I planned for years to retire early but I'm going back to work.
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- Опубликовано: 9 янв 2024
- Hi there, I'm Eileen. I worked super hard for years with the aim to retire early. For a long time, I dreamt about having total flexibility of my time and not having to do any small talks. Last year, I took the plunge and went on a break with no definite plan to return to the profession. At first, it was refreshing and energising, but things changed after 12 months. In this video, I talked about why I'm returning to work on a part time basis xx
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I totally get you, Eileen! I'm a software engineer and recently took my sabbatical, winter break, and spent a week sick with Covid. I basically stopped working for 2 months and it felt great at first... but over time I realized that the structure, purpose, and community provided by a job are really valuable. I went back to work this week and felt refreshed. I realized that I don't need to have 24 hours a day for myself and I'm actually happier with less free time, if that makes sense. It feels good to contribute to something outside of yourself.
This is really helpful, thank you so much for sharing xx
Most of us don't really want to quit working. We just want some time to recharge, like a week here and there... for some maybe a week every quarter, for some a whole month, for others a whole year.
That totally makes sense. I have a very demanding healthcare job and a few years ago I had to go on disability for a few months. Although it was nice not to go to work for a bit, I actually started getting depressed because in that small amount of time that I was off, I completely lost all sense of structure and routine. I was happy when I was well enough to get back to work. The hectic schedule just gets to be normal after a while and you find yourself depending on it. It’s crazy 🤪
I'm a software engineer too, and my only hesitation with doing something similar, besides it not being easy to be a "part-time software engineer", is that I want to be able to travel. AFAIK, even part-time jobs won't let you travel literally whenever you want. Even with my work's unlimited PTO, a certain percentage of my work year must be on the job...
@@vulpixelfulI'm a software engineer and have been thinking about consulting for maybe 8 months a year max. I'm a little hesitant now because of all of the tech layoffs. So, I may take this year to investigate.
I retired last year at 55 with 600k and moved to Mexico City. Best decision ever! Focusing on my health, self care and relationships.
if you're full of energy, don't you feel obligated to give some of that energy to society? typically that involves doing jobs for people (ie work) but do you have a way around that sense of obligation? or do you not have that feeling at all?
@@doodzy2The way you feel obligated to judge?
51 and at least ten years from retirement - but I’d love to live in Mexico City - been there many times (my wife is from Azcapotzalco). Best of luck!
A career which gives you a little bit of time and work-life balance costs you financial independence because it'll be low paying. Tough choices to make. Keep in mind, investing provides a jumpstart to financial freedom. At 34, I already have a $6m portfolio.
Everyone needs to hear this, you need to create your own process, manage risk and stick to the plan, thick or thin, while continually learning from mistakes and improving
Money advice is subjective, what works for you may not work for someone else, but it's always better to plan. I'm quite lucky to have been exposed to personal finance at an early age, started job at 19, bought first home 28, got laid-off work 36 amid covid-outbreak, and at once I consulted an advisor to handle growing my finance. As of today, I'm only 25% short of my $1m goal after subsequent investments.
Jessica Annabelle Rupp is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
Good luck to you Eileen. Before I married, I worked in a law firm as an attorney. After I got married, my husband and I knew we wanted kids so I seized the opportunity to go from private to government work, which gave me more time off and flexibility. Although I earned less, I was much happier. However, when I did have kids, I thought about quitting to be with them. I am so glad I did not. My husband was an equal partner with housework and child rearing so I was fortunate to be able to keep my career and be a working mom. Keeping my career meant that my kids had to be independent and problem solve on their own, because mom canʻt always be there to rescue them. They are now grown, financially independent young adults who love to spend time with their parents. I am so grateful. I did retire early at age 59 and is now spending time caring for my elderly mother and focusing on healthy activities such as yoga and dance, something I always enjoyed doing when I was young. I also make time for volunteer legal work, which I was not able to do while working. I feel fulfilled. I enjoy your channel and wish you the best with the next chapter.
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As a law student this is inspiring
Thank you for sharing this. My husband and I (53, 55) spent 30 years to be able to ‘retire’ on our passive income. 4 months in, I too resonate with what you are feeling and am now looking at going back to work 1 or 2 days a week. However, it is so nice to be able to ‘choose’ to do this, not feel pressured.
I’m a nuclear pharmacist and my schedule is very crazy. I flip flop from days to nights constantly. I’ve been doing this for 18 years full time. It’s exhausting, both mentally and physically. I can totally relate to the vicious cycle that you mentioned. I told myself, that when I pay off my mortgage(within 2-3 years) that maybe I’ll go part time or do something completely different. I’m just so tired 😞
I totally understand the exhaustion. The medical field can be so demanding, make sure to look after yourself xx
Sorry to hear this. That is awful.
I am 53 now and I retired at 46 when my dog got ill with Cushing’s disease. He had always come to work with me and it was impossible to leave him home alone. He is doing great on his medication but needs extra assistance due to neurological issues. However, I have never been as bored in my entire life going from working incredibly long hours, weekends and nights to having very little to fill each day. I think you’re making a good decision.
What an amazing pet parent you are! Wishing you dog continued health. I work from home and one of my dogs has been recently diagnosed with heart issues. I am blessed to be here to do the medication schedule. I do dream of just being home and just relaxing though..ha. I am sure after some time I would be looking for more.
Bless you
Thank you so much for sharing! Best wishes to you and your dog xx
The hours can be filled with activities other than work. Invite an acquaintance to meet up for coffee or lunch.
You could also just try a part time job working from home…Might help you reconnect ….
Thank you for being so open and honest. I can definitely relate. I have been at my job for 22.5 years (only professional job) and I am putting in my resignation tomorrow coincidentally. I have too saved for this moment. I am 46 and my husband has been retired for since the pandemic. I am a little scared, especially with healthcare in the US, but your situation really resonates with me. I know this is the break I need for my mental health. I hope I can be brave tomorrow and follow my heart.
You’ve worked hard so I hope you give yourself a little break at least. Best wishes to your family xx
Hi Eileen, I quit my job one year ago to focus on my family and self care. At first, I was struggling with my new identity as a homemaker. I was so afraid of others' judgment. After doing a lot of inner work, I am now truly embracing my role as homemaker. I see myself as someone who makes a home for my family... A home full of love, fun, and magic... To level up myself, I continue doing inner work, reading books, and taking courses on various subjects that interest me. Actually, I find folding laundry and washing dishes quite therapeutic. I enjoy trying out new recipes to cook for my family. (I just learned how to cook after I quit my job. I used to work long hours and spent hours to commute between work and home) Lately, I have been thinking about starting a business because i feel that might be something fun to do. I want to be self-employed so that I have complete control of my schedule. But I'm not in any rush to figure it all out. In the meantime, I'm just enjoying my journey... Best wishes to you and your family... ❤
Thank you so much for sharing! Totally rooting for you in setting up a small business. I’m fortunate to have a small channel- it keeps me occupied. I have a feeling I might have returned to the profession sooner if I didn’t have a project on hand xx
@ColourfulNoir Thank you, Eileen, for your gift of authenticity presented in this channel and your sharing of your journey... My current project is to beautify my home. Now that I put aside my managerial hat, I allow myself to reconnect to my girlie, feminine side. I am craving for beauty in all areas of my life and having fun exploring the art of homemaking 😊 Eileen, may you find your clarity and desires in life... ✨️
I've commented on your channel before suggesting part time work. I'm also a dentist ( orthodontist actually) and a mom. I started working part time after I had my third child and never looked back. I can attend all my kids school meeting, bring them to swim class, and generally be there for them when they were young. Now that my kids are all bigger, I'm slowing planning my next career move. Not that I want to work more clinical hours, but going into the educational route. I have always been taking good records for all my cases, and was invited to be an Invisalign Faculty member a few years ago. This is something that you may consider too. 🙂
That’s really exciting! Thank you for sharing xx
I resigned 9 months ago from a job that was negatively affecting my health. I have no regrets about doing this, and definitely needed the time to heal. I’ve done a language course during this period which was quite full on, but gave me some structure to my days. I’m thinking about returning to work, but will be quite intentional about where I choose to work. I ignored red flags during the interview process at my last job and suffered for doing this. Life is about evolving and I’m glad I’ve been able to take this sabbatical to heal and plan my next steps ❤
So happy for you xx
I’m 35 and took a break from teaching to be a stay at home mom when I had my baby. She is now in kindergarten and I am working as a substitute teacher part time. It’s a perfect balance for me because I get to volunteer in her classroom and also have time to clean and run errands during the day. I teach in her school and it’s lovely because the kids know me and I have fun teaching. I just get to go home and not worry about lesson planning and grading.
That’s so lovely! Thank you for sharing xx
I was hoping to do the same thing how lovely 😍🥰☺️
It’s such a great profession to be in when you have a young family isn’t it?! Enjoy
I am a writer and I identify 100% with what you said, Eileen! I got downsized out of my job last July. My husband and I are in our late 50s and, at first, we thought of this as a much-needed break for me. I'm introverted and cherish my alone time, too. But not "this" much of it! :)
I'm also concerned about our retirement/future savings. We're in a good position, but still, the "one more year" of working has its appeal. I'm definitely looking for part-time work, hopefully in my field. Stay tuned, because life is ever-evolving, right?!
Thank you for sharing! I’m a bit worried about being rusty but I hope all will be ok xx
I work in a position that doesn't require anywhere near the level of qualifications I have obtained. I choose to get out of the rat race because I realised that life is way too short to live under constant pressure. I choose life 😌
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I was a mechanical Engineer then a web developer. I retired at 62 and wish I'd done it earlier.
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When you told us you were going to retire, I knew you'd be back entering the workforce eventually. I had a similar experience where I was off work for 9 yrs. I got to experience what it was like to semi-retire. Unless, you can preoccupy yourself with family, friends, projects, travel, you will find yourself needing to feel belong to something. If your husband is still working, you will find yourself alone and bored at home. Some women or men who have never worked and are house-husbands/housewives can adapt to home life, because that's what they know to do. I enjoy working. It feels good to end the two weeks with a paycheck. Unless, I become unable to no longer work, I will continue to be employed.
It’s been a journey for sure. I hope part time work will give me back some balance. The rest has been nourishing, but I’m excited to see what 2024 will bring xx
Hey Eileen, I just watched your video and it really struck a chord with me. It takes a lot of courage to openly discuss the fears and insecurities associated with such a significant career transition. Your honest reflection on burnout, the quest for happiness, and the challenge of finding balance between work and personal life is incredibly relatable and thought-provoking. Redefining your identity beyond your career is a daunting but worthwhile journey, and I commend your bravery in sharing this experience. Wishing you all the best as you explore part-time opportunities - it seems like a wise step towards maintaining social connections while having time for personal growth and projects. Looking forward to hearing more about your journey!
Thank you so much for your kind message xx
Hallo Eileen, fellow dentist here...56 years old...30 years of work experience...I was EXACTLY in your shoes in my early thirties....I did not stop working but I did work considerably less for a decade....Turns out I had time and some financial freedom but almost none of my friends did ....So I read alot... traveled alot and ultimately now at 56 am working more than I ever did and really enjoying it....Maybe I will take a sabbatical maybe not...my advice would be do not give up dentistry completely it is a wonderful profession and just helping people gives you such a sense of purpose...love from germany
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Thank you for sharing your journey! I totally understand the feeling of chasing both things. I couple years ago I had a job where I was practically 100% remote. Although many people envy this, I found myself (as an extrovert) yearning to have that in person connection, contribution, and structure. So I took a job working 100% in person. While I loved it at first, I now find myself not having the time I crave to do the things I love doing. And I'm wishing I was working remote again. I realized that different phases of life we have different needs and desires, and that's ok. I am searching for a hybrid job that'll allow me the physical interaction as well as the personal time for me. Work life balance is so important. I hope you find the postion you're looking for that will support your current life desires.
This is really helpful and relatable! Thank you for sharing xx
I just took a 3 month break quitting my old job voluntarily and felt the same after two months, directionless and lack of purpose. I couldn't find other means to feel purpose. My job cannot really be part time either. And like you, I am all in or nothing at my job. I understand you going back to your profession, it's important to have purpose and contributing to society through your job.
I went back to working (found a new & better job) in tech.
Oh I'm also trying to FIRE!
Thanks for your content, I enjoy it and find a lot in common with you through your videos!
Very honest of you Eileen and can completely relate. I’m a doctor and carried on working 4 days a week when my children were small. I’m so glad I kept going now as both are now at Uni and have their own lives. You are obviously good at what you do and have worked so hard to get there. The trick is to make it work for you and have a good work life balance and working environment. I am a couple of years away from 60 now but will probably reduce down to less days a week as it gives me income, structure and most importantly, purpose. Good luck with your decision
My little one is 8 and I’m already dreading the empty nest days 😢
Hello from the USA. Thank you so much for sharing your story! I have only seen a few of your videos, but the title of this one really struck me. I am a bit older than you and was forced into taking a break from my finance career due to an unexpected, severe health issue (which was partially due to burn out). I can relate to most of the things that you said (though I was not striving to retire early). At first, I was just so relieved to be free of the very high expectations and constant chaos of my life. I have hardly sat still during my time off as I have many interests and am always working on improving myself. Eventually, even with the purpose of healing myself, I began to feel lost and like I might be wasting my talents, wisdom, etc. It is an unsettled feeling... although I do believe that we can all shine our lights in different ways regardless of our employment situation. I feel isolated at times as I am not participating in the day-to-day cycles of life that most people are in. I was also previously in a cycle of high work stress, then overspending to feel relief, validation, etc. Then feeling like I had to stay in the high-paying job that I had invested so much in, then spending more and still not feeling satisfied. I am still transitioning as regaining my health has been a slow process. There is so much to learn during these times, however, and as you mentioned, life is truly a journey! I have had to adapt in so many ways and let go of needing to be "in control". I have had to learn to trust in my path even if it's not what I expected it to be and different from many others' paths! I hope that you find balance in your life as you transition back into part-time work and wish you lots of joy in the simpler things... the same things that I hope I can also find 🙂🙏🏼❤
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with me! This sounds so relatable xx
I'm early on in this video and I can only speak for myself. I'd be bored out of my brain if I did nothing with my days. I believe I'm on this earth for a reason and a purpose and doing nothing while relatively young and able is just wasting life. It's possible to 'retire' from formal work and still have and fulfil your purpose. Your life is a blessing, make it count. 🙌🏾
What you just explained is a real eye opener and has given me an idea of what to do when it comes time for me to slow down, im almost 50 but i feel i can still be productive for another 10 years and i feel its also important to feel like we are contributing something to the world whilst maintaining balance in our life, thanks so much for sharing your story
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Hi Eileen, thank you for opening up about this topic. I can relate to it in so many ways. I was working as a nurse in the middle east for 9 years before I resigned to pursue my nursing career in another country. I resigned earlier than my husband since I was already burned out from work for years and was just trying to keep it together for my family. I was so excited to be a housewife and take care of our daughter but after 6 months of staying at home I wasn’t happy anymore. It didn’t help that I am an introvert as well. I don’t usually text anyone or meet up with anyone. It was just me in the house with my kid all day. Then some unexpected trials happened to my husband at work in the new country which delayed our reunion for much much longer than expected. It will almost be 2 years now that I am a stay at home mom and I miss work already, although not as much to be a slave once again and I don’t want to work in my home country (Philippines) since the workload is unimaginable and the pay is less. I have come to the realization that I don’t want to be a stay at home mom and sometimes in my mind I regret that I have resigned from my previous job since now that I am just hone all day, my mental health did not improve at all and my physical health deteriorated as well. I hope soon that I will be out of this situation and hope that me and my daughters reunite with my husband and I can find a job that will give me peace of mind or if not, something that is less harsh than my previous one because I know that finding your dream job is impossible nowadays. Now, I have this question in my mind: What if I am the problem? That it’s just that I am not satisfied with my situation and that others would do anything to be in my previous job or current situation right now? Is it just my lack of satisfaction or wanting more? What if am able to get a new job and find out that I am not happy again? I am so scared to know if the problem is really just my self. I know that everybody had their own trials and challenges, is it really just about choosing and staying with your kind of “hard”? 😢
Thanks so much for sharing! I don’t think you’re the problem, we all want to be productive but we just need to find the right balance and support xx
This was a really insightful video. I appreciate your honesty and sharing this journey with us.
Glad you enjoyed it! Xx
Such great realization. And working part time is so wonderful especially you also have your channel. It's really the best of both worlds.
It really is!xx
Thank you for your openness in sharing your journey! This really resonated with me with where my husband and I are at. I’m 39 and have 4 children and have felt a little lost over the past 6-8 months. When we first started having kids I was a full-time stay at home Mom for about 5 years (with the exception of some odd jobs here and there) and then began working part-time with my husband when he started his engineering company. I worked there part-time for 6 years and the company quickly grew in that time, and I really enjoyed being a part of it. I also began homeschooling our children about 3 years ago.
When we sold our company a little over a year ago I stepped down from my position, and like you said at first it felt like some relief. Homeschooling was so time consuming that it was nice to not have the work commitment on top of it.
But then after awhile I started missing my job and was feeling a lot of anxiety and a bit of an identity crisis. Although I don’t know what the future holds, I am trying to use this time to be present with my kids and set some personal goals and family goals. Someone recently told me, change is uncomfortable, but that is where growth happens ❤️
I have so much admiration for what you’re doing! Homeschooling isn’t easy so you should be really proud of yourself xx
Thanks Eileen i'm 32 and was making plans like you. This conclusion is super helpful
Hello Eileen greetings from Melbourne. I turn 60 in April and i'm going to put myself on leave until its all finished then retire. I had a heart attack last year the heart surgery and i reality have not stopped since i returned to work and i did that as quickly as possible so as not to let anyone down. Well a year later next month and on reflection. It is totally true there is more to life than than work. The house is paid for, super is in the fund and i'm in the last stages of packing to head off and live overseas. Thank you for all your wonderful Vlogs, it has helped me focus on what is important. You are in a very special profession with years of education and training if returning to work is going to help you live the life you are then i'm really happy for you and grateful for everything you have given your vlog community. With thanks and appreciation and i look forward to seeing what you will share in 2024.❤😊
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I really respect how self aware you are
Thank you xx
Hi I can totally relate… I took a time off as well last July from a career of almost 25yrs. I have no regrets of doin that as a I really need to pause from a stressful environment. I took a big leap of prioritizing myself and it felt great!
Now after 6 months Im slowly checking opportunities and getting ready to go back…and its true life is indeed full of changes and im just hopeful of whats instore next…happy to follow your journey and learn as well… Goodluck!
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I went through a similar evolution as you - i'm a medical doctor diagnostic radiologist. I earned roughly 200k per year in the last few years of my military service. When my passive real estate income approached what i was making at work i decided to early retire in my late 30s. I've been slow traveling the world for the last year.
While i'm a traveler at heart that part got boring and after 9 months i now work part time as a teleradiologist. I can live anywhere in the world and do this and i've chosen to live in SE Asia.
I'm inherently lazy and love focusing on my health so i actually surprised myself that i would go back to work, even though i don't need the money
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Hi Eileen! I love your videos (especially the minimalistic ones) and really enjoy listening to your soothing and calming voice. I've just graduated from law school in Singapore and have been thinking about retirement in the future as well. Wishing you and your loved ones good health in the new year :)
Sounds like a really exciting time for you! Wishing you all the best in practising law xx
Thank you for sharing your story. I felt the same way but wasn’t able to put it through words. In my case it was due to a maternity break and I felt really lost and lack of purpose, lot of hours alone and so insecure. Work can be hard sometimes but at the end of the day structures very well your life and makes you feel alive. I encourage you to make the decision because we are in this life to risk and win. What do you lost?Good luck and please don’t quit youtube!! Kisses from Spain
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Great video. This speaks to a lot of what I'm going through as someone transitioning from working for someone else in a demanding job (teaching) to working for myself.
Glad it was helpful!xx
Hello! I found you the other day when looking for ideas on what best to invest in clothing and accessory wise. I’ve been really enjoy going back and watching your old videos. Then this pops up today! I didn’t know you were a dentist! I was a dental assistant for 14 years before I became a stay at home mom. Let me tell you that first year was HARD. The isolation is real. Plus I throughly enjoyed my job and truly loved ( love still) the dentist and team I worked with. I actually still go visit them all the time! I think in an ideal world, it would be perfect if I could work part time and still have all the time needed off to take care of my two small children. Right now that is not a possibility for us as I am homeschooling our kids, but I know one day they’ll be ready for school always from me and I will be headed back to the office!
Hope you find the perfect middle ground!
It’s a wonderful thing to be able to spend time with your little ones during their formative years. I was the same- been dropping in to see my old colleagues and it made me realise I miss being in a team (but maybe not on a full time basis) xx
Alll the best Eileen. Do more of what really makes you happy. 😁🌷🌻⚘️
Thank you so much!xx
Dear Eileen, beautiful video, really. It takes a lot of courage to talk about these issues. I have admired you even in the past when you transitioned to minimalism. For what is worth, and I truly believe that we are all in a journey to discover things when we are ready...I am a physician with a demanding job, but so my nurses, techs, janitors have demanding roles on their own .We are really not that special just because we studied a lot and we have these "demanding" careers but at least I have a sense of what you may be going through. For me, what allows me to cope with work related stress is to really be there for my patients. It is in their stories, their fears and these random magic moments when you feel a connection that I find the energy to keep on going.You cannot look for these moments as they happen on their own. It seems you are already doing a lot of work that reinforces you to be in the present moment like drawing, reading, be with your son as it is this quality that allows you to be receptive to these random encounters. My dying patients have been one of the best source in terms of wisdom. At the very end it is all about love and regrets. They often talk about the futility of their possessions or not having being there for someone when they needed it most. Let us know how the new transition flows.
Thank you so much for sharing this! Xx
Working 1-2 days a week would be my dream job. I work full-time -5 days a week in a very stressful job, there is no part-time option. Even though, I would love to take a break for a year or so, I couldn't return to work after a break, so I just keep working. I was once without a job for 3 months and it was quite stressful to wait for job offer, and despite having all the time but not having money was not good either.
Nice to hear your point. Are preparing yourself financially for any break in near future? I want to take 1 year off, therefore I'm saving and investing a good portion of my income to feel secured during my sabbatical.
Wishing you all the best, I hope you find your happy medium xx
@@TheCelmap Yes! I am saving aggressively, and only spend money on necessities. I could take a year off since I have enough money saved, but like I mentioned before, I couldn't get back to my old workplace after a year of break. And where I work right now, I get paid the most money I ever earned for my skills and level of education with great commute and benefits on top of that.
I’m also a dentist 😊and I love your videos. When I found out you were a dentist too I understood your sentiments even more. I totally agree with part time approach. It’s the best of both worlds 👍
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I’m so glad this came across my recommended videos- I daydream about a sabbatical from my clinical gig at the hospital and your journey was so insightful.
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Please know how this video is so important to me. You have articulated what I have been going through since quitting my corporate job and doing some light freelancing work. It gave me clarity and I hope I can move forward with grace like you do.
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Started watching your video about mid luxury bags and then keep watching another and another.. admire you and love your videos
Hi Eileen, I love all of your videos and I watched them multiple times for inspirations. You are truly my favourite RUclipsr and I genuinely feel that I resonate with many things that you said. I’m an optometrist from Australia and have been 4 years now. I work for a large corporate here as a relief optometrist so I have been to close to 60 stores and have been in hundreds of hotel rooms and pretty much living out a luggage. As you might imagine, it’s very tiring and it takes a lot of commitment. Although it was fun, I’m starting to feel like I’m just a cog in a wheel. Last year, I finally had the courage to hand in my resignation which will be in April this year mainly because I watched your videos. It’s something that I have been thinking about for a long time now. I am also take a break from optometry and going back to Thailand (where I am from) to live very simply/maybe start a small business there. It’s nothing more rewarding than being close to my parents. Going forward, I will only locum for a few months in Australia and spend the rest of the time in Thailand with my parents. I don’t have a partner or children so I feel like I am ok just to “pack up and go”. Your videos make me feel that I am not alone in this decision and it’s something I wanted for the longest time. Like you said, my happiness doesn’t require a huge amount of spending, although, of course, we all need a certain amount of income to keep the lights on. I choose to have a hybrid of semi-retirement and doing some other work overseas and working a short stint in Australia. I think that will be my plan going forward. Again I watched all of your videos and I find you very inspiring. ❤ Kimmy
Hi Kimmy, I’m so honoured to hear my videos helped you. It’s wonderful that you have a clear idea about what you want in life, I wish you all the very best xx
It’s so easy to think all or nothing when you are burned out so this turn of events is interesting. Your patients will be all the better for having a refreshed version of you provide them care!
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thank you for your honest video. Its so relatable.
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I LOVED this video, thank you for sharing!
Glad you enjoyed it!xx
Whatever decision you make Eileen, I wish you well.
Thank you so much xx
As a software engineer from the Bay Area in San Francisco, I am thinking about early retirement daily. I am glad that I found this video. Thank you.
Glad this was helpful 😊
Loved this video! 🙌🏿
Thank you!!xx
Thanks for sharing your story 😊
My pleasure 😊
I loved your honesty in this video, Eileen! I think what we all crave - in addition to what you mentioned about having structure and contributing in your area - is just the freedom to pursue these things without the burden of everything else. It is something to pursue a dream or interest without having to worry about paying the bills; that is the goal. I think a lot of us would have no problem dedicating their time to work a couple times a week if it meant the freedom to do everything else, but alas.. we have bills to pay! I’m thinking of a long time from now when I retire.. and would love to continue to work part time in a library or bookshop (I’m a research librarian) just to be around people and be around what I love. I wish I can do that now! 😂 Take care and all the best to you!
Bookshops and libraries are two of my favourite places! Xx
The variety of textures in the *yutulux* pack is impressive. From smooth leather to textured suede, there's something for everyone.
People often forget that working gives structure and getting out of the house and seeing people
So true xx
I'm almost 66 and recently took a part-time job and am loving it. It's also good to know if I stop enjoying it I can also just as easily quit.
Thank you for sharing I love your videos ❤
Glad you like them!xx
Hello Eileen. Last many month I think more and more about not working. opposite to you I want to sit and do nothing, absolutely nothing. I work as business analyst in IT and very often work is very hectic and it gets more difficult to handle the pressure. I don't really plan to retire because I don't have money for that but when I envision myself not working I imagine I learn to play piano, return to my chinese classes, go to London in the middle of a working day and some days do absolutely nothing. watching your video I got an idea that maybe I just need some sort of sabbatical or a very long holidays like 4-6 month. that would help me to recover and come back. doe to a nature of my work I see that a business analyst can potentially work 4 days a week, but not less because lots of dependencies. and even if I will somehow manage to work 4 days a week my company probably will require me to do the same work but faster. and I don't ant to do 5 days of work in 4 days and have a salary for 4 days. that is a showstopper for me.
I loved this video, thanks.
Delighted to hear that you are going back to work. It’s a blessing to have skills and be of use to others. I think we need work life balance as opposed to a world of retired people.
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I think most people that retire at an early age like you end up going back to work as they still feel that drive to be productive and get fulfillment from something that a job does this for you. You can do this with volunteer work and even starting a small business yourself. I think taking that time off really helps with getting your head back in the game but can also it can certainly help with showing you what’s really important to you. I thankfully had a job for the past few years that gave me no fulfillment so walking away from it was easy and no retirement at 54 allows me to do what I want with my time verses just wasting it for a paycheck which is how I felt.
Eileen, thanks for sharing. Super interested in the concept of FIRE and how you calculated this number. Could you do a video on this?
Working part time is great IMO. It's a great balance between no work and full time work. The medical field seems to have great opportunities for that kind of work too. I wish my career path had part time work available.
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Love your art ❤
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I can totally relate to you. I retired from 20 years of teaching two years ago at the ripe age of 65. I miss the art of teaching, but I believe it was the right time to leave the profession I really loved. I sub now and then, but I am still searching for what I need to do in order to feel more purposeful. I do help out with my grandkids and those moments are very fulfilling, but I need to start doing some work that is meaningful and allows me to have much needed social connections with other adults. It sounds like your idea to go back part-time is the right choice, especially to keep up your skills considering you worked so hard to achieve them. Good luck.
I hope you find something that you truly enjoy! Xx
Perhaps volunteering could be an option to consider 😊
Hi Eileen. You phrased things in a compassionate way and also to yourself. I would you say you made the decision to step out of working in a good frame of mind. While you had fears, it was not debilitating. The questions that may be useful to ask yourself moving forward could involve for instance "What do you want your life to revolve around? This could be persons, places, things, purposes or even feelings. Because our circumstances can change and so can our goals. Some people go after what is truly missing in their life, and I think thats a good place to start.
Going part time is my ideal but saving for retirement first. I’m working toward it. Great discussion!❤
You got this!xx
I am considering an early retirement in June. (In my 50s). I’ve already started feeling guilty and a little insecure, especially after discovering the high cost of healthcare in the US. Even though we have prepared many years towards this goal, I am still not sure it’s the right decision. Your videos have been big inspirations for me. I am surprised that you are returning to work already. But I can relate how you are feeling right now. Please keep us posted your journey. Thanks so much, good luck with your job searching!
I’m surprised myself 🙈 I’m a bit nervous about being rusty but hopefully it will work out xx
Sounds like you’re figuring it out😊 I understand your feelings, I have worked more than full time running companies for over 20 years, plus raising 4 kids… and all the other crazy life ups and downs. And now at 45 I’m facing my plan of retirement at 50…what I have done is go part time and fill my days with other activities I’ve always wanted to do. Also as my kids have grown and flown the nest my whole life has been slowly changing. ❤I do want to retire young because what’s the point of working so hard if you can’t enjoy your time and success. But it is hard for a workaholic to quit or slow down, I think your hustle never calms if you have that in you, you just redirect it. Best of luck in your new path!🌺
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Producing and investing is more satisfying in the long run than consuming, but a little bit of consuming can save precious time or just feel like a treat to add flavor to life.
I will work til I get old even part time. I get lonely or depressed when Im just at home or not doing anything. I feel its makes me weak.
I am so proud of you for taking the break that you needed. Too many don't prioritize their health and health is true wealth. I work as a business lawyer and I, like you, love the simple way of life with quality. I enjoy art, music, painting and I am different from many of my former clasmates that only think about getting a bigger salary. That is not wrong of course but a bigger salary as a lawyer would mean a heavier workload and I believe there is more to life. I was addicted to shopping in my mid 20s but now In my 30s every reason for me overspending I've adressed. Now I focus on saving but I can overdo that, so I allow myself to splurge once or twice a year on something I've wanted for years and can see myself enjoying many years to come. I hope you will find the perfect part time job.
Thank you so much for sharing. What you said is so true, too many of us put ourselves on the back burner xx
Reminded me of my life in Singapore, I was in 30s and all my paycheck went to shopping at Reffles Hotel
As a fabric computer designer for a outdoor furniture . I don't want to quit my job at all. My husband is retirement with 50 properties for rent. He hires property agency take care then Now he wants travel, i have to quit my job and go with him. Good luck on what ever you decide going to do.
I appreciate your openness about getting what you thought you wanted and realizing it’s not ideal. I’m a freelance interpreter and translator. It’s not perfect, but I’m able to create a good work life balance. And I like the ability to say no to assignments that don’t work for me.
I was in similar break like you. I had same issues like you mentioned feeling insecure about my income dropped (even though I have financial security to have a long break), loss of purpose in life and thinking of doing only partime freak me out due to my constant worries about work. I managed my issues by facing with those emotions and accepting that it is normal to have it. Now I am doing kinda like part time (but I am in control of when to work and how much I will work). Many people might see my work as unstable work flow to be that’s all I need due to my financial security. Sometimes we just need to figure out what we value in life and how we want to live our life. I think I found my middle ground.
Happy for you! Hopefully it works out for me too xx
Thanks for this sharing but I always think working at your ease is seriously a blessing
Absolutely!xx
When I found your channel it changed a lot for me. I am 26 and work as a train conductor. I earn more than average in my country and the job is also very difficult in means of hours of working, otherwise I enjoy it until I dont have a family. And since me and my partner are buying a house, I am planning on working hard until we pay off our loans. Then when starting a family we already talked about me working part time and I think it will be a good decision. This is a plan but we shall see what the future holds. I also need to thank you for teaching us that we dont need so much unnecessary things. I can not afford luxury, but I still like to spend on nice things, that are "luxury" here. There most people wear Guess, Michael Kors, Tommy Hilfiger etc but if you dont earn enough for that you can easily spend everything on it. I choose to write myself an allowance every year on how much I can spend on this things and it helped a lot. 😊
Thank you for sharing your story with me xx
I am doing my residency in internal medicine and I totally understand what you mean. I am also a workaholic and it is adding to the stress, to the point where my health is starting to get affected. But I think I will just pull through it and finish my education then I am planning to take a break. 😊
I’m an emergency physician and I have worked full time for the past 12 years, overtime sometimes helping with coverage. Only break was 2 maternity leaves. During the pandemic, I was physically and emotionally burnt out. My perspective on life changed. I wanted to just quit, but I didn’t know what I was going to do with my time. This past October, I decided to transition to part time and spend more time being a mother. I’m working 10 days a month and I plan on cutting down to 6 days by the end of the year. I feel so light and balanced.
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Nice video. You seem very kind and authentic.
I understand that one's identity can be tied to their jobs... Most people ask you about your occupation before they ask anything else. Getting into philanthropy is how I use my time to be not only fulfilled (by giving to others) but I am also networking with bright people. How about you also get involved in an organization?
I’m now back to working part time 😊 so far the balance has been great xx
I think it’s a good decision. Work does give you a sense of accomplishment and joy if you feel fulfilled by it. You’re in a great position to be able to have this option to work part time. Go for it!
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I took two self imposed "breaks" from my career and it was very helpful in many ways. Going back part time is an excellent way to approach it, that gets you back to work but not be overwhelmed. The worst part with going back for me trying to keep up with things after, I often wondered how I did it when I worked full time before!
Thanks for sharing! To be honest I’m a bit worried about having to manage work and my personal projects but fingers crossed xx
I'm a software engineer. I totally empathize with the 1 more year haha. I am working towards my financial freedom as well. I think taking sabbaticals whether 3 month to 1 year should be more normalized. I think to remedy the social aspect, taking on more hobbies would have helped. This. isa problem retirees (60+) face as well. What do you do with all the extra time. For me it would be learning languages, travel, gym, read, foodie events, etc. I think your first sabbatical you learn alot, but you will be better next time around. There are alot of YT videos (geared towards seniors retiring), that can give you insight on how to retire "better".
I am 60 years now and I stopped working two years ago. I was a ballet dancer and then I worked as a Balletteacher for twenty
years. My Body and my Mind where completely tired. It takes two years to feel better. But I miss my Students a lot. Now I find peace with my decision and a new structure.
Wish you all the best
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Hi Eileen, thank you so much for sharing the undercover of your leave. Sometimes we idealize a project but its good to see what you liked/missed during that break. For your question: I was a pharmaceutical rep for years and moved into a Director role 3 years ago. I like it but still something is missing to my happiness, its my quest for 2024.😊
Hope you find your ikigai in 2024!xx
Your video is amazing. Recently I watched 2 videos on FIRE movement. I'm 34 and i am constantly thinking about the day i wont need to work. I am saving up to 30% of my income, but my calculations show me that i need 10 more years and honestly i don't even know what should i apply for my next job. I am currently IT consultant, being project analyst and business analyst before. I am playing guitar and bass again, but I don't want to do music my living. Everyday i wish the day i won't need to work and focus on my music and traveling. I love the idea of traveling for a year on a RV, but i also want to have a rural property to be able to produce my own food, water and electricity. Maybe that is my journey, one step at time. Greetings from Sao Paulo, Brazil.
Hi Eileen, At 35 I worked in the counseling/human services field since I was 18 and back in 2018 I left because I was burnt out. Back in 2022 I retired my counseling license because feeling burnt out never went away. I can't see myself ever working in that field again. It takes a toll. For me, when I do decide to return to work it will be something not very stressful. I also spent a lot of time and money on education. I have two Master's degree and I completed all the requirements for a PhD except the dissertation. I really like your channel. Right now I am decluttering my things because of the lifestyle I have and not the one I used to be or dreaming of becoming.
What else did you do as a means to support yourself? I too am in same field and burnt the hell out 😢
@@niko4305 I have a good familial support system. They told me that I don't have to return if I do not want too. In all honesty I will probably return to work but it is going to be something simple like selling perfume or makeup in a department store.
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I’m an adult nurse here in the UK. And I think it’s beautiful to have been reminded that it’s ok to change our minds to suit each stage in our lives.
I remember during COVID I left the hospitals because I was scared. and I felt guilty. Guilty that I wasn’t using my skills to HELP save people’s lives.
But I had moved on to a home for brain injuries. So I was still helping , just in a different way .
Many times I have spoken about leaving my profession but also felt guilty. But I’ve learnt we have to do what’s best to us at a certain point. Sometimes a break is all we need.
BUT if we also choose that we don’t want to come back , we have that right too.
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I retired at age 45 about 7 months ago from a high pressure executive job….no doubts so far! Having the option to do what you want (work, not work, part time) is true freedom. Good luck!
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Eileen is such a rare name, my name is also Eileen. Very rarely do I come across others with that name
Hello from Italy! I am in a hybrid situation. I have a 9-5 job but, since Covid, I am 4 days on smart-working. At the beginning it was nice, my partner was at home too and we did a thousands of things together. But, when he went back to work full-time, I felt lonely, bored, weighed down by hosework and taking care of the children and everything else around the house (in addition to working hours), with no contact with the outside world for days. I found hard dressing decently at home and finding motivation to wake up.
I had extra time but I rarely used it for myself because I felt guilty.
In the last months I began to go regurarly to the gym, to appreciate my work more, to better use my time, to plan errands outside. And I began journaling.
I think that I wouldn't be ready for retirement: before, I must be able to find a purpose and balance between daily activities at home and in the outside world.
One thing I struggle with is trying to keep a healthy sleep routine. Some days I go to sleep late because I know I don’t have any liability to patients. I still wake up early just so I can have some time with my little boy before he goes to school, so it means sometime I only sleep for 5 hours. It’s not good and I need to be more disciplined with myself xx
The same for me! 😅
My goal has always been to work as long as possible. My grandma is 85yo and she still works part time (office job in a family business) and I always thought this is what keeps her in a good shape. You know, the daily routine that you have to wake up and get ready to work, also you see many people on a daily basis and last but not least simply using your brain more extensively than when you run a typical happy grandma life. Of course, if your job is extremely stressful this may not work that well. Nevertheless, in order to keep my body and mind in shape, I think we need to work as long as we are able to. Of course not 10h a day, I actually don’t recommend this at any age. Also I would totally fall into this “one more year trap”, I would always feel my finances aren’t secure enough to retire. On the other side, in most cases you can always come back to work, so the risk isn’t that high. I think your decision to return to work and work part time is a good idea to satisfy all your desires. Good luck!
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I don't really think I can always return to work. after 2 years of retirement I estimate my chances to get to the same salary as zero and I estimate my chances of getting the same job as "possible but very difficult". I think it is a myth that we can come back. coming back with severe downsize - maybe better work for free in some charity.
I really agree with this. I have a friend, almost 90, who worked part-time in a friend's business doing administration, billing, etc. until about four years ago. Not only did it give him a bit of extra $, it really helped keep his brain sharp I believe. When his friend had to close the business unfortunately, that loss of social contact (which was of course made worse by the isolation during the pandemic) really made a notiicable difference. I have noticed a definite cognitive decline - he is far more forgetful, not as 'with it' as he was before. I appreciate he's also a few years older too, so that could also be part of it but I really think the loss of social contact and opportunity to use his brain, is the bigger factor...
Such a personal decision but you add such great value and comfort to your patients that part time is such a good choice if you can.
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I stepped out of the classroom in 2022 after teaching for 17 years. Major burnout esp after Covid like many of the world. 18 months later, I am so happy I made the decision. I’m still working in schools as a Library Clerk. Best decision ever and I could do this job for another 30 years easy. Sometimes you have to take a step back and reflect and that’s okay. Good luck to you!
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I am turning 50 this year and work for a large cooperate as a product manager. I like what I do and enjoy the challenges/mental stimulations the work brings and the social interaction it provides. But the job is stressful and I especially dislike the politics and BSs as part of the job. I am thinking of retirement after my daughter graduates colleague(She is a junior in high school). But with a type A personality and high energy, I doubt I will enjoy early retirement. Your experience helps to demonstrate what it will be like for a person who likes to be productive and in control all the time to suddenly have too much free time. Thanks for sharing your honest feeling. I think I need to develop a healthy and lasting hobby before I retire so that I can jump full in to the retirement , stay busy and productive to be happy.
My husband has been searching for hobbies as well. He witnessed firsthand how leaving the workforce can do to a person so his plan is to keep working for at least 10 years xx
I am a lawyer and after my maternity leave I will start a new carrier in IT sector. My plan is to have a part time for 4 hours a day. This way I will have my professional purpose plus time for a gym and time for learning with my kids. Learning with kids is important part of every day here in Czechia because of how structured is our educational system so I wanna make sure I have mental capacity every afternoon for this.
Just a new chapter. Enjoy. Very best wishes
Thank you! Will do!xx
I’m an ICU nurse & 52 years old. I’m hoping to take a break in a year or so to do volunteering overseas. I really enjoy being a nurse but I do feel I need a break living in the States.
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