MUST WATCH! OBEDIENCE IS HARD! | DENOUNCING MY SORORITY | DENOUNCING DELTA SIGMA THETA SORORITY INC

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  • Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
  • Hey Y'all Hey! So, this is Part Three of my Transparency Series! In this vid, I discuss how obedience is extremely HARD! God recently instructed me to denounce my membership from a sorority and being obedient to His instruction was NOT easy.
    As always, I pray you are blessed AND entertained by this video. Thank you for watching! And please don't forgot to SUBSCRIBE! :)
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Комментарии • 342

  • @queenmarcus33
    @queenmarcus33 2 года назад +136

    Girl I cried when God told me to come out of Alpha Kappa Alpha. It was hard but man did He take me to higher heights in Him. He is enough!!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +5

      Amen! 🙌🏽🤎

    • @stacyr4768
      @stacyr4768 2 года назад +3

      The ones on my campus were so stuck up and mean . It was such a turn off.

    • @TReneeMathis
      @TReneeMathis 2 года назад +5

      Been crying since Nov❤️❤️❤️

    • @queenmarcus33
      @queenmarcus33 2 года назад +6

      @@TReneeMathis Ma’am I’ve gone back and forth in my mind hoping that I didn’t hear clearly. All I can say now is it does get better day by day. Thanking God for knowing what is best and I remind myself that obedience is better than sacrifice.

    • @diaryofanurbanbeautee8362
      @diaryofanurbanbeautee8362 Год назад +5

      Girl I cried when I found out the college I was going to suspended AKA and now I cry tears of joy our father shielded me from it. I didn’t understand it then and I don’t feel worthy of it now honey. This is definitely a heavy one. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sheilat8190
    @sheilat8190 Год назад +47

    LaLa, you are so right ; being obedient is hard!! I was in an six year relationship with my boyfriend when God told me to stop having sex. Several times I ignored God.
    Eventually the conviction from being disobedient was so heavy it forced me into submission. My boyfriend was not trying to live without a sexual relationship so that caused our relationship to end.
    I was depressed for a year over the break up. After that year of grieving, I feel like my soul was healed . I no longer felt like l needed a man to love me. I also developed Christ like standards for myself. I learned that only Christ can complete me not a man.
    I'm still single and very happy with my relationship with God. Christ is my everything!

  • @Dtoliver316
    @Dtoliver316 2 года назад +52

    Obedience IS indeed hard! I denounced DST in 2014. The lord is faithful and will restore what we THOUGHT we’d loss with so much better! God bless you sister!❤️

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +3

      Amen! Thanks for watching! 🙌🏽🤎

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 2 года назад +57

    Giiirrrlll, this was heavy. YOU ARE A REAL ONE 😳. God bless your obedience LaLa!
    LaLa you've really blossomed this year. I thank God for you. You're such a great example.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +8

      God is doing a GOOD work in me and I’m grateful! 🙌🏽 Thank you for your consistently supporting me during this season, Sis. I appreciate you! 🙌🏽❤️

    • @WordsPictures997
      @WordsPictures997 2 года назад +4

      @@LaLaJenkins ❤️

  • @EESOFLY
    @EESOFLY 2 года назад +36

    Obedience is not friendly 😅 obedience will have you denouncing yourself daily🙋🏾‍♀️ Living witness here! I encourage all reading this . Let it go, in order to Live🌟

  • @BuddingFlower
    @BuddingFlower Год назад +11

    "Ive been pulling you away for years and you have not noticed..." this was my experience before denouncing. SO many situations happened whether it was drama in the sorority, a scare from nationals, or beef between one org and another. I even had people try to attack my character while a part of the organization and yet all of this was God's doing...pulling me away from the sorority for years! I finally denounced earlier this year.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +2

      Wow!! Glory to God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽😭😭

    • @Hellomydiaa
      @Hellomydiaa 6 месяцев назад +1

      MY STORY!!!!!!

  • @TReneeMathis
    @TReneeMathis 2 года назад +45

    Baby I got cursed out, they were taking about me…and a few said we are proud follow God. My best friend never called me back since Nov 2021. Lots of tears soo many tears. But God!
    He told me to renounce!I was like what! Dr King was an Alpha!!! 😩😩😩
    Guess what I hear Gods voice,
    Speak in tongues, Seer and have the gift of prophecy! How about that!❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @TruePowerMinistries
      @TruePowerMinistries 2 года назад +4

      Praise God. Same here. The spiritual gifts God saw fit to release on me has been the biggest blessing since my coming out. Hallelujah!!

  • @KaylaL6149
    @KaylaL6149 2 года назад +47

    I’ve been contemplating going back and forth about joining a BGLO and the voice of God has been telling me no, despite my desires. I’ve recently been getting back closer to God and this definitely was the confirmation I needed so thank you so much for sharing your story !

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +2

      Amen! Glory to God! 🙌🏽

    • @PinkDiamond380
      @PinkDiamond380 2 года назад +5

      I have been going through the same thing. It's a constant struggle but knowing what I know now I wouldn't even dare

  • @secretkeke8906
    @secretkeke8906 2 года назад +18

    One thing that struck me was how hard it was for you to separate from the organization that you admit you always felt uneasy about, and disconnected with. I think it speaks a lot to the power these organizations have when we take an oath, no matter how small it may have seemed to us at that time.

  • @gwynethhobson9740
    @gwynethhobson9740 2 года назад +26

    Thank you for your transparency. I denounced Zeta after 20+ years a few years ago. Yes I cried and the women I pledged with cried. They still don’t understand even though I tried to explain. So of course the friendships have changed. But you must follow God no matter who it separates you from. I used to go to chapter meetings and felt the same way especially after I did a family deliverance prayer since I had family members who were part of Eastern Star and Masonry. I broke the covenants they made not realizing I had to break my own. It was hard but obedience is better than sacrifice.
    I even had a friend who helped me see this and then she turned and joined a military sorority 🤦🏾‍♀️. I asked her about it and she said she didn’t see it as being bad…. Oh goodness.
    God bless you in your obedience and the freedom is exhilarating.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +5

      Whew. You don’t realize how much I needed to hear this. Especially “You must follow God no matter who it separates you from”.. I think I’m scared of who it will remove from my life. Granted I know the people that God removes are intentional.. but still! 😫 And wow! The prayer part! I didn’t even know I was in a covenant with Delta until God clearly said it that same night He asked me to denounce. Recently, I prayed a few renouncing prayers and prayers to break my covenant. Literally the first time I’ve had to pray those type of prayers so I was a bit out of my element. But I knew the Holy Spirit said I need to pray them and I certainly feel free now. 🙌🏽 Thank you for watching and commenting. 🤎

    • @gwynethhobson9740
      @gwynethhobson9740 2 года назад +5

      Yes I even did a deliverance fast from old soul ties and Greeks would pop up in my dreams. Girl this spiritual deliverance is no joke. I was scared as well because I have difficulty in letting people go but we are too look to Him for approval not man. I feel the loss of people in my life but I know I have gained so much with God.
      Not I have to cover up my brands and that’s hard too

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +2

      @@gwynethhobson9740 Wow! Brands! 😱

  • @jazzylagrant13
    @jazzylagrant13 Год назад +14

    Girl I have wept and laughed with you watching this video! 😭😂 but I admire your heart and obedience, it has truly encouraged me in my obedience with the Lord and I’m not even in a sorority. Sending you love sis. ❤️

  • @rishaabston1552
    @rishaabston1552 2 года назад +20

    Keep the faith Sis! I renounced sgrho a few years back. And it was super hard. I cried real tears. It gets better and the Lord is pleased that you've turned from the idolatry. Praise the Lord for your witness!❤️

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      “It was super hard. I cried real tears”.. that’s meeee! But it’s indeed getting better daily! Thank you for watching and providing encouragement! 🙌🏽💖

  • @grayscar05
    @grayscar05 2 года назад +14

    This was beautiful. I felt just like you when I was recruited to pledge in college but i said no out of obedience to God and looking back on it 20 years later I realize it was one of the best decisions I made. I seen so many BLATANTLY demonic and evil things in Greek life and I was wise enough to want no parts of that crazy idolatry and foolishness in my life thank God!!! I was groomed by my church to become Greek but God's power was stronger and showed me how flawed and lost my old church was.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +3

      Whew! We thank God for sparing your life! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @grayscar05
      @grayscar05 2 года назад +2

      Yes boo! And just FYI your former sorority on my campus were making innocent girls drink bleach and slapping them for forgetting history which resulted in a 7 year suspension. I don't know how anyone with self respect and morality could call them sisters .... stay up and life will only get better without being affiliated with that type of toxicity and foolishness in your life.

  • @Jade-rr8wh
    @Jade-rr8wh 2 года назад +19

    Thank you for this video! I’m currently a sophomore at MSU and I was desiring to join a sorority. So to watch this video as a follower of Christ and then see more videos of people denouncing it’s a sign from God. So thank you for posting this video! You saved me from making a bad decision, thank you!

  • @shaneeraparker5866
    @shaneeraparker5866 Год назад +6

    This video was for me. Last night I was sad about a number of things God is telling me to walk away from & honestly I tried to forget what he said and while watching a different video of yours I saw this one beneath it. I watched this thinking you would have an easy, uplifting answer about how to be obedient when God calls you to hard things. I realize while watching this that there is no easy answer it’s just meant to be hard 💔

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +3

      Yes but God will walk with you through it. I released this vid a year ago and looking back, I’m SO thankful that God told me to walk away. When you’re in the moment, it won’t fully make sense. But I promise.. if you be obedient and keep following God.. you’ll be AMAZED at how God can transform your life! He’s molding you into the Kingdom woman that He has predestined you to be. Just trust this molding process, Sis. It’s all for your good. 🤎

  • @victoriatalley0210
    @victoriatalley0210 2 года назад +6

    I found this video last night. And it blessed my greatly. I did not pledge in college so that is not what drew me, it was the obedience!!! To be obedient to Christ is our greatest challenge in life. We all have areas that we must surrender to Christ. I actually sent this to 5 woman that I believe will be blessed by your testimony. You have a new follower. Keep living your life for Jesus Christ. You are a key component to the building of God’s kingdoms. 💜

  • @misscoppin
    @misscoppin 2 года назад +10

    I found your video after making my decision to denounce Delta a few days ago. This is hard but....beauty for ashes! Thank you sister IN CHRIST!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Glory to God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @misscoppin
      @misscoppin 2 года назад

      Your ministry is beautiful and you will be blessed ❤️

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      @@misscoppin Amen! 🙌🏽 Thanks Sis!!

  • @writermya
    @writermya 2 года назад +12

    Proud of you sis! Just followed you on IG. I went out twice for a sorority and when I look back, I know God was protecting me. It's funny because I'm writing a devotional now for college girls and I talk about this in one of the prayers. I point them to RUclips for videos like this to get the clarity they need. Stay strong!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Aww yay! Thank you! 🙌🏽🤎

  • @suz2761
    @suz2761 Год назад +5

    Just found you this morning when I was looking for friendship breakup videos. You gave excellent, wise advice that I will definitely use. Thank you. Also, I appreciate those very real tears because they are the physical representation of the good desire of your heart to please Him. It is SO hard, but He is so good. He always gives beauty for ashes.

  • @KEYMIRA7CARTER
    @KEYMIRA7CARTER 2 года назад +14

    Praise God for your obedience! I denounced Delta December 2021 and received my official paperwork. This walk isn’t easy but I remember asking God to remove anything & anyone from my life that was not of him & he did just that! Obedience was a word that kept coming to mind while I was going through the process of formally leaving the organization.
    God bless you!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Oh wow! I asked that same thing! And He definitely said Delta! And praise Him for your obedience as well! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @monicakeenon8943
      @monicakeenon8943 2 года назад

      Is their paperwork? I did not know. I just never choose to be involved once I researched and found the truth after undergrad…

    • @KEYMIRA7CARTER
      @KEYMIRA7CARTER 2 года назад

      @@monicakeenon8943 Yes there is

  • @tracyreadytv
    @tracyreadytv Год назад +2

    I've watched a few of these denouncing videos.... and this is by far the most vulnerable I've seen anyone be. Most folks seem to present as if they're on cloud 9 but I sense a great sadness even from them because the org, the relationships, the people, etc has all been such a huge part of you guys and gurls lives. Grace to you all.

  • @ashleyteal13
    @ashleyteal13 Год назад +6

    Yo I am crying with you as I am a legacy within the sorority and as I am grieving and he is calling me denounce

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      Praying for you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      Feel free to DM me @LaLa_Jenkins

    • @GodsDaughter5.34
      @GodsDaughter5.34 Год назад +1

      I completely understand I'm in the same situation.

  • @Noeylove09
    @Noeylove09 2 года назад +12

    Thank you for Sharing!!! This is the first denouncing video I found that is so fitting to my story. It is like how it was for me as well. I sent my letter today, and needed some encouragement because it has been rough for me today. I have cried like a baby. I have told my therapist it feels like a divorce. So big thank you for posting. It truly helped me have a little more closer. Still hard but I’m moving forward in obedience.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +2

      Oh wow! Praising God for your obedience! 🙌🏽 And I know it’s extremely hard! I cried for months. This is literally a grieving season. But I promise.. it will get better! 🤎

    • @themrsstephenp
      @themrsstephenp 2 года назад +1

      Congratulations on your decision. WE are with you.

  • @MissKendra15
    @MissKendra15 2 года назад +14

    Oh wow! I knew this was coming. I’ve been watching your videos for a while. I’m not even Greek but something told me this video was coming. Obedience is hard but it’s necessary.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +3

      The Spirit told you! Glory to God! 🙌🏽

  • @rutendochifamba
    @rutendochifamba Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for obeying God’s voice and for posting such an honest video. I recently let go of something after God instructed me to, and when I tell you I cried sooo much 😩 He is worth it, but you’re right that it can be emotional letting go of what we knew. I needed this reminder that I am not alone and we’re all going through similar experiences in our faith. God bless you sis, this video really blessed me ❤❤

  • @carolfrazier5107
    @carolfrazier5107 2 года назад +9

    God over everything! 🙏🏽 You've ministered to me today! 🙌🏾 I cried this entire video. 😭 From God's mouth to your ears, " Fasten your seatbelt, Cousin...YOU ARE GETTING READY TO SOAR!!!" 🦅 Again, thank you for sharing. I'm so proud of you! ❤️

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Amen! Thank you for watching and consistently supporting me, Cousin! 🙌🏽🤎

  • @touchedbybritianyhd
    @touchedbybritianyhd 2 года назад +4

    Well said!!!! This platform is a ministry...to help, to inspire and inform, and to ultimately bring glory to God! It's so beautiful that you obeyed God. Many will gain courage and strength from this video to do that hard thing!

  • @Carolina-xj3dq
    @Carolina-xj3dq 2 года назад +16

    “ I’m crying but I’m still walking towards God” 🥰
    Love that!!
    found your channel by accident and you got my follow. You are doing the right thing, hope this re-assures you 🥰🥰🥰🥰 sending positivity, encouragement and love love love!!!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +2

      Awww yay! Thank you for the reassurance! 🙌🏽💖

  • @jasmineowens5571
    @jasmineowens5571 2 года назад +9

    God will honor your obedience ❤️ That oil hits different sis. You will be blessed by this. As a former member of the D9 I shared your same discomfort, but at the end of the day there is freedom. Sis the tears you cry now will flower your garden. Don’t you worry or fret. Sending love your way 💕🌹

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Amen! Thank you, Sis! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🤎🤎

    • @jasmineowens5571
      @jasmineowens5571 2 года назад +1

      @@LaLaJenkins you’re welcome. Keep the faith ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Shoni_V
    @Shoni_V 2 года назад +5

    I'm not even gon lie...my feelings were so hurt about hearing that you denounced...but after watching this video in its entirety....I get it...and you're still La...and im a Subscriber and even though I mainly watched your videos for the Greek advice...I will remain a Subscriber because you keep it real...and you made a tough decision...this video will be a blessing for many...we all have tough decisions to make in life...this one for you was regarding your organization...someone else's may be about a job or relationship....I applaud you for doing what was right for you...God is PLEASE

  • @Juliana-jades
    @Juliana-jades 11 месяцев назад +3

    Wow..this is very inspiring 😢❤ I'm also going thru the same ...having to obey God despite what men will say..coz you'll look crazy when you obey God

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  11 месяцев назад +1

      Amen. And Looking crazy for God is the best type of crazy.

  • @sound39532
    @sound39532 2 года назад +14

    This was really good! Especially for anybody that’s really really had or has to take up that cross & follow God! But it’s challenging at times at the same time we know who was there for us in our darkness hour.

  • @gordonjefferson8232
    @gordonjefferson8232 Год назад +3

    I woke up thinking about you and how powerful your testimony was concerning obedience to God! Powerful just Powerful…

  • @TIFFLALA369
    @TIFFLALA369 Год назад +1

    I thank you! This has been SUPER HARD, but my heart's posture is obedience to The Father! You've helped me in so many ways through your testimony. I'm going through my process now and it's been tough! Pray for me! 😭🙏🏽💪🏾

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +1

      Congrats for denouncing! Praying for you. 🙏🏽

  • @ItsEasleyLiving
    @ItsEasleyLiving 2 года назад +4

    I almost joined a sorority in college but didn’t but had recently been entertaining the idea again. I was journaling about about all the things I wish I had done differently and the Lord clearly said if I had joined it would have had a strong hold on me. It shook me so much and this was something I almost did almost 12 years ago. I didn’t ask why, felt a bit salty but He definitely said what He said and I left it at that. Thinking back I’m sure my identity would have been wrapped up in it and I’m grateful He protected me even when I didn’t realize it. Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. God bless you.

  • @thepoeticrapper
    @thepoeticrapper 2 года назад +4

    You are hilarious!! Love your personaility. You are so full of life even without alcohol and sorority.

  • @phillipeuring8602
    @phillipeuring8602 Год назад +2

    When there's the will to do God's will, it's never hard. That yearning & desire to let go of sin supercedes what we think & feel in holding on to it when the focus is completely on God. When we want God more than what we want for ourselves, the floodgates burst open instead of the drops that we're waiting for to pore through one bucket at a time. Seek ye first the kingdom of God & His righteousness & ALL things will be added unto you. We go for the "All these things" firstly then seek God & His righteousness & wonder why it don't work out. The approach stops the approach.

  • @letstalkwithakila2494
    @letstalkwithakila2494 6 месяцев назад +2

    I have to be transparent and say I saw denouncing videos back in 2008. I knew better. And God surely held me accountable when I joined 11 years later. I denounced DST and I am at peace!

  • @jehannedufresne3998
    @jehannedufresne3998 2 года назад +2

    Thank God for the lady who was obedient to share the video with you. Thank you for sharing your struggle then, being real. I'm sure it's not a struggle anymore walking away from the sorority 😉
    The lesson I'm getting here is that others get blessed when we are obedient to God. Praise God!

  • @beautyforashes06
    @beautyforashes06 2 года назад +4

    LaLa I don't know how I got to your page but MY GOD! You jacked me up (convicted) with this video (because of my own fleshly struggle) and I am not even in the BGLO. HOLY SPIRIT it was only by Your Doing that I saw this. The struggle is real BUT I declare it being DONE ONCE AND FOR ALL in the NAME OF JESUS!! This is one of the most sincere & heart felt videos that I have seen in quite some time. I used to follow a few people who talk about the BGLO. I deleted my last one after watching this so YES!! This is a ministry. Yours is POWERFUL and will help the next woman or man make a righteous decision!!! KUDOS LALA!!! Your personality is so contagious, I love it and pray for continuous righteous progression for you!!!! YYYEESSS!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾💖💖🔥🔥🔥

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Wow! Glory to God, Sis! Thank you! 🙌🏽💖

  • @maryarmstrong615
    @maryarmstrong615 Год назад +1

    Well Ms Lala, this right here!!! This was it!!! I stayed up all last night afraid 2 go 2 sleep & just praying over my life…
    After watching the video u just posted about surely being in the lake of fire if we don’t give up our idols (Delta) right now!
    I already commented that on ur other video & dm’d u on ur IG page 2day, seeking help on how 2 make it thru this… 🙏🏽
    And he go God leading me 2 this video right here 2nite with my real tears finally coming out right along with yours 😢
    I refused 2 let tears fall from my eyes last nite as I was going thru the renouncing prayers u linked bcuz I felt like how dare I cry over Delta when God has been holding me down all these years.
    So praise the Lord 4 this release of Heart felt emotions & really being able 2 let go of sorority life since I was a little girl 👧🏽
    God really can work in mysterious ways bcuz out of all the “denouncing videos” I’ve watched on ur channel, This 1 Here never popped up!!!!!!!
    Simply bcuz God knew the appointed time that I would need 2 see & feel this 1, after I looked 4 the recent link posted with u and Malissa Blair titled “Now What, After Delta” 😩
    I now kno I am back on the right path in God & will never look back or be double minded again about leaving these Covenants behind me. (coven = a gathering of witches or warlocks) 🤯

    • @maryarmstrong615
      @maryarmstrong615 Год назад

      And just being transparent, Delta runs deep in my family! I hav at least 7 Aunts, 10 cousins, several Godmothers, Church members and my 1st Niece (who I bought over) r Delta’s. Being raised in the South was just common knowledge that Black fraternities & sororities were a part of our community & a lifetime commitment…
      As soon as I was old enough, my Aunts enrolled me in “Delta Teens” (I was like 10 years old😅 not even a teenager yet) and had me doing community service in the name of Delta.
      So this is like leaving a family 4 real, plus the best of friends I made in college by the way of Delta since Spring of 1995 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨
      Death & Divorce is truly the feelings I am having just like u described in this video.
      The same feelings from when a past relationship ended from a man who I swore Holy Spirit said was my husband 😂
      (and he was an Alpha too)
      living in sin & going 2 hell 2gether ❤️‍🔥🤣🤣🤣
      Thank U 4 ur timely videos on every subject that we r facing 2day… like the 1 were u said u Thot u found ur husband back in the day too. I needed all of this! 💖

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @SuperSharlene23
    @SuperSharlene23 Год назад +1

    This comment is regarding the Beyonce video you made. I stumbled on your video about Beyonce yesterday. I have been watchinbg your videos non-stop. I have a friend who is agnostic. We were both die hard Beyonce fans. I noticed a shift in Beyonce and stopped supporting the music. However, my friend is not hearing anything about God. Please pray God gives me the language to tell her to not go and why. Thank you for your obedience.

  • @missj0528
    @missj0528 Год назад +2

    Lala thanks for your transparency. Your video was one of the first I saw about denouncing after getting “the call to denounce“. Like you God has been trying to get my attention for years and it just finally got to me.
    I have not been active in Delta for years but have cousins in college who decided to join Greek and looked up to me. God definitely has other plans.
    I denounced this week and honestly it feels good to know I am obeying God!
    Thanks for your obedience and May God continue to bless you!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +1

      Glory to God! And Congrats on denouncing! God is about to do some AMAZING things in your life now. Get ready! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @keaundraprice
    @keaundraprice 2 года назад +13

    God honors obedience. I denounced this year and the Lord instructed me to share my story as well. I solicit your prayers. I'm praying for YOU!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Oh wow. Look at God! I will certainly be praying for you! Did you already record the vid??

    • @keaundraprice
      @keaundraprice 2 года назад +1

      @@LaLaJenkins Thank you! not yet, I plan to do it in a month or so.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +3

      @@keaundraprice Ok! I’ll certainly be looking for it. I know God is going to use you in a mighty way! 🙌🏽

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      @@keaundraprice Oh my goodness! My cousin just shared your FB post and I squealed! Love love looove your boldness in the post! God is certainly using YOU! Can’t wait for the vid! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @themrsstephenp
    @themrsstephenp 2 года назад +4

    Siiiiis, if CONFIRMATION was a video! I have ALWAYS wanted to rock D.S.T. from high school and I just turned 51. God has NEVER allowed me the opportunity to do so.....Under or Grad 💔 but I honestly believe if He'd allowed me to do so ..I would struggle with DENOUNCING. I'm soooo proud of you and you continue to stand in your decision. Be Blessed and continue to #GrowInGod.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Whew. Thank God for protecting you! 🙌🏽 And thank you for the encouragement! 🤎

  • @davidroussell5118
    @davidroussell5118 2 года назад +2

    You are SUCH AN ANGEL. I wish more young women had the COURAGE AND GRACE that you have. Peace and all God's blessings to you and thank you for sharing your story!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Aww thank you for your kind words! This just made my night! 🙌🏽🤎🤎

  • @lakeishionstreet
    @lakeishionstreet 2 года назад +2

    I’ve always wanted to pledge. I remember my pastor preaching about serving two masters and idolatry. That’s what made me change my mind, and I’m so glad I obeyed. I am very happy and proud of you for listening to God. You have a new sub. I feel so comfortable being a Christian here. It’s not much wholesome content on RUclips, but I appreciate your transparency and commitment to God. Stay encouraged

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Aww yay! Glory to God! And welcome to my channel! Praying you are continuously blessed. 🙏🏽🤎

  • @abidingeast
    @abidingeast 2 года назад +9

    Wow, I share so many similarities with your testimony. I was looking into getting back active and researching grad chapters when God started speaking to me about denouncing. I was involved for 13 years before I denounced in 2018. I did a lot of crying too. It's a very emotional process. It gets a lot easier. I've never felt more free or more like myself.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Oh wow! That’s craaazy that our testimonies are so similar! Praise God for your obedience! I’m definitely looking forward to the ease that’s completely because my mind is consistently going crazy. 😫

  • @AdrienneElle
    @AdrienneElle 2 года назад +34

    I denounced Delta in summer 2019.
    Halleluyah for your obedience!

  • @sizzle7980
    @sizzle7980 2 года назад +14

    Girl you had me in tears too. This video was so REAL! This walk definitely isn’t easy. And the part where you said all you want to hear is God say well done my servant. 🙌🏾💯 This is all I currently think about all the time. Keep ministering to us sis. I know God is proud of your obedience.

  • @coleenburke3270
    @coleenburke3270 Год назад +1

    La the part where you said, "Look at this time span. I've been pulling you away and you haven't noticed" spoke to my soul. Now I am not apart of any sorority BUT there's a friend of mine I have had since HS and God has speaking to me through different experiences and emotions/feelings regarding this person. As soon as you said that, her name came to my head. I honestly have been struggling with letting that relationship completely go even though things are clearly not the same. I am healing from my people pleasing ways and I know I have made that person an "idol" in my life. God is a jealous God. He MUST be #1. That is why it is so hard to let go and there is a need to remove those things completely from our lives. God bless you my sister 🙏🏾 Continue the good fight.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +1

      Praying for you, Sis. I went through a friendship breakup recently so I completely understand! Here’s the vid about it. ruclips.net/video/z-zStnWdgVo/видео.html Prayerfully it helps you. 🙏🏽

    • @coleenburke3270
      @coleenburke3270 Год назад

      @@LaLaJenkins thank you. Will check it out now.

  • @tashab6190
    @tashab6190 Год назад +1

    I am so glad that you were obedient to God. I pray that He continues to reveal why we all had to denounce. Remember Exodus 34:14 we have allowed these Greek organizations to be little gods in our lives. God is calling His children's to come from among them. You may be crying now, but you will understand more and more as He reveals. If you get a chance, look at the teaching Fred Price Jr. did on Greek organizations. Grace and peace!

  • @ShineYourLightAlways
    @ShineYourLightAlways Год назад +1

    Thanks so much for this video! Needed this encouragement!! Those scriptures really hit!! “What does God say, His opinion is the only one that matters” Amen!!!

  • @dr.shamoniawimberly
    @dr.shamoniawimberly 2 года назад +5

    LaLa God bless you. I celebrate you! God told me also. God will isolate you and give you such a peace when he's taking you through a transformational place. I too was moved the Dallas and in my quiet place God revealed the same thing. I pray that those that hear the call will answer. Blessings to you!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +2

      Whew! Thank you, Dr. Wimberly! “Transformational place”.. that’s it! This transformation has been painful yet necessary for my calling. I’m certainly praying others will hear.. and answer! 🙏🏽

    • @dr.shamoniawimberly
      @dr.shamoniawimberly 2 года назад

      @@LaLaJenkins continued blessings to you ❤ 🙏🏼. We have to connect soon!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      @@dr.shamoniawimberly I would love that! I just found you on FB. I’ll send a message. 🤗

    • @dr.shamoniawimberly
      @dr.shamoniawimberly 2 года назад

      @@LaLaJenkins Perfect 🥰

  • @tadonneneal8091
    @tadonneneal8091 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your testimony. I too had to make a choice to be obedient to God. He asked me to walk away from a relationship and to stop drinking. It took me a very long time to be obedient, but thank God He kept me until I said God I’ll trust you 🙌🏾

  • @ldr792
    @ldr792 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for your testimony! I'm not in a sorority, but I felt that when you said its either you or the sorority. Yep that was me except it was either God or a man (knew him since I was a kid). I chose God too and we made the best choice! Ezra 10:3 (also about divorce amazingly enough) & 1 Samuel 16:1 (to help with your healing). The song Jehovah Jireh, got me through, I'd be in the car crying and shouting, whew chile! It gets better, and God is so proud of you and will reward your obedience✨✨ 2022 is the year of RADICAL obedience

  • @kenishcoleman
    @kenishcoleman Год назад +1

    Thank you for your obedience, you're freeing so many people right now!

  • @MoniNov17
    @MoniNov17 2 года назад +2

    Congratulations to you on your obedience to God. You're so right, when you stated that when you're accustomed to a certain thing, then you have to give it up it seems unreal. It can hurt and you have some hesitation, but life with God is always the best.

  • @arlenes423
    @arlenes423 2 года назад +3

    I echo the 'you're a real one' sentiment. God will honor your obedience. Its better than sacrifice. Greater things in store for you sis.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Thank you, Friend! 🙌🏽💖

  • @sharonbanks7015
    @sharonbanks7015 2 года назад +3

    Matthew 7:13-14
    New King James Version
    The Narrow Way(A)
    13 (B)“Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. 14 [a]Because narrow is the gate and [b]difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.
    GIRL, You found the narrow gate! I’m right there with you! I too am not longer a member of Delta! Last month 11/23 would have been my 39th year! But God…. He has something far more greater!!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Amen! Thank you for this WORD! 🙌🏽💖

  • @coachlisagilbert3055
    @coachlisagilbert3055 2 года назад +1

    Yessssssssss!!! This was EXCELLENT! The conviction of the Lord is so strong here!

  • @EricaNWilliams
    @EricaNWilliams 2 года назад +8

    I thank God for your obedience in denouncing Delta and also posting this video. I denounced Delta and fully withdrew from the sorority in 2018. This was a much needed reminder that obeying God is not in vain. Although we may receive backlash for obeying God, He can and will use our testimonies of obedience to deliver others. Thank you, again! And congrats on your denouncement! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💗

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Yessss! God is already using this testimony and I’m extremely grateful! Thank you for watching and supporting! 🙌🏽💖

  • @tiffanybrown7414
    @tiffanybrown7414 2 года назад +1

    So blessed to have found your channel! We as the body of Ha’Mashiach (Christ) greatly appreciate your transparency! Thank you for your obedience and blood, sweat, and tears! May Yah continue to bless you and fill your life with all things good!

  • @shestudios
    @shestudios Год назад

    I just hit the subscribe button on this one. If this channel is for His glory, I have got to be in the know. I love how He is using you, my sister. In 2009, I walked away from secular music. It wasn't until some years later that I understood that the Lord was calling me out. This walk ain't easy for the believer. Everyday our minds are being renewed. I am here for it!!!

  • @jessicamarsh823
    @jessicamarsh823 2 месяца назад

    I denounce Zeta last year. It was the hardest decision ever. I question myself to see if I made the right decision. You reconfirm it in this video. Thank you. Being Obedient to God is hard and sometimes it doesn’t make sense. But I trust him

  • @Missthomaslive
    @Missthomaslive 2 года назад +2

    Now as i was fasting God showed me a video of an alpha denouncing and it was like going down a rabbit whole once i did the proper research. It wasn’t even up for debate my salvation in God will Always come first . Blessings to you on your journey for God will favor you because of your obedience ❤️

  • @dopeandgifted1359
    @dopeandgifted1359 Год назад

    Keep going girl … I didn’t think to make a video but I’m with you and praying for your continuous growth of this ministry…. If you are in college or Hs even MS know no group or organization is worth your life ..your energy…. Don’t be afraid to walk alone and be different … and you don’t even got be boastful and loud just pray and walk away ❤❤❤❤❤😊

  • @Shoni_V
    @Shoni_V 2 года назад +1

    After seeing you reel on Instagram about Denouncing Delta I ran to see this video....this was deep....I will admit my daughter and I loved your Greek videos...but when God says move...you have follow his word...proud of you...God Bless

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace 2 года назад +7

    I love the way you style your braids 🤩 super cute! I’m always blessed by your videos! 💛

  • @tiffanyyvonne1440
    @tiffanyyvonne1440 2 года назад +2

    Oh my goodness 🥲🙏🏾 I denounced in September as well from SGRHO and it was the most emotional thing ever. I watched that video and SEVERAL OTHERS. Whew chile! God said so clearly to leave and I cried for days wondering why me!! I was prophesied to leave and God gave me very specific scriptures and directions. I’m here from Ohio, moved in 2019. Super active…It’s alot and I’m trying to sift thru the awkwardness. BUT YAHWEH🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +2

      Whew. I totally feel you! This is a spiritual shift for us both but God has AMAZING things coming as a result of our obedience! 🙌🏽

  • @seandenson8056
    @seandenson8056 Год назад

    The hind sight will be awesome, and with an anointed testimony that will help free up others into a right relationship with King God Christ Jeus!!

  • @moshe6977
    @moshe6977 Год назад +2

    Great video! You had me cracking up! Stay free sis!

  • @Carmen-yf9pq
    @Carmen-yf9pq 2 года назад +1

    Wow, so powerful! I subscribed to your channel a while back because of your personality but also because you were affiliated with this organization at the time. I was scrolling through Facebook today and came across someone sharing this video, and I was so shook to see you had denounced. I am not a member of any organization but I have been very confused and straddling the fence. You have blessed me and I’m glad you spoke on obedience rather than going into full detail about parts of the organization that are not of God. I will say this video brought me to tears. I believe God will bless you for your obedience to Him and give you the desires of your heart.

  • @ashleymclenan5097
    @ashleymclenan5097 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this video, obedience is something I am struggling with. Your videos always come when I need them. Keep living for God your light shines so bright

  • @Goldengoods1111
    @Goldengoods1111 2 года назад +6

    Obedience Looks good on you La' 🙏🏾#Goal!

  • @shonestysmith658
    @shonestysmith658 2 года назад

    Your obedience in telling your story has truly helped me to understand why I have struggled with even joining ANY sorority. GOD knows I wanted to join sooooo bad but, as a believer it never set well with me and I KNOW I HEAR FROM HIM🙌🏾. However, I know this video is HIS way of confirming not join Greek life. I have been in expectation for approximately 2 years now and now I see why. LALA, I TRULY THANK GOD FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE!!! My prayer is that the LORD grant you your heart’s desire in JESUS MIGHTY NAME. Blessings to you and your future family. We truly serve a true and living GOD - ELOHIM. GOD BLESS YOU WOG😇👑🔥.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🤎🤎

  • @lanissibrown8741
    @lanissibrown8741 2 года назад

    God bless you for doing this and making a video about it. I have idolized black Greek letter organizations for most of my life and felt tempted to join one multiple times. I asked God why another Christian was a part of one and I couldn’t be in one and he led me to your video. I realize that it is very against the will of God for MY life to be a part of one due to it possibly taking the place of Him and there being things in it that is not of him. I remember one time in the recent past that he spoke to me about watching Greek step shows because I was addicted to it and I realized that what they sing about and do doesn’t line up with His word. I appreciate you for being vulnerable about what God is doing in your life! 😄

  • @pinkcarterinc.
    @pinkcarterinc. 2 года назад +2

    I love your transparency! And I believe you are an awesome example. 💕💕💕 thank you for blessing us this morning with your story!

  • @jonathanwilson5885
    @jonathanwilson5885 Год назад

    I’m not gonna lie this video was very inspirational; I’ve got things in my life I need to give up and I’ve held on to them but seeing you obey despite the pain really motivated me. Thanks for the video

  • @terribellspeaks
    @terribellspeaks 2 года назад

    God bless your obedience. He saved your life! You can not serve two God’s. You had given your allegiance to another and now you are FREE! Who God sets free is free indeed. Now you are ready for your destiny. You are on your way now. Enjoy the journey. Get out of those grave clothes…You are with the King!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @setapartnotaside
    @setapartnotaside 2 года назад +5

    Powerful testimony Sis! I was led to dennounce earlier this year in 2021. Praise The Most High for your obedience.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      Wow! Glory to God! I’m so glad that I’m not alone in this journey. 🙌🏽💖

    • @setapartnotaside
      @setapartnotaside 2 года назад +3

      @@LaLaJenkins You are definitely not alone; I'm sure many are inspired by your courage 😊; I posted my testimony about a month ago.

  • @shelceyhampton5253
    @shelceyhampton5253 Год назад

    I wanted to pledge so bad in undergrad but ended up getting pregnant at the time the line was starting. My cousin, who was also my roommate, crossed and I had my heart set on grad chapter. Until recently, it was a goal still but finding these videos made me think more deeply about WHY i wanted to be in it and now i no longer want to.

  • @proverbs3126
    @proverbs3126 2 года назад +1

    God over everything!! Absolutely! Praise the LORD for your obedience. I officially denounced in 2019. Luke 6:22--what an encouraging and on time word from the LORD. God bless you Sister in Christ.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Yay! Thank you, Sis! 💖 Praising God for your obedience as well! 🙌🏽

    • @proverbs3126
      @proverbs3126 2 года назад

      @@LaLaJenkins Amen!

  • @monicakeenon8943
    @monicakeenon8943 2 года назад +1

    A lived experience. I knew you were going to say DST. Yes, Sis (no longer Soror) in Christ. I put Him first. Secret society. I do respect the people… relationships.

  • @TrineshaHadassahIsrael
    @TrineshaHadassahIsrael 2 месяца назад

    la i love you. You have so much personality, beauty and character! And btw, God got you. God already told me He is not pleased with people bullying and hating on you on RUclips. God will deal with your enemies if they do not repent of putting their mouth on you, his daughter and queen. God thinks very Highly of you and they will be judged and give an account .... I love you la🩷

  • @dopeandgifted1359
    @dopeandgifted1359 Год назад

    Me renouncing Was easy because God showed me “truth” shortly after. God doesn’t make mistakes and over time He is patient and even when you are rebelling he covers you with grace. I begged God for the sorority only to be thankful for that grace and mercy to leave it alone. Your sorority don’t get you no job and you are hated just for saying you in a different clique like hs. My advice talk to God in HS and pray for divine direction and protection. Walk alone until God leads you to Godly praying friends in college and keep your 700 and months of sleep.

  • @JAMESHANGLUNG-km4ru
    @JAMESHANGLUNG-km4ru 11 месяцев назад

    Amen, God bless you for holding on and God will bless you for sure.

  • @ellenhill5826
    @ellenhill5826 2 года назад

    Glory glory…and soon you will be singing ..” Jesus I’ll never forget what you’ve done for me…Jesus I’ll never forget how you set me free…Jesus I’ll never forget how you brought me out..Jesus I’ll never forget no never…” 🙂🙏🏽🙂

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      I’m already singing it! 🙌🏽 Jesus saved my soul! 🙌🏽🙌🏽😭

  • @TrulyFave
    @TrulyFave 2 года назад +1

    Yayy! I’ve been praying for this moment for you to get to this point in your journey with God! 🙌🏽

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Amen! Thanks for praying for me, Sis! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🤎

  • @talithaovercomer5766
    @talithaovercomer5766 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for the honesty and the encouragement. A word in season ❤

  • @lynn4134
    @lynn4134 2 года назад +2

    Love your videos! They’ve really helped me embrace my newly single season. Struggling today and glad this popped up :)

  • @kehindeadekoya3894
    @kehindeadekoya3894 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this! I wanted to join the organization but God said No and I have episodes wheee I accept the no and then there are times where I’m like dang God why but I’m trying my best to accept the No because His No is protecting me. God is good all the times!!!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      He’s certainly protecting you from the hands of the enemy! 🙌🏽

  • @AustinLeeDurham
    @AustinLeeDurham Год назад

    ❤️ great video LALA I sent it to a sister who is in sororities. Thank you for being a good vessel with this!

  • @telesamorrison2238
    @telesamorrison2238 2 года назад +2

    Wow thanks for sharing your transparency on obedience cause last and this morning I been struggling to let God heal me of father wounds my dad recently just left me hanging because of drugs

  • @gordonjefferson8232
    @gordonjefferson8232 Год назад

    Wow Sis smh I’m speechless. But I appreciate your candor I really do. When I hear folks start talking about denouncing their Fraternity or Sororities it’s from the stand that the fraternity is being worshipped in the place of God. But your situation was totally different. I mean if that’s how they feel ok. However to hear you say. God said choose makes sense even more than you know. So I support your decision I know I don’t know you. But if you really love God and wanna follow after him with all of your being then the choice is obvious. But no less painful. So may the Lord strengthen you and heal you for the days ahead In Jesus Christ Name. Amen

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist Год назад

    It is crazy how things that are not of God, have a hold on us. Whew chile!!!

  • @lovingone2182
    @lovingone2182 2 года назад +3

    Thanks again La, I was drawn to your channel based on your transparency about your walk with the Lord.God will replace what was lost. Stay blessed!

  • @dannieden4596
    @dannieden4596 2 года назад

    @Queen Marcus, @Destinee Jones @Adrienne Elle and all the other ladies in the comments who shared that they denounced their sorority, thank you for your obedience. I continue to be amazed (although I shouldn't be) at how God is bringing His children out of these organizations. Praise Be To God!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад

      Yesss! All praise to the Father! He continues to watch over His children! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @trenditv5081
    @trenditv5081 2 года назад +10

    Ironically I was on TikTok last week it was a guy denouncing his sorority and I was talking to my mom about it because my niece wants to be a delta and I was telling my mom I follow this RUclipsr and she’s a delta I wonder how she feels about denouncing and look at God here this video is lol

  • @Tia_Rock
    @Tia_Rock 2 года назад +3

    I’m so thankful God connected us sis. I love your transparency, the realness of this video. I denounced Delta in 2018 and everything you are saying is truth. I pray that everyone who watched this video eyes will be open and they seek God and turn away. I love youuuuuuu🤎🙌🏾

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  2 года назад +1

      I’m SO glad He connected us as well! God knew I couldn’t walk this journey alone so He sent you! 🙌🏽 Thank you for supporting me! And I’m def praying eyes are opened too. I’m believing God is calling people out through this video! 🙌🏽 Love you too! 💖💖