The Attraction Of Indifference

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Coach Corey Wayne discusses how acting and being indifferent can create sexual attraction in women and cause them to start chasing and pursuing you without you hardly doing anything. A subtle technique you can use to improve your social skills and confidence without risking rejection.
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Комментарии • 189

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +299

    Women are emotional beings. What you talk about with them causes them to feel positive or negative emotions. Whatever she feels around you, especially when you're trying to make her comfortable & have fun, is what she is going to associate with being with you. There is a lover vibe, and a friendship vibe. Women love to talk about anything and everything, just lead the conversation in a positive and fun direction making physical moves at the correct time. If you don't, blue balls are your prize.

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +201

    Thanks, but I'm just another dude. Don't put me on no pedestal. Put yourself on one and lift others up to your level. Be a leader. Leaders lead by example. The word lead means to go first :)

    • @darthstructure7370
      @darthstructure7370 6 лет назад +6

      I love you coach....u really are making me see things that I was afraid to c. Keep rocking on!!!!!

  • @60sekundenpolitik
    @60sekundenpolitik 4 года назад +133

    Okay, with this T-shirt he looks even more like Thanos. 😂

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +213

    Men who chase women get rejected

    • @ClanKaiserGMS
      @ClanKaiserGMS 6 лет назад +1

      Coach Corey Wayne but in your book, dont you write that guys should talk with a woman he is interested in for a few mins, then either ask her out or ask for her contact? Doesnt this video contradict the idea that guys should get a woman's number?

    • @HengTony
      @HengTony 6 лет назад +13

      man should do the chasing for the first 3 dates and then let the woman do the chasing

    • @reacher2526
      @reacher2526 6 лет назад +10

      Read the book.

    • @Robsparks413
      @Robsparks413 5 лет назад +2

      Yes Ofcourse you have to initiate the chase But once she stops DONT CHASE

    • @Robsparks413
      @Robsparks413 5 лет назад +1

      It's all a test Shell call in a couple A few or a week Shes tryna screen out the WEAK NEEDY INSECURE GUYS That's what CCW MEANS Also yes YOU DEFINITELY NEED TO READ THAT BOOK 3% MAN

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +85

    It's a great exercise to do for guys who are trying to learn emotional self control so they don't come unglued around women they really like. Plus, when you notice the signs that she's interested & they're obvious signs, you're not going to be as scared to ask her out. Why? It's obvious she likes you & it's in the bag, but you still have to be the man & make the date happen, get her number or give out yours. Any outcome starts to seem acceptable to you once you lose your attachments to results.

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +65

    "Try not! Either do or do not. There is no try." ~ Master Yoda (Star Wars The Empire Strikes Back)

    • @TheSonzeK
      @TheSonzeK 5 месяцев назад

      Sounds alot like an absolute, which only the sith deal with

  • @scott7410
    @scott7410 7 лет назад +84

    I think this is perhaps the best advice for initial contact with women. Make them do the work. If you act like a man that’s busy and not simply approaching them to play the pickup game they notice that you’re different than most other men. Just be nice, say a few words and go on with you’re life. If they’re interested, they’ll make things easy for you

    • @AntonioWolfpack
      @AntonioWolfpack 6 лет назад +6

      Scott I agree. A women knows in about 3 seconds wether you make the cut or not. As Morgan Freeman said. " show her what you like about her and go on about your business. If you don't drool all over her she will want to know why"

    • @evka24
      @evka24 4 года назад +2

      For fling she would make it easy not for the long term relationship. Man needs to show of he has qualities for long term relationship

  • @joeysixtysix
    @joeysixtysix 11 лет назад +51

    I swear I get a high feeling from approaching women. it doesn't even matter if they like me or reject me. I always feel fantastic afterward.

    • @loly9929
      @loly9929 4 года назад +1

      @@ZenPepperClub so you dont feel the feel
      GL

    • @alexpivniouk8421
      @alexpivniouk8421 11 месяцев назад +3

      Same bro I have been doing CA for just a few weeks and instead of anxiety I get dopamine now

  • @janovesakkestad7097
    @janovesakkestad7097 7 лет назад +45

    Indifferent means that you dont care about the outcome if she say Yes thats fine and if she say No thats fine. You dont give a shit about consequences you don't takes side you are indifferent to what other think about you indifferent is freedom

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +19

    Because you are demonstrating masculinity. Purpose, drive, mission, achieving, breaking thru barriers, accomplishing goals, etc. It's what men do and what women find very attractive about men. Going for what you want without fear of rejection or looking silly.

  • @jannieschluter9670
    @jannieschluter9670 5 лет назад +15

    The opposite of love is not hatered but indifference. So, women respond to you not loving them. Awesome!!!

  • @RudolphManor
    @RudolphManor 3 года назад +8

    I Love Being Positively Indifferent. 😎

  • @spd6147
    @spd6147 4 года назад +18

    I like to use the classic Dumb & Dumber line from Jim Carry......"Welp......See you later." (7-11 scene). Drives women crazy....in a good attraction way.

  • @KennyKicksMusic
    @KennyKicksMusic 10 лет назад +31

    I must say, it feels so great to be able to help someone else with the things that you teach, coach. Passing this info onto another person who actually needs it and who you feel like will make good use of your advice is very satisfying. I appreciate the fact that you gave me the ability to help myself and some other people as well.

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +32

    Simply say, "Wow, a nail in your foot? Bummer. Call me when your gimpy leg gets better so we can have some fun together honey. Get well soon :)" Then walk and never contact her again. If she reaches out to you? Then set a definite date. Never continue to pursue a woman who continually blows you off. It shows she has no respect for you. You continuing to pursue her after she jerks you around shows you have no respect for yourself. I would simply walk away. IF she calls you, set a definite date.

  • @kwrwade
    @kwrwade 9 лет назад +87

    What I think is funny is that as you're talking about these things, I start remembering things I've done on accident that reinforces what you're saying.
    One time I decided to go a planetarium show on my college's campus because I'm really into astronomy. When I showed up to get my ticket, there was a huge line and I simply asked the girl in front of me if it was the correct line to get in for the show. Looking back, she probably thought I was just making conversation and trying to flirt, but I literally was concerned I wasn't at the right place. She was really friendly and we talked about astronomy for a few minutes and I told her about the past shows I had been to. Then I got my ticket and left and about an hour later I went back to the front of the planetarium for the show. She was already at the front of the line and when she saw me walk by smiled and frantically waved at me trying to get my attention.

    • @PersistentPatriot
      @PersistentPatriot 9 лет назад +57

      Nerd love lol

    • @aidanbailey6337
      @aidanbailey6337 8 лет назад +10

      +PersistentPatriot Everyone wants love, ha.

    • @tonyppe
      @tonyppe 3 года назад +6

      I was in a nightclub last month to meet some friends and I hadnt been to this place in years. I couldnt find them on the ground floor but inside the club were some stairs and a big ass line to wait to go up them. I lined up and these 2 chics came up behind me in the queue. I turned to them and said "hey what is this line for" and one of them said "it's better". I said "OK thanks :)" with a chuckle and turned back. A few minutes later she kept (gently) kneeing the back of the leg I was standing on. I always stand on one leg and the other is stretched right out. She was unlocking the knee. I turned around and looked at her and just said "hi". She kind of looked a bit sheepish and didnt say anything so I turned back. This happened a few times. The next time I turned around and just laughed while looking at her and asked her name and things went from there 😁

  • @eguiulnavah.1205
    @eguiulnavah.1205 8 лет назад +52

    Indifference gets really funny. I've just started to go serious with a girl, but I went to a party with my buddies last friday. I simply went out to have fun, chat, dance and drink.
    I met a couple of girls who talked with me but I didn't mind them a lot because of my girl. The night went on and about at 5 in the morning i went to the couch to sleep. Before I knew three girls I had chatted with during the party were laying by and over me. The look of envy from my friend was hilarious! xD
    I didn't make any move, of course, but focusing on my purpose at that party let the girls be confident around me. I keep learning everyday!

  • @honeybadger2801
    @honeybadger2801 5 лет назад +16

    I actually tried this in my own way and it works! Cause everyone has a different approach to women but the same principle. You’re cool calm collected centered. He’s right it’s that mindset of James Bond. You just going bout yo bidness. And there’s beautiful women everywhere you go. It’s that vibe and energy you putting out that makes or breaks that initial first contact. Women are emotional by nature so they feel what a guy is all about. That’s why having a good sense of humor and creativity on top of all this Brilliant Man has been preaching is a big Plus. I was in a really bad place until I discovered the Coach. Thanks 🙏 Man much appreciated. Coach Corey I couldn’t of done it without ya.

    • @onemoretime734
      @onemoretime734 2 года назад

      You're not James Bond, You struggle with your 4 girlfriend and you think you're James Bond? You're the type of guy to cry if she doesn't text back within 5 minutes. You're a psycho

  • @foryou1324
    @foryou1324 4 года назад +10

    Dam this is so good!
    A while ago some gorgeous chick came running into the train very close to where I was standing (right by the door).
    I saw her and immediately responded with "You have made it, well done"
    She gave me a smile and talked for 10 seconds before she went looking for a seat.
    I kept to where I was and when it got my stop I found out it was her's as well. I didn't say anything except looking at her walking towards the exit (again, right where I stand).
    She started chatting and talking and laughing a lot.
    It was so freaking casual just as you describe here..
    She is taken though :p (I figured that out after asking her out)
    She since gives me a big hug every morning and seems very happy whenever I see her.

  • @larrygraves3913
    @larrygraves3913 5 лет назад +26

    You know you watch a lot of his videos when you notice this particular background lol.

  • @Mr.SP78
    @Mr.SP78 5 лет назад +14

    This stuff works best with the women you see either every day or from time to time, like in your neighborhood, the gym, or at the job. Facts!

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +25

    You're obviously new here. Practicing safe sex is a given. I have over 1200 videos and can not repeat everything in every video. How about a little common sense? Be smart if you're going to get some pink taco and wear a raincoat ;)

  • @siulong1394
    @siulong1394 Год назад +4

    I should learn this skill

  • @jirenuniverse116
    @jirenuniverse116 6 лет назад +9

    Hahaha, I'm envious of you guys, in Asia or at least in China, it's hard to communicate to random women, because they are too shy and most of the time it will create awkward moments, but I use your approach anyways. I found that most restaurants' owners nearby my school recognize me, they sometimes even give me extra foods or discounts. Great job dude!

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +39

    In my stateroom on my Dad's Yacht in an undisclosed location for the weekend :)

  • @frankies1245
    @frankies1245 10 лет назад +9

    Just ordered your paperback book! Read it once on the website. But I swear I just want that book anywhere I go! Many True wise words are in there!

  • @ronaldclark3620
    @ronaldclark3620 11 лет назад +12

    Agreed with Coach on this one. This man talks about safe sex on a VERY regular basis. He constantly refers to "strapping on the rain coat" in his videos and stresses that point.
    Awesome videos Corey and keep up the good work!

  • @martinunander5074
    @martinunander5074 9 лет назад +5

    You are awesome Coach CW :D
    Thanks to you I found out that my problem really wasnt finding "the right one". It was I who wasnt in balance. Now I can´t get 15 m without girls bumping into me, flirting, smiling etc. You teach really powerfull stuff. Thank you

  • @Yndiax
    @Yndiax 9 лет назад +117

    WHERE'S THE BLAZER

  • @fereyal
    @fereyal 4 месяца назад +1

    Coach Corey, I love your channel, content, and yourself as you seem like a really sincere person. This is a serious question, how do you keep your channel monetized when you use 'F-word'? My friend's channel got demonetized for using the 'F-word' ONCE! She completely got out of RUclips because of that 😞

  • @doggpound9319
    @doggpound9319 2 года назад +3

    It's like that Drake & Josh episode where Josh gives the girl a compliment and walks away and she chases after him lol

  • @brianhoule3219
    @brianhoule3219 4 года назад +5

    Don't expend energy on things you can't control!

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +3

    Thanks. I'll do my best to continue to come up with easy things you can do to enhance success in all areas of your life :)

    • @curtisjackson6558
      @curtisjackson6558 5 лет назад

      Coach I got a question? Ok so I messed up by being a nice guy with this chick. I lead with my money and we got into an argument about me talking bout work all the time. She pulled away and I let her stay away for bout a week then I text her and we got into a heated argument via text. After my last text she never responded back. Now I've created tension is that a sign she will never communicate with me again? How can I win her back?

  • @Cutlerypotato
    @Cutlerypotato 3 года назад +4

    What I want to know is, where is this grocery store with all the babes?

  • @wulfclaw4921
    @wulfclaw4921 4 года назад +1

    Coach Corey, You left out the part where the blonde had 5 o clock shadow ! hahahaha
    Just kiddin.
    Thanks for the invaluable advice !
    Just amazing how your principles work!!
    All the best to you, brother,
    Wulfy

  • @joeb5578
    @joeb5578 5 лет назад +1

    That's funny. I do that all the time. Seriously. I see this female dermatologist every once in a while, at the doctor's office, and just start saying whatever and she stands with this ear to ear grin wondering what I'm going to say next. I enjoy the heck out of it. It's a lot of fun and I don't stutter when I'm talking. She's a knockout too. :)

  • @WorkoutMixWorld
    @WorkoutMixWorld 11 лет назад +4

    you deserve more views man.

  • @matfromleeds1517
    @matfromleeds1517 10 лет назад +4

    Corey your a genius, it works like clockwork this shit

  • @jessejames5081
    @jessejames5081 2 года назад +2

    You really should do a lot more videos like this one.

  • @john-oh9cr
    @john-oh9cr 5 лет назад +1

    I got your book how to be a 3% man today . I'm almost done with the first part .

  • @charles2241
    @charles2241 Год назад +3

    That was amusing the girl battle story. I have a similar one. I had been working at my first job, fast food, for some time, and I was a leader closing on nights. Actually, I was doing more than leading, I was also training people who had never before led, (like me) to lead, and be in charge on their own. One of those was a girl that coincidentally lived like a block away. If she hadn't I probably never would have asked her out, but we got along pretty well, and she was pretty attractive, and I had never asked a girl out before, so I thought this was my chance to get started. This had to be the worst date ever, and yet she really must've had more hots for me than I knew, for she went along with it. The date was attending a leadership meeting the franchise had behind one of the stores. Yeah, big whoop. But this was more one of those sorts of preliminary dates, that I didn't regard as a date, and, of course, I never called it a date.
    I won't go into everything that happened, but within sixty seconds of the meeting being over and us walking into the store to eat, she already proved to me there wouldn't be a second date. The hilarious thing, is I'm sure I was well known as not dating any of the girls, and pretty darn indifferent to all of them, other than just being their boss at night. This really showed when we came to make our order, she was hanging on my arm (that move actually surprised me), and my manager happened to be taking orders right then, and you should have seen his jaw drop when he saw me with a girl on my arm, and he knew us both, adding to the surprise.
    We get our order and proceed to go sit down. As we looked about, we spotted a fellow girl employee taking her lunch. I hadn't seen that girl in some time, but she very definitely had hots for me in the past, but I didn't really have any for her, but I LOVED her eyes. This girl then asked us to eat with her, and both of us did. Within fifteen seconds, the other girl springs up, gets between two supporting pillars just a little bit away from where she sat, and lowered her voice to call me over😆. She kept lowering her voice, to draw me out further. What did she want? She wanted me to escort her to the outside restroom! I could barely hear her, and to indicate that, I kept raising my voice. I declined of course, and I'm not too sure what she did after that. This was like at 2pm in a very safe city and getting to that restroom was super easy. Interestingly enough, she never asked me to do that when I was working at her store, and she didn't think of asking the guys working to do that; just me, just then. That situation puzzled me for years, but I finally figured it out.
    When I had a girl on my arm, it signified to her I was dating, so she went right to work. She lowered her voice because she didn't want my date to hear, but I think the date could make it out anyway, because I was raising my voice, to get her to raise hers. Also, this other girl did it in that particular spot, because she then could hide from my date seeing her as she tried to pull this stunt. Yeah, it was a one-sided cat fight right there. I have no idea what romantic rudeness she might have had in store for me if I escorted her, and I never heard from her again.
    That's not the end of the story, however. Recall my manager dropping his jaw? Within a week, he was trying to set me up VERY obviously with his daugther, and she was super-hot even for a 14yo or whatever she was, but she was really young and quite slutty, and my being 19-20, NO WAY. I had no idea asking one girl out on the crummiest date ever, would cause such a chain reaction!

  • @checkreality1
    @checkreality1 11 лет назад +4

    6:10 The grocery store story is a great lesson in breaking rapport at a high point with women. After breaking the ice by being friendly, you demonstrate that you're not needy when you don't actively pursue her, you instead go about your business and she'll at least be intrigued.

  • @AdoubleCMusic
    @AdoubleCMusic 7 лет назад +7

    Hey, how are you? Hey, where ya from? Anything friendly works the best. Honestly, talking to a stranger like a friend works the best. Just pretend you already know them. Nice vid.

    • @evka24
      @evka24 4 года назад

      Don't like that! I prefer to be asked about something

  • @damianu3871
    @damianu3871 2 года назад +1

    I was ones at the gym, and I saw this young woman in her 20’s texting on her phone in one of the other stations, right next to the leg press machine. And I noticed it had some weights already, I don’t like to be rude to people, and jump right in. Maybe someone is already using it. And they went to use the restroom or something. So I usually ask around first. So she’s the only person around. And I get close to her and wave at her. She looks up, and she immediately started to evaluating me. Why did he approached me, look on her face. So I asked her, is anyone using that leg press machine? Her response: I haven’t seen anyone around, using it. And I said ok thanks. 5 minutes later she moves to this other station on the left back behind me. And I noticed her in the wall mirrors, looking towards me. Asking her self, why did he approached me earlier look. She was totally confused.

  • @Clnt874
    @Clnt874 6 лет назад +37

    are you filming in a submarine

  • @Hotshotter3000
    @Hotshotter3000 9 лет назад +5

    My biggest problem is that I have no approach anxiety and I really don't care, but I still would have a hard time with dating because I come off too strong and direct. I need very specific help.

    • @Hotshotter3000
      @Hotshotter3000 8 лет назад +1

      Thanks. Now I have a different problem, and I actually need dating coaches up front and personal.

  • @raymason3580
    @raymason3580 7 лет назад +17

    Corey you told this same story 3 years ago

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +3

    All in time

  • @senpaiasmr3889
    @senpaiasmr3889 6 лет назад +1

    AHhaha you spammed so many comments I feel annoyed and creeped out. Nice example. But I stayed cause every word is pure gold.^^

  • @evolvetravel1
    @evolvetravel1 3 года назад

    Yes- we should chat to our fellow humans more in general. "Hey, how are ya?" light n' cute- you never know where it may lead ;)

  • @Ptrgrffn1
    @Ptrgrffn1 10 лет назад +17

    reminds me of that drake and josh episode

    • @Ptrgrffn1
      @Ptrgrffn1 9 лет назад +5

      Lmao the one where the mom helps Josh pick up chicks

    • @butskiiueepp1625
      @butskiiueepp1625 7 лет назад +1

      Holy shit I thought the same thing lmao

    • @Robsparks413
      @Robsparks413 5 лет назад

      Lmao Link

  • @noseefood1943
    @noseefood1943 3 года назад +1

    One who cares the least wins

  • @shortnik11
    @shortnik11 9 лет назад +3

    Alright then, I'll try it.

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +3

    Sure thing :)

  • @Lewisevans1618
    @Lewisevans1618 9 лет назад +67

    Corey you look like you're in a caravan

  • @ronaldclark3620
    @ronaldclark3620 11 лет назад

    It's in the book... Almost every question asked on this channel is answered in the book.

  • @user-iq4lc3sd5x
    @user-iq4lc3sd5x 6 месяцев назад

    Gold

  • @christianlopez9978
    @christianlopez9978 5 лет назад +2

    What if you don’t know what you want nor what your dreams are. What if you don’t even know how to find what you really want??? The struggle is real men..

    • @lightning3865
      @lightning3865 3 года назад

      follow your heart, do what makes you feel happy and embrace your freedom and independence to do whatever you want in your life. span those wings caged bird 🤧

  • @ekedini
    @ekedini 4 года назад

    wow.... i want to be this lucky with women. Great advice bro

  • @cheeple
    @cheeple 10 лет назад +7

    5:00 you said something very interesting you mentioned going on your dads boat, that tells me you had and still have a strong father figure, thats where your confidence comes from, it's really hard to function in this world when your parents were never or around, or if they were they just dont like you anymore.

    • @griim0wnz
      @griim0wnz 10 лет назад +26

      If you read the book you will find that Corey didn't actually have the best family life growing up. He developed his skills overtime through research and practice.

    • @TheoLonghair
      @TheoLonghair 6 лет назад

      VSOmedicNEWS channel true that

    • @dnzwill
      @dnzwill 3 года назад

      @@griim0wnz that’s not the point they were trying to make.

  • @godiskungen27
    @godiskungen27 9 лет назад +1

    You talked to those girls when you picking up beer I totally agree with u I shared a electric socket outlet with two girls at a coffee shop I offered one of them one outlet just Said u can take the other one then went on with My work at the computer well long story short I had them both same night Well I think talking about regular things really can take a man far cause u are being honest and no bullshit pickup lines Like youre advices they really work sorry for My bad English from Sweden

  • @2Fa2Bu
    @2Fa2Bu 9 лет назад +2

    i really like your advices dude

  • @yvonne3745
    @yvonne3745 5 лет назад +2

    Also I hardly give eye contact too much if it's a girl

  • @christinecarrington3746
    @christinecarrington3746 3 года назад +1

    Investment. You have yo show you're worth the investment and also that you care, if you act like you don't care at all, I'm out. I dont have time for a man that doesn't want what I want.

  • @ulisesjuarez6910
    @ulisesjuarez6910 8 лет назад +4

    coach my wife left me about a month now, I've been trying to apply the NC for only a week now, it would be almost a month but I messed up the first 2 weeks (usually needy guy) any way, this the second time while trying to make a conversation with her and ask how was her weekend this is the second time she tells me what she did but with a little extra details, such as yeah I went out and this guy was hitting on me but I didn't pay attention, and yeah it was fun but I had to baby sit because my friend always wants to sleep with guys when she's drunk, what is that mean? hidden message? or just going with the conversation? although I can tell she still a tense and not ready for the whole let's try again. anyone out there has an opinion?

  • @SK-zm8iu
    @SK-zm8iu 4 года назад

    Hahah man when you played with your hair as a blonde girl, it cracked me upp!!

  • @MarshallSmith27
    @MarshallSmith27 5 лет назад +1

    Me and my ex broke up two months ago and she’s refused to talk to me the one or two times I’ve tried to talk to her. so within the last three or four days mentally I just said fuck it it’s a waste of my time to even try. if she comes back around or i never see her again it’s whatever. so today I had a job interview and she was the other person being interviewed also along with two other people. what are the chances of that lol! 😂 I mean she did not want to talk to me but I saw her looking at me every once in a while. everyone I’m serious when you finally just say fuck it it’s like the universe hears you. I mean she may have not wanted to talk this time but if I ran into her today not thinking I would ever see her again. why would I not see her again in the future? the gist is once you start feeling like you again everything will start to realign in your life. sure it won’t happen in one meeting or seeing her or him just once. maybe they need to see you that one time that gets them thinking about you again I looked fantastic today I had multiple people tell me how good I looked even the other girl in the interview was trying to talk me up. BE YOURSELF!!! COREY KNOWS!!! as soon as you become yourself again you will attract them back or someone even better because you won’t be hholding onto the fact waiting for your ex. your ex doesn’t want you waiting on them anyway that’s on attractive

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад

    Thank you Sir

  • @raymason3580
    @raymason3580 7 лет назад

    you told that story too. and i Love your stuff

  • @komphatak3395
    @komphatak3395 4 года назад

    I really liked your book, how to be 3 percent man :-)

  • @mayanksj
    @mayanksj 6 лет назад +3

    Hi Corey, I have stopped initiating any contact with a girl who was initially very responsive but went cold lately. I did not ping her since approx 10 days or so. It's her birthday, shall I call her or let it be ?

    • @AARONH85
      @AARONH85 4 года назад +1

      Mayank Jaiswal no

  • @llucaslayerr
    @llucaslayerr 10 лет назад +1

    wot is this fire burning on the tv

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад

    Thanks :)

  • @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG
    @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG 6 лет назад +1

    LEGEND

  • @NEONOIRERA
    @NEONOIRERA 10 лет назад +17

    Coach corey how do you handle a woman who has borderline/narcissist personality disorder?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  10 лет назад +236

      run like hell and never look back. find a healthy woman.

    • @greglyons2526
      @greglyons2526 9 лет назад +10

      I have just broken up with someone like that who made my life a fucking misery over 2 years,left me 6 times but now its never again.I look forward to the future without her and am looking forward to meeting the next girl.

    • @greglyons2526
      @greglyons2526 9 лет назад +14

      And dont ever ignore red flags just on account of how physically attractive a person is.I did and paid a price.

    • @greglyons2526
      @greglyons2526 9 лет назад

      Hi Todd hanks for the vote of confidence.My relationship was a roller coaster,to give an example she once broke up with me when I just came out of hospital because I only had my bank card with me and couldnt buy her a drink,if that isnt a lack of empathy then I dont know what is.Wanted to go to a place that took mastercard to buy her a drink so that I could thank her for translating for me as I live abroad,but she wrangled it in such a way that we ended going to a place that didnt take the bloody thing,so then she got her excuse to hurt me and did by ending it.a sick fuck who has been self harming for the last 25 years.Probably she is borderline,but I cant be sure due to the fact that I am not a professional,but she was hot as Dantes inferno and honeytrapped me with that thing between her legs.A lot of guys fall for this,but its funny that when you go through it you come out feeling that you are the crazy one,smarting dep down from feelings of shame.Roll on the next girl,but this time I will keep an emotional distance for a while.And your ex what did she do?

    • @andrewactionstudios6540
      @andrewactionstudios6540 9 лет назад

      +Firebomb1987 I absolutely love this comment

  • @MrVman202
    @MrVman202 8 лет назад +2

    This is powerful

  • @KEVINMCSE
    @KEVINMCSE 9 лет назад +1

    Hi Corey Wayne,
    My name is Kevin 41 years old and been watching your videos and reading your book and not finished yet but you are 100% and it does take time as well. Now I live in New York City and a lot of woman are guarded and have her hands and arm completely crossed and they don't want to open up at all.
    I have ADD and ADHD and had to prove myself and get established in my IT Career as a Networking Career and doing great regarding being independent and financial ready but scared to talk to woman and because I've got this disability feel woman honestly wont see me as more than just a nice guy in general.
    my sister and other people say that I should only go for people that have disabilities and for me not going to settle for less and feel I am good enough to get an attractive normal successful lady indeed. How do I explain to a lady about my disability is positive way so I will be boyfriend material for her and not just a boring nice guy?
    Regards,
    Kevin

    • @3PCTManOrBust
      @3PCTManOrBust 6 месяцев назад

      Try to use your disability as a positive and catalyst for attraction. For example if you have one leg, tell her “you take my breath and one of my legs away.”

  • @mioqlassact7653
    @mioqlassact7653 9 лет назад +11

    Haha, can it be that you just thought that the blonde girl was trying to get your attention, with your legend in your own mind mindset?
    I mean, the things you describe here is just your own interpretations.
    The whole story is just about you chatting with two girls in a store, it is not like any of them showed any interest? Just because the brunette was standing in line, she had to be friendly with you. Cause I mean, anyone can have a friendly chat with a girl in a que, its not like you ended up f:ing her right? So whats the story?
    No hate, man, I just had to mention the simple facts :)
    Keep dooing what you're doing.

    • @xxxfirehuunterxxx
      @xxxfirehuunterxxx 5 лет назад +2

      You sound insecure due to your overanalysimg. What works works.

  • @llucaslayerr
    @llucaslayerr 10 лет назад +1

    funny thing.... i was at church last night and i am not a christian but is crazy to listen to what they say... complete the oposite the lamb's vibe is a complete turn off

  • @realisticflow9
    @realisticflow9 3 года назад

    Does this applies to married couples also? I think in marriage it isn't like this.

  • @WTFisadeeto
    @WTFisadeeto 9 лет назад +2

    I normally don't watch these types of videos nor care of the advice given but i am in a weird situation
    How can i put it....im an 18 year old kid who tends to put random woman off 30-40 years plus in an uncomfortable manner and they do it as well vice verca
    I have to interact with alot of these woman and violence tends to escelate from both our sides

  • @lynnmelo
    @lynnmelo 7 лет назад

    Do these principles be apply to other type of relationships (friendships, family, etc.) from both sex?

  • @RealityHurts2024
    @RealityHurts2024 3 года назад +1

    A fucking legend 👏

  • @TuanCoaching1
    @TuanCoaching1 4 года назад

    a real man.

  • @abneraguilera1174
    @abneraguilera1174 3 года назад

    Legendary grocery tales 😆
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    Coach: *never sees this* 😅

  • @awu25
    @awu25 11 лет назад

    I have a girl that canceled on me 4 times. First time she was sick. 2nd time step on a nail. 3rd time got into car accident on her way to our date, 4th time because she woke up with sore neck from her accident. Each time she offered to reschedule, last time says she will try to squeeze in her full schedule but can’t guarantee before her trip, I said let’s wait until she has time. Should I tell her to use emails only to set dates(no more long emails) and let her suggest next date?

  • @alex2oonup
    @alex2oonup 11 лет назад

    new background?... working on new book or something? since you said you go to hotels to concentrate.

  • @tanushkapetrovna4871
    @tanushkapetrovna4871 2 года назад

    I am a very attractive woman and I am watching this video to make sure I will not be wasting my time on creeps like that.

  • @joshmorrell2318
    @joshmorrell2318 4 года назад

    This seems a bit paradoxical. How can you be indifferent and still pursue an interest? I get signs of attraction all the time by being indifferent (if they’re out of my league why should I be interested?). It might feel good to my ego to have lots of girls look at me and to imagine that I could have them, but if that’s all their attraction amounts to, what’s the point? If your indifference is the cause of their attraction, then you can’t show any practical interest leading to further encounters (or physical escalation) and remain attractive to them.
    What’s the workaround here? At a grocery store the encounter is so fleeting that you’d have to quickly shift to a more active approach if you wanted to secure a correspondence and connection, right?

    • @ericwimer4067
      @ericwimer4067 4 года назад +2

      Josh Morrell the goal is a low risk way to screen whose interested and who isn’t. You say a line or two and those that like you will out themselves into your orbit. From there you can decide to get a number and/or set a date.

    • @Orgizo08
      @Orgizo08 4 года назад

      Eric Wimer 📠

  • @fenwaypark4754
    @fenwaypark4754 4 года назад

    Corey, tbh so far all the stuff I've heard you say makes perfect sense, but this frog analogy confuses me 😂

  • @rachelwest2571
    @rachelwest2571 6 лет назад +1

    Do these principles work for women as well?

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 8 лет назад +5

    I just assume every man who talks to me likes me.

    • @barakas49
      @barakas49 8 лет назад +11

      Not true. Sometimes it is just conversation and somebody to talk to. I talk to women all the time that I have absolutely ZERO interest in. When you are out and about sometimes you talk to people. Of course I talk to ones I am interested in too.

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 3 года назад

    This video is so good! Everytime i imagine myself in similar situations rsrsrsrs

  • @sonoftheabundantuniverse2552
    @sonoftheabundantuniverse2552 6 лет назад +2

    Don’t fap you’re fine.

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 4 года назад

    Turn 360 degrees and walk away

  • @michaelvelazquez1382
    @michaelvelazquez1382 Год назад

    What if she is pme of those females but you didn't she was but she is one of those feminist
    My encounter with one was i complimented her on her Dress which had flowers and all i said was "Sunflowers are lovely. do you like sunflowers"?
    i got back was "WHO GAVE YOU PERMISSION TO TALK TO ME....WHY ARE YOU HARRASING ME....WHATS YOUR NAME...INFORMATION!?

  • @miguelsantos84
    @miguelsantos84 6 лет назад

    What if she doesn't look at you but she bites her lip a lot?

    • @evka24
      @evka24 4 года назад

      She is very shy and very likely fancy u

  • @patrickschreiber6067
    @patrickschreiber6067 4 года назад

    I watched a Lot of coreys Videos years ago.
    I just fucked up a Chance with a girl I really liked. I said something really stupid to her, then it was over for her. She said we could be friends lol. For some reason i did not recognize that it was the end. We kept on talking bla bla. Instead of just saying:" friends doesn't work for me. Sorry for what i said. Did Not mean it. Call me if you Change your mind."
    I could bite myself in the ass

  • @blackmumbat20
    @blackmumbat20 8 лет назад +4

    So this guy only speaks about sexual attraction? :/ I was hoping for something bigger.

    • @aidanbailey6337
      @aidanbailey6337 8 лет назад +9

      Sexual attraction is first, and foremost in the beginning. (His book and other videos/materials address the long-term, relationship fundamentals.)

    • @skalatajoro873
      @skalatajoro873 8 лет назад

      Eqaulity..he want that..why man shouold alwways initiate everything? Why should women most of the time reject ? Why....I'm sorry it's not fair and I will be from the men that will fight against that. It's not normal , it's totally unfair...Man chase woman, never again..and with the time woman will understand that they're not the prize and they need to calm down and to stop thinking and living on another planet

    • @omgmrtea
      @omgmrtea 8 лет назад

      hahahahaha

    • @grandoldsoul4691
      @grandoldsoul4691 8 лет назад +5

      read the book

    • @conqururfear
      @conqururfear 3 года назад

      Fitsum Abera ye he sux, way 2 slow

  • @MrTheLionKing1986
    @MrTheLionKing1986 11 лет назад +1

    I think this is generalistic. There's people who like to chase and people who like to be preys, dont you think coach>? :)