What nobody tells you about pregnancy
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
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I had 2 tough pregnancies. My body didn’t enjoy being pregnant. I was nauseous for 9 months. I watched every video and nothing came as a surprise. Although feeling crappy I felt very prepared…. Until after giving birth, no one prepared me for the days after and healing from giving birth. That was a shocker that nobody prepared me for.
Me too. No-one tells you what the healing is like from a vaginal birth. Not fun. I was prepared for everything except that. I knew breast feeding would be challenging, but I was prepared for that. Also had a really hard pregnancy and threw up all the way through. I slept a ton during pregnancy until a few days before. However, my daughter was super healthy at seven pounds at birth.
I feel ya. HG with both my pregnancies.. rough postpartum and adjustment to parenthood without a village. Love my kiddos but I think two kids is definitely my limit.
It’s not that no one tells you this stuff, it’s that it wasn’t on your radar until you got pregnant. I don’t want viewers to think this is something shocking and mysterious - it’s all common. There is really no “typical” pregnancy but that doesn’t mean everyone’s experience isn’t common in many ways. We should all know by now that EVERY pregnancy is different, even for a single person. I don’t mean to be obnoxious, but I watched pregnancy depicted in social media in such normal ways but made to look like it’s not common. I don’t know what this speaks to, but when I was pregnant 18-25 years ago all of this was still common and known. Pregnancy is the same as it always has been, and social media is making it seem like some strange and baffling experience.
Really really appreciate you both being open and discussing the hard parts of pregnancy and hopefully parenting as well in the future. Social media can paint a deceiving picture and can be very misleading. It’s not rainbows and butterfly’s, it’s freaking hard. As an vlogger and influencer it’s respectable that you both are being REAL about your journey for others to see. Some may not be ready to jump into a life change so challenging right now so it’s refreshing to see the real side of pregnancy. Thank YOU. Keep being real.
I think there is so much pressure to present a perfect image of pregnancy, because it's a miracle, a blessing. And so when it's not perfect, and things aren't great, people don't want to admit that they are "different" when in reality, most women have issues along the way. My sister had fertility treatments for years and finally had her much wanted baby, who promptly proceeded to scream the first three months of his life. Yet he was the "miracle" baby and she didn't want to complain when it turned out to be allergies to milk whey making him cry/sick. I think it's great that you are being real about what happens when things aren't perfect and sunshine and happiness. It's probably helping someone who wonders what's wrong with them.
Acupuncture helps a lot with eating and feeling better. It's really hard and your life is changed forever, especially after the baby is born, but being on the other end of raising kids I can tell you it's all worth it. So many memories. It will be okay.
Why is she so obsessed with comparing herself to others and who is posting when? It does not matter what other people are doing. Goodness. Kids aren’t a social status issue….theyre human lives.
Sparkling flavored water was what got me through my pregnancy…also the milk is probably good because your body needs extra calcium during pregnancy
Fruit especially melon taste good when I was pregnant too. I had morning sickness first trimester. It eased the second trimester. Then the third trimester my back and feet hurt. Toward the due date I could not wait to meet my son. After pregnancy things begin to return to normal. But its an adjustment. I read everything I could on pregnancy. Thank You for sharing.
Jonas a pregnancy glow first comes from the eyes of whoever is pregnant and their joy makes them physically look great as well but you can just see it in someone. Even if people are sick the whole time the eyes tell all!!
This is an example where social media can be misleading. People only share their best times and not enough of the real stuff. Pregnancy, birth and postpartum are dangerous and difficult. There’s nothing really glamorous about it, in reality.
Great video, very entertaining, keep up the good work with the podcast, you are doing great, fingers crossed for a smooth journey until September :)
I love being a mom but I hated every minute of both of my pregnancies. I puked through the first 28 weeks of my first, and the ENTIRE 37 weeks of my second. As a normally very fit athletic person, I was absolutely miserable pregnant and completely baffled by women who enjoyed it.
I’ve never been pregnant but I have a pregnancy pillow for my back problems and I love it! I was a level 10 gymnast for 4 years and I had lower back surgery when I was 16.
Yikes! Im sorry
THE BEST THING TO DO IS ASK YOUR MOM, SHE'S BEEN THROUGH IT, THAT BEING SAID, YOUR EXPERIENCE WILL BE YOURS, AND THEY ARE ALL DIFFERENT.
This is definitely a useful topic to ponder.
Love your podcasts y’all xxx
But, you truly look beautiful! Don’t compare yourself to everyone! 💜 Love your glow
Prepping for pregnancy is VERY much like Prepping for life after the baby arrives. People tell you how hard it can be, but no one believes it until it's right there in front of you. I'm sure you're hearing all the stories now, ahead of time, of sleep deprivation, babies having colic, painful childbirth recovery, and, as already mentioned, the sleep deprivation.. but life would be utterly miserable if you took all that on bars before you get to that bit. It's the same with pregnancy - even if toy KNEW how horrible it 'could' be, you aren't going to not go ahead and have a baby based on rhe 'what ifs'.
Pregnancy glow is definitely real and usually comes about in the 2nd to 3rd trimester…your right after morning sickness
Your definitely need a pillow but I saved money and just got two body pillows from Walmart
2 mins in Mykayla - REMEMBER that for after the baby comes - no new mom feels like they look or post on social media AFTER the baby comes 😜. Those dreamy photos of baby's toes, of looking refreshed, like you're getting more than 3 hours sleep in a row... it'll be like a real hot mess scenario behind the scenes, just like EVERY mom. Just know, if / when you don't FEEL like others social media posts look like, you're doing just perfect 👌
And everything that comes with it, from postpartum to parenting, etc.
Could you show us your shape? (Clothed of course). It is fun to watch your progress.
From what you say your sickness during pregnancy sounds like what my mother had with her three pregnancies. It was the same for all. Lasted right till she gave birth each time. I had 3 pregnancies but morning sicknesses did not occur much, don’t think i threw up even once. I just felt a bit erky when i looked at uncooked meat in shops during the early weeks.
I got nauseous 3 months before I got pregnant. It was 24/7 and I didn't puke but I'd get so close to tossing my cookies. After getting pregnant the morning sickness amplified a lot, but I still couldn't puke. My Dr prescribed Diclegis and it was a life saver!!!!! I got 3 months of relief before baby was so on my stomach that the nausea was back 24/7.
Ginger ale helped me (has to be the stuff with real ginger). And prayer. I couldn't digest gluten while pregnant.
If you see this, check out ‘Medical Medium Cleanse to Heal’ book for your pregnancy sickness. And an aid for drinking water, add 1/2 a lemon to 16 oz of water with a couple teaspoons of raw honey, helps you flush out your liver taken 1st thing in the morning and taken during the day gives you natural electrolytes, hydrating you and the baby.
I had horrible pregnancies. Hypermedia gravidum before they would diagnose it. Preterm labor and bedrest for 4 weeks with my first and 10 weeks with the 2nd. (They are 13 months apart). After having labor stopped, they had to induced me with both and I couldn't have an epidural because I had a previous back injury. It sucked. The babies are great, pregnancies suck.
I one thousand percent looked worst in both my pregnancies lol
have you tried the circl water bottle
How many weeks is she?
I think with the second if you have them close together you also have the first to concentrate on so the nausea doesn’t feel as bad 😂
I watched a birth vid many years ago, I think on the learning channel, and it as ummm jarring seeing it so stretched and a head coming out. lol.
No, you don't need to worry about not eating before lunch.. Baby is basically a parasite and you will be the one to suffer (which is why you take pre-natal vitamins.) The 2 things that I think aren't discussed or dealt with well are when breastfeeding doesn't go well or as planned and the Baby Blues. Both of these things can be brutal in terms of mom guilt. Hopefully, you will be totally fine and not have them but if you do, it is there are ways though both that don't lead to mom guilt!
From 1994-2006 the US Navy had a screw up in my medical file.
I was pregnant.
Any questions, ask me.
I know all about it.
Get a pregnancy pillow!! You will feel so much better!!
I honestly never want to get pregnant. My experiences just with hormonal birth control were so bad that I never want to do anything that messes with my hormones again. Plus, I have chronic iron deficiency anemia, and I know that that can get a lot worse with pregnancy and childbirth, and it can be really dangerous (or fatal) for the fetus.
I’m also just more of a dog mom
I mean this in a living way like one might love a younger brother. Jonas, your naivety is just gorgeous. it's such a blessing seeing you grow through this amazing, terrifying, wonderful and awe-inspiring experience of becoming a father. A year from now I hope you both go back thru these videos and react to them. SO MUCH MORE will be revealed in just this coming year, things you can't even begin to comprehend right this moment, but yet will be utterly 'wow' a year from now 🥰
You know that I am going to have soon
Read the girlfriends guide to pregnancy...it is pretty real. Not everyone enjoys pregnancy..that's ok.
You’ll figure it out as you go. No need to take notes of peoples advice
Do you even read any of these comments? 🤔
Maybe do not eat meat… there’s a lot of indication your diet and lifestyle were not compatible with pregnancy and you’re missing nutrients…
Try a pillow in between your legs when sleeping.
Why would anyone want to "workout" during pregnancy. Walking and stretching is enough.
Well every person & pregnancy is different. For those that do feel good and enjoy working out should continue to do so if they choose & there doctor or health care provider is happy for them too. No, not everyone feels well or works out but many people still do and both are completely fine 😊
God planned it to be a lot of work to get through pregnancies 🫣 The reason you glow is because your body is doing all the work for 2 people. Your skin is moister because of greater body heat. Every little one is unique but a perfect creation of GOD. Every pregnancy will be different. My first wife gave me 6 beautiful sons & daughters EVERY PREGNANCY WAS DIFFERENT. The mother of my first 6 children didn’t want to get pregnant but she got pregnant on the honeymoon. She started crying because she felt the presence of our first son inside her body and instantaneously wanted to have as many children as she could. Yes, she felt all the pains & discomforts that pregnancies cause but the sacred feeling of her body being the portal from Heaven into mortality overwhelmed her with intense burning spiritual love.
Why did you need to inject god into this when it’s really, factually, naturally just human biology…reproduction is as basic as it gets. It’s no miracle…