WATCH PART 2 HERE! ruclips.net/video/TADM8O-B_s8/видео.html Guys I am sooo overwhelmed by this response!🤯🤯🤯 Jesus is glorified continually through this channel and all of us, i see every comment and i will respond asap, but thank you for the support, for watching and for being here, love you all!!💓💓💓
How do I break up with a boyfriend who I feel is not compatible with me in the things of God. Am I being unfair? What if I want a man who can lead me spiritually because I’m not very strong as a believer and being with him isn’t helping me much. I’m hope you get what I mean? Please help
@@Mo_doyin no you are not being unfair in any way, you can first talk to him about it be transparent as possible …. with him see his response and then from that make a decision. i almost dated a guy that 1. was a Muslim 2. the other one was just not aligned in and with the will of God. sex for me has been out of my equation, not that i haven't done it nope i have and i can tell you that the many times i did it i was even more broken than the first. So how did i deal with the two guys. 1. the Muslim- i was open enough with him to tell him we could not be together, not that we were not compatible no. we were the most compatible , he was my soul mate but then, I had to discern if this man's purpose was aligned to mine. would he support me in the things i am passionate about God? i don't think so. and we mutually parted ways, we still talk from time to time but not as much. 2nd guy , was more of your situation, he wasn't all interested in the things of God and i am just one too passionate about Christ to let a boy or man destroy that believe it or not, with God there are certain things you must discern for yourself and see what the will of God is. With God you have to be intentional , missionary dating i wouldn't recommend , you may be into deep but sis if he is not interested in the things of God it is best to let him go. tell him your reasons for doing so..
Sexual purity to me is not just staying from the sexual act sex but also also staying away from sexual materials like overly sexual movies/books/videos/conversations that are erotic and masturbation. Its a struggle but God is faithful so far I am doing good in this area as I wait for my kingdom marriage
The way I am constantly pulling myself back from twerking, 18SNL movies, music, and discussions 😅😅😅😅 coz I know those contributed to my impurity. Even dressing
Watched this yesterday and here to drop my comment. When she said “ they lack self-discipline “ ✅ The discipline you have before marriage is what you will bring into marriage. If you lack self-discipline before marriage, it will be difficult to have discipline in marriage. Thank you ladies for sharing. I enjoyed watching. 💜
Honestly I love being celibate, like I actually sat with myself today and I realized that I don't regret not having sex with my exs or the men I used to be interested in and sexually attracted to. I am so glad that I didn't have sex with any of them, that I never gave in. Yh I have my sexual feelings but the peace I have now is so much better than possibly ever giving in to my sexual needs. Thank u lord for self control💖
They always said they can be Celibate with me but when we are behind close doors all they wanted was sex. I ended the relationship, and felt bad so I wanted to get back with him because he ticked most of the boxes except this important one. But thank God they couldn’t take me back. It’s been 2 months on my celibate journey, I don’t crave for sex nor miss the person intimately but I just miss doing this life thing together. I think being away from the person has helped me in a positive way because I’m building my confidence back again and now I can simply say No to relationship requests of which in the past I was a people pleaser.
Yes girl don't let these men try to change u and bend ur morals, cuz the sad thing is they actually respect u less when u give in. They just get a thrill out of trying to have sex with u and they don't really value u most times. I'm glad u never went bk to him💖
I love that Brandy was honest about doing it before marriage. I think many Christians need to talk about their struggles and mistakes so others can learn and not feel alone, not only for sex itself but for other things relating to fornication, including porn.
I’m still a virgin at 22 and I’ve been debating on whether or not to just go ahead and lose my virginity but after an incident that happened on Thursday I feel like waiting till marriage is whats best for me. This video also just confirmed that I would like to wait for marriage 😢
Dear sis 🙌, it's not just about debate or feelings. Jesus Christ is true and if you are a follower of Jesus (christian) he says to flee immorality, fornication and adultery. There is blessing in waiting. Love❤️ & Light 💡.
I can totally relate to everything Uzoma said. I've been dating my fiance for 5 years and we're engaged to be married in few months time and walahi, it hasn't been easy. I even thought the urges will get better once we get engaged and the wedding is close, but omo! It's harder. The devi will tell me that it's just few moths to the wedding, we'll eventually get married, but thank God for wisdom ,we're still standing. In summary, being I a sexual pure relationship isn't easy, but it's easier when you both are on the same page.
“You’ve created a marriage attachment, when there is no marriage commitment!!” Thank you both for being vulnerable to help us learn. God bless you See we stop listening to world trying to say sex with anyone is “normal” we do not settle for these contradicting ideologies!
This is sooo good!! As one who is in a Christian relationship dating towards marriage, we have made our mistakes and decided wholeheartedly to pursue God with our actions by also being abstinent. It certainly has been a struggle but extremely efficient through reading the word of God and praying diligently. So watching other Christians talk about this is so encouraging to see! Great video 👍🏿
celibacy is hard in this culture and in church it is so demonised when you fall or stumble so hearing this honest and open space and conversation God bless you ❤
I’m only 7 minutes in and I’m so grateful this popped up on my page because the way you guys are even speaking shows your humanity, authenticity, and genuine devotion to Christ. We need more women like you to help shape others who feel very alone on their purity journeys, and show them that there’s another way
I believe there should be a Part 2. I really like what you guys are talking about. When I say I desire to marry a virgin some people think I’m selfish (kinda plays a role) but I want to walk this journey and learn with my Mrs. As a male who haven’t done the do & I’m in my early 30s, I kinda fear expectations so I’d rather want one we both learn and grow. But hey, it could be otherwise & I thank God as well. You people raised really strong points especially the 2nd question. At times I think of it & ask, why would God tell us to hold back on something that the body naturally desires for and seeks after? Why put it at a certain time to be unlocked yet we’re sexual beings? Isn’t it better that the day one gets married, all the desires just happens like boom 😅. But there’s that call for self discipline/self control. Finally, you ladies are beautiful and God bless your relationships.
I don't think it's selfish at all if you are also a virgin! If the guys who run around sleeping with anything walking and then ask for a virgin that I find appalling.
Lol Uzomas story is a lot similar to mine, I never used to even think of it and wonder why everyone made sex look like this thing with so much hype but now I’m 24, not totally innocent but have still not done it. It’s crazier now plus when you don’t see marriage in the nearest future it’s like harder to think of waiting. And tbh not even sure if I want to. I do see the benefits and I’m grateful for that but people never talk about the part of being single till a very old age
Gosh! I can relate. I had to bear the marital talk with my dad of recent. Though he meant well but I was just mentally tired! Can't I live my life in peace? I want to do a lot career wise and travel and finish Medical school but yet everyone keeps on popping the question,"Are you in a relationship","Where is the guy" like a to do list. it's so annoying!
This right here has blessed me in so many ways, and I'll definitely listen to it over and over again until it sticks I love that you both are being so genuine which is what so many people who talk about these things are not. Thank you so much, God Bless you.
I don't know how your video even landed on my homepage, but I'm so glad I watched it. You guys said a lot of things that shook me. A lot of self-discipline is needed, and it is true how clear your mind is when you don't focus so much on sexual things in a relationship. Thank you so much for this video!!!
This is a great video . I like how you are tackling issues that many Christians are battling but very few are vocal about . Continue making such videos 🌟❤
This is the most honest video i have seen so far on this topic ... people are really struggling with this and need more than just condemnation ... thanks ladies 🤩
Thank you so much, Uzoma and Brandy. This is the best video I have watched that helps me understand what I am really going through in this phase of my life. I've saved the video and would certainly watch this together with him. I think that my biggest takeaway is that practicing sexual purity helps me connect with my partner in a deeper way because someday our bodies would change but God still wants us to be together till death do us part. And when that day comes when sex is not desirable, or we lose the attractiveness of our bodies, our affection for each other built out of deep conversations and togetherness would keep us together. God bless you real good!
Everything Uzoma is saying is meeeee 😭😭😭 I used to think I had a problem for not having those urges but now hmhmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!! Thankful for understanding and growth in God!! Thank you for this video and Pastor Brandy, you’re amazing.
thank you for this🥰...we really need to understand that marriage is only as good as our singleness , what you do by yourself is a foundation for your marriage, that is who you're bringing to the marriage.
Your Video has been recommended twice on my timeline both on my phone and pc and I was like "Okay God, I here Yoi. I'll listen." I love the authenticity of your channel💯May God keep being glorified.
This video popped up on my screen and i can't believe i was standing the whole time while watching it. Haha so good! Love what you said about having a group chat with your mentors, accountability should certainly be a big deal for any godly couple seeking to date the right way, I don't hear this said in many places and I'm really glad it was mentioned here. God bless you both. More grace!
I really needed this conversation. First time seeing you on my screen and I was so glued. Thank you so much for this. Please do a part 2🙏🏾 and bring Pst Brandy too. I just subscribed 😊
OMG...I love this, because sexual purity is something I have struggled with, and it's refreshing to know that there is hope and it is not impossible to be sexually pure till marriage
We definitely need a part 2 please, my problem is getting someone who is aligned with that vision because it feels like most guy sees staying celibate as something impossible especially here in Nigeria or maybe I've not yet met any God fearing person
New subscriber ❤ I agree that these topics are not discussed on enough. And the few persons who discuss this are not transparent/honest. Thank you so much once again to you ladies ❤
Honestly Gods timing is perfect.. this morning I was struggling because I had slipped up .. but what I learnt today is not to stay in that slip up but to run back to God. Thought I was alone in this but thank God for you girls coz now I know we are all operating under His grace ! Thank you for this vid !
I almost slipped a few nights ago when my hormones had flared, and wanted to watch something sensual. I prayed and told the devil straight up, "you don't have power over my body, my eyes, everything" and I just slept it out. 😅😅😅
This is the first time of stumbling on your channel and I love what you talked about. Welldone! We all have our struggles honestly. I enjoyed your guest unsensored contribution as well plus she's so adorable.
i really appreciate this video especially Oyins story. i’ve barely found currently married couples who were honest about not being pure from the jump. seeing the mercy of God in redeeming and keeping y’all together even through giving your lives and restarting is so freaking beautiful. gives me so much faith🥺🥺
Uzoma! I'm really glad I came across your channel. It has really explained a lot to me and has made me tighten my stance on sexual purity. Thank you so much.
This was so insightful I loved it. My biggest take away was Self Discipline we should instill that value first because as Uzoma said, someone is not going to stop being fine because you are married.
From someone whom Holy spirit literally told to work on her self control because I wasn't doing a good job. He literally said, you know self control is an actual fruit of the spirit and it's not like you have a choice. I pray we all find this journey rewarding in the end.
Never have I ever related to a video on celibacy on such a deep and personal level omllll You and Brandy did so much justice to this topic and I’ve learned so much that I can’t wait to implement by the grace of God. I love the point you made about getting to know your partners mind. It resonated with me deeply You both look ABSOLUTELY gorgeous! love you both so much, thank you for being transparent with us, it’s empowering to know that I can also do the same ❤
First time on this page, and I’m glad this was my first watch, trust I subscribed right away. God bless your hearts for this💕. This was a video I never thought I needed and I could relate so much. I definitely learnt a lot and I also was reminded about the true importance of purity, which is not just for God’s pleasure but also for my edification. Thank you guys so much and yes please we definitely want a second watch (if I say so myself). Love and light🧡
Honestly this video is amazing it came at a time when I needed to be clarified. I love you guys so much and thank you for the transparency in this video ❣️❣️❣️
I am so happy about this topic to see believers talk about it is really wonderful and helpful for those of us abstaining and please there has to be a part 2 you can't talk about it in one video 😂😂
I agree with the topic, I am a virgin and I was 27 when I told my ex-school/varsity friends that I was not sexually active nor had sexual affection/soul ties with my exes and luckily long-term relationship I ever was in was with a Christian, born by water and spirit and we dated for 5 years and knew each other for 5months before actually dating or making a choice to date/courtship and the mere fact we know the principles of the bible about relationships, dating, sex, marriage. Here am I still fighting the good fight of faith, I will get married hopefully to someone that is also abstaining or resisting sexual immorality/sex before marriage because it is significant not to me but to God, my family, and my church. Being pure, clean, and holy not just with what we say and think but, also with our body, mind and soul because of our own choices that lead to "things' whereby at times an individual is regretful, ashamed or even worse heartbroken because of intercourse (sex) due to the guilt or soul ties" that needs to be broken because it's vital due to the body is the temple of God and God is a jealous, just, holy and righteous Father...
God sent this video to my TL because my mindset about celibacy and sex as a whole was beginning to change due to society’s pressure. I thank God for the renewing of my mind
Yesss ommmm gosshhh I love this thank you so much for this amazing chat Uzomaa I love your channel I am new and here for awhile I just subbed! tysmmm plsss do a part two!
loved this! y'all look too good btw! please give us part 2 🙏 if you do film part 2, could you please talk about the value of waiting from the perspective of someone in a long-term relationship (that'll likely end in marriage), to contrast the perspective of someone who has multiple sexual partners?
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Guys I am sooo overwhelmed by this response!🤯🤯🤯
Jesus is glorified continually through this channel and all of us, i see every comment and i will respond asap, but thank you for the support, for watching and for being here, love you all!!💓💓💓
Thanks
How do I break up with a boyfriend who I feel is not compatible with me in the things of God. Am I being unfair? What if I want a man who can lead me spiritually because I’m not very strong as a believer and being with him isn’t helping me much. I’m hope you get what I mean? Please help
@@Mo_doyin no you are not being unfair in any way, you can first talk to him about it be transparent as possible …. with him see his response and then from that make a decision. i almost dated a guy that 1. was a Muslim 2. the other one was just not aligned in and with the will of God. sex for me has been out of my equation, not that i haven't done it nope i have and i can tell you that the many times i did it i was even more broken than the first. So how did i deal with the two guys. 1. the Muslim- i was open enough with him to tell him we could not be together, not that we were not compatible no. we were the most compatible , he was my soul mate but then, I had to discern if this man's purpose was aligned to mine. would he support me in the things i am passionate about God? i don't think so. and we mutually parted ways, we still talk from time to time but not as much. 2nd guy , was more of your situation, he wasn't all interested in the things of God and i am just one too passionate about Christ to let a boy or man destroy that believe it or not, with God there are certain things you must discern for yourself and see what the will of God is. With God you have to be intentional , missionary dating i wouldn't recommend , you may be into deep but sis if he is not interested in the things of God it is best to let him go. tell him your reasons for doing so..
@@christleynkunika2667 thank you so much ma. I’m scared 🥺
@@Mo_doyin it must be fear and probably that is what you will have to overcome before you make such a big decision
Sexual purity to me is not just staying from the sexual act sex but also also staying away from sexual materials like overly sexual movies/books/videos/conversations that are erotic and masturbation. Its a struggle but God is faithful so far I am doing good in this area as I wait for my kingdom marriage
The way I am constantly pulling myself back from twerking, 18SNL movies, music, and discussions 😅😅😅😅 coz I know those contributed to my impurity. Even dressing
Watched this yesterday and here to drop my comment. When she said “ they lack self-discipline “ ✅ The discipline you have before marriage is what you will bring into marriage. If you lack self-discipline before marriage, it will be difficult to have discipline in marriage. Thank you ladies for sharing. I enjoyed watching. 💜
thanks for watching Ebby💓
Honestly I love being celibate, like I actually sat with myself today and I realized that I don't regret not having sex with my exs or the men I used to be interested in and sexually attracted to. I am so glad that I didn't have sex with any of them, that I never gave in. Yh I have my sexual feelings but the peace I have now is so much better than possibly ever giving in to my sexual needs. Thank u lord for self control💖
This is how I feel😊❤
They always said they can be Celibate with me but when we are behind close doors all they wanted was sex. I ended the relationship, and felt bad so I wanted to get back with him because he ticked most of the boxes except this important one. But thank God they couldn’t take me back. It’s been 2 months on my celibate journey, I don’t crave for sex nor miss the person intimately but I just miss doing this life thing together. I think being away from the person has helped me in a positive way because I’m building my confidence back again and now I can simply say No to relationship requests of which in the past I was a people pleaser.
Yes girl don't let these men try to change u and bend ur morals, cuz the sad thing is they actually respect u less when u give in. They just get a thrill out of trying to have sex with u and they don't really value u most times. I'm glad u never went bk to him💖
Yes yes... You will never regret or fell used afterwards after breakul
It feels like we are in one mind phase ....people see me stupid for saying no sex
I love that Brandy was honest about doing it before marriage. I think many Christians need to talk about their struggles and mistakes so others can learn and not feel alone, not only for sex itself but for other things relating to fornication, including porn.
I’m still a virgin at 22 and I’ve been debating on whether or not to just go ahead and lose my virginity but after an incident that happened on Thursday I feel like waiting till marriage is whats best for me. This video also just confirmed that I would like to wait for marriage 😢
Dear sis 🙌, it's not just about debate or feelings. Jesus Christ is true and if you are a follower of Jesus (christian) he says to flee immorality, fornication and adultery. There is blessing in waiting. Love❤️ & Light 💡.
My dear just hold on to it . There’s nothing better than actually waiting till marriage just as the lord orders.
Stop creating marriage attachments (sex), where there's no marriage commitment. Gems! Thank you Pastor.
I can totally relate to everything Uzoma said. I've been dating my fiance for 5 years and we're engaged to be married in few months time and walahi, it hasn't been easy. I even thought the urges will get better once we get engaged and the wedding is close, but omo! It's harder. The devi will tell me that it's just few moths to the wedding, we'll eventually get married, but thank God for wisdom ,we're still standing. In summary, being I a sexual pure relationship isn't easy, but it's easier when you both are on the same page.
Yes for real
Sexual purity definitely helps with clearing the mind - atleast I can attest to that! Thank you ladies, this was a great watch!
“You have created a marriage attachment where there is not a marriage commitment”🔥🔥🔥
“You’ve created a marriage attachment, when there is no marriage commitment!!”
Thank you both for being vulnerable to help us learn.
God bless you
See we stop listening to world trying to say sex with anyone is “normal” we do not settle for these contradicting ideologies!
This is sooo good!! As one who is in a Christian relationship dating towards marriage, we have made our mistakes and decided wholeheartedly to pursue God with our actions by also being abstinent. It certainly has been a struggle but extremely efficient through reading the word of God and praying diligently. So watching other Christians talk about this is so encouraging to see! Great video 👍🏿
Self-discipline is a very important trait every human being NEEDS to have! Can't be over-emphasized.
i'm guessing you're a man. It's relieving to see thid coming from you. its frustrating not seeing enough men practice celibacy. i gat hope now
celibacy is hard in this culture and in church it is so demonised when you fall or stumble so hearing this honest and open space and conversation God bless you ❤
I’m only 7 minutes in and I’m so grateful this popped up on my page because the way you guys are even speaking shows your humanity, authenticity, and genuine devotion to Christ. We need more women like you to help shape others who feel very alone on their purity journeys, and show them that there’s another way
Yayyy glory to God!
Love love love this . I like when Christians don’t pretend like these things are not even our realities . We are all humans 👏
This video should go viral really. It’d encourage a lot of people and let everyone know that sexual purity is possible!!! Well done ladies 😍😍😍
God bless you!
Absolutely loved filming this with you 🤍 bring me back oo🫶🏾
love you babes🥹🥹
love this duo🫶🏾
You’re pretty ma’am ❤
Thank you Pst Brandy for this truth and clarification
I love you Ma'am
📌Created a marriage attachment when there’s no marriage commitment! So in-depth!
“You have created a marriage attachment where there is not marriage commitment“👏🏾👏🏾 16:19
I believe there should be a Part 2. I really like what you guys are talking about. When I say I desire to marry a virgin some people think I’m selfish (kinda plays a role) but I want to walk this journey and learn with my Mrs. As a male who haven’t done the do & I’m in my early 30s, I kinda fear expectations so I’d rather want one we both learn and grow. But hey, it could be otherwise & I thank God as well.
You people raised really strong points especially the 2nd question. At times I think of it & ask, why would God tell us to hold back on something that the body naturally desires for and seeks after? Why put it at a certain time to be unlocked yet we’re sexual beings? Isn’t it better that the day one gets married, all the desires just happens like boom 😅. But there’s that call for self discipline/self control.
Finally, you ladies are beautiful and God bless your relationships.
Congratulations 🎉
I don't think it's selfish at all if you are also a virgin! If the guys who run around sleeping with anything walking and then ask for a virgin that I find appalling.
You are doing just great and I pray your desires come through. From your lips to Gods ears
it's not selfishness 😊
@@judithaustine1903 😅😅😅
Lol Uzomas story is a lot similar to mine, I never used to even think of it and wonder why everyone made sex look like this thing with so much hype but now I’m 24, not totally innocent but have still not done it. It’s crazier now plus when you don’t see marriage in the nearest future it’s like harder to think of waiting. And tbh not even sure if I want to. I do see the benefits and I’m grateful for that but people never talk about the part of being single till a very old age
Gosh! I can relate. I had to bear the marital talk with my dad of recent. Though he meant well but I was just mentally tired! Can't I live my life in peace? I want to do a lot career wise and travel and finish Medical school but yet everyone keeps on popping the question,"Are you in a relationship","Where is the guy" like a to do list. it's so annoying!
@@flourishorji6681 😂
The way this video is on point ! I absolutely love how relatable it is! We needed this !
The gems in this video, my God! Thank you both. I’m going to watch this again and again and again until it sticks in 😊
This conversation was SO NEEDED! Wow the vulnerability is everything!
I seriously needed this!!! Bless you sisters in Christ 🤍
Love this video, the honesty and applicable advice. I love to see young women who are not ashamed to share their faith.
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Part 2 pleaseeee. This was such a refreshing video to watch! Thank you guys ❤
This right here has blessed me in so many ways, and I'll definitely listen to it over and over again until it sticks I love that you both are being so genuine which is what so many people who talk about these things are not. Thank you so much, God Bless you.
My favourite RUclipsr. I am so proud of you for this honesty and vulnerability. Thank you for being a light. I love you!!❤❤❤
I don't know how your video even landed on my homepage, but I'm so glad I watched it. You guys said a lot of things that shook me. A lot of self-discipline is needed, and it is true how clear your mind is when you don't focus so much on sexual things in a relationship. Thank you so much for this video!!!
This is a great video . I like how you are tackling issues that many Christians are battling but very few are vocal about . Continue making such videos 🌟❤
Beyond just physical, I actually got really blessed by this video, thank you for putting this out 🙏
This is the most realistic conversation about this I have heard
Please part 2🥺❤️
This is the most honest video i have seen so far on this topic ... people are really struggling with this and need more than just condemnation ... thanks ladies 🤩
Thank you so much, Uzoma and Brandy. This is the best video I have watched that helps me understand what I am really going through in this phase of my life. I've saved the video and would certainly watch this together with him.
I think that my biggest takeaway is that practicing sexual purity helps me connect with my partner in a deeper way because someday our bodies would change but God still wants us to be together till death do us part. And when that day comes when sex is not desirable, or we lose the attractiveness of our bodies, our affection for each other built out of deep conversations and togetherness would keep us together.
God bless you real good!
Nobody talks about this topic so openly and truly like this 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Everything Uzoma is saying is meeeee 😭😭😭 I used to think I had a problem for not having those urges but now hmhmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!! Thankful for understanding and growth in God!! Thank you for this video and Pastor Brandy, you’re amazing.
As a part 2, there should be a Q&A. Thanks for the explanations girls. As a fellow celibate, it feels good to hear about the topic ❤
thank you for this🥰...we really need to understand that marriage is only as good as our singleness , what you do by yourself is a foundation for your marriage, that is who you're bringing to the marriage.
Wow, just wow, I absolutely understand why my gf said she felt attacked watching this video, it's super insightful and thanks a lot!
I loved this! ❤❤❤
And I think it’s definitely a conversation that we need to have more of within the body of Christ
Your Video has been recommended twice on my timeline both on my phone and pc and I was like "Okay God, I here Yoi. I'll listen." I love the authenticity of your channel💯May God keep being glorified.
Ladies, you look gorgeous!! But more importantly you shared some pretty awesome wisdom nuggets in such an open and entertaining way. Part 2 defs!
This video popped up on my screen and i can't believe i was standing the whole time while watching it. Haha so good! Love what you said about having a group chat with your mentors, accountability should certainly be a big deal for any godly couple seeking to date the right way, I don't hear this said in many places and I'm really glad it was mentioned here.
God bless you both. More grace!
I really needed this conversation. First time seeing you on my screen and I was so glued. Thank you so much for this. Please do a part 2🙏🏾 and bring Pst Brandy too.
I just subscribed 😊
There definitely should be a part two of this. I really enjoyed the conversation and honesty.
OMG...I love this, because sexual purity is something I have struggled with, and it's refreshing to know that there is hope and it is not impossible to be sexually pure till marriage
so good you guys!! 👏👏 a lot of people have been blessed by this video
I love how transparent you guys are❤❤❤
We definitely need a part 2 please, my problem is getting someone who is aligned with that vision because it feels like most guy sees staying celibate as something impossible especially here in Nigeria or maybe I've not yet met any God fearing person
girl i feel you but trust me it is definitely possible. are you putting yourself in spaces where you’ll find the type of guys you want?
It's not Nigeria alone..I've not met a man in my country who's staying celibate for God's glory. This journey is just lonely and tough.
@@UzomaIroche please examples of the kinds of spaces
@@sanitationEng I agree... I am Ugandan and to find a man with the same vision, one that wants to honor God with their bodies is tough.
Girlllllll!!! This table! In God's time, He'll bring men aligned with this vision into our lives.
Thank you so much for this. It is honestly really inspiring and educational💕
Can we appreciate the powerful revelations they’re sharing. This was very real, relatable and powerful. Thank you for this🙏
New subscriber ❤
I agree that these topics are not discussed on enough. And the few persons who discuss this are not transparent/honest.
Thank you so much once again to you ladies ❤
Loved this! Thank you for breaking this down for us Uzoma & Nade! Love y’all 💗💗💗
Honestly learnt so much from this video!😭 We want a part 2!!🥰
Loved this so much!! Can’t wait for part 2❤️❤️
Honestly Gods timing is perfect.. this morning I was struggling because I had slipped up .. but what I learnt today is not to stay in that slip up but to run back to God. Thought I was alone in this but thank God for you girls coz now I know we are all operating under His grace !
Thank you for this vid !
thank God for His sovereignty!
i am proud of you for running back to Him❤️
Yeah I used to have the mindset of distancing myself farther away but I had to change that
I almost slipped a few nights ago when my hormones had flared, and wanted to watch something sensual. I prayed and told the devil straight up, "you don't have power over my body, my eyes, everything" and I just slept it out. 😅😅😅
This is the first time of stumbling on your channel and I love what you talked about. Welldone! We all have our struggles honestly. I enjoyed your guest unsensored contribution as well plus she's so adorable.
i really appreciate this video especially Oyins story. i’ve barely found currently married couples who were honest about not being pure from the jump. seeing the mercy of God in redeeming and keeping y’all together even through giving your lives and restarting is so freaking beautiful. gives me so much faith🥺🥺
I just love the two women, honesty at its peak. love love.
"you might fall during your journey but don't stay at it" wise words!!!
Love this so much especially brandys attitude and enthusiasm about the topic.
This video was spot on and thank you for sharing these gems with us beautiful ladies love brandy ofc ❤
I don't know what language you guys normally speak, but today you spoke FACTS.
Abstinence teaches us SELF CONTROL!!!!👏👏👏👏👏
This video deserves an award!!! My goodness! Real 👏🏽 talk 👏🏽!!! Thanks Pastor Brandy and Uzoma!
thanks Jamsss🥰
Uzoma!
I'm really glad I came across your channel.
It has really explained a lot to me and has made me tighten my stance on sexual purity.
Thank you so much.
This was so insightful I loved it. My biggest take away was Self Discipline we should instill that value first because as Uzoma said, someone is not going to stop being fine because you are married.
This was deeply encouraging I needed this ❤ - so grateful
This is sooo good! Deep, deep nuggets shades here. Sooo much!!
From someone whom Holy spirit literally told to work on her self control because I wasn't doing a good job. He literally said, you know self control is an actual fruit of the spirit and it's not like you have a choice. I pray we all find this journey rewarding in the end.
i learnt so much omg! definitely want a part two
Thank you Oyin for your transparency 🤗. God bless you!
I totally enjoyed this video thank you for being a source of inspiration to other Christian youths ❤God bless you and you’re amazing
This was so helpful. Thank you both for being so transparent 😢😢❤❤. God bless you
Never have I ever related to a video on celibacy on such a deep and personal level omllll
You and Brandy did so much justice to this topic and I’ve learned so much that I can’t wait to implement by the grace of God.
I love the point you made about getting to know your partners mind. It resonated with me deeply
You both look ABSOLUTELY gorgeous! love you both so much, thank you for being transparent with us, it’s empowering to know that I can also do the same ❤
First time on this page, and I’m glad this was my first watch, trust I subscribed right away. God bless your hearts for this💕. This was a video I never thought I needed and I could relate so much. I definitely learnt a lot and I also was reminded about the true importance of purity, which is not just for God’s pleasure but also for my edification. Thank you guys so much and yes please we definitely want a second watch (if I say so myself). Love and light🧡
Me too
We need a part 2..and more Christian talk on relationships with pastor Brandy 🥺❤
OMG I have missed your videosss. I really enjoyed this episode it was so wholesome. well done girllll💗💗💗
“nobody is going to stop being fine because you’re married” !!
Honestly this video is amazing it came at a time when I needed to be clarified. I love you guys so much and thank you for the transparency in this video ❣️❣️❣️
thanks for watching Josephine🥺💓
This is so good! Love the transparency ladies
Thank you for this!! it came at the perfect time when i needed to hear it. God is good❤❤❤
thanks for watching Nqobile!
This sexual spirit honestly was actually what my mum said about having sex before marriage so profound
I am so happy about this topic to see believers talk about it is really wonderful and helpful for those of us abstaining and please there has to be a part 2 you can't talk about it in one video 😂😂
This video needs to reach the whole world likeee..omggg❤️❤️
Omg brandy is so cute!!! And Uzoma you are so real this channel is beautiful!
I love the transparency on both parts.
This is so beautiful to watch and is really enlightening for singles. Thank you so much. God bless you guys.
I agree with the topic, I am a virgin and I was 27 when I told my ex-school/varsity friends that I was not sexually active nor had sexual affection/soul ties with my exes and luckily long-term relationship I ever was in was with a Christian, born by water and spirit and we dated for 5 years and knew each other for 5months before actually dating or making a choice to date/courtship and the mere fact we know the principles of the bible about relationships, dating, sex, marriage. Here am I still fighting the good fight of faith, I will get married hopefully to someone that is also abstaining or resisting sexual immorality/sex before marriage because it is significant not to me but to God, my family, and my church. Being pure, clean, and holy not just with what we say and think but, also with our body, mind and soul because of our own choices that lead to "things' whereby at times an individual is regretful, ashamed or even worse heartbroken because of intercourse (sex) due to the guilt or soul ties" that needs to be broken because it's vital due to the body is the temple of God and God is a jealous, just, holy and righteous Father...
you spoke no lies!
You just gain a new subscriber, I love your videos
God sent this video to my TL because my mindset about celibacy and sex as a whole was beginning to change due to society’s pressure. I thank God for the renewing of my mind
This video was so goooood!! Part 2 yes please. Feel like you were speaking to me directly.
thanks Steph!❤️
Amazing!!! Part 2 ladies I'm blessed by this.
Great video ❤ she’s so sincere. God bless you for the insight. Love from 🇬🇭🇬🇭
Yesss ommmm gosshhh I love this thank you so much for this amazing chat Uzomaa I love your channel I am new and here for awhile I just subbed! tysmmm plsss do a part two!
A lot of things said are so relatable and knowledgeable . PART 2!!
loved this! y'all look too good btw! please give us part 2 🙏
if you do film part 2, could you please talk about the value of waiting from the perspective of someone in a long-term relationship (that'll likely end in marriage), to contrast the perspective of someone who has multiple sexual partners?
thank you love, hmmm very interesting!
This was very practical and insightful! I enjoyed listening to you guys.
I didn’t want this video to end.
This was so amazing and worth every minute
Thank you guys for the unbiased truth about celibacy.
glory to God!!🥺❤️
I love thiss and I’m so happy I came across this!