A common theme among men with this issue is that they are not pursuing their goals but instead are pursuing the women. No man that has a purpose has the free time to spend 5 days in a row with a woman or multiple women.
Letting women come to you at their own pace is a game changer. In the past, I always did the opposite, and now that I follow what Coach has taught, I get tons of free attention from everyone. Especially the ladies! Thanks Coach!
yes. bro i literally worked the principal 'women are like cats', and now my main girl is the one telling me when she can come over, is asking me to call her, texting me, she wants my attention, and is asking what im doing when im not with her. time and space in the begining was key. thanks coach. much love to yall, yall got this
Thank you for the video, reading your book 13 times has been life changing. I went from flunking out of nursing school and being extremely depressed and having also dealt with a breakup and money problems, to finding a new girl (married now and still happy) got very physically fit and went back to school and finished my BS in business and now I’m finishing up my MBA and MS in economics. Thank you coach for your work, I’ve been truly blessed to find your work and I appreciate you sharing this with the world.
Great advice as usual. But man have times changed. I remember back in the 80's, when i was in my 20's, women loved it when you pursued and was chivalrous. That turned them on because they felt good and special being wanted by a man. Now we have to cater and walk on egg shells for todays women, so we dont upset them. Thats why im back to dating cougars. They are old school and love chivalrous men. 😊
unfortunately there are women that lose interest no matter what. You can be the perfect guy and they can still get bored. They might be a 304 and if they are, it wont matter. Coach's stuff works for "normal" chicks. But the vetting is the most important part of all of it.
Hi Coach, just like you I came from a dysfunctional home. It took lots of personal development and your work for my situation to turn around. I can attest how a dysfunctional home can affect children
This is true but I learned how to remove mine even when I see her 5 days a week so she has to earn it even if we see one other every day. There is a balance you need to follow so you are few steps behind always. With the one I see 2 days in a row of not seeing her drives her to be so shy, unsure and nervous but she’s getting more comfortable after 9 months because I don’t just give her what she wants everytime. She is the type that can talk to anyone otherwise.
Am I the only one who has the opposite problem? Women naturally like me and want my attention. I now have a girlfriend and end up wanting space sometimes more than she wants. I need to create boundaries and focus on my mission and purpose first and foremost.
just be Masculine and a loving partner thats all. And back in the day Women weren't able to meet new guys as frequent as nowadays especially through social media and co
Back in the day men were naturally less available. They had to go out and work the fields, fight wars, etc. Now with technology women have instant access to men. It works against us.
No. You haven’t practiced enough. Once you’ve done it for long enough, everything you do will feel natural to you and you won’t have to analyse anything.
Thats true but don't forget the world has changed alot since our great grandparents where here...if u want to be successful in long term relationships you will have to keep on applying the principles daily
Bjj is a great way to stay in shape and stay on your edge. More fun than the gym in my experience and the class schedule is sure to challenge you at your local dojo. Learning to fight is a huge confidence boost.
@@jeremys3418 I totally get that. There's a bunch of guys at my gym who joined at 50+. Pick good training partners, tap early and go at your own pace. The first year is a crucible and a huge lesson in humility as well as conditioning. There's a big cerebral component to it and lots of lessons that you learn on the mats that carry over into other realms of your life. You will get very toned, shed weight quickly and toughen up on a way that you've never quite experienced. I'm stoked for you! Do it!
know men 45-65 in my gym that are spry and far more skilled than me. ease into it depending on your fitness level and after a few months you'll notice change.
To be ex wife of mine went in a relationship with another man cuz I turned her into my mommy I struggled for 2 years she stayed with me and constantly argued and bitch at me then she reached her limit then left me while we're still married 😢😢😢
Hi Corey. Can you consider a similar topic regarding one's relationship with one's kids. In other words, what if your kids are taking you for grant it. Perhaps they didn't have the absolute best relationship with their kids but now as their older how to find that sweet spot with kids that show you lack of respect. In other words, if kids don't value your time as they get into late teenage or young adulthood, can you use the same principles involving spending time with people that don't want to spend time with you. Thank you for all your material.
My gf treated me out for a whole weekend. She even wanted to cook me dinner the next night. She texted me and I asked what time we're having dinner and she ignored me. Soft ghosted for 3 weeks now...
@@diswazzi1683 She flaked 2 times in a row due to unfortunate circumstances and we hung out the whole weekend and she did thoughtful things for me and paid for everything.
Don’t. Let her do the pursuing. I tried and thought about applying it, but it isn’t even worth it. Just let her do the majority of the pursuing. If she is avoidant, be prepared for nothing than an intimate message. The rules work the same though no matter the style, I use the theory to just gauge how much I actually have to put in
I can tell that Corey is sick of this shit, he want a women to just be loyal and live him no matter what he does, he wants to let himself go and stop being competitive and be lived no matter what, no matter if another man looks at his girl because she'll only.stsy with him and visa versa. Nobody wants to be a player and have to watch behind his back if he's slipping. Dating is ment to land a women that will stay no matter what.
alright seems "worthless sex object" is how they want to be treated. "women" aren't objects their people. nope, sex must be meaningless to them . therefore you should never lower your guard
Why should women have to "earn' attention from the man that loves her and vise versa? If it happens like that, there not for me. Def not taking this advice.
If you're successful, busy, and don't have time to waste. Everyone will have to earn your time naturally. It's not a game, you just value your own time and people earn the time you give them, including your partner. If you don't have anything going on and are constantly available and showering them with attention they will take you for granted and lose attraction. It's just what happens. His quote was perfect "When people have to earn your time and attention they will value you more." His principles work. Read the book 10-15x and watch.
A common theme among men with this issue is that they are not pursuing their goals but instead are pursuing the women. No man that has a purpose has the free time to spend 5 days in a row with a woman or multiple women.
Letting women come to you at their own pace is a game changer. In the past, I always did the opposite, and now that I follow what Coach has taught, I get tons of free attention from everyone. Especially the ladies! Thanks Coach!
yes. bro i literally worked the principal 'women are like cats', and now my main girl is the one telling me when she can come over, is asking me to call her, texting me, she wants my attention, and is asking what im doing when im not with her. time and space in the begining was key. thanks coach. much love to yall, yall got this
Is that because ultimately it’s the woman who is in more of a ‘choosing’ position than the man?
What are some good tips for that? I know I have had similar experiences like you in that regard
@@maxriley3888 Millions of years of evolution is really why they are like that.
Learn to be alone learn to enjoy your own company over anyone
This guy changed my life.
Coach Corey I went from a single men to someone that girl drive 280 miles to just see me
Thank you coach Corey ❤
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Coach Corey is living proof you can go through your entire life saying "Happy Valentimes Day" and still get the cookie.
You cannot live off of cookies
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More long term relationship topics coach!
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It's in the book...
Thank you for the video, reading your book 13 times has been life changing. I went from flunking out of nursing school and being extremely depressed and having also dealt with a breakup and money problems, to finding a new girl (married now and still happy) got very physically fit and went back to school and finished my BS in business and now I’m finishing up my MBA and MS in economics. Thank you coach for your work, I’ve been truly blessed to find your work and I appreciate you sharing this with the world.
Great advice as usual. But man have times changed. I remember back in the 80's, when i was in my 20's, women loved it when you pursued and was chivalrous. That turned them on because they felt good and special being wanted by a man. Now we have to cater and walk on egg shells for todays women, so we dont upset them. Thats why im back to dating cougars. They are old school and love chivalrous men. 😊
Act however you want. If you're a guy on his purpose you will be fit, respected and successful so she will conform to you.
Never compromise on your physical fitness. That is the beginning of the end
why?
@@rolersch7332disciple and resolve
unfortunately there are women that lose interest no matter what. You can be the perfect guy and they can still get bored. They might be a 304 and if they are, it wont matter. Coach's stuff works for "normal" chicks. But the vetting is the most important part of all of it.
He explains that those kind of chicks make better "playmates" than partners so don’t bother trying to form a relationship with them
Hi Coach, just like you I came from a dysfunctional home. It took lots of personal development and your work for my situation to turn around. I can attest how a dysfunctional home can affect children
This is true but I learned how to remove mine even when I see her 5 days a week so she has to earn it even if we see one other every day. There is a balance you need to follow so you are few steps behind always. With the one I see 2 days in a row of not seeing her drives her to be so shy, unsure and nervous but she’s getting more comfortable after 9 months because I don’t just give her what she wants everytime. She is the type that can talk to anyone otherwise.
Any advice for long term relations?
Am I the only one who has the opposite problem? Women naturally like me and want my attention. I now have a girlfriend and end up wanting space sometimes more than she wants. I need to create boundaries and focus on my mission and purpose first and foremost.
This is crazy we have to analyze every little stupid thing in dating and relationships. Our great grandparents are laughing at us
just be Masculine and a loving partner thats all. And back in the day Women weren't able to meet new guys as frequent as nowadays especially through social media and co
Back in the day men were naturally less available. They had to go out and work the fields, fight wars, etc. Now with technology women have instant access to men. It works against us.
No. You haven’t practiced enough. Once you’ve done it for long enough, everything you do will feel natural to you and you won’t have to analyse anything.
Thats true but don't forget the world has changed alot since our great grandparents where here...if u want to be successful in long term relationships you will have to keep on applying the principles daily
You don't have to analyze anything unless you're doing something wrong, Corey just teaches how to be the men we're supposed to be
Thanks!
Bjj is a great way to stay in shape and stay on your edge. More fun than the gym in my experience and the class schedule is sure to challenge you at your local dojo. Learning to fight is a huge confidence boost.
I am 45 and thought about joining my local school but im worried about getting sprains, dislocated joints etc at my age
@@jeremys3418 I totally get that. There's a bunch of guys at my gym who joined at 50+. Pick good training partners, tap early and go at your own pace. The first year is a crucible and a huge lesson in humility as well as conditioning. There's a big cerebral component to it and lots of lessons that you learn on the mats that carry over into other realms of your life. You will get very toned, shed weight quickly and toughen up on a way that you've never quite experienced. I'm stoked for you! Do it!
hell yah
know men 45-65 in my gym that are spry and far more skilled than me. ease into it depending on your fitness level and after a few months you'll notice change.
@@jeremys3418^
This dude is 53? No way! more like 33! Coach preaching drama free relationships shows, he knows, what he's talking about!
Damn Corey you're amazing.
I'm so happy I saw this video today.
Thanks for putting this out.
I can't believe we are reduced to playing head games to trick women into instinctually falling for us.
You can either learn how to be successful
Or enjoy the fruits of failing. Pick.
To be ex wife of mine went in a relationship with another man cuz I turned her into my mommy I struggled for 2 years she stayed with me and constantly argued and bitch at me then she reached her limit then left me while we're still married 😢😢😢
learn from it and dont be a pussy next time
I understand. But at least you know why now and correct the behavior going forward with another eventually.
I apply his rule ‘hang out have fun hook up’… nothing else. Pull the ripcord every 3-6 months. Repeat.
You clearly haven't found somebody who really does it for you.
Hi Corey. Can you consider a similar topic regarding one's relationship with one's kids. In other words, what if your kids are taking you for grant it. Perhaps they didn't have the absolute best relationship with their kids but now as their older how to find that sweet spot with kids that show you lack of respect. In other words, if kids don't value your time as they get into late teenage or young adulthood, can you use the same principles involving spending time with people that don't want to spend time with you. Thank you for all your material.
This!
I thought all kids do that in late teens - individuation
Let them fly from the coop!
Thanks Corey
Thanks coach
You are a good coach
My gf treated me out for a whole weekend. She even wanted to cook me dinner the next night. She texted me and I asked what time we're having dinner and she ignored me. Soft ghosted for 3 weeks now...
Thats not fucking good man. How long you dating for? Getting ghosted bu gour gf for 3 weeks is not good remotely nor is it healthy
Your gf? That is not a girlfriend
that was her giving you a goodbye treat so she wouldn't feel as bad, either that or she's fucking dead bro
@@ApostleThe344 She's bipolar and over 2 months. Like everything was her idea
@@diswazzi1683 She flaked 2 times in a row due to unfortunate circumstances and we hung out the whole weekend and she did thoughtful things for me and paid for everything.
15:54 That's true!
If you go off and do your own thing, does that not make the woman resent you for not hanging out with her? Or is that her being needy?
Gold
Does this apply to woman that have borderline personality disorder
So you saying you can’t make a crazy person fall in love with you ?
@@BackpieceNews no I'm not, you are saying that lol
Lmao 🤣 I was joking my G but have good one
@@BackpieceNews haha thanks man you too ☮️
Corey, what is your opinion on taking into account attachment styles within the dating game?
Don’t. Let her do the pursuing. I tried and thought about applying it, but it isn’t even worth it. Just let her do the majority of the pursuing. If she is avoidant, be prepared for nothing than an intimate message. The rules work the same though no matter the style, I use the theory to just gauge how much I actually have to put in
That intro threw me after watching thousands of your videos.
I can tell that Corey is sick of this shit, he want a women to just be loyal and live him no matter what he does, he wants to let himself go and stop being competitive and be lived no matter what, no matter if another man looks at his girl because she'll only.stsy with him and visa versa. Nobody wants to be a player and have to watch behind his back if he's slipping. Dating is ment to land a women that will stay no matter what.
True - but the market has fewer of those as you go along.
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3 time a week is so much more than enough imo...
Everything you said is just human behavior not female
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Changing the intro slightly coach? lmao
I love you coach❤🥹
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alright seems "worthless sex object" is how they want to be treated.
"women" aren't objects their people. nope, sex must be meaningless to them . therefore you should never lower your guard
Why should women have to "earn' attention from the man that loves her and vise versa? If it happens like that, there not for me. Def not taking this advice.
If you're successful, busy, and don't have time to waste. Everyone will have to earn your time naturally. It's not a game, you just value your own time and people earn the time you give them, including your partner. If you don't have anything going on and are constantly available and showering them with attention they will take you for granted and lose attraction. It's just what happens. His quote was perfect "When people have to earn your time and attention they will value you more." His principles work. Read the book 10-15x and watch.
Read my book Read my book Read my book
That is the key to your relational success
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It is.
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