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Nneka C. Onyilofor
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I am a former African American and African history college instructor. My RUclips content is a marriage between my academic knowledge, lived experience, and societal observations as a contemporary Black woman. As the author of two books, I highlight topics that are not widely discussed. I also provide cultural commentary from the perspective of a modern Black woman.
My business, Curated Legacy LLC, helps aspiring self-published authors and RUclips content creators to get started and grow. If you are interested in my speaking, coaching and/or consulting services, please reach out to me on Instagram @nnekaonyilofor or go to: nnekaonyilofor.com.
My business, Curated Legacy LLC, helps aspiring self-published authors and RUclips content creators to get started and grow. If you are interested in my speaking, coaching and/or consulting services, please reach out to me on Instagram @nnekaonyilofor or go to: nnekaonyilofor.com.
Tia Mowry Finally Reveals Why She Divorced Her Husband (Part 1).
Tia Mowry low key reveals why she got a divorce from Cory Hardrict. Is there a difference between being covered and controlled? Let's discuss it.
Tia Mowry Reveals Husband Cory Hardrict Won’t Allow Her to Participate In a Certain TikTok Trend:
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Tia Mowry Reveals Husband Cory Hardrict Won’t Allow Her to Participate In a Certain TikTok Trend:
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My Own Gaze: Memoir of an Invisible Black Woman
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The Real Reason Why Some Black Women Are Single (Part 3).
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Dr. Chyenne Bryant was on Cam Newton's show several weeks ago. I could not believe how she interacted with him. Do you think her attitude contributes to why she has been engaged four times and is still single? Let's discuss it. This is Part 3 of my analysis of her recent exchanges with Black men. My Website: www.nnekaonyilofor.com/ JOIN My Black & Invisible Membership: ruclips.net/channel/UCesk...
Pastor’s Wife Gets A BBL…And This Happens…(STS 7)
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This is part 7 of the Slim Thick Series (STS). I discuss Nona Jones, a pastor's wife, mother, author, entrepreneur, and former seeker of a BBL. Is it acceptable for Black women church leaders to get body modification surgery? Let's discuss it. Slim Thick Series Playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLUBWAj_ByDGmzoTnKNw1WPH4hR9kZsaUG My Website: www.nnekaonyilofor.com/ Become a Channel Member (Black & Invisib...
What No One Tells Black Women Until It’s Too Late (STS 6).
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This is part 6 of the Slim Thick Series (STS). I explore the various ways that Black women are not "doing their research". I also examine the rise of Turkey as the plastic surgery discount mecca and some of the dangers happening there. Below is the playlist for this series. Stay tuned for more. Slim Thick Series Playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLUBWAj_ByDGmzoTnKNw1WPH4hR9kZsaUG My Website: www.nnekaony...
What No One Tells Black Women, Until They Turn 40 (Part 2).
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Dr. Chyenne Bryant was interviewed by Nick Cannon not long ago and revealed her list of preferences for the men she is willing to date. Are her expectations unrealistic? Let's discuss it. My Website: www.nnekaonyilofor.com/ JOIN My Black & Invisible Membership: ruclips.net/channel/UCeskSjOawsNehsmblSRFs4Ajoin My Book: My Own Gaze: Memoir of an Invisible Black Woman www.amazon.com/My-Own-Gaze-Me...
The “Alpha Submissive” Black Woman (Part 1)
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Dr. Chyenne Bryant was interviewed by Nick Cannon not long ago. He often struggled to get a word in during this interview with her (she often tried to over talk him). He also implied during the interview that he can tell that she has an "Alpha" personality. Dr. Bryant actually does self-identify as an "Alpha Submissive" woman. Can a woman be both "An Alpha" and submissive? Let's discuss it. My ...
What Black Women Never Admit About “Real” Beauty
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What Black Women Never Admit About “Real” Beauty
The Real Reason Why Black Women Stopped Getting BBLs (STS 5)
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The Real Reason Why Black Women Stopped Getting BBLs (STS 5)
The Reason Why The Sisterhood Wants To Cancel Me (Part 2)
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The Reason Why The Sisterhood Wants To Cancel Me (Part 2)
Will The Black Community Ever Forgive Kamala Harris?
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Will The Black Community Ever Forgive Kamala Harris?
The Real Reason Black Women Won’t Vote For Kamala Harris
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The Real Reason Black Women Won’t Vote For Kamala Harris
She Inspired Black Women To Be Thick…This Is How They Repaid Her (STS 4).
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She Inspired Black Women To Be Thick…This Is How They Repaid Her (STS 4).
The Message To Modern Women That Will Get Me Canceled (Part 1).
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The Message To Modern Women That Will Get Me Canceled (Part 1).
How Black Women’s Curvy Bodies Fail Them (STS 3)
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How Black Women’s Curvy Bodies Fail Them (STS 3)
She Was A Successful Video Model…and then This Happened…(STS 2)
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She Was A Successful Video Model…and then This Happened…(STS 2)
The Problem With Modern Black Women
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The Problem With Modern Black Women
How ‘Buffie The Body’ Started The Slim Thick Epidemic (STS 1)
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How ‘Buffie The Body’ Started The Slim Thick Epidemic (STS 1)
What No One Told You About Black Love
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What No One Told You About Black Love
Over 40, Single, and Finally Ready To Mingle
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Over 40, Single, and Finally Ready To Mingle
She “Hit The Wall” and It Hurts (Part 1)
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She “Hit The Wall” and It Hurts (Part 1)
She Wanted A BBL Since Middle School…But Who’s To Blame?
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She Wanted A BBL Since Middle School…But Who’s To Blame?
What No One Tells Beautiful Black Women About The Men They Desire.
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What No One Tells Beautiful Black Women About The Men They Desire.
How Black Women’s Bodies Became A Tragedy
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How Black Women’s Bodies Became A Tragedy
Modern Black Women Tell On Themselves…This Is How…
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Modern Black Women Tell On Themselves…This Is How…
She Wanted To Be Thick…And Then This Happened…
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She Wanted To Be Thick…And Then This Happened…
Black Women & The Other Side Of Curvy
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Black Women & The Other Side Of Curvy
How Black Women’s Bodies Became A Monolith
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How Black Women’s Bodies Became A Monolith
What Black Women Are Not Telling You About Their Body
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What Black Women Are Not Telling You About Their Body
How Black Women Lied About Kevin Samuels (The Remix)
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How Black Women Lied About Kevin Samuels (The Remix)
Tia, congratulations upon “graduating” from your marriage👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. What certificate was that? A diploma? A masters? A PhD? Did you also graduate from your children? Because they were part of the equation. Gal, enjoy your freedom!! You are free from anybody and anything, now you are alone, free!!!😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
I don't know these two people but from their body language I'd say that he was the arrogant one...
I'm a black man who likes skinny women , my cut off is 115 pounds . I'm a leg man
Corey was protecting Tia from herself. Once he left her to make her own decisions: shes looked at as a 🤡 and used as an example of what NOT to do in a marriage. Remember Tia "graduated" from her marriage, ...no allegations of infidelity or wrong doing on Coreys part. Tia issue like alot of modern women nowadays is they want to maintain their freedom/autonomy while shedding their accountability/responsibility in all aspects of life.
I like your channel. You speak a lot about BBL and its dangers. BBL’s are dangerous and shouldn’t be procedure people risk their life for. But there hasn’t been a discussion on weight and how weight loss is not priority. I feel more blk women are affected by obesity vs BBl’s.
@YvonneWoods-e3x I actually have a few videos about weight too.
Stop saying negative words about Tia. Either say something positive or just pray for her,!!! Worry about what you have going on in your life!!!!
Tia loves to be impulsive and Cory and Tamara are more calculated in how they maneuver the career path and private life Cory has been private with his personal life Tia loves to be out there with everything the fact Tia announces her divorce on the same day Tamara come out with her book Tia wants all the attention
I've always admitted your beauty. Keep shining darling 😊
I have a connect to this family and heard some things back in 2020 from someone who was regularly at the house. Cory is traditional Christian and intentionally chose not to interact with the “Hollywood” life. Tia started collaborating with the LA influencers, they started filming her at the home etc. etc. And this is when things went left. I’ve lived out in LA for almost 10 years and the nuclear family is NOT supported out here…at all. This is probably why Tamara chose Napa Valley with her husband & kids✌🏽 From what I heard, Tia started hanging around certain celebs and influencers that started commenting on Cory’s demeanor and unwillingness to interact or adapt to the “LA Vibe”. Tia started feeling like she wanted to explore her spirituality and be ‘free’ with her new LA friends. Cory wasn’t having it. He felt like she was putting a target on their family. Tia felt like this was control. Basically the marriage seems to have ended because of different values. Same thing with her & Tamara. Tamara has different values and has had issue with how Tia has treated her for years😮💨 And this is coming from a neutral source.
@Lavi_407 Thank you for this Intel. It makes a lot of sense and somewhat confirms my analysis here.
@@nnekaonyilofor You were spot on
Absolutely NOT!🤨
I think she doesn't want to be under structure, it doesn't matter who her husband is. She just wanted to do whatever she wants to do and her kids will suffer for it.
Afro american women and black south african women are very rude, i'am not even interested to marry one of you.
in my own opinion Black Americans women and black south african women are unfaithful, My self i will marry a white Woman.
Black American women and Black South african Women you dont know the value marriages, white women have wisdom and most of White women are married and happy.
its a system White Peoples made it in the U.SA, most of the afro americans are in prisons but afro american Women are well educated and not married, same system they made it in South africa, Black South african Men are in Prison and Black South african women are well educated.
Hi that think exist only in the U.S.A, i come from D.R.C Congo,90% of women are married in The Congo.
CAM NEWTON SOUNDING LIKE A WHOLEEEE CLOWN
It would appear this presenter analysis smacks of personal experience. Pro 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
There's beauty in everyone we just have to know where to find it. Be aware of your own beauty. Nuture the things you find beautiful about yourself. You won't be everyone's cup of tea but you will be someone's cup of Hot Chocolate or Carmel Mocha Latte.
Weak Minded due to Self Examination, Non Accountability and Multigenerational Feminist Influence.
🤔🤔Tia is full of s***. And this is the hyena sisterhood backing her up.... Thank God he got away from her she did not deserve him. She is just trying to get to the streets and she will use anything including his reputation to get there. 💯💯💯💯💯
I enjoyed your take on this. There are pitfalls in having too much choice. It's known as the "Paradox of Choice".
(7:35) No guy should tell a woman to smile. Maybe he should CAUSE her to smile instead? If she's not talking to you she doesn't owe you anything.
@3:35 She cannot throw Corey under the bus because there's no justification. She ditched her family and is suffering the effects. She's now just throwing ahit st the wall to see what sticks. She's indirectly accusing him and you're helping to push that idea.
Cap! Tia CHOSE to MARRY Corey. Tia CHOSE to DIVORCE Corey. Tia CHOSE to REBEL against Corey's SYSTEM, ORDER, and STRUCTURE for ATTENTION of those who don't CARE about HER. The JEZEBEL SPIRIT has been "LOOSED" in the WEST.
What B.S.!!!! She CHOSE to divorce....Keep drinking the Kool-Aid and trying to make Tia a victim.....Total B.S....
What trumps being married with children? Not being married, and child free, with a successful career, good friends, and living your life for yourself on your own terms. I have been divorced for over 15 years, I have never been happier, and divorcing my husband was the best decision I made for my life. Women had to get married and have children back in the day, they had to attach themselves to a man to survive, and they out up with a lot of ebuse, and infidelity. Now we are free to work, get educated, own homes, our own bank accounts, and care for ourselves, and marriage and children is not really a priority or a desire for many of us. Marriage is not a flex, or a highly sought out position, and it doesn't mean a thing to say you are a wife, especially if you are married to a cheating, disrespectful, ebusive man. It definitely doesn't mean a thing if you are just going to end up a divorced, single mother. Women are not children, they don't need to be controlled by anyone, especially a man. If getting married means you lose your autonomy, it isn't worth it. There are plenty of couples who have been together 30 years plus in committedrelationships, some with no children, and have never married. There is more to life for women than to be married to some man, and risking your life to have his babies, so much more. Not all women desire the same life, stop shaming and trying to punish them for making the best decision for their lives to be happy and fulfilled.
I feel like it was a controlling and ebusive relationship, and she is not putting it on blast because of their kids. I don't understand the h8t she is getting, just because she got a divorce, all of these people act as though they know what went on in that marriage behind closed doors, how dare she leave that good black man...how do you know he was good. If she is not happy, why should she stay, to please a bunch of strangers she doesn't even know, the black community is really a hot mess of crabs in the bucket. I am happy for her, she will find love again, and she doesn't have to get married again to do so. She seems like a good person and has never been problematic, yall just h8t to see black women put themselves first, and that's tragic.
She was jealous of her husband having to work jobs to pull a check that she had to work twice as hard, lol. Now, that he's making way more money than her, she mad. Which means she was always the bread winner, he just let her shine and she hated it. Just admit, she never was wifey material and you can tell by her behavior and the way she talked nonsense about break up her family and dumba$$ graduation from leaving a good man. Now, she got no man, he was not jealous of her. A mom in the public eye shouldn't being make risky video when has girls and claiming woman power. Now she lonely and making thristy bait and traps. She thought she made more money him, so stop spreading lie, remember she had to work twice to make what made from one project. That 75 million wasn't because had no talent.
She is focused so much on feeling. FEELING lies
You are walking a fine line by saying Tia finally says why she divorced. All she really said was that she had freedom to choose. Now as to being covered vs controlled. No man wants his wife or significant other putting herself out there for all to see, especially if you have children. Her son has already complained about her behavior as being embarrassing. So, Tia has thrown Corey under the bus as she did not consider his feelings nor those of her children. She claims to be a Christian, but her fruit is rotting on the vine. Covering means to provide structure, protection, guidance and problem solving on behalf of your family. You may not always agree with a request, but unless it totally off the wall or dangerous it’s there to order things. Now it appears that she is in chaos/crisis by her own doing. She chose for whatever reason to end her marriage.
This had nothing to do with her husband. This is a selfish woman that thought her husband was her problem. Always look at the relationships she has with everyone around her. She doesn't even talk with her sister anymore.
For someone who does not want to be accountable it is considered controlling
Lol! He’s controlling. He’s part of the patriarchy… blah blah blah.
I agree with you. I think he was controlling too. .
These daily rap up cats is 🤡’s. They keep letting these triccs get by with too much BS!
This is why I CANT STAND African triccs! 🗑️🗑️🗑️
Dude! Bring TARIQ NASHEED on this panel! These dudes is 🤡’s and letting these broads do to much! These so called “MEN” is just too busy trying to be liked and get some 🐈 . I’m DEFINITELY not subscribing to this 🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️✌🏼
She saw him at the bus stop & gave him a ride-choice. She fell in love with & got married to him-choice. She procreated not once but twice with him-choice. She stayed with him all those years-choice. She divorced him-choice. Choices galore!!! Now,years later,she got an epiphany & realized she would choose/had choices? When a hubby is protecting his wife & mother of his kids frm herself,what is controlling abt that?
These LAME host don’t even give no data or statistics about Blk American men being the best fathers, most wealthy, richest and successful. I respect yaw for trying to, but doing better.
This happens to a lot of women who got married earlier when they get into their 40’s. They get bored, think they missed out then enter a savage dating market where their value has dramatically decreased and regret it.
You've always had a choice. You just keep making the wrong choices. He was controlling? Stop the B.S. I'm a therapist and you're not. You have to call some people on their Bull... you're part of the sista club. You don't know them. I've followed these 2 for years. What she did was out of selfishness. She thought that her stock value was higher than it actually is. What men wants their wife to show their body to the world? You feminist are something else. I will never view anything from you sgain.
I love this woman so much
This is one of the exact reasons why so many men don't want to get married anymore. Too many women expect the covering of a man with no boundaries. They have a rebellious heart that don't seem to understand that the boundaries keep everybody safe and upstanding. Tia divorced her husband because she wanted to be rebellious. And now everyone is looking at her like she's lost her mind
She’s miserable.
Tia is the problem. She is influenced by negative energy.
There are those of us who walked away from our marriages for REAL reasons, like an unfaithful, abusive spouse. However, if Tia walked away because she wanted to be allowed to 'wild out' without Cory saying anything about it, she didn't deserve him and had no business being married in the first place. Tia exudes selfishness to me, and words can't express how disappointed I am in her.
Your right nobody cares.
10:26 I truly like African style and dress.