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A guy could have plenty of all of these, yet still be friendzoned by many women due to him lacking one or more of the following: height, good looks, athleticism, charisma, talent, wealth, high status, a full head of hair, ability to entertain.
Just do what she says. Anna is the best decoder I have ever seen. Just hope she releases a physical book so that we can just keep on reading it and getting better day by day
Exactly many of the traits she talked about are desired even in a good friendship. If I'm right then we need more than these traits since the vetting process for dating is stricter than for friendship.
Hi Anna, Your videos have helped me coming out of a long term relationship that was more bad than good. I’m looking forward to a better life and relationship (when that happens). Thank you for what you do.
Thanks ... Telling the truth is very .... Her And him... has to be honest with each other.... Very impressive because....it means everything!!!!! Thanks again!!!!
Laughter: HUGE win in relationships. Since feelings are a big deal for women, making her feel good in a non-threatening way is a very big win. Intelligence: was key in my marriage. My late wife saw practical intelligence (aka the ability to do stuff that matters, at the job or at home) as a main reason she found me attractive. Generosity: always tip well -- very well. Don't advertise it to her, but she'll notice it eventually. And if you are repeat customers at a particular restaurant, she'll notice the better service she receives when I'm with her. Vulnerability: measured exposure expressed at a very special times. Not generally for a new relationship. Anna: decent energy. New space? Looking snappy for the holidays. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Ginger has stopped her heat and Tyson has regained his brain cells. Good to have his non-whining, stoic self back again!
Dear Anna: Happy Sunday, I hope all is well in your world. Thank you for remembering and acknowledging international men's day. Makes me love you more. Great video, 20 traits and all very well explained. I can tell you took your time to prepare this video, thank you as well for that. I am definitely making a list and see where I am strong and where I need work. It will be a fun project. I am loyal and I do like to help people, I do believe I am very strong in those traits. My weakness, well you know is vulnerability. I definitely need to work on that. I know there is a WingMam video or two out there I need to watch again. Well Anna, I am headed to the grocery store to get what I need to take to for dinner with my family on Thursday. As you know, it is Thanksgiving for us Americans and this year I have many people to be thankful for, and that includes my pretty pen pal from Canada. I am thankful for you and all that you do. You are awesome and beautiful, Anna. I hope you have a great week. Hug and a peck on each cheek and lots of love from Texas!!!!!!
Happy Sunday! All is well and thank you so much for your kind compliments! Progress not perfection and remember your good points along the way. Enjoy dinner with your family! :))
I am happy that someone is talking about basic things that matter. We do not need fancy overt gestures or things they show in movies to attract a good partner. All we need is a value system based on these traits. I am currently working on myself in all these areas to attract a high-value woman.
A great sense of humour, provided it comes from a good place. Not taking everything so seriously helps when times (or job) are tough. It allows people to understand that most things usually work themselves out and most importantly… everything is gonna be ok (that does not mean shy away from obligations, commitments and responsibilities!). But being around a loved one who can enjoy a good laugh… absolutely priceless! Thanks for the video.
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Genuine verbal or physical recognition/appreciation of doing something well. " Wow come over here I need to give you a hug for that! Welldone". Or " I don't understand how you did that, but wow that is really cool".
"International Men's Day", who knew? This is a good list. I don't think I fail any of them but I would prefer to rate myself on a range rather than pass/fail because I know there is room for improvement in some places. If OK is good, better is more gooder.
You can be a wildfire of thoughts, brava. Mens day, it is almost like crying wolf , there are so many days. I have cried upon seeing art that is so profoundly good that it stunned me, (upon seeing the Tondo, I drew a small crowd and the guard asked if I was ok, I started to explain pigments and technique, I didn’t realize I had tears on my face).Thanks
I have lot of good qualities and masculine traits and I used to be kind, respectful, generous and always honest. I have shared with you few things including my personal at times and I always asked how you are doing and how is your health and all that. I'm not in relationship now but still there are few womans I like the most and one of that is you Anna and you are more beautiful ❤️ and I always thought about spending time with you Anna and you are wonderful, kind and funny and I love those and thank you for the video.
Wow, thanks for the video, most if not all the things I realized long ago. Anyway, a refresher never hurts. Also, the way you pronounce "process", I asked myself, is she from Canada? Well, I scrolled through some comments and yes, it seems you are. BTW, my dad is 90 years old, remarried and lives in Manitoba. I went to visit him and his wife this past summer on his Birthday all the way from Lawrence, Kansas... Darealdeal
Great video, Anna. I know I come across wrong to a lot of people I know in the Tango Dancing community. I do not have the coordination or the dancing skill mechanics as many out there, and will say NO when the Instructor teaches some dance move combination that I know I am unable to do. Yes, I can attempt it, but usually it comes out so bad that I get frustrated not being able to move a certain way or in a timely fashion. Five years of experiencing it.
I know, Anna. Perfection is unattainable, so I fo not expect it. Progress: it is there, but slow, taking twice to three times as long as others out there with the results being mediocre. .
Last week, I found out I am a Sigma. Did not know before that. By faking confidence, and seeing other people believe you are confident, it does increase within you. I believe I have several of those qualities. Being a Sigma means I am a introvert. This is my biggest hurdle. I think the way to overcome it is to talk to ladies. I need a lot of time for a lady to know I am worthy of her attention. More time than she is willing to wait and find out.
Start by practicing talking to everyone. Example! This morning I was in a restaurant, and there was a couple filming their toddler. I went over to their table and said hello to them and asked if they were on Instagram or RUclips. I am an introvert. When you get practised talking with strangers in general, it’s a lot easier to talk to women you’re interested in. You got this!
@@YourWingmam Thanks, I will try, but when the moment comes, I freeze and it is easier to move on. Will try to force myself, and I know it will become easier.
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Kind, nice man here. I have A lot of Empathy, Compassion for women! Sympathetic Man. I like to go to dances!i dress nice, out on some Cologne and ask Different Women to Dance. I have FUN, and been told I am a good dancer. I just cut loose and dance. Dancing for me with a Woman is Very Sensual. A woman wants to be held-not grabbed. Say something that will make her Laugh!! You will feel a Rush of Phermones on the Dance floor!! Women will walk up and ask you to dance and hold your hands!! If you see some women sitting alone, approach them and ask them to Dance. Dancing builds Confidence!!! Anna, I bet you ❤️To Dance and are a Great Dancer!!!
I want to ask about physical protection. If I absolutley have to phisically fight to protect both her and myself but I lose the fight, would the woman usually lose respect or attraction for me?
It depends on the woman. Most women would see you as a hero, courage and willingness override ability in most cases, a throwback might lose some respect.
Summary of Anna's video Kindness: Respect and genuine care for others. Loyalty: Devotion to purpose, family, friends, and partner. Sense of Humor: Sharing jokes and laughter. Emotional Support: Being a supportive partner in difficult times. Strong Work Ethic: Demonstrating the ability to handle responsibilities. Protectiveness: Providing emotional and physical safety. Honesty: Valuing truthfulness and directness. Thoughtfulness: Remembering preferences and surprising with small gestures. Patience: Being understanding and tolerant. Intelligence: Problem-solving abilities and emotional intelligence. Respectfulness: Treating others with dignity. Compassion: Showing empathy and understanding. Strength: Physical strength paired with character strength. Ambition: Pursuing goals with determination. Generosity: Sharing without expecting something in return. Confidence: Self-assuredness without arrogance. Great Listeners: Paying full attention and valuing her words. Reliability: Following through on commitments. Adventure Spirit: Enjoying spontaneous and novel experiences. Sense of Responsibility: Being mature and taking care of important matters. Bonus - Vulnerability: Sharing true feelings and insecurities in a balanced way. Anna emphasises that while not every man may possess all these traits, each individual brings unique strengths to a relationship. Women are encouraged to appreciate and communicate their admiration for these qualities in men.
Nice list! I do want to comment on protectiveness. When it comes to being physically protective, what if I'm not a fighter and am not physically strong enough to fight off a male attacker approaching me and my lady? I am totally capable of being verbally and physically protective like stand in front of her yelling to the guy "Leave her alone!" or something like that. I'm just not a John Rambo/Sylvester Stallone, Steven Seagal, or Arnold Schwarzenegger type of guy. I think women that are not too picky or insecure feel safe around a guy that has independent confidence and emotional masculinity. Just my thought.
Great list! As long as one doesnt show "intention", these lists will push you beyond the dreaded friendzone. Any clues of intention to the lady you like, is an automatic red flag nowadays. It would drive away any chances of next level relationship with them. Weird but just my observation. 😕
Add to this, DECISIVENESS. Indecision is a killer. Women love a man who takes the lead, is decisive. Indecision shows you are wishy washy. Consult your woman when its appropriate but don't constantly respond, "I don't know, what do you think?" Decisiveness doesn't mean you are bossy, over-bearing or inflexible. Arrange the date or activity. Good women respond to a man who knows how to lead, not a puppy dog tag-along. For me, women who don't - not a match for me, time saved.
What a woman SHOULD love about a man...him being authentic, knowing and pursuing his purpose in life. I would look for the same in a woman. It's a rare find, unless you are wingmam ;)
@@marguskiis7711 Pursuing your purpose, that's happiness. It can only happen when you authentic. Align yourself to your real value and you will not be alone.
@@mypov4343 i have been authentic and I have lost everything. My wife of 20 plus marriage left me bc she understood with me the classic comfortable middle class life is impossible. Later I was dumped by gf because I wasn't a guy she dreamed of. Now I am alone with bunch of women writing me but there is one big problem -- I do not like them.
Thanks for this. Validation. I think I'm just a bit too honest. I don't seem to have trouble forming relationships but women don't seem to like my understanding (and sharing) of behavioral biology. I've given up for a few years, totally over it. I guess I need to find another behavioral biologist! Up the uni again I suppose! 😋
Most of the time people only like hearing about their biology if it’s a cute and sincere compliment, otherwise it feels like criticism. Maybe try not sharing that knowledge and instead just using it… unless it’s important for you to be able to discuss such things. If so, then that’s a good way to filter lol
@@YourWingmam thank you for catching this. More positive validation 😁. I love your wisdom, I'll take it to my`sand-pit' (my mental workbench) for a while, see what happens. I'm very curious about everything, these things come up because I spend allot of my day thinking about it. Sure, I'm learning about relationships, I'll get there 😁. Thank you so much for engaging with me 🦩 (the flamingo is me striking a pose in genuine appreciation)
Money. Obligatory joke, I admit. My big hang up. You bring ANY of this up to a woman for her end you'll get "I ain't gotta do nothing fo nobody, sure as **** not you" "You don't get to tell me anything" (Actual quotes). Anna,I could do EVERYTHING you've ever said and they would still have that attitude. But this is what you have to do to get company at night.
One of the reasons I am confused about all of this was that I was brought up in the late 1960's was that men were not to be trusted,egotistic,over bearing etc now it's the complete opposite. Women seem to want all these thing's back in men.We all have a hard time being trusted etc.I am prepared as a man to go it alone because my heart has been broken too many times.
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Do women like men with long hair I started talking to one and she told me she wouldn't have anything to do with me unless I cut my hair and that's not happening
That's great, but they can't love those things too much, because they perpetually go after men lacking most of those things. Thankfully, i quit caring what women want or "love" a long time ago, and the older i get, the less value they seem to bring to my table.
Very good, but this boils down to a singularity. A binary choice, at the base of all of our decisions. Do we serve selfishly, or selflessly? Do we do for our own sake? Rephrased, biblically, do we strive to serve ourselves, or our Creator, in all of our actions? The more you examine the fundamental aspects of life, the more this binary nature of all decision, will become evident to you. When we have this question answered about anyone, as dictated by their actions, it becomes the single most important thing to know about them. You mention many things that someone may like about another... yet the context becomes everything, if they're serving themselves, vs serving selflessly, making or breaking any positive perception somebody may have. It's to say that all the things you mentioned, have a common denominator, in making them valid and applicable. Deep down, we're trying to answer this question about anyone we're with, and this simple determination will get you to the root you're looking for. More than that, all of the qualities you mentioned, depend on selfless adherence, for them to be positive. People need to understand this underlying and fundamental aspect, to be able to qualify and put into context, these points of attraction. You don't need to ask the question, "What master do you serve?", because people will show you through all of their choices, and there are but two masters anyone can serve. The man in the mirror, and the man you should mirror. Just so you know, Anna, I've never down-voted any of your content. I've only ever failed to up-vote one of your videos. This video was a big thumbs up. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't take the time to write these. I'm not a fan of "insert group here" day/week/month/etc.... Any of them. It's a subtle way to keep people divided into groups, then identifying with the group they're divided into, by giving them all something they can share. Tactics.
Wow, that is just amazing!! People who live and work in the mountains are truly professional athletes. Sadly they tend to lack access to the knowledge you make available and are keep getting chumped off, never knowing why. Much appreciation and respect for what you do. Thank you. Great stories don't mean much if there's no one to hear them.
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A man could have all these traits but be living paycheck to paycheck no assets besides a pickup truck. Hard workers with rough hands and two tired to keep up all the little details. I enjoy all your videos.
I CAN NOT and will not tolerate being spoken to about nice shoes when I'm cutting on a tablesaw. Unless you care about finger blood spatter on those shoes
@@YourWingmam Many. Sooooo many It's not even that I can't get over them; its that every video or bit of advice is basically saying they don't count or were the exceptions. That's not a valid argument by any stretch to me. What happens counts or doesn't, simple as that. I need better reasons than "maybe this time" .
@@YourWingmam He let you go (idiot) you; Charm, intelligence, class and fun, And not psychotic. You are a catch m"lady. The musings of the Afghan YETI ROADKILL.
Women are just not interested in me. I treid diffent clothes, shoes, etc. excercizing. Cant show any of the ten on the list if I am never given a chnce. i havent been with a woman in many many years. not sure what else to do.
well... categories of utility - whatever. no inclination to in-waste any of afore to current western(ised, at least) xx.s left to re-call here. ENOUGH. but cheers, gents.
@@YourWingmam ok, that most probably is wired in, in ways (provision, protection…). as I see it, a functional rel.ship needs to be exercised as 2-way enterprise, with givings and takings in a healthy balance for both. that isn’t granted these days of excessive hypergamy and rampant entitlement (fueled from earliest days on) of xx.s deeming selves to be princesses to be served just for being, catered to by pervasively malign gynocentric | wokist infestations of ‘culture’ around… issues that I’ve developed a zero tolerance allergy against, and to such a degree that I ceased to be capable of entertaining any positive anticipations towards any ‘romantic’ entanglements with xx.s of current western(ised) ilks at all. however appealing ‘the feminine’ conceptually, it won’t suffice gaslighting me into, or deluding myself over, ‘taking’ utmost probably adverse actualities (in abundance) any more. with indifference a truly benevolent disposition not always in easy reach.
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Love the short hair! Like old times ☺️
A guy could have plenty of all of these, yet still be friendzoned by many women due to him lacking one or more of the following: height, good looks, athleticism, charisma, talent, wealth, high status, a full head of hair, ability to entertain.
You can only do what you can do. Focus on that.
Just do what she says. Anna is the best decoder I have ever seen. Just hope she releases a physical book so that we can just keep on reading it and getting better day by day
@@decconan4230 In most cases, that's not enough.
Exactly many of the traits she talked about are desired even in a good friendship. If I'm right then we need more than these traits since the vetting process for dating is stricter than for friendship.
Any guy who can muster half of these traits will find his keeper.
Thank you for the video 😊😁😉👍🏿
You're welcome and thank you for watching!!
1. Kindness
2. Loyalty
3. Laughter
4. Emotional support
5. Strong work ethic
6. Protectiveness
7. Honesty
8. Thoughtfulness
9. Patience
10. Intelligence
11. Respectful
12. Compassion
13. Strength
14. Ambition
15. Generosity
16. Confidence
17. Great listener
18. Reliability
19. Adventurous
20. Responsible
21. Bonus: Vulnerability
Thanks for the Steno
I think "generosity" is supposed to be #1.
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I have seen a way too often how the guys having these qualities are brutally dumped. Me incl.
I think it is respect instead
@@tdrive398
Hi Anna,
Your videos have helped me coming out of a long term relationship that was more bad than good. I’m looking forward to a better life and relationship (when that happens). Thank you for what you do.
You are so welcome, glad to be of help! :))
Great vid. Out of a LTR. Now working on myself to make myself a better person.
Thanks ...
Telling the truth is very ....
Her
And him... has to be honest with each other....
Very impressive because....it means everything!!!!! Thanks again!!!!
My pleasure ❤️
Great content, thanks a lot for posting
Laughter: HUGE win in relationships. Since feelings are a big deal for women, making her feel good in a non-threatening way is a very big win. Intelligence: was key in my marriage. My late wife saw practical intelligence (aka the ability to do stuff that matters, at the job or at home) as a main reason she found me attractive. Generosity: always tip well -- very well. Don't advertise it to her, but she'll notice it eventually. And if you are repeat customers at a particular restaurant, she'll notice the better service she receives when I'm with her. Vulnerability: measured exposure expressed at a very special times. Not generally for a new relationship. Anna: decent energy. New space? Looking snappy for the holidays. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Ginger has stopped her heat and Tyson has regained his brain cells. Good to have his non-whining, stoic self back again!
All great points! I concur. Energy: much better 👏 Borrowed house ✔️ Sane pups: check … happy thanksgiving, Russ, and God bless!
Thank you for sharing
Very helpful video. Also glad to see you are keeping your hair short.
I actually prefer her hair long. To each their own.
Glad I could help 🙏
Anna is this your dining room wow the decor is amazing, thanks for recognising international men's day
A friend's place, it's lovely! And you're welcome!
Dear Anna:
Happy Sunday, I hope all is well in your world. Thank you for remembering and acknowledging international men's day. Makes me love you more.
Great video, 20 traits and all very well explained. I can tell you took your time to prepare this video, thank you as well for that. I am definitely making a list and see where I am strong and where I need work. It will be a fun project. I am loyal and I do like to help people, I do believe I am very strong in those traits. My weakness, well you know is vulnerability. I definitely need to work on that. I know there is a WingMam video or two out there I need to watch again.
Well Anna, I am headed to the grocery store to get what I need to take to for dinner with my family on Thursday. As you know, it is Thanksgiving for us Americans and this year I have many people to be thankful for, and that includes my pretty pen pal from Canada. I am thankful for you and all that you do. You are awesome and beautiful, Anna. I hope you have a great week. Hug and a peck on each cheek and lots of love from Texas!!!!!!
Happy Sunday! All is well and thank you so much for your kind compliments! Progress not perfection and remember your good points along the way. Enjoy dinner with your family! :))
@@YourWingmam Watch out Wingman, there's a bunch of us out here that are getting a "crush on you"!
I am happy that someone is talking about basic things that matter. We do not need fancy overt gestures or things they show in movies to attract a good partner. All we need is a value system based on these traits. I am currently working on myself in all these areas to attract a high-value woman.
Exactly! And good for you!
Thanks Red. For the reminder. Appreciated. Have a nice Thanksgiving. God bless ❤️🙏💯
You're welcome, glad you appreciated it! God bless you! 💞
@@YourWingmam thanks 🙏🙏
A great sense of humour, provided it comes from a good place. Not taking everything so seriously helps when times (or job) are tough. It allows people to understand that most things usually work themselves out and most importantly… everything is gonna be ok (that does not mean shy away from obligations, commitments and responsibilities!). But being around a loved one who can enjoy a good laugh… absolutely priceless! Thanks for the video.
Glad you enjoyed this one! Humour: yes!!
Wild flower indeed
Your Mom did look a little surprised 😅
Happy blessed and a good Sunday Anna 🙏❤️
God bless! 💞
You are marvelous, just marvelous in so many ways. Moon, you are such a keeper.
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Anna is always so sincere
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Good summary of values.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I should really bookmark this gem for an off day. Nice confidence builder (almost the only "no" on the list 💪🏻☺️)
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Genuine verbal or physical recognition/appreciation of doing something well. " Wow come over here I need to give you a hug for that! Welldone". Or " I don't understand how you did that, but wow that is really cool".
Thank you. The same to you Anna
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"International Men's Day", who knew?
This is a good list. I don't think I fail any of them but I would prefer to rate myself on a range rather than pass/fail because I know there is room for improvement in some places. If OK is good, better is more gooder.
Yes, and at the same time remember to give yourself credit where due :))
@@YourWingmam Indeed.
This is great information...I always thought it was money and a large...you know.
Women should verbalize their appreciation more often :))
You can be a wildfire of thoughts, brava. Mens day, it is almost like crying wolf , there are so many days. I have cried upon seeing art that is so profoundly good that it stunned me, (upon seeing the Tondo, I drew a small crowd and the guard asked if I was ok, I started to explain pigments and technique, I didn’t realize I had tears on my face).Thanks
Thank you for sharing that! Glad you enjoyed this one! :)
Thanks.
The Wall.... every day men are become aware of going their own way. ..good luck with your channel
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
This was well balanced I think. Just as important for folks to look at what they already do right as it is to look at where they might be weak at.
Absolutely! Thank you for watching!
I Resoect Women!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I have lot of good qualities and masculine traits and I used to be kind, respectful, generous and always honest. I have shared with you few things including my personal at times and I always asked how you are doing and how is your health and all that. I'm not in relationship now but still there are few womans I like the most and one of that is you Anna and you are more beautiful ❤️ and I always thought about spending time with you Anna and you are wonderful, kind and funny and I love those and thank you for the video.
Thank you for the generous compliments! I pray you find someone who treats you well! 💞
@@YourWingmam Thank you very much Anna and thanks for the appreciation and wishes 🙏.
I *love* how how wink with your eyes! Do you eyelids make that "twinkle" sound in real life, or did you dub that sound effect in?
I can show you how to open a bottle of wine with a tennis shoe! Happy to say I cover quite a few of these fairly well, Thank you Anna.
You look so adorable 😍 with your hair cut.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I second this motion.
-Team Anna
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Respect
Throughout my life I've always been appreciated for my tongue.
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Wow, thanks for the video, most if not all the things I realized long ago. Anyway, a refresher never hurts. Also, the way you pronounce "process", I asked myself, is she from Canada? Well, I scrolled through some comments and yes, it seems you are. BTW, my dad is 90 years old, remarried and lives in Manitoba. I went to visit him and his wife this past summer on his Birthday all the way from Lawrence, Kansas...
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Glad you enjoyed it! Yep, Canadian (eh). ;) Hope your dad’s birthday isn’t in winter!
@@YourWingmam Hi honey, my dad's Bday is July 5...
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Anna what is it about gerard butler that you like so much.
They keep their list updating 😊
Women appreciate a lot more than they let you know about. They should let men know more often. :)
Great video, Anna.
I know I come across wrong to a lot of people I know in the Tango Dancing community. I do not have the coordination or the dancing skill mechanics as many out there, and will say NO when the Instructor teaches some dance move combination that I know I am unable to do. Yes, I can attempt it, but usually it comes out so bad that I get frustrated not being able to move a certain way or in a timely fashion. Five years of experiencing it.
You can only do what you can do, progress not perfection ✔️
I know, Anna. Perfection is unattainable, so I fo not expect it.
Progress: it is there, but slow, taking twice to three times as long as others out there with the results being mediocre. .
Last week, I found out I am a Sigma. Did not know before that.
By faking confidence, and seeing other people believe you are confident, it does increase within you.
I believe I have several of those qualities. Being a Sigma means I am a introvert. This is my biggest hurdle. I think the way to overcome it is to talk to ladies. I need a lot of time for a lady to know I am worthy of her attention. More time than she is willing to wait and find out.
You mean if she is worthy of you 👍
Yes, thank you @@CityBoy5705 You make a good point.
I have learned that since watching Anna's videos.
Us men have standards the ladies must meet.
Start by practicing talking to everyone. Example! This morning I was in a restaurant, and there was a couple filming their toddler. I went over to their table and said hello to them and asked if they were on Instagram or RUclips. I am an introvert. When you get practised talking with strangers in general, it’s a lot easier to talk to women you’re interested in. You got this!
@@YourWingmam Thanks, I will try, but when the moment comes, I freeze and it is easier to move on. Will try to force myself, and I know it will become easier.
Anna you are so wright ❤❤❤❤❤ Michael
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Key Points
How many? ;)
Kind, nice man here. I have A lot of Empathy, Compassion for women!
Sympathetic Man.
I like to go to dances!i dress nice, out on some Cologne and ask Different Women to Dance. I have FUN, and been told I am a good dancer. I just cut loose and dance. Dancing for me with a Woman is Very Sensual. A woman wants to be held-not grabbed. Say something that will make her Laugh!! You will feel a Rush of Phermones on the Dance floor!! Women will walk up and ask you to dance and hold your hands!! If you see some women sitting alone, approach them and ask them to Dance. Dancing builds Confidence!!!
Anna, I bet you ❤️To Dance and are a Great Dancer!!!
Held, not grabbed: truth! Most women do at minimum appreciate or admire a man who can dance!
I want to ask about physical protection. If I absolutley have to phisically fight to protect both her and myself but I lose the fight, would the woman usually lose respect or attraction for me?
It depends on the woman. Most women would see you as a hero, courage and willingness override ability in most cases, a throwback might lose some respect.
@@YourWingmamwell thank you, much appreciation. W does a throwback mean though?
I like the haircut, you look lovely 😊
Thank you! 🙏
@@YourWingmam you are welcome dear lady 😊
14:41 it’s so exhausting being a man… thank you for this comment
My qualities are mountain bikes, motorcycles, e-skateboards, downhill skiing etc..
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
you give me hope.
Summary of Anna's video
Kindness: Respect and genuine care for others.
Loyalty: Devotion to purpose, family, friends, and partner.
Sense of Humor: Sharing jokes and laughter.
Emotional Support: Being a supportive partner in difficult times.
Strong Work Ethic: Demonstrating the ability to handle responsibilities.
Protectiveness: Providing emotional and physical safety.
Honesty: Valuing truthfulness and directness.
Thoughtfulness: Remembering preferences and surprising with small gestures.
Patience: Being understanding and tolerant.
Intelligence: Problem-solving abilities and emotional intelligence.
Respectfulness: Treating others with dignity.
Compassion: Showing empathy and understanding.
Strength: Physical strength paired with character strength.
Ambition: Pursuing goals with determination.
Generosity: Sharing without expecting something in return.
Confidence: Self-assuredness without arrogance.
Great Listeners: Paying full attention and valuing her words.
Reliability: Following through on commitments.
Adventure Spirit: Enjoying spontaneous and novel experiences.
Sense of Responsibility: Being mature and taking care of important matters.
Bonus - Vulnerability: Sharing true feelings and insecurities in a balanced way.
Anna emphasises that while not every man may possess all these traits, each individual brings unique strengths to a relationship. Women are encouraged to appreciate and communicate their admiration for these qualities in men.
Brilliantly summarized!
Tooting lol.
My fav't is to rip azz and blame the cat.
I wasnt sure what tooting is.
Im sure now. 😂thanks
👀 ha!
Nice list! I do want to comment on protectiveness. When it comes to being physically protective, what if I'm not a fighter and am not physically strong enough to fight off a male attacker approaching me and my lady? I am totally capable of being verbally and physically protective like stand in front of her yelling to the guy "Leave her alone!" or something like that. I'm just not a John Rambo/Sylvester Stallone, Steven Seagal, or Arnold Schwarzenegger type of guy. I think women that are not too picky or insecure feel safe around a guy that has independent confidence and emotional masculinity. Just my thought.
Women respect willingness over ability, but if you want both, join a martial arts class!
Great list! As long as one doesnt show "intention", these lists will push you beyond the dreaded friendzone. Any clues of intention to the lady you like, is an automatic red flag nowadays. It would drive away any chances of next level relationship with them. Weird but just my observation. 😕
Unless there's already unequivocal reciprocal attraction :)
@@YourWingmam I know not what thus term is.
That was a pic of your Mom, Dad, and you (as a little girl), right?
Yep, lumberjack camp days!
I remembered. @@YourWingmam
17 is tricky for me particularly because I don't know a good way to tell people to lay off the venting for a bit.
“That sucks. How about we shift gears to solutions.”
Add to this, DECISIVENESS. Indecision is a killer. Women love a man who takes the lead, is decisive. Indecision shows you are wishy washy. Consult your woman when its appropriate but don't constantly respond, "I don't know, what do you think?" Decisiveness doesn't mean you are bossy, over-bearing or inflexible. Arrange the date or activity. Good women respond to a man who knows how to lead, not a puppy dog tag-along. For me, women who don't - not a match for me, time saved.
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If I can provide all those things, I would be married to myself by now.
Sense of humour: check lol
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With this expected from us what do we get in return?
What a woman SHOULD love about a man...him being authentic, knowing and pursuing his purpose in life. I would look for the same in a woman. It's a rare find, unless you are wingmam ;)
Authenticity brings so many other positive traits with it, no matter what that genuineness looks like!
Be authentic and you remain alone.
@@marguskiis7711 Pursuing your purpose, that's happiness. It can only happen when you authentic. Align yourself to your real value and you will not be alone.
@@mypov4343 i have been authentic and I have lost everything. My wife of 20 plus marriage left me bc she understood with me the classic comfortable middle class life is impossible. Later I was dumped by gf because I wasn't a guy she dreamed of. Now I am alone with bunch of women writing me but there is one big problem -- I do not like them.
@@mypov4343 I did pursue my goals but when I got them it did not make me happy.
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Thanks for this. Validation. I think I'm just a bit too honest. I don't seem to have trouble forming relationships but women don't seem to like my understanding (and sharing) of behavioral biology. I've given up for a few years, totally over it. I guess I need to find another behavioral biologist! Up the uni again I suppose! 😋
Most of the time people only like hearing about their biology if it’s a cute and sincere compliment, otherwise it feels like criticism. Maybe try not sharing that knowledge and instead just using it… unless it’s important for you to be able to discuss such things. If so, then that’s a good way to filter lol
@@YourWingmam thank you for catching this. More positive validation 😁. I love your wisdom, I'll take it to my`sand-pit' (my mental workbench) for a while, see what happens. I'm very curious about everything, these things come up because I spend allot of my day thinking about it. Sure, I'm learning about relationships, I'll get there 😁. Thank you so much for engaging with me 🦩 (the flamingo is me striking a pose in genuine appreciation)
Money. Obligatory joke, I admit.
My big hang up. You bring ANY of this up to a woman for her end you'll get "I ain't gotta do nothing fo nobody, sure as **** not you" "You don't get to tell me anything" (Actual quotes). Anna,I could do EVERYTHING you've ever said and they would still have that attitude. But this is what you have to do to get company at night.
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1 quality men like about women …… not coming up 10-20 qualities 😂
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One of the reasons I am confused about all of this was that I was brought up in the late 1960's was that men were not to be trusted,egotistic,over bearing etc now it's the complete opposite. Women seem to want all these thing's back in men.We all have a hard time being trusted etc.I am prepared as a man to go it alone because my heart has been broken too many times.
Is having a grey beard for a old man a plus or negative thing
Should I wear a muscle shirt and shorts
If he says something please don’t turn it around and make it into a weapon.
Cute kid😀
❤ 🙂
Wow, just looking at the Chapter titles, a guy has to be a saint. No flaws huh?
Sweet cut
These qualities are good to have but doesn't make women stay in the relationship due to their tendencies of getting bored easily
The surprise one helps :) (for some)
I didn't have ( i am on my way now to this ) 13 and 14. And, I was dumped. Yeap.
You're doing pretty darn good so her loss!
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Yeah. But, it hurts like a hell.
Sometimes Anna Jorgensens truth hurts. But its still truth
Absolutely, facing the truth can be challenging, but it's often a crucial step in personal growth and self-improvement. Honesty and self-awareness can lead to positive changes. I'm glad you appreciate the insights shared in the video. Feel free to check out the suggested video for more valuable advice! 🌟 ruclips.net/video/WLIKy3fcaok/видео.html&ab_channel=YourWingmam
And of course we love you in return.
Thank you so much!!
Women wear panties with flowers on them in loving memory of all the faces that have been buried there ...
- Moscow, Russia
Ha!
is love something you earn?
Do women like men with long hair I started talking to one and she told me she wouldn't have anything to do with me unless I cut my hair and that's not happening
That's great, but they can't love those things too much, because they perpetually go after men lacking most of those things. Thankfully, i quit caring what women want or "love" a long time ago, and the older i get, the less value they seem to bring to my table.
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Ok wait so saying “I’m not interested in a relationship” is how you get sex that night… did i get that right? 😂 Noted!!! 😂
Very good, but this boils down to a singularity. A binary choice, at the base of all of our decisions. Do we serve selfishly, or selflessly? Do we do for our own sake? Rephrased, biblically, do we strive to serve ourselves, or our Creator, in all of our actions? The more you examine the fundamental aspects of life, the more this binary nature of all decision, will become evident to you.
When we have this question answered about anyone, as dictated by their actions, it becomes the single most important thing to know about them.
You mention many things that someone may like about another... yet the context becomes everything, if they're serving themselves, vs serving selflessly, making or breaking any positive perception somebody may have. It's to say that all the things you mentioned, have a common denominator, in making them valid and applicable. Deep down, we're trying to answer this question about anyone we're with, and this simple determination will get you to the root you're looking for. More than that, all of the qualities you mentioned, depend on selfless adherence, for them to be positive. People need to understand this underlying and fundamental aspect, to be able to qualify and put into context, these points of attraction.
You don't need to ask the question, "What master do you serve?", because people will show you through all of their choices, and there are but two masters anyone can serve. The man in the mirror, and the man you should mirror.
Just so you know, Anna, I've never down-voted any of your content. I've only ever failed to up-vote one of your videos. This video was a big thumbs up. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't take the time to write these.
I'm not a fan of "insert group here" day/week/month/etc.... Any of them. It's a subtle way to keep people divided into groups, then identifying with the group they're divided into, by giving them all something they can share. Tactics.
If you really tried you might be able to add a toothpick to that log truck load at 5:17...
Right?! I'm told he could throw the rigging over that load. 💪
Wow, that is just amazing!! People who live and work in the mountains are truly professional athletes.
Sadly they tend to lack access to the knowledge you make available and are keep getting chumped off, never knowing why.
Much appreciation and respect for what you do. Thank you. Great stories don't mean much if there's no one to hear them.
What women don't say is that this is just for the men they already like. If you are short and broke they don't apply.
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In the REAL life things are quite different. These men are usually lonely and are frequently dumped.
Maybe not toot
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Fictional story! ;)
should people be scared of love?
Even though love is risky, no :)
A man could have all these traits but be living paycheck to paycheck no assets besides a pickup truck. Hard workers with rough hands and two tired to keep up all the little details. I enjoy all your videos.
True. You can only do what you can do. Don’t forget to give yourself credit where due though.
Do you enjoy my comments?
I CAN NOT and will not tolerate being spoken to about nice shoes when I'm cutting on a tablesaw. Unless you care about finger blood spatter on those shoes
It's not a good idea to have a conversation about anything while using power tools.
@davidz3879 as a carpenter I can't tell you how many people try to speak to me when I'm making cuts
Exactly!
@@YourWingmam Preslicely 😁
Woman won't see this or change anything. Doesn't change jack.
Sounds like you’ve had a bad experience, that sucks :(
@@YourWingmam Many. Sooooo many It's not even that I can't get over them; its that every video or bit of advice is basically saying they don't count or were the exceptions. That's not a valid argument by any stretch to me. What happens counts or doesn't, simple as that. I need better reasons than "maybe this time" .
20 100$ bills in his wallet, and never ending.
If all a man can only offer $, the women he'll attract will only appreciate $
You have to be of right age. Otherwise 20 of the 21
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He hade a date with you and let you.....he was gay. A man would not have been that stupid.😊
And let you what? Not sure what you're referring to
@@YourWingmam He let you go (idiot) you; Charm, intelligence, class and fun, And not psychotic. You are a catch m"lady. The musings of the Afghan YETI ROADKILL.
Women are just not interested in me. I treid diffent clothes, shoes, etc. excercizing. Cant show any of the ten on the list if I am never given a chnce. i havent been with a woman in many many years. not sure what else to do.
I pray you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏
well... categories of utility - whatever. no inclination to in-waste any of afore to current western(ised, at least) xx.s left to re-call here. ENOUGH. but cheers, gents.
Fortunately, one of the things men tell me they need is to feel useful.
@@YourWingmam ok, that most probably is wired in, in ways (provision, protection…). as I see it, a functional rel.ship needs to be exercised as 2-way enterprise, with givings and takings in a healthy balance for both. that isn’t granted these days of excessive hypergamy and rampant entitlement (fueled from earliest days on) of xx.s deeming selves to be princesses to be served just for being, catered to by pervasively malign gynocentric | wokist infestations of ‘culture’ around… issues that I’ve developed a zero tolerance allergy against, and to such a degree that I ceased to be capable of entertaining any positive anticipations towards any ‘romantic’ entanglements with xx.s of current western(ised) ilks at all. however appealing ‘the feminine’ conceptually, it won’t suffice gaslighting me into, or deluding myself over, ‘taking’ utmost probably adverse actualities (in abundance) any more. with indifference a truly benevolent disposition not always in easy reach.
"God doesn't make junk". We gonna ignore all the horrific diseases he made to torture humans with? Maybe keep religion out of this, it's irrelevant.
Dear please make video on armpit fantasy..