Removing chaos and saying bye to toxic people. How I Simplify My Life.

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @jayjaytailor
    @jayjaytailor 10 месяцев назад +25

    A very Happy New Year to you and your family Eileen! It has been an absolute pleasure to watch and listen to your wise words throughout 2023; undoubtedly, my favourite RUclips channel. As a long-term subscriber who has been with you from day one, I am in awe of how you manage to produce such valuable and interesting content (without repeating the same mantra); you are a very clever and resourceful person and I have so much respect for your core values. I hope 2024 brings you everything you wish for Eileen, and the same to all of your wonderfully-loyal 'family' of subscribers too. JJ xx

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад +1

      Hey JayJay, I’m so happy to see you here! Thank you so much for your love. Happy 2024 to you too xx

  • @flohough1870
    @flohough1870 10 месяцев назад +17

    The part about toxic people is so true. I have a family member who is just so frustrating for me to be around. I've just started to avoid her and have figured out the best ways to shut her down when she gets out of control. Setting boundaries with people like this is so important!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад +2

      100% agree! We shouldn’t burden ourselves with the toxicity and negativity xx

  • @LPAdams1001
    @LPAdams1001 10 месяцев назад +11

    Your illustrations are so cute. Would love to see more of those.

  • @bettys-gy6sc
    @bettys-gy6sc 10 месяцев назад +5

    Please do a video on must have under garments, house and laundry cleaning supplies. Thank you!

  • @b3naqua
    @b3naqua 10 месяцев назад +5

    Love your videos! The point about identifying and minimizing toxic relationships really hit home for me. Forming boundaries is SO difficult, esp if the other person ignores & mocks them. I've learned to form boundaries with myself with these types of people - being honest and realistic about my limits/expectations/needs/wants etc and honoring these boundaries in situations where other people are being consistently disrespectful. Then I can focus my energy/time on relationships with non-toxic, mutually respectful & loving people. It's kinda like relationship minimalism lol and it works!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад

      Love it! Thank you for sharing xx

  • @abernxthy
    @abernxthy 10 месяцев назад +10

    I'm binge watching your videos after finding your channel today. I love your makeup look, its minimal and elegant, could you make a makeup tutorial please xx

  • @mmajinn
    @mmajinn 10 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for this video, I deleted Instagram and FB immediately from my phone because I was scrolling like a zombie.. even I set a time limit 😮‍💨 I just ignored it. So that’s how addictive it is.. I wish you and your family a wonderful and healthy 2024❤

    • @drc4168
      @drc4168 10 месяцев назад +2

      I wasn't even on Instagram and I was scrolling other people's Instagram like a zombie. It's truly the worst feeling. Well done on getting rid of trash from your mind and mental health. ❤

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад +1

      That’s liberating! For some reason I’ve never been tempted by Facebook and I don’t have an account xx

    • @drc4168
      @drc4168 10 месяцев назад

      @@ColourfulNoir it's mainly boomers and bizarre advertisements (and some cat charities 😺) ...

    • @CleanChic
      @CleanChic 10 месяцев назад

      @@ColourfulNoir I still like my facebook account. Tbh. Ppl said they don’t go there anymore but they do 😊 I don’t think it’s the social media fault. It’s how you control yr own mind. I feel nothing when I see ppl flexing in social medias. It’s somebody else’s life. None of my business. Not defending social media. It’s just up to oneself. Really. Hehe

  • @catherine4875
    @catherine4875 10 месяцев назад +3

    Turning off notifications helps tremendously! Great subject matter and reflections. Thank you for sharing.

  • @anca.
    @anca. 10 месяцев назад +3

    🎉 Happy new year to you and yours , with good health and lots of laughter!!! 🍀🫶

  • @zedrickapolloshorts6515
    @zedrickapolloshorts6515 10 месяцев назад +4

    Happy New Year Eillen!!!🎉 It’s been awhile.. I’ve been avoiding for quite sometime to purchase some luxury item since I’m more on understated elegance.❤❤❤ Your thoughts still inspires me.❤️❤️❤️

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад

      Happy new year!! Lovely to see you here xx

  • @janekaran9795
    @janekaran9795 10 месяцев назад +1

    Happy New Year to you and your family. Wish you a healthy and fruitful year. I hope 2024 brings to lots of love, laughter and joy. Thank you for interesting tips.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for your well wishes xx

  • @nikkisue1715
    @nikkisue1715 10 месяцев назад +3

    Happy New Year to you, Eileen. I really admire your genuine perspectives and I value your useful tips. I also am truly impressed with your minimalist lifestyle. It's not too extreme. I have never been on Social Media and I don't plan to get started. I am turning 67 this month. My dilemma is how to declutter my RUclips subscriptions. I started watching RUclips during the pandemic. Any suggestions? I also need to unsubscribe to retailers that I constantly get emails from. Thank you for what you do.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you!! I’ve been trying to control my RUclips viewing too, I find that if I click on something random, all the related things start popping up xx

  • @Lindy88888
    @Lindy88888 10 месяцев назад

    #Happy New Year Eileen 🍀🍀 we #love you very much 😊 I’m glad you kept the #red #dress, it’s a knock out ♥️

  • @katerinahoffmannova7309
    @katerinahoffmannova7309 10 месяцев назад

    Have a great year 2024. I Love all the ideas you recommended. I do the same with the toxic people and mobile phone!!!!!! Mental health is very important ❤❤❤❤✨✨✨

  • @luciejoyal1491
    @luciejoyal1491 10 месяцев назад +1

    A very happy new year to you. You're a lovely, classy, smart woman. Great tips!

  • @CyberMercy
    @CyberMercy 10 месяцев назад +1

    Re shopping sites: i made Wishlists of key Seasonal Items before black friday & boxing day. Because I was subscribed by email I was alerted ahead of time when items were marked down& sold out. I managed to get a much desired wardrobe replenishment/ up grade with out giving in to FOMO impulse overspending. A little planning can go a long way. I agree site emails can be overwhelming but if priority is given to a select few you can save money and stress. Great vidi! And love the stripes on you I wished I looked that chic in them 😎☕💋

  • @RoderickPowell788
    @RoderickPowell788 7 месяцев назад

    Love everything you put out here! I was so surprised by the *yutulux* crossbody bag. love it! ❤

  • @sally3570
    @sally3570 10 месяцев назад

    Happy New Year Eileen! 🎉 I agree with you 1,000%. Doing the same and so happy to know others feel/do the same. I wish I had known sooner and so happy you are sharing. Tip-I have a separate email for shopping…. I only look when need something and looking for a sale code… I can delete it at any time.

  • @k700i
    @k700i 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video, happy new year!! About preparing my outfit the day before, I try to plan it for a week instead, making my options ready without worry for the week!

  • @eneidaesser566
    @eneidaesser566 10 месяцев назад +2

    Great tips. Thank you.

  • @soniamoniaa
    @soniamoniaa 10 месяцев назад

    Hi I just came across your RUclips channel ❤and I think it’s amazing! I like the way you get to the point , and you know what you’re talking about, love listening to your advice . Keep doing what you’re doing please, I have subscribed 😊greetings from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @GlamDrMona
    @GlamDrMona 10 месяцев назад

    Happy New Year! Thank you for making such useful videos. I love your calm energy and voice. 🥰

  • @bollybelly
    @bollybelly 10 месяцев назад

    You are very smart and insightful. Love your style, so modern❤

  • @cappuccino9641
    @cappuccino9641 4 дня назад

    Hi Eileen I just stumbled on your RUclips. Thanks for the sharing which is very useful. Can you share how you do your meal planning pls?

  • @dental257
    @dental257 10 месяцев назад +1

    :)... just discovered you this morning! Love to just listen to your voice, as it's so soothing.. where did you purchase your sweater and those cute shoes at 3:32

  • @ayasarsour2860
    @ayasarsour2860 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much 😊😊

  • @sammih.8709
    @sammih.8709 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for the tips!!! Love your videos. Would you mind sharing your height? I’m redoing my wardrobe and love your outfit suggestions - I just want to see what would work for me as I think we have similar proportions. Xxx

  • @lindaoregan9599
    @lindaoregan9599 10 месяцев назад +3

    If I am buying anything and they ask for my email address I just tell them that I don't have one. Before now I have told shops that I don't have a phone either. Yes I am telling lies but it's better than being bombarded with messages and calls.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  10 месяцев назад

      Agree!! It really can get out of hand so easily if we’re not careful xx

  • @magdalenelawson
    @magdalenelawson 10 месяцев назад

    Happy New Year ,what did you do your master degree in?

  • @adeleelzinga
    @adeleelzinga 10 месяцев назад +1

    Happy New Year 🎆🎈🎊

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 10 месяцев назад +1

    Happy New Year ❤😊

  • @saffanna725
    @saffanna725 2 месяца назад +1

    Eileen - what do you do with coins if you only carry a card wallet?

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  Месяц назад

      I don’t usually carry coins now, I mostly pay with card or phone xx

  • @dinapawlow1622
    @dinapawlow1622 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤ for thé algorithme

  • @ChatsWithChris
    @ChatsWithChris 10 месяцев назад +1

    Instagram deleted my account and I couldn't feel more free.

  • @kittyk607
    @kittyk607 10 месяцев назад +1

    🩷⭐️

  • @PamAdriana
    @PamAdriana 10 месяцев назад

    La sakoj ene de @ *amzlv* estas perfektaj kiel donacoj por amikoj. La prezo ne estas alta kaj la kvalito estas bona.

  • @Niceshopx
    @Niceshopx 9 месяцев назад

    ery beautiful sack and. Thanks for helping to make this beautiful video for us #lvguci

  • @juliannetrinh1999
    @juliannetrinh1999 10 месяцев назад

    Happy New Year! 🎉