MUST WATCH! NO SEX IN 7 YEARS! MY ABSTINENCE JOURNEY UPDATE | WAITING UNTIL MARRIAGE FOR SEX

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  • Опубликовано: 26 май 2024
  • Hey Y'all Hey! In this video, I share an update on my abstinence journey. As always, I pray you are blessed AND entertained by this video. Thank you for watching and please don't forgot to SUBSCRIBE! :)
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    MENTIONED SCRIPTURES
    Psalms 37:4 Delight yourself in the Lord;
    And He will give you the desires of your heart.
    Matthew 6:33 But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided to you.
    Philippians 4:11 Not that I speak from need, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am.
    1 Samuel 15:7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God does not see as man sees, since man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
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Комментарии • 311

  • @faithwalkwithgodtdk
    @faithwalkwithgodtdk Месяц назад +172

    Amen! I got out of my own way and stopped fornicating and dating in a very intentional way. I prayed to God, asking him to forgive me and guide me. Within that year God sent my husband who I married 6 months after meeting. We're now 21 years strong 💪🏾🙏🏾 He that finds a good thing finds favor within the Lord. I had to stop my sin and let God make me the Good Thing for my husband to find. I pray the same for all of you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

    • @diautumn4515
      @diautumn4515 Месяц назад +2

      Amen!!🙏

    • @shay9262
      @shay9262 Месяц назад +2

      Yes thank you for this !

    • @ShirleyMSmith-qx3le
      @ShirleyMSmith-qx3le Месяц назад +1

      I been exit from sex since I was 50 year old now I'm 62 I thank God for keeping me from sex and I planned staying this way until GOD BLESS ME WITH THE HUSBAND HE SEE ME WITH I'M WAITING ON GOD ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THAT ANYWAY IT'S ABOUT BEING ABOUT GOD FIRST.

    • @audreyashu5496
      @audreyashu5496 Месяц назад +1

      I decided not to have it, but when you start dating a guy they keep insisting they want intercourse before marriage, the relationship just ends...just praying for God to give me a man who will respect my decision 🙏

  • @rareflower72
    @rareflower72 Месяц назад +135

    No sex in 15 years; Any kind! God is a keeper. Its a journey. It's a lot of denying of the flesh, daily. It's not a struggle at all, but it was not like that at first. I still believe God will bring the right man when it's time if that's God's will. I'm happy and at peace. It was the grace of God. Thank you Jesus!!!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Месяц назад +7

      🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @gillianzohnert2323
      @gillianzohnert2323 Месяц назад +3

      What a wonderful testimony

    • @LucindaJones-ef1ym
      @LucindaJones-ef1ym Месяц назад +1

      What if you never meet that man of your dreams then what? You wait 15 more years. Are you talking so crazy? God gives each and every one of us free will. No sex in 15 years is absolutely crazy. We are human beings created to have someone touch us to hold us. I feel so sorry for you

    • @thulani2640
      @thulani2640 Месяц назад +4

      ​@LucindaJones-ef1ym you don't know the lord, I hope you really Repent

    • @Veritas0claire
      @Veritas0claire Месяц назад +2

      @@LucindaJones-ef1ym Matthew 19:12 The Passion Translation (TPT)For some are born to celibacy; others have been made eunuchs by others. And there are some who have chosen to live in celibacy for the sacred purpose of heaven's kingdom realm. Let those who can, accept this truth for themselves.”

  • @santinabrothers
    @santinabrothers Месяц назад +70

    "The Lord knows who we will be married to and He will reveal it in His time!!" AMEN!!!

  • @seedssoilsunshine2909
    @seedssoilsunshine2909 Месяц назад +59

    LaLa I've been celibate since 2007 with no regrets and will continue to be until I marry again. I was married for 34 years then got divorced. I took the time to work on me to become WHOLE so I'll be ready for my husband for life. And sex is a state of mind. I'm not climbing the walls in lust. Thank you Jesus 🙏🏼

  • @rakystalewis9431
    @rakystalewis9431 Месяц назад +93

    It made 6yrs this year for me.🎉
    This is totally ALL GOD🙌🏾
    I never run across people like me😂 But when I do it's very refreshing💞💞

    • @Martini829
      @Martini829 Месяц назад +7

      Same. I never run into ppl like me. July will be year 6 for me as well. 🎉

    • @rakystalewis9431
      @rakystalewis9431 Месяц назад +3

      @Martini829 Congratulations sis🎉🎉🎉 Yes it's crazy how rare it is to be on this journey. But what God has told me and shown me that "it's truly a calling to walk this special walk within the walk" everyone isn't given the grace to do this, and for that alone I am honored he chose to use me as a vessel to go this route.
      With God ALL things are possible🙏🏾❤️
      Stay prayed up, WE are 6yrs AND COUNTING🙌🏾🫂

    • @kaylahood1000
      @kaylahood1000 Месяц назад +1

      Same I don’t run into people like me either. And I’m 34 years old.

  • @ashley7056
    @ashley7056 Месяц назад +63

    I was just talking to someone saying how I’m not dating, nor am I concerned about it. And they said I was crazy. Haha but what that conversation revealed to me was this is not something to share with everyone because not everyone will understand and sometimes it’s not for them to understand. All that to say (lol), I’m with you ❤

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Месяц назад +3

      Exactly‼️

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 Месяц назад

      Well, we will be crazy together. This is a well needed topic. Watch your testimony will be proof our God withstands it all.

  • @luckdjinasimeon7
    @luckdjinasimeon7 Месяц назад +41

    I just want to say for those who are waiting on the Lord for marriage, make sure in that season of waiting that you are closing any open doors and breaking every evil covenant and curses as result of sin in your life, that could have been made by you or those in the bloodline before you. Repent renounce denounce any anti-marital spirit that could be fighting your marriage from your foundation. The spirit realm is more real than the natural. many of us have no idea how much our delays and setbacks is coming from unseen issues.
    Sometimes it’s God saying it’s not time but a lot of times is because of unseen curse.

    • @everybodytalkstodemons5892
      @everybodytalkstodemons5892 Месяц назад +1

      Amen!

    • @prettynblue
      @prettynblue Месяц назад

      I agree with this. The Lord has been dealing with me about this because I noticed a pattern with the men that have shown interested in me and how they turned out to be complete polar opposites than me. It was God's protection and grace that have these guys be removed. I couldn't help but think, why haven't any decent guys that came close to being compatible with me expressed interest? It was always the opposite. I was thinking about these patterns and realized that there is something else going on other than these guys being sent to distract me. It feels like literal traps that the enemy was setting especially because I had to put a restraining order on one and some were even married. The ones that were single had the wrong intentions and ended up ghosting (God's protection).

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 Месяц назад

      Preach. Thank you👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @morningpraise2910
    @morningpraise2910 Месяц назад +51

    When I fell into sin it tainted everything about me I THANK GOD for making me clean again.🙏🙏🙏

  • @glowuplife
    @glowuplife Месяц назад +54

    This really rocked my world 🌎! I was abstinent before meeting my now hubby. We have been married almost 2 years now and we met and married within 4 months. Things have not been perfect but when I tell you the lord has been transforming us in ways seen and unseen, I can’t describe! Keep going LaLA! To God be the glory! He’s using you tremendously

  • @favourbuthelezi9436
    @favourbuthelezi9436 Месяц назад +15

    No sex for 16 years,I thank Almighty God for everything in Jesus Mighty name 🙏 He is able no matter what ❤

  • @kryssydlacy920
    @kryssydlacy920 Месяц назад +55

    Praise GOD SIS. I’m going on 5 years. I’m so thankfully. The years go fast. 🥰❤️🙏🏾

  • @heremefquist9968
    @heremefquist9968 Месяц назад +18

    I am going to 31 years and I have been abstinent all of my life. I have no regrets irrespective of the pressure from people, society , etc put you in. It pays off in the end.

  • @unknown-vh7uj
    @unknown-vh7uj Месяц назад +34

    I dated a Delta in 2014 and I met her at Church. I fell in love somewhat, but the Holy Spirit kept telling me to get to know her. She wanted sex mostly because she was worshipping Manerva, while I was seeking God and I truly wanted a wife. So she started bragging on her sexual promiscuity and I felt like she was slapping me in the face with her former community service. I'll admit that hearing about how she was promiscuous upset me. It upset me not because Jesus Christ didn't wash her..... it was because she was flexing. We were unequally yoked but God honored me walking away. Elohim anointed me greater because I chose him over sex..... and she was good looking and a Delta.... and good arm view, but I really wanted God to be our head. Now I needed Jesus a lot, and need him now a lot. He will provide.

  • @TheLightofJesus-js4nr
    @TheLightofJesus-js4nr Месяц назад +28

    I just focus on Jesus, I ain't in any rush to get married. If GOD wants me to get married, that's fine but I really am not that bothered. Also, when you think about the soul ties it just ain't worth it. GOD is good, I don't get any temptation.

  • @Linda-ot3pj
    @Linda-ot3pj Месяц назад +13

    I have been celibate since I got saved. 1998. I’m not going to disobey Gods word that says not to defile the marriage bed. ALL FORNICATORS WILL GO TO THE LAKE OF FIRE. THATS TERRIFYING. Our souls are too precious to lose . He promised me a husband several years ago. It has been a journey of patience. God built my character in the waiting and has healed me from a horrible past

  • @lifestylekollin
    @lifestylekollin Месяц назад +35

    I'm on my 7th year too and I'm feeling every minute. I'm readyyyyyyyyy!!! 😂 I'm not tempted but I definitely want some focusing on Jesus and everything.

    • @thulani2640
      @thulani2640 Месяц назад

      The is still more if God that he wants you to know and experience, please look up john anosike

  • @ntombikayisesukude1627
    @ntombikayisesukude1627 Месяц назад +19

    It been 7months for me and still going praise God im so proud of myself and everyone here who conquered this demon of fonication i give all the Glory to Jesus Christ

    • @thulani2640
      @thulani2640 Месяц назад

      Amen, just be careful of the tv shows and movies you watch, Satan will try to use them to pull you back, and your dreams that is his big door of creating the desire

  • @blairesque
    @blairesque Месяц назад +31

    Heyyy, haven’t watched yet but the title is already so exciting. I’ve been celibate for a littttle over 2 years now. I’m so proud of myself, of us! At first, I was “ashamed” to not be doing what everyone else is doing. Everybody is “getting some”. I feared being stigmatized as undesirable. But easily the best and most influential decision I’ve ever made. It’s actually empowering.

    • @ShaynieB
      @ShaynieB Месяц назад +2

      Everybody was sharing demons… and you were ridding yourself of them…and being obedient. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @najaalston
    @najaalston Месяц назад +11

    Sometimes God can introduce you to someone to get to know as a friend that you may sow a seed into him and the Lord may reveal later that that’s your husband. It’s not always black and white.

  • @latonyajohnson4239
    @latonyajohnson4239 Месяц назад +33

    2.5 and its been a struggle. But I will do it God's way this time. Beautiful voice by the way.

  • @missmaedeut3210
    @missmaedeut3210 Месяц назад +14

    "Learn to be content in ALL circumstances" 🙌🏽

  • @InThisSeasonOfFaith
    @InThisSeasonOfFaith Месяц назад +27

    LOL i was wondering if i would still know whats up too. But the fact that you said we wasnt meant to have sex before marriage..... so we wouldnt know whats up anyway, was a good nugget of knowledge. I pray I remember no sexual encounters in Jesus name. So that I cant compare too.

  • @schenary
    @schenary Месяц назад +4

    Up to nineteen years for me now. Truly a blessing. Attacked by demons for years, learned to Pray. Hear God's voice, He has spoken to me at my worse and lowest points in to stop these sins of lust dex, adultery sex, fornication sex, and taught me how to break all soul ties. I was a man women loved would do anything for. So I was hated, suffered the attacks of Satan hidden in many forms through demonized people, by seduction and seducing spirits. Spirit of fear, lying spirits, my stories, testimonies, battles, to change and learn to fight through spiritual warfare. I never gave up in love, still single, God isolated me to heal me. Saved by grace. All along the way Jesus came and helped me. Visited me. I didn't understand for many years. I do now. Love to hear others testimonies. Be Blessed

  • @Thrivegrl24
    @Thrivegrl24 Месяц назад +8

    This is refreshing March 2025 will make 6 years. Best thing I have ever done in obedience to the Holy Spirit and becoming his bride.

  • @jalonieholloway7442
    @jalonieholloway7442 Месяц назад +6

    I dont believe dating is demonic, just like I dont believe going on job interviews is demonic. He gives us common sense and discernment. But I respect what God tells people directlty. We need God in everything!

  • @PoshDiva1122
    @PoshDiva1122 Месяц назад +19

    Thank you for making this video Lala! I’m standing with you! I’m 37 years old as well and I’ve been abstinent for 8 years. We are exactly where God wants us. Many blessings to you! 🙏🏾❤️

  • @saraib3219
    @saraib3219 Месяц назад +6

    Ayee sis. I feel you. I’ve been on the abstinence journey for about 8 years, with many “hiccups” I may say (lbs) 🤦🏽‍♀️ but God has been doing a wonderful work on the inside of me and I am so proud. He has cleared the idolatry out of my heart concerning marriage and I’m excited to spend more time with him to continue to heal me and prepare me for marriage and everything else he has for me. I’m over here like “Father God I just want to be your princess, I am not looking for a man to do only what You can.” So yesss ladies and gentlemen enjoy the singleness, it’s only for a season🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @chrysanthemums4963
    @chrysanthemums4963 Месяц назад +9

    I’m right there with you sis! It’s been 7yrs for me too. The best part about abstaining is it’s a wms super power. I can smell a trash, toxic mn from a mile away 😂😂 and avoid them at all cost. You move differently when abstaining as it exercises discipline/self-control. I don’t date either, though I’m open to being available for the right mn God knows is best for me with boundaries. I’m good being alone, I’m not one who gets lonely though I do miss companionship. So the lock downs and social distancing was amazing to me 😂😂😂😂 I don’t like to share my space with just anyone. I need to know everything about you and trust you.

  • @The144Kth
    @The144Kth Месяц назад +9

    It's been 31 years for me and there is no end in sight, because the Lord has told me that I will not marry.

    • @exquisite921
      @exquisite921 Месяц назад +9

      If you desire to marry, God did not tell you or call you to singleness. His word says He will give us the desires of our heart. Anything contrary is of the enemy, God is not the author of confusion. ❤ You must to come out of agreement with that and any other negative remarks you or anyone else has said regarding your future.

  • @CaliTexan
    @CaliTexan Месяц назад +3

    For me, its been 26 years with no sex. I've been single all my life with no kids, but I'm still believing and praying that God will send me the right man in his timing.

  • @lashaunbrown1116
    @lashaunbrown1116 Месяц назад +8

    Lala I Know This All So Well I Been Celibate For 3YRS AND I FEEL SO PURE AND AT PEACE MY COMMUNICATION WITH GOD IS SO CLEAR I REFUSE TO LAY DOWN WITH A MAN UNLESS HES MY HUSBAND I DONT THINK ABOUT SEX OR ANYTHING PERTAINING TO SEX IM HAPPY AND PEACEFUL ❤🙏🏾

  • @kaylahood1000
    @kaylahood1000 Месяц назад +1

    I’m single and I haven’t had sex in 6 years and the judgment is real.
    I need people like you in my life. Because the people I hang out with judge me like girl I can’t do that there is no man that is going to wait until marriage. It was a choice I made years ago when I was in college. And I want to honor my body for God. I haven’t met a man who is waiting until marriage. I am busy with getting therapy and also finishing my medical assistant program and then after that applying to Nursing school. Awesome video thanks for sharing because I feel like I am the only one out here. It’s nothing but God. Although I am single and not having casual sex out here in these streets no dating for me. I truly want a man that is going to court me and they are waiting until marriage like me and they are honoring God with there body as well. Yep I am waiting on my husband it has been hard because I am not dating at all or talking to anyone. It’s been me and God sis 😊

  • @marcell.9766
    @marcell.9766 Месяц назад +5

    I’m right there with you lala, I’m on 5 years, Glory to God. Waiting for the right one n ain’t playing games with God or sin itself!

  • @tharealmeplusfive
    @tharealmeplusfive Месяц назад +19

    I went close to 5 years before the devil messed me up! Would have gone my whole life had it not been for what happened to me! Back on track now and will spend the rest of my life never doing it again because I'm never getting married and will give my body to GOD. 😊😊

  • @ShaynieB
    @ShaynieB Месяц назад +4

    The LORD sent me my husband after almost 3 years celibate. I prayed for specific things, and he sent me him. I know it was GOD because I tested the spirit.

  • @michellegibson6162
    @michellegibson6162 Месяц назад +1

    Love this video! Stay rooted and grounded in his Word and in the LORD!

  • @missmaedeut3210
    @missmaedeut3210 Месяц назад +1

    Amen. This was so needed. Everyone needs to hear this. Thank you Father ❤.

  • @takishasage-freebeautyzone
    @takishasage-freebeautyzone Месяц назад +3

    Great job Lala! Praise Yah! I know it's not easy, but because you're leaning on the Savior, it's possible. The Father provides so much strength. It's beautiful ❤. I can't wait for your wedding video, when I tell you I'm going to cry buckets of happy tears!!

  • @Living2PleaseHim
    @Living2PleaseHim Месяц назад +3

    Beautiful Voice La-La. I Love Elevation Worship. It’s been 8 years for me. God is truly a keeper, if you want to be kept. The key is to be intentional for the things of God. I’m extremely careful as to what I give my attention to. I give all Glory to the Lord, as it’s all Him, not me. 🙌🏾

  • @starlash-a
    @starlash-a Месяц назад +9

    This is so encouraging! We were not created for sex outside of marriage 🩷 I’m 25 , I can be pure for the Lord.

  • @Beja7
    @Beja7 Месяц назад +2

    LaLa I feel you girl at the 5:07 mark😅! One day I was asking myself that same exact question! I'm 7 years in as well! May The Most High God continue to keep you & guard your paths❤

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne Месяц назад

    That's great. This can only be done with God working in you and through you. God bless you LaLa. Keeping on keeping on.

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist Месяц назад +4

    Hunni ministry will keep you on your toes. You don't have time to worry about no husband.

  • @keshiafutrell7779
    @keshiafutrell7779 Месяц назад +4

    God will keep you if you wanna be kept 🙌🏾

  • @ketsyaful
    @ketsyaful Месяц назад +4

    I am 30 and still virgin😫, its so hard to keep it that way sometimes. i almost fall in too many temptations, but i feel like the Lord just want to keep me that way, but i do not know until when, so i just tell my soul to be patient

  • @Iam_Blossomqueen
    @Iam_Blossomqueen Месяц назад +1

    I will continue to wait on the Lord !! La La your voice is beautiful 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️

  • @francalhoun5436
    @francalhoun5436 Месяц назад

    This really encouraged me. I've been asking the same questions but God's plans for my life is set for an appointed time. Thank you for your transparency. May God bless you exceedingly and abundantly beyond what you can ever imagine.

  • @cayapov
    @cayapov Месяц назад

    I was JUST having a conversation with my mom about the topic of submitting to God's will. My situation isn't in relation to marriage but this video was confirmation for me on the importance, VALIDITY and wisdom of waiting on God. & Understanding that God's will IS genuinely the highest path anyone can take. From the world's perspective you may be considered behind.. but makes no sense to bow to that judgment, since GOD IS. God is the STANDARD.
    Thank you LaLa for your obedience on making this video and your participation in the work the Holy Spirit is doing through this channel. 🙏🏾❤️❤

  • @ldr792
    @ldr792 Месяц назад +6

    2:33 yes!!! I don’t focus on the time either. Not capping in this video 😂😂 I’m 7 years in as well. I no longer believe in dating either and I don’t bother trying to explain it to others, not casting my pearls to the swine anymore. I just read Genesis 24, and that is the BEST example of God being an amazing matchmaker
    Something the Lord has revealed to me is that oral also counts (bc for some strange reason, I didn’t think that counted as sex really lol) but it’s considered perverse…even in marriage, but that’s a whole nother topic lol.
    Same, I don’t think about past experiences either. It’s a blessing

    • @crystalcolon6997
      @crystalcolon6997 Месяц назад

      Girl stop. The marriage bed is undefiled. The Bible does not say it's perverse and even song of Solomon references it.

    • @ldr792
      @ldr792 Месяц назад +2

      @@crystalcolon6997you’re right the marriage bed is undefiled, which means pure. Marriage is pure, I can no longer justify putting my mouth places where bodily fluids, urine etc. come from. 1 Cor. 6:9 also talks about this as sodomy. I previously thought sodomy meant just anal. It includes anal and oral. As someone who has done these things in the past, I no longer want to engage in that type of activity.

    • @tricieb.5921
      @tricieb.5921 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@ldr792
      I never understood the hype around hypersexuality, I was one of the few who thought it was disgusting.

    • @ldr792
      @ldr792 Месяц назад +1

      @@tricieb.5921 I certainly agree!! Very gross

  • @Nolagirl761
    @Nolagirl761 Месяц назад +2

    Amen i really needed this right now im working on my self and my relationship with Lord and wait on the Lord for my godly spouse

  • @devinelove7011
    @devinelove7011 8 дней назад

    I'm almost there with you. 10/17/2024 will be my 7-year abstinence anniversary. I'm not saved, but it has not been hard. I decided to love myself, knowing my worth and not settling for just anything.

  • @jennifersmith5394
    @jennifersmith5394 Месяц назад +3

    My life story...It's wise to wait on God & seek ye 1st the Kingdom of God....Amen...God bless you woman of God🔥

  • @bamarealist
    @bamarealist Месяц назад +3

    Beautiful blessings are in store for you-great video!💪🌸😇

  • @marjanicarter3275
    @marjanicarter3275 Месяц назад +5

    So encouraging👏🏽& yes men watch yo channel too

  • @lorraineanjili
    @lorraineanjili Месяц назад +1

    Guurrrrlllll!! I feel you! It's been 3 years for me now, and I can confidently say that God's grace is sufficient. It's been smoother than I'd expected. Especially coz I'm aware that lust had a stronghold over me before Jesus Christ saved me. God is great !!! ❤❤

  • @ninamorris1128
    @ninamorris1128 3 дня назад

    I got chills when u started singing "wait on the lord"

  • @godsgirl8751
    @godsgirl8751 Месяц назад

    Okay girl! The first 20 seconds was all I needed to hear.

  • @sap1donnel886
    @sap1donnel886 Месяц назад +1

    I also don't believe in dating n alll that u hav said in this video is so true my sister. Ur a true follower of Christ.

  • @DjMacCummings
    @DjMacCummings Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for sharing. So powerful, and very profound. You are most definitely doing the right thing in the correct way. I activated my absence a while back, and it cleanse my mind, body, and spirit. Proverbs 18:22 has taught me so much when it comes to what God has for the ones who believe in his word. Blessings to you woman of God.

  • @gracelight7
    @gracelight7 Месяц назад

    This was so amazing to hear, I totally related to some points. Thank you so much for sharing, God bless x

  • @DrKenyaShanell
    @DrKenyaShanell Месяц назад

    This is so encouraging Lala! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne Месяц назад

    Great topic and much needed to continually hear.

  • @sanyarochelle
    @sanyarochelle Месяц назад +1

    That’s so crazy that you said that. When I think about it I realize that it’s been 2 years & I haven’t been more happier and joyous with the Lord. Thank God I’m pure in the name of Jesus and I’m waiting until marriage 🤞🏿

  • @larobey7961
    @larobey7961 Месяц назад

    So happy and proud of you. This is so powerful. I admire your honesty and transparency. I must share this.

  • @thetensionbuyer4944
    @thetensionbuyer4944 Месяц назад

    This is amazing! Your soon to be husband will greatly appreciate this!

  • @jamesturner4257
    @jamesturner4257 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you sister for your wonderful testimony.

  • @moniquem3731
    @moniquem3731 Месяц назад +1

    Yess ma'am! If definitely can be done. He can keep you if you want to be kept. I set a goal for myself. I started with a year, achieved that and kept going until 7 and then got married to my 1st husband. I told him I was not having sex until I got married. Then I divorced 10 years later and was celibate again for 5 years until I met the right husband who by the way I knew when we were in middle school, and he respected that I was not having sex until I got married and here I am today almost been married this time 3 years. When I would meet guys, I would tell them from the get-go that I was not having sex, some stayed to see if they could get me to change my mind and I did not, alot left from the beginning lol. God is going to bless you for this!

  • @tahariscafe1050
    @tahariscafe1050 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this video!!! It was definitely directed at me from the Lord as for the past couple of days I was feeling the same way. So this is definitely a message from God and reassurance to continue keeping my eyes on him & everything else will fall in place and come at the right time. Keep being blessed Hun
    I wish I had girlfriends like you around me daily.

  • @natoyaallen
    @natoyaallen Месяц назад

    Thank you for being honest I am blessed by your content

  • @ashleydominique6832
    @ashleydominique6832 Месяц назад +3

    Yes, the other day I really had to think about the last time I went on a date. And I was shook. I told myself I didn’t wanna date either. I fell in 2022 as well but Im back and better. Wait on the Lord.

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne Месяц назад

    Hallelujah Great Testimony.

  • @flyastaj
    @flyastaj Месяц назад

    Thank you for your obedience !

  • @christellen3077
    @christellen3077 Месяц назад +1

    Lala...🙂
    When I saw the title I was like sulking inside before the Lord (as if it d change His Stance, to be like wow God. See. How I wait longer than soo many others) because I have never had a partner in 36yrs.
    But all you said. It is all you said. I am not going to be emotional cause Im at work lol. But I needed to honor you for that video.
    I want that freedom from sexual thoughts. Bc since my thirthies idk what my hormones did. I serve the Lord but I can do more for sure. Or better. But even the song. It blessed me in my spirit.
    It is all you said. And I feel peace. I thank you for your Obedience in the Lord. And like abednego and Shadraq and...??? We all say together brethren EVEN IF HE WOULD NOT PUT US OUT OF THE FIRE AND WE WOULD DIE THERE
    There is no bowing down on the program. We only bow down to JESUS .
    For His marvelous name.
    He is so much Peace. He is So Much compassion. Imma go listen to that Wait on the Lord Song again.
    You are so very precious love you lots and Jesus loves you moooreee in Jesus Name amen

  • @Sunflowers-sz7nv
    @Sunflowers-sz7nv Месяц назад +4

    IM SINGLE AND SAVED AND NOT SLEEPING AROUND....IM NOT LOSING MY SOUL...FOR A MAN...THE DEVIL WILL HAVE U FEELING LIKE SOMETHING WRONG..WHEN THE MORALE IS DOWN...AND LOTS MEN LACK GODS LOVE AND LOYALTY...ITS NOT EASY AT TIMES...BUT I HAVE MADE UP MY MIND IF I MARRY.. GOOD...AND IF I DONT MARRY..IM GONNA WALK THE NARROW PATH OF PURITY TO PLEASE GOD. ..MANY R SLEEPING AROUND..AND THE MAN STILL DOESN'T WANT TO MARRY ..DUE TO LACK OF SPIRITUAL RESPECT OF GODS WILL AND WAY.

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne Месяц назад

    Hallelujah Yes. Wait on the Lord.

  • @sharons5100
    @sharons5100 Месяц назад

    Amen, you and I both Siser. Jesus first. I go by what He lines up for me. He has heard my prayers. I wait in Him. But in the meantime, I delight in Him.❤ God bless.🙏🏾From South Africa.

  • @user-sw6ks4hf7n
    @user-sw6ks4hf7n Месяц назад +4

    Lala, we have very similar journeys. I wish we could be friends.☺️
    May God continue to bless and strengthen you♥️

  • @werringertonney7489
    @werringertonney7489 Месяц назад +4

    Sex is OVERRATED, marriage is HARD. Choose wisely because none of that will matter if you marry the wrong person.

  • @Tygerrrrrr
    @Tygerrrrrr Месяц назад +1

    thank you for this video Lala, ima stay strong 😭😭😭

  • @NarrowG8
    @NarrowG8 Месяц назад

    Been celibate since my husband and I were divorced in 2015 (and actually a few years before that). Our Lord is a KEEPER.

  • @CoachKimTheAuthor
    @CoachKimTheAuthor Месяц назад +1

    I be forgetting you can SANG 🙌🏾🙌🏾 that truly blessed me! 🫶🏾

  • @TroyM777
    @TroyM777 Месяц назад +1

    Good bless sister! 🙏🏾

  • @samuelsanders196
    @samuelsanders196 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this video. When I listened to this video it just blessed my heart. I admire your courage, confidence, boldness, and assurance, you are the real deal. I met a woman just like you and she changed my whole life. She kept me from making a mess out of my life. We don't always understand a woman until she starts talking. This is a great video. Thank you for helping me just like the woman that I met helped me.

  • @mcreally29
    @mcreally29 Месяц назад

    Amen! Keep up the good work

  • @A.J.BET-DAWID
    @A.J.BET-DAWID Месяц назад

    Keep up the good work sister…I’ve been celibate for 18 yrs…I’m 41 now & it’s not fun, but it’s necessary. My wife will come in God’s time….& your husband will come in due season. So keep the faith. Bless you.

  • @tabithaauma1532
    @tabithaauma1532 Месяц назад +2

    I am praying for you as am praying for me and every other single trusting God for a spouse 🙏

  • @ua3584
    @ua3584 Месяц назад +2

    I am a male in my 30´s and still never married, still single, still celibate all my life. I will wait long before I marry wrong

  • @sco3079
    @sco3079 Месяц назад +7

    This is for the person who doesn't have years of abstinence (like myself) because someone may have gotten them off track, but went months w/o it. Also for the person who has a child out of wedlock, and refuses to have anymore until marriage because you want to do it right the next time around. Thank God for His Grace and Mercy! La keep doing what you're doing in the ministry it's beneficial to both women and men ❤

    • @nenedominica5871
      @nenedominica5871 Месяц назад +1

      Yes amen I tried to comment on your comment but the stupid commercial came on and it didn't go through but yes I have been there and actually have 3 beautiful children out of wedlock but it's time to get married this time around waiting for my kingdom husband

    • @crystalcolon6997
      @crystalcolon6997 Месяц назад

      No one else gets us of track. We made the choice to do it and got ourself off track

    • @sco3079
      @sco3079 Месяц назад

      @nenedominica5871 totally agrees.

    • @sco3079
      @sco3079 Месяц назад

      @nenedominica5871 we are definitely not alone. Whether it's one or three, at least we know we want to do better && are striving to get there although it may seem hard

  • @86Kera
    @86Kera Месяц назад +1

    lol singleness bliss . I love it. But tbh it is a struggle to change and some days I don’t think I’m trying hard enough bc of the lies women are told about being late in age . Stay encouraged ladies.

  • @Princessfrmalmighty
    @Princessfrmalmighty Месяц назад +5

    Amen. Everything you said I have the same belief i 100 percent agree. God put in my heart too but in 2022 that Christians shouldn't date. I don't believe in dating either. I fell a few times through the years but I desire to be holy in every way and with God I'm and I can. I love being holy.

  • @Chosen_Enigma
    @Chosen_Enigma Месяц назад

    Cmon now vocals! God Bless You!

  • @StopBeingVictimsItsNotGodly
    @StopBeingVictimsItsNotGodly Месяц назад +1

    Your faith is inspiring and almost childlike. Thank you for this. I haven't had sex in 2 years and after a recent rejection with a man in ministry I started masturbate non stop and miss sex very much. I know I'm not going to have sex but I know masturbation is wrong. Pray for me please. I'm getting off the dating site because even though it is a christian site, non of the men are Holy. 😢😢😢 this video gave me hope to b3 content in my singleness ❤❤

  • @Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice
    @Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice Месяц назад

    Thank you for this great video.

  • @jakeyaallen284
    @jakeyaallen284 Месяц назад +2

    @18:30 You are right about marriage not being a "step up" from singleness in one's life. I can testify that I felt extremely blessed when I was single before marrying my husband in February of 2023! I enjoyed the intimate connection I felt with God that I did not want to marry because I wanted to continue our intimacy alone. But God said it was time for me to get married which I obeyed. I felt blessed and happy in my life as a single person as I am now married.

    • @kiannaharrison8728
      @kiannaharrison8728 Месяц назад +1

      How did you reach that place of true contentment while you were single? Sometimes I feel I’m missing out or being “robbed” of the joy married people experience

    • @jakeyaallen284
      @jakeyaallen284 Месяц назад

      @@kiannaharrison8728 I reached that place of contentment when I finally realized that Jesus is enough. I focused too much on wanting a marriage until God revealed to me that I only need to focus on Him; to just be happy with Him and REST in knowing that He will fulfill the desires of heart in due time. Before I knew it, God told me that I would meet someone while out at restaurant and then I literally saw my Husband! If it’s in Gods will for you to have a Husband, you will be married. If not, enjoy your marriage to God because after all you will go on to be with Him forever! I hope is a blessing to you and anyone who reads this. Amen

    • @jakeyaallen284
      @jakeyaallen284 Месяц назад

      @@kiannaharrison8728 Trust me when I say that you are not missing out on the joy that married people feel. If you are married into the covenant of Yashua then you should already have access to the joy of marriage because you are married to Him, your first love. Spent all this time enjoying God while you are single because He will fill you with His love all the time. And then,Lords willing, when you get a Husband, you will already feel complete because of your relationship with God. God bless you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jakeyaallen284
      @jakeyaallen284 Месяц назад

      @@kiannaharrison8728 Trust me when I say that you are not missing out on the joy that married people feel. If you are married into the covenant of Yashua then you should already have access to the joy of marriage because you are married to Him, your first love. Spent all this time enjoying God while you are single because He will fill you with His love all the time. And then,Lords willing, when you get a Husband, you will already feel complete because of your relationship with God. God bless you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jakeyaallen284
      @jakeyaallen284 Месяц назад +2

      Trust me when I say that you are not missing out on the joy that married people feel. If you are married into the covenant of Yashua then you should already have access to the joy of marriage because you are married to Him, your first love.

  • @missmaedeut3210
    @missmaedeut3210 Месяц назад

    8:32-8:58 🙌🏽 Amen! That part!

  • @AS-pn5zl
    @AS-pn5zl Месяц назад

    This was awesome ❤

  • @itocarloschitown1089
    @itocarloschitown1089 Месяц назад

    Thank you for your videos you are a good person 🙏💚💯

  • @annettedp
    @annettedp Месяц назад

    You amaze me! The way you lay your life in the hands of the lord. Just to be single and rest in the plan and time and place should be of the lord.. Please stay that way-you’re in the hands of the lord… just to simmer my comment down to This: I’m so blessed to hear that you put the lord plan before and over your wishes to be in a relationship with a husband from the lord. Pure and real relationship with the lord is eternally more important than anything.. you go girl❤❤❤

  • @jackiediaz5399
    @jackiediaz5399 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this

  • @terrells5763
    @terrells5763 Месяц назад

    God bless you sister 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾