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That's a great idea!!! 👍 I will take up on that and improve myself ❤ A thought just popped up in my head: so much violence and angry people in society ..... a way to calm their mind (like this advice) to curb negative outcome is foremost.
That made me smile because I have noticed that when I am cleaning the house it puts me into a bad mood ha ha! I end up irritated by other people's mess that I have to clean up. I don't mind cleaning the toilet though 😆
1. clean your toilet 2. organize your shoes 3. improve your posture 4. itadakimasu (gratitude) 5. put the chair back after using it 6. ware tada taruwo shiru (knowing that you are content will bring peace to your heart) 7. okagesamade (I am good) 8. going to bed early and getting up early Awesome. Big changes happen through changes in habits, so these are great.
I do clean my toilet every day. I do keep my shoes organized, even in the USA, my Mom made us take our shoes off before we came into the house proper. My posture is a work in progress as I have MS. I am truly grateful for everything I have but haven’t always been. Not putting the chair back is a pet peeve of mine. It makes me feel disrespectful to whom ever house or restaurant as it isn’t their responsibility to straighten up after me. Being content does bring peace to my heart, not comparing myself to others has helped me tremendously. I’m always good because God is always Great! I like going to bed early and getting up early because it is a quiet time for Bible Study and reflection. Starting the Day and being alone with God is very important to me. Thank you for this vlog!
Because of this video, I have been cleaning my toilet every morning since Ramadan in late March or Early April of this year (2023). It’s now July and I have not missed a day. Some days, I deep clean, taking the seat off, deep cleaning the tank, et cetera, and some days I simply wipe it and clean the bowl. Placing my towel on the top of the tank without apprehension while I shower is my greatest reward to myself! This practice has changed my spirit and life enormously, and I will continue it for the rest of my life. Thank you so much for sharing all of these wonderful rituals!
If you have a good attitude and positive outlook, you can find meaning and joy in the smallest or simplest of tasks. I'd forgotten that for a while and this video has reminded me. Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm very glad this is improving your life. Have a lovely day!
@@tayco8 thank you! I’m hoping so myself. Actually, I’m hoping for life to bring good things for everyone. It’s been hard going for much of the world lately and I truly wish it to be better for all of us. Have a very lovely day tayco!
I am Hindu and yeah we also do that i mean who wouldn't like to do good to their life and maintain sustainability. Don't need to mention i do it or you do it. As a socioeconomic society we should do these along with many other good habits
Most French people are racist and rude toward the Muslims and other cultures. First y’all need to learn how to be polite and friendly then implement the Japanese culture .
After watching the first few minutes of this video, I paused and went to clean my bathroom. Finally, I cleaned the whole house and now I'm back to finish watching 😅😊❤ thanks for the inspiration and positive information 🇧🇷
I too paused to clean toilets haha and strangely felt sense of calm more so that other times. Maybe I was just more Aware of it being something calming and peaceful…, I feel it’s a mindset helper on a deeper level.. humbling yes 🙏
@@kerrygranville6029Why should we clean the toilet and take our shoes off and adopt the Japanese habits. We won the war, they surrendered. It's *we* who should be telling *them* what to do.
I lived in Japan as an American child. What a beautiful country!!! Wonderful people and culture. So very orderly. For me it was beauty and simplicity at finest level. ❤
My first experience with Japanese culture was a tour group who was departing from our local airport. I had to tag their bags to their next destination. They all stood quietly in a line and waited patiently while I attended each bag. I showed each person the destination on the tag to confirm, they approved, I quickly affixed. I nodded approval to one lady for the nice scarf she had tied on her handle. My meaning was to compliment here for using such an attractive scarf to identity her luggage. She took it off and gifted it to me much to my embarrassment. I had not wanted to take it away from her. But it was done. I still have the scarf today more than 20 years later and am happy to say that in 17 years, this group was the most enjoyable passengers I have ever served. Considering we did not speak each other’s language, that is saying a lot.
Then I can recommend you to visit Japan. We were and still are overwhelmed by the friendliness and helpfulness. Everywhere and always and from everyone. Chefs greet you when you come in and leave, clerks take a bow. Everyone is waiting in the queue. In one gift shop, where I didn't buy anything, I asked for chopsticks for my lunch. The lady apologized that unfortunately they didn't have any left. No problem, so I went on my way. The saleswoman ran after me and gave me the last two chopsticks she found after I left.
1- cleaning Toilet 2- become Humble 3- Organise your room 4- Organise your shoes 5- Improve your posture 6- Thank you for meals 7- Gratitude for life 8- Put the chair Back after use 9- feel happy with what you have now 10- how are you ? 11- sleep early get up early 12- start small step
When I grew up, I was taught a couple very simple everyday rules: 1. if you take it out, you put it back 2. if you dirty/soil it, clean it 3. if you break it, fix it 4. if you lose it, replace/go look for it 5. if you hurt someone, apologize(unless you were attacked first)(this one is circumstancional) 6. try to be helpful/kind to everyone and anythings resp. value the world around you Those are very basic rule to becoming a normal, decent, functioning member of society.
If you drop it , pick it up If it cries love it , I was raised with similar values However , I have noticed that my children’s Generation See apologising as a weakness where is as a child whether I meant the offence / accident or not I would immediately apologise .It always gors so far to making a situation better ✨
@@rooneyjagoboo i wonder if all of you are asians. i notice most caucasians especially the younger generation are not like this. just last week one east european mother told me her kids litter and she said they dont like doing it but she tell them to do it because they are in uk but in their homecountry she wouldnt care. so it is about the norm or for appearance. but to me its about sense of belonging, sense of responsibility, respec etc..
@@rooneyjagoboo whats the better word for drop incase of solid food products like flour or bread anything will we say that u dropped the flour or tranfer the flour carefully else it will drop. finding a suitable word
It's true. Cleaning and organizing is highly therapeutic. Scrubbing the bathroom, doing dishes, cleaning shoes, folding laundry, vacuuming, washing your car, etc. It's all mindful therapy.
Somewhere I read or saw someone say that "Tidy people never leave a room empty handed" So now I have made it a habit of whenever I leave a room to have a look around whether there is something that doesn't belong and I can take with me to whichever room I am going to. It helps a lot actually.
My mother always said, "Take something with you when you go." So I started doing that about a year ago. Not just from room to room, but also within a room. This works especially well in the kitchen. If I am on one end, and going to the other where the sink and trash are, I look to see if there is anything that needs to go in the sink or in the trash. I also started a habit of saying, "What can I do for five minutes that needs doing?" Sometimes chores take a long time and we put them off. But by doing a chore for five minutes, even if we don't finish, we at least get started. Later I can do it again for five more minutes. I did this in the past few days putting a new yard tool together.
I call this "step-saver cleaning." I first tried it over 20 years ago, and I actually ran out of things to do without even realizing that I was cleaning my whole house!
About #4, part of my family's prayer before meals is "bless the hands that have prepared it". As it is explained to each generation, a lot of people worked to plant, grow, harvest, package, ship, and cook the food that is now on the table. Gratitude keeps us humble in good ways.
I am grateful for your videos. Many people overlook the very simple things that make society polite which is many humans together enabling them to be functional. Thanks
I wanna say something. I heard you talk about this cleaning the toilet every day thing. I listened, scowling and thinking, ‘I just cleaned the toilet 3 or 4 days ago!’ But I have a ton of respect for Japanese culture and wisdom, so I tried to keep an open mind. The next morning, I look at the toilet. Trying to recreate what you said, I say out loud, “…you will be surprised at what you find that needs attention here and in other areas of your life.” So, I do it. Suddenly, I feel #proud (of how clean the vitreous China bowl has become). Not that it was dirty, but now I KNOW it is clean. This feeling of proud, has become a foreign emotion and I made a note. The next day, I cleaned the toilet again. I rush through the task, trying to move on to the next thing on my “to do” list. I realize, I live a too full life. What needs to be wiped off the list that would make space for more important or meaningful experiences? Day 3, I clean the toilet, thinking I need to be mindful of what cleansers I am using. Strong acidic cleansers will erode the drain pipe and make for costly repairs. Later I realize, I’ve fallen behind in my bookkeeping. I may have lots of money circling the drain because I have not been recording it’s usage. Not paying attention, over time will erode away my finances. Is it time to clean out (cancel) old subscriptions? Am I paying for too much convenience? (Remembering what I said about feeling proud, I think) What will that cost me, down the line? What I am saying is, this cleaning the toilet daily has been single-handedly one of the most powerful exercises I’ve incorporated into my daily life so far. I get it now.., and thank you, for sharing these powerful insights. - Subscribed.
I thought about cleaning the toilet after watching this video, but after reading your comment I actually got up and did it. Hope I clean it again tomorrow. Thanks for encouragement.
As a kid my mother was dating a Japanese man who changed our lives! Only for the better :) The thoughtfulness and quiet way of enjoying life with gratitude and being considerate were invaluable lessons. David Sedaris wrote a story about when he quit smoking and moved to Japan, I remember him talking about how he marveled at families on the train. How well behaved the kids were and how the parents were so considerate about the kids not leaving a mess…he said something about how we should all try to do and be more like the Japanese.
OMG, yes!!! I remember that, too. How the parents would wipe any smudges their children left on the train. No graffiti. A peaceful public commute. Almost unbelievable to this American.
@@heidihanson1892 I wonder - does an American realize how TRULY GREAT they too are, perhaps even greater? Most don't KNOW who they are - only what they are told. Do you understand the significance of Being American? in God's eyes? America is God's country - it CHANGED the world and is the GREATEST COUNTRY ever! Self loathing and the 'exotic other' are forms of psyche warfare USED as a weapon against The West and particularly Americans BY DESIGN. You may begin to notice that there are A LOT of FAKE things about life that previously were not known to you and others - those things are now being EXPOSED because God has made it so. In other words - ALL FALSE/ARTIFICIAL things are being EXPOSED so that ONLY REAL will be possible for ALL people everywhere. This is ONLY TRULY possible in America, because again - it is God's Country. As Goes America - So Goes The World. Deny this, revile me but watch and see what happens. There is a REASON everyone LEAVES their homeland to come to America and NOT the other way around. Consider WHO your ancestors TRULY were and WHAT it is that they accomplished WHICH IS UNPRECENTED in Human History. God Bless Everyone!
😀yeah, people in Chicago could use a few of these social lessons! Some of that courtesy would go along way in all these various ethnic and (political) groups here
I've worked as a custodian numerous times. Creating a spotless bathroom is very soul satisfying, and I appreciate those who leave it as clean as I left it!
I was taught many of these growing up as well, in America! You always push your chair in, you always say thank you, always be considerate of others, take your shoes off and leave them politely and cleanly near the door. So many of these are simply considerate ways of acting towards others, and being clean in your home, but it's neat to see how important they are in Japanese culture - the toilet cleaning thing is so fascinating! But it IS a humbling act, and everyone should have to do some toilet cleaning in life, to know what it is to be humble - to slow down and take more time to clean and be appreciative of their space, etc. Thank you for these insights!
Here in Sicily I learned from my parents that respect for others is in little things. Put back the chair, leave the coach tidy, close the doors, leave everything as you found it means to have respect for others coming after you. I will do everything I can to teach my sons the same things.
This. I was taught that the essence of courtesy, or manners, is making those around you comfortable. This underlies so many rules, such as chewing with our mouth closed, sitting up over our plate, etc.
I prefer to do it for myself and have the byproduct result for other's benefit. It comes doown to the same outcome but I prefer to have the reason I do things be for me. It's just a different mindset. Put yourself in your focus, it'll make you care less about unimportant things
At church we have a sign, If you turn it on, turn it off, if you borrow it return it If you open it, close it. And if you lose it, replace it! On another flyer: Arrive early-- and don't make a haystack of yourself at the beginning of the Pew-- move down so that others may enter in more comfortably.
Hi Aki. I'm from Azerbaijan🇦🇿. These what you said are same in our culture. My mother taught them to me.When I saw this video, I became more aware of what I was doing every day. My mother, our ancestors left us great teachings and values. I became more aware of them. I do home chores every day. I sweep all of rooms, mop the house ( all rooms) , wash dishes, make food ( lunch, dinner, morning meal) etc. Everyyyy dayy. MY MOM, ETERNALLY THANKS FOR YOUR PRECIOUS RULES, VALUES, CHORES WHAT YOU TAUGHT ME.❤ Thank youu soo much my beautiful,miraculous momm❤❤.....
1 - Clean the toilet 2 - Organize your shoes 3 - Improve your posture 4 - Itadakimasu 5 - Put the chair back after using it 6 - Ware tada taruwo shiru (Knowing that you're content, will bring peace to your heart) 7 - Okagesama (I'm good, thanks to all of you) 8 - Go to bed early, and wake up early
1. taking a massive morning shit 2. not flushing, so the next person can admire your piece of art 3 throwing your undies with skid marks across the room 4. never take off your shoes, saves your the task of organizing them 5. slouch to be comfortable 6.overeat and grab leftovers from plates. Stuff yourself, so you got a good load for the next days bathroom routine 7. get wasted everyday 8. get a grill and and a big ass gold chain, show other people what you got. 9. party all night and wake up when you are sober 10. take shortcuts wherever you can
Thank you for putting a smile on my face and bringing joy to my day. I cleaned my toilet and made my bed - it's a small start but felt good afterwards!
I think it's also because the practice of what we usually call "gratitude" is something that can be done in an inappropriate way. I think people overlook it because unfortunately, they may associate practicing gratitude with underestimating their personal problems or their suffering. This is not true. Gratitude is not about becoming judgemental with our own sufferings and our own issues. And, it's also not about "sweeping under the rug", denying or ignoring what needs to be resolved in our lives. To my eyes, practicing gratitude is just that : take the habit to regularly take a look at all the positive things we already experience in our lives and where does it come from. When we ask ourselves about where it comes from, we will see that other people have participated (or still do) to make those positive things happen. So this will also help to feel more love, more compassion and more gratitude towards those people.
I love these principles. I am a way into a process that my brother-in-law motivated me to start. Our house was in a terrible, terrible mess, and most parts are still that way. I ignore the messes, don't get discouraged by them and organise one room at a time. In this room that I've chosen, I do at least one thing every day. I am nearly finished with the first room, all because I started one day by packing only one box of clutter.
Small steps, but constantly done, will bring you where you want to be! Keep going and celebrate each little achievement! You gonna rock it🎉 getting aware of it and starting is the biggest challenge and you have already done it 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
I did something similar many years ago. However, until the whole house was done, I took one day a week and did the same amount I would do in two days. I picked Saturdays and did double the amount of organizing. I also made a repair basket. I put all the small things that needed repairing in that basket. At night when I sat with my family to talk or watch tv I worked on the repair basket. It was things like a shirt that needed a button or a nightlight that was in need of a touch of glue, a pocket that was sewn shut and needed a seam ripper. That sort of thing. It really helped.
I’m from North Eastern part of India. My grandpa taught me these habits when I was a kid. Putting shoes in proper order, maintaining correct posture, putting chair in place are some things he taught me. Others are organizing closet and books in orderly manner, organizing study table, making bed every morning. He also made me iron my school uniforms, polish my shoes and sort my books before bed so that everything will be ready for school the next day. These are some good habits my grandpa taught me that I want to pass on to my kids.
Isn’t that what every parent teaches their child? Not to wait until the last minutes because you’ll be late and feel rushed. Life can be more easy going when you take the time to prepare but I don’t want to plan so much I obsess and I think I feel no planing and just obsessed..hmmm
In my country 🇩🇿 ⵣ we use the word " AZUL " in the beginning of a conversation or entering to a room ( most of the time it means hi or hello ) but actually "AZ" = come closer "UL" = means heart Which means come closer to my heart ( and I find that beautiful)
I'm half Amazigh myself and I've never knew this beautiful meaning "here (in Souss) it's officially usually used as Hello in radio stations etc., and rarely used in normal conversations) Thank you ! 🌼
It's not a "custom", but I've gotten into the habit of asking my MIL if she wants us to bring her dinner when we cook at home, even when I know she isn't particularly fond of the menu. I just want her to know that we appreciate everything she has done for us and that it is a privilege to be able to care for her in return.
Thank you. I felt so calm listening to you speak and seeing what wisdom you are sharing. I do live in gratitude most of the time, and there is always room for improving.
I am British, but do all of the things you suggest on the video. I clean the toilet every time I use it, even other people's toilets. it's not really about humility, just good manners for the next user. I am not rich, but I am happy with my life. I don't want material possessions, I want to play music, meet friends and celebrate nature. Which I do. I like to strike up conversations with strangers and just be polite to everyone I meet. I wake up early, usually 6am. This can change according to seasons however. I am sixty years old, fit and healthy. I do a lot of cycling and I cook all the food I eat from fresh ingredients, absolutely no takeaways or fast food. Maybe I have Japanese genes in my body? Probably not, but good general advice! Love and peace.
@@ApexaKShah Hello! I have some tips that may help, from my experience. Try going to bed earlier, waking up at the same time everyday (your body will get used to it), and putting your alarm across the room (this way you will have to get up from the bed to switch it off). Open your blinds and window as soon as you wake up, and do something you like and will look forward to -for me that is having a healthy breakfast every morning, but it can also be going for a walk, reading, yoga, a warm shower. I hope this helps you!! Have a nice day.
That's a good personality, actually you are rich in spiritual life, when we do good to others and the world, the good will come back to us, and it gives good model for our next generation, thank you kind people🙏🏻
This a is wonderful reminder that inner cleaning is just as important as outer cleaning. These 8 habits are seemingly small, but very powerful. How you do even a small thing is how you do everything
Thank you for this list. I will just say I am not a very tidy person, things are out of place a lot in my house. I would say I am generally a helpful, humble, grateful person. I like how you show that developing these habits help to form character and a good frame of mind. I have recently retired and hope to create a more welcoming organized and lovely setting in my home.
One word I describe to Japanese people ….they have “DISCIPLINE “ the key to have a clean country and environment…Appreciate your video, I learn a lot and might follow 😍..Thank you! Arigatō! 😁
The world has so much to learn from the Japanese culture. Manners, respect, cleaniness, kind-hearted, punctunual. We should take part of this more in the Western world.
The whole world has so much more to learn from Christ and Christianity!!! And it has! In fact, Christianity has taught the world far more than any other culture or belief system! Japanese people are nice people but they are absolutely not a good example for every good habit that brings life eternal. Their main problem is their false gods and worship of money.
I live in Canada and my mother taught us this saying “early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise”. Lovely to think that another culture also believes in the benefits of this way of living. Regarding keeping your shoes organized, I am so OCD about that I can’t leave my house if the shoes aren’t lined up 😂. I love the idea of saying thank you before eating to remind us of everyone who is part of making it possible for that food to be on our table and the gratitude that we should be expressing. I will be sure to share this video with my grown children! Thank for this simple but beautiful message on how to live a happy and contented life. 🤗💕🇨🇦.
Love how the word 'Children' is used in your vocabulary! The use of the word 'kids' for a substitute I find very disrespectful . The definition of kid's in the English dictionary in one form is "UNRULLY" never want to tag that on any child I meet in life. So refreshing each time to see and read "Children" ..Thank You for the joy !!♥
@@helenfreeman9442 Thank you Helen, I really appreciate your comment. Whenever I see or hear the term “kids” I always think of baby goats and although my children while growing up could be unruly at times they were never goats, 😂🤣.
@@glendabilinsky5528 Together we can work toward retaining the correct meaning to thousands ! May the force be with You. 😄The memories are so valuable so are good people. May be peace always be with you.
Early to rise, early to bed, makes a man healthy but socially dead. I find people who go to bed before 10pm are the ones that are burnt out and have no life.
If you ever listen to anything while reading comments, let it be this - go to borlest and read the book whispers of manifestation, then come back and thank me
#5 is a great one. It’s really about doing the right thing when it is easy. Putting back the chair, turning off the light when leaving the room, saying good morning to the person in the reception etc are all easy to do but still makes a difference for other people
OMG you're EXCELLENT! My mom is Mexican born and raised in the Philippines and all of what you have said is part of her day-to-day routine and she passed it down to us and I find these practices so satisfying. Thank you so much for this wonderful video .
I cleaned my toilet today. It led to a major Spring cleaning in the bathroom and I'm SO HAPPY! Thank you. Just for tomorrow, I'm going to do it again. :)
I have a habit of thanking the rain any time it rains. I even sit outside to smell and feel the cool weather and fresh clean air that is swept though the land. Rain has the meaning of fresh and new life to me. I will also thank the birds every morning. They bring songs of joy and the sound of life around my tiny slice of heaven. It really does make me feel better after I do these things.
@@jacquelineireland2273 I used it to mop the floor and it was amazing. I like to use lemon peel aswell if I have lemons. I blend it and make tea first and then use for cleaning. It works good on the toilet aswell or even in the washing machine if you don't mind a bit of peel left on your clothes. Also quite good on the hair, teeth and even internally although grapefruit is best for that.
Wow. I thought I was the only one that thanked the rain. I see it was providing life for plants to grow so we can have food to start the food chain which will eventually get to me. Plus if the plants are thriving, we’re getting oxygen that fuels our bodies and keeps us alive.
We are a Dutch family that uses "Itadakimasu" for every meal! When our children were born, we look for a ritual to begin meals. We are not really into praying, but wanted to do something. Then I came across the Japanese Itadakimasu, I fell in love with the meaning! So we use that now, our kids are now 6 and 8 years old and love it too. (we have to explain a lot when we have guests haha!)
One cultural practice in Japan that I appreciate so much is the communal understanding of public expression. What I mean comes from the Japanese expression, 空気読める (Kuuki yomeru), which means "the ability to read the air". In a lot of western society, the desire to read the air or understand what is happening in a given context is relatively absent. In takes a grand situation for many Americans, for example, to unite. In Japan, however, almost every public situation has an air about it that should be honored. This may seem stifling, but it actually helps to make the country feel like a well-oiled machine, because unnecessary expression is frowned upon, as it is seen as a selfish move that interrupts what is happening in the moment. For example, if we are out drinking in celebration of someone's birthday, the focus should be on 1) the person we are celebrating and 2) the party itself. When you introduce something outside of those two points, it should at least be connected to one of those two points. Otherwise people may say, 「空気読めない」(Kuuki yomenai), which means you are unable to read the air. In the west, especially in a country like America that values individualism and freedom over everything else, this may not be seen as a positive cultural trait. However, this is why we do not see a lot of aggressiveness, violence, anger, hate, and more in Japan, because unnecessary commentary and actions are few and far between, whereas in a country like America, aggressiveness, violence, anger, and hate are displayed regularly in all contexts. This is why when foreigners go to Japan, they almost immediately recognize how peaceful and organized the country is, and then they also realize how safe the country is because of this wonderful trait. Compare that to America once again, and it is like night and day. Many foreigners that come to America do have fears of being around a violent situation, and that is understandable. When you come from a group-oriented culture and enter an individualistic culture, those differences are thick and oftentimes scary, but when you go from an individualistic culture to a group-oriented culture, you would be surprised by the amount of foreigners that find a lot of good with such a culture and environment. That's why I love this past of Japanese society the most.
I have to disagree with that. This kind of "light communication" has its own negative traits, which can be quite heavy on how people live and enjoy their lives. Kuuki yomenai, in the words of Japanese people that I know, is extremely embedded in their culture, to the point that it is considered highly anti-social to express disagreement, or to take a strong position on something. This also affects relationships and communication inside the household. At the cost of destroying a marriage, no discussion and no "unpeaceful" moments must be created. This has led to less communication, connection, intimacy, and sharing of emotions for generations. Young people have less ex and intimacy moment sharing than any other generation, and their parents do not communicate about their issues, do not talk about their feelings, sleep in separate rooms, and consider themselves roommates rather than a family. This is so widespread in Japan that the levels of loneliness and isolation have grown exponentially, leading to one of the lowest birthrate in the developed part of the world, a huge mental-health crisis that goes mostly unsolved and unchecked, and a creepingly high level of suicide. While, in certain doses, being considerate towards others is great to maintain social order, the Japanese social order has reached toxic levels in certain areas of life that I cannot objectively be a fan of, nor anybody should, apart from very small enclaves of super-introverted people. My Japanese gf has been showing me how this affected people around her and herself, and I learned a lot about in the West we glorify these elements, blinded by the lights of "a cohesive society", while the US deals with gender wars and the EU tries to fight gas prices. but i think there is a lot to be careful about such high levels of cohesiveness when they actually cut your human emotions and their sharing of them with other people.
@@pussavia I lived in Japan for over 10 years, and I can confidently tell you that this practice, when done right, is wonderful. Sure, there are people and certain structures that abuse it, but that it not the case most of the time. For example: In America, if I am having a bad mental health day, the amount of times people invade my space, try to talk to me, offer unwanted advice, and more is obnoxious. It is as if these people do not realize that I am not in need of their random efforts. In Japan, under the same circumstance, I can peacefully travel on a train without being invaded by others, including in the massively populated Tokyo area. Sure, this isn't always positive, as certain interactions can lead to positive upticks, but there is a sense of invasion in America culture, for example, that does not respect boundaries or space, whereas in Japan, space is very respected. I miss that thoroughly.
That is, because Japan is still a highly closed society, where everyone speaks the language and is raised almost the same way minus some regional prefecture differences. So the pressure to fit in is much higher than in Western countries where you always can find a community to escape from such blending in seamlessly. The US are a multi-cultural society with a WASP layer above it, but this veneer is becoming thinner and thinner, so I see your answer as a yearning for a society resembling an insect-like swarm intelligence, where everybody is thinking and feeling the same and thus there is no friction. Reading the air, when it is a constructive atmosphere in which I feel welcome and cared for, is a wonderful thing, but when I see that in a certain social bubble jerks and mean people have the saying and everyone in this bubble is following them unhesitantly without questioning this and that, I don't want to breathe or read that air - regardless if in the US or in Japan.
I lived in Germany, as a teenager, and to me-- it was the cleanest country I'd ever lived in! I loved seeing the bedding in the windows--being freshened, the beautiful flowers and shockingly clean woods! I don't remember the name of it he place, but our Dad took us to a beautiful wooded area with a clear stream running through it, with huge boulders in the water-- And what has always stood out to me, and struck me-- was that there was sitting benches and large trash cans there!😲-- and not one piece of trash anywhere to be seen😃! I firmly believe that every child or adult needs to travel to another country-- and learn to appreciate their culture as it is--without jumping in and trying to change it to comply with Western individualism!
Thankyou for making an accessible video, which is inspiring and not impossible to facilitate what you say. Very hopeful for the future! Feeling grateful.
I have had a tremendous shift in my appreciation for ideas and things since I've gotten older. At 80 I see many things, actions, people, ideas much differently than just 5 years ago. Thank you for a very informative and inspirational video. I was hearing what you meant.
It has been a great experience learning about 8 small Japanese habits. Thank you for sharing. I practically fo am all with a basic difference of belief because I am a Muslim. 1. I clean our toilets at home daily and even more often. 2. I always organise my shoes and even my husband's because it is not important for him. 3. I always sit with my back straight and walk with an upright posture, I am 60 years old and do not suffer any back pains. 4. I always leave my chair properly because I hate disorder. In fact, I make my bed and tidy up before I leave any room. 5. Being a Muslim, I say "Bismillah" before eating and "Alhamdulilah " when I fish eating. It means I begin eating with the name of Allah, the creator of the universe, and when I finish eating, I thank Allah for the meal. 6.When I get up in the morning , I wash my private parts hands, hands mouth, nose, face, fore arms, and feet to get ready for 'Salahtul Fajr' our morning prayer before sunrise. In our all five daily prayers, we thank Allah and ask for His guidance and help. 7. I and my husband go to a park near our house for a brisk walk for 40 minutes. 8. When I meet people, I say, "Assalamulaikum ", it means may peace and blessings be upon you. I hope you will find my 8 simple habits interesting. I have worked as a teacher for decades. You and I have the profession, and we share many of our habits. It was great watching your video.
The first five habits are habits my mother taught all of us, and she taught my brother's how to cook and sew and clean since she said that no guarantees a woman would marry them. All my brothers are very happily married and their wives have a jewel of a husband.
Same for my brothers. Mom said the same thing. They all cook, clean, rear children, bake cakes /cook and make repairs where needed. My sis in laws are fortunate. 🤗
@@Gidget_B_czt38 It's a shame that more so-called 'mothers' are in the business of raising sociopathic narcissists as 'men', and unleashing them on some poor woman/society.
My habits living alone: - put the shoes back - out the chair back - turn off lights in rooms i am not in. - try to keep all surfaces clean (work in progress) I am also trying to: - have a place for everything and declutter what I don’t need so i always put everything back into its place so it stays clean. - vacuum more than ones a week. - eat meals at a set time. - drink more water - get dressed even days i stay home(instead of walking in pajamas)
Oh dear I don't do any of that, ok I live in a mess but I'm totally happy!!! No responsibility no stress, I don't have to do anything!!! I have had a wonderful life, for over 10 years as I am retired and I am a total Hermit!! I must admit, however, that I had a very stressful and tragic life and a demanding and responsible job!
I defenitely agree on your last point. Because getting dressed makes me more productive to study then in night dress....if not ful formal dress atleast to some extent dressing up nice like we go out guess has something to do...
My cousin gave me good advice when I had cancer treatment: change out of your pajamas on a daily basis, as it will help you feel better. And it held true. It somehow felt like I had a bit more energy or an improved outlook, especially at a time when you are depleted of strength/energy.
As an Indian, I was taught to do exactly these things so this comes to me naturally now as an adult. So it was surprising to know all these were Japanese habits except for using the term Itadakimasu cause in my head I felt like these were simple basic everyday things that everyone did... It is fascinating to find out these habits are not done by many and I am happy that you made this video which gives awareness to others who haven't yet taken up these habits because they certainly do improve the quality of life
Same thoughts. We call the sun salutation as surya namaskar. Sun representing our soul gets energized as our solar system is receiving energy from the Sun, food and photosynthesis everything life around and even the planets revolving around needs the Sun in place, we thank in reverence for what we receive in abundance for free, graciously. Also we have astrological remedies that say cleaning toilets makes you humble because it's Saturnian energy in the Universe you're working on and because of which your work or boss related issues will settle on its own when you do this. Same goes for cleaning and keeping the footwear in order. And about posture its always emphasised in hatha yoga and kriya yoga. Dhyana or meditation needs a straight posture or aasana which is when the spiritual cord connection to our soul happens. Always maintaining an alertness requires this posture to be maintained.
Thank you so much! I grew up this way thanks to loving and devoted parents. I am from Quito-Ecuador. I am deeply grateful for all who follow this simple but very important ways for an organized and clean life,❤
Sitting here in my big feelings. I lost my mom recently and have tried to put myself back together after losing her. This list (save for physically cleaning the toilet more) are all things I have subconsciously been trying to work on. Seeing it all in one video has me feeling content. I'm on the right path. It may also be a sign I need to clean my toilets more 🤣🤦♀️. I saw that I wasn't subscribed, which was odd because I'm sure I subscribed to this channel. I hit subscribe, and my mom's account popped up rather than mine. I guess she's still trying to help me live my best life. Thank you, mom. I miss/love you.
Your mom is so lucky she had you to love her! I've been through a couple of horrible losses in my life. Habits and routines saved me and can save you... Get up and get dressed right away. Make your bed. Say a prayer. Then do the next thing that needs to be done today. If you start to fall down the grief hole, ask yourself what you should be doing right now. Go do it. God bless.
I don’t believe in coincidence, everything happens for a purpose so your mom’s sending you an “I love you, keep up your routine” from the other side. I also have lost my mom and many others in a very short period of time and the things that keep me leading towards health are sharing with and listening to the people I love the most. All God’s blessings on you and may your heart continue to heal.♥️♾️
Love and light dear Hellena. Stay strong and keep the little things in order and you be good. Life isn't the same after a loved one passes away from this temporary world. Couldn't not respond to the fact your moms acc came up...❤
I grew up in Germany but a lot of these habits resonate with me. I clean my toilet every day and make my bed every day and organize the shoes for everyone in the house. I always put my chair back and always thought this was just me but makes a lot of sense now. Grateful. 😊 thank you for this
My mother used to tell me about Marlene Dietrich saying that if you're angry or upset to do housework and put that energy to use. Also I read about the American poet Sylvia Plath who came from a multi-generational household that included her German grandparents. When Sylvia Plath married the British poet Ted Hughes and visited his family in Yorkshire in England Sylvia Plath wrote to her saying how much she wanted to clean her mother-in-law's kitchen!
same here, Birgit, I am from Germany too. I do the same things automatically .. I also dry the sink in the bathroom after getting ready. These are things my parents taught me and that annoyed me at times as a kid but now it is something I do not think about just like brushing teeth or drinking when thirsty.. simple but effective acts of courtesy to others that have the benefits to make you feel good yourself.
The same in Italy. When I was younger there was also more attention to posture and awareness of the body in the space. The social aspect (and how they impact your capability of being social) of all these cultural habits is so interesting. 😊
One thing I have always loved about Japanese people is that they WANT to share their culture with other people, and have no problem with other people trying/adopting any of their customs if it benefits their life and do so respectfully.
Keeping toilet clean ☑️ Tidy shoes ☑️ Putting chair back ☑️ Being grateful ☑️ Going to bed early ☑️ Getting up early (working on it). Appreciate my surroundings ☑️ My habits can seem trivial to those around me but to me they mean a lot.
I’m from america, and a lack of consideration to our fellow humans is one of the greatest sources of suffering for us. I like the way you think and will try my best to incorporate these great lessons into my own life. ありがとうございます！
Haha u didn't read history did you Japan is ruthless hinduism civilized most of Europe because they looted other countries to much it took 2 world wars for them and continue to loot of resources from 3rd world countries by dollar ponzi system
Two really useful things I’ve learned this week. Never leave a room empty handed Don’t put it down ……..put it away. Today is the start of my new soon to become habits.
This video gave me chills and I felt my eyes feel up with water out of happiness. Thank you so much for thie video. I will be sharing it with my husband when he gets home from work. Also, I just subscribed. You are wonderful.
Much love from Egypt. Many of the habits that you mentioned as being present in Japan are also found in the Middle East. However, it is unfortunate that our younger generations are not really following these traditions as much as in the past.
Yes, Japanese are very close to Islam but yet so far. All the things he has mentioned are present in the islamic culture except for the shirk ( associating partners to God)
This is my first time seeing one of your videos and it was brought to me randomly through suggested videos. You’ve inspired such wellness and gratitude first thing in my morning. Thank you for sharing these good habits and for your cheerful demeanor ❤ such a delight to watch & listen.
Yes I do almost everything you say everyday because I am a housewife, and I follow gratitude practice, self affirmations and possibly meditate for some time, but my husband makes fun of me, but I completely ignore that. Thank you so much for the video, love from India
I am sorry that your husband makes fun of you. That is not nice or supportive… but I am sure his arse appreciates the clean toilet though. 🙄 Keep your head up and keep doing what brings you joy!! ❤️🙏
I would like to recommend looking up Phil and Maude's blog "How Two Have a Successful Relationship". You can both be happier with their simple practice!
I have to say that I’ve always admired the Japanese culture. I’m from Colombia, S.A. and we have very similar customs. I find the Japanese people to be very humble and compassionate. I wish we had more people following these habits here in the U.S.
@@sibymathews182 please remember we too in USA had concentration camps, the American cutlure has participated in genocide (the deliberate killing of a large number of people from a particular nation or ethnic group with the aim of destroying said nation or group). Now, We live in a time where we can value and see the beauty in each other❤️ You also said "the arrogance that brought world war 11", i hope you are not implying that an emotion (the emotion of arrogance), which you have generalized amongst an entire country and culture of people, was not a reason that "brought a war". And as Jimmy Carter stated, "We become... a beautiful mosaic. Different people, different beliefs, different yearnings, different hopes, different dreams." As Franklin D Roosevelt said in 1945, “...we must cultivate... human relationships - the ability of all peoples, of all kinds, to live together, in the same world at peace. “ 💕☀️✨
In Turkish culture when someone makes a meal for you, help you in some way or they accomplish something notable with hard/careful work, we say to them what translates into "may your hands be healthy." It's a nice way to express gratitude and thoughtfulness about other people's efforts.
I spent a year and a day in Japan and loved every day. However, one of the reasons I enjoyed it so much was that I spent two weeks learning basic Japanese and cultural norms. It really helped me fit in and appreciate Japanese customs. Public toilets were quite clean considering the population, and I always accepted the free tissues handed out at rail stations.
I can actually feel the atmosphere change after i clean my house. It just feels lighter and more enjoyable. Even tho it was strait before, just cleaning makes the difference
it is always good to remind oneself that no matter what, we are lucky to be alive and to be surrounded by so many good people and imagine how many awesome days are there to come!
I stayed and work in Japan for 4 years. I learned alot from Japanese culture. I follow and practise them until now back home in Malaysia. Respect the Japanese. Experienced all the beautiful things there. Missed Japan so much especially the organisation I worked with, NHk Japan, Shibuya Tokyo❤
Really enjoyed this video. I lived in Japan for two years as an English teacher so I saw a lot of these in action. I try to incorporate a lot of what I learned there into my life now. (Now I teach third grade in Colombia.) For example, my apartment is a no-shoe zone! And I’m a lot more organized than I used to be! And I tell my students to think about the cleaners who clean the school and pick up after themselves!
When I give the children in my community a treat, I always tell them I don't want to see the rapper or bottle on the ground please bring it back to me and we will put it in the trash!
In the Uk we always put the chairs on the table at the end of the day in school. It was incase the cleaners wanted to sit down while they were working. lol.
I adopted all of these habits, just out of living and learning, and I will say that they really have helped my life change! Gratitude and cleanliness and humbling oneself and appreciating what you have all have changed me so much!
Just discovered Samurai Matcha. He shares such a natural, positive philosophy of life. His own open, happy personality make these ideas easy to accept.
Moving to Germany, it was challenging at first. Changing habits but now I love that I wear house shoes at everyones house, it keeps everything cleaner. I like how people think about their neighbours and community more (cleaning the street outside of thier house, removing snow and leaves) , getting up earlier etc. Taking the time for small things can make such a big difference for yourself and so many others.
In Germany people mostly make it nice and green around their places and many have flowers, even if they are renting. In Canada not very many do this any more, except the older generation. Many don’t care if there is a big stump in the yard and the front garden is full of dead plants from 3 years ago. Not much respect for nature or for themselves.
What a wonderful synchronization! I’ve been practicing most of these independently. Most recently, for about the last month, I’ve been waking up early; enjoying the day break; and doing my first prayer. It’s had an enormously positive impact on my life as a whole. Thank you 🙏
8:00 This advice is very close to the words of Zen master 沢庵 宗彭 (Takuan Soho) "足ることを知るは、極楽の国なり" "Knowing what is enough is the land of paradise." Lovely sentiments all around, even when cleaning the toilet. Come to think of it, Joshu the Zen master advised a novice after eating to "Wash your bowl", to do what is necessary and considerate. It makes sense to tidy up and see the value in small humble tasks.
00:00 8 Japanese habits to incorporate daily that can make your life better 01:56 Clean toilets lead to higher household income and humility. 03:41 Developing small habits can make you feel good 05:19 Good posture can improve your way of thinking. 06:59 Cultural values of putting back chairs and being thankful 08:26 Appreciate what you have 09:45 Learn about Japanese culture: Okagesama and sleeping habits 11:11 Bathing in the fresh morning sun makes us happy Crafted by Merlin AI.
In USA, it is often said making your bed in the morning is a habit of highly successful people. I think it is similar to the toilet cleaning. Beng humble enough to do a basic chore and self-disciplined to be consistent. It also creates a positive environment. Ben Franklin was also a big proponent of early bedtime and waking up early. “Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.” Love the shoe idea! Going to try to get the kids I watch to do this. I actually sprained my ankle on someone’s shoe once and the shoe shelf isn’t big enough for all the shoes; so maybe this will help. When I ran an aftercare program. I had the kids line up their backpacks & stuff in a line on the edge of the basketball court and it made for a better experience. It took a few times till they got and some occasional reminders but mostly they did it on their own. When picked up they knew exactly where they had left their stuff and the tripping hazards were gone.
There's a saying in American English "Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise." I think that it is up to the individual to decide what "early" is for them. Early to rise to me means 6 am, but for my spouse it means 8 am. That's totally ok :) we all need different amounts of sleep.
I quite often wake up at 5 and go back to sleep at 7. Apparently it was quite normal to wake up in the night before electricity since people would go to bed so early. In winter it would be a very long night. I think staying up late can be quite therapeutic. There is a different energy and it can be the time you feel happier and more imaginative. It is not to say getting up early isn't good but only that in some circumstances staying up late makes sense. When I was depressed the day was not so great. Also diet seems to have a lot to do with it like I don't need to sleep so much as I did when I ate animal products so it is easier to stay up late and still get up early.
We have the same saying in the UK. There is no direct truth to it, but I know it’s the sentiment, the call to action to be consistent and aware of the benefit of sleep but also getting your day off to a good start. Don’t forget the American English saying from How I Met Your Mother - “nothing good happens after 2 am”.
@@gallakochar4245 it may be true to you or a few, but it is the mindset and actions of the individual in the circumstances they are presented that make it appear true. Thus it can’t be true for everyone
Hello, I am an Indian Expat teacher from the UAE. ❤ I was already following two of these habits mentioned in the video. You motivated me to inculcate and follow a few more habits further. Thanks a ton. ❤😊
We share a similar connection... While japanese people says "Itadakimāsu" before they take the food, we muslims also say "Alhamdulillah" after the food is taken, meaning 'All praises to the almighty lord' As a gratitude for the food I'm being able to eat and start eating by "Bismillah"❤
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I'm glad to have seen the video. If you get the chance, I encourage you to explore Islam - you'll surely be amazed
Whenever I am in a bad mood. I clean or organize something. Trust me it really helps. Every one should try it.
That's a great idea!!! 👍 I will take up on that and improve myself ❤ A thought just popped up in my head: so much violence and angry people in society ..... a way to calm their mind (like this advice) to curb negative outcome is foremost.
It does! It has helped me a lot, and helps me put my energy towards something rather than just sitting there stressed out or upset.
That made me smile because I have noticed that when I am cleaning the house it puts me into a bad mood ha ha! I end up irritated by other people's mess that I have to clean up. I don't mind cleaning the toilet though 😆
I have always done that, instinctively. It somehow turns the negative feelings into productive behaviors. Best therapy ever! 👍
Same here
Cleaning your toilet is NOT gross. NOT cleaning your toilet is GROSS!
who doesn.t clean their toilet?
Exactly, I like cleaning the toilet, my toilet😂
Both are gross
Exactly! 🚽
Exactly, I am Cuban living in Miami. I clean the toilets in my house everyday.
1. clean your toilet
2. organize your shoes
3. improve your posture
4. itadakimasu (gratitude)
5. put the chair back after using it
6. ware tada taruwo shiru (knowing that you are content will bring peace to your heart)
7. okagesamade (I am good)
8. going to bed early and getting up early
Awesome.
Big changes happen through changes in habits, so these are great.
To add, under #7, he said it also has a meaning of being grateful for the people around you.
Thank you so matcha!
What do you mean? Are there people who DON’T clean their toilet? 😮
I hate this sort of comments, for cheap likes. It makes ma want to not finish a video :|
I do clean my toilet every day. I do keep my shoes organized, even in the USA, my Mom made us take our shoes off before we came into the house proper. My posture is a work in progress as I have MS. I am truly grateful for everything I have but haven’t always been. Not putting the chair back is a pet peeve of mine. It makes me feel disrespectful to whom ever house or restaurant as it isn’t their responsibility to straighten up after me. Being content does bring peace to my heart, not comparing myself to others has helped me tremendously. I’m always good because God is always Great! I like going to bed early and getting up early because it is a quiet time for Bible Study and reflection. Starting the Day and being alone with God is very important to me. Thank you for this vlog!
It makes such a difference to one's mental outlook, to spend just 5 minutes doing an essential daily task.
Thanks.
Because of this video, I have been cleaning my toilet every morning since Ramadan in late March or Early April of this year (2023). It’s now July and I have not missed a day. Some days, I deep clean, taking the seat off, deep cleaning the tank, et cetera, and some days I simply wipe it and clean the bowl. Placing my towel on the top of the tank without apprehension while I shower is my greatest reward to myself! This practice has changed my spirit and life enormously, and I will continue it for the rest of my life. Thank you so much for sharing all of these wonderful rituals!
If you have a good attitude and positive outlook, you can find meaning and joy in the smallest or simplest of tasks. I'd forgotten that for a while and this video has reminded me. Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm very glad this is improving your life. Have a lovely day!
Your on the right path 🙏
@@cherylalt101 What a beautiful takeaway! I'm excited for you! It sounds like this season of your life is going to bring immense wonders :")
Good content, very thought-provoking.
@@tayco8 thank you! I’m hoping so myself. Actually, I’m hoping for life to bring good things for everyone. It’s been hard going for much of the world lately and I truly wish it to be better for all of us. Have a very lovely day tayco!
My Mom is Japanese and does all of these! She is the most positive influence in my life! Thank you.
We are Muslim all these things are mentioned in our religion.though v r not good enough.but thanks Allah for such a nice religion.ISLAM
I am Hindu and yeah we also do that i mean who wouldn't like to do good to their life and maintain sustainability. Don't need to mention i do it or you do it. As a socioeconomic society we should do these along with many other good habits
Most French people are racist and rude toward the Muslims and other cultures. First y’all need to learn how to be polite and friendly then implement the Japanese culture .
@@rabiaarshad1593don’t lie . Females defending Islam is like chicken defending KFC 😂😂
@@simoneambroise6392Either you are cleverly joking or the stereotypes of intolerably rude French are accurate 😂
After watching the first few minutes of this video, I paused and went to clean my bathroom. Finally, I cleaned the whole house and now I'm back to finish watching 😅😊❤ thanks for the inspiration and positive information 🇧🇷
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I too paused to clean toilets haha and strangely felt sense of calm more so that other times. Maybe I was just more Aware of it being something calming and peaceful…, I feel it’s a mindset helper on a deeper level.. humbling yes 🙏
Good 👍
@@kerrygranville6029Why should we clean the toilet and take our shoes off and adopt the Japanese habits.
We won the war, they surrendered.
It's *we* who should be telling *them* what to do.
I lived in Japan as an American child. What a beautiful country!!! Wonderful people and culture. So very orderly. For me it was beauty and simplicity at finest level. ❤
Wow make me feel better about my country in which I have not felt proud of my country in a long time. Thank you
My first experience with Japanese culture was a tour group who was departing from our local airport. I had to tag their bags to their next destination. They all stood quietly in a line and waited patiently while I attended each bag. I showed each person the destination on the tag to confirm, they approved, I quickly affixed. I nodded approval to one lady for the nice scarf she had tied on her handle. My meaning was to compliment here for using such an attractive scarf to identity her luggage. She took it off and gifted it to me much to my embarrassment. I had not wanted to take it away from her. But it was done. I still have the scarf today more than 20 years later and am happy to say that in 17 years, this group was the most enjoyable passengers I have ever served. Considering we did not speak each other’s language, that is saying a lot.
Thank you for sharing this, it is so lovely! Xx
Then I can recommend you to visit Japan. We were and still are overwhelmed by the friendliness and helpfulness. Everywhere and always and from everyone. Chefs greet you when you come in and leave, clerks take a bow. Everyone is waiting in the queue. In one gift shop, where I didn't buy anything, I asked for chopsticks for my lunch. The lady apologized that unfortunately they didn't have any left. No problem, so I went on my way. The saleswoman ran after me and gave me the last two chopsticks she found after I left.
Thank you so much.
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Reading your wonderful comments brought tears to my eyes😪
We can certainly learn a lot from others Cultures if we just put in a lot more effort😘
1- cleaning Toilet
2- become Humble
3- Organise your room
4- Organise your shoes
5- Improve your posture
6- Thank you for meals
7- Gratitude for life
8- Put the chair Back after use
9- feel happy with what you have now
10- how are you ?
11- sleep early get up early
12- start small step
I have great respect for Japanese culture. I had very good experience with Japanese students.
I was looking comment box for this comment only
What kind of smile is that???
@WilliamCoutts-ww3ppIt's likely you have a right facing arrow as youe determination in your Human Design. :)
@WilliamCoutts-ww3pp The health benefits of adjusting your circadian rhythm say otherwise.
When I grew up, I was taught a couple very simple everyday rules:
1. if you take it out, you put it back
2. if you dirty/soil it, clean it
3. if you break it, fix it
4. if you lose it, replace/go look for it
5. if you hurt someone, apologize(unless you were attacked first)(this one is circumstancional)
6. try to be helpful/kind to everyone and anythings resp. value the world around you
Those are very basic rule to becoming a normal, decent, functioning member of society.
If you drop it , pick it up
If it cries love it , I was raised with similar values
However , I have noticed that my children’s Generation See apologising as a weakness where is as a child whether I meant the offence / accident or not I would immediately apologise .It always gors so far to making a situation better ✨
Excellent points. Agreed.😊
La 5ta podría aplicar: me disculpo porque tu no pudiste hacerlo por mi 😅
@@rooneyjagoboo i wonder if all of you are asians. i notice most caucasians especially the younger generation are not like this. just last week one east european mother told me her kids litter and she said they dont like doing it but she tell them to do it because they are in uk but in their homecountry she wouldnt care. so it is about the norm or for appearance. but to me its about sense of belonging, sense of responsibility, respec etc..
@@rooneyjagoboo whats the better word for drop incase of solid food products like flour or bread anything will we say that u dropped the flour or tranfer the flour carefully else it will drop. finding a suitable word
It's true. Cleaning and organizing is highly therapeutic. Scrubbing the bathroom, doing dishes, cleaning shoes, folding laundry, vacuuming, washing your car, etc. It's all mindful therapy.
Somewhere I read or saw someone say that "Tidy people never leave a room empty handed" So now I have made it a habit of whenever I leave a room to have a look around whether there is something that doesn't belong and I can take with me to whichever room I am going to. It helps a lot actually.
My mother always said, "Take something with you when you go." So I started doing that about a year ago. Not just from room to room, but also within a room. This works especially well in the kitchen. If I am on one end, and going to the other where the sink and trash are, I look to see if there is anything that needs to go in the sink or in the trash. I also started a habit of saying, "What can I do for five minutes that needs doing?" Sometimes chores take a long time and we put them off. But by doing a chore for five minutes, even if we don't finish, we at least get started. Later I can do it again for five more minutes. I did this in the past few days putting a new yard tool together.
@@yellowbird5411 Mine said that too! Are we sisters?!! My mother always said, "Every time you stand up, put something away."
I do this! I always take something out of a room with me. Unfortunately, it gets set down in the next room.
I call this "step-saver cleaning." I first tried it over 20 years ago, and I actually ran out of things to do without even realizing that I was cleaning my whole house!
I've been doing this! Mostly migrating dishes from my living room and bedroom back to the kitchen. It's working!
About #4, part of my family's prayer before meals is "bless the hands that have prepared it". As it is explained to each generation, a lot of people worked to plant, grow, harvest, package, ship, and cook the food that is now on the table. Gratitude keeps us humble in good ways.
All Buddhist ☸ have to do this before eating ,wearing a cloth,to your shelter.
I’d love to hear your family’s prayer!
We all eat everyday thanks to these unseen human chains, without them only a few will survive in today's world.
FOREVER GRATEFUL 🙏🏼
I am grateful for your videos. Many people overlook the very simple things that make society polite which is many humans together enabling them to be functional. Thanks
As an Indian my parents taught us these too.. Glad to know how different cultures are fundamentally similar
Really? Never met anyone who did these. Why do the Indian people throw so much garbage then?
So why is the country so dirty? 😆
@@HeavyStorm74 being honest in India people like to keep their house clean instead of roads i know its bad ...but this is how it is
@@HeavyStorm74 because Indian are not following their culture they are copying West and bollywood.
I wanna say something. I heard you talk about this cleaning the toilet every day thing. I listened, scowling and thinking, ‘I just cleaned the toilet 3 or 4 days ago!’ But I have a ton of respect for Japanese culture and wisdom, so I tried to keep an open mind.
The next morning, I look at the toilet. Trying to recreate what you said, I say out loud, “…you will be surprised at what you find that needs attention here and in other areas of your life.” So, I do it. Suddenly, I feel #proud (of how clean the vitreous China bowl has become). Not that it was dirty, but now I KNOW it is clean. This feeling of proud, has become a foreign emotion and I made a note.
The next day, I cleaned the toilet again. I rush through the task, trying to move on to the next thing on my “to do” list. I realize, I live a too full life. What needs to be wiped off the list that would make space for more important or meaningful experiences?
Day 3, I clean the toilet, thinking I need to be mindful of what cleansers I am using. Strong acidic cleansers will erode the drain pipe and make for costly repairs. Later I realize, I’ve fallen behind in my bookkeeping. I may have lots of money circling the drain because I have not been recording it’s usage. Not paying attention, over time will erode away my finances. Is it time to clean out (cancel) old subscriptions? Am I paying for too much convenience? (Remembering what I said about feeling proud, I think) What will that cost me, down the line?
What I am saying is, this cleaning the toilet daily has been single-handedly one of the most powerful exercises I’ve incorporated into my daily life so far. I get it now.., and thank you, for sharing these powerful insights.
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Awesome thanks for writing this up
Thank you. Valuable insight
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I thought about cleaning the toilet after watching this video, but after reading your comment I actually got up and did it. Hope I clean it again tomorrow. Thanks for encouragement.
Wonderful!
As a kid my mother was dating a Japanese man who changed our lives! Only for the better :)
The thoughtfulness and quiet way of enjoying life with gratitude and being considerate were invaluable lessons.
David Sedaris wrote a story about when he quit smoking and moved to Japan, I remember him talking about how he marveled at families on the train. How well behaved the kids were and how the parents were so considerate about the kids not leaving a mess…he said something about how we should all try to do and be more like the Japanese.
OMG, yes!!! I remember that, too. How the parents would wipe any smudges their children left on the train. No graffiti. A peaceful public commute. Almost unbelievable to this American.
But Japanese people are less creative because of their over disciplined.
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I wonder - does an American realize how TRULY GREAT they too are, perhaps even greater?
Most don't KNOW who they are - only what they are told.
Do you understand the significance of Being American? in God's eyes?
America is God's country - it CHANGED the world and is the GREATEST COUNTRY ever!
Self loathing and the 'exotic other' are forms of psyche warfare USED as a weapon against
The West and particularly Americans BY DESIGN.
You may begin to notice that there are A LOT of FAKE things about life that previously
were not known to you and others - those things are now being EXPOSED because
God has made it so.
In other words - ALL FALSE/ARTIFICIAL things are being EXPOSED so that
ONLY REAL will be possible for ALL people everywhere.
This is ONLY TRULY possible in America, because again - it is God's Country.
As Goes America - So Goes The World.
Deny this, revile me but watch and see what happens.
There is a REASON everyone LEAVES their homeland to come to America
and NOT the other way around. Consider WHO your ancestors TRULY were
and WHAT it is that they accomplished WHICH IS UNPRECENTED in Human History.
God Bless Everyone!
😀yeah, people in Chicago could use a few of these social lessons! Some of that courtesy would go along way in all these various ethnic and (political) groups here
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I've worked as a custodian numerous times. Creating a spotless bathroom is very soul satisfying, and I appreciate those who leave it as clean as I left it!
You are so appreciated sir; thank you. ♥️♥️♥️
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A person who cleans toilets.
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Someone who cleans for a living...Also called "janitor."@@itsbonkerjojo9028
I was taught many of these growing up as well, in America! You always push your chair in, you always say thank you, always be considerate of others, take your shoes off and leave them politely and cleanly near the door. So many of these are simply considerate ways of acting towards others, and being clean in your home, but it's neat to see how important they are in Japanese culture - the toilet cleaning thing is so fascinating! But it IS a humbling act, and everyone should have to do some toilet cleaning in life, to know what it is to be humble - to slow down and take more time to clean and be appreciative of their space, etc. Thank you for these insights!
Here in Sicily I learned from my parents that respect for others is in little things. Put back the chair, leave the coach tidy, close the doors, leave everything as you found it means to have respect for others coming after you. I will do everything I can to teach my sons the same things.
This. I was taught that the essence of courtesy, or manners, is making those around you comfortable. This underlies so many rules, such as chewing with our mouth closed, sitting up over our plate, etc.
I prefer to do it for myself and have the byproduct result for other's benefit. It comes doown to the same outcome but I prefer to have the reason I do things be for me. It's just a different mindset. Put yourself in your focus, it'll make you care less about unimportant things
I was taught this too ❤ Grateful I was, but… I feel like I’m the only one “these days”. God willing my sons will learn this too
At church we have a sign,
If you turn it on, turn it off, if you borrow it return it
If you open it, close it.
And if you lose it, replace it! On another flyer:
Arrive early-- and don't make a haystack of yourself at the beginning of the Pew-- move down so that others may enter in more comfortably.
Our motto is leave a space better than you found it. Love this!
Hi Aki. I'm from Azerbaijan🇦🇿. These what you said are same in our culture. My mother taught them to me.When I saw this video, I became more aware of what I was doing every day. My mother, our ancestors left us great teachings and values. I became more aware of them. I do home chores every day. I sweep all of rooms, mop the house ( all rooms) , wash dishes, make food ( lunch, dinner, morning meal) etc. Everyyyy dayy. MY MOM, ETERNALLY THANKS FOR YOUR PRECIOUS RULES, VALUES, CHORES WHAT YOU TAUGHT ME.❤ Thank youu soo much my beautiful,miraculous momm❤❤.....
1 - Clean the toilet
2 - Organize your shoes
3 - Improve your posture
4 - Itadakimasu
5 - Put the chair back after using it
6 - Ware tada taruwo shiru (Knowing that you're content, will bring peace to your heart)
7 - Okagesama (I'm good, thanks to all of you)
8 - Go to bed early, and wake up early
I do rhe first 6 except I thought it was OCD
1. taking a massive morning shit
2. not flushing, so the next person can admire your piece of art
3 throwing your undies with skid marks across the room
4. never take off your shoes, saves your the task of organizing them
5. slouch to be comfortable
6.overeat and grab leftovers from plates. Stuff yourself, so you got a good load for the next days bathroom routine
7. get wasted everyday
8. get a grill and and a big ass gold chain, show other people what you got.
9. party all night and wake up when you are sober
10. take shortcuts wherever you can
@@derbesteHanikalog off nowwwww 😂
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@derbesteHanika yuppp sounds like a real American! Hahaha
Thank you for putting a smile on my face and bringing joy to my day. I cleaned my toilet and made my bed - it's a small start but felt good afterwards!
We often overlook GRATITUDE..but once you start being mindful of it life just seems different
I think it's also because the practice of what we usually call "gratitude" is something that can be done in an inappropriate way. I think people overlook it because unfortunately, they may associate practicing gratitude with underestimating their personal problems or their suffering. This is not true. Gratitude is not about becoming judgemental with our own sufferings and our own issues. And, it's also not about "sweeping under the rug", denying or ignoring what needs to be resolved in our lives.
To my eyes, practicing gratitude is just that : take the habit to regularly take a look at all the positive things we already experience in our lives and where does it come from. When we ask ourselves about where it comes from, we will see that other people have participated (or still do) to make those positive things happen. So this will also help to feel more love, more compassion and more gratitude towards those people.
I love these principles. I am a way into a process that my brother-in-law motivated me to start. Our house was in a terrible, terrible mess, and most parts are still that way. I ignore the messes, don't get discouraged by them and organise one room at a time. In this room that I've chosen, I do at least one thing every day. I am nearly finished with the first room, all because I started one day by packing only one box of clutter.
Getting started is sometimes the hardest part. You've got this!
Small steps, but constantly done, will bring you where you want to be! Keep going and celebrate each little achievement! You gonna rock it🎉 getting aware of it and starting is the biggest challenge and you have already done it 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
I did something similar many years ago. However, until the whole house was done, I took one day a week and did the same amount I would do in two days. I picked Saturdays and did double the amount of organizing. I also made a repair basket. I put all the small things that needed repairing in that basket. At night when I sat with my family to talk or watch tv I worked on the repair basket. It was things like a shirt that needed a button or a nightlight that was in need of a touch of glue, a pocket that was sewn shut and needed a seam ripper. That sort of thing. It really helped.
Good for you! Keep it up! You GOT this👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@elijuh3thank you for the tips, repair basket ❤
I’m from North Eastern part of India. My grandpa taught me these habits when I was a kid. Putting shoes in proper order, maintaining correct posture, putting chair in place are some things he taught me. Others are organizing closet and books in orderly manner, organizing study table, making bed every morning. He also made me iron my school uniforms, polish my shoes and sort my books before bed so that everything will be ready for school the next day. These are some good habits my grandpa taught me that I want to pass on to my kids.
I teach this to my kids 😊
i'm from southern part of india brother...
asian countries have many similar habits
Wow this is awesome, what a legacy to pass on.
Isn’t that what every parent teaches their child? Not to wait until the last minutes because you’ll be late and feel rushed. Life can be more easy going when you take the time to prepare but I don’t want to plan so much I obsess and I think I feel no planing and just obsessed..hmmm
@@JHotchkiss-im7yk believe me. Not every parent teaches these values to their kids.
I often wake up at 5 a.m. and read books while drinking coffee ^^
Me too😅
I often read until 5 am
In my country 🇩🇿 ⵣ we use the word " AZUL " in the beginning of a conversation or entering to a room ( most of the time it means hi or hello ) but actually
"AZ" = come closer
"UL" = means heart
Which means come closer to my heart ( and I find that beautiful)
That's so beautiful, I love it! In my country 🇧🇷 "azul" means "blue", which is one of my favorite colors (and I also love the meanings of this color).
In Spanish, "azul" means blue too
That is lovely
I'm half Amazigh myself and I've never knew this beautiful meaning "here (in Souss) it's officially usually used as Hello in radio stations etc., and rarely used in normal conversations) Thank you ! 🌼
beautiful what you share. Wich country? what language?
It's not a "custom", but I've gotten into the habit of asking my MIL if she wants us to bring her dinner when we cook at home, even when I know she isn't particularly fond of the menu. I just want her to know that we appreciate everything she has done for us and that it is a privilege to be able to care for her in return.
That's a beautiful thing to do. Xx
I absolutely agree with you! Being organized in your surrounding helps you to be organized with your life ☺️
Preparation. Without preparation everything fails,unless very lucky.
Thank you. I felt so calm listening to you speak and seeing what wisdom you are sharing. I do live in gratitude most of the time, and there is always room for improving.
I am British, but do all of the things you suggest on the video.
I clean the toilet every time I use it, even other people's toilets. it's not really about humility, just good manners for the next user.
I am not rich, but I am happy with my life. I don't want material possessions, I want to play music, meet friends and celebrate nature. Which I do.
I like to strike up conversations with strangers and just be polite to everyone I meet.
I wake up early, usually 6am. This can change according to seasons however.
I am sixty years old, fit and healthy. I do a lot of cycling and I cook all the food I eat from fresh ingredients, absolutely no takeaways or fast food.
Maybe I have Japanese genes in my body? Probably not, but good general advice! Love and peace.
Thank you
Not able to wake up early yet... May be you can share some tips please
@@ApexaKShah Hello! I have some tips that may help, from my experience. Try going to bed earlier, waking up at the same time everyday (your body will get used to it), and putting your alarm across the room (this way you will have to get up from the bed to switch it off). Open your blinds and window as soon as you wake up, and do something you like and will look forward to -for me that is having a healthy breakfast every morning, but it can also be going for a walk, reading, yoga, a warm shower. I hope this helps you!! Have a nice day.
I feel that it is good manners to clean the toilet, inside & out, every time you use it. Your own & other people’s.
That's a good personality, actually you are rich in spiritual life, when we do good to others and the world, the good will come back to us, and it gives good model for our next generation, thank you kind people🙏🏻
I am in love with the minimal house furniture Japanese houses have....and everything looks so empry and natural. Made of wood and straws.
This a is wonderful reminder that inner cleaning is just as important as outer cleaning. These 8 habits are seemingly small, but very powerful. How you do even a small thing is how you do everything
Thank you for this list. I will just say I am not a very tidy person, things are out of place a lot in my house. I would say I am generally a helpful, humble, grateful person. I like how you show that developing these habits help to form character and a good frame of mind. I have recently retired and hope to create a more welcoming organized and lovely setting in my home.
You can do it
One word I describe to Japanese people ….they have “DISCIPLINE “ the key to have a clean country and environment…Appreciate your video, I learn a lot and might follow 😍..Thank you! Arigatō! 😁
Discipline. And self respect! YES
Must be why I love my Toyota, it is old, but very reliable, comfortable and safe, and with good care will last the rest of my life.
Key word is *discipline* . Discipline informs rules of behavior. And behavior means the laws have been instilled by the society at large.
The world has so much to learn from the Japanese culture. Manners, respect, cleaniness, kind-hearted, punctunual. We should take part of this more in the Western world.
Totally agree!
😢 loneliness, suicide, stress
The whole world has so much more to learn from Christ and Christianity!!! And it has! In fact, Christianity has taught the world far more than any other culture or belief system! Japanese people are nice people but they are absolutely not a good example for every good habit that brings life eternal. Their main problem is their false gods and worship of money.
@@vonitaesse4307 You said it.
@@alienjugakepo1415 it changes
I live in Canada and my mother taught us this saying “early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise”. Lovely to think that another culture also believes in the benefits of this way of living. Regarding keeping your shoes organized, I am so OCD about that I can’t leave my house if the shoes aren’t lined up 😂. I love the idea of saying thank you before eating to remind us of everyone who is part of making it possible for that food to be on our table and the gratitude that we should be expressing. I will be sure to share this video with my grown children! Thank for this simple but beautiful message on how to live a happy and contented life. 🤗💕🇨🇦.
Love how the word 'Children' is used in your vocabulary! The use of the word 'kids' for a substitute I find very disrespectful . The definition of kid's in the English dictionary in one form is "UNRULLY" never want to tag that on any child I meet in life. So refreshing each time to see and read "Children" ..Thank You for the joy !!♥
@@helenfreeman9442 Thank you Helen, I really appreciate your comment. Whenever I see or hear the term “kids” I always think of baby goats and although my children while growing up could be unruly at times they were never goats, 😂🤣.
@@glendabilinsky5528 Together we can work toward retaining the correct meaning to thousands ! May the force be with You. 😄The memories are so valuable so are good people. May be peace always be with you.
@@helenfreeman9442 And may peace be with you as well 💐🥰🇨🇦.
Early to rise, early to bed, makes a man healthy but socially dead. I find people who go to bed before 10pm are the ones that are burnt out and have no life.
If you ever listen to anything while reading comments, let it be this - go to borlest and read the book whispers of manifestation, then come back and thank me
#5 is a great one. It’s really about doing the right thing when it is easy.
Putting back the chair, turning off the light when leaving the room, saying good morning to the person in the reception etc are all easy to do but still makes a difference for other people
OMG you're EXCELLENT!
My mom is Mexican born and raised in the Philippines and all of what you have said is part of her day-to-day routine and she passed it down to us and I find these practices so satisfying. Thank you so much for this wonderful video .
I cleaned my toilet today. It led to a major Spring cleaning in the bathroom and I'm SO HAPPY! Thank you. Just for tomorrow, I'm going to do it again. :)
Thank you friend, you are a true friend.
I have a habit of thanking the rain any time it rains. I even sit outside to smell and feel the cool weather and fresh clean air that is swept though the land. Rain has the meaning of fresh and new life to me. I will also thank the birds every morning. They bring songs of joy and the sound of life around my tiny slice of heaven. It really does make me feel better after I do these things.
Have you ever collected rainwater and rinsed your hair with it? It's amazing!
@@jacquelineireland2273will try definitely
@@jacquelineireland2273 I used it to mop the floor and it was amazing. I like to use lemon peel aswell if I have lemons. I blend it and make tea first and then use for cleaning. It works good on the toilet aswell or even in the washing machine if you don't mind a bit of peel left on your clothes. Also quite good on the hair, teeth and even internally although grapefruit is best for that.
Wow. I thought I was the only one that thanked the rain. I see it was providing life for plants to grow so we can have food to start the food chain which will eventually get to me. Plus if the plants are thriving, we’re getting oxygen that fuels our bodies and keeps us alive.
Let me guess.. you don't live in the Netherlands
We are a Dutch family that uses "Itadakimasu" for every meal!
When our children were born, we look for a ritual to begin meals.
We are not really into praying, but wanted to do something.
Then I came across the Japanese Itadakimasu, I fell in love with the meaning!
So we use that now, our kids are now 6 and 8 years old and love it too.
(we have to explain a lot when we have guests haha!)
You can never answer how nothing became something.
Najazeg
I am German, and I do the same. 😊🙏 The Japanese "Itadakimasu" is just wonderful.
One cultural practice in Japan that I appreciate so much is the communal understanding of public expression. What I mean comes from the Japanese expression, 空気読める (Kuuki yomeru), which means "the ability to read the air". In a lot of western society, the desire to read the air or understand what is happening in a given context is relatively absent. In takes a grand situation for many Americans, for example, to unite. In Japan, however, almost every public situation has an air about it that should be honored. This may seem stifling, but it actually helps to make the country feel like a well-oiled machine, because unnecessary expression is frowned upon, as it is seen as a selfish move that interrupts what is happening in the moment.
For example, if we are out drinking in celebration of someone's birthday, the focus should be on 1) the person we are celebrating and 2) the party itself. When you introduce something outside of those two points, it should at least be connected to one of those two points. Otherwise people may say, 「空気読めない」(Kuuki yomenai), which means you are unable to read the air.
In the west, especially in a country like America that values individualism and freedom over everything else, this may not be seen as a positive cultural trait. However, this is why we do not see a lot of aggressiveness, violence, anger, hate, and more in Japan, because unnecessary commentary and actions are few and far between, whereas in a country like America, aggressiveness, violence, anger, and hate are displayed regularly in all contexts. This is why when foreigners go to Japan, they almost immediately recognize how peaceful and organized the country is, and then they also realize how safe the country is because of this wonderful trait. Compare that to America once again, and it is like night and day. Many foreigners that come to America do have fears of being around a violent situation, and that is understandable. When you come from a group-oriented culture and enter an individualistic culture, those differences are thick and oftentimes scary, but when you go from an individualistic culture to a group-oriented culture, you would be surprised by the amount of foreigners that find a lot of good with such a culture and environment.
That's why I love this past of Japanese society the most.
I have to disagree with that. This kind of "light communication" has its own negative traits, which can be quite heavy on how people live and enjoy their lives. Kuuki yomenai, in the words of Japanese people that I know, is extremely embedded in their culture, to the point that it is considered highly anti-social to express disagreement, or to take a strong position on something. This also affects relationships and communication inside the household.
At the cost of destroying a marriage, no discussion and no "unpeaceful" moments must be created. This has led to less communication, connection, intimacy, and sharing of emotions for generations. Young people have less ex and intimacy moment sharing than any other generation, and their parents do not communicate about their issues, do not talk about their feelings, sleep in separate rooms, and consider themselves roommates rather than a family.
This is so widespread in Japan that the levels of loneliness and isolation have grown exponentially, leading to one of the lowest birthrate in the developed part of the world, a huge mental-health crisis that goes mostly unsolved and unchecked, and a creepingly high level of suicide.
While, in certain doses, being considerate towards others is great to maintain social order, the Japanese social order has reached toxic levels in certain areas of life that I cannot objectively be a fan of, nor anybody should, apart from very small enclaves of super-introverted people.
My Japanese gf has been showing me how this affected people around her and herself, and I learned a lot about in the West we glorify these elements, blinded by the lights of "a cohesive society", while the US deals with gender wars and the EU tries to fight gas prices. but i think there is a lot to be careful about such high levels of cohesiveness when they actually cut your human emotions and their sharing of them with other people.
@@pussavia I lived in Japan for over 10 years, and I can confidently tell you that this practice, when done right, is wonderful. Sure, there are people and certain structures that abuse it, but that it not the case most of the time.
For example: In America, if I am having a bad mental health day, the amount of times people invade my space, try to talk to me, offer unwanted advice, and more is obnoxious. It is as if these people do not realize that I am not in need of their random efforts. In Japan, under the same circumstance, I can peacefully travel on a train without being invaded by others, including in the massively populated Tokyo area.
Sure, this isn't always positive, as certain interactions can lead to positive upticks, but there is a sense of invasion in America culture, for example, that does not respect boundaries or space, whereas in Japan, space is very respected. I miss that thoroughly.
That is a BEAUTIFUL description of Japan !
It makes me want to go there EVEN MORE !❤
That is, because Japan is still a highly closed society, where everyone speaks the language and is raised almost the same way minus some regional prefecture differences. So the pressure to fit in is much higher than in Western countries where you always can find a community to escape from such blending in seamlessly. The US are a multi-cultural society with a WASP layer above it, but this veneer is becoming thinner and thinner, so I see your answer as a yearning for a society resembling an insect-like swarm intelligence, where everybody is thinking and feeling the same and thus there is no friction. Reading the air, when it is a constructive atmosphere in which I feel welcome and cared for, is a wonderful thing, but when I see that in a certain social bubble jerks and mean people have the saying and everyone in this bubble is following them unhesitantly without questioning this and that, I don't want to breathe or read that air - regardless if in the US or in Japan.
I lived in Germany, as a teenager, and to me-- it was the cleanest country I'd ever lived in! I loved seeing the bedding in the windows--being freshened, the beautiful flowers and shockingly clean woods! I don't remember the name of it he place, but our Dad took us to a beautiful wooded area with a clear stream running through it, with huge boulders in the water--
And what has always stood out to me, and struck me-- was that there was sitting benches and large trash cans there!😲-- and not one piece of trash anywhere to be seen😃!
I firmly believe that every child or adult needs to travel to another country-- and learn to appreciate their culture as it is--without jumping in and trying to change it to comply with Western individualism!
Thankyou for making an accessible video, which is inspiring and not impossible to facilitate what you say. Very hopeful for the future! Feeling grateful.
I have had a tremendous shift in my appreciation for ideas and things since I've gotten older. At 80 I see many things, actions, people, ideas much differently than just 5 years ago. Thank you for a very informative and inspirational video. I was hearing what you meant.
You’re awesome!
It has been a great experience learning about 8 small Japanese habits. Thank you for sharing.
I practically fo am all with a basic difference of belief because I am a Muslim.
1. I clean our toilets at home daily and even more often.
2. I always organise my shoes and even my husband's because it is not important for him.
3. I always sit with my back straight and walk with an upright posture, I am 60 years old and do not suffer any back pains.
4. I always leave my chair properly because I hate disorder.
In fact, I make my bed and tidy up before I leave any room.
5. Being a Muslim, I say "Bismillah" before eating and "Alhamdulilah " when I fish eating.
It means I begin eating with the name of Allah, the creator of the universe, and when I finish eating, I thank Allah for the meal.
6.When I get up in the morning , I wash my private parts hands, hands mouth, nose, face, fore arms, and feet to get ready for 'Salahtul Fajr' our morning prayer before sunrise.
In our all five daily prayers, we thank Allah and ask for His guidance and help.
7. I and my husband go to a park near our house for a brisk walk for 40 minutes.
8. When I meet people, I say, "Assalamulaikum ", it means may peace and blessings be upon you.
I hope you will find my 8 simple habits interesting.
I have worked as a teacher for decades.
You and I have the profession, and we share many of our habits.
It was great watching your video.
Such an awesome routine and practice. God blesses you.
@simoneambroise6392 I have learnt that we may be oceans away and culturally apart, but we do have some common habits.
@@hilohattie3681 you are very kind.
The first five habits are habits my mother taught all of us, and she taught my brother's how to cook and sew and clean since she said that no guarantees a woman would marry them. All my brothers are very happily married and their wives have a jewel of a husband.
Love it!
God bless your mother
Same as my husband, dad and brother. They’re all absolutely wonderful men💜🧡💚
Your mother was very smart.😊
Same for my brothers. Mom said the same thing. They all cook, clean, rear children, bake cakes /cook and make repairs where needed. My sis in laws are fortunate. 🤗
@@Gidget_B_czt38 It's a shame that more so-called 'mothers' are in the business of raising sociopathic narcissists as 'men', and unleashing them on some poor woman/society.
I am grateful that I met you virtually and listen to your great videos every day.
I am grateful for everything I have 🙏.
My habits living alone:
- put the shoes back
- out the chair back
- turn off lights in rooms i am not in.
- try to keep all surfaces clean (work in progress)
I am also trying to:
- have a place for everything and declutter what I don’t need so i always put everything back into its place so it stays clean.
- vacuum more than ones a week.
- eat meals at a set time.
- drink more water
- get dressed even days i stay home(instead of walking in pajamas)
Oh dear I don't do any of that, ok I live in a mess but I'm totally happy!!!
No responsibility no stress, I don't have to do anything!!! I have had a wonderful life, for over 10 years as I am retired and I am a total Hermit!!
I must admit, however, that I had a very stressful and tragic life and a demanding and responsible job!
I defenitely agree on your last point.
Because getting dressed makes me more productive to study then in night dress....if not ful formal dress atleast to some extent dressing up nice like we go out guess has something to do...
@@AT-kx6fj taking on responsibility is important, else you are like a child, there is no honor in happiness
@@thomas.thomas Who cares!!
My cousin gave me good advice when I had cancer treatment: change out of your pajamas on a daily basis, as it will help you feel better. And it held true. It somehow felt like I had a bit more energy or an improved outlook, especially at a time when you are depleted of strength/energy.
As an Indian, I was taught to do exactly these things so this comes to me naturally now as an adult. So it was surprising to know all these were Japanese habits except for using the term Itadakimasu cause in my head I felt like these were simple basic everyday things that everyone did... It is fascinating to find out these habits are not done by many and I am happy that you made this video which gives awareness to others who haven't yet taken up these habits because they certainly do improve the quality of life
Same here ❤
There is a saying "annadata sukhibava" which also has the same meaning
Evil chapris feom your country always own everyone's elses success, and claim yours.
I wonder is Shakyamuni is the connection here! 😉
Same thoughts. We call the sun salutation as surya namaskar. Sun representing our soul gets energized as our solar system is receiving energy from the Sun, food and photosynthesis everything life around and even the planets revolving around needs the Sun in place, we thank in reverence for what we receive in abundance for free, graciously. Also we have astrological remedies that say cleaning toilets makes you humble because it's Saturnian energy in the Universe you're working on and because of which your work or boss related issues will settle on its own when you do this. Same goes for cleaning and keeping the footwear in order.
And about posture its always emphasised in hatha yoga and kriya yoga. Dhyana or meditation needs a straight posture or aasana which is when the spiritual cord connection to our soul happens. Always maintaining an alertness requires this posture to be maintained.
Thank you so much! I grew up this way thanks to loving and devoted parents. I am from Quito-Ecuador.
I am deeply grateful for all who follow this simple but very important ways for an organized and clean life,❤
It makes sense! You are hovering the most intimate part of your body over it. By all means, keep it very clean😃
Sitting here in my big feelings. I lost my mom recently and have tried to put myself back together after losing her. This list (save for physically cleaning the toilet more) are all things I have subconsciously been trying to work on. Seeing it all in one video has me feeling content. I'm on the right path. It may also be a sign I need to clean my toilets more 🤣🤦♀️. I saw that I wasn't subscribed, which was odd because I'm sure I subscribed to this channel. I hit subscribe, and my mom's account popped up rather than mine. I guess she's still trying to help me live my best life. Thank you, mom. I miss/love you.
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Your mom is so lucky she had you to love her! I've been through a couple of horrible losses in my life. Habits and routines saved me and can save you... Get up and get dressed right away. Make your bed. Say a prayer. Then do the next thing that needs to be done today. If you start to fall down the grief hole, ask yourself what you should be doing right now. Go do it. God bless.
@@BitsyBee thank you so much. That's great advice 💜
I don’t believe in coincidence, everything happens for a purpose so your mom’s sending you an “I love you, keep up your routine” from the other side.
I also have lost my mom and many others in a very short period of time and the things that keep me leading towards health are sharing with and listening to the people I love the most.
All God’s blessings on you and may your heart continue to heal.♥️♾️
Love and light dear Hellena. Stay strong and keep the little things in order and you be good. Life isn't the same after a loved one passes away from this temporary world. Couldn't not respond to the fact your moms acc came up...❤
I grew up in Germany but a lot of these habits resonate with me. I clean my toilet every day and make my bed every day and organize the shoes for everyone in the house. I always put my chair back and always thought this was just me but makes a lot of sense now. Grateful. 😊 thank you for this
My mother used to tell me about Marlene Dietrich saying that if you're angry or upset to do housework and put that energy to use. Also I read about the American poet Sylvia Plath who came from a multi-generational household that included her German grandparents. When Sylvia Plath married the British poet Ted Hughes and visited his family in Yorkshire in England Sylvia Plath wrote to her saying how much she wanted to clean her mother-in-law's kitchen!
Am i getting ot wrong? The only advicd i got is juat be gay.
I grew up in Denmark with the same habits. But then I married an American.
same here, Birgit, I am from Germany too. I do the same things automatically .. I also dry the sink in the bathroom after getting ready. These are things my parents taught me and that annoyed me at times as a kid but now it is something I do not think about just like brushing teeth or drinking when thirsty.. simple but effective acts of courtesy to others that have the benefits to make you feel good yourself.
The same in Italy. When I was younger there was also more attention to posture and awareness of the body in the space. The social aspect (and how they impact your capability of being social) of all these cultural habits is so interesting. 😊
One thing I have always loved about Japanese people is that they WANT to share their culture with other people, and have no problem with other people trying/adopting any of their customs if it benefits their life and do so respectfully.
Okagesamadesu！I can share this video because of you guys:)
@@SamuraiMatcha domo arigato! Please keep sharing, friend!
@@SamuraiMatcha interesting content and delivered with grace. 🎉😊
When I was on vacation in Japan I will never forget how kind and helpful the people were to me. I can’t wait to return to this wonderland. Bravo!
I hate to point out that Japan is a very racist ethnostate lmao but love to share culture, sure why not. traditionally at the tip of a sword.
ଆମ ଦେଶ ଠାରୁ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ଦେଶ ବହୁତ ଉନ୍ନତ...
ବେଳେ ବେଳେ ମତେଲାଗେ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ଦେଶ ର ଶଡ଼କ ପରି ଆମ ଦେଶ ର ଶଡ଼କ ଯଦି ଏହିଭଳି ପରିଷ୍କାର ରୁହନ୍ତା ଭଲ ଲାଗନ୍ତା....
ମୁଁ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ଦେଶ କୁ ବହୁତ ଭଲ ପାଏ ❤️❤️❤️
Keeping toilet clean ☑️
Tidy shoes ☑️
Putting chair back ☑️
Being grateful ☑️
Going to bed early ☑️
Getting up early (working on it).
Appreciate my surroundings ☑️
My habits can seem trivial to those around me but to me they mean a lot.
I’m from america, and a lack of consideration to our fellow humans is one of the greatest sources of suffering for us. I like the way you think and will try my best to incorporate these great lessons into my own life. ありがとうございます！
Same here in Greece!
Bad manners, a lot of garbage everywhere and a false belief that we are the best on Earth!
I 'm suffering from depression...
The same in Hungary or even worse...😢
Haha u didn't read history did you Japan is ruthless hinduism civilized most of Europe because they looted other countries to much it took 2 world wars for them and continue to loot of resources from 3rd world countries by dollar ponzi system
@@ANUBISd88 ❤🩹
people from america can benefit from these suggestions. and they can use a quiet voice instead of shouting and being loud.
Two really useful things I’ve learned this week.
Never leave a room empty handed
Don’t put it down ……..put it away.
Today is the start of my new soon to become habits.
This video gave me chills and I felt my eyes feel up with water out of happiness. Thank you so much for thie video. I will be sharing it with my husband when he gets home from work.
Also, I just subscribed. You are wonderful.
Much love from Egypt. Many of the habits that you mentioned as being present in Japan are also found in the Middle East. However, it is unfortunate that our younger generations are not really following these traditions as much as in the past.
Yes, Japanese are very close to Islam but yet so far. All the things he has mentioned are present in the islamic culture except for the shirk ( associating partners to God)
This is my first time seeing one of your videos and it was brought to me randomly through suggested videos. You’ve inspired such wellness and gratitude first thing in my morning. Thank you for sharing these good habits and for your cheerful demeanor ❤ such a delight to watch & listen.
I came 3 days after you
Thanks for share this🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yes I do almost everything you say everyday because I am a housewife, and I follow gratitude practice, self affirmations and possibly meditate for some time, but my husband makes fun of me, but I completely ignore that. Thank you so much for the video, love from India
Know there are more for you than against you. Love never fails. 😌💟💗🌿💓🌷🌼🙂💚🌸 {hug}
You have solid inner strength! Keep it going. God is behind the humble and selfless :)
Sorry to see he doesn't see how you are living your life with wisdom.
I am sorry that your husband makes fun of you. That is not nice or supportive… but I am sure his arse appreciates the clean toilet though. 🙄 Keep your head up and keep doing what brings you joy!! ❤️🙏
I would like to recommend looking up Phil and Maude's blog "How Two Have a Successful Relationship". You can both be happier with their simple practice!
Greetings from Brazil, I like your approach.
I have to say that I’ve always admired the Japanese culture. I’m from Colombia, S.A. and we have very similar customs. I find the Japanese people to be very humble and compassionate. I wish we had more people following these habits here in the U.S.
Violence of the Samurai culture, the arrogance that brought about the 2nd World War, please don't forget...
@Siby Mathews yea and the USA has never been hawkish or arrogant xD
@@sibymathews182 please remember we too in USA had concentration camps, the American cutlure has participated in genocide (the deliberate killing of a large number of people from a particular nation or ethnic group with the aim of destroying said nation or group). Now, We live in a time where we can value and see the beauty in each other❤️
You also said "the arrogance that brought world war 11", i hope you are not implying that an emotion (the emotion of arrogance), which you have generalized amongst an entire country and culture of people, was not a reason that "brought a war".
And as Jimmy Carter stated, "We become... a beautiful mosaic. Different people, different beliefs, different yearnings, different hopes, different dreams."
As Franklin D Roosevelt said in 1945, “...we must cultivate... human relationships - the ability of all peoples, of all kinds, to live together, in the same world at peace. “ 💕☀️✨
@@sibymathews182 Forget the past, live in the presence and look for the bright future.
Not very compassionate towards British Prisoners of war.
In Turkish culture when someone makes a meal for you, help you in some way or they accomplish something notable with hard/careful work, we say to them what translates into "may your hands be healthy." It's a nice way to express gratitude and thoughtfulness about other people's efforts.
This is not a Turkish practice, it is a Byzantine practice adopted and called Turkish like many other things swindled during Ottoman control.
@@TenTenJ sounds like you need to start a garden, go for a long walk and take some deep breaths ;)
@@TenTenJ I'm sure it actually came from the greeks. You've seen my big fat greek wedding, right?
@@marciabutler987 I don’t think you understand what Byzantine is or what you’re talking about.
kerem we have the same saying in iran, we say: (dastet dard nakoneh) which translates: may your hands be painfree
I spent a year and a day in Japan and loved every day. However, one of the reasons I enjoyed it so much was that I spent two weeks learning basic Japanese and cultural norms. It really helped me fit in and appreciate Japanese customs. Public toilets were quite clean considering the population, and I always accepted the free tissues handed out at rail stations.
深深感謝您分享生活中如此平凡卻美麗的重要習慣！
Japan is a powerhouse in so many fields.
A country I surely would like to experience.
Thanks for being on this planet.
Cheers from Berlin : )
I agree. Sending gratitude and love from India
I can actually feel the atmosphere change after i clean my house. It just feels lighter and more enjoyable. Even tho it was strait before, just cleaning makes the difference
it is always good to remind oneself that no matter what, we are lucky to be alive and to be surrounded by so many good people and imagine how many awesome days are there to come!
I love your videos! I usually watch them at night. Love your attitude towards everything; stress, cleaning, life in general!
These daily habits were just like what my late grandmother always said to me since I was a child.
Thank you for reminding my grandmother.
Good advise. Japanese culture makes so much sense in that it's having gratitude, being considerate, being thankful. All leads to a happier life.
Perhaps that's why they live so long
This is so very beautiful & encouraging @SamuraiMatcha Thank you deeply for your being & sharing. May you have a blissful Summer🌸
Thank you so much! I’m a teacher also and you gave me a great idea of how I will start the first school day with my students ❤️
I stayed and work in Japan for 4 years. I learned alot from Japanese culture. I follow and practise them until now back home in Malaysia. Respect the Japanese. Experienced all the beautiful things there. Missed Japan so much especially the organisation I worked with, NHk Japan, Shibuya Tokyo❤
I love the Japanese culture, it’s thoughtful and also has a lot of gratitude and politeness. Lovely gentle people. Thank you 🙏
I'm going to try these for 21 days and see how my life improves. Thank you for sharing these new concepts.
Really enjoyed this video. I lived in Japan for two years as an English teacher so I saw a lot of these in action. I try to incorporate a lot of what I learned there into my life now. (Now I teach third grade in Colombia.) For example, my apartment is a no-shoe zone! And I’m a lot more organized than I used to be! And I tell my students to think about the cleaners who clean the school and pick up after themselves!
When I give the children in my community a treat, I always tell them I don't want to see the rapper or bottle on the ground please bring it back to me and we will put it in the trash!
In the Uk we always put the chairs on the table at the end of the day in school. It was incase the cleaners wanted to sit down while they were working. lol.
I adopted all of these habits, just out of living and learning, and I will say that they really have helped my life change! Gratitude and cleanliness and humbling oneself and appreciating what you have all have changed me so much!
Just discovered Samurai Matcha. He shares such a natural, positive philosophy of life. His own open, happy personality make these ideas easy to accept.
I LOVED my time in Japan. (US Navy). I can't wait to go back
Thank you for your Service! 🇯🇵/🇺🇸 👵🏼
There's a place for Everything. Everything should be in its place. 🕊🕊🕊
Hmmmm.... very good thought, to think this way 👏
Moving to Germany, it was challenging at first. Changing habits but now I love that I wear house shoes at everyones house, it keeps everything cleaner. I like how people think about their neighbours and community more (cleaning the street outside of thier house, removing snow and leaves) , getting up earlier etc.
Taking the time for small things can make such a big difference for yourself and so many others.
In Germany people mostly make it nice and green around their places and many have flowers, even if they are renting. In Canada not very many do this any more, except the older generation. Many don’t care if there is a big stump in the yard and the front garden is full of dead plants from 3 years ago. Not much respect for nature or for themselves.
What a wonderful synchronization! I’ve been practicing most of these independently. Most recently, for about the last month, I’ve been waking up early; enjoying the day break; and doing my first prayer. It’s had an enormously positive impact on my life as a whole.
Thank you 🙏
8:00 This advice is very close to the words of Zen master 沢庵 宗彭 (Takuan Soho) "足ることを知るは、極楽の国なり" "Knowing what is enough is the land of paradise." Lovely sentiments all around, even when cleaning the toilet.
Come to think of it, Joshu the Zen master advised a novice after eating to "Wash your bowl", to do what is necessary and considerate. It makes sense to tidy up and see the value in small humble tasks.
00:00 8 Japanese habits to incorporate daily that can make your life better
01:56 Clean toilets lead to higher household income and humility.
03:41 Developing small habits can make you feel good
05:19 Good posture can improve your way of thinking.
06:59 Cultural values of putting back chairs and being thankful
08:26 Appreciate what you have
09:45 Learn about Japanese culture: Okagesama and sleeping habits
11:11 Bathing in the fresh morning sun makes us happy
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In USA, it is often said making your bed in the morning is a habit of highly successful people. I think it is similar to the toilet cleaning. Beng humble enough to do a basic chore and self-disciplined to be consistent. It also creates a positive environment.
Ben Franklin was also a big proponent of early bedtime and waking up early. “Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.”
Love the shoe idea! Going to try to get the kids I watch to do this. I actually sprained my ankle on someone’s shoe once and the shoe shelf isn’t big enough for all the shoes; so maybe this will help.
When I ran an aftercare program. I had the kids line up their backpacks & stuff in a line on the edge of the basketball court and it made for a better experience. It took a few times till they got and some occasional reminders but mostly they did it on their own. When picked up they knew exactly where they had left their stuff and the tripping hazards were gone.
There's a saying in American English "Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise."
I think that it is up to the individual to decide what "early" is for them. Early to rise to me means 6 am, but for my spouse it means 8 am. That's totally ok :) we all need different amounts of sleep.
Be in a dream ✨️
I quite often wake up at 5 and go back to sleep at 7. Apparently it was quite normal to wake up in the night before electricity since people would go to bed so early. In winter it would be a very long night. I think staying up late can be quite therapeutic. There is a different energy and it can be the time you feel happier and more imaginative. It is not to say getting up early isn't good but only that in some circumstances staying up late makes sense. When I was depressed the day was not so great. Also diet seems to have a lot to do with it like I don't need to sleep so much as I did when I ate animal products so it is easier to stay up late and still get up early.
We have the same saying in the UK.
There is no direct truth to it, but I know it’s the sentiment, the call to action to be consistent and aware of the benefit of sleep but also getting your day off to a good start.
Don’t forget the American English saying from How I Met Your Mother - “nothing good happens after 2 am”.
@@Infiniti25 ⛳️This saying is true.. Try yourself or read The 5am Club by Robin Sharma! Great read!
@@gallakochar4245 it may be true to you or a few, but it is the mindset and actions of the individual in the circumstances they are presented that make it appear true.
Thus it can’t be true for everyone
Such a simple yet very significant habits, ty for sharing
Totally agree with all of them. Appreciation and contentment has a lot to be said for it.
Music to my ears. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
There is always something to be grateful for.
Hello, I am an Indian Expat teacher from the UAE. ❤ I was already following two of these habits mentioned in the video. You motivated me to inculcate and follow a few more habits further. Thanks a ton. ❤😊
We share a similar connection... While japanese people says "Itadakimāsu" before they take the food, we muslims also say "Alhamdulillah" after the food is taken, meaning 'All praises to the almighty lord' As a gratitude for the food I'm being able to eat and start eating by "Bismillah"❤