing out. Blending in is a sounds like saftey when you’re used to a life of torment and chronic rejection. No one comments on women who blend in rather than stand out for positive or negative reasons. After my loving father passed i couldn’t afford to save for anything. It’s tragic I lost him when I did but I bet if i didn’t I’d have a whole bunch of work done on my face & below the neck. My husband is the only one i ever could make me believe I didn’t look like a cruel prank of nature & am beautiful to him😅 Btw I knew all about these currentlypopular injections, other cosmetic procedures, BBLs and other plastic/cosmetic surgeries before most people had ever heard of them because i was goin through this as a Zillenial not a Zoomer who just wants attention on social media (never even had a social media le stuff before it was popular to know about because I’m a Zillenial not a Zoomer
Three years later in highschool the same girl who use to joan on me, was trying to FXXXX me, i utterly refused. She made me feel horrible in 7th grade. i never wanted anything to do with her, i didnt see her as attractive anymore, no matter how fine she was. alls i could see is the girl who constantly joan on me every day for months until i went overbaord. To get her to stop i literally had to concoct some damaging rumour that had partial truth. Which made her denial of it seem like she was lying to everyone an made folks laugh at her. She became the laughing stock of the school for that year. to the point the principal got involved to end our year long beef. he wanted me to be sorry and remorseful i held the line, I said i saw her coming out of my home boys house, what was she doing over there. she cant deny she snuck into his house when his parents werent their. im not sorry, this girl talks crap about me every day. Do what you gonna do i dont care. needless to say i didnt get into any trouble with the girl. But they made sure we didnt have the same classes ever again even in highschool. That girl literally was stalking me in 10th grade. she would send love notes to other girls i had classes with, she would catch up to me outside of class in the hallway and even with a group of 8 girls surrounded me outside the school asking me a bunch of sexual questions an trying to get me to consent. i kept on rejecting her, because how deeply she hurt me back in 7th grade. i could never feel anything for her. Not even lust. i said all that to say, alot of people who are making fun of you. KNOW they are not as pretty as you. Many of those thick girls dont have flat stomachs. They got tires around their waste or muffin tops. Alot of thick girls look good in clothes but not so good in binkins. The issue is you have youthful face, and young body. But your only 24 now. AT 24 i still had six pack abs and was 150lbs. i found out alot of girls who use to talk trash were mostly the less attractive. An knew they had no chance with me thats why they would joan on me every chance they got. I have so many different stories. The only attractive woman who talked about me was the girl above and her friend. But all the others were either obese or facially challenged. An dudes i wasnt cool with fit the same boat, they would roast me, My friends or the guys i clicked with were the pretty boys. One of my best friends was approached to be model. So i only hung out with men who was cool with me, i ignored the other guys because they were too envious. People will make fun of you if you look better than them.. Some will just roast you, other times one on one they will tell you things like. You think your better than everyone else. Your concieted or stuck up. So the roasting is really a way to bring you down to their level and humble you. Because they feel as if you know how good you look. My point about your body, You are slim and petite. My Ex wife was 18 when she approached me, i was 30. An her body is 121lbs, an she is about 5f6 to 5ft7, She has long locs too. Girls would literally try to asked her infront of me, how did you get him. I be like wait a minute you mean how did i get her. Because she younger and better looking than me. I would have to check women talking ish. Because she was skinny with B-cups women thought they could compete. My ex wife was so small. When i worked in education one of my students had said hello to me when we was at the library. My Ex wife was like who is that woman? i said thats a kid didnt you hear her saying she is in junior high, my ex wife was jealous an thought the girl was lying about being young, she was like that girl is bigger than me, how is she still a kid.By this time my ex wife was about 24 years old. i had to let her know that the kids both boys and girls always say whats up me when they see me in the old neighborhood. My ex wife didnt know how fine she was, she literally had abs with out working out My Advice to you instead of surgery, just get athlethic. 1. To keep our girlish figure simply do body weight exercies to enhance it. Push ups, squats, sit ups and calf raises 5 days a week. 2. You could do weights like squats and lower body exercies to build your hips and booty. But alot of men love a skinny girl with skinny hips. If your attracted to much older men. Your body type will be what they desire. The only draw back is you need to approach older men, because we are weary of women being underage so we dont approach alot of women we see because we are not sure if their atleast 18 or not. So if you approach us, lead with how old you are, you will have more options. Most older men will look at you but never approach you for that reason alone. There are ways to get guys to approach like for instance if your 24 years old wear clothes that show your graduation date from highschool. If a man sees that he knows your old enough to approach you. i dislike tattoos, but if you already wear them, having them visible an alot of them will make men know your old enough the only draw back is you will be the fun gurl not so much the wife for non thuggish men. if you have a car, everytime you get out your car, is a good time to approach a man because he can see you driving with car keys in your hand. Wearing outfits that are both SEXY but older will make you seem like your legal age for men to approch. Also being extroverted and outgoing will put older men at ease. all my life if a girl looked too young, i would run the other way, But if she has things that indentify she is 18 i would give her a chance. i dont like smokers, But if you smoke in public or outside its indentifer too, College shirts also. anything saying university. You just need to have something showing your over the age 18 or 21....For men to approach you or not run away when you try to approach them. Go to places like bars and clubs where the age limit is 23 and up only. in my city there are skating rinks that have 23 and up session. perfect for women who look real young in the face. men hust dont want to be set up,. so thats why so men may avoid you, because they have no idea how old you are. just do things to keep your looks the same, but outer stuff to show your of age. Thats really your only problem. most women your age look like the women who were 60 years old back when i was a kid. Body Build Wig or WEAVE FACE full of make up Elderly women back in the 70s and 80s wore alot of cosemtics and glamour, an thats when they started to gain weight and become fulfigured. So if your slim and petite with youthful face, Lots of girls your age will envy you and turn other men against you, because your rare. an men dont want to be ostracized from other potential women unless he knows its sure thing you like him. in other words you could be bonafie 10/10. Men wont approach you because they fear the rejection. If you reject them the chances are the other girls wont give him play because she will feel like he only coming to her because he couldnt get you. Average and below averrage females shame and insult men for going after better looking women and even no fat women. i have had women at my job try to shame, insult even fear monger me into not being with girls who were at work. At my old job i had girls from 29 all the way to 19 trying to sleep with me. i had an older lady say these young girls going to get pregnant, they are fertile stick with women your own age who are past menopause. im like women in their 40s still get pregnant too, also if i was messing with all these young girls why on earth would i not want kid, I am childless. The whole purpose of having a child is to be father. I have no children, plus im at a place in my life i can afford kids. She was like buy child support. I said t her there are two types of women i seek to impregnant. ONE who is slim and beautiful so my girls and boys can have those genes an be pretty. or a girl who is over the height of 6ft2 so my boys can be really tall. if a girl is 6ft4 or or 6ft5 an wants to be pregnant i dont care what the outcome is my sons are going to have alot of her height. But my question was, do people not use condoms with younger girls anymore. i remember i was 25, this lady had to be 40. i guess she thought i liked older women because i was so intellectual. I said older women are fine but i like younger women too. she was trying to trash talk younger women infront of a gurl who was younger. i just use old girl as a propt. I said looo at her, she is beautiful with a banging body. most older women aint built like her, they let themselves go. i like attrative women, slim or athlethic, an i also her dark skin tone she is so beautiful. plus we can talk all day long she is very intelligent even though she is younger than me by a few years. We as men love younger women, why are your beng disresepctful telling me im wrong for what i like? im only 25. why shouldnt i like younger women????
Thank you for your openness. Very interesting that surgery would have made you invisible and not stand out. I get what you mean and being teased is very difficult. I hope you are secure in your decision to stand out and not blend in with the masses!
Black men...when asked why we don't marry our women anymore...have NEVER said..."because she/they needs a bigger butt". More likely...that a man might say too many BW are/have: Crappy attitude Overweight (code word" "curvy") Brings nothing tangible to a potential union Brings other man/men's children Is incredibly materialistic Is masculine Is tens if not hundreds of thousands in debt Is self centered/selfish I could go on. Notice...nothing about body parts. How do BW respond to BM's complaints? They buy fake bodyparts...
It is total self idolatry, definitely takes away from the focus on The Most High! She shouldn’t be leading anything, anywhere, she is doing the work of Satan.
When i was younger, i use to love women with really big butt, the bigger the better, or really huge breast ie 48DDD are bigger But through experiences i realize there are tradeoffs The down size to this: 1. With age the big breast begin to sag and arent perky as pretty 2. The women with bigger breast or booty have muffin top or fupa 3. If they lose weight their breast that use to be plump and round becomes flatten 4. With sistas after 21 they dont ride good if they are overweight 5. With snow bunnies and becky after about 30 they dont ride good if they are big 6. Tunnel vision is only turn on, if i look at any other part of her body i get turned off 7. Post nut clarity: i usually lose attraction after i climax. 8. Thick Women look better with clothes on that accenutates their breast and body and hides their midsection AS i got older like 30, is when i really started to appreciate skinny girls my age. I still love younger skinny girls and young thick girls. But skinny girls have some advantages. The disadvantage is during the winter time the skinny girls are invisible because you cant see their body. Unless her face is gorgeous she is not much to look at if she wears baggy clothes, the last time i saw any woman who face was breath taking was about 5 years ago. She was cool i got her phone number but she was like 25 years younger than me an wanted marriage and a baby. She was skinny never saw her body, but she was so fine she was hard to look at. Benefits to skinny girls 1. There bodies look good no matter the age. 18 years old, 30 years old even 60 years old. 2. They look better in bikinis or no clothes on. 3. After i climax there is nothing about their body that turns me off 4. I can stay aroused and stay stiff after i climax and keep going with no breaks for hours 5. They are more flexible and can do certain posistions bigger women cant 6. They can ride the top faster and harder and longer 7. The Yoga Posistion: (frog pose) for doggystyle There are other things just seeing them walking around your house in a thong or skimpy clothes is much more a turn on. Even megan the stallion is losing weight to get skinny. But also with the BBL thing going on it really makes liking a gurl with a donkadonk hard to trust. Because i have seen some online i couldnt tell it was BBL it wasn't many who had a deceptively great job done. But no telling what they look like offline. But it makes me leary to approach a girl with donkadonk. Its fun sometimes having alot back there but i want it just be real. Thats why more than ever skinny is preferred. Because not every woman can nautrally have have huge breast or big butt. But the bare minium is everyone can get skinny with the right diet for your blood type and consistent exercise 3 to 5 days a week. i have dated women over 60 since my 30s. i have had thick ones and skinny ones, The ones that made me climax the hardest was skinny ones. They getting these BBLs for no reason after a certain age men start to desire slim petite. Thick is for young thundas.
Woooooo😮oooooooow.....U just said a mouth full. As a black man that is in love with chocolate coated queens who are built like Cadillacs with a pretty pair of headlights and a nice bumper, I can honestly say that I agree & disagree. Personally I would much rather have a woman that I knew was natural than one who had been put together like a Tonka truck. Just my opinion
@@DeeDaKang1 im not attracted to women wiith fake body parts. i perfer a slim gurl like Willow Smith or Malia Obama or Coi Leray. But there are women i would have fun with because her butt is big. But thats not my first choice. NO BBLs and NO Breast impants for me. How ever being a much older man, I have a thing for big breasted women, An as a woman ages her perky breast being to become droopy or saggy, Many women as they age or lose weight those big plump breast go from looking full to flatten. Which simply doesnt turn me on. If they are big i prefer them to be Plump and Full like beach balls. I have only seen one woman age 60 with pretty breast in my entire life. How ever an older woman with big butt usually never gets old. Its just the muffin top, fupa or tire around their waist thats a turn off. I do love a flat stomach on a woman more than big butt or big breast. if Her stomach is flat with abs her breast size or butt has no revelance.
I believe this poster has jealousy issues with these type of women? These women are her competition and although she has a thick body as well it's not *Packaged* the same!!!
@@nnekaonyilofor maybe jealous is not the correct word? Perhaps envious or resentful would be a better choice! There has to be something there because you make a lot of videos regarding these types of women - the BBL, Instagram baddie types? And for influencers like you; you would have to believe their winning on some level if it prompts you to make a video challenging their choices & behavior! Although I find some of your videos relevant….you can see how one’ would determine that you sound like you’re hating at times?? Because you wouldn’t make videos about someone(collectively) if you thought they were losing!!!
@@knowEgoYour assumption is fair. One of the reasons why most BW don’t talk about BBLs is because of the fear that someone will say they are jealous. I happen to be secure enough with myself not to let that fear stop me. The question shouldn’t be why I make the videos, by why do ppl watch them? Several of mine have gone viral. Ppl appreciate the analysis and are looking for someone bold enough to speak about it.
Man here. Speaking for myself. 100% natural, i.e., 100% real. No enhancements and over adornments.
FACTS
Women use body enhancements for other women, some women feed off clicks, views and likes.
Men don't give a dam about the BBL BS as a matter of fact we clown yall.
It took a 3rd world childhood, with actual child labor and receiving discipline from public school teachers, for me to realize the Bible is about gratitude, humility and self-sacrifice.
First world parents need to teach this, ideally while avoiding overindulgence or over-promising a life free of all external stressors, because this life isn't even the end-all-be-all.
I am nothing; HE is everything! That's where inner peace comes from.
If I see a female pastor with a BBL I’m assuming she is fornicating. 🤷🏾♂️
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Us men has always said natural over fake, the women just doesn’t listen.
That's not what the Kardashian Era says! YOu know it's like men with this they prefer blondes thing but complain about fake blondes.
@@LindseyDean-hp7qg don’t be fooled by social media and tv. Real is what we like.
@@jordanharris5435The same mediums these lying pickmes use to for their content. They think they're so slick!
Facts
Leviticus 19:29
Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness.
Say it again!!!.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE FOLKS IN THE BACK!!
Thank you Sis for being the light in this dark world we find ourselves in ❤
I appreciate hearing that! 🙏🏾💜
Genuine body, genuine person. It's just that simple.
I want what the Lord has given her........not what human gave her .......Ladies love yourself and stop loving what society want you to be
No, the paid for physical body is less attractive than the natural body. We say this stuff constantly and women do not listen. Your natural body is FINE.
preach
Even if it's not fine it's still better than the fake body.
There should be a line between the secular and the spiritual.
Not a line. A canyon.
Nope! We want a more natural gym fit body over a BBL. We'll layup with a lady with a BBL, but we're not wifing them.
You are equal to anyone you lay with! If you think less of someone, why lay with them? Just curious…
"[3] Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. [4] Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight." 1 Peter 3:3
God warns them BBL chicks and Rainbow Folks. Mathew 7:21-23
Mathew 7:21-23 The Bible Warns you
Imagine going to do your bbl surgery praying to God that your surgery be successful when God has nothing to do with that stuff. Worse when you claim to be a christian telling people to trust God and love yourself.
I really don't understand the appeal of an exaggerated woman's body at all. BBL's, very thick legs, huge bums and breasts - these are not attractive to me at all. My own wife is tall, very slender, and dark skinned and that's what I like.
I have never heard a man say they want or desire. A BBL.
You are a older man, this new generation of men do
@@DemureDarlingsno they don’t. They lay down with them but don’t marry them. What he said ,Has nothing to do with age.
its simply for attention and to say i look better than you. No too many reasons to invest that much time and effort into looking sexy for church if its all about the message. yes it does take away from the message, and that is why people think church is a joke nowadays. Not sure whats going on the wyte community but in the blk community, we're trying hard to bridge the gap between what it means to live christian life and a city girl life.
2 Timothy 3:2 In-Context
1 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days.
2 People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy,
3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good,
4 treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God-
5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.
Beautiful Bible verse. Sad. But beautiful.
The Kardashians started all that NOT even being black women and they've been very successful so far. Just because they were already the preferences of alot BM!
Thanks Lord for bible study class
Thanks Lord for the church I attend
Psalm 95
Man here. I 100% prefer women with natural hair, no body altercations and dresses modestly. Us men have always stated that we like our women with natural hair, it’s just that simple. But nah, most don’t listen.
Also let me make this clear.. WE DONT CARE ABOUT BODY PARTS! You can have a big butt with a crappy attitude. If you think you need BBLs in order to make yourself look beautiful, no one will take you seriously and that’s a fact. When I say we like our women natural, we do.
A lot of our sisters are extremely insecure
It’s not insecurity it’s attention seeking!!! Someone whose insecure would be to scared to have that level of attention thrown their way!!
Women crave attention and nowadays the easiest way to get it is by having sexually exaggerated bodies!!
The only reason people seek attention is because they’re insecure.
Because that's how many BM want it! Stop "capping"!
We need MORE strong independent BW then!
@@UncleRoams people seek attention for various reasons,.....it could be because their lonely, it could be for validation or its just in their personality to be ceter stage!
I got a BBL over 14yrs ago before all these instagram girls caught on to it or social media and when it was very expensive to get done.
I didn’t get it for a man but to fill out my clothes and look better naked when I saw myself in the mirror. I actually only wanted hips and did the gym thing for yearssss before I got it done.
But mind you, I don’t have Instagram or post pics of my body for attention.
But again, this was BEFORE social media.
I hate that these New Age BBL women have messed it up for women like myself who really did GET IT DONE FOR MYSELF, MYSELFFFF!!
Thank you for sharing and for your transparency!
Maybe if you say myself enough times you will convince yourself it's true. You cut in to the body God gave you for attention from men whether you believe it or not.
@@u.n.c.undernewconsideratio4063 I 👏🏽 SAID 👏🏽 WHAT 👏🏽 I 👏🏽 SAID.
Now you fake Christian so fake concerned about another STRANGER’s body.
Why don’t you take that same FAKE concern and go evangelize or worry about ministering to the homeless which I think GOD would judge you more on than worrying about I did to MY body.
I feel that. I don’t like my “hip dips” but I’m just going to resort to doing targeted glute workouts.
You’re correct, I’d rather she plant based diet and intermittent fast while exercising
The fashion show is in the church…..,,no good thing dwells in the flesh…
Thanks you for say that 💯
Woww that guy made a good point I didnt really mind some but if we have kids the original will show.
The same could be said for a woman who hit the gym and lost 75 lbs naturally. She's gonna show it off too in most cases, especially given how she actually had to put in the hard work. My only concern with bbls are the health risks. Imo, most black women are naturally blessed, and we don't need a bbl. Most of us could get those same results with sqauts, some diet changes, and a few sit-ups.
That said, men can't have it both ways. If you want a woman with an IG baddie body, other men are gonna want her, and because of all the work she put into her appearance, she's gonna exude a confidence that an insecure man will take issue with. Most people labeled "arrogant" are only called that by other people who lack self-confidence. We're quick to slap women who know they look good or have a lot going for themselves as stuck-up or arrogant. A man who's not secure enough in who he is to have a very beautiful woman on his arm without trying to dim her light, should get a woman who's 40 lbs overweight or doesn't put work into her appearance and leave those other women alone.
Deuteronomy 23:17
“There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel."
Deuteronomy 23:18
“Thou shalt not bring the hire of a whore, or the price of a dog, into the house of the LORD thy God for any vow: for even both these are abomination unto the LORD thy God.”
Did the collection plate pay for the bbl🤔
Me personally, even though the attitude and other things can be factored into it, I'm just not into fake beauty. Now I know some things are done to enhance or achieve a certain style(like with certain weave tracks)and I'm fine with that when done tastefully(still not my thing,but I get it).
But when it comes to body enhancement,even if I were into it,many females get horrible jobs done in turn making them look way worse than what they started with,look like a body shop just threw some bondo and fiberglass on without any prep or finish work to mold and contour it to a great finish (any car guy knows what that look like in the end).
Another male view… natural = wife. Fake = good time. I like both, but only one is my desired wife. The other is a physical desire and NOT a wife for me. The desire to enhance your beauty seems to be to attract the attention of the world… which leads to the character issues you spoke of. I want a woman who only wants my gaze and attention. .. and a natural body = a higher probability that will be true. Nothing is guaranteed but I know which one I’m betting on and which one will get a ring from me.
Very interesting. Thank you for your honesty. That makes sense.
Oh snap! You in DC? What's good, neighbor!
I can tell you're a very modest woman, as you're one of the few creators I've seen that doesn't have her assets in the shot to keep the retention rate high. So you might not understand that the majority of women today aren't modest. Black church was always a fashion show. I guess now the show has evolved to include not only what labels you're wearing, but getting work done as well.
The shameful thing is that there are women who were born with curvy bodies who do their best not to be a distraction, meanwhile the women who bought theirs (who likely grew up jealous of the curvy women) flaunt theirs. I'm not saying that women have to be "shame faced" like some denominations do, but 1 Timothy 2:9-10 still applies.
Thank you for noticing that I do my best to be modest while filming. Esp since most of my viewers are men. I have lived in Maryland for over 8 years and I love it here! 🙌🏾
@nnekaonyilofor awesome! I'm a content creator also. I have a couple of faceless channels, but this is my personal one. I've lived in Maryland 20 years. Glad you're enjoying it. Looking forward to seeing more of your content.
If your man does not object to you risking your life getting a BBL, he dont love you sis.
Jezebels ; church of Thyatira.
Revelation 2:20,21,22,23.
Men don’t want it but the women don’t listen. End of discussion
Have hard men saying they only use bbls but not for marriage that bad some say they snell so bad I recently did a research about the blood clots makes them smell anyways
Men of GOD wants how GOD made u not no man smh dont fall in by the serpent like our foremother eve
Its women competiting with other women.
Becky and Snow bunnies did it first. Then sistas follow.
Becky been wearing extensions in their hair, eye lashes and foundation on their face along with colorful make up.
True story i use to date this girl when she was 19,she was bonafide 9/10....
my cousin met her and was like OMG how did you get her, fast forward 20 later.
She has a bunch of bright colors on her face gobs of weave. She saw me on facebook an i had no idea who she was.
i was like oh my how the mighty has fallen.
i asked her why she wears so much make up and weave. Her hair was pretty and so was her face back in 90s???
She looked better than toni braxton back in those days.
Liking fashion has nothing to do with showing every crack and crevice of your body. BW in the past didn’t show so much and were still fabulously pretty and classy. These women are showing way more than Chaka Khan, a non BW like Raquel Welch, Pam Grier, and India Arie-all women who had or have extremely curvaceous bodies, and they didn’t have to advertise it in an unladylike fashion to let you know they were attractive.
Until we begin to accept that there is a cultural shift in our society, we will never understand the why. Our societal value system has/is changing drastically and maybe not for the best. Consider this, we accept the evolution of everything else in our lives, cars from the 1960 verses today's cars, rotary phones to these mini computer we walk around with everyday, why is it we are so opposed to someone wanting to change their looks? Is it because we think its dangerous, and someone could die? Humans have been modifying their bodies since ancient times with piercings, today it's the next level of modification for individual reasons. A lot of guys will come on here and say the want a natural woman and that is their choice and rightly so.
I strongly believe that all the BBLs and other body changes might be a form of body dysmorphia, much like the guy in the gym who is / or is not a competitive bodybuilder, but is obsessed with bigger muscles. The only difference is he/she is working hard to get it....with maybe some illegal pharmaceutical help, while the others are going under the knife. Both of these result in death in some cases. Why do we accept one and not the other? Are both of these cases a self-esteem issue? Does wanting to look better a self-esteem issue? Food for thought.
I always said natural I don’t even like even they wear plenty make up, extra long eyelashes and nails.. wigs and such I don’t mind but damn nothing natural is wild
Real men want a natural woman 💯 … Men infested with demons want women with BBL, 60” nails and sorts of enhancements
Christopher Wray
allegations
My dear, you just
have to protect your daughter and yourself and just leave these other Black Women behind...
Nneka! Love your content. But, stop parsing your words! Say it strong and proud! If they're wrong headed, say so! We love you!
I receive it!
Is it necessary for religion to hold this frame of logic/reason & the nature of human beings. Logic and reason and simply put education can elevate a people and their culture.
Unpopular scenario: i wanted surgery to be invisible. After years of bullying/torment/ostracism during formative years- you can start to believe you don’t even look female _(as an adult in her late twenties I can see I have a hyper feminine baby face, my face looks the same as it did a decade ago. I also have a petite frame, AA cups, narrow hips of not just a narrow waist)_
From age 14 I had a decade long struggle where I would dream of superhero surgeons giving me fillers, injections, minimally invasive and extremely invasive surgeries. Even fantasized about getting lower ribs removed so I wouldn’t have boy hips ( I don’t, repeated rejection and boys copying each other can destroy your self perception)
At this time I didn’t know I had body dysmorphic disorder (fun fact; if a broad online says she’s struggled with that there’s a 99% chance she’s s liar or genuinely moronic enough to not know the difference between dissatisfaction + poor body image + misperception + having emotions of DYSPHORIA not pathological visualizations of DYSMORPHIA ugh 😑
But I thought this would just help me look like every other girl and not standing out. Blending in is a sounds like saftey when you’re used to a life of torment and chronic rejection. No one comments on women who blend in rather than stand out for positive or negative reasons. After my loving father passed i couldn’t afford to save for anything. It’s tragic I lost him when I did but I bet if i didn’t I’d have a whole bunch of work done on my face & below the neck. My husband is the only one i ever could make me believe I didn’t look like a cruel prank of nature & am beautiful to him😅
Btw I knew all about these currentlypopular injections, other cosmetic procedures, BBLs and other plastic/cosmetic surgeries before most people had ever heard of them because i was goin through this as a Zillenial not a Zoomer who just wants attention on social media (never even had a social media le
stuff before it was popular to know about because I’m a Zillenial not a Zoomer
Three years later in highschool the same girl who use to joan on me, was trying to FXXXX me, i utterly refused. She made me feel horrible in 7th grade. i never wanted anything to do with her, i didnt see her as attractive anymore, no matter how fine she was. alls i could see is the girl who constantly joan on me every day for months until i went overbaord. To get her to stop i literally had to concoct some damaging rumour that had partial truth. Which made her denial of it seem like she was lying to everyone an made folks laugh at her. She became the laughing stock of the school for that year. to the point the principal got involved to end our year long beef.
he wanted me to be sorry and remorseful i held the line, I said i saw her coming out of my home boys house, what was she doing over there. she cant deny she snuck into his house when his parents werent their. im not sorry, this girl talks crap about me every day. Do what you gonna do i dont care.
needless to say i didnt get into any trouble with the girl. But they made sure we didnt have the same classes ever again even in highschool. That girl literally was stalking me in 10th grade. she would send love notes to other girls i had classes with, she would catch up to me outside of class in the hallway and even with a group of 8 girls surrounded me outside the school asking me a bunch of sexual questions an trying to get me to consent.
i kept on rejecting her, because how deeply she hurt me back in 7th grade. i could never feel anything for her. Not even lust.
i said all that to say, alot of people who are making fun of you. KNOW they are not as pretty as you. Many of those thick girls dont have flat stomachs. They got tires around their waste or muffin tops. Alot of thick girls look good in clothes but not so good in binkins.
The issue is you have youthful face, and young body. But your only 24 now. AT 24 i still had six pack abs and was 150lbs. i found out alot of girls who use to talk trash were mostly the less attractive. An knew they had no chance with me thats why they would joan on me every chance they got. I have so many different stories. The only attractive woman who talked about me was the girl above and her friend. But all the others were either obese or facially challenged.
An dudes i wasnt cool with fit the same boat, they would roast me, My friends or the guys i clicked with were the pretty boys. One of my best friends was approached to be model. So i only hung out with men who was cool with me, i ignored the other guys because they were too envious.
People will make fun of you if you look better than them.. Some will just roast you, other times one on one they will tell you things like.
You think your better than everyone else. Your concieted or stuck up. So the roasting is really a way to bring you down to their level and humble you.
Because they feel as if you know how good you look.
My point about your body, You are slim and petite. My Ex wife was 18 when she approached me, i was 30. An her body is 121lbs, an she is about 5f6 to 5ft7, She has long locs too.
Girls would literally try to asked her infront of me, how did you get him. I be like wait a minute you mean how did i get her. Because she younger and better looking than me. I would have to check women talking ish. Because she was skinny with B-cups women thought they could compete. My ex wife was so small. When i worked in education one of my students had said hello to me when we was at the library. My Ex wife was like who is that woman? i said thats a kid didnt you hear her saying she is in junior high, my ex wife was jealous an thought the girl was lying about being young, she was like that girl is bigger than me, how is she still a kid.By this time my ex wife was about 24 years old. i had to let her know that the kids both boys and girls always say whats up me when they see me in the old neighborhood. My ex wife didnt know how fine she was, she literally had abs with out working out
My Advice to you instead of surgery, just get athlethic.
1. To keep our girlish figure simply do body weight exercies to enhance it. Push ups, squats, sit ups and calf raises 5 days a week.
2. You could do weights like squats and lower body exercies to build your hips and booty. But alot of men love a skinny girl with skinny hips. If your attracted to much older men. Your body type will be what they desire. The only draw back is you need to approach older men, because we are weary of women being underage so we dont approach alot of women we see because we are not sure if their atleast 18 or not. So if you approach us, lead with how old you are, you will have more options. Most older men will look at you but never approach you for that reason alone. There are ways to get guys to approach like for instance if your 24 years old wear clothes that show your graduation date from highschool. If a man sees that he knows your old enough to approach you.
i dislike tattoos, but if you already wear them, having them visible an alot of them will make men know your old enough the only draw back is you will be the fun gurl not so much the wife for non thuggish men.
if you have a car, everytime you get out your car, is a good time to approach a man because he can see you driving with car keys in your hand.
Wearing outfits that are both SEXY but older will make you seem like your legal age for men to approch.
Also being extroverted and outgoing will put older men at ease.
all my life if a girl looked too young, i would run the other way, But if she has things that indentify she is 18 i would give her a chance.
i dont like smokers, But if you smoke in public or outside its indentifer too, College shirts also. anything saying university. You just need to have something showing your over the age 18 or 21....For men to approach you or not run away when you try to approach them.
Go to places like bars and clubs where the age limit is 23 and up only.
in my city there are skating rinks that have 23 and up session. perfect for women who look real young in the face.
men hust dont want to be set up,. so thats why so men may avoid you, because they have no idea how old you are. just do things to keep your looks the same, but outer stuff to show your of age. Thats really your only problem.
most women your age look like the women who were 60 years old back when i was a kid.
Body Build
Wig or WEAVE
FACE full of make up
Elderly women back in the 70s and 80s wore alot of cosemtics and glamour, an thats when they started to gain weight and become fulfigured.
So if your slim and petite with youthful face, Lots of girls your age will envy you and turn other men against you, because your rare. an men dont want to be ostracized from other potential women unless he knows its sure thing you like him.
in other words you could be bonafie 10/10.
Men wont approach you because they fear the rejection.
If you reject them the chances are the other girls wont give him play because she will feel like he only coming to her because he couldnt get you.
Average and below averrage females shame and insult men for going after better looking women and even no fat women.
i have had women at my job try to shame, insult even fear monger me into not being with girls who were at work.
At my old job i had girls from 29 all the way to 19 trying to sleep with me. i had an older lady say these young girls going to get pregnant, they are fertile stick with women your own age who are past menopause. im like women in their 40s still get pregnant too, also if i was messing with all these young girls why on earth would i not want kid, I am childless. The whole purpose of having a child is to be father. I have no children, plus im at a place in my life i can afford kids.
She was like buy child support. I said t her there are two types of women i seek to impregnant. ONE who is slim and beautiful so my girls and boys can have those genes an be pretty. or a girl who is over the height of 6ft2 so my boys can be really tall. if a girl is 6ft4 or or 6ft5 an wants to be pregnant i dont care what the outcome is my sons are going to have alot of her height.
But my question was, do people not use condoms with younger girls anymore.
i remember i was 25, this lady had to be 40. i guess she thought i liked older women because i was so intellectual. I said older women are fine but i like younger women too. she was trying to trash talk younger women infront of a gurl who was younger. i just use old girl as a propt. I said looo at her, she is beautiful with a banging body. most older women aint built like her, they let themselves go. i like attrative women, slim or athlethic, an i also her dark skin tone she is so beautiful. plus we can talk all day long she is very intelligent even though she is younger than me by a few years. We as men love younger women, why are your beng disresepctful telling me im wrong for what i like? im only 25. why shouldnt i like younger women????
Thank you for your openness. Very interesting that surgery would have made you invisible and not stand out. I get what you mean and being teased is very difficult. I hope you are secure in your decision to stand out and not blend in with the masses!
@@nnekaonyilofor very uplifting I love this
People stand out the most usually are the most envied and lusted after.
Apt ❤
Black men...when asked why we don't marry our women anymore...have NEVER said..."because she/they needs a bigger butt". More likely...that a man might say too many BW are/have:
Crappy attitude
Overweight (code word" "curvy")
Brings nothing tangible to a potential union
Brings other man/men's children
Is incredibly materialistic
Is masculine
Is tens if not hundreds of thousands in debt
Is self centered/selfish
I could go on.
Notice...nothing about body parts. How do BW respond to BM's complaints?
They buy fake bodyparts...
Beauty is vain in God words
It is total self idolatry, definitely takes away from the focus on The Most High! She shouldn’t be leading anything, anywhere, she is doing the work of Satan.
These are doing this for other women, men do not care.
#Insanity
When i was younger, i use to love women with really big butt, the bigger the better, or really huge breast ie 48DDD are bigger
But through experiences i realize there are tradeoffs
The down size to this:
1. With age the big breast begin to sag and arent perky as pretty
2. The women with bigger breast or booty have muffin top or fupa
3. If they lose weight their breast that use to be plump and round becomes flatten
4. With sistas after 21 they dont ride good if they are overweight
5. With snow bunnies and becky after about 30 they dont ride good if they are big
6. Tunnel vision is only turn on, if i look at any other part of her body i get turned off
7. Post nut clarity: i usually lose attraction after i climax.
8. Thick Women look better with clothes on that accenutates their breast and body and hides their midsection
AS i got older like 30, is when i really started to appreciate skinny girls my age. I still love younger skinny girls and young thick girls.
But skinny girls have some advantages.
The disadvantage is during the winter time the skinny girls are invisible because you cant see their body. Unless her face is gorgeous she is not much to look at if she wears baggy clothes, the last time i saw any woman who face was breath taking was about 5 years ago. She was cool i got her phone number but she was like 25 years younger than me an wanted marriage and a baby. She was skinny never saw her body, but she was so fine she was hard to look at.
Benefits to skinny girls
1. There bodies look good no matter the age. 18 years old, 30 years old even 60 years old.
2. They look better in bikinis or no clothes on.
3. After i climax there is nothing about their body that turns me off
4. I can stay aroused and stay stiff after i climax and keep going with no breaks for hours
5. They are more flexible and can do certain posistions bigger women cant
6. They can ride the top faster and harder and longer
7. The Yoga Posistion: (frog pose) for doggystyle
There are other things just seeing them walking around your house in a thong or skimpy clothes is much more a turn on.
Even megan the stallion is losing weight to get skinny.
But also with the BBL thing going on it really makes liking a gurl with a donkadonk hard to trust.
Because i have seen some online i couldnt tell it was BBL it wasn't many who had a deceptively great job done. But no telling what they look like offline.
But it makes me leary to approach a girl with donkadonk. Its fun sometimes having alot back there but i want it just be real. Thats why more than ever skinny is preferred. Because not every woman can nautrally have have huge breast or big butt. But the bare minium is everyone can get skinny with the right diet for your blood type and consistent exercise 3 to 5 days a week.
i have dated women over 60 since my 30s. i have had thick ones and skinny ones, The ones that made me climax the hardest was skinny ones.
They getting these BBLs for no reason after a certain age men start to desire slim petite.
Thick is for young thundas.
Woooooo😮oooooooow.....U just said a mouth full. As a black man that is in love with chocolate coated queens who are built like Cadillacs with a pretty pair of headlights and a nice bumper, I can honestly say that I agree & disagree. Personally I would much rather have a woman that I knew was natural than one who had been put together like a Tonka truck. Just my opinion
@@DeeDaKang1 im not attracted to women wiith fake body parts. i perfer a slim gurl like Willow Smith or Malia Obama or Coi Leray. But there are women i would have fun with because her butt is big. But thats not my first choice. NO BBLs and NO Breast impants for me.
How ever being a much older man, I have a thing for big breasted women, An as a woman ages her perky breast being to become droopy or saggy,
Many women as they age or lose weight those big plump breast go from looking full to flatten. Which simply doesnt turn me on. If they are big i prefer them to be Plump and Full like beach balls.
I have only seen one woman age 60 with pretty breast in my entire life. How ever an older woman with big butt usually never gets old. Its just the muffin top, fupa or tire around their waist thats a turn off. I do love a flat stomach on a woman more than big butt or big breast. if Her stomach is flat with abs her breast size or butt has no revelance.
Very descriptive post Geno! You really should write a romance novel.
@@nnekaonyilofor That part 📖
@@nnekaonyilofor people have been saying that to me since I was 16 years old.
I believe this poster has jealousy issues with these type of women? These women are her competition and although she has a thick body as well it's not *Packaged* the same!!!
Correct. It is not packaged the same…perhaps even better. No need for me to be jealous of any woman.
@@nnekaonyilofor maybe jealous is not the correct word? Perhaps envious or resentful would be a better choice!
There has to be something there because you make a lot of videos regarding these types of women - the BBL, Instagram baddie types? And for influencers like you; you would have to believe their winning on some level if it prompts you to make a video challenging their choices & behavior!
Although I find some of your videos relevant….you can see how one’ would determine that you sound like you’re hating at times?? Because you wouldn’t make videos about someone(collectively) if you thought they were losing!!!
@@knowEgoYour assumption is fair. One of the reasons why most BW don’t talk about BBLs is because of the fear that someone will say they are jealous. I happen to be secure enough with myself not to let that fear stop me. The question shouldn’t be why I make the videos, by why do ppl watch them? Several of mine have gone viral. Ppl appreciate the analysis and are looking for someone bold enough to speak about it.
The Bible says,God forbid a woman to speak in the church,that's why no woman should be a pastor
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